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Ngl…
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:34 AM
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Men who want to, whether they get to or not I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:57 PM
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I don't think we should do that, I interpreted distributed as being an adjective rather than verb I suppose in the context of women, as in they are distributed in a less fair manner currently and they of their own volition could distribute themselves in a better way than they currently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:40 PM
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Because people who's values and interests match up are more likely to have more to bond over and less likely to disagree and fight. Whereas people who just find each other super hot but don't necessarily share very much in common or even like each other that much as people/personalities are obviously a lot less likely to get along in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:59 PM
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I didn't say it would be just to force women to choose more fairly, only that the current situation is unfair. People treating others unfairly can be bad, but forcing them to all act a certain way can also be bad at the same time... That being said, social change happens all the time without force, it just takes people pushing for positive change. Maybe regulation on dating apps could help as well. I don't think things used to be this bad, dating apps have definitely perpetuated hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:53 PM
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I think it's better because there would be far fewer guys who are alone, and I think most relationships would be happier long term. By moral values I mean compatible/similar there is no objective good or bad. Like you both value the same traits and whatnot. I don't think it should be by force, social change happens all the time without force, it just takes people pushing for positive change. Maybe regulation on dating apps could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:34 PM
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I think people should date more based upon moral values and shared interests than shallow bullshit, which seems like it’s almost all that matters nowadays. I feel as though it wasn’t this bad in the past, perhaps because women tended to date the men around them, rather than having online dating to choose whoever the tallest most conventionally attractive dude they can find is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:38 PM
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To a certain extent yes. Not to mention, even for men who were born the luckiest with perfect genetics, very tall, whatever, it’s still probably harder for them than it is any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:36 PM
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Yes this is how it is but I disagree that it’s how it should be. It must be easy to say that if things work out for you in this system but for those of us who can’t get a single win it’s just an obvious unacceptable situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:33 PM
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Most dudes are into 90% of women. Just don't be super fat and most dudes would be willing to get on their knees and beg to have a chance with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:36 PM
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Most men are willing to date any woman that’s not fat or a single mother. A large minority is fine with those two as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:09 PM
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The normalization of bending over backwards and acting out of desperation just to have a warm body next to you is exhausting. I feel like men are the ones who have to deal with this. In my case it’s never even worked lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:37 PM
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Perhaps women do put more effort in but they could get away with putting in as much effort as men and I feel most men would be just as attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:32 PM
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I think the overwhelming majority of women are attractive to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:09 PM
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Every other aspect of a man that women find attractive. Height, wealth, facial features, musculature, social status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:26 AM
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Yes but I do believe the degree to which this is the case has increased
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:49 AM
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...Of course, but those are really easy. And far, far, far from enough to get you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:48 AM
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It is that simple...?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:27 AM
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Ok, then we can admit that women's standards are not on the floor but incredibly high nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:25 AM
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This is delusional. I work hard every day, I'm doing well in life in most respects, I have hobbies, I'd like to think I'm somewhat interesting. I'm nice and pleasant to anyone I meet. And yet that's not enough for any woman it seems, because my standards are extremely low, and I still have only found 2 dates and 0 relationships in 24 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:23 AM
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Women aren't even into normal guys, you have to be several steps above to have a chance nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:21 AM
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Even if the vast majority of homicides are committed by males, the vast overwhelming majority of men will never commit a homicide, and blaming the entirety of the male gender for this is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:27 AM
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That is not remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:38 PM
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In the context of acquaintances, people I’ve worked with and had classes with, all of the men have been kind, decent, understanding people, while all of the women have been cold and sandoffish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:20 PM
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I would say that in my experience most men are better people than most women so I strongly disagree. If I were gay, dating would be much easier lol. And if you don’t trust my lived experience, just look at happiness and divorce rates in lesbian vs straight vs gay male relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:49 PM
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Women are picky in all the wrong ways though. The vast majority don’t select even the slightest bit to avoid toxicity, they select for shallow shit like height, wealth, physical appearance, etc. And great guys stay alone forever as a result, while women end up with abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:51 PM
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Ugly people would get laid less than once per decade and the divorce rate would double I think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:48 PM
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WOW sure never thought of that. Other men have treated me far better through my life, women rarely even being friendly. But one little problem, I’m physically attracted to women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:47 PM
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I’ve been doing everything I can for the past 5 years and still haven’t gotten laid this is ABSOLUTELY NOT true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:42 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:40 PM
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Your sister wouldn’t happen to live near Kentucky would she
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:33 PM
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Women don’t realize how absurd and dehumanizing it is to say shit like that. I’ve been trying as hard as I can for the better part of a decade now and still haven’t gotten a relationship. The bar is in outer space.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:45 PM
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Assortive mating can be effected by women’s perception of their own attractiveness and how attractive the average man is, both of which are increasingly inaccurate among most women it seems to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:37 PM
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Ngl I don’t really give a shit I just want one (1) woman to choose me and I’m good. I’d like to think that’s a good choice, but I imagine almost all men feel the same way. And that’s how you arrive at this seeming discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:48 AM
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I am. I think women should lower their standards. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:07 PM
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You’re suggesting that generalizing men as violent is ok. That’s discrimination. Poor black people have a higher crime rate than poor whites, rich black people have a higher crime rate than rich whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:03 PM
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There is still a correlation, even when accounting for poverty. And sure, that's another metric to discriminate across. Poor people commit more crime, guess you can discriminate towards them. And besides, you're ignoring the meat of my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:18 PM
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The vast overwhelming majority of men will never commit a violent crime. Yes the portion of men who commit violent crime is far larger than the portion of women, but it is still a small minority. Why should that justify discrimination against all men? And if it did, it’d also justify discrimination by race…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:55 PM
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Idk about literally nothing, like at least no infidelity, spending a non-zero amount of time together, some stuff like that. but as far as everything you listed? yes. I’d date a girl like that myself honestly ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:58 PM
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I go to college and see girls my age IRL plenty but I find that even when you do try to approach girls IRL nowadays they never want to talk to you. I just don't get how you're supposed to get a date out of a girl in this generation. Online dating doesn't work at all, even if you swipe right on everyone and write thoughtful comments on Hinge you never get matches. In person approaching doesn't even lead to much ever. It just seems impossible. I'm still a virgin at 24, meanwhile my grandpa was mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:42 AM
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This is too extreme of an inequality for any proper feminist to ignore… right…?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 02:12 PM
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I do think that infidelity should be a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:17 AM
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women are mean and shallow is all my experience has taught me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:02 AM
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I’d say even more women aren’t shit, so when you factor that in, it becomes pretty ridiculous that the 80/20 shit exists…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:31 AM
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This modern world is so fucked. How do women get away with this shit. NEBAODHRVWOLBEVSIAOQOBDVSIWOENBDIDOWONDBSUWONEBSIOWNEHDODODJEGAIOAKWHRBWISPXJWV I JUST CANT COPE MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:28 AM
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Just sayin, I’m not exactly immersed in pro-incel content or discussion. In fact, almost all of the incel discussion I read is from the anti-incel perspective. None of it has been able to reconcile the reality I live in though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:25 AM
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It’s not. And the fact you think this just shows how out of touch women are with the level of struggle which guys like me have to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:23 AM
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It’s something I want to bad to ever give up, even if I know the game is rigged against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:02 AM
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Hypergamy should not be considered monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:43 AM
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Bruh you crazy it’s pretty reasonable to ask someone what they’re into or what they might want to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:56 PM
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Women are far more shallow than men. I think that’s pretty obvious to anyone who isn’t trying to lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:50 AM
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Well? The fuck am I supposed to do? All a girl has to do is not be fat, and she gets loads of options. A dude has to do everything right just to get a chance with a single god damn girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:12 PM
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I do blame women. I work hard. I take care of myself. And my standards are set well below my female equivalent. Yet I’m still a god damn virgin. Women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:56 AM
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If I’m a virgin at 30 is it still creepy to go after a girl age 20? Sexually speaking, most would have the experience advantage over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:49 AM
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Ok honestly maybe I would too bc I am an extremely desperate gigavirgin but Idk I really don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:21 PM
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Erm yeah and honestly I think femboys can be kinda cute but definitely can’t find traditional men attractive. Too bad feminine guys like that are insanely uncommon. Probably especially so where I live since this is a very red state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:29 PM
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Humans are social creatures though. I’ve been trying to self-improve and be happy on my own, but it’s so hard. I am so lonely. Not to mention how badly I want physical intimacy. Other things help keep it out of mind to a certain degree, but not close to entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:19 PM
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I can’t even get a date with a normal woman and my answer would still be no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:13 PM
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I can’t make myself gay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:12 PM
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I am straight. Life would probably be easier if I were gay though tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:29 PM
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Most women around my age are not overweight, I’m 21. Weight is also something you can control much more than say, height, facial features, bone structure, etc. If all it took to be found attractive as man by most women was to not be fat, I’d have no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 AM
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Because physical appearance is not all there is to a person, and should not be so relevant to one’s treatment/worth? I think we as a society should discourage being so shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:21 AM
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All women have experiences with like hundreds of thousands of men in their lifetime. Usually, less than a handful, or none will be “creepy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:58 PM
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I disagree. A woman raised such that she only knows of “ugly” men will still almost definitely eventually date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:55 PM
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January
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:54 PM
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Attraction is fluid to a certain degree. A straight women put exclusively among men she would never date when given the option of more genetically lucky men will find those men attractive. A straight woman put exclusively among women will never find them attractive. I have adjusted my standards to include somewhere in the realm of 99.5-99.9% of non-overweight women my age, plus some of those who are. That’s my limit. But it’s pretty comprehensive. Most women though, won’t even give most guys a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:53 PM
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Honestly at this point I think we need some radical change. Dating has become impossible for men, if you didn’t get the right genetics. Women today are worse partners than ever with far higher standards than ever. I don’t know what would be best. But I know something has to be done. I can’t live like this. And I know I’m not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:14 PM
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Bruh this is exactly what he’s talking about with “festers you” lmao hahaha It definitely does seem to me that women are far more often critical of both men and other women than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:33 AM
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Nah I’m just saying I frequent anti-incel spaces much more than pro-incel spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:31 PM
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Laws can be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:11 PM
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Nah I mostly watch Hasan and use leftist subs. I’m a leftist/progressive on every other issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:06 PM
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I disagree. No one should have to live like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:49 PM
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female reading skills 100 read “even more insanely shallow”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:34 PM
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what if I can’t find women to put out at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:51 AM
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Women rarely have to deal with rejection, and when they do, they know they can easily find another individual who is more than willing within moments. Men on the other hand, face constant rejection. It’s really a stark difference. And women have no empathy for us, because they have such easy dating lives, they can’t even comprehend what it’s like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:47 AM
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As one of those men, I will say this: This is unsustainable. It’s only getting worse. Unwanted, unloved, and unappreciated men are among the strongest catalysts of major societal unrest… In polling, it was found that the greatest motivator of French resistance fighters against the Nazis was that Nazis were stealing their women. All of the Islamist radical groups which have caused conflict in the Middle East and Africa consist overwhelmingly of young, single men. In the U.S., there will be a grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:41 AM
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They deserve worse for the pain they inflict, honestly. But loneliness in mid-old age certainly is a poetic justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:32 AM
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It’s not a fantasy. They’re lonely. You’re coping. All the young girls getting fucked by the 20% of guys who got lucky genetically are gonna regret it. And it’s poetic justice, really. Inflicting horrific loneliness on so many young men by being insanely open-legged but even more insanely shallow. It’s what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:30 AM
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As a virgin man who has experienced only rejection, I feel it is a natural reaction. How am I supposed to cope, after all of this constant rejection? Just keep “working on myself”? I’ve been doing so for years… how many years must I do this? And for what? Not even to have options, but just to convince even one girl to be with me? One who’s probably been with a thousand dudes by the time I finally get a chance. The modern hook-up hypergamy 80/20 bullshit is unsustainable. Men like me can’t stand …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:26 AM
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Bro I need some sort of copium women have it so fuckin easy I have to live in constant loneliness and misery despite putting more effort in than 99% of women who get endless options just by not being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:19 AM
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Well, maybe if they don’t know that you live in San Francisco or whatever but I think most people will agree that’s reasonable with the knowledge that you live somewhere like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:16 PM
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People’s standards are unrealistic and unreasonable nowadays. Especially women. Young women in particular have batshit insane standards now. I think social media is part of it. And while I support much of feminism as a leftist, I definitely think throwing so many traditional values out the window in dating and allowing women to engage in 80/20 type shit has really fucked it up. Being a young man who didn’t get lucky phenotypes is downright miserable today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:57 PM
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True. But almost exclusively because of the weight, something which you very much have control over. For most women, a dude not being fat is far from enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:51 PM
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When people are talking about average potential partners, they are almost always referring to the average in their age range. I think it’s generally accepted as not just normal but a good thing to prefer potential partners in your age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:49 PM
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What are you even implying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:47 PM
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Well I wish I could meet such a girl but most are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:55 PM
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Bruh all 99.9% of women gotta do for 90% of guys to find them attractive is not be fat For guys it is so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:59 PM
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If that were the standard than the lives of many men including my own would be much better. I try so hard, every day of my life. But that doesn’t matter to women if you weren’t gifted with attractive enough phenotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:47 PM
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I’m a virgin considering hiring one… If I ever got a girl properly, I’d simply lie to her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 AM
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women are not children Far too many act like they are, and most all who do get away with it nowadays…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:11 AM
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Women try not to hold men to impossible standards they could never meet challenge (impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:06 AM
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Feminism has turned “slut-shaming” into a bad thing, it’s taught women to be shallow and open-legged because it’s “empowering”. The hook up culture which has resulted has the guys who got lucky with the most physically attractive phenotypes cycling through most women, while less attractive guys have to struggle for anything, and very unattractive guys get nothing. All women have to do is not be fat. Men who didn’t get lucky genetically have to do everything in the world nowadays just to have a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:45 PM
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Most modern American women are beyond shallow. I’m 21 and still a virgin. Despite my best effort. I’ve developed ED. You’re not supposed to have ED as a god damn virgin. Genuinely have gone full leftist to leftist anti-feminist entirely because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:37 PM
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Women who’re themselves out to the most attractive men in their younger years- never even thinking of giving a lesser guy a chance- and then when their attractiveness starts to go down hill, they rush to find a stable proper guy to stay with. As a not-so-attractive stable and proper guy, I refuse to accept this. I will lose my virginity to a young attractive gal, and fellow virgin, no matter what it takes. No matter what it takes. Idc if I have to convert to Islam and go to Malaysia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:03 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahaha Nice joke, but it sure would be nice if we lived in a world where it were guys who needed to lower their standards, and not all women were shallow whores…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:55 PM
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Women have the maturity and responsibility of children. They expect everything to be handed to them, and it is. The modern female is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:53 PM
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I’m starting to think that I just don’t like women, and that the goals and needs of most men, those on the not super attractive end, are diametrically opposed to the goals and desires of women. I used to believe in feminism at one point… but now after having dealt with women for quite some time as an adult… I’m thinking giving females equal rights was not the greatest idea… Back in the day, there’s no way in hell I’d still be a fucking virgin now. I’d be married at this point. Fuck this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:49 PM
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Exactly what I’m talking about. For men, “the basics” is not being fat, and not being addicted to drugs. That’s about it. And even then a lot of guys are gonna defy this. For women, they claim the “basics” are essentially being a gigachad, and that they all have to”compromise” if they’re dating a regular guy. Women, especially those my age, are shallow beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:36 AM
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It’s not pandering… Just being much less shallow. More willing to give guys who didn’t luck out on the genetics a chance, and not leaving him for the first “better” guy who comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:15 PM
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I would say that the ever increasing standards which women hold men to, while men generally have next to no standards, is absolutely a bad thing. We live in a world of increasing male desperation, and increasing female hypergamy/degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:05 PM
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Ngl most girls and women need to be trashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:21 AM
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Yeah, I’m the same, and I must admit it is the one superficial thing that I really can’t go for. No use in trying to cope and say it’s about health, even if it were totally healthy, still would be a no from me. Even like deformities and stuff don’t really bother me that much but I just can’t find a fat girl to be attractive for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:26 PM
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Feminism has not made sex easy to attain in college for men at all whatsoever lol. What. I’m going into year three and am still a virgin. I think it must be harder than ever, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:23 AM
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