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Yes i know. I kinda always sweat the first few weeks after a new partner. Girls have such a high n count that its quite possible that they have contracted stds before. I just cant relax as good without them being tested and mono with me.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:40 AM
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Struggling with that too. I prefer to keep 1 to 2 plates and go as monogamous as possible. Dont want to catch something.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:14 AM
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There is more than one herpes type. Genital herpes is not something 70% of people have.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:24 PM
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Its most likely a problem with scale. Sure you can code a lot of things but doing it alone is most of the time not feasable when you work on a product. That being said, knowing how to code will give you an advantage in every job where you use your brain or can automate and optimize workflows.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:56 PM
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And you will get a database design worth of exactly 5 dollars. Web design for 10 dollars/hour? Have fun with unmaintainable code, security problems, no dev won't touch that piece of shit site under 150/hour just because it's a mess to work with.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:07 AM
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I disagree, if hes like 20 years old and has no skills in anyway what kind of value can he bring with his "own business". He should pick something he enjoys, grind his ass off in a cubicle and after a few years go entrepreneur. Nobody worth something is paying someone without any skills to do anything. Being a cubicle bitch can be quite relaxing too, different to entrepreneurship its 40h and youre done for the most part. I dont know a single entrepreneur whos successful without putting in 50-60 …
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:01 AM
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100 percent agree. If someone is that dedicated you either support them or you fuck right off imo. Pull some university girl whos biggest aspiration in life is to have a stable job and see how easy it is to pull her into your frame vs an olympic athlete
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:15 PM
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I didnt. I failed school because i was reckless and very uncontrollable as a teenager. I only learned skills that interested me. Later in life i learned that i couldnt live with the consequences of being of no worth on the job market. After that i busted my ass and made it into it where im living a good life for now. Thing is, just doing school would have been so much easier than having no formal education because companies mostly care about certificates. I was young and stupid and i had to work…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:35 AM
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Boxing. Its the easiest to get into, still hard to master. But you can change to muay thai after easily. Bjj wont help much in real scenarios because the last thing you want is to lay on the ground. In a 1n1 scenario yes its valid but you never know and you give up a lot of control trying to subdue 1 person if there could be a potential friend of him.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:32 AM
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You should study enough that the results are satisfying for you. The material wont interest you much, but you will soon learn that in real life outside of school you will have to do a lot of stuff you either dont care or just plain dont like. Its your responsibility and only you will face the consequences, so do whatever you can live with.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:26 AM
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It could be that, well... your friends... are like you know... lying? Maybe they are just incredibly smart. You can learn in 1 day to pass a test but you will get no value out of it. Long term memory doesnt care all that much about what you did for 1 day. Why do you even care? There will always be someone faster and probably some people learn 2 weeks and barely pass. They will look at you and ask themselves, why does OP only has to learn 1 week for a C but i have to learn 2 weeks for a D?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:11 AM
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Look for the right fit first. The standard size might be cutting of your blood supply and you will feel less even without going numb. There are testing packages with a flexible ruler to determin your size aswell as you trying every size out. I always wondered why i didnt feel anything with condoms. Thing is the standard size is just too tight for me even tho my girth is not in any way thicker than most dicks ive seen.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:18 PM
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As a male, search for another male therapist. Preferably someone who has coached ceos or entrepreneurs as a theraphist. Test how them how they view things. Even if therapgist wont admit it, the theraphy is often influenced by their underlying beliefs. If you want theraphy to get more successful, search for someone who belief in being successful as a goal. If you want get help with anxietx, panic attack etc. Search for cbt theraphists, referably male.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:17 PM
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READ THIS! Im mid 20's and this is the single best post you could read at your age. If you live by this youre set for a good life
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:33 AM
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Depending on what country you live in. Some European cosmetics products are under law not allowed to actually work because it would turn cosmetics into a medical product. So whatever cream you got with d3 complex ultra super smooth shit wont work. In most cosmetics and creams you can find the same shit. Yes some of it moisturizes but it wont make you look younger. Stay away from teeth whitening shit. Thats a whole nother ballgame. Teeth whitening works by basically grinding the surface of your e…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:38 PM
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Are you trolling? This dude is just a fuck up, ignore him. Your friends are not your friends. Most girls like different stuff. Lovey dovey shit, romantic shit, degrading shit etc. What all girls i had were into is to please me because they get satisfaction out of being good at sex. If you feel bored, change it up. Nobody should force you into having adventurous and nasty sex if you dont like it. Dont be a beta cuck and give people so much power over you. That this dude can even get you to post o…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 12:32 AM
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Dm is sent.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:07 PM
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I know, look wise i fall into top 10 still had a lot more success with other alternatives. Tinder just sucks ass tbh
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:30 PM
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Yes daily stretches for 1 hour help me. Staying out of the cold too. Good luck!
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:29 PM
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In my opinion tinder etc top 10 percent. Instagram is a top 1 percent game.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:52 PM
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Dude youre the one in high school, how tf is anybody gonna know here? Try it out.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:15 PM
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Chronic pain which makes it harder to keep frame. Being in constant pain and suffering makes a normal day into a hard day. Its related to my pelvic floor which makes sex painful sometimes. Tried a lot of things, nothing helps. Im glad my genetics got the other shit right tho.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:44 PM
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First of all, you should have made a throwaway for that since hes probably on here too. He needs to get rid of this anger. Tell him its hurting you and people he cares for. Being angry doesnt benefit him, you or anyone else. If thats his driving motivation in life he needs to introspect a lot more. most humans are mediocre and dont have the motivation to beat themselves up until they can build themselves new and better again. With most guys it stops at beating themselves up and throwing a tantru…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:25 PM
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She comes with some rando mf to smoke after 2 years which you dont know? Chief said thats a big nono
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:14 PM
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Bit more context please? How long are you into ltr? How does she know the guy? Did she ask you? How did she react when you said no? Etc. This is like asking, should i bulk or cutt without telling us your weight, height, bodyfat etc
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:35 PM
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Seems like you got yourself a boy thats on his way to growing up. Being angry, cant deal with someone upsetting him, emoty threats. Sounds like he needs some time to figure out if he really wants to continue down this path or not. Listening to rp podcast all day long is a waste of time. All of trp theory can be achieved in short chunks of 1 hour reading a week for 2 months. At least the general overview. Im not sure what his goal is here? Its not your responsibility to make him happy. If thats w…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:33 PM
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Breathe. Slow and focus on your breathing. Cumming is a physical thing as well as a mental thing. Enjoy it mentally but dont give in to too much pleasure right away. Control your breathing and relax your muscles in the ass and hips. Happens to the best of us. Just practice
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:55 PM
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This girl did you the biggest favor you could ever asked for! What would happen if shes up for being your fwb? You would get instant oneitis and you would want to marry her probably. Seek other experiences, report back after your 5th to 10th girl. Good luck and good job.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:14 PM
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No its not too late youre 28 and not 82. What really changed my perspective on interrupting was a saying like :" if youre always talking you have nothing to listen to except your own thoughts" Somehow this turned me off off interrupting because i like to be open to new ideas. Get yourself out after the pandemic, meet new people and tell them about it. Some people deal with it better if they know that its okay to call you out on interrupting instead of resenting you silently for it.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:38 PM
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How do you recover? If you want to salvage this in any way its gonna take some time. Building trust takes time especially if its broken. Considering you live there, just make sure that you apologize SOBER and dont overreact when they dont accept it. Be calm, friendly and suck it up. Make it sincere or dont even attempt to apologize. At least thats the plan if you want to salvage this. Did you lose frame? Im gonna be straight here. I dont know what frame youre talking about. You cant lose what yo…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:18 PM
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If you're genuinely concerned go for it. If you just think about getting into contact again for contacts sake and this is a good excuse for that, dont.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:02 PM
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Sign up for boxing, muay thai or bjj, after a few months youre going to sparr some guys. That will teach you humility faster than you think. When an experience guy weighting 20 pounds less than you fucks you up you will change your perspective about being arrogant.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:27 PM
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Just take care not do overdo it. Under 10% at your age could fuck with hormons. Youre 17, youre not even grown up biologically. In a matter of days for looks you could just water fast but it will fuck you up regardless. I would recommend spending those days not caring about that shit and fuck her anyways. But thats just my take on it.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:23 PM
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From my experience just hit her up. Keep it casual and fun. Dont think to much about it. If she wants to see you again she will answer and be happy about it. Depending on the situation the girl will reach out first but i like to be the active part in that dynamic.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:37 AM
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Now comes the step thats really hard but satisfying. Some stuff from trp doesnt work for me. Everyone is different smv wise, cultural differences, age wise. Take the stuff that works for you and keep the rest for times where youre stuck. Just try everything out and give it a shot. You could say that now the safety wheels of your bike are going to fall of and you will learn to ride. There is only so much reading can do.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:33 AM
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What it means is boring as in you dont make new experiences. For example youre a workaholic and youre grinding 60 hours a week and you go lifting everyday. Your ltr asks what did you do this week? Your answer, i worked, i lifted. This goes on for a few months and you dont experience something new, in turn your girl sees that your life consists of two things, work and lift. Its boring af. Its better than not doing anything but its still boring. Edit: lifting is a necessity, not a hobby for me. Ho…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:27 AM
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What rules? Make your own rules, whatever you want to do, whatever you want to risk. Personally i would never cheat. If she doesnt satisfy my needs shes not ltr material for me. Plus i wouldnt want to risk my reputation.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:07 PM
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That happens man. If you think its because stress, let her give you a massage before. Helps to calm the mind. I dont have adhd so i dont know if this would be a thing that helps in that case. Just not attracted - > get someone else. Stay hard brother
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:10 PM
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Yes try better sized condoms. Im dont have a humongus dick but a bit above average and normal sized condoms cut off my blood supply and i start to feel almost nothing after a short while. Next time tell her she to wear some dessous or stockings or whatever you like. If youre not attracted when shes at her sexiest for you maybe you dont like the way she looks enough. Internally on a side note, it could be that you have some stress and cant empty your mind, does something else bother you a lot?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:38 PM
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Women dont care about lyrics. There is a big point being made about how most really good rappers with amazing lyrics are just known by men. I remember a study i read a few years ago about how to rythmn and melody activates more brain regions in a woman, different to men who respond more to the context of a song. (cant link it, so take it with a grain of salt) From personal experience tho i can say that most girls can't remember what the song is about and just dont care. Its about a feeling. For …
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:49 PM
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So prioritize, i still got my main plate even tho were going in lockdown soon. If you dont want to risk it, just dont see anyone. I cant tell you if sex is more important for you than not possible getting covid. Thats on you.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:01 PM
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Go through plates and ask one of them to be your covid buddy. Means, be exclusive while covid without being ltr.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:05 PM
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Even if its a rare occurence, why risk it. Flirt with her, play with her, go home with another chick tho. One of my best friends got jumped because of this shit. Lucky for him no lasting damage.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:08 PM
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I am mid twenties. But i agree with you
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:00 PM
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It might have to do with powerful man being sociopaths in general. Which is why they chose such a wife even before they went for success.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:28 PM
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Yes, enjoy yourself while you do it. Nothing good about being stressed over it.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:29 PM
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I thought most people here, especially ogs know their shit. I dont agree with a lot of rational male because even if the biology doesnt change, the game changes. For example iron rule :"NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. " A rule for this time should be:"dont get married. Only move into her place so you can leave anytime without your name written in a contract." Another example: "NEVER, under pain of death, honest…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:23 PM
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Dont, come on now, what is this shit? If her bf is a doormat she will maybe cheat on him. If he finds out who she cheated with hes gonna get you in trouble. Its just stupid to game girls who are in a ltr. There is so much free pussy in this world and you ask this shit. Let me guess, you got your eye out for a special girl and youre not asking in general. If she is a good fuck and good ltr she wont cheat. If shes a good fuck but a bad partner she probably will cheat. Its a losing battle, getting …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:07 PM
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when the law is changed to suit a "crisis" it is never changed back afterwards That is simply not true. Even laws in medieval times and curfews while the plague hit them got changed. Laws are changing every day.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:39 AM
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Why... Dont you just try it out? Nobody is knowing your real self over here. Try it your way, if it works continue, if not recalibrate your approach to the problem.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:15 PM
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Alright, thank you a lot.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:38 PM
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Depending on how bad you cut your foot this a dealbreaker. If she cant deal with breaking frame in such an enviroment and in that situation shes just useless as a partner. Ask yourself, if you would break both your arms, would she wipe your ass for 2 weeks? Well, at least in her vacation she wouldnt. Find someone you can trust in emergencies, else you cant even travel with them. There is a reason men went out hunting as a group, if she cant fill that seat temporarily shes not ltr material.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:17 PM
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If your voice is monotone try singing or rapping. Giving a different range of tones while you speak will come naturally after a time. If not, train with watching interviews and see when people raise their voice or lower it. Stretch yourself, work on your breathing to make your body more relaxed. Smile more, bros smile, bros like things, bros like people. To the point of awkwardness, was it really akward? Did the others feel the same? Why did you feel akward? What would help you feel less akward?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:10 PM
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The world is going to shit. You dont know the time of the breaking point. And youre just a lump of meat with complex emotional states. So, lets say youre 30. You got 50 years left. Whats the rational decision to make? Jerking off, sitting on your laptop and whining? I dont think so. If you describe happiness as just some chemicals in your brain, you could say the same about your perspective of a decline. Its just a stupid chemical. Trp wont make you happy. Enjoy the decline is a stupid mantra tb…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:02 PM
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Links dead. What was it about?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:36 PM
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I almost never phone with ltr's. I tell them if something is really fucking important call me. Examples: a death in social circle, getting kicked out of apartment, losing job, having a breakdown or simple having a problem that can be solved by a single call like needing advice on something instantly. I will always pick up. No girl tried to take advantage of that yet. Last ltr was 3 years and we phoned about 10 times and it has always been an important call. For everything else they can text me, …
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:09 PM
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Your title is a rhetoric question. Obviously most are here because they dealt w a girl they shouldnt fucked with in the first place.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:04 PM
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Well you learned a lesson for life for the cheap price of a harddrive. Its better you fuck up with a plate like this than a guy that would smash your head in. Whats the fun in just being an asshole bragging about it. Work on your ego, you sound like the adhd kid from school everyone hates.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:02 AM
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The only thing you should care about a plate fucking others is that shes using a condom. You dont want the std ridden cum of her other dude. Everything else is fair game.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:54 AM
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Pull yourself out. Go on a fun friendly date with a female friend. You will see that you can have fun with other girls too. Wake up, meditate 5 mins, cold shower and get after it. I think you're just bored and your gf gives you free validation and attention. Do things without her.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:51 AM
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Gotta say, if you only know someone for about a minute i wouldnt know if we have much in common or not. Do you approach because you can or because its a fun thing to do? I personally have troubles when i feel like i need to approach. When im just spontaneous and feel like hitting up a girl it works a lot better. I find most things interesting so im quite easily entertained when someone talks about jobs, personal things, the city were in... Whatever. Im interested in people so i very rarely get b…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:59 PM
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If it was disrespectful for you i can understand that it bothered you. Im actually quite sure that she didnt even think about it twice until you mentioned it. As long as she doesnt do it out of spite or ill intentions i would just forget about it if it only happened once. She now knows youre uncomfortable with that behaviour she will either comply or not. Maybe work on not taking things so personal. I feel disrespected quute easily and its not a trait thats very helpful in my life.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:14 PM
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Its a fuck up. But it happened. I would just ignore it, dont make a big thing out of it. Why does it bother you so much? Is it the fear of her jumping on a new guy or is it that youre feeling disrespected, hurt ego etc.? If you find out why it bothers you so much, you will find out how you stop it from bothering you.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:00 PM
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You dont sound like you have taken even a look at the site bar. You overthink this really hard. Dont have a place? Go to their place. I dont let girls into my home if i dont know them for a few dates already and i prefer to just go instead of having them in my flat not knowing what to do because i got shit to take care of. Youre in an open relationship? You can be upfront with them but only if your rapport is good enough. Youre basically telling them, were here to fuck and there isnt even a fant…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:48 PM
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Agreed. I like to wear a silver ring for example, it has its meaning too but i like the style with the right watch or bracelet.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:36 PM
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Dont do it. Even if it fits, its a permanent scar you get to live with getting older. Peacocking at its peak. Rather work out or get some accesoires like rings or bracelets of youre into that kind of thing
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:52 PM
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J cole, mystery skulls, archspire etc. Every genre but i dislike bp lyrics
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:52 AM
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Alright that sounds good! I never meant you should hide it, your intentions should be clear and true, your post just read a bit pushy. Which i thank you for clarifying. Looks do matter but did you fuck her or the 190 bodybuilder dude on tinder that she swiped left because you could tell all he cares about is his stupid 8 pack because he aint got much else going for him. For taking it slow, im 180, my face is incredibly attractive and still i get a "taking it slow" sometimes. Some things never ch…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:58 PM
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Whats your age? You seem to care a tad too much about busting a nut. I know the feeling of just getting a fix but girls sense that shit. You shoukd work on "date feels like a gamble and waste of time". Brother, i enjoy the company of beautiful girls, dating them talking to them and fucking them. If youre only entertained by sex you should introspect and reflect or go to hookers to clear your head. Women outplay us in social settings, they know you just want sex. Which is alright for one time but…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:49 PM
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What mostass says. I agree.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 05:54 PM
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Why did the one girl need a break from fucking? Since i dont know you i can only guess from your post that you are too pushy. Dont write them the next day setting something up. Let them write you or wait a few days. Give a bit more comfort. Good sex is easy to get as a girl. Meeting a really interesting guy is hard af. Most guys are boring but the dick is still good. Give them a bit more comfort and dont come off so needy. Youre searching for something, and if even i can tell by your post, im su…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 05:15 PM
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Worst case she flakes and wastes your time in the process. So just hit her up if you think its worth your effort. If no k close after 2nd date move on.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:20 PM
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Its been 2 weeks. Ofc youre gonna still feel tge marks of being in a ltr for a time to come. Exoerience something new, maybe take a new course in something youre interested in. Increase your social circle.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:36 PM
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Nighttime for intimate dates as in getting drinks, cooking together, wine tasting etc. Daytime for active dates, rock climbing, running, swimming, boat trip etc.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:33 PM
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Dont take this personally but you still sound like the nerdy boy from highschool. Why dont you show her that youve grown up and are on a way to become a man. See it as a rite of passage, leave the boy at home and present to her a strong man. No need to be nervous, calm yourself
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:40 AM
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You pressure flip by really not caring about the outcome. In the beginning this will fail. As you grow your experience you will be doing fine. Calibrating into social interactions can be hard at first, just keep doing it. If its not what you say it can be how you say it. Observe your body language, maybe you show signs of insecurity. If you do - body makes mind. Work on that. Good luck brother
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:34 PM
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