fewbar2021 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you back Juding from the folks in this sub, could you understand the reaction lmfao	/r/seduction	30/05/22 03:13 PM
3	Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time? Doing both. If everyone on this sub followed the most pervasive advice on it, there wouldnt be as many posts about the same shit (negging/cutting people off/shit tests/etc) Its almost like its not the most effective way to go about things, and that dudes are way more concerned with being rejected than they are with having a good time. Bottom line. Idc if you dont see it, because many women do and they talk about it lmao. Judging by your answers and challenges to others, I’m willing to bet you di…	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:58 PM
3	Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time? But how would you feel about being laid once a week with someone new each time	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:50 PM
5	Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time? The disconnect is that its really hard to respond to a dude who reads these threads on reddit and THINKS he’s killing it.. but in reality, women have run into men like this 1000 times and stay the fuck away from idiots who type paragraphs about “game” lol. If you think women dont talk about dudes and the way they are approached and what happens after the fact, you’re delusional. Go take care if yourself, have fun, be a flirt, and gracefully accept any decline. This is not only gonna make you fee…	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:49 PM
1	A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you back He cant, and probably wont lmao	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:09 PM
0	A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you back Read your post again and tell me that you mean it	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:08 PM
3	A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you back 10000x	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:06 PM
6	hope this helps Wat	/r/seduction	29/05/22 03:52 AM
1	Overcoming sexual insecurity You have resigned yourself to misery and I feel absolutely no sympathy for you.	/r/seduction	28/05/22 12:55 PM
1	Overcoming sexual insecurity Youre too inexperienced for your rendered opinion to carry much weight. Youre not gonna get laid because of your attitude.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 04:03 PM
1	Overcoming sexual insecurity Stop focusing on others	/r/seduction	27/05/22 04:01 PM
1	Overcoming sexual insecurity This	/r/seduction	27/05/22 04:01 PM
3	Overcoming sexual insecurity SMASH 👏 IT 👏 ANYWAYS 👏	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:08 PM
7	Overcoming sexual insecurity You can, many of them have experience with dudes who are anxious over something like this. Up to you.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:06 PM
2	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky? Doctor 😩😩😩	/r/seduction	27/05/22 02:44 PM
31	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky? Its usually just about personality, its not really about women. The babes I know are all rad as fuck in ways that can be appreciated by everybody. They outnumber the dumbasses. Some girls get by on their looks, just like anyone with good looks would. But a lot of them are interesting, educated/intelligent, and good company. I suppose in more rural areas yeah maybe this could be your experience, but not where im at	/r/seduction	27/05/22 06:02 AM
1	Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for? Misogyny has entered the chat lmao	/r/seduction	27/05/22 02:49 AM
2	Singapore “Whats the deal with singapore, anyway?” Lmao someone had to do it based on the title	/r/seduction	27/05/22 02:10 AM
2	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here “Nice, want to link up later? I’m free after____” “That sounds nice, want to relax together?” What you said is fine, too, but he preface the same sentiment with “lucky you” which feels backhanded and not genuine after the previous comments. I personally would try to hang instead of just asking more questions over text. You’ll either get a raincheck (you can get specific from there or ascertain if shes not into the idea faster) or she’ll be like “yes” She gave him a lot of green lights, he was ju…	/r/seduction	09/05/22 12:26 AM
3	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here Telling someone they’re acting like a bitch because they are absolutely being a huge bitch says zilch about how I perceive myself, tbqh. Also, dude was disrespectful and I can deliver my message however I want? Would it have soothed your sensibilities if I sugarcoated my statement? Im so sorry, my dear. Edit: I think the number of upvotes speaks for itself but idk everyone has an opinion, and I guess youre entitled to yours!	/r/seduction	09/05/22 12:00 AM
5	I hate dating as a man Best advice I can give is give it a rest for a sec. Yes, it can be tiring. But youre only successful if you enjoy doing that stuff and feel good about it. The better you feel, the better she will. And if not, she wasnt interested and you may have missed something. That happens to everyone, aint nothin to be embarrassed about. Just shrug and move on. If she texts you back like “why’d you ghost” just tell her why. Maybe she’ll get it. No harm no foul.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 07:35 PM
2	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here Yeah wtf she made it hella easy for him, he just threw the chance away. Are you kidding? Lmao	/r/seduction	08/05/22 06:31 PM
26	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here It’s passive, it doesn’t do anything to change the mood after the first two pissy texts, it’s aloof needlessly seeing as she genuinely made a mistake and was trying to make up for it. She texted him from the right number in the end, after all.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 04:31 PM
40	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here I wouldn’t have escalated anything. She texted you with the right number, which basically covers her ass completely because obviously she gave you the wrong one at first, and now she realized that she did, and give you the right one. And you’re acting like a little bitch about it tbqh	/r/seduction	08/05/22 04:30 PM
7	Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages here Yeah, this is pretty dumb. Of course you got ghosted. You assumed that she didn’t pay her phone bill, you were rude when she gave you an explanation, even though she still gave you the correct number, which totally proves her point. And then you’re asking the most basic of questions, what the hell did you expect? If a girl did that to you, or you were in her position, what would you do? I’d probably ghost her, too.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 04:28 PM
10	How to handle a constant liar? Wtf lmao dude if its nothing serious and its not gonna be, why tf do you care? You’re both still seeing each other, shes the one who looks goofy for lying. But that doesnt make you a fool, if you know and dont care. You’ve got a rotation, shes got a rotation. I’m willing to bet the only difference is that you don’t really talk about it. She talks about it, but she lies about it to keep the rotation in motion. The only difference. What’s the problem?	/r/seduction	07/05/22 03:39 PM
1	Will men/he find it creepy or weird if i gift him something quite personal? No do ittt	/r/seduction	07/05/22 03:11 PM
2	Need advice on how to become FWB with a girl I already have a close relationship with This is what I would do. Just don’t make a big deal out of it. Also, don’t make it some friends with benefits thing right away. Just ask if she wants to fool around with you before she leaves. If she’s down, it’s likely to happen again. And then you have your situation.	/r/seduction	07/05/22 01:15 AM
4	Are 'average women' happy trying to lock down a guy out of their league? … depends on what she wants? Lmao. Jesus dude.	/r/seduction	07/05/22 12:33 AM
1	Tf is wrong with women? Am I doing something wrong? Would you believe it if I told you she was probably flirting and either A) has a fucking life outside your mind and may have had some shit go down or B) she may have thought she shot her shot and it didn’t stick/is embarrassed? Just fkn talk to her dude. You make it sound like she’s hella leading you on, YOU HAVE BARELY SPOKEN LMAO	/r/seduction	07/05/22 12:29 AM
1	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think Be not afraid	/r/seduction	06/05/22 07:47 PM
1	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think SOUNDS LIKE AN EXCUSE TO ME why dont you prove it then? chews broken bong glass Here’s one that’s a little better for you since youre so particular and so very very smart!!! Lets say a woman doesn’t know that she’s infertile and incapable of giving birth. But its her life goal to give birth naturally to her biological kid with her genetics, and her partners genetics. Obviously they try everything possible, and even go the extra mile to try freezing eggs and shit. Cant get pregnant, cant fertiliz…	/r/seduction	06/05/22 01:13 AM
3	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think Conditions are not excuses. And it’s explaining the world around you, which you do not understand, obviously. And it’s not describing my world, either. Here’s an example since you seem to think of yourself as such a logical guy. You are norse. You are 75. You have been a fisherman all your life. Your health is failing due to generic disease. You have a low IQ. You have never received higher education. But you suddenly have this dream to because the world’s top astrophysicist, despite being very …	/r/seduction	05/05/22 02:05 PM
8	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think Nah, I’m actually mad on top of my shit right now. You just dont like getting downvotes. Edit: All I said is that its not as simple as either of you or op make it out to be. That means I give up? Because I mentioned that not everyone can just brute force their way through everything, as if time and financial state doesnt affect one at all? Not everyone is David Goggins, dude. There’s a reason why people look up to him. Theres also a reason why people say he’s inhuman. Hes quite the anomaly. I’m …	/r/seduction	05/05/22 01:07 AM
14	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think Also untrue. All humans have a breaking point, and situational circumstances, chance/luck, its not so simple. The only blank statement we can assign to the human condition considering intersectionality is that it is a varied experience. Money, government, natural disasters, genetic diseases, your culture, your personality. We are more shaped by the world than we care to admit, because we believe we shape the world. To a degree, thats true. But we are products of our environments, more often than…	/r/seduction	05/05/22 12:00 AM
54	For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you think That’s not exactly a response though? Unless im confused. I think this dude is saying “there are a million people in the same position who gave it their all and didn’t wind up at all anywhere they aimed for, and I bet a good chunk of those people also didnt land among the stars, as they say. Not to be contrarian, because I believe in your general sentiment, but I think its a pretty strong point to consider. Idk enough about barak but i find it unusual that he was broke at 40.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 07:32 PM
2	Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes you Sowry, its tru	/r/seduction	04/05/22 03:07 PM
43	In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you Yeah, this is really it. The only times I have ever had anybody chase me was when I was just minding my own business but being friendly. Your mileage may vary, this probably depends on a few things.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 02:28 AM
2	Fun but cheap first date ideas? Dude if you want fwb youre totally thinking of this the wrong way. Your goals actually seems only semi clear, you speak of fwb at first and hint a little at a life partner later on. So ill answer best i can at work hah There is no one way to achieve that, but IN MOST CASES, no one’s gonna want to be your friend if you arent fun, much less fuck you. There is no game to be played. If youre trying to wife up w a specific type, sure, you can’t just let the cards fall where they may. Being a pua pers…	/r/seduction	02/05/22 08:14 PM
2	Fun but cheap first date ideas? Man, your worldview is absolutely so fucked. If you are inexperienced and red pilled, that’s probably your issue. If you say that, why would you even bother giving your opinion if you don’t even think it’s correct? Women want to have fun. They don’t give a fuck about macho bullshit. “Nice 300 pound squat bro, she let me hit because I’m goofy.” That is my approach, and I’m successful. I also don’t make a big deal out of talking to women. I see you are also making a lot of assumptions. No one is s…	/r/seduction	02/05/22 05:31 PM
2	Which is better to live for a single man? College town or big city? Big city	/r/seduction	02/05/22 07:39 AM
8	Fun but cheap first date ideas? An arcade with plenty of 2 player options is great, fairly cheap, and its easy to be like “how you feelin, wanna stay or grab a drink or..” etc	/r/seduction	02/05/22 03:56 AM
3	Fun but cheap first date ideas? “Is this a fuck date??”	/r/seduction	02/05/22 03:55 AM
3	Do you talk about sex during a date? Its something you feel out. There are a lot of things that factor into the answer of whether or not its appropriate or effective.	/r/seduction	01/05/22 10:24 PM
2	So I went to 2 bars (for the first time) Lmao this. OP is extremely confident in himself but can’t seem to charm a lady at a bar or two. If he understood “how women work”, as he says, he wouldn’t have asked the question lol. Sorry to out you OP, but it’s blatant. Everyone sees it, im just the dude saying it. Lighten up and try being more open to new ideas, everyone here is giving fairly good advice (coming from someone who doesn’t have the same problem you do), you just don’t like it because there’s no simple “heres where you go exactl…	/r/seduction	01/05/22 09:32 PM
1	So I went to 2 bars (for the first time) I didn’t make you say anything, fool. I did not put a gun to your head and tell you to say some thing or else I’ll blow your brains out. You just said whatever was on your mind, you had a choice to say that or anything else. Lmao	/r/seduction	01/05/22 07:41 PM
0	So I went to 2 bars (for the first time) Dude, you were ignoring everybody’s advice while you are sitting here asking for advice.	/r/seduction	01/05/22 07:11 PM
1	So twice now I've gotten women to drive me home but I can't find an excuse to get them back inside, what's best to say here? Thin ice	/r/seduction	01/05/22 04:36 PM
1	Has a woman ever shown interest in you first? Its rare, NOT a red flag	/r/seduction	01/05/22 02:33 AM
1	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? Yeah man, that’s an accurate interpretation, although more nebulous than specifically naming what gets you filtered. I actually think changing you personality is not as much work as one thinks. It does take a strong desire, though. Some people need to go through a lot to get there, others can inspire themselves. And don’t forget, it is absolutely possible. I hope I inspired some of y’all today, too. We can all be better versions of ourselves if we want to be. (We can be worse, too, so don’t go s…	/r/seduction	30/04/22 11:52 PM
1	The more I get laid, the less I care if the other person enjoys it. How do I fix this? Make it fun.Find something they want to do and try to get excited about it.	/r/seduction	30/04/22 08:12 PM
4	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? Yeeeeah idk its not really about “filters” dude. You get filtered if you’re a mark ass bitch. But all it really takes is being able to match or at least read the energy and be cool, inviting, and generally fun to be around. That’ll take you real far. I’m a 7/10 if im being generous, and this is honestly the key. Ive been way lucky, I feel like there’s only 1 or 2 people i’ve ever been with where I thought maybe i had my drinking goggles on. Im also very funny at times, that really helps too. Id …	/r/seduction	30/04/22 06:06 PM
1	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? Variety is the spice of life. It also is just a diff kind of experience. You’ll meet so many different kinds of people who are into so many different things, it helps you understand your sexuality/sexuality of others. You may uncover things you never knew you would like (dont be afraid, now)	/r/seduction	30/04/22 06:01 PM
1	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? Go outside, go have a drink and chat with strangers to understand how to talk to what kind of people. Talking to anyone, gender or sexuality aside, can help you gain social skills enough to apply to pursuing sex or partners	/r/seduction	28/04/22 12:20 AM
1	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? TO BE FUCKING HONEST, THIS. The nonchalance only works if you are a 9 or a 10 out of 10. Gets more true with age, too. I think some people are confused: not chasing someone doesnt mean nonchalance. That’s just relaxed and secure. Most people like others who are relaxed and secure, or at least secure and not down on others/themselves. Everything else is personal/cultural. But not giving a fuck/not caring about the interaction? It makes most people unapproachable. How many of us can truly say they…	/r/seduction	28/04/22 12:15 AM
1	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? This	/r/seduction	28/04/22 12:06 AM
3	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? Dude holy shit you just described something I’ve never been able to put into words, if im understanding right	/r/seduction	28/04/22 12:04 AM
1	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? Probably because the opposite is kinda creepy and often disingenuous	/r/seduction	27/04/22 11:55 PM
1	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" Its real, but it relates to where ppl are at in their lives/circumstances and personalities. Edit: not limited to any gender or sexuality in any way.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 08:50 PM
17	I like everything about my chick but her face No, its just about getting used to your partner’s features. Someone else’s become more unique or even exciting. It happens.	/r/seduction	22/04/22 02:09 AM
10	I’m way to much of a softy in relationships I think self development is where your focus should lie, not with sex/relationships. I was there! I’m working hard on myself every day now. Not only am I extremely more confident and charming when i want to be because of my own feelings towards my improvements/accomplishments, but its made me realize that I didnt take myself seriously/didnt think I deserved to or even could change my ways and make a good life happen. Its got nothing to do with masculinity, don’t listen to these other fools. They…	/r/seduction	17/04/22 11:30 AM
1	How to respond to boring, uninspired and dry texts Lmaooo	/r/seduction	14/04/22 04:04 AM
2	Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot? Yes	/r/seduction	08/04/22 03:38 AM
1	Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back? Dude youre literally so fuckin ridiculous, LEAVE dawg! Do you like this shit? No? Ok well its either gonna stay the same or get worse. If you wanna be hit and want to be a punching bag go ahead and be her bitch. She’s obviously not gonna tolerate you fighting back, so you already answered your own question. Why stay? Just leave. Honestly, im assuming you just love drama or like this.	/r/seduction	31/03/22 02:03 AM
1	Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back? Youre so dumb dude lmao just LEAVE dude fuck she’s not worth it	/r/seduction	31/03/22 02:00 AM
1	Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back? Nah fuckin walk away dumbass. Just be like “you play too much I’m out”	/r/seduction	31/03/22 01:59 AM
3	Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back? Walk, fool	/r/seduction	31/03/22 01:58 AM
3	Banged girl from my school and now she's talking to other girls Lmao so whack. Omg is he loyal dawg he’s 16 and they fucked. Lmaooooo jesus	/r/seduction	29/03/22 11:19 PM
3	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls So… banter? Thats a shit test? Flirting is a shit test? The human race is doomed lmao	/r/seduction	16/03/22 12:20 PM
5	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls YUP lmao	/r/seduction	16/03/22 12:18 PM
1	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls No, dumbass. Of course I get thrown curve balls. I just know how to handle them without being needlessly aggressive and negging the pitcher like an insecure lil boy. I dont think of them as tests, either. I also dont fall for this dumbass attempt at rebranding a term a lot of people know shit about so people can flock to my blog/subreddit. Sorry, dude. You’re being a reddit sheep. Yeah, come to think of it, I think I’m above it because I dont think of these things as tests at all. I’ve never had…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 12:13 PM
1	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls That was a whole lot of nothing. You’re the second fool to fall for OPs attempt to rebrand “navigating a flirtatious situation” and change the nature of it to be more iniquitous than it really is. You’re doing it right now. Edit: 2nd to last sentence indicates the largest difference that you are absolutely blind to. If you act with this childish scarcity dominate-or-be-dominated attitude (which is what op supports, you above suggestion is basically what I would have done… if I didnt know how to …	/r/seduction	16/03/22 11:52 AM
-2	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls Dude, you’re the dumbass. You just proved it. If shit testing is just flirting by any other name, why the fuck are we even having this conversation, and why does OP believe the solution is being aggressive and negging the person he’s after? Just because you fell for someone else’s shitty attempt at rebranding “creating chemistry and attraction with another human” as shit testing doesnt mean you’re…. Oh fuck nah that means you have a screw loose. Sorry, hoss. I’m not asking anyone to spoon feed m…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 11:50 AM
1	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls Both you and OP seem to make a lot of assumptions. All of them wrong. Lmao, like ohhhh wow man.. I NEVER thought about making contact with a hot girl at a bar or club! 🤯 God damn, you’re a genius. But it did make me realize something. There are dudes like myself and a couple others in the thread who do extremely well without all this bullshit. So well, in fact, that we have no idea what youre talking about. So what are you doing to get shit tested? I don’t have the problems you do. So I’ll never…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 09:50 AM
2	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls So you pretty much just admitted that being as aggressive and goofy as OP is whack, and suggested an approach I can get behind. … I just have no problem spitting game over dms. If she adds you and vice versa, she WILL look at your profile and WILL read your first message 100% of the time. And it wont take a day. So like… dont pull up all goofy on some poor girl and you’ll probably be ok?	/r/seduction	16/03/22 08:45 AM
3	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls The mental gymnastics here are absolutely astounding. I’d give you a little Reddit gold star if I could. You do realize that by your logic that you’ve committed yourself to, all human beings are walking shit tests in every single aspect of their lives. Which basically just means that they have autonomy, and they are not just gonna put out because you walked up and said “nice shoes, wanna fuck?” Meeting people and creating connections of any kind are really just about matching or elevating somebo…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 08:20 AM
3	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls I mean you took everything I said out of context, I think everybody can see that plain as day. Edit: Brother, youre the only dude downvoting me so far. And everyone else is downvoting you. And upvoting me. Ohhhh wait. I’m just giving you a shit test. You passed! You’re a piece of shit 🤣🤣 🤘💩🤘	/r/seduction	16/03/22 07:37 AM
3	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls I don’t need to try it because I don’t have that problem, dude. If a girl gives me her IG, I’ll spit game on her IG. I’m not afraid of my profile, or hers. Any girl that has ever given me her IG instead of her number has gotten the D. That happens because I just don’t make a big deal out of it, dude. You can be confident, attractive, and your presence can absolutely demand the attention of the entire room. If you know how to carry yourself, and you arent fucking yourself over in your mind worryi…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 07:35 AM
2	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls This is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard of dude. Even the dude who’s been doing pick up for 12 years hasn’t run into what you’re talking about. I’m gonna attempt to put an end to this dumbass topic I have only encountered on reddit. Here’s how you pass a shit test, if they fucking exist at all: Be yourself, you arent anyone else unless you gotta make some changes. And if thats the case, dont even think about foolin around, you got shit to do. Do no harm, take no shit. Being kind is not a weakne…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 07:25 AM
8	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls The following comment is either gonna blow your mind, or be deflected off of what I believe is your delusion. I think women go for IG rather than numbers because it gives them a window into your life, as well. They are not confined to question the validity of whatever bullshit you send their way. If they get to see your profile, they get to see how you try to present yourself to other people, and how other people react to you, what your sense of humor is like, that sort of thing. That person is …	/r/seduction	16/03/22 07:01 AM
12	Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girls Man this shit is so whack lmao. I seriously dont think I’ve ever been tested. And honestly, I have never encountered anyone who even talks about this phenomenon outside of reddit. I’m inclined to believe it’s horse shit, frankly. If I have ever been shit tested, I never knew thats what it was. My approach would have been to do what I would normally do when someone wants to fuck around and play games: I let them play with themselves, alone. I don’t feel entitled to anyone’s time, there’s no reaso…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 06:35 AM
1	HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM? I personally would not approach a woman at the gym. The gym is a pretty sacred place for a lot of people, and a lot of people who are there might be getting some of the only “me” time they’re going to get that day. Shoot your shot I guess, but I would tread carefully. I just can’t imagine someone is gonna think much beyond “this fool’s got a looooot of nerve” I hope you’re an absolute specimen, I can’t see that going well haha. Lemme know how it goes i guess. Edit: being raised without a dad doe…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 05:05 AM
1	HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM? Came here to say this. I’m sorry you run up all goofy on some poor girl who had to suffer you, but maybe check your form before you go pointing any fingers. Now drop and give me 50. Lmao Edit: idk how 2 reddit, replied to wrong person. Hope its obvious!	/r/seduction	16/03/22 05:01 AM
2	HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM? OP, if you follow this advice, you are in for a world of pain. In other words, if you do it, you better record it and upload it. That shit is going to be fucking hilarious lmao	/r/seduction	16/03/22 05:00 AM
3	HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM? Came here to say this.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 04:59 AM
2	Girl I’m seeing has a boyfriend I think it really depends on what you want out of the situation. If she has a boyfriend, she’s a sex worker, and she seeing you now, you have to ask yourself if her boyfriend knows or is cool with that. I’m not saying don’t be the side piece, you can do that if you want to. But understand that you are in the role that you are now, and that could potentially change due to the nature of the situation. So if you are ready for the possibility that things may not last, or that she may see someone els…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 04:58 AM
1	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it They are. Even I am, at times.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 02:39 AM
1	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it Hey man, he’s got nothing to lose. Besides, at best he can feel happy that he annoyed her after she was such an asshole.	/r/seduction	15/03/22 02:10 AM
4	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it FOR REAL THO	/r/seduction	15/03/22 02:08 AM
3	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it Yeah lmao they def dont “come back”, dude. Also god damn, this was one asshole of a woman. Luckily thats usually not the norm, but dont lump all women into this like an incel.	/r/seduction	15/03/22 02:08 AM
14	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it This fkn comment. OP…. DO NOT let this POS take you down like that. My first GF was a major size queen, which I had no concept of at 17, and she told me I was small. I felt like shit after that, of course. I lost my virginity to her. Anyways.. she cheated on me so I broke up with her and boinked her friend. I asked her friend if she agreed, she was kinda surprised my ex thought that. Fast-forward a bit, and I’m getting compliments on shape/size. That felt RAD. I know some folks are gonna think t…	/r/seduction	15/03/22 02:04 AM
2	Why is Someone Like Dan Bilzerian Able to Get Away By Saying This? You are way overthinking this shit. Yeah, cops watch social media sometimes because it’s a really comprehensive way to fuck someone. They can see who you hang out with, maybe what you were doing on a particular day or where you were, and more. Makes a lot of sense why they would do that, right? Nobody’s gonna give a fuck about a celebrity, who is totally going to get treated differently anyways I will give you that, for hiring a sex worker. Cops are also more interested in things that Garner the…	/r/seduction	14/03/22 07:09 AM
1	A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again? Tbh, of course my first reaction is “fuck no, ignore ignore ignore” On 2nd thought, just say hi and ask her how she is and stuff. Dont make it weird. Just act like the ghosting was mutual. If you spot discomfort and you wanna play games, you have the power.	/r/seduction	14/03/22 04:49 AM
1	A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again? There we go. This is the way.	/r/seduction	14/03/22 04:47 AM
2	Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex? I can’t remember who said it and I don’t want to scroll right now, but yeah, don’t come off hungry like the Wolf. Mainly because yes, you won’t really know if you’re going to hook up with somebody unless you have played your cards right. Even then, you may be denied. Which is totally fine. You should be comfortable taking no and moving on. If hooking up as what you want, you might actually have to spend some time. Most of the guys who aren’t tall, conventionally attractive, have money, etc., all…	/r/seduction	14/03/22 12:26 AM
1	Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex? Sauce?	/r/seduction	14/03/22 12:20 AM
2	Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex? What if I told you that as you get older, you’re gonna get called out on stupid bullshit you do. You be shocked at how far you can go if you cut the shit, take care of yourself and your mental/emotional state before you try to sleep with anybody. Before you say anything about that, your reactions are pretty telling of how you might be coming off. Imo, initiating casual sex is like taking certain psychedelics. If you are in a good mood, and you’re not easily shakable, you are pretty likely to hav…	/r/seduction	14/03/22 12:18 AM
2	For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's? Well, it’s not always up to one person. If I’m gonna have a sexual encounter with someone, and I know it, I have condoms on hand. Are usually ask if the person is seeing is on birth control. If they say no, but I have a condom or yes but can we use a condom, I’m not gonna make them feel bad for wanting to be safe. And if you do that, you should take your dick out your fly and run your zipper as hard as you can. That being said, I gauge the situation. 7/10 times thru dating apps you can kinda tel…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 04:31 PM
1	Trying to flirt with a escort Like, don’t ask why and then ask me why again and be surprised someone actually tries to explain it to you lmao Youre useless	/r/seduction	13/03/22 07:52 AM
0	Trying to flirt with a escort You literally asked for every second of it, you should feel stupid lmao	/r/seduction	13/03/22 07:51 AM
1	Trying to flirt with a escort You literally asked for my explanation, and the simple one wasn’t enough for you lmao. Hence the novel, dumbass. Hopefully this was short enough for you! I know reading is very hard.	/r/seduction	12/03/22 06:51 PM
1	Trying to flirt with a escort Honestly the way you describe the situation makes it seem like you have control issues lmao. Like, to answer your question “seriously”: sometimes people need a sec. Let her reveal her intentions. If she doesn’t, ask. If you don’t understand why, thats fine, you dont have to. You dont have to agree, either? Sounds like you just wanna disagree, but you arent really providing much of a reason why besides “why does she get a moment of space and autonomy before I launch into interview-mode, i dont li…	/r/seduction	10/03/22 03:16 AM
2	Trying to flirt with a escort In response to you anyways, something tells me you think “going at her pace” means letting her be in control at all times and disregard any of your best interest or wishes. To me, it just means take it easy, don’t pry right away and give that person time to initiate on their own terms if they have something to say. Like its a state to adopt for the situation, at the time. Thats my interp anyhow	/r/seduction	09/03/22 02:05 AM
3	Trying to flirt with a escort Ohhh yeah missed your point. This was kind of my own tangent anyways, I dunno if I wrote it with anything you said mind. I thought i was replying to instantslut lol Idk how 2 reddit tbh	/r/seduction	09/03/22 01:53 AM
4	Trying to flirt with a escort InstantSlut knows whats up. Dated someone in that biz, here’s my take: Look at it this way, dude. You’d hire her again right? Go to sushi. If it turns out she’s just trying to keep a regular excited/happy, then nothing about your relationship actually changes. At that point, just see what she does. If all you say is true, she’ll let you know. If you haven’t picked up on any signs or spoken directly about the intent, you can ask her what her intent was. And even then, if she’s truly just trying t…	/r/seduction	08/03/22 11:58 PM
3	Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid? Just treat her like someone you’re trying to get to know. Don’t be too pushy, don’t be rude. She’s a human being, not a sex dispenser. You guys will hit it off, or not at all. She’s super hot, so she’s used to people getting weird. Just be cool. Don’t think much about it and don’t get weird. You’ll know where to take the conversation. If she is receptive and you guys have a good time, you might be able to pull her number later if you don’t have it.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 02:47 PM
5	I feel bad for the people on the r/Foreveralone subreddit A lot of these people can change, but commiserating is a very human thing that people do. People limit themselves all types of ways in their lives, unfortunately.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 08:09 AM
2	Do girls prefer dating apps or meeting in a bar? Dude who hurt you lmao	/r/seduction	28/02/22 04:04 AM
5	I’m Afraid I’m not really sure what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for reassurance, I can tell you that I’ve definitely been scared of all of that stuff before. I did push through it, and it’s not as scary anymore. It sounds like maybe you could use some help in the self-confidence department, as well. I think that’s the most important take away from all of this that I can see. I believe in you, man. It sucks that it’s not as common for women to approach men in society, but it also can happen. Hones…	/r/seduction	28/02/22 04:02 AM
2	Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general? Spoiler alert, almost everyone does. People see that and take advantage. Do no harm, take no shit, stand up straight, and be the real you. Edit: I know from experience :facepalm:	/r/seduction	28/02/22 02:23 AM
14	How do I seduce a coworker to sleep with me? You can do whatever you want, don’t listen to these people telling you what to do or what not to do. I’ve definitely dated or banged coworkers before, you can make it fucking awkward as hell. Sometimes shit doesn’t work out, somebody wants some thing the other person doesn’t want, and it gets messy. Be aware of that moving forward, don’t be an asshole, good luck have fun Edit: Just ask him if he thinks you’re cute. You’ll know where to go from there.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 02:21 AM
1	Worried that this girl I’ve been seeing is going to ghost me Everybody commenting on this thread for the most part is super aggressive and weird. You have no idea what’s going on in her life, she could’ve died for all you know dawg. She’ll reply or she won’t. You can ping her in a few days and ask why if you care, or say you would have appreciated an honest “hey kinda not feelin it anymore”. Dont be a dick and dont be too self conscious, but simultaneously, dont sweat it! She thought you were rad, someone else will, too.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 01:28 AM
1	Life is heading in the right direction but at 26 I have no car and don’t have my own place still. Should I still try? The way I see it, you don’t really have anything to lose. Its not like you’re still working a dead end job. You’re on the up and up, good for you. I just read the comment where you described your luxe. I think a lot of women like tall men! Some people think that women are ruthless about height, I don’t necessarily find that to be true, but being tall isn’t a turn off for anybody for sure. It kind of sounds like you really assume no other woman could possibly be in a similar situation to you. Eve…	/r/seduction	27/02/22 11:18 PM
2	Asked a girl out for the first time in person I think this is a communication breakdown more than anything. I wouldn’t push my luck, but I do think its likely you both did not understand the other.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 01:32 AM
2	Asked a girl out for the first time in person Can be	/r/seduction	27/02/22 01:30 AM
4	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? Lmao this dumbass thinks a book about believing in yourself and not giving a shit what others think (which generates confidence, which is well-documented as one of the most attractive traits of all time across all genders/sexualities) is snake oil. Imagine the opposite. Does being a shyguy or a stoic and stuck up fool work for you? Self confidence alone isn’t going to get anyone hot and bothered, but it sure doesn’t drive anyone away or make them question your heart and mind. And as if people ca…	/r/seduction	18/02/22 05:42 PM
1	What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one; Horrible advice, ignore this dude	/r/seduction	06/02/22 05:16 PM