ferrisb1986 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I f*cked up. I just want my family back If you want her back, send her this post to show your transparency. It’s the truth, and if she can’t forgive the random hookups then it wasn’t meant to be. Honesty is the best policy. Good luck brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 01:26 AM
4	My mom passed away two weeks ago. Feeling the need to share with my ex. I am sorry brother, but you probably shouldn’t mention anything to her. Don’t bring her back into your life, you’ve moved on from her and are most certainly better apart. Moving on, and moving upwards.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 12:04 AM
1	Ex having baby today This is the way 👆🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/23 02:02 AM
3	Endless verbal abuse This is the way 👆🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/22 11:47 PM
5	I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation. Nope, I couldn’t press charges because we were technically still “married,” according to the court. Fucking horse shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/22 04:39 PM
8	I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation. If you have an old cell phone in your house and she has access to it, then change your number. My STBX found my old phone in storage, hacked into it, and activated it through Wi-Fi at our house and spied on me for 3.5 months, and had every single text that I was getting while I was staying in a hotel that whole time. I would have never thought that she would have done something so intrusive and psychotic, but divorce brings out the worst in them. She eventually had to turn the phone over the to …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/22 04:28 PM
1	Why me? How is this shit legal? I’m sorry man, sending thoughts and prayers and I hope this post gains some traction to expose this piece of shit lawyer and judge.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/22 11:11 PM
7	Where to live? I get my home back on Wednesday, it will be exactly 100 days in a hotel by then. Almost $11K spent on hotel bills, legal fees way more.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/22 10:40 PM
1	Saw the new boyfriend holding my baby alone in the street My sister sent me this TikTok video of a pastor and his 3 words of wisdom were, “can’t change it,” and it has done a lot for me. Not only through my divorce but in all walks of life that we’re out of my control. If it is out of your control then don’t stress it, accept it, and make the best of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/22 12:05 AM
5	Time to Dismantle Everything!!! I feel ya brother, two months into my divorce and it has been hell. I’m the bread winner and my STBX is going to get a huge payday. I have been going through counseling because this all came out of nowhere and I am just trying to grasp WTF happened and how she wasn’t happy with me, we have 3 kids by the way. But my counselor had a great point. “People say take it one day at a time, but when you are going through something this traumatic, you need to take it one hour at a time, even one minute at…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 10:59 PM
3	"and record everything." Because as a male, you are guilty until proven innocent. That’s the fact, and you will soon learn it.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/22 11:51 PM
1	Is it time to propose to my GF (2nd marriage for both) Prenup up	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/22 11:46 PM
2	Is it time to propose to my GF (2nd marriage for both) 80% divorce rate on second marriages.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/22 11:45 PM
3	Can’t do this anymore We’ve all been there brother, we’re all still here for a reason and everyone in this group will say the same. It WILL get better, stay strong brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/22 04:12 PM
6	picking your hard Yes, definitely vague but if you are not happy maybe check out couples counseling?? You don’t want to go through divorce if you don’t have to, it’s a fucking shit storm.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 01:18 AM
3	Man, rough week. Back in the town where we shared a home for 7+ years for the first time since I moved out 9 months ago. It’s going to be hard, but keep up with the good thoughts and press on. I am not at that point yet but I keep telling myself it will be hard but you have to overcome. Stay strong brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/22 07:39 PM
4	401K vs. pension Depends on the length of the marriage, my wife and I were married for less than two years and my lawyer is telling me my STBEW is entitled to half of what was earned during that time in my 401K which is complete bullshit, nearly $90K. The system is rigged against us fellas, don’t fucking get married.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/22 07:26 PM
1	Should I delete pics of my wife? Delete the nudes, those were between her and you and you two together no longer exist. As far as social media, if you have kids and they are in the pictures, then keep them. It will remind you of the good family times. If it is just you and her in the picture, just untag yourself and move on. “How are you doing? Keep it moving.”	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/22 07:18 PM
9	Co-parenting counseling It sounds like she is reaching out for that branch after her new love left her. Don’t fall for it, “how ya doing, keep moving.”	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/22 08:24 AM
3	how do you distract yourself, while giving her space? I needed this, thank you brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/22 08:18 PM
2	Asset Protection? If you are in this sub you should not be considering marriage, so back the fuck out.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 12:46 AM
1	She was granted an order of protect against me I’m in the same situation, false charges and I haven’t seen my 3 girls in 41 days. In these cases you are deemed guilty until proven innocent. That’s fucking bullshit.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 12:43 AM
1	Attorneys...smh And every day that will become more clear as to why you should have not been with her. Trust me my brother, I have been down the same road you are on but I am just a few months ahead of you. Things will become better and you will be better off without her. Stay strong even though you feel like you are fighting the devil “herself.”	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 08:46 AM
37	If you were cheated on in your marriage what were the signs your wife/ex wife gave before you found out. Toxicity, get the fuck out now.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/22 01:44 AM
2	Trying to get this settled but wife refuses contact Put an inexpensive tracker (I think they are called tiles) on your wife’s car if you know where she is hanging out. It’s legal because it is your car but get an attorney, file the papers, and they will be able to serve her when you help provide them her location by the tracker. If she doesn’t show for the hearing it would be an uncontested divorce and you could set the terms before that.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/22 11:45 PM
1	My soon to be Ex-wife almost made me cry from laughter Sorry to hear that brother but you are better off without her. I am in the same situation, getting divorced before two years and the evidence is there that she cheated but swears it never happened. The sad thing is I will probably lose $300K from shared assets (my assets) but I won’t have to deal with her lying ass anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/22 01:01 AM