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SELF IMPROVEMENTfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen02/11/20 08:33 PM
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DISCUSSIONfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 08:14 PM
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DISCUSSIONfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen12/03/22 08:04 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 05:23 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 09:15 PM
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ADVICEfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:25 PM
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femmewoman/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 05:46 AM
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LTR/MARRIAGEfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 05:46 AM
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ADVICEfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 06:26 PM
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DISCUSSIONfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 12:34 AM
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DISCUSSIONfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 12:30 AM
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ADVICEfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 05:43 PM
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DISCUSSIONfemmewoman/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 08:46 PM
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How much would he have to make for you to be comfortable leaving work? What city do you live in
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 08:53 PM
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No
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 06:33 AM
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Yes he says it just shows that I don't care about him
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 10:12 PM
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I acknowledge that he does invite me out way more than I do but why invite me if he is going to get upset about it he just makes me feel shitty
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 11:45 PM
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Its been like this all our relationship
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 04:47 AM
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No progress. Constantly complains. I do invite him out just not a lot. He constantly comments how im using him. He was complaining to me the other day about how he needs to save etc. But his sisters birthday was coming up and he is going to buy her a TV thats like $300 so I said well you don't have to get an expensive gift and he snapped at me and said that I wouldn't say anything if it was for me etc. But thats not true. I don't ask for anything at all. He is so giving with his family but we me…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 09:36 PM
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His last girlfriend would always invite him out and I think he is just used to that. He told me that with her they would fight over the bill because he wanted to pay and with me he fights because he doesn't want to pay etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 08:44 PM
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He says I'm the stingy one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 08:36 PM
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What in the world. How can he says he has to pay for the whole house by himself and say you have no income then turn around and tell you that he wants you to contribute 50%? Then on top of that wants only his name on the house. This person does not care about you... I have a friend she actually is getting married to a guy who is getting a house for then and paying for it 100%. Since they have been together she hasn't worked or went to school at all. (I don't support this) however he isn't compla…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 08:16 PM
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Yes, thank you for saying this i wish this was the overall accepted attitude and not the perspective OP provided it seemed very judgmental. If everyone is "hating" on you maybe just maybe there is something else going on...
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 08:26 AM
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Honestly Idk because I actually eat a lot and cannot gain any weight.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 09:36 PM
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I'm 5'10 and weigh 100lbs i do get a lot of attention
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 08:12 PM
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After everything he sent me a good morning message today hoping I have a good day and wishing me well and I felt sick because just yesterday he was going off on me and was super angry I did not respond
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:06 PM
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I kept trying to talk about it because he won't listen to me or hear me out or try to understand and he was just telling me to shutup
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:06 PM
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Well I'm glad I did because now I feel differently
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:04 PM
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I know :(
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 04:22 PM
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We had a major talk and we agreed we were going to try
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 03:59 PM
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Hopefully I don't run into any issues we both took our stuff out of the apartment. I will al the manager Monday for the papers and make sure we both sign.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 04:10 AM
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My mom was the one who advised me to send it to him because she overheard us fighting about it and him saying how unfair it was etc that I blindsided him and put him in the position that he now has to pay for full rent etc and he was angry. My friend agrees its for the best :(
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 01:12 AM
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Oh nevermind
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 03:32 AM
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What is an SIW?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 03:32 AM
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I agree with this but men don't want to pay any more than you do at least that was the case for me
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 07:46 PM
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No we didn't its just a question
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 07:45 PM
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Yes I did have a rough childhood. I also know i struggled because of childhood emotional neglect, i saw pretty bad things and was physically abused everyday by my older brother etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/20 05:57 PM
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YES
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 09:16 PM
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Well today he said he was leaving and he said he was going home to tell his mom how bad our relatiomship is and figure out him moving back and I think im moving back to my parents for now also.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 07:23 PM
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Of making a mistake and regretting losing him too
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 05:41 AM
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I'm just scared bc I dont wanna go back home. There's no extra room for me at my parents house and my family is always fighting. I would have to stay in the garage i do feel better around my dog though.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 04:27 PM
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He is a good guy I and everyobe around him including my family and friends love him. He has great qualities I think its more how he makes me feel and our private moment...
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 04:25 PM
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I do have very high prolactin levels and I am not pregnant my insurance won't approve an MRI however.... this could be the reason I'm so fatigued. My work is amazing there is no stress at all:(
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 04:24 PM
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No he does clean a lot
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 12:25 AM
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I agree I understand that I'm wrong in regards to that and I want to try i just need to give myself that kick bc hes right irs just not good.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 08:21 PM
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I do think about this and I try to be as honest as possible. For example I know im messy I know he has a right to complain about him cleaning more than I do. I also know I dont make the effort to make it fair. I do agree with the psychological and emotional abuse because what he says to me are things I honestly can't forget ever. He has said terrible things to me and made me feel so bad. Everytime I cry he never cares or shows concern the last time I was crying and he was angry during an argumen…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 08:07 PM
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Belive me I have told him all of these things minus coubseling. He just won't get it when I say its bad for him to say I'm making it all about myself he legit believes I am making everything about myself constantly and I'm really not. For example if I'm sad or depressed when I should be happy it angers him and he says its always about me when it isnt bc when I feel that way I dont even talk to him about it but somehow that angers him so now I can't feel depressed without making him angry.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 07:45 PM
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I hate the name calling also. I just talked to him i said i am willing to change and i do want to change but I want him to change too and stop doing that and he always just says that I make things about myself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 06:12 PM
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I know what you mean. If me being lazy is a deal breaker for him I can easily say that his anger and how he speaks to me can be a deal breaker. I also don't like that I feel like i have to do all of these things in order for him to "consider" being with me and marrying me. I do want to clean more and be better but the way he says things just makes it into an argument.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 06:03 PM
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Hi. Yes I tested my hormones and one hormone was very high. I am waiting on my insurance to approve additional testing its very abnoying.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 04:55 PM
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Well....there have been major things I dislike. We need to really improve or communication and mutual respect for each other. I feel like we dont really spend quality time together. I dont relalt get along with his family but thats my fault since I distanced myself a lot from there in the beginning of the relationship bc they were very rude to me and constantly saying rude things in front of me [his mom and his sister]
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 04:46 AM
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For some reason I feel like affection outside of sex isn't a thing in our relationship we never cuddle and I feel likr it's bc we never have sex and it affects his willingness to be affectionate with me in other ways bc he is angry
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 04:44 AM
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I think we dont really have the romance I want but then again maybe I just expect too much and maybe its not realistic. I dont think we had the spark and if we did it probably ended very quickly because very early on we started fighting. I think we became best friends and so comfortable around each other sometimes i feel like i dont leave bc idk what to do with my life if I did. We mive together i dont want to go back to my parents house. I feel like he serves someone who is passionate about him…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 04:37 AM
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No im not on any form of birth control. I dont really feel fulfilled sexually with him and he does try to please me and he tries to focus on me but I dont enjoy it so I stop it or prevent it from happening. I also never masterbate and if I do its just so I can see if I do enjoy it kind of like curiosity but its not because I want to i sort of force myself to. I just feel very disconnected to him and I know for him it must be worse because I'm the one rejecting him. I dont even know why he still …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 12:43 AM
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This is what bugged me about the post her mom is not being rude or offensive and it just bugs her? She can't control her bothers emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:31 PM
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Okay im sorry I didn't read through the whole thing but what is your job! I have a business degree and not making anywhere near 100k
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:16 PM
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Does he help as well?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:14 PM
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Its not the same thing in my eyes but no I wouldn't want a bigger house unless I needed it like if I'm having a baby etc and need an extra room. I guess I wouldn't want any type of plastic surgery or other unnecessary changes to my appearance. I'm not talking about things like hair removal skin treatment etc. though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 03:54 AM
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I'm sure that not everyone in a relationship considers themselves the exception to the rule as you have described.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 07:07 PM
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No point but I dont understand why you were so quick to say a man wouldn't like someone without there own accomplishments if that's the road you also want to take given your post.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 06:09 PM
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I have a condition where I'm never full I could seriously eat forever and out eat anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 04:00 PM
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Uhm no he is already in a serious relationship with her for 4 years. She is one of my friends. Everytime we hang out she says she doesn't like working and isn't going back to school so because she doesn't have an education she can only get hired at basically minimum wage jobs and she doesnt want to waste her time with that. She wants to get married and be a sahm.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 03:59 PM
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So true I have a friend who never finished school and hasn't worked for years bc she's preparing to be a sahm and wife with her bf they have been together for 4 years now
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 05:31 AM
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Does it actually matter though when a guy likes someone
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 04:57 AM
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But what about a women that just never wants to work or get her own accomplishments
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 08:53 PM
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This morning I had a dr appointment with a dermatologist to get a small facial mole removed. The person waiting next to me was there because of skin cancer. I felt immediately wrong. Like guilty for being there because of something superficial and realized I could never get plastic surgery because I sometimes consider getting a nose job.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 08:47 PM
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It was very rude of you to assume she's a certain way just because she doesn't want to have her own kids, reach out if you want to dont take our advice about that
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 11:35 PM
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I do think I have some sort of trauma but its hard for me to understand it completely. Its not related to rape or sexual abuse its more the actual experience of sex with my first boyfriend if that makes sense. It was just terrible and I think ruined my self esteem especially sexually.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 03:06 PM
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I've never been on birth control with my current boyfriend I did test my hormones and my prolactin levels were very high i tested again and am waiting for the results.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 03:04 PM
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