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I know you think its easy (hint...because you do limited care-taking and that is your job so you don't have to balance your career with your non-family).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:22 AM
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You don't know anything about me so I don't know how you could possible know that. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:16 AM
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How do all these childless people think they are experts on balancing work and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 01:47 AM
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Like I said...have some kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 01:37 AM
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"Women will fuck you without even knowing your real name" SO you are in the top %20 that I keep hearing about? I worked while I raised kids and our quality of life suffered to a degree that made us both rethink that. Our quality of sleep, our children's quality of education, the time we were both able to spend together and with them, the quality and nutrition of the food we ate. But we both also realized that family + house takes up more than 8 hours a day. That house work and family care is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:17 AM
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Ok...so you live with your mom and have no kids. Great. Money exists to help us assign value to things. We are discussing the value of housework/care-taking. Talk of money is not literal, it is a way of comprehending the value of something by speculating what its monetary value is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:02 AM
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What does "1 in 5 moms stay hat home" have to do with the perceived value of housework/care-taking. I never commented on anything about child wellbeing. Good luck with your pumping and dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:58 PM
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I want to hear from you when you have a few of your own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:56 PM
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The statistics might mislead you where China is concerned. The society there still values women who prioritize motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:49 PM
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Sure you help your mom out now and again, but if she asked you to move in with her, cook and clean, take care of some toddlers, chauffeur them around, pack their lunches, wake up at night with them etc...for like 6 years each...you'd probably say no. And the point isn't to get paid for being a stay at home parent. The point is to recognize the value of such an arrangement and not belittle the partner who stays at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:47 PM
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Alright, we're gonna generalize...men don't want to commit. Not in high school. Not in college. Men don't want to commit in general until they start losing their hair and they feel like they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:01 AM
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Doesn't redpill exist because women are refusing to have sex. It always seems like red pill is complaining about women being too picky. Or am I thinking of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:58 AM
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Our safety is a function of the society we live in. The society we live in was built by traditional gender roles. The past recent was worse because food shortages and disease/health-stuff. Before that it was those things plus group conflict. We are on our way to either combining all groups into one or having group conflict again. So traditional gender roles would bring the most long term safety. If safety is what you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:55 AM
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Women are not "better" people. Kindness is as much a function of power dynamics as cruelty. What do you mean by trad-con in this context. What is a crypto-tradcon. Otherwise yes...traditional societies were about men being providers and women being caretakers. The alpha male as described by TRP is undesirable unless you are on tindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:50 AM
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Traditional roles and liberalism are not incompatible. The changing meanings of liberalism over time make it difficult to pin down. I am generally liberal but recognize the value of traditional gender roles when they are taken seriously. Most cultures are still traditional. It is only western cultures that are so extreme in their 'liberation' that the societies themselves are dissolving and being replaced by competing social frameworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:40 AM
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traditionalism will make a come back because traditionalists have more kids. Non-traditionalists become very educated and liberated, but have few offspring. They will die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:09 AM
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With a good man, sure. With a bad man....no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 10:07 AM
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This is just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:55 AM
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Neither of these things are low status until they are done in excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:53 AM
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In that case, running should be even lower status because a good pair of shoes only costs $100.00.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:53 AM
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"Look she is a stay at home mom. She brings in ZERO DOLLARS. Every bite of food she eats, every sangria she quells the pain of homemaking with, every piece of clothing that is on her back, is attributable to the man working." You assume that housework, childcare, chauffeuring people around, breastfeeding, care-taking, waking up in the night, and managing small children (which is not a 9-5 job) are all worthless. If you want a family, you should recognize the value in the work required to maintai…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:10 AM
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She is supported by his income, but she is providing work free of charge. That is the issue at hand. If she were to go to work, depending on region, pay rates, and cost of living, it is likely that outsourcing childcare would take up most of her paycheck. And food and housework would degrade. Quality for everyone would suffer as you both get home from work at 5:30 and stuff some leftover pizza in your mouth, then plop your kids in front of the tv so you can shower and do laundry. Having a sahm d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:57 AM
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Yeah, but it is trying to develop a consensus on what people "should" do and how they "should" behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:52 AM
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Leave house...lay down on lawn to nap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:51 AM
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Did you get to go home at the end of the day or were you the 24/7 caretaker for multiple children for years on end while also being responsible for cleaning the house, laundry, cooking, driving to appointments, etc...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:50 AM
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Depends on how many kids, size of house, and predilection of the individuals in the relationship. Housework + kids is a 20 hour a day job. Going to work is kindof a break in retrospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:46 AM
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I think it has created men and women who have kinks for violent and abusive sex. I think this has effects on psychology that are probably bad for everyone. And probably for the children of such people. More vanilla porn...I don't have much of a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:57 PM
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Your first sentence is pure fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:47 PM
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I aimed for marriage and family, so I asked men out because I wanted a partner. It seems girls today are told they don't need a man and shouldn't aim for a family as a life goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:46 PM
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Depends how far you go back. To date a girl a hundred years ago you had to hang out with her parents. Then you had to marry her. So...the issue isn't that its harder to date. The issue is its harder to secure a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:43 PM
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Yes - RP believes this. I don't know why it would be the man's fault. I guess it depends on the situation. Women (who are abusive) are typically emotionally or verbally abusive to partners and can also be physically and sexually abusive to minors. People abuse what they have power over. This does not mean that a woman could not physically or sexually abuse a man, but it is likely rare given that men are usually able to defend themselves. You can vet against abusive people by seeing them in a ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:40 PM
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Most cultures still have women as mothers and caretakers. Those cultures will continue. It is only modernized educated societies where women do not have children at replacement rates that will die out. Ironically I think it would be better if all the world educated their women and released them from the expectation of motherhood and domesticity. (Conversely, I wish all the world had an expectation that women be educated and join the workforce) It would probably save the planet as the population …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:17 AM
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I’ve noticed this two. Both people in the relationship think they are doing the most work. The grass is always greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:17 PM
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'DEER'? I would defend, explain, excuse, and rationalize an idea that I believed to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:21 AM
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What is the difference between 'females dominating' and 'males submitting' in this graph?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:09 AM
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Is that the purpose of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:02 PM
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I was with you till the last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:53 PM
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while I agree that promiscuity is bad for both men and women. And that feminist groups have tried to destigmatize promiscuity...men have historically (and are currently) allowed to have more sexual partners before bearing the negative social stigma associated with a high n value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:22 AM
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Even unattractive women can score big in the dating market because of our gynocentric society. If you are dating a woman with no other options she must be truly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:56 AM
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What is average looking to one person may be attractive to another. What if all of these average white guys are attractive to average Stacies. It’s so subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:03 PM
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Men want more sex more than women. Given how few times you get to see each other during the week I would expect him to want to hook up every time you see each other. It seems like you are happy together. Why not just have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:45 PM
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People go their because they have heard of it and it is free, but it is designed for casual encounters and your interactions on the site will be guided by that design. It is sad to me that it has become so difficult to connect with other human beings in our cities and towns which have been fractured by zoning...that people feel it is impossible to find a mate offline. Even so, tindr is a STUPID place to look for a relationship...unless you are open to whatever...which might include a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:37 PM
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Nope, their willingness to forgo sex is what allows them to be pickier on sites that are designed for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:34 PM
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It is searching for AudreyHorne's meaning when he uses the term 'fairness'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:53 AM
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That's the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:44 AM
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I don't know who these people are. You make a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:42 AM
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You didn't struggle socially because those people were more tolerant than you gave them credit for. If you had grown up in an Afgan tribal village you would have been stoned to death by now. edit: I'm also confused about the 'bar people from disliking you' bit. Obviously that is impossible nor is it suggested anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:40 AM
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It is way less work, and that should say something about how insane our ancestors had it. If all you have to do is take care of the house you can be done in a few hours a day. But when you add kids into the mix it changes things. Kids + house + family admin is a full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:33 AM
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If someone goes on tindr they are shopping for the best they can get for one night. It is a different world than people actually looking for relationships. Personally I think tindr is just an app for getting genital warts. Any data gathered from it will be skewed by the incentive toward casual sex that it was built for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:30 AM
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Correct because they are less interested in sex. They want it but not with that level of desperation, and they are aware of the risks of sex in a way that men are not, because they can become pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:28 AM
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yeah thats weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:27 AM
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It has made me realize that a lot of people still have opinions that I thought became socially unacceptable years ago. But it hasn't changed my view of men. All men are different and you have to invest sufficient time into a person to really know and be comfortable with the person you are getting into a relationship with. There are terrible women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:24 AM
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At most places male and female staff can go into either locker room so long as they make sure the locker room is empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:15 AM
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Women do not see sex as fundamental to basic needs as you do. They want and like sex...but not to the degree men do. At least not sex in and of itself. Relationships and offspring factor into their algebra as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:24 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:44 AM
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This is also true of most jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:28 AM
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I've had kids and I work. Going to work is a break. You don't "hang out" with your kids. You manage them 20 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:28 AM
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Video game addiction and social media addiction are both for losers. The women you are talking about as not being considered losers...are considered losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:52 PM
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The second bad was not bad. If my SO confused that in me I would take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:16 PM
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Women should serve the interest of the loving stable relationship they want. Being an honest person is not "serving men". It's just being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:42 PM
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I don't think "girls" have a "wild phase. Some do. Some don't. I also think being "wild" is irresponsible and dangerous. It doesn't help long term mental and physical healthy to have a society that teaches ANYONE that promiscuity is ok. ​ But yes, I agree with you. TRP men are out there trying to take advantage of "wild" girls and then mock them behind their backs. It surprises them that girls can tell they are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:41 PM
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All of the examples in the original post are imaginary anecdotes too. You just like them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:50 PM
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“We” do not know of this overlap. What is neoreactionism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:42 PM
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Making the leap from ‘social narrative is important’ to ‘I hate women’...is impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:31 PM
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We are social animal. Social consensus has enormous power and matters. Disagreeing can be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:30 PM
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I’m a woman. I agree with all of this. We’ve overcorrected for our societies bygone sexual repression. We became what parents and religious figures used to warn us about. I’m not teaching my children “sex positivity”. Sex is dangerous and powerful. Outside of a committed relationship it’s almost always a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:04 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:52 PM
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It seems like my decision not to approach potential partners in the work place (based on observed phenomena) has upset you. You should probably know that what I do I the workplace is none of your concern and you can do whatever you want with your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:27 AM
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May I ask what city you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:25 AM
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Serious question. Not critical. Why are you confused? Perhaps I can elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:22 AM
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Consequences suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:19 AM
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Oh they are picky...from my own experience they are pickiest about social skills not about look. They still want attractive men but their threshold is lower. I think these metrics change with age for men and women. So to really speak to a scenario I’d need to know the ages of the people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:17 AM
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They are advocating g for low quality men who are “victims” of culling. Their implied position is that women shouldn’t be so picky and should sleep with less desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:13 AM
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Men fantasize about a broad range of things. Including being raped. Including having sex with multiple women. When I tell you I don’t want to be raped...it worries me that you don’t take it seriously. It means that you go out into the world thinking that women want something that they blatantly tell you they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:12 AM
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You can be a voluntary virgin. Or you can feel like virginity is a natural phase of existence. That would make you not an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:16 AM
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Any sub that acts as a grievance aggregator, usually has an equal and opposite sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:15 AM
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Fairness as in sterilization for everyone after the 2nd or 3rd child. Fairness as in, no one has to pay for other people’s children? “Fairness” seems like a squishy term here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:48 AM
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I don’t think this is a new idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:44 AM
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You decided to smash...get ready to pay...or let taxes pay if you are a freeloader (spoiler...men who don't pay child support are the real drain on your taxes)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:58 PM
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Id agree that it is toxic femininity. These outfits get peddled by women's magazines and female editors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:55 PM
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I think it doesn't hurt anyone...literally not even him. So I hesitate to use the word "toxic" which is just a buzzword. Its sexism I guess. But again, I just don't care unless it causes actual harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:53 PM
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"signals" are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:37 PM
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If your solution would be to sterilize low quality men and women I would theoretically agree. Though who and what determines "low quality" can be a problem. History has borne this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:31 PM
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You can't excuse one without the other. Especially in this era of DNA testing, it is easier than ever to hold men accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:29 PM
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SMV - medium? Popularity - I was in college and met him at a D&D game *shrug* Navy vet, 25 y/o (I was 19) Car - yes poor Location - his bed (not consensual) We dated for a while. I was into him. In retrospect he just wanted to get laid. He got tired of waiting one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:30 AM
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Depends on the kind of porn you watch. It's probably no different than some of the amateur stuff out there. There is some stuff I like to watch though, that I would not try to duplicate in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:23 AM
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I don't understand this question. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:19 AM
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No. When i was younger I sometimes had trouble grasping why I was in a funk. Now I understand myself better and am more able to articulate my issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:18 AM
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It's never been a "huge problem" except for red-fems...and it is not a proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:12 AM
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But earlier you said men prefer not to cheat and women were the dissatisfied ones. Here it sounds like men are trying to cheat and bombarding women with propositions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:12 AM
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It depends on the man. If you trust him, then be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:10 AM
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I think this CC concept is weird. Women are afraid of pregnancy. It comes with tremendous physical and emotional costs (not to mention social). A woman is incentivized to find someone who will help her care for the child. I would like to find an attractive person to help me care for my child, yes. But that cannot be the only metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:07 AM
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*single fatherhood*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:03 AM
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Yet another answer that pretends like men aren't required for making babies. Can we talk about the epidemic of single fatherhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:02 AM
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It's not single mother hood. Its single fatherhood. Women just end up taking care of the kids...thereby relieving men of the consequences of their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:01 AM
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This rewards the single fathers that helped create the problem, by continuing to allow them to escape responsibility. TRP seems to advocate culling low quality women, but never low quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:00 AM
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Paid porn (x-art springs to mind) is not problematic. Its consenting adults getting paid. Some of the free porn can be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:56 AM
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It is when it is intentional or when it is not corrected by the community. Not calling you out specifically. People with a lot of sexual partners tend to have some damage already. Both the theoretical father in this scenario as well as the theoretical mother seem pretty damaged. It sounds like neither the father nor the mother in this case value the child that they have created. When we are speculating the motivations of shitty people I can only shrug and say *shitty people do shitty things*. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:52 AM
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religion has taught me that ideology can withstand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:30 AM
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lol...this is a fantasy men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:30 AM
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I do think older women are more interested in sex than younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:29 AM
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Same...a high n-count male is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:27 AM
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Ok...I just got done reading a post where someone from TRP defined hypergamy as women seeking the most attractive mate. Here is is used (in the sense it is mostly used on TRP) as meaning that women cannot control their sexual urges. I just wanted to point out this weird linguistic gas lighting...that seems to happen all over these days. I have known two single moms and they both stopped dating to raise their kid. They had no other kids. One was celibate for 16 years after she left her abusive hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:26 AM
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My husband wanted a traditional wedding. he paid for most of it so I couldn't complain too much...but I wanted all of that money to go into retirement or a house payment. Personally, I think weddings should be local, family affairs, with a pot luck and a justice of the peace. $1000.00 max.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:18 AM
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What is the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:13 AM
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Sure, who wouldn't. But life is a crap shoot. Nothing is promised to anyone. I trust my SO, so until I lose that trust, I am happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:12 AM
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No one said you didn't have the right to be unhappy. Did you read the post? Living with purpose and meaning is almost the definition of happiness. If you live with "purpose and meaning" but thrive in "the shadows"...you just sound like you enjoy your own self pity. Which is also something you have a right to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:10 AM
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TRP isn't political in that sense. Bringing it up is irrelevant to the conversations. Whether or not TRP is a realistic/beneficial worldview has nothing to do with the fact that some of its other members are T_D. Tying together ideologies so that you can judge people is a disease. Please stop. FYI - I am not advocating for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:07 AM
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I've never had sex with someone on the first night. Some women will do that...some women won't. What is the problem with waiting to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:02 AM
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You can't "hold out" if you are inexperienced. It's like you didn't read the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:54 AM
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most women are younger than their partners...so they probably follow their partner's lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:53 AM
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disclaimer - I'm not TRP "Feminism" is an unwieldy catch all for god-knows-what these days. No one can accurately define feminism anymore. It covers too broad a range of philosophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:51 AM
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Woman's opinion: Women have fucked up fantasies - as do men. But what goes on in the mind is often best left in the mind. If I have a rape fantasy, that doesn't mean I actually want to be raped. If I have a gang-bang fantasy...that doesn't mean I want a gang bang in real life. Porn is not realistic inso far as most people don't really want to do the stuff they see in porn. They want something like it but not as extream. Looks matter in porn - because it is supposed to be a fantasy. That means di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:48 AM
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hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:21 AM
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This might be better off for the planet in the end. But I think this trend will only exist in western countries where women are liberated. As birth rates in these countries decline, immigration will bring in more conservative mindsets. Traditional marriage and conservative societies will prevail in the end. (unfortunately for women and the environment).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:20 AM
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How do you figure out if the attraction is mutual without risking offense? It is impossible. There is risk of offending, always. If your job is on the line, better to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:18 AM
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the 80/20 "rule" is an artifact of Tindr...a place where people go to fuck based on looks alone. Of course women, who do not need sex in the same way that men do, are going to be pickier...on Tindr. The issue is the way Tindr has taken over dating and warped every ones sense of self and society. IMO...tindr is a public hazard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:14 AM
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A modern western woman is herself much taller than her 1000 year old contemporary...so I'm not surprised standards have changed. Comparing potential mates is something all animals do. This is another example of normal animal behavior being pathologized. Women used to be subjected to extremely blatant physical comparison and judgement. Looks determined value. Now that women are permitted to hold value in society apart from how they look, and now that they are able to support themselves without ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:08 AM
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RP advocates here have rose tinted glasses about the kinds of discussions that go on in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:04 AM
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Well...not among the poor there weren’t. And women don’t really like the overmuscled look...so you can max out on “physical impressiveness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:28 PM
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An alpha male 1000 years ago looked like that. An alpha male today is more cerebral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:53 AM
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That’s men projecting their own attributes onto women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:52 AM
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I view my SOs desire for sexual intimacy as attractive and important to our relationship. When he expresses a desire for intimacy I fulfill it 95% of the time. The reverse seems true for him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:49 AM
1

It’s not meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:26 PM
3

Can you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:12 PM
1

I don’t lie. I don’t think most women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:04 PM
7

“Women” don’t lie. Some women lie because some people lie and women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:03 PM
3

Eww...no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:24 AM
1

I would become thoroughly familiar with the red pill before criticizing the blue pill too harshly. Both sides are “sides” and they each get some things right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:35 PM
0

Just listened to an NPR invisibilia podcast about how racial sexual preferences are racist and based on learned behavior. So this is probably learned as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:14 PM
2

I think it means loyalty...which would fall under morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:45 PM
2

good man - morality good personality - entertainment People would rather be around someone evil than someone boring. This goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:45 AM
1

Lol...ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:57 PM
1

"If you can fight him off he wasn't strong enough to father your children" - monkey brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:07 PM
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People are a moral. Most people will do what everyone else is doing. When it's just you and one other person in the world you have to devise your own morality between the two of you. I would imagine the impulse to procreate would override the impulse to adhere to social norms if there was only one other person who cared about that norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:03 PM
9

It sounds like you settled. Which is normal and healthy. You also found a nawalt because nawalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:23 PM
1

Lower class women use sexuality as an enticement. Upper class women have access to wealth and cultural capitol as an enticement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:29 AM
1

I like a man to have close to the same N value as me or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:36 PM
1

there are more kinds of politics than "right wing/left wing". Proposing a way society should be or advocating changing the rules of society is inherently "political" because politics is about ruling society. No trump, racism, gun rights, or immigration necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:34 PM
1

Thats based on a study of tindr...where women are looking for the most attractive men to fuck. So the sample population of that study is already skewed. Not to mention...raising a child and fucking a random on tindr are two entirely separate types of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:09 PM
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Just because a woman didn't choose to marry a fuck boi doesn't mean she's unsatisfied. Women are generally attracted to and in love with the men they marry. High n looks bad on both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:11 AM
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Women are in the workforce. https://www.dol.gov/wb/factsheets/qf-laborforce-10.htm Taxation is taxation from people...not men. I have 3 kids and both of us have worked until the third. So you clearly have some RP brainwashing to work through. That being said...I find older women are more interested in younger men and are not as interested in their social status/financial status. Older women are usually financially secure, don't want kids, and just want some one to fuck around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:50 AM
2

Beauty is subjective. Personality is more important. If you have average looks...imo you still look pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:18 AM
1

You're talking about hot women. Unattractive women probably don't even register for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:13 AM
1

People tend to pair off into the same socioeconomic strata. Yes, your career could be holding you back depending on what type of women you count as high value. Personally I think bartenders make good money, but some people see it as an uncertain job future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:48 PM
2

Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:34 PM
1

When you are having sex with someone else you can’t fully focus on your pleasure. Then you’d just be laying there and writhing a little bit. Need to be generous. When you are by yourself you can be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:48 PM
2

It can if you are in charge of the dildo. Dildos aren’t fucking machines. It’s something you control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:13 AM
1

Put sex on the calendar. It fixes things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:05 PM
1

What is mrp?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:03 PM
2

Dildo>Chad. No one can get you off better than you can get yourself off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:03 PM
3

Chances of divorce go down for every year you delay marriage up to like...age 28. Teenagers are stupid. People change. Resentments build up. Best time for a woman to Mary is late 20s when emotional maturity is there and fertility is still high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:39 PM
2

That’s my take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:24 PM
6

It just means they are opposed to red pill ideology. Not that they believe any thing else specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:21 PM
3

The advice to red pill women to “STFU”. That’s how they talk to their allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:03 AM
3

It’s half true...and that’s the problem. People only swallow poison when it’s disguised as something that isn’t poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:02 AM
1

This is a great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:01 AM
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I don’t think it helps them. It just convinced them that the pain in their life is because of “women”. And it feels good to have something to blame besides yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:00 AM
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Oh...you mean the “treat all men as rapists until proven innocent”? Yeah...reds are hella hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:58 AM
0

They started online...like eharmony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:58 AM
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Those statistics are based on tindr...where women are just looking to hook up based on a photo. Insofar as women are not as thirsty for sex as men 1. They select hookups based entirely on the photo. And 2. They’ll only do it if a prospect is physically appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:57 AM
1

I don’t think you understand math.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:13 PM
3

Things I disagree with are gynocentric...also. This place is just a TRP circlejerk with a little bit of restraint because there is this pretense that there is a debate going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:04 AM
1

depends on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:52 AM
3

spin those plates boi!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:52 AM
1

the real problem is that men and women are not a monolith. Each of these responses comes out of a single persons mouth. A few more might agree...but in the end each relationship is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:38 AM
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Then only a small proportion of women are high N. Because men and women fuck each other the average N value for men has to be equal to the average N value for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:36 AM
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Reply It's not...unless you are homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:13 AM
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Sex is emotional to a lot of people. Most in fact. Hell...peeing in front of each other requires a level of trust that you don’t have with the average person. People for whom sex means nothing...have trained themselves to think that way. It is not innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:15 PM
2

I’d concede that men also overreport.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 08:37 PM
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Young women have an attractiveness threshold...so looking good is still important, but they pay attention to behavior and words a lot more. You can move up the hotness scale by behaving in an attractive way. Attractive behavior differs from girl to girl...but its almost never shy or awkward. As women get older, shyness might become less of an issue, as shy men can seem 'mysterious'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:42 PM
1

Try dating an older woman if you want interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:02 PM
3

You think women are not innovators? I know a lot of women in my PhD program who would disagree. Blame the society that men made for not allowing women to participate in anything but child rearing. That’s changing. Men should be happy that women can now take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:45 AM
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What is this weird prison of belief....where a man cannot be a good husband and father as well as a good lover. Way to set yourself up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:10 PM
1

Some...or one specific ethnic group?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:37 AM
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No one cares about you personal choices as long as they aren’t hurting other people. Blue pillers beef with TRP is the rampant sexism in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:14 PM
1

What is the ideal cause of low n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:04 PM
1

I like things to stay in the single digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:28 PM
1

Mine was 2 when I was that age. Why would you assume hers is higher than 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:27 PM
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That has happened to some people. But there is an example of everything under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:12 PM
1

They are...they are doing her a favor. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:36 PM
1

In an environment that permits non-monogamous people and/or cheaters to produce more offspring non-monogamy and cheating will become a more standard behavior and vice versa. The proportion of cheaters/loyal partners in a population can vary over time. There was an interesting article about squid or cuttlefish that tracked this...I cant find it atm though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:30 PM
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Yes, your genes are culled or favored based upon the environment and socialized behaviors leading to evolution over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 06:51 PM
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They are designed by their environment and socialized behaviors over the course of generation. Designed is just a politicized work but I believe that you understand my meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:02 PM
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This issue needs to be addressed in terms of zoning regulations. The movement away from an integrated village concept (where housing, agriculture, production, and commerce exist within walking distance) to this car enabled separation of housing, agriculture, production, and commerce has effectively isolated everyone. People have no reason to interact with each other without making a purchase or belonging to an institution/job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:33 PM
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Except for the ones that are. Modern people are socialized to think promiscuity is fine. They should be socialized to understand the physical, emotional, and social implications. I like eating ice cream all day long...doesn’t mean it’s a good idea or that I will. Humans aren’t designed to eat ice cream all day long...even though 80% may want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:28 PM
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I think men need visuals. Women just like them, but can get off on mental...thus female being mostly written.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:05 PM
6

False again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 12:01 AM
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False. I've been completely neutral to guys who just had awesome personalities and I eventually warmed up to them. usually they had girlfriends. No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:49 PM
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It's not cognitive dissonance unless she defends her decision. It sounds more like she admits that she had a moment of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:48 PM
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Just as a negative data point...I won't use tindr because I consider it an app for getting herpes. I have used more traditional sites like eHarmony...but those populations skew older. There are also way more women on eHarm and match so it can be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:20 PM
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I don’t think he has a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:11 PM
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I used to think misogyny was an overused word and you didn’t see it much in real life anymore. This has been eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:04 PM
2

Put sex on the colander. A lot of men think a woman is avoiding them. She just doesn’t want to be surprised with sex when she isn’t feeling that great to begin with. Scheduling sex or oral can fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:03 PM
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Physical and hormonal changes are temporary. I think your second hand stories might be curated from the internet, which is not a great place for unbiased information. Maybe talk to some more women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:59 PM
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In the short term 1-2 years...yes, it is very burdensome. I don’t think I would use the word destroy unless there are mitigating factors. Multiple kids. Demanding job. RP husband...etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:57 PM
3

Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:25 PM
4

1000 this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:12 AM
1

They both think they are too good for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:11 AM
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You know...I had a type but I ended up marrying someone that was very different than I thought I wanted. Charisma is a powerful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 11:19 PM
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It’s not that common, but people who want to believe “men” as a collective are monsters will seek out validation of their beliefs. Likely online where anything can be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:14 PM
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Most men don’t behave this way. You have probably been seeking out evidence of this behavior in online communities (where it is not common) to validate your own bigotry of men. For a body positive men’s movement please checkout r/menslib
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:12 PM
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well...I realize this is what you think the world is like. And there is no way to change your perception beyond switching bodies with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:50 PM
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Under that definition...no. I wouldn't date such a person. Its a pretty restrictive definition and I think there aren't that many people it would apply to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:46 PM
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I think what you are seeing is lack of maturity. Older women generally don't have these issues. But since men like to date younger women, they constantly see issues of immaturity and process that as issues of "women" as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:44 PM
1

I think that overcoming a woman's caution is a skill that men have to have. Since men are not inherently cautious of women, yes...this would be a male specific skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:41 PM
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People tend to find their SMV match eventually. But it takes effort. Our current world makes it difficult to meet people in our cohort after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:39 PM
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Not her preference, but she still get it if she wants it. Skews the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:20 PM
1

You have to pay for someone to entertain you when you are rigid, uncompromising, boring, fearful...etc. why put up with a normal persons imperfections and foibles when you can have a professional you can replace if they gain 5 pounds or slightly irritate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:54 PM
1

I think it helps for a certain kind of power. In some contexts it can be a hinderance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:47 PM
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Both people lose status. Without knowing details of a divorce I don’t blame one party more than the other. But these are two people who made solemn promises and broke them...so yeah, I think the issue is that divorcees were either in untenable situations or they are untrustworthy people. Most of them got married to young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:15 AM
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A lot of people don’t intend to be racist when they are in fact racist. Intention doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:26 PM
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It's a critical analysis. "Critical" implies there is something morally or otherwise wrong, or at a minimum, unnecessary, with the power dynamics that it is critiquing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:45 AM
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shrug women get boob jobs and stuff. If you are so ugly you feel like a pariah...get plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:27 PM
0

Plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:22 PM
2

Or just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:32 PM
1

This comment and the replies have made me realize how futile it is to have conversations about topics based on stereotypes. People aren’t in America to make money. Most are born there. Europe is still capitalist. Men are more “natural” but what does that mean? You see men and women dancing in America all the time. You see people drinking Heineken in America all the time. I think you just have a bunch of preconceived notions or a limited exposure to America and its various cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:27 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:00 PM
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Hm...I’m married to a loyal man with a good job. He is hot (to me) and interesting. I’m confident in his love, but I would not say he worships me or will do “anything” for me. In fact our relation ship has involved a lot of negotiation, which is probably healthy. We have fun when we can but both work so our lives are busy. We both have advanced degrees and find each other intellectually stimulating. So it sounds like he is neither alpha nor beta. Perhaps there are types on men (and types of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:46 PM
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I’d rather be with a less attractive man who will be monogamous than a 10/10 who wants an open relationship. Once a certain attractiveness threshold is reached I’m more interested in mental stimulation than appearance. Money would not change that as I have a job. Maybe an unemployed woman would take such a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:35 PM
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Some TRP advice is just common sense. Most mentally healthy men will employ the “work out and invest in yourself” technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:29 PM
2

Hmmm...I don’t know if that’s true. Every story have 2 sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:18 PM
2

You sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:16 PM
4

Women are not a monolith. You don’t seem to understand humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:13 PM
3

Comments on the internet are not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:12 PM
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Oh wow...you have seen women who are willing to date cheaters because those women exist...not because women in general are ok with cheaters. Most women do not want to date cheaters because they themselves do not want to be cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:12 PM
3

I’d rather work and not have to deal with a man who secretly hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:05 PM
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No.:.why would it be. Seriously...this is a weird question. It’s obviously hard wired in the brain stem. And a lot of human behavior is constrained by society and socialization. Maybe a random man on the street isn’t a danger in Manhattan...but he was more likely to be 1000 years ago. And if society collapsed he would be again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:35 PM
5

This is probably the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:56 PM
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Ive hit on a few men. They seem intrigued and go on 1 date but treat me markedly differently. I think men don’t really like the dynamics when a woman initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:57 PM
2

This is another myth. Men are more likely to use lethal methods. Women are more likely to use drugs. It’s not that women are pretending to be depressed. It is that if you overdose you are more likely to be found and revived. People who commit suicide spontaneously… But jumping off a bridge or shooting himself in the head… Frequently just had a bad day. You can see this in some of the measures taken to prevent suicides. For example blister packs on medication. Or the removal of gas powered ovens.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:20 AM
1

This sub is not representative of westerners. It’s a niche grievance aggregator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:18 AM
1

TRP has some good stuff. It also has some bullshit. The good stuff is what allows the bullshit to keep getting spread around. Just like how the best lies are half truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:55 AM
1

On specific sites yes. On sites pitched for long term relationships, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:53 AM
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Depends on which site you are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:41 PM
2

Incel men performing mass shootings of women is a fairly new development...I think. Most recent one was a yoga studio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:40 PM
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I don’t care one way or the other if a man chooses not to date or get married. But most of the time mgtow groups just talk about women. One gets the impression that it’s a protest and not a life choice. That makes them incel light.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:50 PM
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If you go on dating sites like eharmony, which are designed for relationships instead of hookups - women are over represented and men don’t have to compete this hard. When you look at tindr....men are over represented and flood the inboxes of the relatively few women who are on there. Not only that, but dating sites designed for hookups are going to appeal to people who select partners based solely on physical appearance. So yes, I think specific types of dating sites eventually have this effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:06 PM
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I mean...it sounds like you don’t want to be with someone who’s in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 08:01 PM
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I think you and I are in agreement on most of this. One thing I will say about marrying later is that both myself and my husband are more mature. Resentments can build up in a relationship and young people have a harder time dealing with that in a healthy way. So in a way, I am glad I had my 20s to mature emotionally without burdening a relationship. I tell everyone I know not to get married till they are over 25. And yes...I think it’s hard to bring up this ideology on the modern dating scene. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:57 PM
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I’m a woman...I move lottery never met a woman who’s had a train run on her. You may just be running in poor quality circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:50 PM
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I have dates short guys with great personalities...but yes. They had to work harder to get noticed. One of them was 5’3...as tall as me. So yes...I made decisions based on visual data, but I will still arrive that men are more visual. I think that young girls don’t experience these crushes the way you think they do. The swooning over an actor on tv is frequently a peer pressure thing. I barely noticed even the most attractive boys in my high school. It wasn’t until I was much older that men coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:21 PM
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I consider myself a modern woman and I was very interested in marriage and family. For me...my experience was that men did not want to commit until they were much older. Which meant I stayed single for longer. I did get one proposal in my early 20s but he told me “god” told him we were supposed to be together and that freaked me out since I’d only known him a few weeks. I do think the “women don’t need no man” trope of feminism is ultimately destructive. We are social creatures and forming a fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:15 PM
1

Yeah...most women will disagree with you here. That doesn’t mean they have NO visual propensities though. Only that they are less motivated by visual cues. For example, my head will turn for an attractive man, but I won’t sleep with him until I know him personally. That being said...I think there is a “sex positive movement” which is persuading women to experiment more sexually (for better or for worse). Do you have some more research you can share?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:46 PM
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I have to say...I would have liked to stay home after childbirth longer (like 6-9 months to finish breastfeeding, because pumping and transporting breast milk at work is awkward and difficult) but I did eventually want to go back to work to have a break from baby and talk to some adults. I also thought it was better for young children to be around each other for play so, even though I was very selective about day care I was ultimately happy to do it. As I had more children this became impractica…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:42 PM
1

Your own stats indicate porn hub is majority men going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:14 PM
1

I have seen these people and it’s always amazing...but I do find that everyone gets better at this with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:11 PM
6

Why do people look at gang bang porn of they don’t want to be in a gang bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:10 PM
1

Women are visual...just not as visual as men. Women’s porn is mostly written while men’s porn is mostly visual. Just because women do look at visual porn from time to time doesn’t mean they are as visual as men. Also, erotica aimed at women presents male figures that are not just attractive, but also emotionally intelligent. Looks are important to women. But not as important as they are to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:06 PM
1

I definitely want both of those things but I’d rather have a medium wallet and a medium dick that come with a person who’s company I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:00 PM
0

I think having motivations in life based on your romantic partner sounds healthy and interdependent. Rugged individualism is great until you want to perpetuate a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:58 PM
2

I’m gonna say trust fund men are usually unattractive unless they have some kind of drive for something besides entertaining themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:56 PM
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Sure...if his motivation is to be capable of supporting a family I can totally get behind that. In fact that is arguably the reason women appreciate drive in a man. And I don’t really care if he’s rich, so long as he can feed and cloth my children. Now...this is the way my cave woman brain works...not necessarily the way modern life works. I know there are lots of men, who don’t want to be the only breadwinner. When I was newly married I was fine with that. After I had more than one kid the amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Agreed. I’ve refused to sleep with men who report a high partner count. It’s a bad look...no matter if you are male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:37 AM
3

Shrug...then get 2 robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:33 AM
1

This is just false. And it’s amazing how often it’s repeated. Tindr is a game changer for sure...but it’s also an app for getting herpes and no one should use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:28 AM
2

“Voluntary” marriage is still a fairly recent development. Even for the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:07 AM
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If it passes the Turing test it can do all those things. And you can probably send it to work a job and collect a pay check.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:00 AM
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The 80/20 stat is based on tindr data which I would not call a random sampling. People on tindr are already more ok with the idea of casual sex than the average person. Other than that...let the good times roll. Why be in a relationship with an imperfect person when you can be in a relationship with a perfect robot. Goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:57 AM
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The sex bot is also a nanny bot and maid bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:54 AM
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I don’t know why you listed 3 since you don’t want kids. I assume you would just get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:19 AM
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If you’re having trouble getting a woman try dating a woman who is less attractive or who is socially awkward. Their standards tend to be lower. I think a lot of people will comment on the sub are picturing extremely attractive women and what they say and want. But the likelihood of having an extremely attractive partner of either sex is generally low.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:44 AM
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Can I ask what you do for a living? I have to be at work by 8. But it seems like that is gym time for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:23 AM
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Source... because most women I know like a “swimmers” or “runners” physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:21 AM
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Looks and personality are different things. Men who pretend that womens' looks constitute their entire person deserve women who judge men on what they are able to provide. (imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:34 AM
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Because science is a method. Gender studies can use 'science' and they do...they may call it social science. They may call it gender research. Doesn't matter. If you follow the steps of the scientific method to include collection of data and analysis...you are doing science. Now...walking through the steps of the scientific method doesn't mean your experiments are well designed, unbiased, or useful. It just means you floated a hypothesis, collected data to prove or disprove your hypothesis, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:28 AM
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As soon as they concoct a hypothesis and collect data...they can call it science. Whether its good science or biased is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:00 AM
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OPs post is about an ugly person with charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 10:54 AM
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Flirting is just banter. It’s fun in and of itself. If you feel like a trained monkey you are doing it for the sake of hooking up and not for the sake of having fun banter with someone. The girl will likely notice this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 10:43 AM
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I don’t know about your metrics. I don’t think “masculine” and “feminine” are polar opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:22 PM
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What is “a decent chunk”. What you said will apply to some women certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:46 PM
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The “vast majority” of women don’t want casual sex. This is the real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:39 PM
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Likely you are filtering out unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:29 PM
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I get it. Gender roles are strangely exciting. Mystery is an aphrodisiac. If all the women we know are just bros they aren’t as interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:17 PM
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Word on the street is that there's a shortage of men in Eastern Europe. South Eastern in particular because of the wars. Ergo...hot girls with ugly guys.
/r/seduction06/01/15 10:13 PM
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Have you thought about reporting this to the police preemptively? Also...delay...If there is a long time between when she claims the rape occurred and when she reported it that will hurt her case. Stay with a friend for a few days so you have an alibi. Tell him what's going on, in case he needs to act as a witness. Record everything.
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