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Logisticsfield512/r/seduction16/04/20 01:10 PM
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Fundamentalsfield512/r/seduction02/05/20 02:35 PM
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As you seem to have traveled quite alot, do you have any experience with Tinder as in what countries girls usually girls just want to hookup and in what countries girls it is more required that you ask them out on a date? edit: not that I am planning to go there, more interested just how the culture is in different parts of the world still.
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:54 PM
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why is being a gringo an advantage?
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:49 PM
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I heard someone did this, can't remember where maybe in a fb reel, but sounded like a legend, neither of the girls knew that they would be competing with the other girl, he was then asking them questions, making them qualify themselves.
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:14 PM
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have you watched dating shows, in majority of cases guys are like thumbs up and girls are thumbs down. Also texting right after the date is not a good step, most of girls attraction is raised when they are wondering about if you like them or not. Then they want to uncover that attraction by asking you, but if you are all over them texting after the first date is it pretty obvious you like them and that is why they loose interest. Let me know if that answers your question. If you don't feel inter…
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:39 PM
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this can probably be a double edged sword as you can risk them moving on. I would say, if she is suggesting dates, just say yes. But if after two dates you don't feel she is interested, then it would be okey to skip just to mirror her disinterest in you, then that might flip a switch in her.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:25 AM
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If you have a guy that thinks you are special, maybe the guy from your high school that had a thing for you, that is probably your best bet. Or a childless guy in his 30-40's that would not mind to take on a kid but you would still be willing to have more kids in both of these scenarios.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:38 PM
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Is your lack of confidence connected to your job or career prospects? You are at a vulnerable age, 25-27 is usually the age people give up on their dreams and choose the safe option.
/r/seduction12/11/24 06:45 PM
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As a guy, I get very few matches on the apps or even respond to my first message, but there are some womens profile that I would like them to match with me, I remember one in particular, she wrote in her bio "let's go on cute dates", and it is something I kinda would like to do. And women to say because on Tinder for example in my country you never know if they are there to be asked out or just to hook up. It is confusing. Some even don't want to go on proper dates, but just a drink after work. …
/r/seduction12/11/24 06:04 PM
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They are often going to fake disinterest to not appear slutty as that is shamed upon in society. Then you just got to go for what you want. Since dancing is your thing it seems, try directing them with your hands, like in spanish dancing bachata they lead the girl in the dance. some girls like guys that take the lead and direct them basically.
/r/seduction14/07/24 04:59 PM
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unless she is really really interested in you, and you just skip the tutoring and go straight to hubba hubba swing, I would not do it.
/r/seduction12/07/24 02:58 PM
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But if their interest level is high enough they should not be testing though right? Maybe OP is just not responding well to these tests so they continue to jerk him around/act bossy as he does not stand up to them perhaps??
/r/seduction03/07/24 09:57 PM
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Many dating gurus tell guys that if she says yes to doing something at home, if it is your home or his home then sex is definitely in the cards if not saying that she kind of expects it. It is really the peak of isolating when it is just the 2 of you in a home. So if you are not comfy with it then have the date at some place where you can then escape from if it does not go as you hoped for.
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:53 PM
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what is the point of this convo if you are not asking her out. the top % of men just use the phone for setting dates, not silly chitchat, because they don't have time for it. The line "Me:ayt honestly same" was a mistake imo because it shows you are not direct and intentional. I think she was probably just thinking that this guy is a dud
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:58 PM
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Its all about timing. You will get the intuitive feel once you are in the conversation. It came as a bit of a surprise on my last date but I kind of learned this lesson then. I told her she had beautiful eyes, after not complimenting her really all night, soon after that I kind of got this intuitive feel. She had not been asking me any questions or anything, so I assumed she was not interested but at the end of the date I kind of also had this assumption but when we said goodbye she tried to get…
/r/seduction15/04/24 08:34 PM
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If you like her and she suggests something, just say "yes" or respond in positively manner ;D.
/r/seduction10/04/24 06:05 PM
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Just ask her out, but it's sad nature of women that they kind of start to loose interest if you confess to them how you feel, it needs to be more of a challenge to them.
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:05 PM
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I just wanted to go out with her today Then tell her that.
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:57 AM
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her money ≠ your money
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:07 AM
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I was thinking about this exact same thing about frame the other day. To have them operating in my frame and being a compliment to my life would probably be so much more rewarding as a man if she was not a career women. With her also having a career and have to cater to that, possibly even have to prioritise her career can lead relationships into some dangerous territory. I have seen it before with a guy that was in between jobs but had a career but also ended up as stay at home dad, the lady(la…
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:03 AM
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Long distance does not last in my opinion. But if you are both on good behaviour and it is for a short while then I guess why not, it depends on the situation.
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:25 PM
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No this is legit. Had a girl say to me that you should always wait until the next day. But I guess it always depends, some girls like the straight away response as they might only be open and looking at that moment. I think it is also waiting until next day is that it comes across as not being desperate.
/r/seduction21/05/23 06:17 PM
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I would say just hang out and see where it goes. If you get more serious than having fun or something then she might feel she is loosing her freedom and not feel comfortable. Unless she is like super religious or something like that. In your case I would probably say what do you mean? and ask further because it seems like she was hoping your answer maybe would be "looking to get married", "find the right girl" or something like that.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:22 PM
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Yeah just look at Seinfeld episode when Eileen is dating that doctor. Woman love the doctor ideal or fantasy. Just be careful not getting involved with woman you don't see a future with. They will probably get stuck in this fantasy and not on who you really are. Just follow your intuition and you will find a great match.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:13 PM
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Yes you should def go for the "ride or die" girls. That is from all aspects tons better to be someone that is attracted to you.I would make an exception with the not so attracted initially if the circumstances are somehow ideal for you to get involved, but in that case you would probably get this intuitive feeling to keep pursuing and in my experience I would even dream about those individuals. Because it takes time for girls to grow their attraction so girls that would initially be not so attra…
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:03 PM
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The less you know a girl the sooner you need to start escalating, flirting. Did not get it from your post if there was any flirting going on so hard to say.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:07 PM
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hey Boobia, I like da booba.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:28 PM
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Agree about the porn killing sex lives, I sometimes feel like I basically don't exist to woman because I rarely feel sexual.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:48 PM
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There is no shame in trying again bro. Confidence is just seeing clearly where you want this to go between the 2 of you, if you can think of something fun for the 2 of you to do, then just do it, have some fun.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:30 PM
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Woman change feelings all the time, just get used to it, you can think of it like they are just in the flow of things. You have to lead, say "lets get out of here" in the right moment and just take her hand and go. Everything like kissing etc. has to happen in the right moment. Like a door, for a moment it opens, then it shuts.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:18 PM
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Yeah, the moment you start wanting to lock her down for a commitment is the moment when they run away. You just need to focus on having fun and hanging out. You are kind of falling into the feminine energy part of bonding, connecting and needing love and stuff like that. If you had some kind of mission in life that you were working on, so you were not so available all the time, then you would be less likely to fall to that state. Girls don't want to be the focus of your life, they just want to j…
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:41 PM
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Okei, thats is quite irrational, I mean usually it is guys who have to chase in the beginning. You must be really good looking or something, do girls like harass you and want you to be shirtless all the time. Why are you so available? If you would have something else to do then you probably would not fall into neediness. I noticed that when I started a business, suddenly I felt like the price and started to act like it.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:34 PM
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std's, too many sex partners is confusing to the body. Just google sadhguru body has memory
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:25 PM
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google sadhguru your body has memory
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:23 AM
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You are meeting up way too much in the first weeks, just ask her out once a week, until she starts initiating conversation and then just arrange more dates. Also you are focusing way too much on sex, doing that just drives you further apart after each time, girls just loose respect for guys that only want sex.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:15 AM
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over 100 girls? don't treat your body like trash dude
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:09 AM
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I agree with OP in that it is more healthy to check for their attractiveness, such as asking their name without giving yours, and see if she asks for it. But I agree with you that passivity is not attractive to woman.
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:41 PM
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Getting hurt by woman is only in how you respond to that. Lets keep in mind that in general for woman their sexual market value peak is around age 23 but for men it is more like 36-42. And understanding that has allowed me to view the woman I was after that were the same age as me from 18-23 in a more understanding light. All I am saying is, if you are for example loosing money, have not built yourself up and on a purpose, or family is going through difficult times, you are more susceptible to g…
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:36 PM
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You are just 16. This is the time to be focused on your purpose in life. I know girls are exciting and hormones and all that, but don't let it mess up with your brain. As a man twice your age. If I were you I would learn more about being a man. Only men can help other men. I would use that time at that boys school wisely. Build your body. Don't waste your time trying to understand woman. Just be a man on your purpose and woman will be naturally attracted to you. If you have a purpose, that you a…
/r/seduction27/05/21 11:00 AM
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It is great for you that you say that you are doing well in life. That you have a strong purpose that you are intensely focused on every day. I find that when men don't have that and pursue woman they are attracted to, it can create a lot of attachment issues and distract from their purpose, because women can be needy and want a lot of attention and when you have not build yourself up it is sometimes not good. When I went on Tinder in the past year, I was kind of in this mode looking for more th…
/r/seduction27/05/21 10:14 AM
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This girls is into you man.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:23 PM
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woman are like cats, they come and go. Just have to take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:17 PM
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Just be aware of these thoughts, but don't cooperate with them. ​ As soon as you start cooperating with them it can become a process. Replace these thought with some positive thoughts you want to have, and actually bring you closer to positive things for your life. This can be visualising images of yourself doing something or colours you feel you are lacking. Do you remember your dreams, sometimes we get some positive messages in our dreams.
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:20 PM
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Its dopamine, novelty. Once you had that girl you loose interest. One thing to try out if you really like the girl is take her on more dates, I think 5 dates is good, before having sex. You can kiss but just build up but try to hold out to date 5. Dopamine fasting, stop watching porn, social media, swiping, reset your neural pathways.
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:26 PM
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Actually it is a life hack for insomniacs if you wake up in the middle of night and don't want to go to the bathroom because that would wake you up even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 02:05 PM
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