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I wish, more than anything on earth, that men would see me as a complex and fully-fledged human being who has had to suffer and support herself through tremendous hardships just as much as they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:02 PM
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I find perception in general to be pretty disconcerting and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:52 PM
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I pray you are treated with more kindness than you are willing to show others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:36 PM
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Did you not have to fill out a W-4 (or a similar form depending on your country, if they use such a thing) telling them how much to withhold from your paycheck? I'd argue that signing one of those is a form of consent...you're essentially saying "I am agreeing to give the government this much money."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:28 PM
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Then just stop working. You're perfectly free to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:26 PM
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How does your job help you achieve shitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:55 PM
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No, I'm a pretty traditional/conservative person. No piercings, long brown hair, I do wear jeans but I don't really consider that feminist lol...some people probably do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:54 PM
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Yeah, about 15lbs overweight. I think that firmly qualifies as "land whale" or "hambeast" for men on this sub lol but I'm not sure how it translates in real life. Maybe the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:16 PM
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I think you missed the line where I said I wasn't complaining. I apologize, I should have put that at the very top! It's really not a complaint whatsoever and I'm not trying to enter into an argument about difficulty. I really didn't mean to sound like I was upset by my circumstances - it's more just a contemplation on how funny I think it is. I'm very sorry if I upset you or misspoke. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:12 PM
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I don't think I have a high ego, it really seems like the opposite because I've been prone to hating myself most of my life (I've been working on that a lot though!!) and I'm an extreme people-pleaser, I tend to be a doormat lol. So I don't know what it is. I make friends very, very easily and by all accounts I'm a really polite, agreeable person. I also don't think I'm too unattractive because I do fine with matches when I've tried online dating...I just don't have the secret sauce that makes m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:49 PM
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I agree, but people get very mad about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:28 PM
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Saying I've never been approached by men makes me feel like an alien, but I swear it's just never happened. I have a very unassuming appearance. I wear modest clothing. Granted, I don't go out much...but when I am out, I try really hard to be friendly but not bother anyone. I have a very "cute" vibe - I'm not sexy or hot at all. Men just don't approach, period. They'll smile at me and I'll smile back, sometimes they'll start some small talk and we'll have a nice/friendly conversation. So I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:08 PM
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I like this tactic. I'm going to start demanding specific screenshots or links the next time men complain about women being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:52 PM
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OP's post isn't about muscles and athleticism though. Nor is it about the concept of masculinity. He breaks down what he means by "ruggedness" pretty clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:41 PM
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Wasting time with video games
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:41 AM
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What if the perpetrator isn't someone you had a choice about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:34 AM
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Don't say that king, you are aging like fine wine and one day a woman will be honored to use you for her oviposition 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:58 AM
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I would but blood makes me squeamish, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:52 AM
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Sure, but OP's post paints a different picture. I was working off his descriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:51 AM
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That's the body type of the guy I'm dating right now. I personally like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:42 PM
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Plenty of women are not dating terrible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:33 PM
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It's not fun. You go spend a day sitting in a lounge, you probably won't get picked for an interview, you'll learn nothing about the case, after sitting there for several hours you get sent home. It's like being in the waiting room at a doctor all day with no actual appointment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:57 PM
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I would have expected a proponent of ruggedness to exhibit a bit more resiliency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:22 PM
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I just started playing Elden Ring so I can talk about it with the guy I like, and good god I suck at it. I've never played a Souls game or anything similar before...I legitimately can't decide if it's fun or if I hate it. It feels like both at once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:18 PM
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So what corrective steps need to be taken? In what ways should ruggedness be displayed by individuals in their daily lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:14 PM
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Which is silly, because refusing to date someone is perfectly normal. The men who just politely sat there don't deserve to be ragged on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:58 PM
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The guy in the Utah shirt laughing about it deserves to be called out, imo. I don't know why he found it appropriate to react that way. It's one thing to not want to date a person, but laughing about their public rejection is just plain mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:52 PM
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How is ruggedness currently preventing government overreach/immigration/feminism? What are the tangible defensive tactics you see being put into action by individual male citizens re: these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:38 PM
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For people living in developed countries, ruggedness/roughness is becoming an unnecessary trait. There's very little application for it in context of a functioning society. You aren't fighting off wild animals or bandits. You aren't crossing the prairies to forge a new life. You're more likely to need to "defend" your property through paperwork and stern-but-polite phone calls than by physical altercation. So yeah, it makes sense that traits of ruggedness and roughness are becoming more and more…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:06 PM
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And that's fine. It's far better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn't share my values/beliefs. Any man who expects a woman to put out within 3 dates is a man who lacks the character and conviction I desire in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:14 PM
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I always assumed virginity was a physical state. Like a "has your body experienced penetration/penetrated someone" kind of thing. So I might have a very incorrect definition compared to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:31 PM
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Okay, so take my case which I posted about in response to another comment - I went to a reasonable state school ($20k/year), I got some scholarships, I got a degree that was in demand, I landed a nice job that would have easily paid off my student loans after a few years. Approximately 3 years after getting my job, I got very sick/disabled, was unable to perform my work anymore, and have since had to navigate paying off my debt with little to no income (student loan forgiveness for disability is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:17 PM
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Apologies, I'm autistic and tend to take things at face value. I'm not good at connecting the dots behind words, I am often overly-focused on the specific term used itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:39 PM
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I'm not really sure why virginity would be a useful indicator here. I lost my virginity as a child (sexual abuse), but that has no bearing on how attracted I am to men in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:26 PM
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What would be a logical and acceptable amount of debt for a degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:24 PM
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I do. Semi-rural area, Bible belt, so at the very least a lot of people express similar beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:51 PM
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As a religious/conservative person, another religious/conservative person would presumably be aligned with my values (and I'd be perfectly fine waiting until marriage. I honestly believe it's the preferable timing - but I also know it's unlikely to be maintained when two people deeply care for one another. It's a good goalpost, but one that is incredibly difficult to uphold.) But ultimately, I will say that ending up alone is far, far better than ending up with someone who doesn't share my value…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:18 PM
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When you're unattractive and poor, the goodwill you spread becomes your currency. You learn how to foster those connections quickly, and it serves you very well throughout the years. Sometimes even better than looks or money could.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:34 PM
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"Bad" in what way? I don't really lose out on anything. I either find someone who's willing to wait, or I don't. And if I don't, then life is business as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:24 PM
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No one owes anyone anything. I apologize for implying otherwise! I must have communicated something in a way I didn't intend to, my bad :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:22 PM
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It would be a lovely, just world if it was all poor decision making, wouldn't it? How nice and simple that would be. In my case, I did everything "right" - great degree, great job - but I became sick and disabled, had to quit that job, and now thanks to my body, my degree is useless. I'm incredibly frugal, and I'm a very smart budgeter with high financial literacy, but men are still quick to pin problems on personal failings over circumstances. It's quite frustrating, but not something I'll ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:04 PM
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None of this is a secret. I can feel the disdain/resentment like it's seeping out of a man's pores. It can't stay hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:49 PM
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At that point couldn't you just do an income-driven repayment plan? Paying 10%-15% (or sometimes less) of your income is fairly manageable for most people. Or is that idea still alarming to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:45 PM
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We do care. How much we care is what varies. For me and women like me (fairly conservative/traditional) a man's body count could be a sign of misaligned values, possibly a lack of character on the man's part, etc. Most of my friends have the same feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:40 PM
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That's why I adamantly refuse to have sex prior to months of consistent and progressive commitment. It's just not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:34 PM
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I hope not for their sake because I'm ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:27 PM
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why would anyone want to date an upper middle class man 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:13 PM
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What happened to her other boot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:39 PM
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Do people just go around sharing information like this "Btw I fucked your nail tech" "btw I fucked the DJ we're hiring for our wedding" I'm sorry but that sounds absolutely deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:38 PM
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That looks like it would be really itchy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:14 PM
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I am entirely neutral about any and all facial hair and rarely give it any thought whatsoever. It's not hot. It's also not un-hot. It just exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:28 PM
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(I was making a joke about one guy in a gooner basement having the equivalent output of entire modern animation studios)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:17 PM
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It's crazy how productive that dude is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:09 PM
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I don't know what that means but hugs are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:06 PM
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Stop policing my tone 😡🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:59 PM
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No if someone finds out you have preferences then you go to prison and serve three life sentences with no chance for parole, better LAWYER THE FUCK UP buddy boy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:54 PM
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Have you heard there's a rumor in St. Petersburg? Have you heard what they're saying in the street? Hey! Hey! Hey!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:49 PM
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People™️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:12 PM
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Sex in general is just pretty gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:05 PM
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Second date plan: lunch, arcade, walking around my property picking tomatoes (for him to take home), making out I'm excited
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:58 PM
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"How are you able to do two different things?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:48 PM
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old men are lesbian coded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:36 AM
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Y'all can argue back and forth about this until you're blue in the face, but the fact is: people are shit at dealing with illness and disability. The vast majority of humans are selfish, scummy, and resentful. This is not gendered. This is a general failure across male and female. Humans today lack basic empathy. Husbands will leave their sick wives. Wives will leave their sick husbands. Studies show that we are, by and large, shitty and awful creatures who struggle to practice compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:18 AM
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I forgot how weirdly obsessed this sub is with fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:10 AM
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then don't clean anything ever again who the fuck cares what you do with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:08 AM
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me too dumb hurrrggghhhh [fart noises]
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:05 AM
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The more you listen to me...? What have I said about anyone's dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:51 PM
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But how do men know that all the women rejecting them are single? How do you know they haven't just accepted an advance earlier that night? How do you know they haven't just started talking to someone off the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:02 PM
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Idk bro, why does anyone do anything hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:48 PM
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I don't need to remember anything. My brain is a vacuous black hole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:26 PM
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Okay. But wouldn't that still qualify as a man being rejected by the average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:24 PM
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How would that work in reality? Once a woman accepts your approach and establishes a connection with you, you would like her to continue accepting approaches from 50% of other men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:17 PM
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What would be a preferable/ideal rejection rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:52 PM
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That percentage is kind of meaningless without knowing how many men are approaching the average woman. Is it three? Fifty? Seventy-five thousand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:26 PM
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I only read the first four words of your comment but I'm sorry about whatever made you mad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:16 PM
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But I quoted Yeats :( The anti-literacy and anti-intellectualism of this place is truly tragic sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:14 PM
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Believe what you want but one day she'll be gone and this place will collapse in on itself like a dying star "Turning and turning in the widening gyre The falcon cannot hear the falconer; Things fall apart; the center cannot hold"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:12 PM
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If more commenters here would act like decent human beings it would probably encourage people to stick around but I know that's basically impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:44 PM
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Lilith is the foundational cornerstone of this community
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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