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And these are supposed to be unreasonable? Because these are pretty much the most normal list I've seen here. Like, If I ever typed out my list, it would look pretty much like this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:05 PM
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What were the standards, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:08 PM
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Alright, so it wasn't just me that was like "wtf" because if you disagree with democracy at a fundamental level, then the fuck do you agree with?
/r/MensRights07/11/24 01:41 AM
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He'd have to come down himself, no voice in the wind, no ram in the bush, no ambiguous face in a cloud, literally touch down and go "I am the I am" and promise some good shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:55 PM
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There's no way that was a genuine woman. Worst case, a man trolling. Best case a woman trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:03 AM
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Unfortunately, no. Most of the fuckboi's I've met have been regular looking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:53 PM
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So, I've always wanted to ask a woman who's done the whole "already checked out but staying for days, weeks, months, years". What exactly are you waiting for at that point when you know you're done?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:00 AM
0

Two squawking idiots don't make one intelligent person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:19 AM
1

Beat me to it. Gotta decide quick how far we take this animal kingdom shit because I'll bring up lions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:17 PM
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Let's say in the next hour, all men are given the option to choose their role in courting with zero judgment. Do you believe most men would still choose to be the pursuer instead of the pursued?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:45 PM
3

And yet, it says everything (I'm super confused)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:33 AM
0

Max out in attractiveness and live how you wanna live
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:08 PM
3

I'd argue the industrial revolution was the first step down the shit-fest we're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:25 PM
1

What have I gained? A boundless entertainment source that more or less confirms a decent portion of what I already believed. What I learned? Nothing besides these polarized psychos should be made wards of the state for as long as it takes to return to normalcy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:02 PM
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Dominant? Yes. Domineering? No, but that's based on the perspective. The idea I have of a dominant woman and domineering woman is gonna probably different compared to how another man or woman sees it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:23 PM
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Isn't it also biological to like younger women? A dude dates mainly younger women and I'm gonna have questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:17 PM
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Exactly. If a prenup is drawn up in an overreaching, unfair, inflexible, a/o manner harmful to the less wealthy spouse then of course it's gonna get thrown out because you're trying to screw them over at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:39 PM
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No, what increases the chances of a prenup being thrown out is when they're drawn up as overreaching, unfair, inflexible, and hurtful to the less-wealthy spouse. You need a, b, c, and e to show the judge "hey, I'm not trying to screw this person over, I've done my due diligence and this prenup is fair" not having d doesn't just invalidate the prenup unless it's glaringly unfair, like: my spouse stopped working to raise our children, putting her career on hold while mine accelerated but since we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:38 PM
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If both parties decide to allow a single lawyer to represent them both of them when the prenuptial agreement is drawn up, then whoever's the breadwinner can't complain when they get shot in the foot because one lawyer can't properly advise both parties in a way that would protect both their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:06 PM
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Stories about prenups getting thrown out are generally overblown to the point that it makes it seem like a common occurrence rather than the extremely rare occurrence that it actually is. The rare situations where prenups get thrown out fall almost entirely in two piles: • ⁠The parties weren’t represented by separate counsel. A prenup is a contract about adverse interests. Accordingly, one lawyer cannot properly advise both parties in a way that would protect both of their interests. The solutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:19 PM
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Yeah...no. The reason monks seem so disciplined is because they avoid their source of temptation, whatever that may be. The moment that man returns to average life out in the west, all that mindfulness and self-discipline is gonna melt away like butter over fire
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:57 PM
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You might be talking about QOVES
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:30 PM
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Oh, someone level-headed? The proper authorities are on their way to transport you to the nearest reeducation center
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:18 PM
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Where would I find the older stuff? I've always been interested in seeing what TRP looks like before it got killed and turned into the reanimated corpse in denial we see now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:54 PM
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The Sigma Male TikTok edit thing, I guess. Tyler Durden, Tony Sopranos, Batfleck, Battinson, Anakin Skywalker, Officer K and the like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:26 PM
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Playing Devil's Advocate, I can see a perspective where man's protectiveness over his child increase when his daughter begins to date while decreasing as his son begins to date for several reasons but one of the largest ones being a fear of her being taken advantage of but at the time, parents tend to react differently to things like pregnancy for example. A daughter gets pregnant and the parents wonder where they went wrong with her, whereas their son gets some girl pregnant and his parents are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:58 PM
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And this where we use one of the Red Pill's favorite phrases — "watch what they do, not what they say" (something to that effect). Out of those men who referred to marriage as a "ball and chain" how many would you say still got married or simply used the term because their marriage was bad. To a certain extent, marriage is a ball and chain in the sense that it limits mobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:35 PM
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He's not wrong. Men in general aren't anti-commitment. A bit wary of it? Sure, because committing to the wrong person can do a lot of harm. RP men are as their general opinion of the average woman isn't a positive one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:30 PM
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No because RP is adamantly against marriage and cohabitation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:25 PM
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I'm not even red pill anymore, but they were pretty clear on this. Looks, Money, Status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:24 PM
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I imagine having that another person's life basically in your hands is a huge part
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:20 PM
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That, and we've all had blood drawn at some point for something. The shadow government lizard-men already have your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:31 PM
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It's sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:52 PM
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I'm sure you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:17 AM
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Lmao, I kinda always assume some wild shit gets said once it's just them in a room
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:06 AM
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Oh, I wasn't speaking personally like I was holding resentment. I'm lucky to be with a woman who gives as much as she receives but I was trying to explain why some dudes have the resentful vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:57 PM
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I think it's a bit of all three. Like, sure? I want to perform romantic gestures for a woman I actually like and enjoy the process but at the same time, most examples of romance I've seen throughout my life, consisted of a man providing romance to a woman so because of that, there's this thing in conscious that reminds me that it's also an expectation. I think the resentment comes from performing romantic gestures and not receiving as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:31 PM
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That's still visual tho. He's making her feel smaller because she can see that he's bigger than her, the feeling of security is an effect of the visual stimuli.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:09 PM
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increasingly large population of woman do this, maybe if they keep going for chad fuckboi he will eventually change right? There's a word for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:52 AM
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In the UK?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:54 PM
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To add on to this, I think I saw a stat that like 60+% of switch users were women which makes sense now that I have a switch. I literally only play the games I already have on my PS5 if I'm not playing Metroid or Mario
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:57 PM
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Because the government doesn't ask if you'd like to pay taxes. They take it out of your check and dare you to do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:54 PM
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I think many women WANT to be feminine, but they don't have the luxury to do so. They may not have a partner that provides for them. Women have to wake up a 6am and go to work all day, for money to pay bills, thats stressful on men and it's even more stressful on women. I think women (like how men want to be masculine) want the benefits of conforming to the feminine archetype hence the whole concept of "soft girl eras". Genuinely no idea what makes you think having to be an adult and work for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:48 PM
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I mean, eventually, yes. Those first couple generations of babies are probably gonna be sociopaths but hey, no one ever specified for mentally healthy babies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:26 PM
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Are we arguing in favor of length, girth, or size in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:22 PM
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Not wrong, probably could be trumpeted up to our preferences for short-term over longterm gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:49 PM
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Huh, we're in agreement then. Thought I had a "gotcha" kinda bummed that I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:05 PM
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I actually think girls don't like being treated as nice as they say. Because they routinely date abusive men with issues. Many girls like hypermasculine, manwhores, low-effort men. The girls on here who say they don't are either outliers or they are lying. I think if women really valued him being nice and agreeable, they'd date men like that. But they usually don't. This better be satire because there's no way you don't see the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:53 PM
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Shit really came full circle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:51 PM
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Damn, these are more or less what's been going through my head. It's like, the more I play into an archetype I'm told is archaic and won't work, the better things turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:02 PM
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JFC, that doomer pill is looking appealing as fuck rn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:27 PM
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I got nothing to add besides as a fellow Virginian, definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:42 AM
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You can do maybe one of those realistically. Two depending how comfortable you are with shedding your morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:40 AM
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Misandry doesn’t exist Misandry is a product of misogyny. Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:35 PM
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I'm digging into now, but she's apparently a scammer who does this semi-regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:32 PM
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Yep, that's the one. Felt it through the screen🤝
/r/MensRights15/09/23 03:09 PM
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Well, the debates are mostly anecdote versus anecdote, using terms to derail, etc so I'm here mainly for entertainment. The men and women here are mirror-worlds to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:28 PM
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Or knowing some 5'4 dude who's "absolutely killing it" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:44 PM
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"Be confident" tho, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:21 PM
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21 y/o male. A solid 7/10. I've been in the apprentice school since I graduated so although I'm not salaried, year three has me taking home like 60K give or take before taxes. I'm mixed race but if I covered my eyes, you'd think I was lying and somewhere around 6'4 with shoes on. My communication skills are decent but could use work since I default to shutting down and I'm not the most agreeable person in the world (apparently here that's a good thing?). I could probably score higher if I was mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:34 PM
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Deepen my voice, speak with a hint of a Russian accent, and alluded to illegal happenings. It's fun when it's a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:04 PM
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The matriarchal system, it's always this spiel. Look on the bright side, maybe if you're good this year, Santa'll bring it to you for Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:59 PM
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I'm not pulling a "gotcha" but to be fair, you're 19. You've got a long time before you age out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:39 PM
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Honestly. I hate the game, the players, the refs, the rules, the fans, the commentators, the league; all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:14 PM
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I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:09 PM
2

And yet, you've made the most thought-proving and level-headed comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:03 PM
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Same, I thought he was cooking something up and he was, it was bullshit tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:50 PM
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Being seen as a married person isn't the goal, they're doing it because it's "just what you do". It's something they check off the list of things that you "just do before you die"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:38 PM
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I'm a 6'2 [look at the lil avatar because apparently we can't mention race] dude with a resting expression that's been described as simmering irritation, so a lot of women when they see me on first glance tense up because truth be told, I'm a scary-looking mf. The best I can do is be a normal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:05 PM
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I interpreted it different. I think what he's getting at is that to these men, women dictate when they're happy or unhappy via control over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:07 AM
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They started doing the same shit we do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:24 PM
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Well, I didn't end up being served a peanut butter and lead sandwich even tho I was way too familiar with the barrel of a gun from sixteen to nineteen. And yes, that is a little dark
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:18 PM
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Yup. I hate plugging it but go on TikTok and type in (ugly hot). We have a leak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:48 PM
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So, we're supposed to just pretend we don't know there's an impact? Like shit I'm [look at the lil character] and there's a distinct impact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:36 PM
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I don't even get how she managed it. Jennifer Aniston is not and has never been some bombshell. She's a regular ass white woman and I'll die on that hill.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 12:59 PM
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Not necessarily disagreeing with OP but these seem pretty simple. Encourage him to stray from his meal plan and eat fast food with her so she doesn't feel bad about eating bad food. I'm not eating that bullshit any day other than my cheat day and even then, I'll probably get something I can tolerate the smell of. Telling him he goes to the gym too much and should spend more time with her A non-negotiable I'm already pretty chill with how often I workout and I'm not cutting it down more to watch …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:39 AM
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And you spit it back out so...
/r/MensRights09/08/23 07:05 AM
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Why'd poppy get suspended?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:43 PM
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One word, meteor. If there's something out there that gives a damn, it's sending a meteor to reset this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:16 PM
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Goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:47 PM
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Alright, question because I don't if it's me being 21, me being unmarried, or thinking in a different way but what stops us from going "can't, I'm taking some time for myself today." Like, I seriously don't get it and I'm not sure if it my general unwillingness to compromise has something to do with it
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:23 AM
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You didn't read the fine print
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:31 PM
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I only agree with the STI part, the "bastard children" thing can go. Being born out of wedlock means fuck all unless your father's some Duke in the eternal ha-cha dance of Eastern European politics and border wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:17 PM
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No fucking way is this a serious question. Being very physically attractive is like having the golden ticket, it opens up all kinds of doors. A successful career is great but that can be earned with or without attractiveness and "successful" is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:58 PM
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Eh, kinda yeah and kinda no. I'm sure you remember the whole thing of freshmen girls going for juniors/seniors because they were bigger, taller, more developed, drove, and seemed more mature. I remember a lot of talks about not dating a guy who wasn't at least 6' tho a good amount was posturing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:41 PM
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I've finally found a woman taller than 6'2 and she's lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:09 PM
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I've never been "wowed" by someone's looks to the point that it radically changed how I behaved so I think that's always kinda worked in my favor. It's kinda like climbing Mt. Everest. It's an impossible task looking from the start but then you reach the top and do it again, and again, and again, and again, and several more times and you realize Everest isn't really what you projected onto it. It's taller, sure. Less people have made it to the top, sure, but it's just a mountain at the end of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:20 PM
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Same. I've been very short (5'5/5'6 from 12-16) and I'm now very tall (6'4 at 21) and it's like waking up in an alternate universe where people actively approach me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:15 PM
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This. They're quite literally our oldest renewable resource that society's been relying on since we decided to start forming tribes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:42 PM
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I'm probably the only dude here that would pick it, but 2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:43 PM
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As long as she's not gonna have a problem with me not obsessing over her attractiveness, it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:34 PM
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I think that deep emotional bonds aspect is changing. Like a lot of the friendships between young men, especially those who've known each other since Pre-K are super close
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:31 PM
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They don't key cars anymore. Sugar in the tank or jolly rancher on the window is the go-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:28 PM
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Huh, a reasonable take. Rare as shit in this hellscape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:18 PM
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Yeah, definitely not a biased opinion. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:22 AM
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That just put a very disturbing image in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:50 PM
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I'm with you on this. I don't want anyone to see my emotions as sexy, fetishize a different part of me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:08 PM
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Probably. Remember when OF first became an unofficial porn site and there were always "debates" about how men "shouldn't" have a problem dating a woman who does sex work? It'll be that as it becomes more and more normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:58 AM
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I got all that but my eyes aren't kind😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:16 PM
0

Eh, women are gonna lie about their pasts regardless of what men want and men are gonna lie about their pasts regardless of what women want. People gonna do what it takes to get what they want, morality (within reason) be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:11 PM
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For the same reason people who'd never picked up a sword in their life loved gladiator fights? It's entertaining to see other people fight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:15 PM
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I've got no argument for or against this, never been a woman but I'll say that when I pick up on the implicit contract of "invest in me before I invest in you" it sets up something in my head that I'm not exactly jazzed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:54 AM
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Literally the only problem I have with this is the "most" Americans comment. Most Americans live in the city, you're the minority here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:26 PM
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Eh, if we're going the whole biological route then there's needs to be an asterisk behind that statement that says "for the purposes of sexual pleasure which leads to reproduction". You don't need to rationalize it, just be solid and say you'd like to put in less effort than right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:16 PM
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And I became a millionaire overnight by watching the Wolf of Wall Street on repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:50 PM
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Somewhere along the way, I failed massively in some area and it's manifesting in that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:18 PM
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I believe in a weird, personal ideology of balance in all things. I don't like teetering to far on either side but at the same time, I'm human so there's that. On top of that, I'm fortunate enough that most of the problems men here speak on I've never encountered regardless of if those problems were misplaced or not. Things have always just kinda worked out for me so places like this are kinda one big spectacle to me, I come to see people verbally tear each other apart while speaking past each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:26 PM
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I've literally never heard ANYONE say "looks don't matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:09 PM
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I swear to god, he better not be talking about the Viking thing. Like, please god, not that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:05 PM
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Oh no, it's definitely not that. Clearly, he's just too good for most women out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:56 PM
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I've never liked leaving under someone I'm close to (and can admit that's it rooted in my childhood) and because of that, I pay close attention to things like power dynamics and where the balance is, and this is making that weird, anxious part of my brain go through several scenarios where shit goes south. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:21 PM
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Or in a take wreaking less of bias and a purely negative perspective, people don't like to put themselves in comprising positions where they can't just up and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:18 PM
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What do you do to remain that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:09 PM
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I'll say this as a bi dude, gun to my head, god can strike me down if my lying, I never reveal my actual sexuality to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:51 AM
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save the spiders Vietnam-esque flashbacks of spider trying to crawl into my eye as a seven year old while *Fortunate Son** plays in the background*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:02 PM
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whatever causes your teeth to fall out for her Assuming she's a white woman, that's probably the effects of meth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:03 PM
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You're just afraid of black women because you suffer from internalized racism Change that to "Your momma black"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:08 PM
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Cannot stress this enough and I don't get where the disconnect comes from. A woman should be the icing on the cake, not the cake itself because if shit gets bad, you've gotta get another cake instead of just scraping the icing off and finding a better kind to put on top. Making any woman (or man) the center of your solar system is literally a death sentence for that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:01 PM
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I was actually surprised. Even reread like six times to make sure I didn't miss anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:14 PM
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I mean have you ever considered "🔪+🙋🏻‍♂️ = 💀🙋🏻‍♀️?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:21 PM
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This place went downhill. It's the same tired topics over and over, the sub's a hamster on the wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:27 PM
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Stretch marks, the tiger stripes are a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:35 PM
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I'm more of less in the same boat. I'm apparently the "exotic" kind of dark-skinned black dude (blue eyes from mom) into powerlifting so it's always either a deluge or a drought. No in-between for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:07 PM
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How the hell do I always end up in the flip-floppy subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:52 PM
1

His first mistake was unironically quoting Tyler Durden
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:39 PM
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No way in hell is there a 9/10 on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:33 PM
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I swear it functions like a fucking cult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:46 PM
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Oh good lord and here I was actually considering it 🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:09 PM
1

How tall are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:57 PM
1

My broader question is: should men still be polite and helpful to women who hate men? Or: should men take a more harsh approach to not date and befriend these women, and also keep professional ties at a minimum? How should men treat women who have proved to hate men in professional, amical and romantic spheres? I'm not gonna be polite or helpful to someone who hates me because I'm a man. It's stupid to be kind to someone who despises you for something outside your control. I'm not gonna pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:12 PM
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I personally stopped putting in as much effort after experiencing a glow-up and getting in the gym (mainly for sports in HS, but I started to enjoy it). I'm not sure if it's because of who I am down at my core, the kind of women I go for, or simply my (relatively?) young age here (21) but I just don't see the point of actually trying. Like at the end of the day, what am I even "trying" for? Because from what this sub tells me, I'm drowning in it on the dating apps, I don't need anyone to come in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:22 PM
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I...it could go either way. I don't like to generalize but something I've noticed is that if you're told that you're the first guy to treat her right....I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:29 AM
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That's what I'm saying. I'm reading this and feel like I grew up on another planet or something when I come here. Like, I remember seeing who girls my age were gushing over and it was pretty much the same — tall(er), in-shape/athletic, nice face. I don't know, maybe it's because I'm in the younger brackets here (21)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:48 PM
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Imagine if a woman said she can pay for guys too she can pay a man servant, sex, etc That's actually a pretty common argument when these conversations go feral. Especially the part about a man's money not meaning much because women have their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:45 PM
4

Can you link the studies? This isn't a "gotcha" thing btw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:35 PM
1

The dating market is too broad, which causes women to select based on superficial ideals. This gives power to a handful of men who aren’t even incentivized to treat women well (supply and demand), which leaves women wondering why they can’t find good men. This could be easily interpreted as "bust your ass becoming as physically attractive as possible and then wield that power".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:15 PM
2

Especially the end. I've messed around with ChatGPT for a few weeks now and I can more or less tell when someone's using it based on the response's structure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:06 AM
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Yeah, I gotta get the fuck outta this sub again. It's a bad sign when I read your comment and have to ask myself "is he trolling" because of how balanced, dare I say, normal you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:18 PM
5

Damn. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:13 PM
12

I'm purple but I've seen literally one. And looks aside, I could see why women wanted him, dude was a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:16 PM
2

Please say sike...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:15 PM
4

This is like some long-dead philosopher willing themselves back to life just to explain shit to us idiots of the modern age. I'm being genuine when I say that this nuanced take is too good for this hellscape of a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:56 PM
1

Y'all got baited hard, homegirl's not even good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:09 PM
2

And to add to this, the world's fucking overpopulated as is, if we're going with this whole value system, women's reproductive time would be on the downtrend in terms of value
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:46 PM
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lmao because you can't come out the gates saying some fucking "I'm young and hot" we'll start at "young" and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:38 PM
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Could be how you grew up, I'm a black man but I don't think I've ever approached an Asian woman before
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:16 AM
3

This. I've been on both sides of the coin and although I'm looking to strike a balance, I know which side I'd pick if push comes to shove
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:57 PM
1

I won't even lie. I've little idea of what it is. If it ain't more or less the sum of let's say ten women on the street, then I got nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:47 PM
9

Held together by bubblegum and baling wire
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:17 PM
2

I now know how to text that with emojis. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:50 PM
2

You too, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:59 PM
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Very. I think a good percentage of men wouldn't even bother with relationships because the truth is that desire for sex drives a lot of what we do, don't do, etc. I think if you went back far enough in our history, society would've taken longer to actually develop. Sure, the understanding that humans together had a better chance to brave and survive the wilds was a factor but that strong male desire for sex kept many a man involved in societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:42 PM
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Kinda. There's like a specific channel (company?) that I can't quite put a name to but it's marketed as "porn for women, by women" and all that jazz. I've also seen those category viewership stats, so that's something. I think me personally, I genuinely dislike. Talking about my feelings. I'm fine with listening to someone vent or whatever (to a point, I'm not gonna listen to the same trivial workplace drama that remains a thing due to passive-aggressiveness) but I come from the viewpoint of "th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:08 AM
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How do I know? I was this guy. I didn’t lie to them about what I wanted and didn’t want. Hell, I was specific and direct, but they often projected the inner and unspoken (or lied about) fantasy of who they wanted me to be in their life onto the real me, and would get furious when I didn’t magically become what they imagined - and that thing was being available to them emotionally. I wasn’t. I’m sure there are several who’ve made me out to be a villain to their friends. Experiencing this over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:39 PM
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See, this is what I did. Would I have preferred to have been some natural-born hot dude? Hell yeah, and I'll die on the hill that anyone who claim otherwise is a liar, but I figured what traits I had that made me more attractive, less attractive, or meh and went the fuckboy route from there, learned some things, took some time to figure out what I wanted, and now I'm somewhere in the middle (I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:30 PM
1

Unconditional love doesn't exist as all love comes with conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:15 PM
1

Fuck, now you're the person I'm gonna simp for here. Don't let me down lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:48 PM
2

A lot of good insights here. The reason I (22M, I'm young, don't kill me) ask overall is because I'm someone who started somewhat blue, read the red pill stuff but came out of it purple, so I'm always interested in hearing the perspectives of people who agree on at least some red pill things (especially women). I think overall, it's not good (or healthy) to view an entire group as a threat until proven otherwise and even then, they're being watched. That level of paranoia isn't something I want …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:45 PM
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I think I can see some truths in it, but the rigidity and toxic language never sat right with me. Well, now I'm interested. I disagree with the language but I understand that it's deliberate, it's meant to be polarizing. I'm curious to hear what you consider truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:55 PM
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Damn. I wanna ask so much but I also don't wanna be disrespectful so I'll list them and if you want, answer at your leisure. Why'd you buy a 100k wedding ring for a woman who pretty much said she was done fucking you? Were there any red flags looking back on it all now? What kinda "crazy extensive" things were in this pornhub search history? How messy was the whole process of getting out of all that? Are you in a better place (physically, emotionally, financially, mentally)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:41 PM
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Do I want to be? I'm not sure, but I've been conditioned to pursue it because of its close attachment to manhood so there's that. And seeing as I have the opposite experience of women where I'm more likely to be shamed for having a low body count, that's kinda how things pan out. It's funny tho, for all the talk about the past being the past and only men carrying about body count, offline life proved different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:37 PM
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I know it's not enough but I keep finding stuff when I search up "51% of black men don't have children." I'll still look for the survey tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:27 PM
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I should've mentioned this at some point, but yeah, there's levels to gold-digging. Everyone wants the top but most people figure out pretty quick what they can realistically get. Not everyone can have a once-in-lifetime super athlete or self-made millionaire or even a well-paid engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:20 PM
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I'm Gen Z (I think? Maybe on the older side?), but a lot of the opinions I hold about women were influenced by older brothers/sisters, uncles/aunts, cousins, etc along with picking up certain things as I got older. One of the ways I believe I differ from most here, is that the women in my life ripped the idea of women being "perfect and incapable of any wrongdoing" out of my head ASAP. Did they ever say that all women were one way or another? Nope, but they basically laid it out as "This is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:50 PM
6

Please tell me that was a typo and you meant 5x a week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:49 PM
1

Well, getting all emotional expression aside from anger beaten out of me in both the figurative and literal sense wasn't exactly the highlight of childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:40 PM
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It's what happens when you let women tell you how to set your boundaries. It’s really important for men to take women off a pedestal, they will only take advantage out of the lack of respect they have for you. Bingo. Do I think women in general are looking to use any and every man they meet? No (I'm also not saying that you're saying it), but the potential is always there. I'll admit, he's a hard-ass and we don't always see eye to eye but one of the most valuable things my dad used to always say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:16 PM
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Quite the paradigm. One's a potential exit onto the infidelity intersection but is great in casual situations while the other places that large burden of doing the rousing, the initiator of it all but improves the relationship likely remains more stables. Decisions, decisions...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:58 PM
3

You're unnervingly content and I both hate and admire that. Tell me more about yourself, magical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:47 PM
2

More or less that women are as capable of killing men as men are or killing women due to the existence of weapons (guns, knives, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:57 PM
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Seconded, I think. I agree with your idea that people are ditching RP in favor of something more normal or just putting the pedal to the metal. Although, I see "normal" as something reminiscent of like "purple pill" stuff, so that's where we might differ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:21 PM
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"I AM THE MAN WHO GRABS THE SUN, RIDING TO VALHALLA!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:14 PM
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it is a response to you killing us, we'll never actually kill you. So something (admittedly off-topic) that I wondered about this is whether or not it's because there's no desire to do so or rather the chances of pulling it off are low?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:55 AM
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I like being a hookup material, but I'd also like to be husband material for the women I deem wife material, otherwise the shit's not really a compliment a lot of the time. That's kinda the current climate — being hookup material is a better situation for most men and honestly allows more maneuverability, I don't believe a dudes who're husband material can become hookup material on a consistent basis for the women they're attracted to but I do believe hookup material dudes can become husband mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:42 PM
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As an apparent "man-whore" I'd have to disagree on sexual promiscuity not being a hindrance. I mean, if I wanna do nothing but sling dick then that's one thing but if I want a relationship? Women generally take a couple steps back and put into the the category of FWB at max because the assumption is that I must be a player/fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:19 PM
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A part of me wonders what's the ratio of nature/nurture in all this. Because if it's more nurture than nature, then the solution will be a gradual change on a cultural level for the betterment of both sides. If it's more nature, then I genuinely have no idea what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:27 PM
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No way in hell did you just give a level-headed and rational take without shitting on men or women. I'm actually amazed. Like, this is like...wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:13 PM
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I just wonder what the mostly anti-porn people consider an alternative? Because it's no secret that dudes are watching porn because they're not fucking, so the desire is mostly the same and it's strong enough that an alternative is considered and becomes the default. So, like what's the big idea to get dudes to stop with mass porn consumption because it's only growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:55 PM
1

I hate it when the condescending "oh, you're porn sick then?" replies come
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:48 PM
1

"That's different"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:45 PM
2

I'd be moving like a demon out here if we could contour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:47 PM
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The Greeks actually did/do. If I'm remembering correctly, Eros was a passionate erotic and romantic love. Phila was a more affectionate, platonic kind of love shared between friends (the source of Philadelphia's nickname). Philautia was self-love. Pragma was an enduring love like the kind you'd find in a marriage that's lasted a long time. Storge was a familial kind of love, parent and child, siblings, etc. Ludus was playful love, while Mania was an obsessive love (possibly infatuation?), and Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:10 PM
4

Funny how we keep running headfirst into the same brick wall, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:39 AM
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Well, at least you're consistent...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 AM
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Trust me, women consider it. If she finds out you lost count after 50, she'll take two steps back and weigh the options, get a second opinion, etc. There's less weight when a man's a slut but the weight's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:35 PM
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Just checked and yeah, 95% of that has to be from the mom, and I'm lowballing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:17 PM
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lmao wtf the more I learn, the more confused I get. Arousal for a dude is dumb easy, it's basically like being a werewolf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:24 AM
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Fucking hell, that sounds so alien. I can't even imagine attraction and arousal not being the same or at least so close that the difference didn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:09 AM
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I'm stuck between being elated that there's finally another perspective that cements the general experience of dating women and feeling sympathetic towards your frustrations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:07 AM
2

I think that's a mix of what you personally consider success + what's widely considered success
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:45 PM
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I think you mean Stacy, but I get the overall point you're making. To play Devil's Advocate for a second, I think what you want and what they want are inverted. You have a lot of hookup options but want to date like a Stacy does while most men have a better chance at being able to squeeze by into a relationship despite their faults but want to fuck like Chad does. Still wanna reiterate that I get your overall point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:23 PM
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I mean for the bad boy types, what's the plan to tame him? Because I'd imagine you'd put some thought into the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:43 PM
1

That's what the whole "Metaverse" thing is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:08 PM
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No shade, but I've always wanted to pick a woman's brain about that. Like, what's the overall gameplan to hook up this dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:49 PM
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I'd argue that dick alone is generally all that's necessary for that specific scenario. Did shit get better when that Rastafarian (I think?) fuckboy explained the benefits of using more of the hips? Yeah, but I think my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:39 PM
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Eh...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:14 PM
1

That's an unironically great site for looking at different tropes in movies and shows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:10 PM
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I kinda get where he's coming from because I more or less average before getting into the gym, quitting my contacts, and being more social. OP's bullshitting, most men don't have the ability to get or maintain a rotation. The dude you were dating probably didn't have a lot of options where as you did, so he sees the game as "it's do or die, I either win her over or grind through getting another date" where as you saw it as "it is what it is, I'd like this to go well but if it doesn't, there's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:25 PM
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I think it's normal while being one of those things that you're not supposed to openly acknowledge and if you do, then use extreme tact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:53 PM
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I always interpreted it that she wants the personalized poetry from AF, but it wouldn't hinder his chances in anyway if he just cuts to the chase
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:13 PM
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They don’t know how to get laid left right and center. Well, learn to be good in bed first and then you will have confidence I suppose. But that’s just one small piece of it. I agree with the overall point and more or less everything you've said but this part...I don't, I feel like it's putting the cart before the horse. Gotta have the confidence to approach in the first place, then you've gotta do it enough to notice the right patterns then get her in bed. Then you've gotta replicate that over …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:05 AM
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That's been my experience more or less, although I'm kinda tall so that parts irrelevant. As for jacked gym bros, I've found that most are really friendly and don't mind helping out. Like, the more he looks like someone who could kill you with a punch, the nicer he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:09 PM
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It's like falling into an alternate dimension that's really a hellscape with no real purpose aside from increasing misery if you let it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:58 PM
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This sub honestly makes me really thankful for being really social, getting out of my comfort zone as a kid, and doing what I could to level up, because if I didn't...well, we've seen what that can look like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:12 PM
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Y'all must've eaten some wheaties this morning because this thread is filled with some pretty legit info today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:26 PM
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I don't have much to add to this, but that's a really interesting perspective that I don't think I've ever heard/seen someone bring up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:24 PM
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I was honestly split down the middle because on one hand when you said "Guys: if you want to be successful with women become the guy who flirts for fun" it reminded me of a meme template I'd seen once and that confused me. On the other hand, when I read your comment a part of me believed that you were being serious. Thanks for clearing that up tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:17 PM
5

/s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:10 PM
5

A lot of times being fat was attractive not because it's attractive on its own, but because it was a status symbol that showed you had enough money to overindulge
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:02 PM
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Fucking hell, I feel that. I feel like I'm a lot younger than most here but have some decent experience but still, it's literally like hearing stories about some kind of monster that runs on trouble and turmoil while hunting for sport
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:23 PM
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This, I agree with but then it kinda hammers in a lot of unfavorable instincts that the males of our species show. It also brings up the question of why even give commitment at that point? Why invest in someone's that gonna make a push to leave in 4-6 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:16 PM
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This is really good insight, actually. I doubt in anything close to you socially but I've had similar experiences where because of how outgoing I was and how many things I was apart of, I attracted a lot of women but women who wanted sex and nothing else. A lot had partners and that really fucked me up for awhile but it did help me develop an almost unique kind of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:42 AM
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Can confirm. Post-nut clarity almost always hits me like a truck and fills me with self-loathing followed by a slight existential crisis. Not exactly a fun ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:05 AM
1

I once read a book that said pretty much everything you said but in-depth. Can't remember the guy's name tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:07 PM
2

This. No one ever knew fire was hot until they stuck their hand and got burned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:25 PM
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I've heard that one. The head is shaped kinda like a mushroom tip to scrape out the competitive spunk. The discomfort/pain if you keep thrusting is meant to disincentivize you from scooping out your own. Hell, even coming quick was something we gained through evolutionary advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:19 PM
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There was a story where a teenager got raped by his teacher and got put on the hook the second he turned 18. I genuinely doubt the man would be able to make it out of a rape situation like this unscathed in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:04 PM
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It's a real thing? I put on regular eyeliner once and immediately saw the appeal. Didn't think there was a male version tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:29 PM
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All this problems are automatically fixed or irrelevant when you stop caring about what people think. Difficult to do, but a valuable skill to have Older single women are famous for making these insults. I don't know why they do this, but I suspect they resent men not giving them more attention and free stuff anymore. I agree with this more or less, they were accustomed to things working a certain way...until it didn't anymore and if there's one things humans love, it's shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:30 PM
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Likely not, because they don't need to. Their competition is less attractive and therefore less experienced. It's similar to a really, really attractive woman who's a pillow princess. She doesn't need to care because she's never had to care. A man is presented with two women. The first is very attractive to him and doesn't care about whether or not he cums. The second is not very attractive to him and doesn't care about whether or not he cums. Who should he choose? A woman is presented with two …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:16 PM
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Which is something that boggles my mind about a lot of dudes. Like you can't complain about not having as much sex as you would like but then when the opportunity arises to raise your chances, make her pleasure secondary or irrelevant altogether and then be surprised that she's not keen on coming over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:56 PM
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You're seriously one of the few (and there are others) consistently level-headed RP (I think?) dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:22 PM
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You'd be surprised what a lot of dudes don't do. A lot still fuck like jackrabbits cursed with no rhythm, don't do oral, refuse to kiss after getting sucked off, don't really know what foreplay is, etc, etc. Honestly, just ask any straight or even bisexual woman that you're close to. They could tell you some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:18 PM
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Fuck it. You've got my vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:26 AM
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Yup. The pope is catholic, bears shit in the woods, Reagan could trace his lineage back to the devil, limes are the poor man's lemon, and women like muscles though I think the particular woman's age plays a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:49 PM
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TAKE YA TIME PASSA!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:29 PM
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We're cruel beings comparable to beasts more so than human women. Our girlfriends/wives are broodmares to be used for reproduction and as a source of sexual satisfaction and our children are mere tools meant to further our bloodlines so that we may conquer all of the land and sea. While women thirst for civilization, men don't because civilization is unnatural, a whim of circumstance. We are barbarians and barbarism must always triumph. We love deep while we live, know the rich juice of red meat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:19 PM
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Agreed. One of the few positives I've found is that it makes rejection a lot easier and makes me think long and hard about whether or not I wanna a LTR a particular woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:24 AM
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Asking a question like that kinda implies to some that you already believe it. For example: "would most women trick their S/O into raising another man's baby that he believes is his if given the chance?" Implies to certain degree that whoever asks that kinda believes it already. Granted, OP probably doesn't believe that most men would rape if given the chance but who knows🤷🏿‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:07 AM
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I'm trying to soak up as much advice as I can so bear with me here because I'm trying to get a grasp on this. So, you're saying put obstacles between assets or like stretch them out so it's harder to get access and take most, if not all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:43 AM
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I'm not OP, but I've always held the belief that getting half felt...somewhat extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:45 PM
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Yeah, that was Left Eye. Apparently, she did it because she though he was fucking some other singer/rapper. I vaguely remember her being praised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:34 PM
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If a gracious dom and beautifully dominating sub is anything remotely similar to a soft dom and power bottom (or a switch in general) then, yeah, I can see it now. Also, The Red Pill. If you're on this sub and haven't heard that name and don't recognize the abbreviation, I don't know if you're new-ish or unlucky/lucky enough to miss all the back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:54 PM
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Yeah, I remember those scenes. I can see it a bit more clearly now and he does have a face that while not conventionally attractive does make you want to keep looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:51 PM
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Then, (and this isn't me trying to give you enough rope to hang yourself) what is it? I'm genuinely curious to hear it from the source and see how it matches up to what I believe, what I've been told to believe, and what's actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:49 PM
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The "dad bod" trope is a myth. Most women don't find dad bods sexually attractive. Certain types of women might like a man she feels is "attainable" and doesn't make her feel insecure, but that's about it. Totally agree. If you look on other dating/sex subs, usually ones with conversations about dating apps, it's not uncommon for women to advise men in good shape to not show off their body as it'll "make you look like a douchebag." Also on subs like this, a lot of women explain that men with att…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:15 PM
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Women overwhelmingly prefer Loki to Thor Depending on specific parts about Loki that are attractive, TRP might eat this one up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:07 PM
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I honestly don't get the Druig appeal. Bucky? Absolutely get it. Loki? Less so, but sure. Druig? Genuinely can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:05 PM
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And just like that...I've found another sane human being with the ability to understand nuance in this hellscape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:17 PM
6

We're basically fucked as a species, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:09 PM
2

You asked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:53 PM
3

Funny how that works, ain't it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:31 PM
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Because you're not fueled by rage and sexual frustration like a lot of dudes here. This sub is a big reason why my flair implies purple instead of red because of the assumptions that come with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:21 PM
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"Come and take it" — King Leonidas I
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:11 AM
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If you think God's even paying attention to us anymore, you haven't been paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:49 PM
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It was just a general vibe that you found attractive, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:05 PM
2

I'm actually interested in what you did that helped improve you so much that you stopped being an jncel (I'm assuming you were)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:51 PM
2

A normalized sedentary lifestyle + shut up and trust the bulking process
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:22 PM
4

I adamantly refuse to believe you're an actual woman. I genuinely believe nothing will change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:44 PM
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Men dont actually have a higher sex drive, that's a myth. Women have more stigma surrounding sex because of religion and patriarchy, and have been constantly shamed for acting on or even thinking about their sexual desires. Spoken like someone who's never had the drug known as high testosterone flooding their body. Are your points about sex being stigmatized for women valid? Sure, but testosterone I believe that the majority of reported experience is that male sex drives are higher than female. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:35 PM
1

It's honestly a cheat code, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:29 PM
1

Now that we're on the subject, cutting off her feet would be far more cost-efficient. There's no reason to waste good chains.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:58 PM
2

It was a nuanced take to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:44 PM
3

I nearly flipped my shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:47 PM
2

socially conservative black womens’ sub Huh. A contradiction so powerful that my brain almost did a force restart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:16 AM
4

That's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:08 AM
2

So then you have no problems with your male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:15 AM
5

Well, fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:35 AM
10

Without some kind of source I have to assume those stats were pulled straight from her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:09 AM
9

Your post history is like an acid trip that you vaguely remember afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:45 PM
1

Do it again!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:14 PM
1

I always thought people were weighed and measured after death, then again, maybe he was short
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:25 PM
1

Ah, makes sense. Yeah, he wasn't gonna win that battle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:22 PM
1

Are there any tips/guides you have off the top of your head? Because I always thought so long as you weren't unkempt you were fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:21 PM
6

He was 5'9, how's that short?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:31 PM
1

I'm more or less neutral towards women, some are great, others are terrible, most are somewhere in-between and judging them monolithically sounds dumb. Still, as humans we have a nature that differentiates us from other animals and we follow that to varying degrees so the whole thing about female nature is true (and possibly unrefined) and something that was obvious around the time I hit puberty sense it was just a set of patterns that girls followed to varying degrees due to socialization, brai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:04 PM
7

In the U.S. wanting a man that isn't obese or damn close to it is being picky as hell, that alone disqualifies almost half
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:10 PM
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Make everyone 10/10 Chads and Stacys via genetic engineering, then sit back and enjoy the show. I really wanna see a world of designer humans where Chadcels exist before I die
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:41 PM
1

Be hot, literally everything else is secondary to hotness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:15 PM
4

I wanna disagree with you (fuck, I really want too) but you're right, a lot more right than anyone's really willing to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:34 PM
1

Were they military, by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:06 PM
2

Trying something even when you know there's a chance at failure is a courageous thing, a trait most people lack. You can only fail if you're willing to try and most people aren't willing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:05 PM
17

You're literally a wiseman amongst village idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:33 PM
8

You're not wrong, this is our new normal (I think typing that stupid phrase out just killed me a bit.) Everyone's dating more than one person and keeping it hidden but at the same time no one owes you anything, not even an explanation if you get dropped out of nowhere. It's honestly not surprising that everyone's so terrified of investing into another person and I think that's why dating is shit now and marriage will be shittier. I don't think those RP guys were all that wrong when they said "en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:26 PM
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I don't really have a huge list of traits that I vet for or against but from what I know, unstable people lead to unstable relationships, so I look for women who won't be a doormat and won't try to make me into a doormat. Financial expectations and habits are pretty important. I've seen many marriages ruined by friction over money. If one party is a saver and the other is a spender, there's going to be trouble. If you're both big spenders, well, knock yourselves out. Hopefully you're also both b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:26 PM
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Right? Like I've never hated anyone but whenever I read stories or watch videos about people cheating and all the lying they did and how once they get caught there's some bullshit excuse like "you weren't giving me enough attention" or "you don't give me enough sex" or my personal favorite, "it just happened" I just kinda hate them. People really do everything but leave🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:51 AM
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It depends on the dynamic of your family and culture but throughout human history, children were reaised as part of a multigenerational collection of individuals, and I think everyone benefits from this. I actually grew up raised by my mom in my grandparents house alongside my siblings until I was sixteen and I think it brought in a more structured environment with additional supervision and guidance. There's obviously friction involved when you bring in another generation, but I think it's wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:29 AM
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Holy shit, slavery? I think I just felt my ancestors facepalm as a collective in heaven or wherever slaves go😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:39 PM
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And let's not ignore that children raised in one-parent households usually do worse than their peers actually raised in two-parent households. (And no, for anyone looking to get sassy, I will not link them for you. Google "children raised single parent households study" and have yourself a happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:36 PM
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How do actually know that's the case? There's not a lot of ways men and women met before things like the internet and telephone outside of meeting through friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:37 AM
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I've never trusted surveys or self-reports when people have to admit bad things about themselves or bad things they've done for the simple fact that people downplay their flaws and hate being considered the villain. I think when it comes to stats on infidelity, it's like asking a guy his dick size or a woman her body count, you're gonna be lied to. To your question, I think women cheat more than men and if they're not there yet, they're damn close. On one side you have someone who's had access t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:12 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers because men won’t act right unless there is incentive to do so. No one does anything without incentive to do so and if there aren't consequences for actions then people won't feel incentivized to do what's considered good. People don't avoid breaking the law because it's not the right thing to do, they avoid it because breaking the law comes with consequences whether that be fines or jail time. Humans, men and women, are innately opportunistic so most of their motivatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:51 PM
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You were spot on, I can definitely admit that for me, that lack of vulnerability/availability stems from a fear of rejection, it's pretty much telling someone about your weak spot, taking off your suit of armor, handing them a dagger, turning around, and trusting them not to stab you in the back and I'm terrified of that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:28 AM
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That's something I definitely gotta work on. I have the emotional availability/vulnerability of a corpse sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:13 PM
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Show me the way because whatever you just said went right over my head
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:28 PM
1

I don't think an ideology that shuns longterm relationships that lead to marriage would ever want a housewife unless they're just using housewife to mean: "submissive woman who's solely dependent on me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:49 PM
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Can't say I agree with everything in the article but it was an interesting read regardless that gave me a different viewpoint on questions I always had
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:49 PM
1

I'm subbed to RD4M but you know you didn't actually link it this time, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:08 PM
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Has actual goals for herself that she's actively working towards and isn't willing to slack on them just because she's in a relationship Has to pleasant person to be around. If I couldn't see myself spending a substantial amount of time with you outside of the context of sex, then a relationship can't happen. Has to be taller than most women, ideally somewhere in the range of 5'8 and 6'0 (without heels). I'm already pretty tall for a guy and just feel that having a partner who's taller than most…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:39 PM
1

Depends on whether or not you honestly believe you can raise a child into a fully-functioning adult, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:17 PM
1

22%? That's just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:09 PM
6

He could find them because they were everywhere, they couldn't find him because he wasn't everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:14 PM
5

If they can get it up, they are attracted. I could get it up with a stiff breeze, a bottle of olive oil, and my imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:43 PM
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Seems like he needs to step away from all this red pill, blue pill, purple pill shit for at least a year and just live life without discussing why we fuck who we fuck. A detox, if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:30 PM
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Massive amounts of porn use Due to a massive difference in libido, but I get your point Video games Just like other forms of entertainment (social media, movies, and television), video games is more of a passive activity as opposed to the more physical ones and when people have a choice between doing a passive activity they enjoy and a physical activity they enjoy, I'm not surprised when they go passive more of them not More men living with their parents This...is something I can't speak on this…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:16 PM
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Nowhere. When your mother dies, the motherly love dies with her and it's never coming back no matter how much you wish it would. A mother's love is unconditional when it comes to her children, as is a father's love but when they die, it's gone forever and recedes into the back of your mind as a myriad of memories that trigger a sense of nostalgia, happiness, safety, and then sadness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:32 PM
1

1, purple pill but more red then blue if that counts for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:45 PM
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The bar's not low for most men, it's low for the dude's that are already attractive because of simple supply and demand and quite high for the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:21 AM
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I refuse to let these psychos anywhere near my other, more personal accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:24 PM
5

Very based. Very truth-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:58 PM
2

I don't ask because in my head, she lying and I'm multiplying by three
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:12 PM
1

That's an oversimplification. A better one would be: "these are some of the things that make men attractive to women." The physical things are obvious by just paying attention, the trope of the tall, dark, and handsome was a thing even before your great-great grandmother was flicking the bean. The trouble a lot of men have is figuring out what's attractive in terms of intangible qualities and TRP shines a light (an admittedly skewed one) on that. Though, there ideas should be taken with a grain …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:05 PM
3

You're optimism is a beacon of hope in the abyss of my black heart, my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:24 PM
1

I wouldn't recommend going to FDS, the stomping ground for misandrist sociopaths, to assess the behaviors of the average woman. If someone feels the need to, they're usually insecure or on the same shit they're accusing you of. With that being said, I've been in a few relationships and the ones who vigilantly guard their phones are typically the ones cheating and accusing you of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:29 PM
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Do men want traditional relationships anymore? Yeah and they want a Ferrari too, but just like that Ferrari, they can't afford the traditional relationship so that's kinda moot. I think everyone, man or woman, "wants" a traditional relationship in the sense that they want the pros of having their 1950s housewife or provider husband while being a modern-day fuckup in a few ways that could prove detrimental Do any men want housewives? The benefits of it, yes. I don't see the value of a housewife, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:09 AM
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I can believe it. I knew a guy exactly like that and from the rumors, he got a few of his "polyamorous" partners pregnant though the "fathers" don't know it. It's gonna be an interesting conversation when those kids turn out to be unnaturally good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:45 PM
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Yeah and it plays a huge part in the idea of women being better at cheating. A side dude for the most part wants sex and only sex, he's getting exactly what he wanted with as little effort as possible. A side chick wants sex for a time and next thing you know, she's wanting to go on "outings" and texting outside of the established time window and now you're caught up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:05 PM
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FDS is the TRP's gendered reflection in dating, two extremist ideologies claiming superiority and denouncing their "opposition" one's not better then the other. TRP uses and manipulates women under the guise of plausible deniability and FDS uses and manipulates men under the guise of plausible deniability. One can't exist long without the other. So if you're FDS or TRP, you shouldn't have a problem with your ideological antithesis since you're more or less playing the same game with a tweaked se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:44 AM
1

They just be saying shit half the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:43 PM
2

I expect it again next Wednesday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:21 AM
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to cite pop culture we were bit like jaime and cersei lannister lmao. That sounds incredibly toxic and this coming from someone who only watched the show
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:03 PM
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I'm genuinely surprised by such a level-headed response in this of all places
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:05 PM
12

Absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:59 PM
1

That's the one on FX (I think? But Hulu too?) where the cover has a woman in red wearing a white, hat-thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:05 PM
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I also really doubt that women have more taboo fetishes than men. Shit, I don't. g(r)ape fantasies are primarily a woman's thing and that's some wild shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:51 PM
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There was actually an salary study by google to see by how much more money they were paying men as opposed to women, turned out they were actually paying women 8% more than men
/r/MensRights02/08/21 09:24 PM
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Not everyone won't hit the wall at the same time but everyone, regardless of their gender, will come face to face with it but with you, you're a clear outlier and you've basically admitted to this because you were, in your own words, "invisible to men on your early 20s and didn't start to get attention until your mid 20s" so your frame of reference is going from being completely ignored to being thirsted after while with most women, they go from being thirsted after to slowly being thirsted afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:33 PM
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Shaming? No. Avoiding? If you feel like that lessens your chances of getting cheated on then do what you feel works. Not my monkey, not my circus🤷🏿‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:39 PM
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If you were near invisible then you were below average, therefore it didn't apply to you because there was no "wall" for you to hit at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:21 PM
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What are your views on your mothers and if applicable your daughters? Are your opinions consistent with all the women? I’ve seen many posts of all women being leeches and harpies. My mother was pretty good at raising me and my siblings. I remember early on, she had the boys learning to do things a woman would traditionally in the household and had the girls learning to do things a man would traditionally in the household. Her goal was basically so that no man or woman could ever say that her chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:05 PM
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Also we men get together every Tuesday night and scheme on how we can pay women less than us while we are doing less than them. They didn't want me to tell you this. We're jumping you this Tuesday
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 04:42 PM
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Once you come to terms with humans being definable as opportunistic, territorial, and tribalistic ape-things, everything gets a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:31 PM
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It's based on an insight of sociology linking tattoos and piercings, especially highly visible ones, to deviant behavior. I'm sure there's a study somewhere about it but I've never bothered to looked for it. Whether or not this rings true, I can't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:13 PM
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I definitely disagree with this. It's definitely not easier for a man to look more attractive. Most men are attracted to most women, that doesn't go both ways. What's more, the physical traits women find attractive in men are harder to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:36 PM
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It gets worse. My little brother looks like a damn Calvin Klein model and the shit that he's told me about and shown me still boggles my mind to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:23 PM
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I think I remember it being 60% didn't procreate but that's only a 10% difference so I guess it doesn't mean much. I remember it as 40% of men procreated while 80% of women procreated, so you're in the ballpark
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:08 PM
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A woman who makes it to 25 being a virgin is something she did out of choice. She could have fucked a 1000 dudes by then, but she didn't. It's not a red flag to me, but I'm not really interested in walking someone through sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:14 PM
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I mean, yeah, I get it; J. Cole said it best: "She say she only fucked like 4-5 niggas, so you know you gotta multiply by 3" and over the years, I've internalized the idea that pretty much every woman's gonna lie about it, so I might as well inflate it just to be safe despite how unhealthy a distrustful mentality like this would be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:44 PM
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I always found it strange how in almost every other aspect of life, past matters, but in the context of sex, we're suddenly not supposed to take it into consideration at all or we're intolerant assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:49 PM
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With how...uninformed a shocking number of men are, you can get a girlfriend from that alone for about three weeks until she needs more substance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:50 PM
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Canada's a terrible place. If I'm not mistaken, they also have step-parents paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:16 AM
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I mean, I get your point (I think you're saying everything that glitters ain't gold, bad side to everything) but studies show that being more attractive leads to more/better opportunities of all kinds i.e., potential for a better life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:42 AM
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Height or face on the other hand... Even then I think that something could be done if they really wanted it (not height, that shit's a risky surgery.) I think for the most part, the difference between a ugly face and a attractive face is the combination of your eyes and nose. According to this (sorry, but a pdf go to page 5) study, nose reshaping and eyelid surgery are the most popular after boob jobs, lipo, and facelifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:54 AM
1

True 50/50 in a relationship is a rare and beautiful but shitty idea. The reality is that human nature doesn't like the practice of equality when that a particular individual cannot gain something from (for the most part.) With that being said, if there comes a day in the future where my partner wants a 50/50 relationship straight down the middle like a state line? Then I'll oblige her, but for me personally? I have no interest in completely equal partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:09 AM
1

Right? I haven't been to mind in years (I'll go soon though, love those cinnamon pretzels)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:04 AM
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I think each option has credence but the ninth seems to be the pinpoint and actually includes five and seven. When you're in an LTR, there's an incentive to stay on your p's and q's because you're not bound together through finances or children so you have to continue to put in constant effort because the other party (assuming they have self-respect), will cut their losses and end things. In a marriage, things switch up due to how it's portrayed. We're taught that marriage is the endgame and end…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:10 PM
3

Based and truthpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:33 PM
1

It makes an ass out of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:42 PM
2

lmao no, I just meant I'd get real loose-lipped when I drank (admittedly, this was college so...you know), something that wouldn't have happened had I stayed sober. Now, though, I don't go past a buzz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:31 PM
1

They're not ready for that conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:43 PM
5

The West (In this case, America,) has a weird alcohol/party cultures that pushed onto people from a really young age. We see it as children around family and friends-of-family, commercials, movies, radio, and the general summary is: drink and get shit-faced! It's fun and you wanna have fun, don't ya? Luckily, it's never been a thing for me because I hate the taste and I hate losing control in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:37 PM
2

Would that hit my ego a bit if I thought I was knocking it out the park? Sure, my ego's a serious weak point and I don't like when it's damaged in any way but I'd still have to take it on the chin, hear her out, and work on what she suggested because not only would that make her happier, it would make my ego happier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:25 PM
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It's funny and a bit sad how society did turn into Animal Farm.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 11:21 AM
10

God, I hope the mods see this
/r/seduction21/05/21 07:55 PM
3

It's basically Orwell's Animal Farm at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:17 AM
5

And boy are they pissed when they find out you weren't speaking womanese...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:39 PM
5

I think he's saying that society as a whole doesn't care much about men when compared to women, and he's right in some aspects, assuming he's pulling from the instances of male disposability being a common thing across pretty much every civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:25 PM
2

As a wise man once wrote, those who wish to fuck, let them fight, and those who who do not wish to fight in this world of eternal adultery do not deserve to fuck. Did you just rewrite a Hitler quote?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:05 PM
3

Because people don't like anything that could imply in any way that they could possibly be not as morally upright as they originally believed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:30 PM
8

Exactly. You have to really be on your toes once you put a ring on it, keep on pursuing her, flirting, surprising, being exciting, or else it goes downhill. A man has to be on guard with his frame 24/7, whether he is in a relationship or pursuing casual sex. If anything, casual dating is easier because you can take breaks once in a while and just relax and be yourself. When does it fucking end?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:52 AM
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If it's QOVES Studio, that's where I saw it too. Can't wait for that podcast to get up and running.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:10 AM
2

lol that's the point. It's kinda like you're supposed be like, "you're physically attractive but in an odd way..."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:07 AM
8

Adam Driver is considered unconventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:47 PM
13

Not unattractive, non-traditional/non-conventionally attractive people. Kinda like ugly-cute, it's weird but...humans are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:33 PM
21

It's god swinging his fucked up pendulum back the other way and balancing things out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:43 PM
2

Rape is largely irrelevant to adolescent development, before you comment about it. Nope. You can't throw out wild shit like that without a source. Also, women aren't demented, blood-drunk succubi. They aren't even as violent since that's linked to aggression and therefore, testosterone which men have admittedly less than our predecessors but still more than women. They literally cannot afford to be bloodthirsty savages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:28 AM
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It's honestly a problem that's not going to be solved. The government and family court system has a very, very archaic view of women and men when it comes to relationships and that archaic thinking is why we're here now. In the past, the man had free reign to do what he liked and his wife was pretty much at his mercy. Then the laws changed and the roles reversed so that women were guaranteed the security that was up in the air at the time but now they can kind of do whatever and still win if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:11 AM
3

It's easy to never let your hate go and heal when you view the majority of a demographic as inferior hell-spawns based on the actions of a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:14 PM
1

Is it on Spotify?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:59 PM
21

lol there's no way you're not a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:55 PM
4

Good nasty or bad nasty?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:47 AM
2

Outcome independent, extroverted but somewhat aloof. Straight up daddy dick vibes for lack of a better term
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:16 AM
0

Nice Guy game is just a lazy mating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:12 PM
2

They may not like it, but this is kinda fair in the scenario of her coming back after he's making a little money
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:07 PM
1

That's actually interesting to me, you mind going a little more in depth on that (I'm assuming you're a mother)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:42 PM
1

No. Don't be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:06 PM
7

You gonna have a hard time lol, you're essentially looking for a man with options but restricts himself from casual sex because he prefers/needs and emotional bond. A more introverted (maybe religious) man with higher agreeableness and conscientiousness usually equals lower sociosexuality. Like I said before, this ain't gonna be easy. We live in a world that encourages hedonism so you're likely fucked for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:15 AM
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Pretty much the reason why I'm not all too keen on TRP despite integrating some of their ideas. I kinda wish there was a Purple Pill sub without bias towards men or women that examined both sides of the story but that's not gonna happen anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:16 PM
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lol I know right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:37 PM
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Yup, thread over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:18 PM
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And both men and women always end up crashing and burning because they reached to high
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:50 PM
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In line at Starbucks, oddly enough. I was near her when I ordered and she leaned over and gave me all kinds of compliments about my body. I said thanks and that she looked great too. She gave me her business card (realtor) and told me to text her around 2am. I did. She rolled up to my shitty apartment in a super nice benz and from that point I had the best experiences of my fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:32 PM
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I found this from (I think) 2018 that concluded that women were happier than men on average in every country they surveyed except Portugal. This one claims something similar but concludes that women are happier than men in the vast majority of countries because of the lack of aspirational pressure on them outside of getting married and having children. Another study from 2020 makes a similar claim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:14 PM
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It wouldn't have gone that far if I hadn't, and she was pretty attractive so that definitely helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:55 PM
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I can imagine why, those high value dudes probably have a bunch of expectations especially if they're already attractive and the average woman would likely crack under the pressure of trying to be perfect gf/wife of this ubermensch. Whereas with the average man, perfection is rarely sought after
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:41 PM
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I'm absolutely fine with it, I even had a sugar mama in college that gave me allowance and payed my way for everything. I've just never cared about the rigid gender roles of "you must do this, this, that, and this or you're not a man" Truth is everyone likes being catered to and spoon-fed positive attention, it's just a thing. If some woman wants to Dior me who am I to say no? Am I supposed to feel emasculated if I win the lottery too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:31 PM
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When your claims could be summarized as "I'm not the problem, the other side is the problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:22 PM
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Yale conducted a study where they concluded female happiness to be on the decline even today. There are also multiple articles floating around the internet that claim the same thing even with the increased influence of the women's rights movement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:21 PM
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If you mean by ignoring the tingle fog then sure, women should be more selective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:06 PM
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Those standards aren't good for securing a high value mate that'll stick around and be a good parent if you can't lock him down in the first place. If a woman's ideal man was suddenly real, he likely wouldn't want her for anything long term and if a man's ideal woman was suddenly real, she wouldn't want him either. Women lower their standards because the only other choice is to be a fuckbuddy or die alone. The whole "evolutionary perspective" is bullshit to remove women of agency because as huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:04 PM
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Like a man displaying happiness is least attractive or providing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:06 PM
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And that's always the funny part
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:44 PM
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Then we're definitely at an impasse since you're unlikely to see the other side of the coin. Just in my experience, men put in more emotional labor that women put in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:48 PM
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No. Women don't initiate because they don't have to in regards to most men and because they're risk adverse in comparison to men. And in regards to emotional labor, I'm confident that men literally have to put in more work in that category just to survive. Have you seen the bullshit that some women will put you through just because?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:41 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:08 PM
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Yes. I believe toxic masculinity as any traditionally masculine being taken to an extreme exists (assertiveness to aggression, independent to the point of refusing any help, etc.) I just don't like how it's been perverted by the media into this shaming stick you can wave at someone just because.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:25 AM
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I honestly think we should have talks about it in the community, like you said: what's the point of seduction if you're just terrible once it's time for the bedtime boogaloo?
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:00 AM
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Hate to say but with how women are basically incentived to file for divorce in today's family court it's like someone holding a revolver to your head and asking if you'd like to play a game with 50% chance of death
/r/MensRights01/04/21 03:28 PM
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I'm young too, but from what I've learned, it's designed that way but the downside is that they often get thrown out of court if the judge considers it unfair in anyway. A couple key points my divorced uncles and friend's dads have hammered home is to not hide assets, don't try to get out of child support, don't draw it up so that your divorced spouse is left destitute (this is wear guys fuck up if their wife was a SAHM), make sure that before it's signed you and her both have a professional leg…
/r/MensRights01/04/21 03:14 PM
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That first one is actually really simple if you look at what kind of romance novels women typically read. One of the main tropes is a woman being the object of desire for two men and having them fight over her. The second one is basically her saying: "Look how many guys want me! That means you have to try really, really hard to win me." But yeah, girls are weird as shit sometimes bro
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:59 PM
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Yeeeah, hate to say but with how immature and cruel teenagers can be, that kid's probably gonna kill himself before he hits 18.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 12:34 AM
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Just look at what society tells us to do, he manned up alright, and did a nosedive into the void, just like they want. And still, we'll be told to man up but still open and be vulnerable all in the same breath
/r/MensRights19/03/21 09:56 PM
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Deadweight is meant to be dropped, you lost nothing
/r/MensRights19/03/21 06:06 PM
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Nah, man. Steph puts up shit that makes you believe that God's on his side at all times
/r/seduction10/02/21 02:33 PM
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Fought some guy about three times over a girl that both of us wanted. At the end of it, it turned out she was just doing it to make her ex jealous. Good times...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:07 PM
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