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| 7 | So it's now official that spanking a child is "violence" and the makings of a court case declaration of violence? When did this happen? Who even agrees with that?In New Zealand, it is illegal to discipline a child through violence eg. smacking. Restraining a child from hurting themselves or others is legal however. I agree with it. As a trained nanny, it was illegal for me to use violence anyway, now parents are required to learn and use more effective forms of discipline too. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/11 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Can anyone, even a women explain how this is sexist?You're easily led. Sorry to hear that. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/11 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone, even a women explain how this is sexist?In fact the article doesn't make a claim that anyone called the cake sexist, just that someone said opponent to gillard are often chauvinistic and that he has defended himself against chauvinistic allegations. After a cake was baked. Do you are the double speak? Can you read between the lines of the article here? At best, it's rubbish journalism, t worst a deliberate attempt to misguide readers. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/11 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone, even a women explain how this is sexist?But I agree that it isn't sexist, and someone saying it isn't sexist is the opposite of someone saying that it is sexist. So who said it was sexist? I'm not saying anything about the definitions of chauvinistic and sexist. I just can't see who said the cake was either. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/11 04:59 AM |
| -1 | Can anyone, even a women explain how this is sexist?Can anyone please show me where the theme of the cake has been called sexist? From the article linked and the link within that article, all I can see is it being called 'bizarre' and the cake maker claiming it is not a chauvinistic cake. Okay, fair enough, all true statements. Later in the article I see the sentence She said some of Ms Gillard's opponents were chauvinists. Yup, also probably a fair statement, on average. But I still can't see where anyone has called this cake sexist? | /r/MensRights | 29/07/11 04:00 AM |
| 2 | If you wanted to be treated equally, ... // Girls That Piss Me Off by @JennaMarblesYou make excellent points. We should ensure men and women have 1 - 3, 5 & 6. 4 is up to personal expression of the choices made available through ensuring all the other types of equalities you mention. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/11 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Coming to realizations.where the woman is portrayed as a damsel in distress Being portrayed as weak and helpless seems like a bad portrayal to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/11 12:33 AM |
| -8 | My mom was a very strong proponent of feminism, and I feel like it played a huge part in giving me an extremely warped view of womenThat's true, and there's also the terminology of 'shove' - put would be more apt. Not every girl prefers it rough! | /r/MensRights | 17/05/11 08:16 AM |
| -7 | My mom was a very strong proponent of feminism, and I feel like it played a huge part in giving me an extremely warped view of womenI had you upvoted until I read this: Women enjoy having you shove your cock in them Maybe some women do. Please don't generalise all women. It's just as bad as generalising all men. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/11 06:56 AM |
| 3 | So I was raised feminist in Sweden. I've read all the FAQs and I've been lurking for some months. But for the life of me I can't figure out how third wave feminism is different from the MRM.You can quantify discrimination now? How can you measure it? It's silly to get into a scoring war - men and women, boys and girls all face discrimination, based on their gender, race, sexuality, etc. etc. etc. Knowing this is enough for me to want to fight against it, and fighting between ourselves over "who has it worse" is silly. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/11 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Prince William knowingly turned down legal advice to sign a prenuptial agreement "But he loves Kate and trusts her implicitly, and was adamant that no agreement was necessary."Just the future king. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/11 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Females get work time off for being pregnant. What are your thoughts on this?During a pregnancy, a woman in NZ is granted 10 "pregnancy leave" days which are meant to be used for things like scans as well as being generally under the weather from the pregnancy. I think the father should get the same sort of allowance at least for attending scans etc.; it's an exciting and important moment that both parents should share. Unless he's sick though, he wouldn't need to take leave on those days that the woman does due to sickness. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/11 12:24 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)You're irrational. Take a deep breath and calm down. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 07:43 PM |
| 0 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)That's an interesting concept and one I haven't heard of before. I'm assuming the financial abortion comes with some sort of legalised restriction of access to the child? There's still the issue of "dead-beat" dads... the reason child support and the DPB (Domestic Purposes Benefit) was introduced in NZ was a surplus of men willing to have enjoyable sex but not willing to enjoy their responsibilities and rights as a father of a child. In countries like America where healthcare is not socialised, … | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 09:20 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)I'm pretty sure in NZ (where I live) it's statutory rape on both parts because when a recent left-wing government tried to decriminalise underage-with-underage sex a few years ago they failed spectacularly. People took "12 year olds having sex with other 12 year olds aren't criminals" to mean "anyone can have sex with 12 year olds" which completely defeated the bill. I'm going to look into this more, because I'm very curious now about what happens in this situation and if it's been an issue yet. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 07:20 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)Yes exactly. However I'm curious, what happens with an underage boy has sex with an underage girl and they conceive a child? I mean, they technically both raped each other. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 06:18 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)I completely agree with you. In fact, the ideal situation in my mind is a 50:50 split of care and cost. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 05:38 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)Of course the child is dependent on the mother. My ideal support/care situation is a 50/50 split in custody AND in costs. However, if that's not possible, to then assign greater cost to lower custody, to recognise the value of child care - as it is a job, albeit unpaid. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 05:15 AM |
| -1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)You're right, that blanket statement needs a caveat; children's guardians, and the guardians of those deemed mentally unable to make decisions for themselves by law, have the right to decide on medical procedures that other human beings undergo. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 05:01 AM |
| 0 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)But your analogy fails when you consider that the vehicular accident would not have happened but for the involvement of the passenger. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 04:35 AM |
| 1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)Because the legal system is twisted and unfair. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/11 12:28 AM |
| -11 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)Women and men should pay equally for the benefit of their children. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 11:35 PM |
| -5 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)The child is dependent on their father. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 11:25 PM |
| -8 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)A man should be held financially responsible to help raise a child that he created through the act of consensual sex FTFY. I'm never going to agree that a man should have the right to force pregnancy and birth or abortion on a woman. Who pays if the man doesn't? The government? Hah. Be careful who you have sex with, and don't be indiscriminate, then you minimise your risk of having to pay child support. Anyway, this is a derail. Your initial statement was just too ridiculous to leave. This threa… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 09:39 PM |
| -1 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)Sorry, I should have been more clear. What I was posting was my view and opinion. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 09:29 PM |
| -10 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)There's no need to bring personal attacks into this. I completely disagree that a man cannot be held responsible in any way for his own progeny. A man should NEVER be able to decide for a woman whether she has a dangerous medical procedure. There's no point discussing that further with you because you clearly see things differently and neither of us is going to change the other's mind. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 08:23 PM |
| -20 | FAQ 2: Are men and boys who are raped really being charged child support? (yes!)How does it fail? No person has the right to force a dangerous medical procedure on another person. If you consent to having sex with a woman, know that pregnancy is a real probability, and be ready to take care of your responsibilities as the father if she falls pregnant. Male rape victims that father a child as a result of the rape are omitted from that because they didn't consent. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/11 07:52 PM |
| 2 | The Ways Feminists Hurt Rape VictimsUntil it's happened to you I don't think you could possibly understand. Sure, ideally all rape victims would report it. Ideally, there would be evidence too, and the victims would be believed, and some magical way of easily telling the liars from the true victims. But there isn't. Edit - also, a bystander hardly goes through the same assault, invasion and horrific circumstance that a rape victim experiences. It's not even comparable. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/11 06:09 PM |
| 0 | The Ways Feminists Hurt Rape Victims(4) They make clear to rape victims that they have no civic duty to report their rapes, thus endangering other women The only person endangering other people is the rapist. A rape victim, regardless of gender, shouldn't be forced to report a rape, especially given the adversarial court system - people should be able to move on from trauma however they see fit. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/11 01:27 AM |
| 0 | My college class recently discussed student expectations. Most of the women expected to have a good career, marry a man who earned same or more, share housework equally, not sacrifice her career for his. Have children around 30, have the choice to work or stay home after kids.Nothing at all, and the downvotes against you are from people who realise that and don't have an argument beyond "women are dumb amirite??" | /r/MensRights | 28/03/11 12:02 AM |
| 1 | My college class recently discussed student expectations. Most of the women expected to have a good career, marry a man who earned same or more, share housework equally, not sacrifice her career for his. Have children around 30, have the choice to work or stay home after kids.Yeah, I agree, this is why I said "Apart from this which is obviously unfair". My question still stands: why is OP complaining that women are striving for all the other achievements, they all sound like positive things to go for. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/11 11:31 PM |
| 1 | My college class recently discussed student expectations. Most of the women expected to have a good career, marry a man who earned same or more, share housework equally, not sacrifice her career for his. Have children around 30, have the choice to work or stay home after kids.Apart from this (which is obviously unfair) If divorce, then get custody of kids - cause I should not be penalized for working hard and, after all, they will be MY kids. What's wrong with what they wanted? In my eye, everyone regardless of gender should strive for a good career, to marry an equal, to not sacrifice their career for another person, to have children while they are fertile and healthy, and have the choice between working and staying home? | /r/MensRights | 27/03/11 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Fuck the draft!Many countries go along perfectly well without requirement for a draft, or registration for a draft. That said, a draft is likely to be introduced in a time of war especially when there is legitimate threat of invasion. The best time to remove sexism in the draft is in a time of (relative) peace. Now is the time to remove the sexism of the American system of registering for the draft. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/11 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Merriam Webster defines sexism as, "prejudice or discrimination based on sex; ESPECIALLY : discrimination against women " -- apparently prejudice or discrimination against men isn't especially valid as 'sexism'...screw this dictionary...Sexuality and what you are attracted to, I believe, is outside the realm of what can be called negative discriminatory behaviour. You're into whatever you're into, and no one can help that. I don't think sexuality should be included in discussions of sexism. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/11 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Feminist girlfriendYour girlfriend has been misinformed as to true feminism. A man and a woman should have equal choices. End of story. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 07:31 AM |
| -4 | More women are the victim and wage gap crap, even though they admit more men drop out of school. I have known so many men who dropped out to pay CS to a babymomma who didn't let them see their kid.In fact it is adjusted for education, age, ethnicity, etc. See page 32 of the report. http://www.whitehouse.gov/sites/default/files/rss_viewer/Women_in_America.pdf | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 06:02 AM |
| -1 | Why it is futile to try to have an open, honest discussion with feminists.Hah, this is so ridiculous. I'm not ruling out caring about the whole world because it doesn't fit with your idea of men being oppressed. There is no 'clearly talking within a certain scope' unless the scope is defined, and it wasn't. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 02:26 AM |
| -1 | Why it is futile to try to have an open, honest discussion with feminists.Okay, we don't agree, and probably never will, on that point. That's alright. It was nice trying to convince you anyway :) | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 01:14 AM |
| -2 | Why it is futile to try to have an open, honest discussion with feminists.While it's true that that faceless influence often referred to as "the patriarchy" (side note: I hate that term) hurts men as well as women, I don't believe that men are oppressed, on a whole, because of their gender. That doesn't mean that men do not experience oppression. I insist on focusing only on women because I believe that women are oppressed purely because of their gender. *Edit - I see your edit - that would be "benevolent sexism". Ie, the practice of putting women on pedestals. It's b… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 01:03 AM |
| -2 | Why it is futile to try to have an open, honest discussion with feminists.I don't quite get what you're trying to say. ReluctantNihilist said, "women are (lol) oppressed". He didn't say "women in first world countries with many laws protecting their right to equality are (lol) oppressed". I know that on an individual basis, not every single woman experiences negative effects from gender discrimination, I would say that I have experienced very little in my life. But feminism is about ALL women. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/11 01:01 AM |
| -1 | Why it is futile to try to have an open, honest discussion with feminists.You don't think that on a global level, women are oppressed? Interesting. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/11 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Paternity tests prove hundreds of men dupedWouldn't it make more sense, if the woman truly needs and has spent the child support money on the child, for the real father to pay back the man who has been making these payments for so long? The real dad has a responsibility, surely? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/11 10:17 PM |
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