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2	How do you remove neediness from your life? Yeah, I can definitely understand the frustration when plans fall through. It's really a great opportunity to practice outcome independence in everyday life though. When plans fall through for me and I'm frustrated, I'm just like "Hey wait a minute--I'm one of the coolest people I know and I do all kinds of cool shit by myself all the time! Alright, time to go be awesome." Either that, or I just call up a different group of friends. Or both.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 07:33 PM
25	How do you remove neediness from your life? This is going to seem backwards at first, but bear with me here: I'm naturally an introvert, so I gain my "energy" from being alone and doing stuff by myself. I've actually had to tackle your problem in reverse--how do I get myself to feel okay going out every night and spending time with people? It's exhausting to me and can get expensive at times. It boils down to the same problem though--how do I get out of my element? The key for me was learning to be proud of who I am. Over the past several…	/r/seduction	22/04/13 06:26 AM