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3

Yeah they wouldn't complain if you kept going out with them. If you really needed free food wouldn't you KEEP using them? Why stop at one dinner go for broke. She used me for food wah. How do you know? She won't see me anymore and didn't have sex with me. Oh right, definitely nothing you did then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:26 PM
3

Anything other than an enthusiastic yes from them just makes it a no. Sure I'd love to do dinner instead. If it's like ugh well I guess we can do that, bye. Why waste time on someone who isn't enthusiastic out the gate? It's a losing proposition if he hesitates because he thinks you need to waste time going out with someone for free food. Pfft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:24 PM
3

Gross. 20 bucks? please. They act like it's so expensive as if they're going on 3 dates a day 7 days a week. As if. And the thing is women aren't using them for food, they are saying no to a second date. They just forget that part because of course it couldn't be their fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:44 PM
9

Seriously lol. They act like women are making them. Naw here's the deal if you ask a woman out and she will only go to dinner a take her to dinner b don't. If you're horrified by having dinner with a mature woman that knows what she wants then bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:32 PM
16

Seriously there are cool ethnic places I'd go too that aren't much money. Best pho place? I'm down. It doesn't necessarily have to be 150 dollars. Men just lack creativity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:52 PM
8

I didn't ever think of that. Makes sense though. Makes it even worse. Yeah though people get there early and stay all day. I just don't think many guys are getting coffee dates because I never see what seems to be a date. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:16 PM
10

My daughter got given a bottled water in a gift bag today she said and here is a bottled water I got as if I don't have an infinite supply from my sink....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:01 PM
18

Why would I waste money? What! do you not like to eat good food with great ambiance? How is going to dinner a waste of money? Well I want to know if I like them enough. Enough to what? Ask them on a date? You did that here is step 2 you dense motherfucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:59 PM
29

One guy said I've asked women out for ice cream and it worked. I'd actually be down with ice cream over coffee. Starbucks dude? Really? It's not successful I'm betting because I'm at Starbucks a lot and there are no dates happening and two they'd know that you can't walk into Starbucks and get a table. Ain't happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:56 PM
39

Fantasy men never ask for that anyway. Too romantic and in lust with passion of your female body IN THE WAY INTENDED. He wants to buy you dinner and take you to a cool place he saw and immediately thought of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:45 AM
16

Interesting choice! After I saw the cat that looked like him I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:40 AM
29

I think that's a thing. Not an expert though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:37 AM
7

Not really. Block away!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:32 PM
2

That was hilarious. Just my thoughts don't respond to people who say hi. it's lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 12:08 AM
12

😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:57 PM
22

Eh I'd take not take his word for it. He is a perpetual victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:34 PM
3

God he could just say I'm free Sunday are you instead of being insufferable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:31 PM
1

I guess I missed the whole scandal. I don't keep up with a ton of celeb singer news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:45 PM
5

I seriously have never heard of him! I saw he has some Grammy nominations and still I got nothin! Anyway his loss. Looking at her wiki she seems to pick losers unfortunately. She needs to come on this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:22 AM
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Here are some more https://www.elitedaily.com/p/11-times-celebrities-opened-up-about-being-cheated-on-it-was-heartbreaking-8333837 Eva Longoria getting cheated on hit me hard. She was at every game being a supportive wife. Then Ethan hawke cheating on Uma Thurman too. Dude Ethan you're kind of a nobody to be honest. She is out working and you fuck the nanny in her house? Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:05 AM
1

By who?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:01 AM
13

Seriously when she got cheated on I thought wow this can happen to any woman! If you have Halle berry and you're still not happy then I don't know what to tell you! I think her ex was a loser too a no name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:01 AM
79

Then they would absolutely talk shit about the easy ho that gave it up for a coffee so it's not like you win by doing a coffee date. They don't want a gf they want sex as cheaply and low investment as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:57 PM
2

Was she like that ? Also he sucks. Step it up. He's a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:05 PM
3

Sorry but the old island hopping can't come to the phone right now. Why. She's dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:57 PM
1

Lol wow. He basically designed his own fictitious woman. Sounds like his wife left him and that's who she was. Now he's sad so he wants woman #2 to be all those things. It's so oddly specific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:55 PM
21

When they say they're bored link them to volunteer match. They can find a volunteer job instead of harassing women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:26 AM
28

I saw that. Watch the video she's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:17 PM
8

Wow..they're all like yeah but I make my ramen good with Sriracha. Pfft. Good job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 02:50 PM
30

This happened to me and I didn't even consider porn sick because I didn't know about it. I didn't even consider it but I'm glad I know now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 02:02 AM
13

These guys threaten suicide so you'll call them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 12:18 AM
6

You need to stop. Hanging out with a married guy who has a pregnant wife is so low class. I don't think he's the only dog here. You knew all of this and still were talking to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:07 PM
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If he's a married fuck boy, what does that make you? You've been engaging with a married man and say bad things about him but you're the company you keep. I just don't get how you're the hvw here. I think you need to move on with your life and figure out how to be high value yourself. You currently aren't since this is how you spend your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:43 PM
6

Sfah is on sale right now for 13 bucks if you need a good gift for someone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:23 PM
33

Here is how to get your wife in the mood: Be helpful and supportive without expecting a fucking reward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:01 PM
1

It's probably not going to work out anyway. Focus on your own stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:41 PM
1

Are you oversharing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:29 PM
8

I have a 9 year old that proves that. We were ldr at the time so it was only that possible window. Sperm can live 7 days so day 4 of your cycle plus 7 is 11 and ovulation is right around that time. Day 14 ovulation isn't exact for everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:01 PM
14

And her inbox is now flooded with dick pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 12:56 PM
3

He has a sort of South paw Jake Gyllenhaal thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:19 PM
1

Wait 4 at the top wearing a lake shirt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:04 PM
4

Got to his head then I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:02 PM
9

What's up with #4? He's cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:55 PM
12

I mean not that bad but he's weird. Did you see him asking if he needed a bed bc he's dating? He sleeps on the floor. He said it helped his hip. K cool but a date isnt cool with a grown man with no bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:43 PM
36

After she got cancer. He shit talks her but I saw that she got breast cancer and I'm like I bet she got better and got over his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:41 PM
28

I'm wondering what Lisa Bonet does? Lenny Kravitz too? I need some tips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:30 PM
1

Same. I won't ever put them in an album so whats the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:30 PM
3

Insecure men will be abusive and he's showing red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:22 PM
4

People change their minds about involvement.you don't want to be in a custody battle with a man because he changed his mind. If he doesn't have his own kids and wants them later, he will look to take yours based on any number of scenarios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:00 PM
3

Drink are usually loud anyway and you're more people watching. Dinner is more intimate and people watching during dinner isn't a thing usually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:29 PM
4

I'd never recommend a male friend donor. Terrible idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:20 PM
10

I don't even take photos of my dog with a messy background lol. And those are just for me. If I have laundry out, I'll background blur it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 12:27 PM
13

That's like most of them tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:04 AM
18

The worst was the I'm better than a toy. Uhhh clearly not, limpy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 09:11 PM
11

I have a friend and his gf like this. Both attractive but their personal lives are awful. She left her kid in the custody of her father he sees his kid every other weekend. Sooo they go out all the time. If I didn't have custody of my daughter like she doesn't that would be number 1! Instead they act like they are not parents and 19
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:27 AM
13

I was always fine with the laziest dates. When I'm ready never again! Or I'd plan it. Fuck no. Not again. At least you didn't get far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 05:11 PM
9

Sober november
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:49 AM
1

How do you get out of Dutch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 11:42 PM
7

Yeah not hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:36 PM
1

I thought the kid lives with his mom not the man? He wants her to move in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 12:48 PM
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I was very young years ago dating around and two guys took me out in whatever week this was. One guy older. One guy my age. I found out during the date that the young guy worked at taco Bell. The other older guy had a degree took me to some chain. eh its a chain. Anyway I was embarrassed about tb guy. My mom said hey tb guy paid for a nicer dinner better experience and other guy has more spent less time and less money even in relation to tb income! I didn't date either, but there is something to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:17 AM
1

I have a male friend who is a serious fuck up in all ways. I'm not kidding. Zero maturity, weird sex shit, mental health problems, financial problems..this guy proved himself to the ex who gave him more time and then he got that official so he is 50/50 and has been for years. If my guy friend can, listen, any man is capable of 50/50 parenting. He doesn't and hasn't had a gf either. On his own, he gets his kid to school, takes him to boy scouts, feeds him breakfast. Now I'm positive his ex does a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 01:01 AM
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Spoiler his dick is sooo big. JK its not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 12:25 AM
18

Eh not getting access to someone elses body isn't really a sacrifice. It's a privilege
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:04 PM
8

My daughter wasn't planned and I don't regret having her, but I definitely don't want a baby under the same circumstances. It's very hard as is! He's not around and I don't need two men like that to deal with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:28 PM
11

Oh definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:57 PM
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I didn't use to think it was soon but I'm worried about STDs and pregnancy since I have a daughter and don't want another pregnancy with someone who I don't know. Things can happen and some STDs are lifelong and both options for women with a pregnancy aren't ideal to go through with some loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:28 PM
112

Lol the sacrifice he wants you to make is fucking him? Bwahaha. Way to sell it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:25 PM
3

Lost it at wonder if an 8 year old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:21 PM
53

EVEN STDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:51 AM
12

Yeah i too have heard of Starbucks! I mean why go on a low value experience. I can get a tazo tea at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:44 AM
15

What! He dumped her because she was fat and dated her when she was fat,?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:52 PM
19

He wants a mommy for his kid. It's abnormal to be with someone so soon when you have a kid. Has he lived with other women after kids mom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:35 PM
37

Red flag! Run. No one in their right mind moves someone in after 4 months with a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:25 PM
10

How long have you dated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:23 PM
13

Hey.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:00 PM
6

My brother and ex were both thin their whole lives but had a lot on their backs. Ex has them all on his butt too. He's super thin and always was too. No idea about my brother just the back ones. He said he got them in high school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:40 PM
7

Same! I have one daughter and I don't like other people's kids. I just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:35 PM
5

Maybe he has a I wanna get robbed fetish. Don't shame him! Let him indulge his fantasy of getting his last dollar stolen lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:32 PM
5

Even r/science! They had a week of trans AMAs and NO ONE was allowed to ask is it a mental illness, how do we know there aren't curative measures, stuff like that. The dialogue was pre formed when it's supposed to be a science sub where you can have a scientific discussion based on facts Giant cave by them. Total bullshit. I get people being asked to be respectful, but when you can't ask about science and data then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:29 PM
7

Men have them too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:24 PM
18

Did you see the comment from the woman whose husband chokes on grapes. She upped his life insurance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:20 PM
9

Im constantly in a state of change! Or I'm trying! Why give up? But yeah I feel like I've had the same experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 11:14 AM
10

I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 02:25 AM
17

No not for me. Just weird. I think men that wait or don't get married are rigid and not open to change and sort of making space for people ? Obviously I'm hoping to someday find a good man, but that age range is difficult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:05 AM
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In my experience cf men are strange. The ones I've seen are 40 with zero kids and kind of inflexible people? Like men who haven't lived with women or gotten married by 40 or whatever have been very very selfish people. Just my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 12:57 AM
6

Bumble you message first? That's difficult for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 11:32 PM
6

I imagine he would use that to get sex too. He's not good at hearing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 11:31 PM
22

"date" Haha for free. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 11:30 PM
12

He doesn't have a car and wanted a date at his house for a couple hours lol. Oh and he has zero planned at his house either even if she agreed. Not even I love cooking. I'm making x.hes just lame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 11:29 PM
3

The only good thing Jordan Peterson's said was something about when you hate your own kid because they are jerks other people aren't going to like them either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 11:24 PM
9

And the guy who won't get a better job because his excuse is his child support would go up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 12:39 AM
5

They are smokin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 12:05 AM
5

What ages are they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:54 PM
7

Top one that said stay warm oooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:54 PM
3

Weird.... I mean one time sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:51 PM
10

That one cracked me up. I don't have to be a husband anymore and now I can be a father.....by playing video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:49 PM
3

Agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:47 PM
17

I think that's what women are doing now. You can't opt out of being a woman, but you can opt out of dealing with a shitty partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:45 PM
19

I'm glad they're single. In a parent sub I'm in, they just torture women until they get the guts to take their kids and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:44 PM
33

I didn't know they were openly stating they hated pleasing their partners now! What a time to be alive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:42 PM
2

I will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:29 PM
13

He said he hated coming home to an empty house, but did he say anything about you? That's the part I'm hung up on. Hates dating, so..... I mean that's the time to say dating is no fun and I would like this to be serious or I assume this is serious or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:29 PM
3

I need to make that my number one self priority. I already tackled sleep and getting real hours and setting my wakeup, short yoga, going. Sleep is a big issue where I just wasn't getting enough, but I've got a routine down. My phone is on do not disturb by 830 too ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:24 PM
4

Yep. Stop wasting your mental space op. You don't occupy his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:21 PM
8

He's doing this because he's that guy and you allow it. Guys who are too busy with gaming lol. Nope. If he was volunteering sure. Not gaming. This is a glimpse into how he sucks not the whole picture. This is a glimpse into how he's going to treat you and how little he cares about your feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:20 PM
3

I am working on fitness now and it's been almost 2 years so I'm opening up to the idea more. I definitely didn't want to rush, so I'm glad I've taken the time and still being cautious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:17 PM
8

Why does he have full custody is a valid question? I mean it's not a deal breaker but having to deal with a crappy other parent sucks too. Don't get too caught up in small deeds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:16 PM
11

Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:13 PM
4

Good. I need to make a list of bad acts from my ex of ten years even the petty shit to.remind myself what it looks like. I have no desire to get back together, but I don't want to repeat any of my mistakes in giving passes out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:12 PM
53

I haven't dated one myself but my dad is a good example. He comes home and washes dishes after dinner with my mom. Mops the floors every Friday and buys her flowers every week. They've been married happily for almost 30 years and he's technically my step dad. Btw my mom doesn't work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:10 PM
5

Good! That was amazing though thanks for sharing. Glad you're upwards and onwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:05 PM
5

He went through multiple stages of grief haha and texted it all out. Too bad you're a 👻👻👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:03 PM
5

I'm sorry this is great! Arguing with him would've made him feel better and now he's crying like a fool😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:01 PM
3

Tlc sings it in no scrubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:59 PM
2

If you're picking someone up and know it, clean out your car ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:57 PM
3

I'm gonna do that and keep it. The little quips creep in here and there and I didn't realize it til it was too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:42 PM
3

What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:11 PM
5

My only worry is someone knowing where you live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:10 PM
6

No interest? That's why he wrote a paragraph 😂. Just respond "k" and then move to junk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:20 AM
20

He only dates young, thin women AND never been in a relationship. Okay so young thin women aren't dating you sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:34 PM
35

Nope, you just act younger than your age bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:33 PM
25

Better have it otherwise what the payoff? You're 30 meet a man who is 50. He is 75 in 25 years. You are 55 and now he is very old while you just finished menopause. It's a big difference in lifestyle I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:20 PM
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They age faster because they refuse to take care of themselves. Ever been to a male thrown BBQ? It's meat, meat, and no sides. No one is bbqing artichokes, roasting a brussel sprout, making a salad. They might buy potato salad, but that's it. This is for an event too. Imagine how single men eat alone. Men who are married have someone next to them preparing vegetables or teaching them what a proper meal looks like. That's the only reason they live as long as they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:17 PM
10

I think MS is making you feel like you're lucky to have this guy. A chronic illness doesn't make you just worthy of scraps. He sounds like he has his own problems like a porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:20 PM
3

I checked and thought they sounded awfully boring. One guy painting. Some martial arts. Eh. Imagine your ideal is sitting playing video games. I don't think it's a hobby unless Hulu is my hobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:45 PM
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