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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Men who only pursue you romantically after your “glow up” This is why I don't wear makeup or fancy clothes. Total waste of money. I'm clean and my clothes fit. Sometimes my hair is done. If that's not enough, oh well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 10:39 PM
23	Gail Dines outing the libfems - we should make her talks popular to wake up our sisters I haven't gotten to that one yet. I'm listening to them in order. Can't wait to get to it. This woman clearly knows her stuff. I've been on the lookout for more feminist speakers and literature.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 05:24 PM
19	FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behaviours I've only been here about a month and it does seem a little harsh to hear sometimes, but things always seem harsh when there's no sugarcoating. I'm learning all the time and am looking forward to reaping the benefits of all the hard work in front of me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 04:47 PM
1	What should we call Male Karens? Darrens? Karen is the modern incarnation of Ms. Ann	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 05:58 PM
29	FDS when you're a mother All of my grandparents and both parents taught me that if you are single with children to wait until they're grown, man or woman. There are too many predators who will date you just to have access to your children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 12:14 AM
13	What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness? I keep hearing about the ass wiping thing and I thought it was an exaggeration at first, but I find myself increasingly horrified as new data points continue to accrue.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 12:06 AM
5	Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page! I just found this subreddit from a starterpack comment. I had no idea this place existed and I'm ecstatic. The best part is that while I already know about maintaining boundaries and sussing out disordered personalities, there's so much to learn about my own internalized 'pick me' behavior. I can't wait to remove it, branch by branch. Historically, I've always 'let myself go' to avoid male attention since it's usually so overwhelmingly negative, and it has been effective, but after reading the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/21 05:45 AM

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