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4	Tools of trade Allies - If you're approaching a 4-set or more, getting one of the guys to the side and asking who's dating who actually works well. Now, "the map is not the territory." But it's nice to create an ally early on.	/r/seduction	24/06/20 06:57 AM
1	Approached a girl - worst experience ever On a throwaway account too, huh? Mustabeen rough. If you want to try that again, a few tips that I got into: Keep your body language non-aggressive. Have your chest pointed away from them, or angled out. For example, in a karate match, you want your body pointed at your enemy cause you're going to knock them cold. If you point your chest away, like you're pausing-but-not-staying, it's less "threatening". It makes breakaway easier. Don't go broad. Don't go elaborate. A simple, "Hey, that dress lo…	/r/seduction	24/06/20 06:56 AM
2	FR2: I think I've got my footing A contrast between your first and your second date that I think really illustrates a change in outcome: your first date, you sort of forced your charity on her by taking her to that event. And kind of pressed yourself on her physically with the back touching. Like you said, I think you've hit your stride. Thanks for the follow up! We can all learn from what you're doing right.	/r/seduction	08/10/15 03:26 PM
2	I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction? I wouldn't go with the "I don't buy girls drinks. They buy me drinks line." Cause that sounds like an easy way to start a war. I think what I'll say next time is, "I don't buy girls drinks. I buy them breakfast."	/r/seduction	02/10/15 02:11 PM
6	I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction? I wouldn't go with the "I don't buy girls drinks. They buy me drinks line." Cause that sounds like an easy way to start a war. I think what I'll say next time is, "I don't buy girls drinks. I buy them breakfast."	/r/seduction	02/10/15 02:11 PM
1	My voice has improved immensely, but my body language still speaks volumes about my shyness and insecurity . 'What Every Body Is Saying' and 'The Definitive Book on Body Language.' The two top body language books and really easy to read. Both were contributed to by a leading FBI body language expert so the material is consistent. Here are three easy things to practice: Chin up son. When you laugh tilt your head back a little, like a king would laugh. Think Tyler Durden laugh vs Edward Norton's laugh. Even when you walk and talk and text. Keep it up. Expand your Shadow. Keep your elbows out and legs a l…	/r/seduction	02/10/15 02:06 PM
1	[FR] New here. Critique please. I'm a little curious about all this too. If you get a second date, please toss up a FR on that, too. Depending on her demographic and upbringing she could have a host of reasons for not wanting to maintain the physical intimacy on the first date. She may just not be comfortable with that much physicality this early. Probably best to match her level or slightly above than try to drag her to your level of physicality.	/r/seduction	02/10/15 01:59 PM

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