ferrarifan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
65	The Sword is mightier than the Pen. Don't let anyone fool you, communication isn't always effective.	Red Pill Theory	ferrarifan	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 04:52 PM
23	Cringing at the past.	Rant/Venting	ferrarifan	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/17 07:17 AM

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1	Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girl If you don't find her attractive and are having sex with here because you think you can't do better/that no else will have sex with you, yes that's bad. If not, fuck it. My first hookup in college was a pretty chubby chick. Do no regret it one bit, best sex I've ever had by far. Not only enthusiastic in bed, but super mature and chill about it outside of bed too.	/r/seduction	02/11/17 02:46 AM
4	Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it. I asked many girls in my social circle and most of them said he was ugly, and only one said he was "OK". Who are we as straight males to disagree? ... because we're objective? The entire point of this sub is to disagree with mainstream notions of relationship dynamics, attractiveness, the dating market, sexual strategy, morality and other things. The girls in your social circle probably wouldn't hesitate to jump on Dan's dick. I'm not one of his fanboys/followers, but the dude obviously has stat…	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/17 07:34 PM
1	First man to man conversation with my Dad, and he gives me this shit.. The manosphere is a great tool in general. My dad was an all-around great guy, and so was my mom. Traditional roles, didn't take shit, taught me invaluable life lessons to me and my brothers. But because I was an angsty slightly-depressed teenager, I secluded myself. Thankfully, the manosphere and TRP was there to patch up the parts my dad was unable to teach me.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/17 04:23 AM
1	My accidental use of Dread Game on my ex I always found it funny that mainstream pop culture has so many characters and figures that are red pilled, yet people are still so blind to the truth. How many emotionally aloof good-looking narcissists are there in movies, books, tv shows, etc.? I wonder if these producers and writers are redpilled themselves or if they unintentionally create these asshole characters who get all the women at the end. Either way, it's almost always an accurate reflection of real life.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/17 01:08 PM
3	When Confronted About TRP When a girl confronts you about it she's more than likely curious and interested. So true. There are two types of women who will call you a sexist manslut. The ones who are interested in you, and the ones who are projecting because they're probably too fat to be interested in you. With the former, a little bit of teasing and escalation will do. With the latter, I just fuck with them.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/17 06:18 AM
–	Don't be afraid to call out feminists, you'll still get laid. I'd like to mention law 38 of the 48 rules of power: "Think as you like, but behave like others." Good point. But remember that law 38 doesn't apply for shit tests. You need to act the opposite of expected when someone is testing you. In OP's situation, whoever asked that question just wanted to see what everyone would respond. A group shit test if you will. A situation where the subtle approach would be appropriate, would be in a professional setting perhaps. I'd rather get along with my co-wor…	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 01:55 AM
–	Don't be afraid to call out feminists, you'll still get laid. Women don't give a fuck about your beliefs if they're attracted to you. It's kind of stupid, but one thing I got to scratch off my bucket list was making out with a liberal/feminist girl while wearing my trump hat at a costume party.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 01:47 AM
3	Sex with an Ex that cheated on me. Am I being a fucking idiot or am I just playing a game with her? So there's a part of me that feels like I'm being a fucking idiot for even giving her the time of day. You're assuming she thinks like a man. Remember, sex is a resource that women dispense to men. Time/exclusivity is a resource (high-value) men give to women. She's giving you something of value, but you're not. Men giving sex doesn't mean much to women. You would be giving her "time of day" if you actually had feelings for her, went on dates, talked about your feelings, etc. She's trying to att…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 09:29 PM
–	TRP application in high school I think it'd affect how open girls would be with dating me if they know I'd stop dating them in a few months Too logical. As long as you're not seen as the "problem" who caused all of the breakups (i.e. you play it cool, she's the one who lost her shit), your reputation won't be ruined. In fact, it might make you look more mature. "He's dating in HS? There must be something about him..." Although, all High-Schools are different, so take my advice with a grain of salt. I studied at 5 different sc…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 11:40 PM
–	TRP application in high school I had a horrible experience pursuing a LTR in high school. Funnily enough, it was only good during winter and summer breaks. We broke up the week she started school again. There's just something about high school that makes women extremely toxic. Most of my friends and people I knew didn't have a much better time either. You would need to find a really cool and reasonable chick who's fun to be around and doesn't create drama out of nowhere in order to enjoy an LTR, even if it's "fake". I'd recom…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 09:23 AM
–	TRP application in high school What I did was not see any of them more than once a week, only text to make plans, keep frame, etc. You're implying non-exclusivity the correct way (I assume, I'm not actually there to see you do it). The problem isn't how you're doing it. The problem is High School. I got a few dates, but recently it blew up in my face, as multiple girls found out that I was trying to plate other girls. High School is a very "closed" environment. High schools tend to average less than 1,000 students total. Mayb…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 01:31 AM
–	I thought I was ready... Are you me? In my case, what hurt the most is that I always considered myself somewhat "redpilled". Disciplined, fit, didn't care for other people's approval, put myself on a pedestal, and most of all, I had abundance mentality. Yet, my first serious girlfriend left me fucking devastated and humiliated when she dumped me, twice. I never thought I'd let myself reach such a low point in my life because of someone else. Most of the girls I got with before her had approached me too, and you're right…	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/17 02:10 AM
1	Why does it seem like the ultimate example of an "alpha male" would be a violent sociopath? It can be abused (very abused), but most people know exactly what they're getting into. Yeah, this has been my experience. I've had girls tell me that they feel like I'm using them and don't give a shit about them, but they came to me anyway. Although I was never an actual asshole. I never cheated on anyone or led them on, I simply never committed. So yeah it can probably be abused, although I don't know about that, again I was never a real RP so I'm not sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/16 07:59 PM
1	Why does it seem like the ultimate example of an "alpha male" would be a violent sociopath? how do you fill the massive fucking void in your heart? Because you can turn it off and on. I was never a full RP, but I did go through a little stoic alpha phase. I simply acted a certain way in front of my fuckbuddys, but another way in front of my friends or family. I never made my life about dread game or masculinity, but I was ready to deploy that whenever I needed or wanted to. To be honest, it wasn't as void as you'd expect. It was actually kind of thrilling and fun at first. It wasn't re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/16 05:00 PM
2	Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon? This is like if a straight guy flirted with gay guys to get a leg up, its not really a thing. I've done this often as a straight guy. I'm sure some people don't do it but hey, I'm not disgusted at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/16 04:08 PM
1	To my friend, Mike, who I anonymously sent this sub to. Majority of the people here, and any other game/PUA community, do know about it. But 1) TRP isn't strictly about game. It's a lot about relationships and how to live your life or whatever. 2) A lot of the posts are bullshit. 3) The posts that are not bullshit are already covered here. Usually in a more direct manner without the TRP writing style.	/r/seduction	25/07/16 01:02 AM
2	To my friend, Mike, who I anonymously sent this sub to. I would recommend self help books like how to make friends and influence people TL;DR: Eye contact and refer to people by their name.	/r/seduction	25/07/16 12:59 AM
1	[CMV] TRP and it's members display classic cult behavior. It's not a cult. It's a circlejerk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 06:05 AM
1	are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes? What do you think we've been debating here? Morals. But seriously, you guys aren't debating just what is correct and what isn't. A lot of these post are rhetorical, discussing what is fair, discussing standards, debating "why" something works rather than "if" it does. Actually, thinking about it, a good part of this sub is really discussing morals. Are morals collective?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 06:03 AM
1	Outside of sexual strategy, aren't generalizations pretty unfair? It's unfair to others to generalize. But it's beneficial to yourself to generalize. Guess which one matters more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 06:00 AM
1	are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes? Trying something new, the andrenaline Rush/fun/pleasure, or just crossing something off your bucket list. I can just leave my house or use tinder and within a few hours fuck a girl that's as hot as a 500$ hooker for free? What tinder are you using that the girls are as hot as 500 dollar hookers? And kudos to you for having amazing sex with beautiful people whenever you want just by walking out your door. Not every guy is in the top 1% though. Do you live in a big city by any chance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 05:43 AM
1	are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes? If RP was incorrect, it wouldn't have gotten the traction it has. I can't speak for you, but from what I've seen, most BPs hate TRP because of moral issues alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 05:30 AM
1	TRP and any derivative from it are deluded and lack a comprehensive understanding of basic gender dynamics. Genetics will only help you get your foot in the door, the rest is character. Yes you can get hookups with looks alone. But you can also do it with charisma. Yes you can get relationships with looks alone. But if aesthetics is the foundation of your relationship, it will fail. The only reason why you think "Genetics > > > all" is because you don't have to work to have good genes. And young people tend to be superificial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 03:14 AM
2	Is there any benefit to spreading TRP to you? You can't force TRP on anyone. And you can't force betas to become alpha. But you can give them a different perspective on life and let them go from there. I do not mean to sound like a bitter MRA, but the truth is that we are living in an extremely women-centric world. Just take a look at /r/relationships to see how much society actually cares about mens' standards. So I'm kind of thankful that there are some outlets like TRP (obviously you don't have to participate in the misogyny part). Techn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 03:09 AM
1	are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes? Some probably are. Contrary to popular BP belief, sexual past matters. A guy sleeping with a prostitue is generally seen as "bad". Even worse if he lost his virginity to a prostitute. I don't blame women for not wanting a guy that has visited a prostitute, nor do I call them insecure/protitute-shamers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 03:00 AM
1	[Question for Red Pill] Is AFBB done on purpose? Maybe it depends on case to case. Maybe some women do it consciously and on purpose. Maybe some women just have that "I better play safe" instinct. Whatever, they're only hurting themselves (and their partner). She will eventually get bored and unhappy, and the poor guy will be settled for and unhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/16 02:49 AM
1	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? Taking advantage of orbiters isn't illegal as far as I know. And it obviously works, so... Again, morals are subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 02:05 PM
3	/r/TRP is too black and white It is black and white. But it's also a numbers game. Do you think PUA or The Rules work on everyone? Nope. There are plenty of women who don't fall for PUA like plenty of men don't fall for the rules. Do enough women and men fall for those tactics so that whoever is using them believes that it works? Yes. Do all black people commit crimes? Nope. Do enough black people commit crimes so that stereotypes become accepted by the majority? Yes. Are all Asian women bad at driving? Nope. Do enough Asian…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 02:36 AM
6	/r/TRP is too black and white That is correct. I would actually go a step beyond and say that RPs are hypocrites as well. If some other guy gets manipulated by a woman he's a beta cuckold, but for ex-beta's gone red, it was society's fault that they were like that (usually has something to do with how their mother raised them). But on the other hand, TBP does the exact same thing. It's never the woman's fault for getting into a relationship with a "shitty, manipulative, douchebag" RPer who will dread game her. It's men's fau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 02:27 AM
1	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? You can call it manipulation if you want to, or influence, or coercion. It doesn't really matter, the fact of the matter is that RP tactics require you to purposely do X to get outcome Y, most people refer to that as manipulation. I agree with you in the sense that some people do X naturally, as opposed to RPs who do it consciously, but I don't think that changes anything, it's still manipulation (or whatever you want to call it). The most famous example that this sub loves to discuss is dread-g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 02:17 AM
3	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? So the difference is based on intentions? Subjective morals all over again...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 02:09 AM
1	Q4Men: If you absolutely had to, which woman would you choose for a LTR? Option B. I'll stay in the relationship for the perks, but I won't emotionally commit. Funnily enough, I've had a relationship exactly like this. Except for the filthy rich part. You, however, cannot be unfaithful to her. If she catches a whiff that you've been with another girl, she'll kick you out so fast it'll make your head spin. She'll crucify you on social media as a cheating manwhore, too, and she's got a lot of influence on social media. Hypocrisy? Too bad. Only if I get caught right? Co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:57 AM
1	All pills Discuss: Couples with large differences in attractiveness Well, attraction is subjective, so you can be attractive to someone, but not be attractive to someone else. But the world isn't black and white, I know very well that you mean "attraction" on an objective level. The thing is that you have to consider other things besides just looks for these types of couples. The "ugly" partner is usually the one that compensates for their lack of aesthetic appeal. Be it with charisma, money, etc., they make up for it to the point that they have the same SMV as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:51 AM
0	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? This is the correct response to dread game and manipulation (for both genders). But insecure men & women will submit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:44 AM
2	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? Yea, men with their stupid having control of who they can flirt with. When will they grow up!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:43 AM
0	How is The Red Pill/seduction considered ''manipulation''? And what is the problem with that? She still has a choice, doesn't she? If you think that's shitty behavior, why do you care so much? If that truly is shitty behavior, it wouldn't work, and RPs would never get a girlfriend to comply. If it's shitty behavior and it works, then it's either not-shitty, or you just have a different set of morals. Serious question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:40 AM
1	CMV: TRP is caused by a crash collision between traditional values and liberal, modern society. If you're going by traditional values, anyone who is remotely "red-pill" is pretty much a degenerate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/16 01:32 AM
3	Q4believers in reddit cryptochristian atheist "morality", bp and rp I think they mean to the majority. Redditors cannot grasp the concept that morality isn't a collectivist trait. That's why every time a controversial issue/situation comes up, some comments always say "Doesn't matter what side you're on, I think we can all agree that X." It's as if they're trying to establish common ground.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/16 12:26 AM
-2	How important is sex, really? And why? ...and? I'm not even redpill, but the world isn't black and white, bro. Different standards for the different people. Not that I like it, but that's the way the world works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/16 10:38 PM
4	How important is sex, really? And why? How important is sex, really? Depends on person to person. And why? Because everyone has their own set of morals. I don't really get the rest of your post. Rape is a serious crime, regardless of whether or not sex is important or not to the victim, because the rapist had sex with him/her without his/her permission. And sexual exclusivity is a thing because a lot of people consider sex when in a relationship to be important. They might be promiscuous outside, and see sex as a fun pastime, but whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/16 10:35 PM
2	Is man wrong for not helping a woman who rejected him for a date? This is an assumption. If he acts nice and does small favors for most people he knows, men or women, this is just his personality. Depends. Does he do it with everyone? Or just that one chick he has a crush on? Furthermore, this denies the right of the man to feel hurt by the rejection. That's not the point I'm making. I'm just saying that it's ridiculous if you think you can buy someone's attraction with favors. Why is the man not allowed to simply feel hurt, and not want to befriend that girl …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:42 AM
2	True or False: Not all physically fit males are Alpha, but all true Alphas are physically fit. Depends on your definition of alpha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:38 AM
1	Question for redpill men and women - which post threads do you wish curious blues were reading before judging your communities? basically my belief is this, TRP was originally set up to DISCUSS, not CREATE rp theory I've thought about this. I would say, that in addition to that, it should only be to describe things from an objective POV. If we take the original metaphor from the movie, NEO was awoken by TRP, he saw life for what it really was, but he could have said "fuck this" to Morpheus and not joined his resistance crew. He could have just walked around the robot infested world, he had no obligation to save humanity …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:36 AM
5	Is man wrong for not helping a woman who rejected him for a date? That's a bad example. You don't call someone you've briefly talked to for 30 minutes to do such a favor. What I've seen a lot more are guys who do small favors for women they know, but stop after the women reject them. Yeah, he's in the right to not do those things anymore. But at the same time, he was already in the wrong for thinking that relationships can be bought with favors. No one owes anyone anything. Unless they took out a loan or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:29 AM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? I should have worded that better. "Genuine" in their personality. Women & Men who are clear and precise with what they want, open to verbal communication (as in, their words will align with their actions), are very objective, and who don't like to play games. Most of all, they're mature. My point was that there are less of these women (and men) in the US than in other countries. At least from my experience. Sure, every place has it's fair share of superficial fresh college grads who just want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:21 AM
0	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? Well yes, helping women avoid men who subscribe to red pill ideas is my secondary goal here More power to you man, but that's not what I've seen from TBP. It's really just an anti-RP circlejerk. Oh, and there's nothing subjective about the fact that using another person for your own personal gain to their detriment is wrong. Really? That's still subjective. Any sentence that starts with "X is wrong" is subjective. We can take this a step further. Not unless you're a sociopath. What's wrong with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:11 AM
3	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? terps openly support rape I disagree. Rape to me is non-consensual sex. Getting past "last-minute resistance" and "coercing people into consensual duty sex" isn't rape. They might be morally wrong (which is subjective) but they aren't rape. I haven't seen a real post promoting rape, only /r9k/ troll posts. It can work, for certain types of men with certain types of women That's the thing though. Let me just add that if it works with enough people, then it works. It's all a numbers game from ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:09 AM
2	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? I know that there a lot more things to consider. And I know that abusive relationships aren't always "that simple". In some cases, one partner is fiscally dependent on the other one. Or maybe one partner is blackmailing (or could potentially blackmail) the other one. I would call that coercion, and honestly, not even RPs do this (not from what I have seen/read). Those cases are very different, and that's another discussion. But I'm talking about emotionally abusive relationships. Where you do ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 12:05 AM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? Totally, I'm very aware that they're separate things and that they take completely separate approaches for what they do. I don't even think you need an analogy for it. PUA is theoretically how to approach women and try to have sex with them on the same day or at least get a number. RedPill is theoretically how to employ male sexual strategy after objectively analyzing the sexual market and (as they claim) feminist dating world. However, in the initial phases of self-improvement and initial attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 11:44 PM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? Yeah. I think it has to do with individualism. People tend to be more cynical and shallow the less collectivist they are. Not that it's a bad thing, it's just that you have to approach the dating scene differently in both cultures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 11:43 PM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? sure it does. the average funeral add as much to the economy as 13k car. but i think most would argue that people dying is an economic bad not any economic good. the average smart bomb the military drops costs as much as a house. again i don't think people would argue bombing people is and economic good even though it technically is. Same thing goes with picking up chicks and keeping them around. wouldn't it be preferable to not be a dick to get laid or keep a girl friend? I think you're compari…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 11:35 PM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? I meant negging in the RP sense that you tease someone in such a way that they'll start looking for your approval. Dispensing sex or affection in the sense that you only "give sex" or "show affection" when your partner has done something you wanted him/her to do. Or you do those things to get something out of your partner. I don't think it would work where I am because the Latino people tend to be a lot more direct and shameless. If there's a problem, they'll address it. Americans tend to be mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 10:11 PM
2	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? Yeah it's a power game. But dread game is like giving people an ultimatum in a more discrete way. Instead of outright saying "do what I say or I'll break up/cheat on you" you play the game. Its pretty manipulative. But the other option is narcissistic, politically incorrect, and egotistic. Not saying that dread game is completely justified, but I just don't think it's that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 10:05 PM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? hardly, go to TBP and they will tell you that the 'harsh truth' about dating is that every one is different and there is no formula just basic foundational stuff like hygiene, moderate fashion advice, and stand on your own two feet. Not that I don't believe you(I do), but that sub is more anti-RP circlejerk than dating sdiscussions from what I've seen. Circlejerks are anything but individualist (this goes for RP too). Let me just ask you; do BPs believe that men and women should be held to the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 09:59 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? Well yeah. But that's the problem. "Evil" is subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 09:48 PM
2	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? Oh, I misunderstood you. Fair point then. I meant it's stupid to say that RP tactics don't work. I agree with you in the sense that some of the information is lacking valid sources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 09:45 PM
1	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? Anything that's indirect. Negging. Dispensing affection/sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 09:43 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? I'm not victim blaming, because I don't consider those people victims. Someone who got mugged in the subway didn't have the choice to not get mugged. Someone who got raped didn't have the choice not to get raped. Sure, you can argue that they shouldn't have put themselves in those situations, but they ultimately had no knowledge that could've prevented it from happening (outside of vague information, like don't walk alone at night). Now let's take two examples. A woman who's getting dread gamed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 07:30 PM
2	Q4RP Is their such a thing as RP ethics? IF so what are they? Actually RPers seem to be unable accept that some of us have no collectivist moral qualms about TRP That's actually encouraging to hear. From the outside, TBP looks like the least individualist community on this site. and actually just think the information is largely inaccurate. It really depends. I think it's pretty stupid to say that the information is inaccurate. If it didn't work, the sub wouldn't have gained as much traction as it has. However, I do believe that there are target audiences.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 07:17 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? Some RP's blame men. But when it comes to personal responsibility, it's always the feminist media's fault. Take your average "My story and how I became Redpilled" post. The first half is about the dude's life pre-redpill, when he was blue-pilled. It usually has to do something with his mother and sisters coercing him into putting women on a pedestal and how ever since kindergarten society has been telling him to treat women a certain way. Sure, when he comes into theredpill, the first thing he'l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 07:01 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? That's so ridiculous. You can't change Redpilled guys anymore than you can change manipulative women. However, you can change yourself so that you can avoid these people. Blaming people for "using" other people won't accomplish anything most of the time. Blaming yourself for getting into such a situation will likely lead you to learn from past mistakes. And yeah, you can make an argument about how TRP is wrong and immoral. The problem is that that argument would be entirely subjective. Morality …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 06:56 PM
2	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? AWALT and hyper gamy are pretty ridiculous. But what's wrong with dread game? If someone isn't feeling my needs, how is it not justifiable that I don't threaten to leave them? What if I got into a relationship with a woman, became unemployed, and stayed that way for a few months. She then threatens to leave unless I get a job. Thats textbook definition of dread game. Is that wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 05:37 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? But why does thebluepill care so much about trp? You've acknowledged that it works, and yes it turns guys into douchebags (because that's what works) and yes it "harms" women. But here's my opinion; everyone is responsible for their own actions (shocking, right?). The Blue Pill is wrong because they blame overly masculine douchebag guys for manipulating women instead of actual insecure women who choose to fall into these types of games. The Red Pill is wrong because they blame feminist society f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/16 05:28 PM
1	"I want someone who likes me for me" - What counts? Looks? Status? Money? The thing is that love doesn't care about looks, attraction does, but those things aren't the same. I don't know how it's possible to love someone you don't think is attractive. Being attracted to someone without loving them is easier, yeah, but not the inverse. Honestly, this just sounds like rationalizing settling for someone. "I don't think he/she is attractive, but I love him/her." What a shit justification to force yourself into doing something that doesn't meet your standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/16 02:08 AM
2	"I want someone who likes me for me" - What counts? Looks? Status? Money? IMO everything is a part of you. We like to pretend that superficial traits don't matter, but they do, especially if you're young and unwilling to compromise. Your past, your present and your future ambitions are parts of you. Inherent characteristics and acquired traits are also different parts of you. Aesthetic features, as well as social charisma are both important. People have different ideas of what we should be allowed to judge others for, and what actually constitutes "me". But the truth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/16 02:03 AM
1	CMV: Women use male stereotypes to weed out men for potential sexual relationships or interaction. My view is, women people assume the sexual gratification they will get from a man a member of the opposite sex, based on superficial stereotypes, that don't directly influence biological feelings of attraction. CMV. It's 2016. We live in an extremely superficial society. Tinder doesn't help. Who cares, not like we can change society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/16 01:52 AM
2	why are the differences between male and female sex behavior not formally taught in school? Maybe the biological differences. The social & psychological differences aren't consistent, and therefore fall under morals and principles, both of which should be taught at home (or outside the classroom).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 01:39 AM
8	Why is balding treated as such a negative trait by BP women? They say one of their big beliefs is that they support not judging people for things they can't control. This is generally speaking. It's a great mindset to have, but the reality is different. Personally, I haven't seen many BluePillers say people shouldn't be judged for something that is out of their control. I've heard BluePillers say that people should be more lenient with those things. Plus, the BluePillers who say that people shouldn't judge others for things out of their control are usuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 01:34 AM
3	Why is balding treated as such a negative trait by BP women? But hair transplants, finn, minox, dust, etc. are all more accessible than height surgery and penis enlargement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 01:31 AM
4	Why is balding treated as such a negative trait by BP women? Kobe Bryant doesn't count. he's talking about the average man. But I agree that there are definitely bald guys that can pull it off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/16 01:30 AM
2	CMV: Women have internal, self motivated reasons to hide promiscuity, that have nothing to do with shaming Even if you think history shouldn't matter, you should be able to respect them enough to tell them if they care. Are you sure you're blue-pilled? Haha, I'm just kidding ofc. But seriously, I agree. I don't understand people who rationalize lying about their past so that they can "save their SO's fragile ego". The past matters a lot. Your employer most likely gives a shit about the college you went to, or the grades you got, or the internship you landed. A relationship is no different. People can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 06:50 PM
4	CMV: Women have internal, self motivated reasons to hide promiscuity, that have nothing to do with shaming Very well put, I completely agree. I was actually thinking about this the other day. I also don't think that the reasons for lying are internal. But I don't think that ever justifies lying, ever. I abhor the idea of a woman lying about her promiscuous past if she's in her current relationship. People try to rationalize with "Oh, people should be sex positive!" or "It's just in her past!". But the truth is, that it matters, if it didn't she would have never hid the truth in the first place. The p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 05:46 PM
1	Is studying Engineering alpha or beta? Is it a death sentence to my social life? It's all about time management. It is very possible be a STEM major and have a fruitful social life, but unless you're a fucking god, you're going to have to put in the extra time and effort to be successful at both. It is possible, I know people who have done so, and I would say that I'm one myself. Engineering courses require you to show up and to study outside of the classroom as well if you want to keep your GPA up. Unless you have an IQ of 130+, you won't be able to easily grasp concepts. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 05:20 PM
2	Q4Men: How do you pick up chicks? Piggy back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 04:21 PM
2	Q4RP: Can Anyone Here Explain /r/MarriedRedPill? Can You Get Married and Be Legitimately "RedPill"? Glad to know things are working out for you two! Just out of curiosity, how "Redpilled" would you consider yourself? On a scale of 1-10, 1 being "I don't want to get settled for" and 10 being "women shouldn't vote. If you don't want to answer that's fine, I'm just curious...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/16 09:25 AM
12	Q4RP: Can Anyone Here Explain /r/MarriedRedPill? Can You Get Married and Be Legitimately "RedPill"? I've seen many RPs who are married, so I find this topic to be interesting. Their situations are often the most unique. One thing that I do notice however, is that married RPs tend to be less extreme than the MGTOW RPs. Most of them just want to fix their dead bedroom, because most of the advice on reddit is extremely women-centric and garbage (Therapy! Communication! Tell her you feel unwanted!). So they turn to TRP, start lifting, and doing other things to get sex from their own wife. At the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/16 12:13 AM
1	CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFK Trump is winning the Muslim vote? Huh... But it is no surprise that he would win over some Latino votes. The legal ones (Like my parents) hate illegal immigrants just as much as majority Americans. The reason is because if you ignore rape, crime, violence, poverty, ignorance, drugs, unemployment, more government benefits, higher taxes, that illegals all bring with them, the one thing that they do that is detrimental is make it harder for people to come in legally. My dad suffered through the pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/16 11:44 PM
3	CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFK Good point on the audit. But they were both rich kids who were destined to be important/rich. JFK had to ask for a front line position in the Navy simply because of his family name. If one relies on fake controversies to gain fame, then they pale in comparison to those who gain fame legitimately. Trump's controversies aren't fake. While they might be exaggerated, they certainly exist. And yeah, fakes fall short when compared to the authentics, but it doesn't matter if you can't prove he's a fake…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/16 06:39 PM
3	CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFK it's about how legitimate you are Are you implying that a Kennedy is more authentic than a Trump? The Birther movement Trump started is a manufactured controversy that has no legitimacy or relevance to the real world. It impacts absolutely nothing. I don't understand what this means, and it probably has nothing to do with being alpha/BP/RP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/16 06:22 PM
4	CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFK That is so incredibly biased and subjective. But I do agree, JFK is a little less loud mouthed than Trump. I don't see how that makes him any more alpha. Who cares, every single president used at least some emotion to get to office, JFK is no exception. The only thing that changes is the side you're pandering to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/16 06:10 PM
6	CMV: Donald Trump is not an Alpha or masculine, the real man is JFK What you said doesn't apply to politics. The whole point of running a presidential election is to convince people to vote for you. Even JFK had to convince people. As for putting others down, you can always take the high road and not talk shit about your opponents, but that's not very effective. Trump's fuel is our emotions, people are sick of immigrants and scared of Muslims, so he talks about them to get voters fired up. There are so many other factors to consider other than "he's loud and off…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/16 04:09 PM
2	The negligible amount of Blue Pill participation on this sub makes it laughable to call this place purple, or a platform for debate This place has become moderates on both sides arguing, slightly leaning red. And that's a good thing, the blue pill sub is too extreme, the red pill sub is also too extreme. Just like everything in life, exaggeration is bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/16 03:00 PM
1	CMV: Women have more opportunities to cheat than men. Let's be real, paying for sex is not, and will never, the same as getting sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/16 12:48 AM
7	CMV: Women have more opportunities to cheat than men. Yeah, everything you said is true, except for: more opportunity = more occurrences Even if that applies in some cases, it's not really true. Casual sex for women is way less enjoyable than for men. So even if sex is available to women nearly 24/7, it's not the sex they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/16 12:47 AM
2	CMV: Higher socioeconomic status in women correlates with higher standards for casual sex Why does having higher standards equal with spoiled and entitled? That's not what I implied. Having higher standards doesn't mean you're spoiled and entitle. Being spoiled and entitled as a kid means you have higher standards as an adult. So not only women, but also men, from a higher socioeconomic class have higher standards. There's nothing wrong with having high standards if you're of a high standard... and even if you're of a low standard. Yeah, everyone is free to choose what they want. But…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/16 10:24 PM
1	CMV: Higher socioeconomic status in women correlates with higher standards for casual sex People of higher economic status have higher standards for casual sex. When you grow up spoiled, you act entitled. Not to mention that money itself is attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/16 09:26 PM
1	Q4RP: How do you explain /r/Cuckold? Oh ok, let me clarify a bit. My other comment was just disagreeing with the other guy. It is a fetish where the guy gets his kicks when other guys fuck his wife. I dont really believe this. Ive fucked dudes wives in front of them, and the dude has not been in control of the situation. I disagree. Just because the cuck doesn't have complete control of the situation doesn't mean that it's not a fetish. Similar to how people with s rape/bdsm fetish get off on the "I'm powerless" feeling. And Yes, I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/16 08:39 PM
1	Purple Pillers, what does it mean to believe in the "purple pill" ? I'm late to the party, but I'll share anyway. Why I'm not completely Redpill: I don't think that women are objectively inferior nor are they "hamsters". I don't think that feminists hate themselves, and legalizing prostitution won't end female empowerment. I'm not a victim of confirmation bias. Bad experiences will stick out more than good experiences, and they hurt a lot more too, but I can keep track of frequency. Ex.: Yes, a lot of women want to settle with a shell-of-a-manTM rich guy while h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/16 07:24 PM
2	Q4RP: How do you explain /r/Cuckold? The Cuckold fetish is just a fetish. From what I've seen on /r/Cuckold, it's more of a hotwife/wifesharing fetish than an emasculation fetish. But "Cuckold" has recently become a word to describe people who just sit back and accept a bad situation and who are either powerless, or don't have the confidence/will-power to change it. I think that the adjective version originated on /r9k/ to describe guys who are in the "friend-zone" and "giving emotional support to women" while they "go off and fuck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/16 06:28 PM
3	Q4RP: How do you explain /r/Cuckold? and the dude has not been in control of the situation. Because not being in control of the situation is what turns them on. Cuckold fetishes are usually paired with heavy Femdom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/16 06:19 PM
3	What is the most polite way to dump someone for having a high number? Does this require me to lie? but would be totally okay reason to dump someone if they were a woman. I think it's reasonable for a man or a woman to dump a partner because of a promiscuous past. Individual preferences/insecurities are just that, individual. People are allowed to have the standards they want. However, N count is totally different for men and women. It's not inherently good for men and bad for women such as TRP suggests. But it has a different significance for men and woman, contrary to what TBP believes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/16 06:17 PM
1	Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision Ever I think it's a combination of things. The west coast seems to have younger people, and an even more racially mixed culture than the east. Not to mention that Cali is practically as liberal as you can get, which in turn makes for a more open-minded mentality. But don't take my word for it, I've only been there twice for vacation. This seems to be the general consensus of that area, I guess you'd have to do a bit more of homework and reach a conclusion. Although I'm almost certain that the scene i…	/r/seduction	26/12/15 03:26 PM
1	Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision Ever It's good. I don't currently live there, but I loved it when I used to, and I'll probably go back within the next two years. I love Miami, and it has all the pluses that any big city has. Even more because of the amazing beaches, wildlife, theaters, restaurants, malls, parks etc. I just fucking love that city to death. The quality of life is astounding. I'll probably raise a family there eventually. However, since we're on /r/seduction I know that you want to know the cons too, especially the da…	/r/seduction	26/12/15 02:04 PM
1	Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision Ever I see. I've never lived there, only visited. I was just wondering because OP said college town in Florida and this just came to my mind. I guess I missed the "small" haha. Glad to hear the scene is good, my little brother will probably go there. I've been more of a Miami guy though.	/r/seduction	26/12/15 04:48 AM
1	Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision Ever Gainesville, FL by any chance?	/r/seduction	26/12/15 04:27 AM
1	"Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist? Hey man, I was probably worse off then you are now. I like video games (sausage fest), math (sausage fest), sudoku (not even a legit hobby), STEM (86% males), rap music (no chick even likes it), archery (not even a legit hobby), fishing/hunting/shooting (girls actually dislike this). Even the fucking sports I'm into are male dominated, swimming and running, women don't do those because women swimmer and runners end up with ugly bodies. And I have no trouble meeting women, I just simply didn't me…	/r/seduction	29/09/15 12:09 AM
3	My Guide to Street Game Hey man, thanks for the quality post. You seem to be pretty knowledgeable on street approaches. I never really got into it, I'm more of a night game type of guy. So, I just wanted to ask you, what do you think about approaching with friends? I just personally have trouble with cold approaches because you do the isolation right from the start. The second you meet her you have to keep her interested. At night clubs/bars, I can tell jokes/stories or whatever to actually give off a good vibe before …	/r/seduction	28/09/15 11:51 PM
2	In college. Me at night, and me during the day. No once cares about who you are in college. Even if you build yourself a rep of "that guy who consistently approaches women" no one will care. It isn't high school.	/r/seduction	25/09/15 02:30 PM
0	Can knowing a second language help attract women? Kind of. If you know spanish and go to a Latino country you can flirt with women in the touristic area and make an impression by literally speaking in English. Having a gringo accent also helps.	/r/seduction	04/08/15 08:15 PM
23	What are some examples of alpha-like etiquette and etiquette which is beta? It's needy to always talk, like you're trying too hard to hold somebody's attention. A man of high value doesn't need attention. This is soooo important. I remember being a freshman in high school and being kind of this nerdy introvert. I would always try to hang out with friends and force conversations with anyone who showed any slight interest in me. By sophomore year I just stopped and would only talk and respond to people when I needed to or felt like doing so. If I wasn't genuinly enjoying …	/r/seduction	27/07/15 05:31 AM
2	How do I become person everyone wants to hang out with ? I can relate to your situation now growing up I would move to a new city every two years because of my dad's job, I've always had to start fresh. I went from weird nerd in middle school, to a really well-known guy in high school and college, I developed a "trick" that always worked for me. It's really simple, it's just be your own friend. Think of someone you want to hangout with, are you that guy? If no, work until you become that guy.	/r/seduction	09/07/15 05:24 AM