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We all need to go to the contact us section on that website and demand this be removed.
/r/MensRights19/02/12 12:20 AM
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well, you're on the right track
/r/seduction10/01/12 04:13 AM
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We need to get this out into more places. Where else can we post it?
/r/MensRights30/12/11 02:17 AM
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mind if I PM you with some thoughts?
/r/MensRights19/11/11 08:35 PM
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Also, men are very visual when it comes to sexual arousal. If he is in a struggle he has elevated adrenaline, if the woman is at all showing her body, that coupled with the adrenaline will cause an erection which he does not want to have.
/r/MensRights19/11/11 02:45 PM
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WcJessen said it best in this comment. You have to love that argument. How is it different to say, "Well she got wet, so she must have enjoyed it!"..?
/r/MensRights19/11/11 02:43 PM
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It's amazing that people actually believe men cannot physically be raped.
/r/MensRights19/11/11 01:47 PM
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There is no excuse for this! If a mens only room existed then it would be called sexism!
/r/MensRights15/11/11 01:59 AM
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Well I met her in 2001. We got married 4 years later. During the 4 year dating period I thought she might be slightly off but she never did anything serious enough (from my perspective) to make me think she was insane. She's very good at playing the victim and I was in love and the deception worked as a result. After we got married things just went down hill month by month. I had no idea how bad off she was until I lived with her. Now I advocate living with someone before you marry them 100%. As…
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:52 PM
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Yeah, the whole thing is disheartening. But I've got hope. I'm fighting it with everything I've got.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:45 PM
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The DV charge was dropped back in April. I can't imagine what the issue is now.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:29 PM
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how is your fiance doing now?
/r/MensRights07/11/11 07:20 AM
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I'm very glad you posted, its extremely refreshing to know there are decent women out there who aren't going to take advantage of men because society will allow it. thank you :)
/r/MensRights07/11/11 07:20 AM
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oh, I've left, I've been separated for nearly two years
/r/MensRights07/11/11 07:01 AM
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I removed my wedding ring a little more than a year ago.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:38 AM
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Yeah, I bought a guitar and I'm learning to play (I play several other instruments) That never would have flown while I was married. She would have destroyed the guitar because she would be jealous that it was taking my time away from her. I think this is a very healthy way to improve myself.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:22 AM
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I'm glad you got out of it early. It was a 5 year ordeal for me. I was married when I was 21 and I'm 28 now.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 02:21 AM
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Yeah that exactly happened to me. I'd get fed up and stand up for myself and do something like go out with my friends (which only happened a few times a year) and when I got home there would be hell to pay. It is also worth mentioning that I had to get permission first to go out. And when I got home she'd commence yelling at me about how I don't love her because I wasn't there that evening and she'd start hitting me or throwing dishes at me. And if I tried to push her off of my she said I was hu…
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:53 AM
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Yeah, one of the things that happened to me in my marriage is that I lost some sense of myself. I forgot what made me happy, etc... So right now I'm focusing on exactly that like you said, I forgot what an amazing person I have the ability to me.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:49 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:47 AM
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I have a good lawyer and I'm fighting it tooth and nail. It's only a matter of time before I win.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:44 AM
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I didn't need one. I was charged with domestic violence so there was a no contact court order. She doesn't speak to me or come around me at all now, so it isn't really necessary.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:39 AM
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Her parents has the kid, not her. The judge is being excessively difficult and I really don't understand what the hold up is.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:36 AM
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I'm going on close to two years now. I feel like I'm nearly out of the woods. I couldn't talk about it for the longest time, let alone on a public forum. I think it's healthy for me to get it out in the open and hear what other peoples experiences have been.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 01:35 AM
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yeah, it worked out in my favor.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:54 AM
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Oh ok. Well I have trouble with women at the moment. I can't really trust them now. They all appear to be liars to me, I know that's not true and it's just a symptom of the mess I've had to deal with. I'm trying to work past that so I can have healthy relationships in the future. Other than that I'm quite stable. The suicidal thoughts are gone and the depression and anxiety are under control. I had PTSD flashbacks for about a year, I still have some on RARE occasions that don't last long. I'm do…
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:45 AM
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I'm living with my parents and trying to dig out of a pile of financial problems my ex left me with (on top of the abuse). What else would you like to know?
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:38 AM
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No, I'm still fighting for that. The maternal grandparents sued for "emergency temporary custody" and she's still with them even after all this time. It's absolutely ridiculous. I'm still having to fight that battle and it's getting very old.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:17 AM
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We received no money from her parents. They'd get us gifts every now and then. We both come from middle class families so no real big money or anything just normal income. As far as leaving her, that's the thing about emotional abuse, whereas it's ALWAYS possible to leave someone, it's not always the thing you think you can do. Sometimes you feel like that the abuse is normal, or you're abused because something is wrong with you and you deserve it and no one else would have you anyway.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:06 AM
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She has bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. The straw that broke the camels back with that was postpartum depression. It took 13 months to have my DV charges dropped due to lack of evidence and the fact that the only witness besides myself (my exwife) was declared incompetent by the state.
/r/MensRights07/11/11 12:04 AM
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I live in Alabama, USA. I went to therapy with a psychiatrist as well as a talk therapist (I'm still going and it's been nearly two years since the incident) I was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and PTSD. I didn't need the DV support services because I had my therapists and a very strong family and friend support group, I could NOT have made it without them, I would have probably killed myself. My charges were dropped due to lack of evidence and the fact that the state declared my ex-wife in…
/r/MensRights06/11/11 11:40 PM
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Pretty much. I mean I'm significantly larger than she is and trained in martial arts. IF She HAD been a victim of domestic violence there would have been undeniable proof of it. As it stood there were no marks on her and strangle marks on my neck.
/r/MensRights06/11/11 10:47 PM
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She was charged with first degree arson (she got off because she is mentally unstable). I had locked myself and my 6month old daughter in the bedroom while she was destroying the house and she set the house on fire. As far as what kind of abuse. She would throw dishes at me, she tried to shoot me a couple times, she tried to stab me (martial arts taught me how to take knives from people without either person getting hurt) she wouldn't allow me to be myself, anything I liked or wanted to do for m…
/r/MensRights06/11/11 10:40 PM
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