femboyxx98 Archive

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–	Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to? Progesterone levels are somewhat correlated to male homosexuality AFAIK, not T levels. The “low T levels make you gae” is just broscience, having low testosterone will just mean you have low libido. Otherwise men would turn gay as they aged and went through andropause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 01:17 AM
2	Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to? You could also be bisexual and repressing your attraction to men, or just haven’t figured out how to explore it yet. The way you keep making the same thread over and over is suggests that you’re having a lot of issues accepting your sexual and romantic attraction. Maybe you should see a therapist who specialises in those particular things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 01:04 AM
3	Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you? If I’m going to hook-up with someone I’d rather it be a friend than a random person I met 5 minutes ago at a bar or on a dating app. I already know I can get along with them, and the chances of them being a murderer or into peeing on people is much lower.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 02:20 PM
5	Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you? I’m attracted to some of my male friends and if they offered me a chance to sleep with them I would, but that doesn’t mean that’s the reason I hang out with them - we’re genuinely friends and I enjoy their company. Also in the queer community there’s much less weirdness about hooking up with your friends or being sexually attracted to them. If anything it’s bizarrely funny to me that straight people seem to think that relationships must be either exclusively platonic or exclusively sexual, and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 02:06 PM
4	what is your gender and would you change your sexuality if you could. I’m a bi male with a preference for men and I’d do anything to be a cis bi/straight woman. The only thing I like about being a guy is the respect in professional situations, and not having periods. Currently ~95% of the male population is completely off-limits to me no matter what and I hate having to date bi/gay men. It mostly has to be done through apps, they’re often not that masculine (even the muscular ones can be super queeny), they make 0 attempt to seduce you and expect sex right away, h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:02 AM
2	CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed. You can go for bisexual women, non-binary people (to some extent) and transwomen even if you’re straight though. I know a couple which is a dominant non-binary AFAB and a submissive transwoman, but they started off as a straight cis-presenting couple. There’s a big overlap between the queer community and gender non-confirming people, so I highly encourage you to socialise and meet LGBTQ+ people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 12:09 AM
4	CMV: Men who do not have a protective/dominant instinct are flawed. Why do you feel unattractive? Gender non-conformity can be incredibly hot - look at how many androgynous men are popular right now (Thimothée Chalamet, Jamie Campbell Bower, all the k-pop singers). Plenty of women love artistic feminine men and will see you as something exotic and different from all the other pot-bellied hairy straight dudes, and can be quite aggressive about pursuing you (I speak from experience). Sorry if it’s harsh but if you’re not getting the attention you want, it’s probab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 09:42 PM
1	How can a man (re)gain protective instincts? They shouldn’t care about it and just focus on forming good connections with people they like instead. Do you imagine being a “protector” actually matters in rich western countries anymore? Does being the bigger/stronger one have any relevance to your daily life with your partner? Once in a while they’ll ask you for help moving heavy furniture or opening jars, that’s about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:35 AM
1	How can a man (re)gain protective instincts? What are you hoping to learn by making these threads over and over? It’s fine for you or anyone to be a submissive feminine man, there’s women into that, just don’t make it your entire personality and don’t confuse it with being a weak passive manchild. Also you’re putting way too much importance on the submissive/dominant aspects, in the modern world people mostly have boring ordinary relationships with both partners being basically equal, and have equally boring vanilla sex. If you want to exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:02 AM
1	Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization? The Eastern Roman Empire wasn’t a rebirth of the West though, it was just the Eastern portion of the same empire that survived while the West collapsed. It wasn’t like Rome fell and some completely unrelated people decided to found a new Rome; in the Eastern provinces people called themselves Roman, followed Roman law, had an unbroken chain of Roman emperors (until the Crusades), etc. If the American East Coast got nuked but the US kept going strong from California, Nevada, Oregon, etc. as a cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 04:01 PM
8	Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization? Obligatory correction that the Roman Empire lasted another thousand years after its supposed “fall” and that the pop cultural narrative of Rome becoming decadent and falling prey to barbarian hordes is complete BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:11 PM
5	Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man? I’m sorry but it really sounds like you do have gender dysphoria (same with the poster above you) and I would highly recommend seeing a therapist to help you out - it doesn’t mean you’re a transman or anything but having this level of gender envy isn’t healthy. I’m saying this because I have basically have the same symptoms in reverse. I love the ruffle and the lace, nail polish, having beautiful hair, doing make-up and skincare, and while sure aging as a woman sucks, at least a 50 year old woma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 01:35 AM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? Gay men and bi men actually have higher testosterone than average men so it’s not as simple as that. Plenty of submissive gay men are jacked muscle heads too - I’ve yet to hear of any who became straight after going to the gym. And ironically, transmen (FtM) who start injecting testosterone often go from basically being butch lesbians, to being extremely attracted to men - with an extremely high libido to match. Meanwhile plenty of transwomen are on estrogen and remain attracted to women, as wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 03:53 AM
1	What is the appeal of submission in women? Unfortunately testosterone doesn’t mean anything. I had mine checked and they were in the high upper range for men (even exceeded the normal levels once), and yet I’m still extremely feminine, submissive and attracted to masculine men and women. You gotta determine what’s authentic for you and makes you truly happy. Plenty of men have repressed their true desires in order to meet the societal expectations of masculinity, and all that does is make you miserable. Your whole life will be a lie, eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 03:44 AM
1	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have I think the main issue is that “getting laid” is the primary goal for you. Whereas for other people (most women, some men) it’s more about forming a connection with the other person, enjoying the chemistry and intimacy, and of course everything I said about validation. Personally I actually prefer to have a ONS where we can just fool around with no pressure, and just explore each others bodies for a few hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 03:00 PM
1	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have I’ve heard plenty of the gender flipped version happening. Fellas bragging about fingering a girl at a party or being happy “getting to 2nd base”. If a girl offered, would you really say no to playing with her breasts and trying to make her cum from licking her nipples? (Picking breasts here because men seem to be more enthusiastic about them than the clitoris for some reason.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 02:40 PM
1	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have I’ve given plenty of unreciprocated blowjobs and it’s completely false that you get nothing from it. The act itself can be very fun and hugely arousing, but there’s also a huge psychological satisfaction from being desired, feeling sexy and turning your partner on, and being skilled enough to bring a man to orgasm with your mouth. Plus, it’s actually less risky than having sex or receiving oral - you have no idea if your hook-up is gonna be good at either, he might finish in 30s and then complet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 01:51 PM
5	Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating Outcomes I’m a 5’9 feminine guy who wears make-up and basically looks like a gayer Timothée Chalamet, and I’ve had more luck with women than most of my masculine friends. I get a lot of attention for my hair, my clothes and general flamboyance, and when I’m out at a party, club or anything like that, I never have any issues chatting up, dancing or being physically affectionate with girls I’ve never met before, which often leads to hooking-up. Ironically women seem to only want hook-ups from me while my m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 01:32 PM
8	The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reason OP, are you also worried your friends will stop hanging out with you the moment they find someone more interesting? I think this post says a lot more about you than anything else. Relationships (romantic or otherwise) aren’t a competition, they’re about building something together and it’s the relationship itself that has value. The shared history, the time spent together, investing potentially years of life into each other. Most people aren’t gonna throw away all that effort just because someon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 03:55 AM
1	Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed. Yes, and most of my female partners have been in that category. Even the straight women I’ve been usually were the initiators. You shouldn’t have any issues finding a partner if you go for those kinds of women. Just don’t expect them to look conventionally attractive and feminine, and don’t try to apply TRP strategies to them (it will backfire).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 04:34 AM
1	Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed. What about queer, bi or butch women? They’re still women. Instead of complaining about it on Reddit you should do what most feminine people do and focus on your appearance. Go to the gym and achieve a toned physique (look up “twunk” for inspiration), go to a hair stylist and get a nice medium-length cut with some highlights, have a meticulous skincare and grooming routine, and spend a lot of money on clothes. You can even wear some makeup (I never go out without some colour correcting cream, a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 04:41 PM
0	Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed. Have you thought about dating in the LGBT community instead? Obviously you’ll have bad luck dating straight women, but plenty of bi women, queer women, non-binary trans masculine folk (assigned female at birth) would be into being the dominant masculine partner. You sound fairly gender non-confirming as well, have you checked whether you’re trans, or perhaps bisexual? You don’t necessarily have to date cis-men but there’s plenty of potential partners in the queer sphere. Personally I went throug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 03:35 PM
1	Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex? You’d have a much better time dating LGBT and gender non-confirming people. Bi women, queer woman and non-binary folk (at least the AFAB ones) are much more likely to want to play the masculine role and do without the annoying gender roles of straight relationships, and they’ll be genuinely attracted to your femininity, instead of making you feel like a “beta” that she’s settled for. Personally I’ve had multiple gender non-confirming women be very assertive when it came to pursuing me and some h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 01:31 AM
1	Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex? I’d say it depends on what you being by being a feminine man. Femininity isn’t the absence of masculinity. Being a “nice guy”, or what TRP calls a beta - doughy, unassertive, uncharismatic, push-over, bending over backwards for any woman that gives him attention - isn’t being a feminine man. If you’re cultivating positive feminine traits, you will actually attract a decent amount of female attention. This means being charming, flirty, taking the utmost care of your personal appearance (do you kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 01:26 PM
1	Women, what do you don't understand about men. How does conquest help you have more sex if you’re gay? Personally I’m attracted to men and I can have as much sex as I want, but I still want money, power, to live in luxury, etc even though men give absolutely 0 shits about how rich or high-status I am, and having those things wouldn’t give me better access to men. IMO the desire for power and glory is separate from sex - otherwise women wouldn’t want those things either. Or take a look at court eunuchs from Imperial China, or the Byzantine Em…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 12:42 AM
3	Women, what do you don't understand about men. Explain Alexander the Great, Frederick the Great, Emperor Hadrian, or any other gay politician or military leader then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 11:09 AM
1	Being a man is better… I don’t think any gender has it better than the other. I think the men here make the same mistake some feminists do when they talk about male privilege and the patriarchy - they only think about those at the top. Men here focus only on attractive white woman aged 18-29 and completely ignore the fact that most women in the west are overweight, in their forties, and don’t have any of the privileges they attribute to women in general. Many here bemoan the fact that women get their attractiveness an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 05:43 PM