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I agree on that slow game if it is somewhere i frequent like at work or the gym But if it is at the grocery store or the mall i have to ask for the number at the end regardless if i started the conversation with something that is going on around us or not which will still make it obvious that i am trying to aquire her
/r/seduction23/04/25 04:41 AM
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I tried cold approaching too but it didnt work for me either only one time i used the “direct” approach and told the girl excuse me i found them attractive and would like to get to know them/ask for their number but later that week my friend and i discovered we were both texting the same girl so we both cut her off she did seem highly interested but that was a dealbreaker sadly
/r/seduction22/04/25 09:04 PM
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The problem is i work in construction(only men there) get home from work at 7pm head to the gym at 8pm nd get out the gym by 10-11pm and its time to go to sleep. Realistically The only place i can shoot my shot is in the gym and i dont got time to go to the bar where they are more open to being approached. Im confident enough to shoot my shot at the gym but every girl seems to have a guy theyr talking to already so its like i have no choice but to share a girl with another guy or else stay alone…
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:31 PM
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I was at the gym stretching and i looked up and a girl looked away fast im not sure how long she was staring before, but After that i crossed paths with her and she a avoided eye contact how do you know when it was a accidental look or one with interest
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:14 PM
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What happened? Did you ever shoot your shot?
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:07 PM
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You do cold approach? I work in construction im always busy with work all day long so realistically the gym is the only place i can meet someone unless i do cold approach on Sunday at the mall or store when im out but i haven’t really had much success with cold approach outside of the bar
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:09 PM
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Thats why you have to start by casually asking something and gauge her interest before turning it up a notch
/r/seduction18/04/25 01:05 AM
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In the gym maybe get on the machine next to her or close by and then when the guy leaves to the bathroom or something you just pretend you have a question about the workout before switching it to asking personal questions if she is new here, ive never noticed you how long she been here etc. thats what i will try to do. If she is not being super receptive Avoid calling her cute or how you feel on the first conversation i noticed it puts pressure on them having to make a decision on the spot. stay…
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:42 PM
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Fine i will still give it a try (i will go with indirect approach) but honestly i just Don’t feel the same level of attraction anymore and dont want to be competing with another guy for the same girl at the same gym. I feel like she was sending signs tho as i caught her looking from afar(she turned around fast asf when we locked eyes) so i went to her vicinity i gave her the up and down look on purpose as we crossed paths but she kept looking straight but after that she walked infront of me in t…
/r/seduction15/04/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah you should still try in your case. im gonna try too when i catch her alone, you got this man🤝
/r/seduction15/04/25 04:06 PM
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Its not about the joke but how receptive she was to the guy. it also seemed like she had came with him to the gym and i think they left together too
/r/seduction15/04/25 04:05 PM
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The same exact scenario happened to me but i decided not to approach anymore because i seen her laughing at all his jokes and being extra friendly 💀 besides i was already talking to another one at the same gym that was being friendly to me first thats why I hesitated to approach my gym crush at first because she was next to her i didn’t want to make it weird and then i seen her with a guy days later. I did catch her looking at me and she looked away quick
/r/seduction15/04/25 07:54 AM
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Hey what is your opinion on the good morning text on the 2nd day of texting? i always secure the phone number or ig 1st after matching to take the interaction further & then after that my goal is to set up a date but they always seem to want to chat for a while before meeting. I FaceTimed a chick last night for 30 min and she wants to hangout later today. Btw I used your “our date method” after talking about her interest in photography & then the other “barrier” method by telling her i’d be to f…
/r/seduction23/02/25 06:04 PM
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Can you post screenshots of the actual chats so i can use the blueprint
/r/seduction23/02/25 04:25 AM
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Yeah man I’m getting ready to uninstall the apps and stick to in person approaching. i just couldn’t find success in the apps. Even my friend that gets laid on the apps consistently I handed him my phone and let him text the girl it still went nowhere i did get a date but the girl was closed off the whole date it just felt like a interview so i didn’t even text her after for a 2nd. i think in person approaches is just more effective and makes you more confident despite the failures and actually …
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:34 PM
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Interesting i remember i used to sway my shoulders on purpose as i walked and this guy in my college class used to hate because his girl would always try to sit besides me and made it seem like i was the one that was trying to take his girl
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:57 AM
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Send nudes🥺
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:59 PM
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I’d take her to a bar at night to dance or a lounge you cant escalate at the museum you have to make it more romantic or seductive and always push for the close that is what nice guys mess up at they dont push for the close because they want to be respectful and fear pissing the girl off
/r/seduction21/05/24 06:48 PM
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I started off with baby steps. Ask a guy for directions then the next day ask a girl for directions. After that I asked a lady at campus for directions to a class and then told her I knew where it was I just thought she was cute and asked for her number. She laughed so hard i made her day but she had a man and it felt good so I proceeded to make an approach right after that and got a girls number. She ended up flaking though but I still felt good
/r/seduction15/05/24 11:46 PM
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I feel like cold approach is good to get your confidence up though and make you comfortable enough to make friends casually after that and not act all nervous
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:18 PM
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Never tell a women your problems man my older brother had a girl almost in the bag and she friendzoned him after he opened up and he told her he was going to therapy and the therapist happend to be the girls friend
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:02 AM
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I guess that time it was all luck or maybe I was her type the rest of cases it took days of talking and whatnot but the ones that took long were outside of the club/bar and were like at school work gym etc but also I took longer to show intent in those cases it was gradual
/r/seduction06/05/24 12:53 AM
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I once brought a girl over from the bar i got her number after 10 mins of convo and she called me later that night
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:42 PM
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Just hit the gym and diet man soon enough you will start to get choosing signals from girls and those girls will make it super easy for you. Also i dont know what your approach is but i noticed that in places where you frequent like the gym it is a slower process you must break the ice and build raport before throwing your interest level out there. If you are at the bar then ues you can display intent right away
/r/seduction27/04/24 12:57 AM
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Im not looking for excuse to quit im just saying if he fumbled over 15 shots then there must be something special because i only was able to fumble like 7 in my 2 years of college
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:37 AM
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I was at the bar with my brother at 2am and i approached a girl who was with her friend. We clicked right away and were flirting with each other for about 10 minutes and danced together i got her number and left. She called me at 4am asking where is stayed at because her and he friend had a bottle but i was living with my 3 sleeping brothers and had no place to take her she stopped responding after i told her I hod no spot i could go to hers
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:26 AM
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Are you over 6’?
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:18 AM
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Can you give me the guide bro i live in las vegas
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:34 AM
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I’d take the L and pay atleast half you shoulda face timed her bro. though i am kinda on your side that she shouldn’t have catfished and wouldn’t blame you for not paying but thats just me
/r/seduction24/03/24 11:36 PM
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Yup you just explained my mom
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:54 AM
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There is only 2 ways to do it. 1: let her see you hanging with a girl hotter than her. 2: hit the gym and upgrade your looks.
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:05 AM
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My brother and i went to the mexican bar/club & separated at the club while he went up to some Latina blonde girls alone on one side I went up to some other girls on the opposite side of the room alone. I just asked a really hot girl that was standing with her other really hot friend “where are you from?” She was very receptive since the start being friendly/asking questions back & the conversation started from there. After that I just focused on the quality of the conversation itself & tried to…
/r/seduction11/02/24 12:40 PM
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Yes and also you must pit personal imput or personal experiences when she is saying a story that way you have something in common and it comes off to then as “good chemistry”
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:22 AM
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But she has to have atleast 70% interest to get her talking about herself otherwise anything lower than that attraction % and you are a creep that only wants one thing
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:21 AM
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The anti-seductor chapter is the one you should focus on for now man there are 8 different types of anti seductors and you can find which one your are and you can then put the spotlight on your errors and focus on changing those traits
/r/seduction03/01/24 12:07 AM
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