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It depends what timescale you are talking about, that's well within the realm of possibility. Shit, women's suffrage isn't even 100 years old at this point. Democracy itself is incredibly fragile, even within the first world. The meek don't inherit the earth, the fertile do. https://www.pewforum.org/2015/04/02/religious-projections-2010-2050/pf_15-04-02_projectionsoverview_totalfertility_640px/ I agree that the 'end of civilization' rhetoric is ludicrous. It will transition into something unreco…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:55 AM
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You genuinely believe the current social arrangement is sustainable? An alternative will be implemented, a better question is how to plan for what that might look like rather than stumble blindly forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:42 AM
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So unstable and thus subject to, potentially rapid, change?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:39 AM
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You think the current arrangement is stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:52 AM
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The Gay Agenda: Orgy Orgy Orgy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:32 AM
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MILF in porn is code for 26 year-old 'post-wall' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:11 PM
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Men tend to be lazy if they think they can get sex without trying or if they don't think they can get sex even if they try. The hollowing out of the middle class is causing those two groups to grow in size.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 09:17 PM
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Marriage/kids, plenty of people date with zero intention of marrying a particular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:48 PM
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Dating someone isn't choosing them as a life partner, having a kid with someone binds you to them for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 07:59 PM
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They were only defanged because liberal feminism adopted so many of their original tenets. The concept of Patriarchy, for instance, was once a solely radical feminist belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 12:30 AM
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Civilization exists to prevent violence on a mass scale. I'm sorry that this is apparently news to you. It's all more fragile than you might think. It's not hard to figure out how humans might behave if it weren't for the civilizing effect of social constructs you seem so eager to dismantle. Look at animals - it isn't pretty. Do I think most men are eager to go out and rape random women, of course not. But without those oh-so-oppressive constraints put on both men and women over the last few mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 05:31 PM
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I'd rather not experience women's 'true sexual nature' on a society wide level much like I expect you'd rather not experience men's 'true sexual nature' on a society wise level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:34 AM
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I'm pretty sure we both win. I thought you mentioned kids? Someone still loses in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:24 AM
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No, it's a little bit relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:01 PM
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To maintain group fitness. Same reason all bullying exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:54 PM
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That still leaves plenty of time to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 12:49 AM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 06:19 PM
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Where's your cutoff point then? A zygote isn't a formed baby, a four week old clump of cells isn't a formed baby. The CNS doesn't fully form till mid 2nd trimester iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:56 AM
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How does it look if you separate those that were married from OOW births?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:53 AM
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If only their mothers had been first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:49 AM
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It's called the rhythm method and it's not completely bunk. Effectiveness: 76-88% effective with typical use https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/rhythm-method/about/pac-20390918 My parents used it and only had six kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:43 AM
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Because man bites dog is a more interesting story than dog bites man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:16 AM
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They both sound shitty. Did you get bored in your marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:16 AM
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And some get married, have some problems, get divorced, get married again, have more problems, get divorced again, get married again... This is too much work - five marriages and you pretend to not have had any problems, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:00 AM
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At the end of the day feminists' beef isn't with men, it's with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 12:36 AM
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Would you rather have everything you eat be too salty or not salty enough no matter how much salt you add?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:44 PM
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No, I'm shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:33 PM
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Ditto. I imagine they got it from women flirting with them. Being a frontman isn't the only way to be preselected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:40 AM
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Is there any role played by luck here, is it 100% genetically determined? What is the difference between a guy has it all but is unlucky. If preselection didn't play any role there would be zero difference in their ability to pull the women they meet, right? Any difference in their outcomes would be down to recognition. Status is really just another word for preselection after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:28 AM
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Because we classify people by race. Get rid of existing policy based on race and I'll stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:10 AM
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Post. a. chart. that. is. readable. Why? Why can't we all just be people? What is the reason you feel so strongly that we need to classify people by race? This is my point, is vs ought. We already classify people by race. Do you support affirmative action? That doesn't work without racial classification. Should we go back to the colorblind model? I'd be fine with that. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:03 AM
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You kinda avoided my question there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:59 PM
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Racial classifications aren't let's make it up as we go along. They don't change randomly and inexplicably, they change in order to help the ruling class preserve power, due to changes to social structures and changes to religious belief, immigration and other factors. If race were entirely socially constructed there would be zero common threads over centuries, compared to true randomness the classifications don't change that much. Is there a higher quality version of that chart because when I z…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:51 PM
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Evolution is literally the science of change, therefore it isn't scientific?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:32 PM
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So in your mind preselection plays zero role in women's attraction? A woman couldn't possibly become even remotely attracted to an otherwise normal looking man on stage while knowing nothing about him just by seeing how other women react to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:26 PM
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Genetic cluster analysis of the microsatellite markers produced four major clusters, which showed near-perfect correspondence with the four self-reported race/ethnicity categories. Of 3,636 subjects of varying race/ethnicity, only 5 (0.14%) showed genetic cluster membership different from their self-identified race/ethnicity. I never claimed it was a perfect classification system, obviously if you increased the number of clusters the classifications will change/become more granular. Your argumen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:09 PM
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First guy has way more groupies than the average fat musician. It won't entirely make up for being a fatass but then I never claimed it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:07 PM
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Portray femininity, you mean project femininity? you're saying not to judge a book by its title while making assumptions about the book OP is talking without having read it. That's fair, I deserved that. I said elsewhere that I'll concede the book can be written provided the tone is sufficiently deferent to women whereas no such requirement exists in the reverse case. Which is moving the goalposts, so you win there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:05 PM
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That's fair, maybe I was wrong. I'll move the goalposts a bit and say the tone of the book plays a significant role in how publishable a book like that is whereas there is a lot more leeway in the reverse case, though that's a much more blasé objection. As someone will no doubt point out that is partly a result of the fact that people don't take 'threats' from women seriously though I'd argue that is a grave error in the social domain. Women's power is soft after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:05 PM
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It's not entirely preselection but it absolutely plays a role. A crowd of adoring fans is better than all other forms of preselection combined. Obviously ambition, talent, charisma, physical characteristics etc. play a huge role as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:50 PM
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You're denying pre-selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:33 PM
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Your implication that Harvey's book was telling women how to be feminine and not describing how to manipulate, or tame if you prefer, men. Somehow I doubt those quotes could be applied to the book in the OP. “Giese offers surprising insights into the female mentality and gives men strategies for taming that hypergamous beast.” "Men should listen to Rachel Giese when it comes to what a good woman is about. Rachel Giese dispenses a lot of fabulous information about women.” I'm not seeing it, other…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 09:09 PM
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“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.” —Philadelphia Inquirer “Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men.” —Aretha Franklin hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:49 PM
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In a culture based around slave morality if an injustice exists something must be done about it. Social justice advocates don't want to do anything about male sexual dispossession therefore it's not an injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:27 PM
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He's clearly talking about the reverse which is men writing about the proper way to be feminine. Pretty obvious this would be derided as sexist and the vast majority of publishing companies - overwhelmingly staffed by women - would reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:18 PM
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It's a genetic cluster just like 'black' the bounds are of course somewhat arbitrary and the social classification is partially determined by political allegiances but to pretend it has no underlying biological basis is fantastical. White people and every other ethnicity could be subclassified if you increased k of course. If one accepts the idea of a pan-African identity (which to be fair many people do not) then a pan-European identity follows. There is greater genetic diversity amongst Africa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 06:49 PM
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This isn't a surprise to anyone. People should at least be aware of the tragedy of the commons even if they don't act on that awareness. Taking pride in one's ignorance is stupid even if it helps you sleep a little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 06:16 PM
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It would greatly alter the supply curve thus demand for the 'body of a female human' and thus women's worth. With surrogacy you still need a human female body to incubate the child. In theory artificial wombs could eventually be ethically mass-produced driving down demand for women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 12:19 AM
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Why is it cruel and unusual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 12:16 AM
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What about artificial eggs and wombs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 11:47 PM
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Why? You can survive without contact with other people so solitary confinement doesn't remove any need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 11:07 PM
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How do you feel about long-term solitary confinement?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:27 PM
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During extinction events resources are scarce so maintaining a large body becomes burdensome. In other words during extinction events natural selection dominates over sexual selection. Hypergamy is a form of sexual selection. In times of plentiful wealth, such as today, sexual selection dominates over natural selection. Intelligence and skills are adaptive by definition so of course they survived/thrived in harsh naturally selective conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:47 PM
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Peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 12:15 AM
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If anything women shaving is a negative sum game. The comparison is regarding the idea that female shaving/male circumcision are done for health rather than aesthetic reasons. Not all aspects of two things have to be comparable for you to compare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 08:07 AM
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That women can stop shaving their nether regions when they stop having their sons circumcised for 'hygienic reasons'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:09 AM
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7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:11 PM
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Right, dating women in their late 30s and 40s/50s now may be like dating early 20s women was back in the day, but it's not like dating early 20s women is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:39 AM
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Were you trying to date women in their early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:04 PM
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You're*. At least your consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 06:20 AM
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Relational aggression
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 06:13 AM
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Lol of course not, any complex trait is highly polygenic. Personality traits are heritable and moderate the likelihood of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 04:13 PM
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Why do you hate equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:38 AM
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Few people want to commit to someone who has been fucked by lots of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:55 PM
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Divorce is highly heritable and perhaps as much as 50% genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:08 PM
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Put your money where your mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:13 AM
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Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:11 PM
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It's not unreasonable, that's the median after-tax income in the US. I make a fair bit more than that and don't live in the US. I've never been nor do I desire to visit a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 09:27 PM
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It didn't say anything about child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:57 PM
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Until you provide an example of it it's theoretically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:46 PM
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Doesn't say anything about child support but I'll grant that it's theoretically possible. Still not as bad as the underage kid that was forced to provide child support to his rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:29 PM
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30K after tax, remember millenials are 20-36 years old. Guys on the younger end of this will have more trouble affording it. They may have to spend slightly less on alcohol/weed/video games/eating out or some other vice to pay for it, sure. Of course cost of living will make a big difference. This is a lot easier in Cincinnati than San Fran. Like I said it isn't worth it for most guys but it is doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:56 PM
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One hour a month $150-300/hr is $1800-3600 for a year and a total of 12 hours. I'm not suggesting it's worth it but it's absolutely doable for the vast majority of millenial men. If you believe the hos on tinder you can probably drop that number under $105 an hour. Full body condoms cost about $5 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:12 PM
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Not three times a week but once a month, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:01 PM
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No, it didn't, prostitution is illegal and porn is free and ubiquitous. Paying doesn't make sense for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:49 PM
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The American Psychological Association has this to say: The main thrust of the subsequent research is that traditional masculinity—marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression—is, on the whole, harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:47 PM
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But why male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:29 AM
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I'd argue they are born out of the same fundamental outlook (on the human condition) with the absence or presence of hope for the future. The resulting actions are in stark contrast but the underlying framework for viewing the world is similar. I.e. decline fetishism is the right's version of accelerationism - never the first choice - just social instead of economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:24 AM
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You have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:48 AM
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Any real increase in autism is likely due to increasing paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 11:55 PM
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Any increase in autism is likely due to increased paternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 10:58 PM
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Or instances of the latter are considered so blasé they don't even register. I actually agree somewhat with you here. There are more men who are willing to say very controversial things about women than the reverse because men are less afflicted with social desirability bias/attuned to what's socially desirable. However women are also considered less dangerous than men (individually true, collectively I'm not so sure) so they get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:26 PM
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Because people feel a much stronger urge to protect women 'the weaker sex' than they do to protect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:21 PM
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Well yes, some people will always try to fake the signal. Though when you can't/can barely afford it it signals even greater commitment to the woman which has it's own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:11 PM
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Having the option to be frugal without sacrificing quality sex and relationships is a luxury reserved for attractive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:07 PM
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The point of a diamond ring is that it's conspicuous consumption that signals that you can afford to spend money on something with no inherent value. Pretty betabucksy compared to the alpha countersignalling with frugality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:57 AM
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Sure but there can be a benefit by pre-filtering by genes for physical attractiveness. Especially with something as low cost as tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:37 AM
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The male equivalent is the assumption 'Men are Competent'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 06:46 PM
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I grew up in a big family. Playing outside with my siblings/the neighborhood kids with my parents no where to be seen was better for my physical and social development than some overprotective mother or father ushering me from one organized activity to the next. That said having parents there is still essential for instilling values/discipline and providing stability. While more involvement is necessary in the first few years the number of hours required decreases rapidly with age and additional…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:49 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said? My point is that the quality of the alone time is far more important than the volume. It's more important that kids have siblings to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:26 PM
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Especially, overparenting is worse than a hands off approach provided that you there for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:09 PM
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Ultra long distance swimming due to higher bf%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:05 PM
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We live in a culture where victim status is coveted, it's not surprising that people that refuse to partake are assumed by wannabe victims to be immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:03 PM
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What you call the classical approach I've also heard referred to as cognitive decoupling. Looking at a concept in isolation rather than considering the people espousing it, the historical frame of reference and the implications, i.e. contextualizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 06:51 AM
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You needed to rate them a 4 or 5 for them to get a message.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:01 PM
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You don't need laws restricting sexuality so much as better incentive structures and a degree of social/cultural enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 06:35 AM
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On the contrary, I love freedom so much I'd prefer to have reasonable restrictions on it in order to preserve that freedom in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 05:03 AM
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Well yes, when you restrict the sample to the top 1% of humanities degree holders of course they'll do well on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:04 AM
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But you don't understand, she has to buy them, they're pink!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:40 AM
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Your decision is immoral, the natural course would be that every citizen refused to pay taxes causing society to fall apart which would cause a lot more harm than is caused by requiring citizens to pay taxes. Alternatively you can go live in Ancapistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:17 PM
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So you get none of the benefits of taxes? No road access, medical access, plumbing/utilities etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:23 PM
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What does that have to do with violence? That has to do with libido and active vs passive/receptive sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:11 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 06:52 PM
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I agree, their is no moral difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 06:12 PM
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It's not my fault you don't know the difference between tax avoidance and tax evasion. It's not necessarily tiny. For the wealthy loopholes can reduce their total tax bill by half.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:43 PM
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I wasn't if you bothered to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:26 PM
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Avoiding taxes is legal, in that sense paying taxes beyond the absolute minimum required (by utilizing loopholes) absolutely is voluntary. One can choose to pay more than the minimum taxes they are required by law to pay, those additional taxes are voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:48 PM
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5th and 2nd in the first pic? I agree with your coworker, I'm surprised /u/okuli doesn't consider 5th in the first pic hot but otherwise I generally agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:41 PM
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It's because men are disposable, sperm/eggs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:06 AM
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Yes, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:51 PM
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Avoiding taxes is legal, in that sense paying taxes beyond the absolute minimum required (by utilizing loopholes) absolutely is voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:08 PM
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There is always that risk, yes. But if you fuck her and then fail to follow through she is just as likely, if not more, to have her self-esteem suffer and go for a rebound. The less mature she is the more likely that you'll make it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:59 PM
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And women alternating between wanting to be treated as a damsel in distress and a strongTM woman confuses/pisses off men and generally degrades gender relations which contributes to the massive reduction in TFR we've seen. Behaving in a morally upright, dutiful way literally keeps society functioning and keeps people from dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:13 PM
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They do if they're enabling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:32 PM
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So is tax avoidance, it's still immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:32 PM
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I think unethical is probably a better term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:24 PM
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You don't know that, this is just a way for you to justify your shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:20 PM
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Most parents know the risks. I agree with the OPs stance, but it falls on both men and women to resist temptations. I might be willing to say it falls slightly more on the less libidinous to resist, which is often - but not always - the woman. You do and still choose to hurt the woman for selfish transient gain. No I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:54 PM
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Then mothers (and fathers) aren't doing their duty in preparing their daughters for adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:27 PM
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Obesity is the single best predictor of low-T but even then at most predicts about 50% of the decline in the last 50 years though it doesn't seem to have a significant impact on free testosterone (except in the morbidly obese - 5% of US pop), only total T. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3955331/ Laziness, if anything, would more likely be caused by low-T than a causal factor for low-T.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:05 AM
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Once you have blue balls masturbation is too painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:05 PM
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The old 'What's mine is mine, what's yours is ours'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:33 PM
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While I agree that women mature earlier than men Darwin Awards go to extreme risk takers who are also very dumb. Part of the reason that men men win them all is greater variability (most risk taking dumbasses are men) but that is distinct from mean maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:31 AM
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It's reddit Rates of autism are increasing due to higher paternal age which is associated with a greater risk for autism. Based on the trends this will continue to get worse as people further delay marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:58 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_desirability_bias
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:42 AM
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https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748703922804576300903183512350
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:14 PM
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I literally never see this. Shaming people that do eat meat on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:36 PM
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You are the textbook conclusion first, evidence-to-fit-the-conclusion-second person, Smoogs. Tbf that's like 99% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:55 AM
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but they differ greatly at the extreme This is true for any polygenic trait where there is a difference in mean or variance between men and women. Including intelligence, extroversion, height, individualism etc. The reason this is true for any polygenic trait is the central limit theorem/ the nature of normal distributions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:53 AM
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Yeah Hispanic youth have twice the obesity rate of white youth but obesity is up across the board. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db288.htm https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/images/databriefs/251-300/db288_fig4.png Interestingly obesity appears to be higher in women in all major racial categories except white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 10:43 PM
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But far more common than it used to be. The relevant comparison is youth obesity rates a generation ago and iirc they have more than doubled since 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 09:41 PM
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Fortunately straw tears pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:56 AM
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Not according to the experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:27 AM
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That's the beauty though, if you play your cards right they nag each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:11 AM
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I can see it now. Sure the House, Senate and Supreme Court are all 65+% female but 80% of DoD higher ups are men, this cannot stand!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:10 AM
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It used to be that people met through work but realistically that is a dangerous proposition in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 11:02 PM
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Your dad doesn't have your hormonal profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:12 PM
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He's also dehydrated to improve muscle definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:42 PM
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That guy doesn't even look like that 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:09 PM
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Reifying 'gender' was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:35 PM
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They complain about men not wanting to commit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:49 PM
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A man with self respect who does not want to pay full price for what other males got for free and generally while she was at her peak. I guess women will be mad too if they had to pay a high price to get what others had for free. The blue tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:47 PM
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IQ is heritable at between 0.6 and 0.85 so at the individual level most variation is explained by genetics though environment does play a small role. 3-4 point changes are common in adoption studies so it does make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:28 PM
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Some, I assume, are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:10 PM
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Some, I assume, are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:01 PM
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Let me guess they're all, or pretty much all, women? That's been my experience at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:52 PM
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Every positive reaction to this ad that I've seen on FB has been from women and every negative reaction I've seen has been from men. So yes, I think you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:43 PM
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It's not just the brain size that matters but the proportion of brain to body. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Encephalization_Quotient_(EQ)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:39 PM
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So if IQ tests are written by western men, guess which demographic is going to come out on top. Asians and Jews?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:30 PM
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Both, people who are willing to subscribe to controvercial belief systems are willing to subscribe to controvercial belief systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 10:41 PM
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Concealing n count is toxic femininity. Checkmate feminists!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:38 PM
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Most of your gains came from diet improvement (fat loss) and you know this. True, however this is still connected to muscle mass, more muscle mass means a higher bmr. If you lift you can eat more without worrying as much/getting fat. I suspect extreme endo/ectomorphs are rare, most people are going to be somewhere in the middle. I'd guess that 80% of men have the ability to get a decent, if not ideal, ratio. The fraction of men that have the discipline, given modern temptations, is lower though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:12 PM
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It does depend on genetics but like I said I was able to increase my ratio substantially by building muscle and burning fat, other guys can to. Genetics is far more important when you are talking about people who are already very fit and testing the limits of what they can acheive. Keep in mind that most people are overweight, it isn't necessary to become the fittest dude in the gym to look a lot better than most guys. Even if the best you can do is a ratio of 1.5 I promise that gets me plenty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:30 PM
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Yeah those guys have very narrow wastes due to all of them having <8% bf but if you look at the study you posted the most highly rated body shape has a ratio of 1.62 linear shoulder to waist. The study clearly isn't perfect, I suspect there is leeway for guys on the higher end especially if they are tall. That is a confound the study doesn't address. Edit: Slope of the shoulders and presence of well developed traps is also important. A ratio of 1.9 looks pretty whack to me but 1.75-1.8 is reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:02 PM
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Dude. Body measurements are made using circumferences. Some are, some aren't. The study you provided use computer generated 2D images where they use the linear ratio I mentioned. There is literally no way for them to determine the circumferences. That is the source of the 0.6 ratio being ideal, theoretically it is more like 0.62 but they didn't study the difference in ratings at that granular a level. The bodybuilder source is wrong, what can I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:27 PM
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Who on earth measures body dimensions two dimensional LOL??? Circumference is two dimensional and height/width are one dimensional... The golden ratio as an ideal ratio refers to the linear (1D) ratio of shoulder width to waste width. The whole point of the golden ratio is that it is visually aesthetic. You can't visualize the ratio of two circumferences 🙄. https://www.google.com/search?q=golden+ratio+shoulder+to+waist&client=firefox-b-ab&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiOxOvqyfDfAhUHx58KHa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:19 PM
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1.618, the golden ratio. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. I grew my shoulder width from ~16.5 to 19 inches by working out. I was able to reduce by waste width from about 14 to 12.5 inches through dieting with some more work to do. So I went from a ratio of 16.5/14 to 19/12.5, or just under 1.2 to just over 1.5. It is totally doable for most guys. Even if they can't get to 1.62 they can massively improve the ratio. It's not like it's some sort of binary criteria of v-shaped or not v-sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:31 PM
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Your back? This is more believable, but irrelevant, since we are talking about your V-shape from the front of your body. Your back muscles absolutely impact how your v-shape appears from the front, mostly the lats. Developing your delts helps make your shoulders broader. These dudes are probably way more muscular and lean than you yet sometimes you just don't get good body shape genetics. Here's a pic people here posted before. The guy on the left has abnormally narrow shoulders. I'm not saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:10 PM
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Not at all, I went from a pear shape to a v-shape by slimming down significantly and putting lots of muscle on my shoulders and back to give me that shape. Waste size matters a bit but as long as you have a reasonably low body-fat% and broad shoulders - from building muscle - most guys can get a good v-shape. The general shape of a guy is much more important (v-shaped body). That is mostly bone shape and lean waist, not muscularity. Plus you do know that if you gain muscle, bone will grow to sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:24 AM
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Only half
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:49 PM
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mhmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:46 PM
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Funny coming from the person who used the term 'matriarchal utopia'. On the other hand I am pretty sure that a team of men would consistently do better in the wild than a team of women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:31 PM
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It may not be a death sentence for any given individual but if it happens at a society wide scale it is a death sentence for that society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:19 PM
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Exactly, the paradox of choice means that more freedom/choice often makes people less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:16 PM
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How do you feel about the fact that society has been engineered to decrease compatibility between the sexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:15 PM
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Exactly, the only people who have to worry about the accuracy of this heuristic are those with few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:58 PM
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Children don't stay seven forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:55 PM
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Why not adopt then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/3cswfp/in_one_season_of_the_dutch_version_of_survivor/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:39 PM
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Blues are blind to their Blue Privilege. Blueness is a scourge that must be eradicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:25 PM
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Casual sex is bad for society in the long run. A significant reason for the escalation in the culture war in recent years is the delay of marriage. This delay is a result of and contributes to worsening relations between the sexes. More men are falling behind and women outearning men explains 29% of the decrease in marriages in recent years. Due to GMV the average man is more fit (in evolutionary terms) than the average woman but the median woman is more fit than the median man and this is becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:53 PM
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No, it's a shift in dating culture as a result of the male-to-female ratio. When looking at technical/engineering schools with more men their is less casual sex and more relationships. Case in point. Here’s what Niche.com had to say Georgia Tech, which is 66% male: “Tech is a fairly monogamous campus [and] people like to be in a relationship.” At 59%-male California Institute of Technology, “Students tend not to date but have relationships… Breakups are rare, and many couples get married after C…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:18 PM
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It is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:09 PM
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The ratio is about 4 mtf for every ftm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:38 PM
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The ideal environment for men as a whole restricts female hypergamy and monopolization of sex by a few men, it would be some form of enforced monogamy. MeToo is a pretty clear attempt to reduce monopolization of women by a few men by increasing the risk for these men. It will be interesting to see what the framing against female promiscuity will look/how it will differ from ordinary slut-shaming. Both are required to reverse course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:34 PM
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They'll be too busy worrying about finding food and shelter to destroy anything. You do realize that low socioeconomic status leads to violence right? Especially when it exists on a large scale and even more so if the impoverished are men, add no kids/investment in the future and you have a recipe for disaster. There's a reason for the saying 'bread and circuses'. “There are only nine meals between mankind and anarchy.” The homeless are mostly mentally ill and/or drug-addicted, of course they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:23 PM
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This is 100% true and a big part of the reason I'm purple. This is even acknowledged amongst original RPers. They justify their actions by saying that society is in decline anyway so who cares. It will require collective action by men to reverse these trends, this is the main reason religion is evolutionarily beneficial imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:07 PM
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Tbf everyone is under 30!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:44 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/05/sports/courtney-dauwalter-200-mile-race.html Tbf it's kinda like saying that mixed black/asian people are better than white people at golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:37 AM
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Ultra long distance swimming and running.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:13 AM
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Women are also more likely to be tetrochromats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:13 AM
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Both examples you gave are women in their early to mid 20s with clear neotenous features so I'm not sure why you think that contradicts what I said. By more round I meant relative to thin women in their 30s and 40s (and I meant to say round facial features rather than round faces - and this doesn't preclude defined cheekbones, just sets limits on how defined they can be). There is a sweet spot between adolescence and pre-menopause. This is all besides the fact that men aren't attracted to fertil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:06 AM
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That is interesting, so how is wearing a dress a psychological trait, what about the color pink? They're not, obviously. They're overt signals that people generally agree map on to feminine personalities and they regularly change over time. E.g. pink was considered a masculine color in some places in the past. 'Femininity' is those psychological attributes which are consistently associated with women cross-culturally that exist due to underlying biological differences between the sexes, e.g. agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:25 AM
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16-12 is pretty fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:14 PM
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By youthfulness I'm obviously referring to young pubescent women. Prepubescent features are clearly not proxies for fertility, as you say they aren't sexually dimorphic features. It's the combination of boobs/estrogen fatty butts and neotenous features (smooth skin and more round faces/large eyes etc) that men are most attracted to, that combination peaks in a girl's early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:52 AM
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More accurately men are attracted to a proxy for fertility, youthfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:38 AM
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I agree that fathers aren't honored enough in our society, we need to do more collectively to incentivize marriage/disincentivize children outside of wedlock and divorce. Forced by gunpoint no, but some level of social enforcement is necessary. You need both the carrot and the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:17 AM
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Nah, women have better fine motor skills and men better coarse motor skills in general due to biology caused by evolutionary specialization/sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:02 AM
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The price of freedom for you now is substantially less freedom in the future for many more people, if you don't mind being so selfish then ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:14 PM
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"Change the narrative, change the world!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:05 PM
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If people feel they don't owe society anything that society is doomed and will be replaced by one where people do feel such a duty. It's an essential social construct for any 'society' that wants to survive in the long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:01 PM
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Louis CK'd = Career Destroyed. Maybe, we will see. Might just be he is biding his time waiting for things to cool off. He did some stand up recently and it's pretty clear that he's recognized that the only way forward for him is to pander to the anti-PC/metoo right. Seeing as that's about half of the US it seems like a good strategy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:25 PM
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No one likes getting nagged, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:56 PM
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So they want to have their cake and eat it too? You aren't a traditionalist so why would a traditionalist man choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:22 PM
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I think he is implying that the woman considers it free dinner and isn't really interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:14 PM
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This is true, in order to have a functioning society in the long-term you have to rein in men's polygamous tendencies in order to diminish the ability of women to act on their hypergamous tendencies by ensuring that the most desired men are locked down. TRP believes that the cat is out of the bag for liberal western civilization and that you should just enjoy the decline. I disagree which is part of why I'm pp. This is also why I believe we should try to aggressively spread feminism to non-weste…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:17 PM
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There is a causal relationship between your personality and how you answer questions for the mbti - assuming you answer truthfully. The same can not be said for astrology. There is no causal relationship between the position of stars at your birth and your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 02:42 AM
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Interestingly the first time I encountered it was in engineering school. They had everyone take it, apparently the most common type for engineers is istj. I'm intj. It's not perfect but it's infinitely better than astrological signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 02:35 AM
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The only evolved traits we have that we can overcome in any meaningful sense are ones that have ceased to be adaptive. Being at the top of a hierarchy is still reproductively beneficial and always will be. Hierarchies are necessary for efficient distribution of resources to maximize group fitness - due to unequal distribution of ability - in order to outcompete other groups which is why they always arise in social animals. Ideologies that eschew hierarchies always lose to hierarchical ideologies…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:31 PM
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You: human beings by all available evidence evolved to be egalitarian Also you: That reasoning is only sound if human beings are completely unable to go against their natural evolved behavior. Which is it? Did we evolve to be egalitarian or can we acheive egalitarianism by going against our evolved behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:15 PM
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It might, but the higher the n the less likely this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:42 PM
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How long ago was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:18 AM
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Still benevolent sexism unless she'd do the same for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:03 PM
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It applies to shitty people of either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:00 PM
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biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:08 AM
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burrocracy The US under Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:35 AM
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Yup, when you have one conservative media company and ten liberal ones the one conservative media institution is going to have more watchers/readers than the average viewership of the ten. The idea that the media and journalists don't skew left is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 11:23 PM
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Which one stuck a cigar in the vagina of a woman 27 years his junior in the oval office?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 10:56 PM
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One of those sets of accusations is a lot more probable than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 09:55 PM
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I can't speak for whatever company you work for but the school I went to certainly did everything they could to get more women into engineering. If you work for a large tech firm I expect they do give preferential treatment to female hires.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:42 AM
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Campaign against affirmative action for women in STEM, if you get rid of it people won't assume you're a diversity hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 01:03 AM
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I'm not going to see someone who spends 95% of their time with their family or at their job in the dating market so they are irrelevant. Regardless of age the friends (particularly those that share your gender) that you spend your time with are going to people who share your interests and at least some personality traits. What I said does not apply if you are friendless obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:32 PM
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Birds of a feather flock together, this is true at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:58 PM
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Yup, divorce is great for men that's why it is the event that causes the single largest spike in male suicides. Anyone with this attitude is the exact opposite of marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:30 PM
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And nobody abhors sluts more than quality women as they are the first to shun from them their social group and ward their males friends away from. Yup, you are the average of your five closest friends. If a woman's friends are sluts she almost certainly is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:26 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:03 PM
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I think she's just playing dumb/trying to be witty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:03 PM
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Fine, the only risk women were allowed to take was getting pregnant because it was necessary for group survival. Obviously the whole group's survival trumps an individual woman's survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:46 PM
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You don't get to eat your cake and have it too. You are responsible for your past actions and men aren't 'less evolved' for refusing to look past them, the opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 12:58 AM
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I believe that you mean well but it is a two-way street, women have to exert some self-control when attractive non-committal men make passes at them. Men aren't going to all of a sudden not mind dating women with significantly more sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:56 AM
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First, the women who "fuck" hot guys do so because that's what they think they are supposed to do in a world that only cares about sex. So women have no agency/responsibiilty for their behaviors? Society made you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:50 AM
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I don’t know why you people are so opposed to socializing through technology or having fun on snapchat. Did you read the article? These technologies have a profoundly alienating effect on those lower on the social ladder, especially girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:32 AM
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All my posts are like this ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ You should read the entire article anyway, and The Coddling of the American Mind by Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff. Their is also a podcast between Ezra Klein and Haidt about the book that I found pretty interesting (and I despise Ezra Klein).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:15 AM
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TBH I think you are a little borderline. The demarcation point I've seen used by Haidt for the dysjunction between generations is for those born after 1995, that's where the rapid escalation in depression/anxiety etc starts. The Coddling of the American Mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:09 AM
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I'm curious how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:57 PM
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A study 10 years ago posited that of early humans only 40% of men passed along their DNA to modern humans. This part of your comment is still false. While sexual/(progenic?) inequality is undoubtedly lower now it still exists and will inevitably rise with the collapse of marriage and rise in economic inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:22 PM
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The male equivalent of single moms are the deadbeat dad's who refuse to help raise the kids. Dad's that raise their kids while unmarried usually only get custody because they have their lives together and the mother is a complete fuck up so of course they get more sympathy. They're still dumbfucks for sticking their dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:14 PM
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Stop with your bullshit, the study found that in prehistoric agrarian cultures 17 times more women than men had their genes passed on than men (so at most 6% of men from prehistory have living descendants). Indeed we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors , about 40% of prehistoric men reproduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:52 PM
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Why do you think certain religions persist for millenia? Memetic evolution is a thing, mutations happen all the time - most cause no substantive changes and ones that do are more often harmful and quickly discarded. Any religion that's survived that long is highly stress-tested and likely to continue to last - ones that are much more recent are significantly less likely to have staying power. Wide-scale irreligiousity is a new phenomenon and it isn't stable in it's current form.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 06:12 PM
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Religiousity, distinct from environmentally confounded heritability of religion also exists and is partly genetic. PDF https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=2&ved=2ahUKEwj-jtbfoY7fAhW9wcQHHeruB4AQFjABegQICBAC&url=http%3A%2F%2Fioa126.medsch.wisc.edu%2Ffindings%2Fpdfs%2F1268.pdf&usg=AOvVaw0NkA5q4s8u5gwYh8cTBPVb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:43 PM
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Well then there is nothing to worry about because the fraction of men taking precautions in the future will be minute, crisis averted!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:11 PM
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Presently the most successful/fertile cultural subgroups are religious ones. Religious belief is heritable, religion isn't going anywhere. Genetics --> Culture --> Genetics --> Culture etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 06:33 PM
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http://persephonemagazine.com/2010/12/listening-while-feminist-in-defense-of-baby-its-cold-outside/ I’ve heard the take on “Baby” as “rapey” a couple of times over the years and the concern about the song usually centers in on one line: “Say, what’s in this drink,” which many contemporary listeners assume is a reference to a date rape drug. But narrowing in on this particular line divorces it from its own internal context, and having only passing familiarity with the song divorces it from its cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:24 AM
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Maybe in 30 years but I suspect it will continue to degrade for the next 15-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:06 AM
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The original meaning still exists, I never claimed otherwise. Now the term is often used to refer to men looking at women in a 'objectifying' way. I'm saying that the term 'male gaze' solely referring to the artistic device is no longer true. https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/05/changing-male-gaze/ If you look at the usage outside of literary criticism it is most commonly paired with the generic idea of male objectification of women. As I said above, terms can have multiple meanings. But all tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:49 AM
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Terms can have more than one meaning, this is the genetic fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 11:38 PM
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Can you think through the consequences of the actions feminists have taken to liberate women at the expense of men? Are feminists capable of seeing more than one step ahead of their current position? The utter surprise I've seen at the backlash to the #metoo movement leads me to believe they can't. There is a reason why 'may you get what you wish for' is considered a curse. In other words - maybe they should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:53 PM
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Except you are ignoring the fact that men messaged at 5 times higher rates overall so average women still got a lot more messages than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:51 PM
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We are moving forward as a society and are becoming less and less religious all the time. This will reverse in time, the non-religious have significantly lower fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:01 AM
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Is there a code of conduct for professional comedians that I'm unaware of? Do you think fucking people in different economic strata is inherently transgressive due to power imbalances?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 07:18 AM
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The Japanese were interned during ww2 but recovered quite quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:54 AM
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I don't think this is a good development, I think it is an inevitable development. As long as feminists refuse to concede that manipulative and malicious women exist and that fear of false accusation isn't unfounded the relations between the sexes will continue to deteriorate, and not just between white men and women. Is that a threat? The your doesn't refer to you specifically it refers to women who prefer Cheney's to Blackstone's formulation when it comes to accusations of rape. The idea that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:57 AM
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That was sarcasm, genius. Eventually these businesses will learn that defenestrating their talent based on neopuritanism isn't good for business but it might take a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:41 AM
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Well, at least you're consistent. Let's bow down to our corporate overlords once and for all, hell let's thank them for their moral uprightness! As everyone knows providing that corporate behavior is legal it couldn't possibly be bad for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:28 AM
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The next escalation will be cameras in every office if it comes to that. These women are still going to need some sort of minimal circumstantial evidence. The men could keep extensive calendars of where they are, check in with people etc. This is just the backlash of powerful entitled men mad they can't sexually manipulate women anymore. Or it's men scared at suddenly finding themselves living in a world where a significant fraction of people take the slogan #believewomen to heart. No doubt some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:23 AM
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Do you feel the same about James Gunn's firing by Disney?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:13 AM
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Giving in to hysterical online activists is stupid. Most normal people didn't really give a shit about his mild deviancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:01 AM
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They have that right, doesn't mean they should have done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 11:40 PM
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Netflix, HBO, FX and comedy clubs all dropped him. https://www.latimes.com/entertainment/la-et-entertainment-news-updates-louis-c-k-dropped-by-fx-and-his-1510351456-htmlstory.html https://www.bostonmagazine.com/news/2018/10/22/louis-ck-saugus/ https://www.indiewire.com/2017/11/louis-ck-hbo-fx-dropped-sexual-misconduct-1201895985/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 11:29 PM
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Some gossip, people laughing at him behind his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:42 PM
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I'm aware that it is possible, it's ambiguous because while it was weird as shit, it was consensual and should not have derailed his career in the way it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:32 PM
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That is what is happening in the linked article, they are effectively ignoring female coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:25 PM
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Do you think he came in like 10 seconds? Women are not children, they can use their words, the fact they didn't means it clearly wasn't particularly traumatic. They were neither employees or coworkers anyway. Again, men are worried about women with an axe to grind 'misinterpreting' innocent comments or straight up making shit up. Part of the problem is that a lot of what happens in industry, not Hollywood or other creative industries, is protected by private arbitration so we have no idea of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:24 PM
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Would you rather be accused of harassment/rape or ignoring your coworker*? Which do you think will have deeper negative consequences in your private and professional life? *As a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:14 PM
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They proceeded to watch him strip naked and masturbate without ever suggesting he stop. It was consensual, women aren't children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:50 PM
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Sure, but being accused of sex discrimination >> being accused of sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:48 PM
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it disempowers lawyers and empowers judges. Who do you think the CBA represents Right, you admit it's an erosion of the rights of the accused, glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:32 PM
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Being accused of sex discrimination >> being accused of sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:12 PM
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It's a clear erosion of the rights of the accused, rights are rarely rolled back all at once. The Criminal Code protects the therapeutic records of sexual assault complainants by limiting access to prior statements in situations where privacy is expected or even vital to the therapeutic relationship, but Bill C-51 would expand those provisions to give ordinary statements the same protection. “The definition of ‘record’ is wide enough to include emails, text messages and the like from the complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:10 PM
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You are wrong, not sure what else there is to be said. The only way this becomes problematic is if you have serious paranoid about the integrity of the judge You're ignoring the presence of a jury that can be swayed by a malicious prosecutor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:39 PM
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The women said yes, I guess 'yes means yes' isn't sufficient for consent anymore. We now have to film said consent. I expect this to become the norm with celebrities soon, if it isn't already. 'Yes means yes except when I feel like it shouldn't' is a bit of a mouthful but c'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:24 PM
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It clearly limits the defenses ability to effectively cross-examine the accusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:19 PM
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You are correct, in the long-term we'll bring back chaperones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:14 PM
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Louis CK Aziz Ansari took a significant reputational hit, but he'll probably recover eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:12 PM
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Kavanaugh suffered immense reputational damage, like Clarence Thomas before him, the hearings were a circus. He was just lucky that the Republicans were able to squeak him in, it was much more precarious than you let on. Trump's anomalous, I'm not sure what to say about him. Many high status men have gone down over the last year and a half though, some for clear impropriety and some for far more ambiguous reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:00 PM
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It's pretty clear here that men do have agency and they are exercising it to avoid situations where they may be falsely accused of impropriety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:49 PM
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This bill was partly a response to the Jian Ghomeshi trials where accusers colluded (through thousands of messages) to ensure their stories matched. This was unearthed by the defense resulting in an acquittal. Had this law been in place the accusers would have been able to lie to counteract this revelation. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/jian-ghomeshi-trial-1.3497208 The Canadian Bar Association opposed these changes as it diminished the rights of the accused. https://www.cba.org/Our-Wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:47 PM
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You can't be certain but you can minimize the risk. So false rape accusation are now imaginary?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:39 PM
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They make a conscious effort to assimilate and not rock the boat and tend to be high achieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:32 PM
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I'm obviously talking about cases where the person pleads not guilty, but you knew that. Normally, only the Crown has to disclose their evidence ahead of time. But the bill sets up an application that requires the defendant to get a judge’s ruling on the admissibility of records they possess that relate to a complainant. (Such a process is already in place for records held by a third party, such as a psychologist.) Justice Minister Jody-Wilson Raybould says it is “simply not true” to say Bill C-…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:28 PM
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https://nationalpost.com/news/politics/sexual-assault-bill-gets-few-changes-from-mps-despite-lawyers-concerns-over-reverse-disclosure-provision The right to a trial by jury of one's peers is one of the foundations of our criminal system. It's a trickle of effects with the outcome being a significant reduction in the rights of the accused and it's being pushed by feminist groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:18 PM
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Paranoid women create paranoid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:12 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/nov/21/scrap-juries-in-rape-trials-labour-mp-ann-coffey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:11 PM
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Nice kafkatrap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:01 PM
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I think hysteria-induced women are more likely to see rape everywhere, in other words #metoo was partly the result of shitty feminist statistics which amplified false rape claims. It's probably a bit of an overreaction but a perfectly predictable and probably inevitable one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:46 PM
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Kind of like the hysteria about 1/5 women being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:40 PM
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Who knew Republicans were old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:03 AM
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Edit: I initially thought you were responding to a different comment. Why are you limiting the discussion to autism? I never disagreed that paternal age factors more into the likelihood of the child being autistic, it absolutely does. After 35 the risk of gestational diabetes, placenta previa, breech positioning of the baby, emergency cesarean delivery, postpartum hemorrhage, preterm birth, low birth weight, and high birth weight. Other research has found that risk of maternal mortality also inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 10:32 PM
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That's partly because the worst effects are typically maternal due to the fact that you guys carry the baby around for nine months. I agree that men need to be made more aware of the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:21 PM
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Can confirm, my dad was like 43, though to be fair I was the 5th. Fortunately I didn't get it too bad, or at least that's what I tell myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:18 PM
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Of course, I can accept some of trp's descriptions of the world and still reject most of their prescriptions. People are people, not demographic trends. Edit: To be clear I have volunteered in soup kitchens and in other limited capacities with the homeless but I'm interested in doing it more regularly. I have a regular job and a part time job so that's why I asked for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:54 PM
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It's usually at least partly drug-induced I suspect though I don't doubt abuse and mental illness plays a role, my comment was callous. What's the saying, 'demons come in threes'? How is working in homeless shelters. I wouldn't mind volunteering, do you accept people that can only offer a couple hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:22 PM
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I find most romantic gestures pretty weird myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:34 PM
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Sometimes the safety net breaks, I blame obesity. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:08 PM
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Particularly if you're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:25 AM
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16% of people meet their spouses at work. In the 90s in peaked at 20%. Meeting a spouse at work isn't weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:53 AM
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For instance, let's say by some miracle young men reenter the corporate world in droves. If the workplaces stay as they are now and continue to be extremely stifling The first part will never happen if the second part doesn't change first so this hypothetical is a non-starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:48 AM
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There are female equivalents to vasectomies (which are only semi-reversible) though, tubal ligations, or IUD's if you want them to be reversible. There is no male equivalent to abortions. Do you see vasectomies as a privilege and a carrot? Irrelevant in this case because there is no gender difference here - except that women have more birth control options. But yes in a sense it is a privilege provided by technology. I can see why you don't see abortion as a carrot, in a sense it is more of a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:47 AM
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You seriously know women who actually enjoy having abortions? It's not the abortion that is the carrot, it is having the option. Being forced to carry a pregnancy to term/raise the child would be the stick. It only doesn't seem like a privilege because you are so accustomed to the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:21 AM
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The option to abort is a privilege afforded solely to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:00 AM
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i'm talking about the incentives placed on men and women by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:53 PM
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16% of people meet their spouse at work and it was as high as 20% in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:24 PM
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I had a friend who picked up a waitress with a poem he wrote on a napkin, but he was good-looking...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:23 PM
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Which is why abortion should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:46 PM
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Ok but why does society only put safety nets under the buildings women jump off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:46 PM
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TL;DR: Women get the carrot, men get the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:43 PM
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He phrased it in a way that conveys the exact opposite of his intended meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:31 PM
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It gives you an excuse to not have to try and potentially fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:43 PM
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https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2017/11/17/over-friendly-or-sexual-harassment-it-depends-partly-on-whom-you-ask The bar for what constitutes sexual harassment is getting lower every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:28 PM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 08:19 PM
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Right, women spending my money doesn't make me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:52 PM
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men are raised to feel entitled projection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:45 PM
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Do everybody a favor and don't take male clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:43 PM
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20% body fat is not particularly fat, in fact it's fitter than the average dude by a fair bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:41 PM
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This is why I'd be an anti-feminist if it didn't put me in the company of Roosh V, MAGA This is really dumb logic: Hitler, vegetarianism etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:02 PM
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People used to drink 'socially' in the 70s at a level that's considered alcoholism now. Yes there are ups and downs - however women have caught up to men in terms of amount of drinking and because women are smaller and have less alcohol dehydrogenase they are more likely to develop liver problems and corresponding cancers. For hundreds, if not thousands of years, beer was healthier than drinking the water. This is a myth, while beer was drink as a source of calories the alcohol concentration was…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:52 AM
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Fair enough, regardless its ineffectual for men. I'm Canadian and are system is a bit different usually you start in therapy due to it being cheaper and then are pushed to a psychiatrist to get medicated. Drug pushing is typical here too though probably not as bad as the US. Obviously this depends somewhat on how good your insurance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:37 AM
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You're correct it isn't necessarily external I'm talking about how its treated. Working out is treating it as internal, taking a drug is treating it as external. I find it really hard to believe your bewilderment at what I'm saying considering the fact that these two things line up perfectly with how feminists describe masculine and feminine gender roles. Men as the active participant and women as the passive recipient. https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/feminism-gender/ You want to moralize thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:40 AM
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When homosexuality wasn't accepted men were free to be more intimate. You will still find this: men would hold hands to be true in Muslim countries where homosexuality is socially unacceptable and/or illegal. In other words straight men want to avoid signalling to women that they might be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:57 AM
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58% of psychiatrists and 82% of therapists are women, and most people go to therapists as psychiatrists are more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:47 AM
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It's a passive solution that places the locus of control on external factors - biochemistry that one can't control. Do you disagree that the feminine gender role is more passive? I already explained. CBT (changing ones own thought process through active cognitive self-awareness) or working out (lifting weights/physical exertion to improve ones mood - I had a good (male) therapist who literally prescribed working out to me) focuses the locus of control internally (on things one can control themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:45 AM
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In this case the feminine solution is being pushed because it is more profitable. The fact that most psychiatrists and psychologists are women creates a blind spot that exacerbates the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:34 AM
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Religious conservatives have more kids - and are often opposed to contraceptives and abortion - whereas all the anti-natalists I've read are on the left. I've never heard a conservative saying that having kids is selfish (the reverse in fact, that not having kids is selfish) but it is not an uncommon refrain on the left. Do you really think encouraging the use/disuse of birth control is completely apolitical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:10 AM
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It's a passive solution that places the locus of control on external factors - biochemistry that one can't control. CBT or working out focuses the locus of control internally and are more masculine. Do you disagree that the feminine gender role is more passive whereas the masculine gender role emphasizes self-reliance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:08 AM
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Because they started having more choices but hadn't started facing the consequences of increased freedom yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:18 PM
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If whiteness isn't inherent to white people I don't see why blackness has to be inherent to black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:31 PM
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It is when all the solutions involve how men/boys need to change. How is that not a critique of boys? It's also going to fail miserably - possibly by design. What actually needs to happen is that the education system needs to change to adapt to the ways boys learn differently than girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:27 PM
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If it's moreso than historically I don't see why it couldn't be. Which makes the fact that it's gotten significantly worse since then a bit terrifying. We might actually see 'suicide equality' in a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:50 PM
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https://www.irs.gov/compliance/whistleblower-informant-award The IRS also has an award program for other whistleblowers - generally those who do not meet the dollar thresholds of $2 million in dispute or cases involving individual taxpayers with gross income of less that $200,000. The awards through this program are less, with a maximum award of 15 percent up to $10 million. In addition, the awards are discretionary and the informant cannot dispute the outcome of the claim in Tax Court. The rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:39 PM
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Sure but tax evasion is a separate crime, it's how they got Al Capone - he didn't pay taxes on his extorted wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:37 PM
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I'm not a tax lawyer so I don't know, but for offenders with a gross annual income under $200,000 you can still be rewarded 15% of the revenue from the taxes. The form doesn't specify how much proof you have to provide based on my cursory reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:10 PM
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IDK, it seems pretty easy, one phone call away. If you believe that someone is violating federal tax laws, the best way to report to the IRS is by filling out a 3949-A form. Fill out and print the form and mail it to the Internal Revenue Service Center, Stop 31313, Fresno, CA 93888. Another way to report IRS fraud is to call the IRS at 1-800-829-1040 for the Criminal Investigation Hotline in your area. Failure to file tax returns is a form of tax evasion. Tax evasion amounts to using illegal mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:38 PM
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The IRS tends to go for volume (many people/small amounts) over impact due to the ease of convincing small fish to pay up. Believe it or not going after 1,000,000 people over a couple thousand in unpaid taxes each is easier than going after a few hundred people avoiding hundreds of thousands or millions in taxes who have expensive tax lawyers. Path of least resistance and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:33 PM
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They aren't gifts though, doesn't matter whether the camgirls think they are. They're is clearly a transaction/quid pro quo going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:28 PM
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It doesn't matter, you have to pay taxes on the fair market value of shit you steal too. IRS doesn't give a fuck as long as they get their cut - that's how they got Al Capone. You just report it under 'other sources of income'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:26 PM
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One is far more likely to have an easily audited electronic paper trail which changes the effort/reward cost benefit analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:24 PM
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Is it petty if they can make money on it? Could just as easily be lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:21 PM
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There is a difference between tax avoidance and tax evasion, only one is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:20 PM
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Where have you seen people claiming these women will have to go to jail? Also I think your estimate of back taxes is off by an order of magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:19 PM
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We may not like it in the moment but we still appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 05:59 PM
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As Skookum said the average is 5'4", you have to add a minimum of 3" for heels in my experience. I agree that 5'7" is a reasonable demarker for shortness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:58 PM
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Tell me, how are you going to let the fatty change who and how you are, in return for all this change you expect of them to please you? This person has expressed a desire to change but has struggled on their own. Tell me, what changes should other people decide to push you towards? How do you feel, for example, when people whose opinions are drastically different to yours decide you just "need a little push"? Let's say for example... people who want you to change your diet for ethical reasons. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:52 PM
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I'm 25 and unmarried at this point, you have to start somewhere. Most people don't get married without having sex first in this day and age. Certainly my ultimate goal is towards promoting a stronger community through marriage - including by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:40 PM
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I've considered different perspectives, I was a hedonist for a while but it didn't bring me contentment much less happiness - just fleeting pleasure - even when I was self-improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:58 PM
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Lift because it raises your testosterone and makes you feel amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:55 PM
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Big changes start with small changes, are there any little changes you try to achieve in your own circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:55 PM
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What about ensuring that the people you know personally are happy? Is that partly your responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:53 PM
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The gap will be bridged one way or the other; I'd rather the religious weren't correct and I'd prefer to beat evolution to the punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:31 PM
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Pray tell what languishing souls are going to put in the effort to execute institutional change? Institutional change comes from within people, it doesn't just magically happen. You can help the people around you, gain their trust, explain your concerns and what you think needs to change - that is how it all starts. Sure, some people are more connected or charismatic or intelligent but everyone can contribute. Hedonism is self-reinforcing but it is possible to break the cycle. The suffragists th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:26 PM
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You're content in your misanthropy? Forgive me for finding that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:34 PM
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Some people have the ability to connect with other people but have life experiences holding them back. Do you think people should make an effort to help those people out if they see them struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:28 PM
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I was raised Catholic but I'm 'lapsed', I'm by no means a good person but I hope to be one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:09 PM
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You have to find contentment first, and if you do I think you'll want to spread that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:08 PM
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I agree, I wasn't suggesting kids was the only way, that's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:05 PM
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I don't think I owe it to anyone to do this though. I guess I just have trouble understanding why someone content with their life wouldn't feel some sense of responsibility for spreading that contentment/happiness. I can understand misery-induced hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 09:35 PM
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Do you car what happens after you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 09:26 PM
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The growing lack of real commitment (marriage and kids) between young men and women that is ultimately a result of the collapse of religion in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 09:19 PM
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Because misery is contagious - as is happiness - and every human life has value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:15 PM
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Do you have a particular ethical/moral system you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:15 PM
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I feel like I owe it to the people that raised me not to squander their gifts and sacrifices they gave me over the years, sure. Not just for feeding me and giving me a place to sleep, but for truly caring for me. Do you think you owe it to them to pass those gifts on? Do you plan on having a family? I completely agree that one should make the most of what they receive but I'm worried that modern society reduces are in-person connectedness in a way that is incredibly dangerous. I consider myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:13 PM
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Do you feel any sense of responsibility to the community that raised you? It was an accident of birth that you didn't choose but I still feel like I owe them something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:30 PM
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Sometimes top-down fixes are needed because the problems came from the top. True but they won't do much without people on the ground to help them along. I teach dance as well, and if people are shy they usually just get over it as the class goes on and it actually helps them with their confidence. tbh, I think shy people should consider dance or volunteering, just something with other people. Completely agree, I love seeing people progressing and gaining confidence - dancing was crucial for my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:18 PM
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I found that it is really only best to help people when they want help Completely agree, you have to go for the low hanging fruit anyway. There is one guy in particular who is overweight and seems like he might be a bit aspie but he is clearly making a huge effort and putting himself out there but he is missing a lot of the foundational stuff. He's mimicing the superficial qualities of the guys he sees having success and gets frustrated when it doesn't work for him. The best thing I have done th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:11 PM
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We discuss the problems of society here and discuss top-down social fixes but ultimately 'society' is just a bunch of individuals doing things. Things could most certainly be worse so things could almost certainly be better. From my perspective if you do well in life you should help those around you. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. -Margaret Mead I think this is true for dating woes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:00 PM
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I can't change your view, except to say that neither are women. The functional difference is it is on average easier to make a man orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 06:40 PM
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Good 'ole trickle down sexonomics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 12:15 AM
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http://slatestarcodex.com/2014/07/30/meditations-on-moloch/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:21 PM
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The culture is bimodal, it is still possible. While the gini coefficient for male sexual inequality has increased more relative to female sexual inequality it has increased for both sexes in the last couple decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:10 PM
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Because feminists push for sameness as a check on male power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:51 PM
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I think men are inherently hedonists, and they know this, which is why they regulate each other - men that don't get other women are losers, men with low-paying jobs are losers, etc. Men have all kinds of metrics by which they judge other men, and ironically women kind of use this scale to judge those whom they deem worthy of sex. Agree 100%, it's part and parcel of maintaining the genetic fitness of one's tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:21 PM
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It exaggerates it in both cases through psychological manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:06 PM
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People don't feel a sense of duty to the future of their community due to atomization brought on by modern technology and irreligiousity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 09:35 PM
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You're worth what you get, also true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:44 PM
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There are two important personality traits in play here which women happen to score higher than men on - agreeableness and neuroticism. Men prefer agreeable women but we're willing to put up with less agreeable hot women. IME men prefer mildly neurotic women - which is most women (or at least was most women I think these days technology has made both men and women more neurotic) - as it allows men to feel masculine 'being her rock' etc. Men generally don't like highly neurotic 'needy' women or v…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:39 PM
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https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002 3.6. Race-Gender Interactions. Columns 11-12 of Table 5 show that the gender gap is substantially larger among black than non-black defendants (74% versus 51%). The race-gender interaction adds to our understanding of racial disparity: racial disparities among men significantly favor whites,29 but among women, the race gap in this sample is insignificant (and reversed in sign). The interaction also offers another theory for the gender g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 12:11 AM
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Shouldn’t be the case at all. It also shouldn’t be the case the blacks get longer sentences than whites and when you remove minority men from the numbers, the disparity between white male and female sentences looks really different. This is the exact opposite of the truth. If you're a criminal defendant, it may help—a lot—to be a woman. At least, that's what Prof. Sonja Starr's research on federal criminal cases suggests. Prof. Starr's recent paper, "Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal Crim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:59 PM
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Do you seriously think parents in the West have children to propulgate their genetic line or raise a child who will someday be successful in the smp? Did you accidentally mix propagate and promulgate? Also of course people don't talk about it publicly, besides autists I suppose, but that doesn't mean it isn't in the back of their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:56 PM
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There is little stopping people from getting sex-selective abortions if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:51 PM
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Just another sign of creeping intersexual dysfunction in western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:48 PM
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Does social stability also sound dumb to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:47 PM
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From the Atlantic article I posted the other day. I mentioned to several of the people I interviewed for this piece that I’d met my husband in an elevator, in 2001. (We worked on different floors of the same institution, and over the months that followed struck up many more conversations—in the elevator, in the break room, on the walk to the subway.) I was fascinated by the extent to which this prompted other women to sigh and say that they’d just love to meet someone that way. And yet quite a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:28 PM
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lysergi.com, have to pay with crypto though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 08:06 PM
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Well you fuck a hooker to nut, not to focus on her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 07:48 PM
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The Haber process was invented in 1909 and scaled up in 1910 per your own link, well before 1927. The real difference since then has been GMOs. GMO's played a massive role in feeding the population/allowing it to grow, Norman Borlaug deserves probably as much credit as Haber.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 06:44 PM
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Yeah, the women who giggle as they rub my pecs are just feigning interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:53 PM
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No they pretend not to notice so their girlfriend doesn't get jealous, I know because I do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:50 PM
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Actuarial skills are transferable to other industries, it is far from a bad career option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:49 PM
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Your original comment: 99% of men are fucking by 30 You said by 30, not in their 30s. Incel is different from virgin, I could see the % incels being around 20%, men who've lost their virginity but are still in a multi-year long drought at 30. To be clear I think 8-10% is the higher end of possible rates of virginity at 30. I sincerely doubt it is less than 6% though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:07 PM
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Where did I say it quadrupled? Your claim of a 1% virginity rate at 30 isn't supported by the data That number drops below 5 percent for both male and female virgins aged 25 to 29 and goes as low as 0.3 percent for virgins aged 40 to 44. This suggests that at age 30 it is somewhere around 4%, simple linear interpolation. So it was about 4% in 2008 and I wouldn't be shocked if it was closer to 8-10% today. I also suspect it will continue to get worse for at least the next 10 years. If Japan is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:02 PM
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Your own source suggests the number is closer to 4% virgins at 30 and again This report presents national estimates of several measures of sexual behavior, sexual attraction, and sexual identity among males and females aged 15–44 years in the United States, based on the 2006–2008 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG). This study is way outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:37 PM
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Actuaries can make very good money, what are you talking about? It is a highly in demand job that most people don't have the skills to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:06 AM
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99% of women love anal, this is also a statistic, albeit a false one I wish you were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:01 AM
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They've also become less attractive due to the obesity epidemic though that goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 03:03 AM
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I admit it was a bit ranty, regardless your analogy only makes sense in instances of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:44 PM
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I didn't say it wasn't predictive just that it wasn't a very good predictor. Something that makes a binary prediction with 53% accuracy is a poor predictor but a predictor nonetheless. In this case since it only explains a small fraction of the variance it is a poor predictor. Because the variability between height and television ownership would be too large. Based on what? You seem to be saying that because it is a poor predictor it isn't a predictor. If it can consistently predict better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:39 PM
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This is fucking stupid. No one kidnapped you and plugged you into the violinist, you accidentally plugged yourself into the violinist while running around carelessly with a needle. You then realize what a stupid mistake you made so you decide to unplug yourself thus killing him. I'm pro-abortion but this is a shit argument, the violinist isn't actually alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:57 PM
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Those are necessary but not sufficient conditions to be wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:53 PM
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But transgender people could actually be used to support TRP theories, because they show that there's a biological difference between male and female brains. Transgender people are unnecessary for this, male and female brains show that there's a biological difference between male and female brains. You are just adding an extra step.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 08:23 PM
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Anal is like diamonds, it's the thought that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:14 AM
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Yes? it would also be indicative of whether they live in a wealthy country or not, it wouldn't be a very good predictor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:31 PM
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Late 20s is a weird time because you see people in that age range along the entire spectrum from "already acting like 50-year-olds" to "still acting like teenagers." Often the same people at different times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 09:20 PM
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I think there is a tendency to assume linearity where it doesn't exist. The comment implies that intelligence and ability are linearly related and the evidence suggests otherwise, my comment was intended to address that. Manmade AI will be more intelligent than humans. It may start at being around ~5x smarter than us, so as much smarter than us than we are smarter than chimps and gorillas. Something that minor, a 5x increase in intelligence will create a sci-fi future. But it won't stop there. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:35 PM
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I don't know what that is about - science journalism is shit, I'd post the study but it is new and unpublished.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:08 PM
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According to an abstract the team submitted to the American Society for Human Genetics, whose annual meeting is under way this week in San Diego, the DNA signals linked to gay sexual experiences also appeared more often in straight men who had a larger number of sex partners. The team also notes that straight men with the gay-linked variants were, on average, judged more “physically attractive” than others (the researchers decline to say who did the judging). This, the scientists conclude, could…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:02 PM
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There’s no cost to “pretending to be rich” How exactly does one show everyone around them how much disposable income they have without spending money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:23 AM
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You are also misrepresenting the study, while men's distribution of messages did skew towards the higher end relative to women the absolute number of messages sent by men was far higher than women so a woman in the 50th percentile was still receiving far more messages than a man in the 50th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:20 AM
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Certainly that is all important and necessary and shit I already do. However I've known people that have been highly competent in other facets of life but haven't seen that success translate into success with women, I'm sure you've seen that yourself. Sometimes you just need to fake it a bit at first; again, I think you're discounting how much your pua years helped you. I wouldn't recommend spending 10 years doing pua though, maybe 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 05:08 PM
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It is nonsensical to say humans are x-times smarter than another species. The meaningful way to speak about differences are in capability, what humans can do with their higher intelligence. You are correct that the gap between chimps and humans will be much smaller than the gap between humans and AI due to differences in computational power. However we have no idea if higher intelligence has diminishing returns on what it can accomplish. There are certain problems it will be very good at solving…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:47 AM
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The idea of a negative income tax has been around for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:40 AM
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That's changing, people are becoming aware of how useless many college degrees are. The idea that everyone should go to college is slowly dying but there is still a lot of money pushing for it so it will be a slow process.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:39 AM
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It isn't just about me though, I'd like to have attractive children and looks are largely inherited. Of course other traits are also largely inherited so you have to look at a person holistically. I agree that marrying only for looks is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 07:42 PM
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It's going to be a fascinating century, I agree that access to genetic engineering will be a huge can of worms to open and speciation is probably inevitable. I also think that the growing understanding that social interventions have a limited ability to change outcomes will lead to lots of illiberal ideas gaining prominence. I predict Nietzsche/master morality makes a comeback. SJ morality will be a flash in the pan, it has no staying power because it's based on false premises. A bioweapon that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 07:27 PM
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It's the economy, stupid!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 06:37 PM
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Cohen's d is a measure of the difference between two populations for a given parameter. It's calculated as the difference in mean of two populations divided by the pooled standard deviation. Basically a normalized, unitless, difference in standard deviations. The normal distribution is fundamental to stats because of the central limit theorem. All human traits are normally distributed and the frequency diminishes very quickly as you move away from the mean. As a result the difference at the tail…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 05:56 AM
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The article said that both the mean and variance in aggression was higher among male toddlers. Androgens aren't the only things that impact aggression. You can just admit you don't understand statistics, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:23 AM
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Around the mean, yes, but the most aggressive men are far more aggressive than the most aggressive women due to the nature of normal distributions (y ~ exp( -x<sup>2</sup> )).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 01:09 AM
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I don't pretend you are a feminist. I do sometimes call you out when I feel you are being particularly pro-woman. I've probably gone overboard a couple times, sorry. It might be because I agree with you on many things so when you say something I disagree with it stands out. I have you +152/-22 on res. They say people react far more to negative stimulus than positive which probably explains it, when I agree with you I rarely comment. Also you can be abrasive and I tend to adopt the demeanor of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:13 PM
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The intellectual dark web, consists of Sam Harris, Jordan Peterson, Bret and Eric Weinstein, Ben Shapiro. On the periphery you have people like Jonathan Haidt, Steven Pinker, Scott Alexander etc. I'm probably forgetting someone, basically a bunch of people that got burned by SJWs (or are otherwise heretics) and decided to fight back. Mostly center-left Jewish intellectuals as it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:03 PM
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I worked in construction when I was younger, it was nice but boring. I'd rather not cede the territory to the social constructionists, we'll all be worse off. Ultimately it is a coordination problem, no one wants to stick their neck out lest they become another Damore (though that depends how much he settles with Google for I suppose - not that we'll know). Hopefully if the 'IDW' continues to gain influence this will start to slowly change, that is what I'm banking on anyway. At the same time I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:58 PM
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Distributions, how do they work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:26 PM
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Sure, anonymously I say whatever the fuck I want. You have lower aversion to ostracism than most people, I live in a liberal city and my main hobby attracts liberal people, including 50% women, that I happen to like. It's probably partly due to the fact that modern men have significantly lower testosterone than our parents, we're soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:25 PM
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Sure bud, keep denying that biology matters until the bitter end. Men and women are fundamentally different, even at birth. If you want to change that it's going to take genetic, not social, engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:13 PM
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It seems you also misunderstood me, I meant that the reason that saying men are more violent is fine (everyone sane believes men are more violent) but saying women are more manipulative isn't PC is because of the fact that media leans left and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:04 PM
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Large-scale longitudinal studies show higher levels of physical aggression for boys at 17 months and at 2 years, based on mothers’ reports.8,9,13,14 These early sex differences occur before the children have been subject to the socialization agents that are, in some accounts, held to cause the differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:53 PM
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In the US, seriously? Left in this sense means neoliberal and socially liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:51 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:44 PM
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Those women are certainly not bullied for those views because everyone but 17 effeminate MRA's also believe this You argued that the difference in response was due to everyone knowing that men are more violent, but despite the fact that everyone knows women are better manipulators it is taboo to say it. Partly because the media leans left and pro-woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:42 PM
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Testosterone is a hell of a drug, it is absolutely partly (I suspect mostly) innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:39 PM
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I was into PUA for 10 years dude. I know why you think how you think. And I can also tell you that the sooner you stop trying to play a game and just roll with the punches, the sooner you’ll notice that the quality of women you sleep with will go up. I’m not single anymore, but I met my current gf while I was ona date with a different girl. The girl was drinking more than I liked, and I made the decision that I didn’t want to see party girls anymore, so I chatted up my current gf who was sitting…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:22 PM
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A better way of looking at it is that if you are going to err one way or the other it is far better to err on the side of aloof if you want casual sex. Develop a truly non-needy mindset, but also don’t be afraid of connection. If you want somebody to fall in love with you and stay in love with you, you need connection, but also need to be non-needy. Easier said than done, most men need a degree of success with women to be able to do this, that is where being aloof comes in handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:04 PM
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And everyone except feminists are aware that women are on average better socialized than men and better at manipulating men that vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:00 PM
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Broader society does not endorse it when men psychologically abuse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:57 PM
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chill out dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:37 AM
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Men are living at home at higher rates. US UK Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:23 PM
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Your experience doesn't reflect reality. UK Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:12 PM
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Taking melatonin and working out a normal amount rather than allowing yourself to burnout is an actual viable strategy. This kind of reminds me of the incels who ask out one thousand women, get rejected by all of them and declare it proof of the black pill and go back to their normal routine. If she's overexerting herself she will burnout but she'll be able to say she tried and go back to her old routine guilt-free, it's transparent and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:19 PM
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They would just shit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:34 PM
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TRPers are just failed incels in denial. So you admit that you enjoy the victim mentality that being an incel affords you and that's why you don't try to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 11:33 PM
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I actually remember a study with 720 couples in which only 1 had the woman taller than the men even though based on height distributions if there was random coupling you'd expect to see 14.4 such pairings (98%). Found it It has been suggested that an important factor influencing human mate selection is a social norm that the male should be taller than the female. With the aim of providing empirical evidence concerning the possibility of such a male-taller norm, height data were collected from ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 09:02 PM
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Sociology has been late to the replication party, there are more metastudies being done now, but that's the best we have at the moment. If you compare the p-values reported by sociology studies and compare them to psychology and economics it shouldn't really be a surprise that they are less likely to replicate. Fortunately this should be mitigated in the future with pre-registration of studies to crackdown on publication bias and p-hacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:09 PM
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http://faculty.haas.berkeley.edu/mhsu/blog/files/replication_comparison.html https://osf.io/8cd4r/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 07:12 PM
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The majority of social science findings don't replicate, 36% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 05:46 PM
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https://cdn.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/10392043/Screen_Shot_2018_03_09_at_11.29.46_AM.png
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 10:37 PM
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The weird thing is that the center left is far more gung-ho about social justice and often has far more authoritarian/illiberal views than genuine leftists. Case in point the far left supports free speech more than the center left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 07:41 AM
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Pretty much, the people that join more radical movements tend to be the people who aren't succeeding in the current paradigm so ugly people will be necessarily over-represented among MRAs, feminists, commies, fascists etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:29 PM
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Ban toxic, problematic, ugh, gross, yass, kween, and slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:25 PM
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At this point it's clear you are just a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:01 PM
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antifragile
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 10:56 PM
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Personally I support covering birth control due to the decrease in unwanted pregnancies which can burden the welfare system, it pays for itself. That said I think pointing to these sorts of regulations that are often the result of bureaucratic inefficiencies as indicative of Patriarchy is pretty silly. The fact is that in all Western countries there are double standards that sometimes benefit men and sometimes benefit women. I'm not convinced that atm feminism is bridging this gap, I think if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 07:25 PM
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In an effort to prove you wrong I looked up if the female version of viagra was covered and found this article. It does appear that there are more hoops for women to jump through. As for birth control, are condoms covered?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 07:03 PM
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Palliative care, it will be a while before robots can do that effectively. You said it will be mostly women. Now you changed that up? I think you misunderstood me. The people building the robots to have good social skills will be mostly men because they are more likely to have the requisite technical skills but the people doing that job (e.g. palliative care) in the mean time will mostly be women. You just said that women are somehow more intelligent than men, and that their social skills would …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:43 PM
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Most people can't do high level cognitive tasks, their best chance of contributing is through their social skills which aren't easily automated. You teach robots that through hardware and software processes. Since most engineers and people working in IT are men, how did you come to the conclusion that women will be responsible for it? Sure there will be a small number of mostly men working on that but it is a hard problem and unlikely to be solved at a good enough level to displace humans in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 10:23 PM
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They'll definitely have more uses than most women. If we are talking the next 50 years the more important skills (that most people have) will be social skills which women tend to be better at than men on average. This is because teaching a robot the complexity of social interactions is a hell of a lot harder than automating industrial processes. As the population ages care-workers who are mostly women will be more valuable than men who can't do high level cognitive tasks. The trades will still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:25 PM
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But most men won't just become useless in the next 50 years. Effectively useless, what are they going to do? why would they keep hundreds of women each? They wouldn't, artificial insemination for many women - at least relative to today - but certainly many will go childless. There's a breaking point where you'll have too many women to take care of and not enough resources. This will partly resolve itself with childlessness. My point isn't that this will necessarily be apocalyptic but there will …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:56 PM
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Useful relative to men for at least the next 50 years. Obviously in the long term other problems will dominate, I'm thinking more midterm. Also we aren't going to lose our hardwired preference for women/gynocentrism anytime soon as that goes back way to far in evolutionary history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:40 PM
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By pushed out I mean pushed out of opportunities to contribute to the economy and start a family, not physically pushed out of society. Basically NEETs on a much larger scale. So automation won't greatly increase jobs in mechanical industries and engineering departments, most of which will go to men? No industrial job opportunities are being outsourced or automated, plus most people simply won't be able to do engineering jobs. What's more likely to happen, most men in society being kicked out by…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:20 PM
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But your proposal is that betas completely give up and we revert back to our natural state. My point is betas aren't going to voluntarily leave, many will be pushed out at the rate things are going. when it comes to society, you cannot maintain it with prettyboys or purely dominant males. You also can't maintain it if a large percentage of men simply stop participating in it since they have no real motivation to do so. It isn't that men will want to stop participating it's that they won't having…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:01 PM
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I'd argue something else; a lot of people in the future who'd be considered betas today may be incapable of attracting a mate as income inequality increases. The effect of income inequality is especially going to be felt by men due to greater male variability. The point is that it won't be betas giving up but being unable to match the productive output of their ancestors due to the changing economy. Add in women out-earning men and it is a recipe for lots of hardship and a shift to a more r-sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 07:20 PM
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That works at an individual level but at a society wide level enough people will care and any change in stigmatization/de-stigmatization of behaviors will shift the equilibrium and change how people behave in aggregate but especially at the margins. Most things exist on a spectrum, including how susceptible one is to social programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:56 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/12/18/the-unbelievable-rise-of-single-motherhood-in-america-over-the-last-50-years/?utm_term=.2ce852a45629 Single motherhood clearly does need to be more stigmatized imo. When people talk about socially enforced monogamy of course they aren't talking about making sex with multiple partners illegal hence the 'socially'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:27 PM
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Stigmatizing single motherhood disincentivizes getting pregnant out of wedlock thus incentivizing marriage/monogamy. This is one example of how society 'enforces' monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:11 PM
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So you don't think there is any stigma against, for instance, single mothers? Stigmatizing certain behaviors is a form of social enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:40 PM
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except for the fact that women have no interest in it If they could be guaranteed all the protections afforded by marriage there absolutely would be many women who'd agree to that set-up even if they don't consider it ideal. The fact that bigamy is illegal, which I think is good to be clear, is a clear restriction on harems even if it isn't an outright ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:38 PM
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Because of obesity, the solution is fixing the root problem not fucking lowering the age of consent. Is there solid evidence that earlier puberty speeds up the rate of brain development? I doubt it, so lowering the age of consent is a non-sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:22 PM
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It is interesting that the Democratic Party has almost always hated the Republican party more than the reverse, gives some credence to the idea that liberals think conservatives are evil while conservatives think liberals are naive. Of course the fact that Republicans have been in power for most of that time is a confounder though the Obama years still saw more hate directed towards the Republicans, interestingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:36 PM
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Looks is a form of power for tautological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:24 PM
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I don't know how much of a choice it is for men, I think a lot of it is innate. To be fair, I think part of women's preference to have a man pay is also somewhat innate, wanting someone who shows a willingness to provide, though it is moderated by social expectations. Overall I agree that feminism has some blinders and men need to call them on it. While there are areas where women still face certain disadvantages I think if you look at the big picture the current trajectory favors women (automat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 07:32 PM
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And that soft power is something that feminism often pretends doesn't exist when they look at power structures in society which is why a lot of men disdain feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:36 PM
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Obviously it isn't phrased in that manner, but when the bill comes... Perhaps they think they're doing me a favor because some men apparently genuinely enjoy paying, or at least pretend to. I just say let's split it. It's pretty funny as a holdover from the days when women didn't have their own income. Women are still the gatekeepers of sex though so even when women under 30 out earn their male counterparts men are still expected to pony up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:09 PM
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The funny thing is that many of the blue women in here who defend single motherhood wouldn't on their lives voluntarily become a single mother yet seem to have no problem with its normalization. I get that you don't want to shit on single mothers but at least consider how much misery it causes. It's becoming more common and that is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:04 PM
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Little bit of A, little bit of B
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:12 PM
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Even when they've initiated women have generally expected me to pay the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:12 PM
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I'm not like other women so I spend all my time hanging out with guys is absolutely a dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:45 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:04 PM
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The perception exists because it is partly true. Good looking men can get away with doing more morally questionable things, power corrupts etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:58 PM
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Right so the causality is: sexual dimorphism --> women are perceived as weaker and sexual dimorphism --> gender roles not gender roles --> women are perceived as weaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:56 PM
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I thought you studied philosophy? If you can't see how I used inductive reasoning to go from: If you support a racist President with racist policies, you're a racist, too. to If you support a X President with X policies, you're a X, too. then perhaps you should go back to school. You didn't have to state it, it was implied. Unless of course there is something about racism that separates it from all other -isms, personality traits and policies that makes your specific claim but not the general cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:31 PM
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So supporting someone means you have to support everything about them. ok Personally I'm of the mind that everyone is a little racist so you are trivially correct in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:10 PM
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OK, but you think everyone who voted for Trump is a racist misogynist based on this comment: If you support a racist President with racist policies, you're a racist, too. Correct? Or are you willing to backtrack on that claim given that the reason people vote for or against candidates is complicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:04 PM
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They aren't, but Hillary wanting no fly zones to escalate the conflict in Syria was a war hawk position. I find it hard to believe that you think there were zero non-racist reasons to vote for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:00 PM
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It definitely depends on the environment, if it happens in a bar and deosn't look too egregious no one will do anything about it but when it starts to look more serious I suspect more people will rush to a woman's defense than a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:49 PM
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Misery loves company
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:44 PM
1

People around me who saw it happen and weren't phased in the slightest many of whom just laughed it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:42 PM
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If you support a X President with X policies, you're a X, too. Care to actually address the question or are you just going to dodge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:41 PM
1

It's happened to me at least a dozen times with varying degrees of severity, the response from other people never changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:32 PM
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Except there are way fewer women who I'm attracted to because most of them are fucking fatties too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:22 PM
1

haha no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:17 PM
1

Sarah Jeong is enough evidence for me that they are tribalistic hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:51 PM
1

So if you support Hillary you are a neoliberal war hawk?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:49 PM
1

Hillary Clinton stated that ~25% of Americans were irredeemable and then proceeded to lose an election. Direct review and causation Lol, fuck off. I suspect you would agree it didn't help her chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:08 AM
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I've seen a t least a couple echo the sentiment and a lot of others that mentioned feeling extreme guilt about being male, you're right few are actually that far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:04 AM
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But calling non-racists, racist gets you lost elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:59 PM
1

Tone analysis by WaPo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:17 PM
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The one Chad I know, while not an incel, is pretty close to the antithesis of Chad. I felt the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:11 PM
1

No different from what Joe Biden did in '92.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:33 PM
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This is defiantly a good point but I suspect it will fly by these loosers heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:12 PM
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On the other hand when feminists actually demonstrate how they think 'enthusiastic consent' should look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 08:40 PM
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Are we sure she isn't Ann Coulter's Jewish alter-ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 08:17 PM
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For sure, doesn't make it any less sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 07:53 PM
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Almost like femininity is mostly down to nature, who'd have thought. Social expectations don't arise in a vacuum, even if femininity is a social construct it still has underlying roots in biology, especially hypergamy, social expectations simply amplify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:53 PM
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People's views shift along a red-blue spectrum all the time, you are correct that 'flips' are uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:34 PM
1

What is low orderliness, low disgust? Libertarians?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:32 PM
1

Feminist + Nazi = Feminazi Feminist + Stalinist = Feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:30 PM
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I suspect that sologamy (lol) will be far more popular among women and sex bots far more popular among men. I haven't heard any cases of men 'marrying' themselves but I have heard stories of them 'marrying' sexbots, however I can't conceive of women doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:25 PM
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This is the female analogue to sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:17 PM
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60% of econ studies pass replication 50% of pysch studies and... 36% of sociology studies Bonus because I enjoy shitting on sociology, several fake socio. papers were recently accepted by major journals including one that is a rewrite of Mein Kampf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:28 PM
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They can be singular dumb dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:08 AM
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The number of men in menslib who feel crippling shame about their maleness is still too fucking high even if it's a small minority who'd go as far as considering castration. The sub clearly heightens anxiety in men just like any other feminist project.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:09 AM
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Wow, wtf /u/WestsideMoonWalker why the hell would you rape toronto87? I mean sure you might not have done anything illegal but by your own admission where there is smoke there is fire so you definitely deserve to have everyone know about your male feminist ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:55 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:23 PM
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I agree that you seem semi-sane. Disagree with your stance that men should sit down and shut up about being victimized because metoo is about women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:21 PM
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Did you read the comments with people agreeing with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:19 PM
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No shit, sane people don't constantly self-flagellate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:12 PM
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They literally want to chemically castrate themselves out of guilt for being male
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:12 PM
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https://snew.github.io/r/MensLib/comments/7j6wt6/extreme_male_guilt/?st=jb3r7mrg&sh=cc413ab9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:11 PM
1

How close, vinegar strokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:32 PM
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maybe being Muslim will be cool. insh'allah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:29 PM
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You were assaulted by men so of course it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:26 PM
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slave morality has infected western culture, I blame Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:20 PM
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No doubt, but referencing a psychology study that has failed replication is bad form imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:19 PM
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Has never replicated as far as I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:15 PM
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'Jet fuel can weaken steel beams' just doesn't have the same ring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:13 PM
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It seems to be 80% rent-seeking at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:10 PM
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Shrodinger's rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:58 PM
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Pun intended?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:11 AM
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Doesn't really matter anyway since personality is mostly genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:13 PM
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Selection effect, the good looking ones are more likely to be willing to show their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:42 PM
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Have another kid and treat them better to get back at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:30 PM
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Sure, just be fucking consistent about it, let me feel proud and guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:38 PM
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You sound like you're having problem with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:15 PM
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Depends on how it is done, there is a net transfer of wealth from white to black people every day through taxes, I'm not a libertarian 'taxation is theft' type. Where I am concerned with redistribution is when it is of the Zimbabwe type that leaves everyone worse off. Edit: There is an important trade-off between positional goods related to status and absolute goods linked to other aspects of well-being. People are rightly concerned with both and the fact is that right now capitalism is great at…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:08 PM
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No I'm fine with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:02 PM
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You are talking about something else entirely. For example white American's are supposed to feel guilty (you can claim all you want that it isn't about feeling guilty but I grew up Catholic and know it when I see it) about the fact that their European ancestors killed a bunch of natives. The same people who talk about how awful that was become incensed at the idea that white people (descendants of English settlers to be more precise) wrote the US constitution and founded the US and any pride wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:02 PM
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They should be unhappy when borderline guys who could self improve check out because it skews the dating pool to benefit the remaining men at the expense of the women. Case in point campuses with more men tend to see more relationships while campuses with more women see more casual sex. If women can't see this and adjust for it then they are fucking themselves over. I can understand why they wouldn't on an instinctual level but humans are supposed to have more advanced cognition and men self-act…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:52 PM
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A man women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:27 PM
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It's purge week, we have to be dicks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:03 PM
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Fucking thank you. The same arguments about national pride being a terrible thing but we should all feel guilty for the historical sins of our country is just as ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:57 PM
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No shit which is why your previous comment is bad and you should feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:54 PM
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And if any one of those women are on PPD I welcome them to share their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:50 PM
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QuestionForWomen: How much historical oppression have you suffered from? State your age and all the instances of The Patriarchy preventing you from accessing education, voting and choosing how to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:46 PM
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PredictIt has it at a 70% chance of confirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:35 PM
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https://www.insidehighered.com/quicktakes/2018/08/06/sociologist-facing-harassment-rumors-defers-award Haven't heard about the UN thing. He deferred an award from the American Sociological Association for six months. I suspect it will be swept under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 07:07 PM
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If you compare menslib with mgtow, trp or mra, the difference is outstanding. True, I haven't seen men on mgtow, trp or mra who hate themselves so much for being male that they want to castrate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:00 PM
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Art in no way reflects real life? Are you a STEMlord or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 06:44 PM
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Women are less happy now, saying feminism makes women happy requires a citation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 10:45 PM
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If youre not a shitbag youll never get accused. Tell that to Emmett Till. This is pure toxoplasma, you should be ashamed of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:05 PM
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I'm becoming more and more onboard with gender segregated schooling by the day. At least until high school if not post-secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:50 PM
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semi-assault? wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:49 PM
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Porn has really screwed with peoples' perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:40 PM
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You've never learned something from someone else's experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 06:14 PM
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When only talking about the U.S., then the average man, aged 20 years or older, weighs 195.7 pounds. He also stands around 5 feet 9 inches tall and has a waist circumference of 40 inches. This is according to data collected by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) between 2011 and 2014.Feb 14, 2018 The average man has a bmi of 29, seven pounds away from being obese. I suspect the average American will be obese by 2035 at the latest. Women aren't doing any better to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 06:12 PM
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I never denied they exist, just that they were the entire user base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:53 PM
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Straight women out number gay men by about 15:1 overall, meanwhile women are about 35% of porn watchers IIRC. There are still plenty of women in those subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:49 PM
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I thought it was arsenic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:32 PM
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jehovah's witness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:28 PM
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Just because women are less visual than men doesn't mean they can't still be turned on by images of men naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:50 PM
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Ever heard of proxy violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 05:04 PM
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It's a weak man, not much better - perhaps worse - than a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 04:40 PM
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No but they can drop them off at a safe haven or give them up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:48 PM
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Career WomenTM are like Nice GuysTM confusion arises when one person is talking about the archetype while the other person is taking the description at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:19 PM
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I assume it is a reference to this except in that case the money is under a big 'W'. Not sure what he meant by it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:15 PM
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True and that is perfectly reasonable for them to do. Everyone in here should already be familiar with the stable marriage problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:05 PM
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Matriarchy in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:49 PM
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combined with shaming of sexuality outside of marriage (sexual socialism, implemented by the alphas to keep the betas productive) You have this backwards, it is implemented by 'high betas' to keep the alphas in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:43 PM
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This isn't true. https://www.forbes.com/sites/emilywillingham/2016/09/16/no-research-has-not-established-that-you-inherited-your-intelligence-from-your-mother/#2f215f76502d IQ is roughly equally heritable along paternal and maternal lines at between 60 and 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:35 PM
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Yup the standard should be beyond a reasonable doubt for those accused of rape and those accused of falsely (lying) reporting a rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:12 PM
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Disinherited != disowned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:59 PM
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I found it pretty refreshing hooking up with older women. Some of them are great at making up for reduced attractiveness with better personalities. Certainly this isn't true for all older women but they definitely seem more easygoing/ less neurotic than early 20's women though my sample size is pretty small - three older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:10 AM
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Are you suggesting that living up to the prince charming trope is the correct way for a man to treat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 06:38 PM
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There is lots of time between 25 and 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 06:32 PM
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Also normal today would be considered low a few decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:13 AM
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ob·tuse əbˈt(y)o͞os,äbˈt(y)o͞os/ adjective adjective: obtuse 1. annoyingly insensitive or slow to understand. slow to understand It's pretty easy to understand what he meant unless you are being deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:20 PM
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Do you never tire of being deliberately obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 12:23 AM
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We are hired wired to be physically attracted to youth because youth equals health and healthy babies. Which was fine when we all died by 40. This was never true. That is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 09:17 PM
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That also played a role. My point is that the 40 figure includes child mortality. When it is removed the average was in the high sixties/low seventies. due to people dying early of diseases and conditions that are now treatable with modern medicine this is why it increased from late sixties to early eighties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 09:13 PM
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Which was fine when we all died by 40. This meme needs to die. The low life expectancy in the past was due to a high child mortality rate. If you made it to adulthood you generally lived into at least your 60's with plenty of people living into their 70's and 80's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:50 PM
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/r/GenderCritical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:56 PM
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And much more likely to leave an unemployed husband than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:53 PM
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Why evangelize then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:31 PM
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He omitted rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:28 PM
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Or they shift their attractiveness distribution so that the mean is 7 for some stupid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:21 PM
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Unemployment is the lowest it's been since 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:43 PM
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Across the board, men in monogamous relationships like marriage or long-term cohabitation are happier, healthier, wealthier, and live longer. That is not the case for women. You're reversing cause and effect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 09:37 PM
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I find it hard to believe you are all this naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 09:18 PM
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That or wearing a condom gives a you a negative likelihood of a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:57 PM
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Can you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:29 PM
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Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:48 PM
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The first doesn't sound so good once you learn what honorable means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:01 PM
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It might even embolden people with malicious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:56 PM
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No he wants her to live up to her biological imperative just like he lives up to his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:45 PM
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When they stop imprisoning men for minor crimes I'll agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:42 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:40 PM
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Then why do gay men report the lowest levels of domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:10 PM
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If you're a man. Usually celebrated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 06:46 PM
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Easy, just don't vaccinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 05:05 PM
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I was speaking generally. With respect to cheating men probably get a longer leash assuming it is purely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 11:53 PM
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No but they get a much longer leash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:54 PM
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There are women in the west who are oppressed is not the same thing as women in the west are oppressed. That could be said about any demographic. There are straight cis-white men who are oppressed in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:40 PM
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TrollXChromosones is fairly inoffensive memes If you think, haha all women are shit is inoffensive, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:31 PM
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Not in the general discourse or mainstream the way men's rights is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:20 PM
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It is a statement that questions the moral quality of someone. If you claim what they are doing is trashy you are suggesting that they are debasing or devaluing themselves (for money no less) which implies moral inferiority. At very least this is true if we restrict ourselves to the Judeo-Christian moral framework which is very difficult to escape if you live in a first-world christian majority country. I suppose it is possible to have a moral framework where you are able to debase yourself with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 08:35 PM
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aka I'm wrong and refuse to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:56 PM
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This isn't true, I'm assuming you refer to Ada lovelace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 06:25 AM
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You won't get any cause it isn't true. Male mortality, before age 30, has always been higher and life expectancy has consistently been 3-4 years less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:17 PM
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For some reason this is really funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:21 PM
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You asked for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:53 AM
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no, you forget to buy a lottery ticket
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:46 AM
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ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:24 AM
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He wont
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:20 AM
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In my experience women who I rejected usually tried to limit contact me after I suggested we be friends even if we are in the same social circle. I tend to do the same if I'm rejected, it's less messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:36 PM
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Especially single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:01 AM
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His natural T is so high taking any more would kill him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 10:58 PM
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Your pastor thinks the dead soldiers are in heaven but unfortunately heaven doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 10:08 PM
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Hence omnicide. The biggest victims of war are without a doubt the people whose lives are cut 60 years short, not the ones who have the opportunity to eventually move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:55 PM
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Sounds like they should kill themselves to put them out of their misery. In fact it sounds like omnicide is the only truly compassionate approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:35 PM
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More like 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:45 AM
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You realize that the sentencing gap between black women and white men is roughly five times larger than the gap between white men and black men in favor of black women, right? In order of how well they have it in the court system it goes: White women > black women >> white men > black men. So the waw is weaker for black women but still very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 09:21 PM
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In certain instances, sure. In general, hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:55 PM
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Of course not. It is almost certainly far less than he claimed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:22 PM
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Wilt Chamberlain begs to differ. He claimed, at age 55, that he'd slept with 20,000 women which would have been 1.4 women every day from age 15 to 55. Over ten times more frequently than once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:20 PM
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NYC has a skewed gender ratio, 113 women for every 100 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:56 PM
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Money does depreciate, it's calledbinflation.Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:56 PM
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Not really surprising how feminism only really became so influential in majority white countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:22 AM
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They're often the same person, e.g. my cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:44 PM
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Divorcees with kids should marry other divorcees with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:43 PM
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I have been married four times Reason #1 why not to listen to your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 10:38 PM
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Gross Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 10:22 PM
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True neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 10:00 PM
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He is, if you've been paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 05:35 AM
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Shit, even Henry Cavill worries about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:48 PM
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https://www.topmastersinhealthcare.com/20-most-influential-medical-researchers-alive-today/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:03 PM
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Just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:28 PM
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Same with the married men are healthy stat, women just marry healthier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:07 AM
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You've chilled out a lot, get a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:31 PM
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That's just the counterpart to the Women are Wonderful effect, the Men are Competent effect, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:23 PM
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Evolutionarily? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:17 PM
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Lying with statistics is a pastime as old as statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:15 PM
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Probably a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:12 PM
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Any notion of inherent equality is silly. The idea of equality began as a prescription for how society should be structured i.e. legal equality of the sexes/races, not descriptive - that everyone has an equal ability to succeed if society is just structured right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:03 PM
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Not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 09:56 PM
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He said he didnt use porn, not that he didn't masturbate. Some people have imaginations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 05:28 AM
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Not entirely true, I read a study showing that men receiving test and not working out increased their muscle mass. Not as much as those receiving test and working out but it's still something and it wasn't a negligible increase. I'd link it but I'm on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 05:22 AM
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How can you say he is projecting if you don't know his exact thought process? If the male and female thought processes are so different how do you know his upbringing doesn't provide him with a radically different thought process than you? You are just projecting your own projection onto him. It's projection all the way down. That's why this idea of 'lived experience', aka anecdotes, as being as good or better than empiricism is so pernicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:58 PM
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Wasn't claiming you were, I was referring to the report.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 06:08 AM
1

The social engineers of the left tend not to consider the second order social effects of their policies, i.e. incentivizing behavior they don't actually want. Tweaking laws to push the pendulum a little one way or the other is generally less risky, but I'm not a policy maker and I don't envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 12:21 AM
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Peak white feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 12:15 AM
1

Presumably we don't want to wait several generations for evolution to fix everything because a lot of people will get fucked over in the meanwhile and that's a substandard solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:51 PM
1

I don't see why there needs to be a "we" that solves this problem. It demonstrably lowers the quality of society, it is in societies best interests to try and ameliorate the situation. Yes you can say to any individual man do X, Y, and Z to self-actualize and you'll no longer be a manchild but this doesn't work at a societal level without policy to back it up and incentivize men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:48 PM
5

I think he's selling Wolf Cola to Boca Raton.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:41 PM
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TIL that 1992-1994 was in the 60's. Your study is 12 years after mine, less than half a generation, there wasn't a significant cultural change in that time. You have a study which supports your worldview and I have one for mine, time for a meta-study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 10:03 PM
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I don't know how much of the increase in sexlessness it can account for but I think it is certainly a part of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:11 PM
3

Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:02 PM
4

Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:01 PM
1

BECAUSE THE RELIGIOUS FUCK AFTER THEY MARRY, IF THEY AREN'T RELIGIOUS AND THUS DON'T MARRY THEY DON'T FUCK. Complicated, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 08:56 PM
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Religion is one of the reasons people used to get married at 21, some still do today, it can absolutely help explain higher rates of virginity today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 08:20 PM
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They get a whole lotta sympathy and 15 minutes of fame, evidently that is enough for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 07:15 PM
1

That isn't true, it can be singular too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:34 PM
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From a clinical perspective every single one of you is the stunted growth that is caused by growing up in male privilege and being conditioned to believe it's a right. This is how I know yall aren't a clinician, or if yall are yall are a very bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:14 PM
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Not drinking is not a prevention from rape. People do stupid shit when they are drunk and put themselves in compromising positions. Binge drinking definitely increases the likelihood that someone will be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:53 PM
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Yes college athletes, especially if they are likely to be drafted to a major league, there are incidents every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:33 AM
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Women have a stronger in-group bias than men, this is well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 01:00 AM
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Athletes, especially black athletes, are a prime target for women with nefarious intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 12:41 AM
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I'm not a social engineer The social engineers don't seem to know what they are doing so that's probably a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 12:37 AM
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There is no theft equivalent to "we were making out and then we started having sex even though I didn't verbally consent". I've never heard "I was happy when he took my cash and credit card but I didn't consent to him taking my passport!". You all need to abandon this idea that women aren’t doing enough to prevent rape Considering binge drinking is becoming more and more common among young women I'm not sure that this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 12:28 AM
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It doesn't have to be conscious, it's still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 12:16 AM
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Agreeing with that article in particular does, it's a litmus test for unbridled ideological loyalty. If you believe that out of 193 countries the US is the 10th most dangerous for women in the world than you'd think there would be fewer women fleeing sexual abuse in South America for the US. India Afghanistan Syria Somalia Saudi Arabia Pakistan Democratic Republic of Congo Yemen Nigeria United States Zero of the top 10 are in South America. The flow should be in the other direction apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 11:45 PM
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Well it's a common problem in Western countries and not everyone lives in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:59 AM
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They have in the past and continue to block dv shelters for men. I was talking about homeless shelters in a different context. Erin Pizzey started the first dv shelter for men in the world. It was established in Britain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:14 AM
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If you are referring to Erin Pizzey you'll find the feminist community very quickly turned their back on her for going against the men as abusers and women as victims narrative. This is something men's rights activists have fought for. A man in Alberta tried for a year to get funding for a shelter he started. He was opposed by feminist groups because he might take 0.1% of the pie away from them. Ended up killing himself because he couldn't fund it entirely out of his own pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:59 AM
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My existence refutes this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:43 AM
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I've been putting it off, thanks for reminding me why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:49 AM
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First of all most of the things you mentioned also help women and children. Second, pretty much everyone in society agrees that helping homeless people get back on their is a noble pursuit. It is when there may be some conflict with women's interests that a topic loses support among men at a broad scale. E.g. increasing providing literally any support for men's shelters. That is where the 'getting laid' factors in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:24 AM
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From the link: Today, fathers who live with their children are taking a more active role in caring for them and helping out around the house. Your link doesn't address my claim. As far as I can tell it only looks at two parent households, which makes sense, fewer variables to account for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:05 AM
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Willingness to stay at home. And here I though they were forced to by evil oppressive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:45 AM
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Art imitates life and life imitates art.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:40 AM
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dads are more engaged with their kids than ever No, single motherhood is more common than ever and men are less likely than ever to have meaningful contact with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 11:03 PM
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Evolution in action
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 10:08 PM
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They just claim it is down to a loss of privilege/entitlement while also at the same time saying it hurts minorities (with presumably the least privilege) most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 10:02 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:22 AM
1

I suggest you post a thread on /r/AskWomen or twoX or whatever asking for advice because your boyfriend broke up with you after finding out you were a slut in college. Sex positivity is going out of vogue right now with #MeToo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:01 AM
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Arguably a lot of what he did was dysgenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:47 PM
0

Just evolution doing its job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:32 PM
1

genetic engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:31 PM
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It is a conservative view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:09 AM
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Considering how much of hookup culture is tied in with alcohol, and clubbing and Tinder I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:11 AM
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It is a conservative view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:09 AM
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Maybe, what % are gold star lesbians though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:43 PM
2

New York Diesel from Pennybags Extracts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:05 AM
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Society doesn't determine what makes a woman physically attractive. Tarzan doesn't need society to tell him he wants to bang Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:59 AM
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I take it you aren't familiar with twin studies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:57 AM
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Lol, I want some of what you are smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:55 AM
1

By that logic a vote for Donald Trump is actually two votes for Donald Trump and voting for Hillary is abstaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:44 AM
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Radfems too, just to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:22 AM
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I'm not sure what exactly he means by harder but men work significantly longer hours on average and are more willing to put up with inflexible working conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:29 PM
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If you smell shit everywhere you go...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:18 PM
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True he's usually put in prison before that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:07 PM
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I don't blame a man for resenting paying child support to a woman who won't let him see his own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:52 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:40 AM
2

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jul/20/catcall-culture-feminism-jessica-valenti
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:58 AM
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Which one(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:06 PM
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Apparently you are the one who doesn't know what a false equivalence is. THEY AREN'T EQUIVALENT. I'm not saying there is no difference between them. I'm comparing one aspect of the two statements to each other, namely the part where they intend to strike fear in the audience. Perhaps you should read up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:05 PM
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They aren't equivalent but they can still be compared. Men are stronger than women and women have more social power/ are more likely to be protected/believed than men. The male equivalent to women threatening to use their social power against men is men threatening to use their physical advantage against women. I'm comparing the threat of a women accusing a man of rape to the threat of a man raping a woman. I'm not claiming any sort of moral equivalence between the two. Saying you better treat m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:36 PM
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There are RPers who think women are biologically wired to post selfies on instagram? Biologically wired to use birth control? Biologically wired to eat pasta with a fork and chinese food with chopsticks? Where are these people, pray tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:33 PM
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$9M, whereas Serena is worth $27M or $170M depending on the source/date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:13 PM
2

It should be obvious that 30 is just a Schelling point, it is divisible by 10. If we had 8 fingers people would say the wall is at 32 (40 in base 8).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:06 PM
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Evolutionary psychology isn't pseudoscience just because laymen misuse it. TRP doesn't deny that socialization exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:50 PM
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There are plenty of measureable personality differences between men and women and some are quite large.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:46 PM
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”This one is just for girls: When you go on dates, act as if every man you're talking to is a rapist that you are scared of. One shouldn't need the threat of rape to treat men well; but if that's what it's gonna take, fine. Date like everyone's a rapist, because we might be.” Would a man saying that make you afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:34 PM
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No problem :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:27 PM
1

theorem confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:23 PM
1

Liberal feminism and capitalism are compatible. Radical feminism and capitalism are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:13 PM
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So is 'is there a god'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:09 PM
1

but women's soccer or tennis matches often looked as technical and closely fought as men's matches to me. Women's soccer/hockey/any teams sport have a handful of first world teams that absolutely dominate the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:53 PM
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Probably because it is a new field with lots of uncertainty and its importance has been overstated. [These intergenerational effects on gene expression] don’t change the DNA sequence, are reversed after one or two generations, are themselves under the control of the genes, and probably represent a Darwinian adaptation by which organisms prepare their offspring for stressful conditions that persist on the order of a generation Moreover, most of the transgenerational epigenetic effects have been d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:38 PM
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Yeah, has the same number of rings as Steph Curry who is obviously a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:12 PM
1

That's fair, I suspect other commenters are correct and it is just a guess he threw out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:58 PM
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it's not subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:42 PM
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If you rate 4-5, it tells the other person that you "liked" them. True If you "skip" the person, it rates them as a 0 of 5 This isn't correct. If you rate 1-3 it skips. There is no way to rate it 0 or otherwise skip. This is why the scale for guys' attractiveness has a weird bump below 1 - from women skipping. This doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:36 PM
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I thought you were going to say a 2, a 6 or 7 would be eloping material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:57 PM
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You should be more charitable, they could be skinny. Most people here aren't married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:44 PM
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Plenty of people write their own vows, perhaps theirs included 'through thick and thin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:28 PM
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He wants girls who are very feminine but also active in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:42 PM
1

55 at 5'7" gives a BMI of 19 which is healthy even if on the lower side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:35 PM
1

Exactly, the change in security after 911 was just the beginning. If it becomes a more common problem it will affect everybody in negative ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 04:54 AM
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You don't 'win' in a Pyrrhic victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:53 PM
2

My father
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:51 PM
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Requires you to socialize in person and get exercise. At very least have one hobby for which both of those are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:41 PM
2

It will only get worse with more automation, shit's about to get wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:40 PM
3

Have you reproduced yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:31 PM
2

You make it sound like it would be a military operation, it'll be lone wolves killing people wantonly and guerrilla-style tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:26 PM
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I think a lot of them are disillusioned tradcons, I can't completely blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:25 PM
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it's trending upwards. Not just that, a major underlying cause of the loss in self-worth in men, automation, is accelerating. We live in interesting times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:22 PM
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The concerns aren't about domestic violence they are about greater political polarization and the rise of extremist groups. While it isn't true for all of the middle east in general polygamy is more accepted there and that results in more men being left without any options. The resulting violence in the ME is in part due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:13 PM
1

Rad fems have existed since the 60s. Tv and the internet have given them larger audiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:07 PM
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This. Is. Bad. For. Society. How do people not understand this? This was the original comment you replied to. How does this reify the term? The OP was saying that significant numbers of unpaired men are bad for society. Show me any society/culture/whatever you want to call it where this isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:03 PM
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Didn't take you for a post-modernist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:02 PM
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That's not entirely true. A stable society is required for individualism to be a realistic option, especially for women. I think it's just ignorance about the potential consequences rather than indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:56 PM
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You mean you don't want the US to look more like the middle east?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:53 PM
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Because it isn't the whole story, it played a role. I suspect people would be more charitable when interpreting your arguments if you were more charitable interpreting theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:48 PM
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That definitely played a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:38 PM
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It was a joke, the set of people who overuse 'toxic' also tend to overuse 'problematic'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:09 AM
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That's a problematic word right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:32 AM
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People that put themselves first rarely finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:41 PM
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https://nypost.com/2018/06/02/dating-columnist-reveals-how-sex-and-the-city-ruined-her-life/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:27 PM
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17 times lower on average iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:43 PM
3

Pedophile women tend to go under the radar. There are a lot more than people would like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:36 PM
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As Russelsteapot42 said it implies men and women have different libidos and different risk thresholds that can be used to explain some other phenomena. This is of course derided by feminists as biologicaĺly essentialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:15 PM
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Hasn't stopped feminists from trying in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:43 PM
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I only like being objectified by attractive women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:51 AM
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It's called holding your ideological opponents to their own standards. I'm fine with double standards that exist for a reason. I'm not fine with abolishing double standards for women and not for men. It's the same reason people call out republicans who secretly visit prostitutes even if they prefer prostitution was legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:48 AM
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In terms of quotas in STEM/teaching, etc. I agree with you. My perspective is basically that if you don't hold their feet to the fire they'll continue to elevate women at the expense of men. It's tit-for-tat, it doesn't have to be perfectly symmetrical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:23 PM
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As long as they claim to be aiming for equality and push it in other areas - even when most, if not virtually all, women don't seem to give a shit - abso-fucking-lutely. Otherwise in the long run people will reject feminism even more. If for a specific situation it is infeasible then some quid pro quo is necessary. In other words elevating men in other areas relative to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:14 PM
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That is part of it. The inequality doesn't necessarily annoy me as long as it isn't too extreme as I know that men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:41 PM
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Feminism is supposedly about equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:44 PM
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and the very fat (will over-estimate calorie needs). Also I'm assuming you count calories, how accurate do you think you are? 1800 +/- 100? 200? How do you track it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:10 AM
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this equation will be very accurate in all but the very muscular (will under-estimate calorie needs) and the very fat (will over-estimate calorie needs).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:09 AM
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If you are sedentary (little or no exercise) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.2 If you are lightly active (light exercise/sports 1-3 days/week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.375 If you are moderatetely active (moderate exercise/sports 3-5 days/week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.55 If you are very active (hard exercise/sports 6-7 days a week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.725 If you are extra active (very hard exercise/sports & physical job or 2x training) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.9
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:04 AM
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Which multiplier did you use, 1.55 or 1.725?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:01 AM
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Then you'll probably want to drop caloric intake to between 1200-1500.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:43 PM
2

What denomination? Overall women attend church at higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:39 PM
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More overweight+obese men and more obese women iirc. The percentages are similar though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:24 PM
2

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:21 PM
2

It is pretty clearly feminism that is maladaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 10:49 PM
1

Call it silver-digging then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 10:11 PM
1

Yes, especially sensual bachata ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:27 PM
1

In my experience they are negatively correlated after n = 3 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:10 PM
2

That is still about 35% of the pop, at least in Canada. 50% when you include lesser diplomas or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:13 AM
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Go fuck yourself, not my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:43 AM
3

Does anyone actually believe that sweat can't accumulate around your genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:19 AM
1

I've had mildly salty once, kinda tasted like chicken noodle soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:18 AM
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Ditto there is some educational porn out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:59 AM
1

You spelt lie lye earlier. Lye is alkaline and alkaline materials are used to treat heartburn which kinda sounds like heartbreak. In other words people are forced to lye(lie) when breaking up to minimize their heartburn(break). It was a stupid pun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 08:08 PM
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You're the one who doesn't understand that absolutes are absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:57 PM
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So barring all the instances in which it is ok to break an oath it is always immoral to break an oath? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:53 PM
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Because alkaline materials are good for heartburn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:56 PM
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heartburn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:41 PM
1

So breaking an oath is always immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:40 PM
2

It may be distateful but it's not immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:09 AM
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Marries a few years later, lets say 35, immediately starts trying for a child, has first at say 37, then 39, then 41. There is a 30% chance that at least one of those is a miscarriage. If she tries at 43 there is a 45% chance of miscarriage and a 1% chance of Down's syndrome, at 45 it is a 60% chance of miscarriage and 1.5% chance of Down's. Even if there isn't Down's their is a 90% chance of chromosomal abnormalities at 45. http://www.cdadc.com/ds/down-syndrome-risk-factors.html https://www.adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:21 AM
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She doesn't learn that until she is 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:00 AM
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Not after 80 years of marriage, 5 kids, 20 grand kids, 40 great-grand kids and a great great grandchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:58 PM
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The leaving still isn't immoral in that case, it is the lying that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:54 PM
1

There are still more single men than single women of marriageable age in the US even when excluding men in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:52 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:56 PM
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Lol no. Go to trollxchromosomes to see the hateful femcels. The reason female incels don't kill people is down to testosterone. They complain and whine more than men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:26 PM
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So why is female socialization not called toxic femininity? If you think that term, female socialization, implies all femininity is bad I don't know what to tell you because that isn't what it implies. It is because the term toxic masculinity implies that the masculinity (men) causes the toxicity rather than society, which includes both men and women, that causes it. Male socialization is a more precise term. Some male socialization is bad and some is good, it is as simple as that. People would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:58 PM
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There are plenty of feminists that study mostly male online communities like the above. Most of them don't even know that there are some outliers that take offense. Bullshit, only if they are being willfully ignorant. I know they tend to be out of touch but I have more faith in them than you, I guess. assume that people are able to tell that "I don't like yellow cars" doesn't mean that I think that all cars are yellow nor that I hate all cars. LOOK AT HOW IT IS USED IN POPULAR DISCOURSE https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:36 PM
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Call it male socialization. The word male is till in it, it just changes the locus of guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:42 PM
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What outrage do you expect would come about for the term 'male socialization' when there is a female equivalent? For an ideology that is as concerned with word usage as feminism it is interesting how that matters little when it comes to men. "Little girls may think they can't be a cop if you call them policemen, this must be made gender neutral!" Yeah, let's change it! "Little boys may think that their gender is toxic if you use the phrase 'toxic masculinity'!" Hah, who gives a fuck. Or how abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:41 PM
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There is precedence for mandatory training sessions with the threat of holding grades hostage. http://nationalpost.com/opinion/christie-blatchford-attend-sex-assault-workshop-or-no-final-grades-ottawa-law-students-told
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:30 PM
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negative connotations to an oppressed minority Men aren't oppressed so they aren't allowed to be offended essentially. But if that person then started throwing oranges at me while shouting 'You can't talk about them!' I'd wonder if something is up. What? apparently I'm not allowed to talk about it. Give it a new name and talk about it to your heart's content. For a ideology that is very particular about their word usage it is interesting that pretty much everything bad is named in a way to invok…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:22 PM
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Give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:15 PM
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Tell me this isn't trashing men. http://nationalpost.com/news/canada/university-of-reginas-masculinity-confession-booth-invites-male-students-to-come-and-share-your-sins Feminism is a religious cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:59 PM
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Offense is subjective, if men tell you the term offends them, it offends them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:54 PM
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Fine, but it's clearly pissing off a lot of people and not helping feminism's cause. It isn't hard to shift towards referring to it as male socialization, aka the counterpart to female socialization. Give me one good reason not to switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:49 PM
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Why not call it male socialization then, it's a simple change? The answer is that feminists enjoy naming everything bad after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:25 PM
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This is a genetic fallacy, if black people had come up with the term toxic blackness and then white people had adopted it as a dogwhistle (which is what 'toxic masculinity' is) it would rapidly go out of favor. Case in point all the generally innocuous shit that the SPLC and their ilk regularly classify as white supremacist-speak or symbols.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:23 PM
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Doesn't help when men are disproportionally imprisoned and disenfranchised by a justice system that blatantly favors women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:04 PM
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Fortunately there is no such requirement on Reddit. It is impolite, stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:20 AM
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Saw it captioning an image on Facebook a couple hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:18 AM
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Voters have power, most are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:12 AM
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A fake attempt of suicide for attention is pretty pathetic and women attempt 4-5 times more often than men, just because they use less violent means when they attempt doesn't mean they aren't incredibly lonely and handling it badly (both the loneliness and the suicide attempt).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:34 PM
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The pill allowed women's lib to occur. It set western society on a path that led to no fault divorce and a slew of other laws and conditions that negatively impact men's satisfaction with marriage. I'm not mgtow and don't think marriage is obsolete, but mgtow do figure that the above make it obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:31 PM
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There are different flavors of mgtow and tradcon types are definitely represented. There are factions within that figure if the laws are changed, removing no fault divorce being the main one, then marriage will become worth it again. Others being alimony and child visitation in the case of a divorce. Others figure that women's lib (the pill) forever changed the sexual/relationship marketplace and made marriage, in effect, obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:40 AM
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Women attempt suicide more though. They sound pretty lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:33 AM
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A low T man has >> T than a high T woman. Same is true in reverse for E. You are correct my model is 'incorrect'. She has to be using a relative measure to categorize within demographics. Texp, Eexp being mean levels within demographic Degree of T = (T - Texp + E - Eexp)/(Texp - Eexp) Plus some factors and alternate normalization, log mean diff may work better here. Or something like that. Point being I think high E and high T can be compatible .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 12:53 AM
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I don't think you can make the claim that higher relative E is the same as low T. They aren't perfect mirror hormones. You can be masculine while still being highly emotive and socially intelligent. The examples she gives as high E are certainly not low T men. To tie it back to rp I suspect it would look something like this. Alpha - high T, low E High beta - high T, high E Low beta - low T, high E Omega - low T, low E
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 01:12 AM
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i don't care for anecdata
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:04 PM
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Not according to the biological anthropologist in the linked video. Though she also says that high T men are more comfortable working with other high T people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 10:50 PM
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I though it was interesting how she used Trump as an example of high T and Obama/Clinton as high estrogen. High T men prefer high E women and high E men prefer high T women. Melania, Hillary and Michelle seem to fit that model well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 10:36 PM
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Were there cannons in Wakanda?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:32 AM
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Having a father to take care of your child greatly improves their life quality. It is far more practical/rational to stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:29 AM
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Was this post inspired by this: “Churchill: "Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?" Socialite: "My goodness, Mr. Churchill... Well, I suppose... we would have to discuss terms, of course... " Churchill: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?" Socialite: "Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!" Churchill: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:52 PM
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Neither eating nor avoiding getting eaten can directly result in someone getting pregnant and having a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 04:46 PM
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Or trollx
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 04:05 AM
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This is so wrong it is funny. Being good at/ uninhibited about rape is evolutionarily advantageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 06:50 AM
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That must be so taxing man, how do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:01 AM
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Somehow I doubt that boarding schools sloots don't drink. Maybe not beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:27 AM
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He works in a remote camp for 50% of the year where there are no women. He uses the doll for those months.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 04:37 PM
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That would work a lot better with a bar chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:37 PM
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Assuming average thrust length is about 4 inches, 8 inches both ways, 63360 inches in a mile so 31680 thrusts in total. Assuming an average of 2 thrusts per second gives 17.6 days of straight fucking assuming no breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:26 PM
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If a girl did it once, got burned and vowed never again I'd say it's forgivable but if there was a pattern of behavior that all of a sudden ends because she has now 'matured out of that phase' it raises lots of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:09 AM
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It's the female equivalent of death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:16 AM
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It makes it easier for her to branch swing into a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 06:07 PM
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He implied, you inferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:59 PM
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Pretty sure she is autistic so she's probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:35 PM
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Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 12:11 AM
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Yeah, cause it's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:07 PM
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Women also care a lot more about marrying someone with money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:02 PM
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It could be 'wrong' if the traits selected were suboptimal outside of a very narrow paradigm that will result in everyone in the gene pool ultimately going extinct. Evolution is dumb. Wrong probably isn't the right word though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:22 PM
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I could make the equally absurd argument in reverse. Do you really think that given the option, the vast majority of people wouldn't opt for a fantastic, lifelong romantic AI partner if the other option where [sic] a miserable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:15 PM
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Didn't Ronaldo use a surrogate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:31 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:11 AM
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2nd wave feminism was largely responsible for pushing women into the workforce. Quoting Simone de Beauvoir: No woman should be authorized to stay at home to bring up her children… because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one. It is a way of forcing women in a certain direction. She believed 'motherhood' was a patriarchal social construct. Unsurprisingly she said this from the perspective of a well off woman who never actually had children. This clearly plays into the hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 05:13 AM
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You can also hate the opposite gender and still want to fuck them which would be difficult if you 'ship the menz off to another planet' as a straight radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:11 PM
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Where did I say that? The opposite of 'health at any size' is 'no you can't be healthy at any size', not 'haha you're a fatty'. I do think it is more dangerous to live under the delusion that you can be healthy at any size than to occasionally be fat-shamed. Mockery isn't good for your mental health, morbid obesity is devastating to your physical and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:10 PM
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Subsections of fat acceptance believe they can be 'healthy at any size', which will absolutely "doom lots and lots of people to chronic illness".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:07 PM
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Plenty of radfems are straight though. Basically they don't know what the fuck they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:04 PM
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She isn't a 5, 6.5-7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:42 PM
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Looks androgynous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:32 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:32 PM
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than
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:25 PM
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privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:45 PM
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The right to ride the cunt carousel, harpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:49 AM
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I don't think agi requires a scientifically deep understanding of cognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:42 AM
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Need more leg day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:23 AM
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How many hours do you spend lifting at the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 01:49 AM
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Yeah you're right. Though I wouldn't argue that it isn't traumatic just that it isn't seen as traumatic since it is done at birth and most people don't see the procedure and babies don't remember. Basically normalization. Pederasty wasn't seen as traumatic in ancient greece, doesn't mean it isn't. Even today 25 yo women raping 13 yo boys isn't seen as traumatic by a lot of people. I think the attitude is changing somewhat though. I think a certain group of circumcised men think that if they acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 12:44 AM
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male circumcision just isn't [traumatic] to doesn't prove that male circumcision is amost [sic] always traumatic Way to move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:51 PM
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male circumcision just isn't http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/herpes-babies-jewish-circumcision-ritual-link-rabbis-infants-a7620446.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:55 PM
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There are certain fgm procedures that are analogous. Cutting off just the clitoral hood for instance. #notallfgm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:59 AM
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He doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:16 PM
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Same, but only a 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:06 PM
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Nor do I
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 06:30 PM
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You didn't read the article, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 06:27 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 05:29 AM
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Russia is the only country with a state-sponsored doping system that I am aware of. There is no doubt that there are people in every country are doping. It is a little different if it is state sponsored though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:50 PM
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Men overwhelmingly go with violent options for suicide. ODing is more of a woman's way of committing suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:36 PM
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That is a violent crime, QED
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:23 PM
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internalized misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:07 PM
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Feminist doctrine states that men cannot in any way shape or form experience systemic discrimination FOR BEING MEN It is important to note that black men can experience systemic discrimination for being black, gay men for being gay etc. However if you accept that men as a class oppress women as a class/ that Patriarchy theory is valid then SYSTEMIC oppression can not happen to men for being men in said Patriarchal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:03 PM
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I don't know much about Nader to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 03:46 AM
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MLK also plagiarized his doctoral thesis and regularly cheated on his wife with prostitutes, not exactly the pinnacle of virtue. He was very charismatic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 11:43 PM
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Ugh, that guy is so gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 11:40 PM
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What if they are impotent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 04:33 AM
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They were both voluntarily celibate. Both had suitors/whatever it's called when a woman is the pursuer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 11:15 PM
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The probability of one having had a better partner in the past is p = (n-1)/n Assuming each partner regardless of position has an equal chance of being the best. This might reduce one's enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:56 PM
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Women openly denigrate men all the time in real life and don't face much of a backlash, they don't need an online community for it - though they do exist. TrollX for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:16 PM
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I'm talking purely physical. The way men treat you sound like the way certain men treat an ugly girl (disposable). Your username makes you sound like a 'nice girl', angry that that pretty bitch Stacy is more attractive than you. How symmetrical is your face, describe the shape of your nose, can you fit five fingers between your eyebrows and your hairline, how is your head/jaw shaped, do you have any weird looking moles, how do your teeth look, what is your waist to hip ratio, do you have a bubbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:57 PM
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You were mocked for these things? How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:27 PM
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Some of them are some of them aren't. I'd love to know their pointer finger to ring finger ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:39 PM
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The person above me was also joking btw, no one unironically says size-ist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:10 PM
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you're be the only one rasing the child Paying child support isn't raising the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:10 PM
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Can you give me specific examples of shows of femininity that were mocked then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:08 PM
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Ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 05:28 PM
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Any specific one you have in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:26 AM
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So you figured out who the most destructive male and female individuals of the last 2000 years were or what? I gave you a couple hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 09:18 AM
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So was Genghis secretly a woman? Are you 14-15 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:23 AM
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You can be wealthy, self-employed and still low-class - Trump is low class. Do you think people in the UMC/UC consider insta-whores to be classy/ upper class? They are definitely low class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:06 AM
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You can't claim that actually Genghis was a tranny or any other bullshit btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 08:05 AM
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I was just fucking with you, no need to get your panties in a twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:56 AM
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What do you think about deadbeat dads?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:47 AM
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So you are opposed to child support laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:46 AM
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Who would you rank as the most destructive male and female individuals of the last 2000 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:42 AM
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How drunk are you right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:42 AM
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Bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:43 AM
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It means they aren't agreeing with him because they like but rather despite the fact they dislike him. Simple concept dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:40 AM
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Hey man you don't know what porn I watch ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:27 AM
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If anything that reinforces his position. No matter how much people generally dislike his commentary they agree with him on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:58 AM
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The most destructive/anti-social people are overwhelmingly male
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:57 AM
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The worst and best people are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:46 AM
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Mechanics make good money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:35 AM
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You must be one of the rich that look down on poor fat folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:30 AM
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Maybe because people were consistently laughing at their unfunny jokes. Got overconfident. I wouldnt call being a comic the most high status gig.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:23 AM
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Low class women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:20 AM
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How do those things relate to social grace is now social media Social media is a terrible forum for displaying your social acumen - outside of narrow cases. I agree that if it is non-existent of if you have questionable things on your social media people may think less of you but it doesn't indicate social grace, it just highlights the most socially stunted people. In other words social media can hurt but it can't help much. Whether one is actually socially graceful becomes immediately apparent …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 01:08 AM
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People interact more with social media now then people. As a 24 yo I disagree, most people with a good social life/ well adjusted people spend more of their time interacting with people in (IRL) social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:38 AM
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Y'all motherfuckers give wayyyy to much weight to meyers-briggs shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:34 AM
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You can appear outwardly feminine and be a feminist. Having a feminist mindset and acting on prescriptive feminist advice is anything but feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:33 AM
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As long as you follow it up with you look great it is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:32 AM
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mocked any femininity constantly Examples? Was it mocking or teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:31 AM
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Equating social grace and social media is farcical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:30 AM
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You can generally tell when a girl is inexperienced...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 10:58 PM
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You've never watched porn where a girl clearly didn't know what she was doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 10:52 PM
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Then they are unlikely to know what they are doing and it will show.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 07:09 PM
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Everybody does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:35 AM
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The way guys talk to each other is different than the ways men and women communicate, so not necessarily. It depends on the girl. I'd argue that if you say something like that you should be prepared to initiate oral because it is somewhat ambiguous. Most women would prefer the man to initiate though, in which case just be explicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:30 PM
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Usually they ask did you fuck her or did you hook up. Did you have sex seems a bit formal, like did you have intercourse, or engage in carnal knowledge. Hooking up can be many things. If they asked did you fuck I would assume they meant vaginal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:21 PM
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The same is true for oral. To be clear when you say you don't want to have sex you mean you don't want to have vaginal or anal sex but are ok with oral sex? You think that is unambiguous?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:12 PM
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Do you classify anal as sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:01 PM
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Because one would presume that the people with power would determine the structure of society. Despite women having power they played no role in structuring society to benefit women? This is patently absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:53 PM
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It's something women have accepted about the way men communicate. Men communicate this way because they are conditioned to do it by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:48 PM
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So women played no part in creating a 'gynocracy' that ostensibly benefits them despite having the power to do so? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:47 PM
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They were alleged to only be suffragettes because they were bitter old hags. How is that different from calling MRM activists bitter virgins? And to be clear most suffragettes were aristocratic spinsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:44 PM
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cuz if there is one, which I doubt, then men contrived it with their own hands. So this is sarcastic then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:43 PM
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If you’re confused, ask. Or you could just be clear from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:31 PM
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Eh, I'm fine with it, I just think its funny that you think the boundary pushing is something men choose to do. The choices are push boundaries or never have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:30 PM
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Women have no power whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:24 PM
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Are you suggesting that the mrm want to restore 'the patriarchy', or that 'the patriarchy' is good for the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:22 PM
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The exact same shit was said about suffragettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:15 PM
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They are complaining about how men are childish/need to get their act together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:13 PM
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It's relative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:57 PM
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I agree that in order to have sex you have to be a little bit pushy/aggressive, it's what women want, doesn't mean I enjoy having that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:53 PM
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Most people consider oral SEX to be sex. Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:40 PM
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Those examples are just fleeting issues du jour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:51 AM
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And you apparently can't speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:21 AM
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"I don't like this sex act that this guy is doing to me but I'm not going to say anything." Was I assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:11 AM
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I agree, you were a dumbass in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:52 AM
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So these women are searching for violent porn, why? For science, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:28 PM
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Right, who waits until marriage to have sex. OP is a self-hating lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:09 PM
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Women don't understand men, that is why we have the boys will be boys saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 09:04 PM
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Where did he lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 07:46 PM
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Hold the claw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:05 AM
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You expect him to read more than the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:47 PM
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Women, they will come and they will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:43 PM
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How many women only shelters are within 30 km of your house?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 10:33 PM
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Women and their grudges, that shit ain't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:21 PM
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Certainly, the Tulsa Race Riot in particular devastated the black community and destroyed massive amounts of wealth held by black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:02 AM
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And those certainly contributed to the break up of the black family in the US I was just arguing against the notion that slavery 155+ years ago was connected to the modern marriage crisis in the black community.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:00 AM
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Black families were going strong in the first half of the 20th century. Well after slavery had done its worst. The economy is more to blame. Poor non blacks also have high out of wedlock births.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:51 PM
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They don't prefer it but relationships are hard and when you know you have that fallback option you are less likely to stick it out when times are tough. It is a perverse incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:22 PM
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Hence 'enjoy the decline'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:14 PM
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I don't buy that peoples' loss of faith followed from those changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 08:01 PM
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What one change from Vatican II, had it not been made, could have prevented the loss of influence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:25 PM
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Trump signed a law that defunds organizations providing abortions, religious organizations played a role but it doesn't just affect southern states.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:57 PM
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Not being murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:33 PM
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Belief in religion is unsustainable. Your system doesn't work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 06:41 AM
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Men are basically children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 06:06 AM
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Women mending holes in clothes is considered housrwork while men changing the carburetor on the family car is considered a hobby in the studies I've seen on the division of household labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 06:05 AM
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Your title implies that all the blame falls on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 06:00 AM
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feminists will probably dominate Men will always be at the top. Some will be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:39 AM
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Autoerotic asphyxiation is a thing, so why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:47 AM
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Depends what you mean by "hooked", 99%+ of men watch porn. If you are referring to men whose only form of sexual gratification is from masturbating to porn then I agree many of them are probably at very least resentful of women. Men who grew up with on demand streaming hd porn in their formative years likely won't hold positions of power until 15-35 years from now. I curious if you can think of any specific policy changes that these men may put forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:19 AM
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If it makes men objectify women when will women once again be considered chattel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 12:34 AM
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You think blowjobs are a modern invention? Maybe not facials but I'd be surprised if many weren't finishing in girls' mouths. Bonobos engage in oral sex (and anal). Were they conditioned by porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:31 PM
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It may have become more widespread due to proliferation of information via the internet but none of it is new. See Marquis de Sade and Kama Sutra.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:21 PM
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So you are saying men are more misogynistic than ever? There is a positive correlation between gender equality and access to pornography. So where is the tipping point where western civilizations revert to theocratic shitholes like SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:18 PM
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I think it is probably fair to say that a good portion of peoiple aren't 100% straight, say a 1 or 2 or the Kinsey Scale. I think they may be susceptible to disproportionately engaging in homosexual acts, relative to their position on the Kinsey Scale, if they are traumatized. Guys/girls who are a 0 probably aren't susceptible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:28 AM
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Can be induced isn't the same as always will be induced due to traumatic circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 12:04 AM
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Provided that women live at least six percent longer than men, parity is assumed. Equality is women living at least 6% longer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:22 PM
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Not if you are comparing the experience of 20-30 year old men and women. Women have a broader range to choose from. 20-40 as opposed to 20-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:28 AM
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The high profile ones, yes. If some low level exec is accused the national media isn't going to pick up the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:55 PM
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The change from religious conservatism to sexual liberation was aided by the pill, urbanization and decreasing religiosity. What will incentivize the reversal away from casual sex. how to handle female sexuality Are you suggesting a return to slut-shaming? How else would you convince a large proportion of women to abstain from casual sex if the incentives, validation etc, are greater than the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:37 PM
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Women will start prioritizing their sexual pleasure over sleeping with a man just to get his approval. Why don't they do this now? What incentive will change that makes this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:21 PM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 03:01 AM
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I was referring more to the stigma that exists in regards to sleeping with black guys, especially at some of those big football schools in the south. A girl has got to protect her reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:59 AM
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I've literally never heard the term misandry/misandrist/misandristic outside of Reddit, certainly not irl. Plenty of variations of misogynistic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:55 AM
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I am just trying to give you shit, and I am well aware that born again virginity isn't a thing. I was raised Catholic. It is kinda funny, your reversion. My parents still have hope for me that I'm just lapsed and that I'll come around eventually. Unlikely, but I appreciate the private education.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:53 AM
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How will you get rid of the incentive for women to defect and sleep with men early?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:00 AM
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Outside of reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 12:39 AM
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Everyone knows pigs aren't subhuman so that's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:54 PM
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Yeah but a lot of those accusations are against black men. There is a whole other dynamic at work there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:28 PM
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The one in her flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:26 PM
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So you are a born again virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:25 PM
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I meant fertile in the have lots of children sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 11:06 PM
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Not really, long term. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_fertility_rate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:48 PM
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You need to either change the rule or be more lax about it. This thread is a disgrace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:15 AM
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Being passionate about something inevitably leads too being dramatic about it if you face opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:47 AM
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Your bmi is 33 buddy. Unless you are a professional athlete you are unhealthily overweight. Even then... You aren't morbidly obese though, so kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:46 AM
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Well it doesn't matter anyway, the fertile will inherit the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:41 AM
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Find me person with downs syndrome who has a high iq and we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:38 AM
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Dunning Kruger effect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:35 AM
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I think it is are u fucking kidding man. Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:34 AM
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I was sure this was going to be the picture of him playing tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:33 AM
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Plenty of incredibly intelligent people have believed in god. I am an atheist but that is a silly view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:28 AM
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By getting rid of all to other welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:56 AM
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0.22 is already a small effect size, the fact that the true effect size is even smaller means it is unlikely to have any impact in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:00 PM
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True, only the truly pathetic would use this technology, the majority of humanity would continue to coexist lovingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:38 AM
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The high mutation rate is why men are more prone to extremes of brilliant and retarded. An incredibly useful thing. Saying it is more susceptible to disease is disingenuous. It is true that men have weaker immune system, but the tradeoff is that women are more prone to autoimmune diseases. And saying it is shitty at replicating itself is ignoring the fact that the 'shrinkage' of the y chromosome is reversing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 07:15 AM
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Not really, while the y chromosome has shrunk in the last 10k years that trend has been reversing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:35 AM
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Breast milk is far easier to produce than an artificial womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:34 AM
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I'm not actually advocating for any of that, I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 04:47 AM
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You can create egg cells from skin cells that are converted into stem cells. See my other comment. It was done in mice and produced valid offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 02:29 AM
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Sure, men just have recourse if things don't turn out all hunky-dory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:41 PM
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The main difference is that men could produce women and men whereas women could only produce women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:34 PM
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Here is a meta-analysis. The resulting small effect size is likely attributable to publication bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:28 PM
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making female gametes. Already been done with mice. Wombs are obviously more difficult but ultimately it is just a matter of time. Goats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:23 PM
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True, artificial wombs are coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:18 PM
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Neither can survive without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:14 PM
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Stereotype threat has failed replication studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:13 PM
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No I let my results speak for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:55 AM
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Stereotype threat failed replication tests. It's bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:54 AM
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Rape culture is a ridiculous concept when applied to contemporary western civilization. Except maybe in prison. A slut is literally a woman who has many casual sexual partners. All of their articles are steeped in this sort of framework of men as oppressors with original sin who have to perform acts of contrition but can never truly be saved. Men who read and internalize it will have some serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:41 AM
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The effort to create self-flagellating men, this. I’ve found myself explaining misogyny to a number of different male friends and acquaintances. Many of them have been so deeply entrenched in rape culture, that they don’t even realize they’ve been participating in it. They find nothing offensive about believing that women, whatever their employment status, should be responsible for the majority of housework and childcare. They find nothing particularly wrong about classifying a woman as a slut f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:58 PM
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That is because the Good Men Project is terrible. I'm sure the Good Women Project would be lauded by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 10:18 PM
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You're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:16 PM
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If only there wasn't a group trying to prevent these communities from existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:14 PM
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I doubt there is any way to find out one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 08:26 PM
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Not that I'm advocating for it but marital rape was legal until the mid 70's in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 08:15 PM
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Teenage pregnancy makes up a tiny proportion of births. A better example is a 25 year old women that absolutely knows what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 08:05 PM
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