ferimoq Archive

TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How did you fix your inner game. Yea that’s the gist - get away from ‘I want this to work’ to ‘I’m here to have fun’. And bringing the fun = getting chicks. Guys get weird when they’re too focused on outcome. They stop being as fun, it’s performative, pretending to be another person and so on. It’s great you’ve experienced this personally and can relate cuz this is what it really is.	/r/seduction	17/12/25 08:09 PM
2	How did you fix your inner game. Sure, Step 1 - do fake approaches by scanning the crowd, consciously IDing fuckable chicks (not hot ones but one's you'd honestly fuck), then when you find one, immediately go up like you're going to approach her, but you don't ever actually open her. - Whether you take 3 steps in her direction or up til your nearly running into her, its up to you. But the idea is you see an opportunity, you take action, there's no over thinking because you're not gonna say anything. - This is like mystery's 3se…	/r/seduction	16/12/25 07:14 PM
2	dating introverts and dead air If she's quiet/shy and she wants another date with you, that's a super sign of interest. Chicks like this need time to warmup before they open up, so normal social energy reading them is tough. So you gotta use your brain a little bit. - shy chicks are not scared to completely reject someone - if you've ever approached a shy girl, they will literally run away or go 'no thanks', etc, and they have extremely low social tolerance/bandwidth. Like you can't be too much for them or its over whereas no…	/r/seduction	16/12/25 12:32 AM
3	How did you fix your inner game. Inner game is 2 distinct things. - One is letting yourself be tested and overcoming it to build your frame. - The other is recognizing limiting beliefs and breaking them. You don't actually try to build a relationship with yourself, just a better understanding of how internally process things. Cuz most of us grew up on survival mode, we're not setup right to do pickup, so inner game is needed to make optimal adjustments to mindset, processes, and energy. So the person above is working on their i…	/r/seduction	16/12/25 12:14 AM
2	How did you fix your inner game. Your issue isn't really inner game, because you can approach without inner game. Your issue is you don't have a process. You're probably someone who leans on their gut for their social skills, but at the same time cold approaching is gut wrenching, which you use as a gauge of what to do socially. Since most of the time you'll get some kind of anxiety, then you freeze and give up. Cold approaching in its nature is a proactive behavior that goes against social norms, so you can't lean on your exis…	/r/seduction	16/12/25 12:09 AM

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter