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Wow, I read this story and said to myself “this was the absolute best case scenario.” You need to look at it that way too. Even getting the drink Girl A recommended was a baller move — more of a slap in the face. Though you sound young and inexperienced, you kinda fell into the perfect situation by inadvertently playing the one girl off the other. What were you supposed to do after she flaked? Just sit home? This is the part where you basically let Girl A know that you have a life and are a busy…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 07:04 PM
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I’ve been a firefighter/paramedic here in California for over 15 years. Suicide and mental health are big problems in this job. Talking to a therapist is not a weakness — it should be a requirement. If you need to talk or want to reach out, send me a message. We have to take care of our brother and sisters.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 12:20 AM
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This post was gold until I realized it was plagiarized basically in whole from someone else. Nothing more beta than passing off someone else’s work as your own to farm Karma points.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/21 08:22 PM
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I like this approach but it comes with the inevitable: “so am I not the right situation?” and the ensuing barrage of questions like “what is the right situation?” In theory, your response is the correct one. In practice, a line closer to OP has always worked way better for me. “I wasn’t really looking for a relationship but I’d love to keep seeing each other and see where it goes.” This gives a softer angle to it all and keeps the girl around. She gets the “I can convince him!” mentality. I used…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 12:47 AM
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The only thing I continue to disagree with on this sub is texting game. I love texting and use it to build a ton of horny attraction. Then when we meet, it’s on. Used correctly, texting can be a solid add on to your game.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:57 AM
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So true. The first time I ever posted a comment there I was banned within 5-minutes lol
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:53 PM
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Ya, Lane Kiffin/USC style! Lol
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:49 PM
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Yup. Post this story to the relationships sub and watch the man haters surface.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:47 PM
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Solid advice. Source: I’m a firefighter
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:41 PM
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Wel it’s your classic case of he think she’s a FWB and she’s trying to lock him down.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:05 PM
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It’s funny how many of these truth bombs you learned from your mom were actually tenants of Tom Leykis back when he was on the air.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 01:32 AM
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I mean in all fairness, at least you know what she’ll do if you knock her up... /s
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:23 PM
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You can’t perfect it until you do it a few times. Being scared of it for life is dumb.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:40 PM
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The first thing you need to shake is this stupid philosophy of “text only for logistics.” What a waste of a resource in your get into bed toolbox. Get better at your text game. Get them hot and bothered with it. Get an evening date. A weekend lunch date screams to them: “I have nothing go on in my life and especially middle of the day on the weekends.” I don’t know about you but I got shit to do on the weekends. Everyone always says you have to appear busy, like you have other things going on in…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:07 PM
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This coming from the guy who asked how to make a Vegan Journey Advent calendar for his girlfriend? Ya, I bet your bedroom life is on fire!
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:26 PM
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BUT WHAT WAS THE CHRISTMAS GIFT?!? How you going to leave us hanging like that?!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:17 PM
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Boys raised without fathers are at a higher risk for just about every poor life choice. Most underrated quote here and a great way to sum it all up into common sense terms.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:00 PM
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And I agree 100% brotha
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:08 PM
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Why is this guy being downvoted? This comment is funny AF. Are we really taking it that serious boys?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:39 PM
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You don’t just get money from assault and attempted murder lol. Remember, please don’t get your legal advice from this sub. You named criminal elements what the DA would prosecute. Those come with fines and/or jail time. What you want is a civil trial where money is awarded. The challenge is he has to prove damages. That could be medical bills from being beat or try some “emotional anguish” course but then he’s admitting he’s a big pussy. Personally, fuck the money. I’d love to see someone’s rec…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:37 PM
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It’s actually battery. The assault was the threat. The battery was the beat down. But I totally agree...see how white knight they are on probation lol
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:33 PM
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This is all explained really well in the book Never Split the Difference. The book is written by one of the FBI’s best hostage negotiators who teaches business negotiating techniques. He talks about getting people to concentrate on your words by transitioning to the Late Night FM DJ voice.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:53 AM
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Once I subscribed on computer, it. Let’s appears on mobile like any other sub.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:11 AM
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Well, where on the spectrum did your doctor place you?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:47 AM
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The more you post, the more I understand how autistic you are.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:25 AM
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No — I’ve just lived enough life to know things. Maybe for those who play Warcraft all day, the sidebar is the ultimate answer.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:44 AM
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Yikes if you’re too dense to realize the sidebar isn’t a bible. It’s meant mainly for autists who need a step by step...oh wait...now I understand.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:25 AM
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Lol you’re ridiculous. Way more to the story than you know. Amazing for both of us. I’m a firefighter here in California — my arms are plenty alpha 😂
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:39 AM
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You don’t think there’s about 1000 different variables for why people cheat? Are you that simplistic of a thinker?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:01 AM
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I already fucked her and it was an amazing night. There absolutely is a “girl code” for girls who have a soul. I know we all like to believe all woman are evil and angry. When you grow up and enter the real world, you’ll realize that isn’t always the case.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:37 PM
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It’s definitely the fat chick. I don’t have time to rehash the entire saga. There’s about a million IOI’s but the fat chick is actually a very vengeful person and both girls work with each other in a field where that can be problematic. I wish it was as simple as the HS or college chicks most people on here have issues with.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:32 PM
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We already hooked up then she had buyers remorse. We still talk all the time. I posted a giant write up a few months ago.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:09 PM
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Man, I’ve been dealing with this issue for months now. Fat chick neighbor declared dibs on me which killed my chances with her hot friend (also one of our neighbors) because girl code. Even though me and hot chick are a ridiculous match.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:35 PM
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No one knows the answer but her man. Fucking talk it out like a real life human being that has empathy. Why does TRP make some people lose all ability to communicate like an adult? This isn’t complicated. Bring it up, express your concerns and see what she says. She may apologize, she may say it reminded her of some traumatic event, etc. Communicating about sex will make sex better. Who cares that you’ve done it 100x before and this time she triggered. You clearly don’t communicate well (you’re …
/r/askTRP22/06/19 01:17 PM
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Sorry bro, the harsh reality is that sometimes in life we do things that carry life long consequences. Don’t be a dirt bag who spreads a virus because you want to get your dick off. The fact that you would even consider jeopardizing someone else’s health to get laid makes you a fucking scumbag right now.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:52 AM
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This whole thing was so cringy — I’m failing to see where you applied any TRP teachings aside from you “lift.” Who brings up being the “star quarterback” in high school? Who are you...Al Bundy?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:18 AM
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Growing up in LA, Tom got me through my evening commute. Crazy how dead on he was with all of this.
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 06:49 AM
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Write down our toll free telephone number...you’re gonna need it! 1-800-580-0TOM.
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 06:48 AM
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SEO; PPC (Google Ads; Facebook; Bing; LinkedIn); Social Media
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:14 AM
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Dude, #1 is the most underrated comment here. Get her to agree that the night was consensual and a good time — in written record form. I never thought about that but in today’s climate, that’s pretty clutch.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:24 AM
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I’m not even sure what you’re talking about anymore. I’m talking about the original comment of having a conversation with someone. If you’re having a conversation with somebody and they say “I’m tired,” I’m having a difficult time finding your logic in how that’s training anyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 06:46 PM
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If you think someone telling you “they’re tired” is a way of training you, then you’re way too deep down the cynical rabbit hole. The girls I roll with are busy professionals — they’re tired half the time and so am I. Push/pull man. Give her some attention then take it away. Cat string theory and all that jazz. Just being a dick with zero empathy is ridiculous. Use a comment like “I’m tired” to flirt. You could take it so many ways. I try and find an opportunity to flirt or build arousal in ever…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 06:14 PM
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This doesn’t work in real life conversations. There’s no hard set rules — learn how to read and adapt. Be a good conversationalist. Ask questions, give genuine responses to statements. Sometimes I read these opinions and shake my head. We preach “alpha,” “holding frame,” “taking control.” Well fucking take control of the conversation! It’s like dancing: grab her hand and lead her. So much of getting a girl to sleep with you is comfort + sales pitch. If you’re good at selling, you’ll have no prob…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:16 PM
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I like this answer the best — calibration. I can be the life of a party or the quiet wallflower. I prefer the former, but it’s situation dependent. If I’m meeting a new group of people, I like to just observe for a little bit and calibrate myself.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:30 AM
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You’re absolutely right, that other guy provided you with a dumb response. He clearly has never actually been in a relationship before or conversed with a woman. Responding with “I don’t kiss and tell” absolutely admits that you have and most girls will interpret it as such. In fact, all you do is seem weak and aloof which will prompt 100 more questions from her. The last thing you want to do is fall into the million question trap because you’ll fail. How do I know that? Because you’re having pr…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:30 AM
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Ya, this is why I rarely (if I ever), come back to my house. It’s way easier to ghost the crazy if they have no clue where you live. I’m also vague about where I work. Plus, much easier to leave their house than to force them out of your house.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:11 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:42 PM
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This is so wrong on so many levels. Texting is gold for me but if you’re autistic, I can see why the community says “text only for logistics.” I use texting to build inside jokes and sexual tension. But, you can’t be an autist — need to be smart. It can easily become your downfall if you have no clue how to interact with humans. Don’t text every two seconds but definitely keep the conversation moving throughout the day. I’m a firefighter and my work schedule is all over the map. Sometimes it’ll …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:41 PM
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Then those are you priorities. Work on yourself like you’re already doing: crush school and lift.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:39 AM
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I own a website design and digital marketing company. We provide our own servers for hosting. I’m also extremely knowledgeable with Wordpress. Are we able to relaunch this site or do you just have random posts?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:48 PM
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I’m a firefighter in California and own a website design and digital marketing company. TRP just helped me develop more confidence which has helped all around in all aspects of my life.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:57 AM
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I do. Firefighter + own a web design and digital marketing company.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:56 AM
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Agree 100% and glad someone called it out. I’ve got a couple plates spinning, all pretty cool girls. I think you reach the pinnacle of abundance when you’re not sure which plate to hang onto with on a given night because they’re all pretty cool. Last night I got drinks with a plate, spent a few hours at the bar having really good conversation, shared some appetizers and then went back to smash. Honestly, it’s way more fun that way for me at least because it just becomes a really enjoyable night.…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:50 PM
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“I want to win the game of life” It’s so simple, but I love that philosophy.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:40 PM
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Why even tell the truth? Normally, I’m not for lying. In this case, it’s really only a problem if you (a) invite her to your birthday party or (b) turn her into an LTR. You’re 21, I wouldn’t be turning anything into an LTR so there goes reason (b). Find someone else to take to your birthday party this year — (a) no longer a problem.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:30 AM
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Work on yourself first. Get some self-confidence.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 01:47 AM
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I agree with this. As a paramedic/firefighter I’m always in high energy situations. It’s crazy when I got into this career years ago, a lot of things that used to be “uncomfortable” quickly became no big deal.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:59 PM
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My personality and cockiness are exactly this and it works really well. For me it works, to be straight forward with a touch of funny and ridiculousness. It’s kinda my schtick but if you’re autistic it can come up fucking weird — so be cautious people. You also need to be able to deliver it super smooth with no stutters.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:37 PM
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“...and instead you went full ‘rape crisis’ mode” That made laugh probably more than it should have but you’re absolutely right.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:34 PM
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I feel like this is part of my standard escalation lol. It seems odd you’re even having to explain this scenario...nobody has ever unhooked a girl’s bra with her shirt still on so you can escalate under the shirt?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:30 PM
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He said it: find the super damaged. Which is actually really depressing — just super damaged people continuing to fuck each other up.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:26 PM
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Stop blaming your mommy and take some damn responsibility for your life.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:44 PM
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Is that new? I went on there via desktop maybe 2 weeks ago and there was no way to create a post. What’s the URL you’re using?
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:18 PM
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Is there a main sub anymore? The website doesn’t even allow new posts.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:10 PM
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I’ve heard a ridiculous number of girls give me the “I don’t even kiss on a first date” line especially when we’re texting ahead of the first date. Probably a 75% close rate on the first date. I feel like they give that line for plausible deniability. I’ve met very few girls that actually stand by it. It’s just anti-slut defense.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:19 AM
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This is the best comment on this thread and 100% aligns with the situations I’ve been in.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:24 AM
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I completely understand -- but then the issue is working on the autism and anti-social before even meeting girls. It's almost worse if you get the date only because of your short texts (she didn't realize you were weird due to low volume) only to come off as a weirdo during the date. I'm thinking use texting as a way to build your social skills through trial and error. If anything, hiding behind the cell phone has to be better than trying to figure it out in person and on the spot.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:19 PM
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Mutually Assured Destruction
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:52 PM
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I know — I thought about just pulling the pin on that grenade 😂
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:50 PM
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Thanks brotha
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:18 AM
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I already told her that more or less when she was trying to warm up to me. This whole thing is so lame.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:12 AM
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Ya, that backfired hard. This girl was maybe one of the most awesome chicks I’ve ever met. I guess in this case, it proves she’s got some morals which is good in the long run, bad for me 😂
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:04 AM
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Haha that analogy made me laugh pretty hard. The sex was amazing, we literally got into bed around 10pm and wrapped up around 3am. It’s frustrating man.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:27 AM
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It’s a buyer’s remorse thing.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:25 AM
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Ya, that’s probably the best observation so far. That’s what I get for going solo.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:24 AM
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I’ve been trying a lot of the “less guilty” avenues. Not working. The fat friend is gross, like it’s legit stupid.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:24 AM
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Haha I made this argument. I got the “it’s a girl thing, I don’t expect you to understand.” 😂 I’m hyper logical, it rarely ever works with girls.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:23 AM
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No I hear what you're saying. We banged, I want to continue banging, lol. The end game wasn't just to bang once for me but to continue the banging extravaganza. The clarity would be she's having buyers remorse now. She feels she made a giant mistake and doesn't want to continue making the mistake for fear that the fat friend is going to start World War 3.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:29 AM
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I force myself to find something, anything positive to concentrate on. The easiest fall back for me is just being thankful for waking up. Period. So many people are stuck in awful situations. You see ridiculously motivated terminal cancer patients. That right there makes me feel like shit for even worrying about “having the sniffles,” “not getting enough sleep,” “being turned down by a girl,” “losing a plate,” etc. People I work with, friends and family always comment on how positive I am and ho…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:11 PM
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What he said isn’t the real problem now with this classmate. It’s the fact he just left without saying a word. So now it’s awkward. This whole thing could have been salvaged with actually reading the situation and playing it off as a joke once you saw how repulsed she is. Instead, he just walked away because he’s probably scared of confrontation. Who just bails like that? You’re man enough to drop a line like that but had zero clue what to do if it went south? Geez man, have a few Plan B’s and C…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:09 PM
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The best poker players really only play a small number of hands. I’m like you — if I’m dealt crappy cards, I just fold and wait for the next hand. So many people get dealt awful cards and stay in the game hoping to turn it into a winning hand — even when the odds are against them.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:57 PM
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Do you have an example of what you would have said?
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:31 AM
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I’m sorry, am I missing something here? Why does this guy even deserve 1-second if your time? You don’t owe anybody an explanation.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:42 PM
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LA is great. I’ve also found the online game in LA is like fish in a barrel.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:22 AM
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The fix isn’t more government regulation — it’s less regulation. California makes it so hard to build that there’s zero inventory. Supply and demand at work. Any available rentals are then Extremely over priced. California needs to make it easier to build homes.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 04:48 PM
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No, this is 4D chess my friend. Flake didn’t reverse himself at all — he voted yes and Kavanaugh goes to the senate 11-10 as expected. What Flake did was cut a deal (he can’t enforce) with Democrats to only vote yes on the senate floor if there’s a one week FBI investigation. The best part is Grassley letting the Democrats banter about the specifics knowing full well he must adjourn the meeting by 2:00 PM (a Democrat rule that backfired). The only concern with stalling for a week was the chance …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:31 PM
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No worries man! And I agree with your overall assessment. Success leads to more success — it’s contagious.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:06 PM
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Pareto refers to the 80/20 rule. I’m not sure I agree with the correlation to your quote. You’re actually quoting the Bible — Matthew 13:12. The Pareto Distribution simply means that 20% of people create/cause 80% of the output. At work, 20% of the employees do 80% of the work. At a dinner party, 20% of the guests will eat 80% of the shrimp cocktail. 20% of guys get 80% of the woman. Pareto doesn’t necessarily mean that being at the top guarantees you more or that being at the bottom gets more t…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:32 PM
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Playful is a good way to put it. I think emojis are a great way to use non-text to escalate a text message.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:23 PM
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I don’t agree here at all. In fact, emojis (as dumb as they are), work really well and give you even more subtlety. I own a digital marketing company and there’s stats that show social media posts that contain emojis receive something like 15-20% more engagement.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:12 PM
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I got banned from there a long time ago for basically telling someone to take responsibility for their life and stop whining about it. Instant ban lol That whole sub is just s bunch of sad people, always whining and looking to place blame on other.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:25 AM
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I don’t think you’re using the Pareto principle correctly.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:40 AM
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This reply gave me a headache. Did you have a stroke while typing?
/r/askTRP24/09/17 04:18 PM
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Hey bro...it's now called Transitional Kindergarten (TK)" okay? Lol
/r/askTRP24/09/17 05:29 AM
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I love this response. Simple sentence that articulates everything in a calm, rational and no bullshit manner. In one sentence you've said about 100 things.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 05:26 AM
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I have to limit my drinking for a different reason: sex. I'm pretty extroverted to begin with and never needed help in that realm. I agree with others that going sober through the night can create a different social problem. Ordering tonic and lime can help with the social awkwardness part though. I can do pretty good using TRP strategies to close the deal but if I've had too much to drink, I can't perform the deed. I've been cock blocked a number of times by alcohol. I limit my consumption now …
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