| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 243 | Finally realized some of the LVM obsession with body counts... | SHOWER THOUGHT | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 12:52 AM |
| 132 | For my queens that need a new quarantine lock screen as a constant reminder 💁🏽♀️ (found on Tumblr but can’t find the OP) | FDS MEMES | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:03 AM |
| 85 | Ladies with a HVM SO: How did you meet? | SEEKING ADVICE | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 57 | Giga Stacy Pickmes | PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAME | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 44 | Creating a Post-Quarantine Manifesto | LEVEL UP | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Gay Man’s Advice for the Pornsick Straight Men at the Back 👌🏽👏🏼 | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | This Gay Man’s Advice for Pornsick Straight Men 👏🏼👌🏽 | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | femmmme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:02 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 48 | Lionel Richie is dating someone young enough to be his daughter..This explains why he allowed his 19 year old daughter Sofia date 34 year old Scott Disick. This is why you don’t breed with LVMs- your daughters will think this is normal. All HVMs are providers but not all men with money are HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Why do men romanticize the idea of women who are too good for them settling for them? How is that something that these losers look forward to?Scott Disick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 72 | Old post but has FDS energyRemember dick is abundant and plentiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Ladies with a HVM SO: How did you meet?He sound like a really lovely guy! When I read that I just realized how simple all of these actions are- they just require a little bit of effort. And damn my bar for men has been low even with FDS. Now they pay for meals and will come to my neighborhood or halfway but a properly invested guy would be doing a lot more, and i knew that deep down but didn’t want to accept that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Ladies with a HVM SO: How did you meet?Thank you so much for all of these recommendations! Happy that you met a great guy, esp on Tinder! I think my radar for HVMs is getting better- I might give OLD another chance in the future, but it seems like the ratio of NVM/LVM to HVM is not good enough to warrant the effort right now. Thinking back, the handful of times that I’ve dated decent guys longer term, 100% of them approached irl via a common interest or friend group. I lost a lot of friends and interests during quarantine so that’s p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 250 | 48M Seeking 28-34FYou mean 18-24 F? BeCaUsE oVeR 30 wOmEn ArEn’T feRtIle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Sounds like his mama didn’t teach him how to behave.Aunty, come get your crotch goblin please!!Glad he’s wearing a red flag for attire. So he doesnt waste any of our time 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.Not out of the realm of possibilities! These guys get around 😂 Anyway glad you found the light | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:11 PM |
| 24 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.Sex at Dawn is a bible for the polygamist crowd and Tim Ferris wannabes about why humans are naturally polygamous. However most guys that like this stuff forget that as part of the bottom 80% of breeding stock, they’d likely get no action 😂 Monogamy does them a favor. I think they are drawn to any subculture that can make them feel like they’re the man. And instead of taking actions to command respect, they’d rather build their circles around communicates that foster this feeling. You’re totally… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 10:55 AM |
| 29 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.How on earth did I forget Brooklyn??? If you are lucky enough to snag one of these fine specimens for a date (11pm visit to a comedy club AND he might even buy himself a drink to pitch in towards your two drink minimum) then he’ll be sure to give you a second performance about why he’s grateful to not be like the miserable Marks on Wall St, and to be going to warehouse parties well into his 40s 😆 After a few dates he’ll tell you that he wants to introduce you to his approving forever girlfriend … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:04 AM |
| 15 | Women 30+ y.o., what do you want to tell women in their 20s?Early 20s here. Thank you so much for this ❤️ You make me incredibly excited to grow older and to get to know myself better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Reminder: don't be anyone's free trialYou can’t drive test drive a Ferrari without providing adequate collateral. No test drives with me until I’ve been given enough collateral either. I’ve got enough bidders without giving out free trials 💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:07 AM |
| 109 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.These scrawny toothpicks are a dime a dozen. Especially in places like San Francisco, Austin and Denver. Here’s what to look out for: He moved from bumblefuck nowhere and then had a sexual awakening when he went to the orgy tent at Burning Man after he dropped out of college. He’s a feminist that believes women should be allowed to sleep with whoever they want to, but you can’t blame men for preferring virginal nubile women, because biology. He has few to no stable relationships with other men. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | For my queens that need a new quarantine lock screen as a constant reminder 💁🏽♀️ (found on Tumblr but can’t find the OP)Well that would make both of us weird 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:53 AM |
| 47 | My ex who I was absolutely IN LOVE with at 16 (and would do ANYTHING for) is now contacting me 25 years later and love bombing me. All I could think of was this. Thank you FDSRPM trying to say women get ‘alpha widowed’. But I tell ya some of these scrotes still are wounded from rejections from their playground girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Should i block my ex pls helpThank you! Because I don’t know your situation, what I’ve written may not be fully relevant, but supporting women in similar situations is the only way I can feel like that time wasn’t wasted. I guess I had a gambler’s complex and felt like I’d invested too much to walk away. If you need any support then feel free to DM me (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Should i block my ex pls helpTake it from me. I was in contact with an ex for 3 years. It doesn’t get any easier, so it’s better to do it sooner rather than later. It was such a waste of time, but I’d try to rationalize that I wasn’t jealous or that we still had a friendship. It stopped me from moving on- I had no relationships within that time and wasted some of the best years of my life. As soon as I blocked him, I moved on and met a wonderful young European guy within a few weeks who was the complete opposite of my dusty… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:23 AM |
| 6 | This guy is the definition of a LVM thinking he’s all that and a bag of chip. 🥴🤢🤮ScArCiTy MaRkEtInG because I watched it in a Grant Cardone Webinar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 2 | #ScroteOfTheDay has the audacity to insult me after I reject him, then love-bomb me. Reported & blockedHe was trying to textbook neg you. I’ve hear that one a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | A friendly reminder to stay safe out there 😂🤣Some lattes got more pumps than these scrotes bahahahha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 70 | Giga Stacy PickmesFor some reason, I thought that most Stacies were buffered from the woes of LVMs. But I stumbled across this stunning modelesque gal on Youtube that told the familiar story of her relationship with a LVM. Stay woke, ladies. Leveling up your looks is for YOUR self-esteem. It doesn’t mean you’ll suddenly attract a HVM. Without changing your stardards, your glow up will just guve you access to better looking fuccboiis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 12 | REMINDER: dating a guy who frequently watches porn and can't just drop it is like dating any other drug addict and all that entails. Don't kid yourself otherwise 🤡Thanks for sharing! This is such a good reminder as to why porn is a dealbreaker. It’s not meaningless, and it’s not just virtual fantasies. I also find it incredible that you can hand a man the golden ticket- a lovely woman who is attractive, fit and gives him plenty of sex, and it’s still not enough. Attempting to please these types of men is a zero sum game that is not in your favor. Me alone was also not good enough for the older porn obsessed guy. He was poorly aging, underemployed, bald, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:11 PM |
| 39 | Is there a way to recover from oversharing in the earliest stages? + I need help dissecting some red flagsFirstly, forgive yourself. We’ve all been in this situation and regretted it. Reformed serial over sharer here 🤦🏻♀️It’s not about what has been said or done, but how you can change from this experience. Pretend that it’s a job interview. If the hiring manager tries to sell you on the job, and doesn’t seem to review your qualifications very stringently, then you begin to wonder why they are so intent on filling the position. If you’ve met him only once, you don’t know whether you like him yet, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 14 | REMINDER: dating a guy who frequently watches porn and can't just drop it is like dating any other drug addict and all that entails. Don't kid yourself otherwise 🤡That sounds like an awful experience :( But I’m really glad that you saw that light, and realized that this kind of behavior is not normal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:44 AM |
| 43 | [TRIGGER WARNING] NYTIMES: The Amount of Child Pornography on the Internet is growing at an exponential rate, far exceeding law enforcement’s capacity to investigate (they get to only 2% of cases). In 2014 it was 1Mil. images reported, by 2018 it was 45mil.What is also exponentially growing is the destigmatization of pedophilia in our culture. I can’t help but wonder if there is a correlation between the normalization of increasingly sick porn and then it extending to the inclusion of children. Porn featuring students, younger sisters, family members. BuT pOoR gUyS aNd ThEiR dIcKs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:36 AM |
| 35 | REMINDER: dating a guy who frequently watches porn and can't just drop it is like dating any other drug addict and all that entails. Don't kid yourself otherwise 🤡I am so disturbed when I think back...I was 17 and he was mid 20s. He told me about how all of his exes used to enjoy watching it with him, so I should too. I did eventually watch it (by myself to understand the fuss) and that’s when I finally realized how a lot of men view women. I always try to chat about this stuff with younger girls whenever I get the chance, so that they don’t find themselves in a similar situation. Mothers, sisters, cousins, aunts- PLEASE tell your teens this stuff, so tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:29 AM |
| 15 | Finally realized some of the LVM obsession with body counts...Crabs in a bucket 😂 Dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:19 AM |
| 95 | REMINDER: dating a guy who frequently watches porn and can't just drop it is like dating any other drug addict and all that entails. Don't kid yourself otherwise 🤡100%. Thank God I stopped pretending to be the cool girl. I remember a guy tried to convince me that maybe the reason why I didn’t feel like having sex was because I was inexperienced so I should watch porn to learn how to satisfy him 🤢Foul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Bf is insecure, because gf’s ex(hvm) still pays all her billsFDS goals when exes see the men I’m dating: “O my god...he has the coolest life and job, tall, the total package” 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:05 AM |
| 16 | 'FLYFISHING' def: when men just get their rods out, waggle it, and expect a pornoI call that one ‘clit flinting’ 🤡🔥☄️ Example: “Please stop it hurts” LVM: BuT qUeEn DoEs It HuRt In A gOoD WaY? yOu LiKe ThAT dON’t YoU??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:05 AM |
| 7 | Can you even?!One day I want to marry a woman to give her a green card so that she doesn’t have to hop into bed with a guy that looks like a big toe for a better life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 04:39 PM |
| 25 | Inside the mind of LVM.Totally incapable of pair bonding now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:30 AM |
| 230 | Preach, babygirl!Men don’t worry about how to keep women because they aren’t conditioned to believe that their value is hinged entirely on their relationship success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | I AM TIRED of the being the FAT GIRL (Using this post so people can add resources)Regardless of weight or current appearance, that ball is still in your court. You have something that men want. There’s nothing that bruises a LVM’s ego like rejection from a woman that he felt entitled to, so knock yourself out doing it whilst you get yourself into a better place physically and mentally. Rooting for you (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 176 | He doesn't have time = he doesn't want to make timeI always ask “What if I was Megan Fox {insert any famous hot person?}” • Would he forget to reply to her text? • Not be able to afford a decent meal (hint- you’d see his car in CL before that)? • Ask her to buy the next round (even when she makes more than him)? • Ditch Megan Fox for his mates? • Wouldn’t be ready to commit, because his last relationship was tough? It really clears up 99% of problems. But it hurts to accept that he’s just not that into YOU. Look at Johnny Depp. He was with the w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Comedy hour: A self-described Chad on what he has to offer HVW 🤣🤣My experience has been that the successful guys are usually better looking. If they have the discipline to focus on a career, education and finances then they will likely care enough to work out, brush their teeth, shower and clean their homes too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 05:02 AM |
| 15 | Comedy hour: A self-described Chad on what he has to offer HVW 🤣🤣What if I told him that we can get physically attractive rich and educated guys that ALSO HAVE a fancy job title, and a stable career? LVMs only peddle these false dichotomies to get women to lower their standards so that they stand a chance of getting some crumbs of pussy, instead of focusing on creating value. “Oh you want a stable guy that is also attractive? Nah you’re being unrealistic.” There’s plenty of dick in the sea 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 04:18 AM |
| 30 | don’t ever marry a man who is stingy with moneyIt doesn’t matter how rich he is, if he’s not spending it on you, then it’s irrelevant. Dating rich cheapskates is complete waste of fucking time. At least when you go out with generous guys, you have gifts and free food as compensation for your time. Even if you snag the stingy rich guy, his assets will never be yours. The moderately wealthy guy that gives you everything is better than the ultra wealthy scrooge that gives you nothing. This seems like common sense, but it took me years to realiz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:44 AM |
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