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My BF and I are both friends with our exes, and each others’ exes. It’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:51 PM
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This article is for new mothers and pregnant women. It isn’t about no longer sending women to prison like OP said. It’s more so a survey on public concern on the effects on the babies. They are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:48 AM
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Me and my female friends do not talk about this, but I think they don’t think this as we have many male friends who have standards lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:21 AM
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No I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:05 AM
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Yea but those women aren’t trying to make this experiment…?? They’re not in this conversation? Just because it is a real argument that exists somewhere else made by other people doesn’t not make a strawman. It is the literal definition of one. You can’t use other peoples’ arguments and project them onto people who don’t believe in them so that your argument works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:00 AM
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Who is “she”? Who is saying that? That’s why I think it’s irrelevant — who believes that in this conversation? Not me. Not OP, he’s a man. Are you making a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:56 AM
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How is that relevant to OP’s point? Also, I more so hear men saying that than women So why is it just a female belief you’re calling it? I hear guys here saying that all the time to show that men are much less shallow than women and women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:29 PM
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Women say they do not exclusively go for the top 20%. Who is saying they are above even going for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:18 PM
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How is making the guy profile as part of the experiment supposed to help with that? It’s assumed the guy is the more desireable party so the unknown variable is the guy’s desire, not the woman’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:15 PM
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I’ve personally been approached only like 10 times probably? My go to response is either boyfriend or “sorry I’m in a rush” lol. I agree with what you’re saying, I’d say if a guy is really nervous about it, make sure to always avoid girls in groups. It’s hard for some people to be vulnerable romantically in front of their friends and they might unfortunately resort to being a bit rude (e.g. laughing) as a defensive mechanism/diffusing the awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:04 PM
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Wait I’m confused, how is me bringing up that example complaining about double standard? Men are saying that it’s a double standard when they see some women be picky daters and also some women complain that others are such picky daters. I’m simply saying that’s not a double standard because it’s different women saying those things. I don’t understand your point. And I agree with you completely on when using anecdotes is helpful but when the original premise is so objectionable “most women who co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:04 PM
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I see your point. I will say though, you said that you were able to observe the identities of these women (when the person you questioned was asking how you would know), and you're observing on Facebook. There is definitely an older bias on Facebook if you were trying to back up OP's claim. On TikTok for example, I haven't seen one old person complain about age gaps - they're all teenagers to mid twenties. If you're asking me anecdotally, I don't remember the last time I had a conversation about…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:18 PM
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I’m in one of these groups. Most posts get no comments. Most guys are average looking. OP saying “millions of people” is stupid because it’s only thousands on the app for a given city so it’s statistically likely to sometimes get overlaps. What’s been proven?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:19 PM
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Don’t be stupid with your “millions of people” number. Those Facebook groups are specifically for dating apps, not random people you meet on the street or at school. The pool of people is going to be in the thousands and you’re going to obviously have some overlaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:16 PM
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How do you know the same women commenting those things about Henry Cavill and Cher are the same women denouncing age gaps? Women aren’t a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:04 PM
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What do you mean by bad aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:23 PM
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You completely oversimplified my comment. The end. Edit since locked: I think it is extremely unlikely. I am speaking from a North American perspective. In cases like Ukraine, it is entirely different when there is a war threatening their survival. For US/Canada, because of EXTREME geographical advantage and military intimidation, wars will continue through proxies like Taiwan/China, not through direct invasion of American soil. Surveys show that a large proportion of Taiwanese don't even want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:09 PM
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I can imagine any number of things. I just don't think it's worth getting angry at this imaginary scenario. I could imagine a foreign country invading America and killing all the women they see. I'm not going to get mad at men and say "men who say they have it harder should shut the fuck up if a foreign country comes and kills all women". Do you see where I'm coming from? Too imaginative for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:50 PM
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I respect your view, but I think it's best if people made their own decisions for themselves. Or if it really is a matter of survival, I think that a draft should be for men and women, but with the military leaders to see the best way to put each man and woman into military roles. If you are a good shooter, you should be a sniper. If you are a good flier, you should be a pilot. Because when it really does come down to war, victory is the most important thing, and talks about gender is trivial. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:33 PM
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Sorry, yes, I'm speaking from a North American-centric view as I assumed that's what OP was talking about. I am not familiar with the feminist discourse in other cultures and I feel like it's simplistic to just project our rhetoric and complaints for modern feminists in America onto those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:24 PM
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u/dobrman6 what do you think about this? Lol please you guys should duke it out, it'd be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:20 PM
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Why don’t you want women in the frontline? Also I can see you edited your comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:05 PM
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LOL people like you is exactly why women weren’t allowed to serve. You want us to die in the trenches with you or we’re all soft and belong in the kitchen? Choose one. If it’s the latter, why don’t you fight with u/dobrman6 , he disagrees with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:59 PM
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You are really idiotic if you are equating working a construction job to fighting for your country. You must really think highly of yourself and your job. Someone is not a hypocrite for wanting equality and personally not operating a crane lmfao. I would love to see more women in trades. There’s a lot of stigma in the field and barriers for entry. For me, as a kid, I never considered it as an option, no boy in my class became a construction worker either because we were a high performing academi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:57 PM
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Are you talking to me? I’m down 100%. You and OP keep talking to/about imaginary people. Who’s the hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:35 PM
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What have you done to promote feminism in the military? If you think it’s bullshit and you want us to die with you, have you gone and helped these feminist causes? Or do you just sit here on Reddit complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:26 PM
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Your whole premise is based on this hypothetical that hinges on three things to happen which is 1) there will be a war, 2) if there is a war, there will be a draft which I think is totally ridiculous, we do not need massive amounts of soldiers to fight modern wars. The Sino-Taiwanese war how do you even plan to deploy soldiers in that scenario? 3) That if there is a draft, that they only draft men. What is the point of this conversation when it hasn’t happened yet. You’re just getting mad at a i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:23 PM
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Because it’s an open forum and this is a DEBATE subreddit — don’t know how Reddit works? She wasn’t talking to you when you jumped in. Even if everyone on TwoX said yea the woman is the victim, how does it make her have double standards? I just want to understand your logic there. It’s as if you think if woman A says I would never date a fat man, and woman B says I’m fat why don’t people date me, you would call woman B out for having double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:53 PM
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Why are you responding to someone saying "this is my opinion even if you switch the genders" by saying "ok then if that's the case, post it on this subreddit of other women to see if they have that opinion"... She never claimed other women share this exact opinion? She was just speaking for herself? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:39 PM
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I’m trying to understand your position because I feel like we are on the same page — I don’t disagree with what you just said unless you made a typo. Can you elaborate? Are you saying that even a dirt poor woman has high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:15 PM
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Yea socioeconomic factors only come in play on extreme sides of the spectrum. E.g. a woman will be more desperate if she is in poverty. Or if a man is ultra-wealthy, he suddenly has higher standards. Really does not affect the gender dating dynamic for the 90% in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:11 PM
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Like I said in another comment, that does not happen on a widescale enough frequency to be a significant factor to why women are more content being single than men. Be real. My unemployed female friend will still have higher standards for herself than the six figure earning man who beat out all the women in the candidacy pool. The sex drive bit is valid but then you just said a random thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:07 PM
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They just cannot make that argument and call themselves a critical thinker. Does gender quotas exist at companies especially in tech? Yes. Does this affect enough women to see a societal phenomenon in their dating behavior? No. Besides, a high income earning man who got the job over a middle income earning woman with a middling career trajectory will still have lower standards on average than that woman. Because that is not the root of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:46 PM
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That does not happen on a widescale enough frequency to be a significant factor to why women are more content being single as men. It’s ridiculous to say put it in the same sentence as lower sex drive which is actually reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:03 PM
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What do you mean by quota hire for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:26 PM
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This is true. There are no actually desperate single women. They just like to complain a bit and then move on with their lives because they’re not truly desperate in the same way that men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:20 PM
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The caveat here is that they are not average looking bums. These are average looking high income homeowners that can hold down a steady job. My social circle overindexes in this type of guy and the only one I know who is single is because his standards are too high and keeps turning down women. But he is 5’8” and an average looking bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:14 PM
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I’m taking face value that when the guy says high functioning autism it’s legit high functioning. I grew up in the special class from elementary to high school, I know plenty of these guys who are now rich software engineers. The ones who are actually average looking are doing fine romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:05 PM
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Saying the majority would go for number 1 is super untrue. The unrealistic thing about number 3 is that he has no prior relationship experience. If he is truly average looking, there are hoards of women who would want him. I know so many men like him in my social circles and despite being introverted they get so many girls lol. EDIT: Thought about it a bit more and maybe majority is true, my own social circles warp my perception. All I’m saying is there is a big and passionate market for #3.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:51 PM
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LOL, I like you. If only I lived in New Mexico. Well, I asked because it seemed like a low bar. Like I knew a red pill guy on here where all of his bros' girlfriends he liked as people and he considered all of them rare exceptions to his general belief of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:34 PM
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Like I want to clarify, in order to change your beliefs, you would only need 1-2 women IRL to prove these things to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:25 PM
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I don’t get it, you’d need just one? Isn’t this easily hand waved off by being an exception to your belief of the general rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:22 PM
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Have you tried becoming friends with your D&D buds? Or maybe making some online friends who live in your area? I feel like getting friends is easier than getting a girlfriend and it would make single life a lot more sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:07 PM
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Do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:48 PM
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I used to not date friends so I can give a perspective to this. I don't want to be confessed to by a friend because a rejection usually results in a strained friendship and wider consequences for our social circle. It's messy. A random stranger I can reject cleanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:03 AM
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That's precisely why this sub doesn't allow it, so it doesn't get quarantined. Just go off Reddit to those male forums or whatever the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:58 PM
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That's honestly a good sized number, bigger than I expected for a random SFW sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:53 PM
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Eh, there's fat men porn for women. This is a SFW sub but it's out there r/femalefatadmirertalk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:43 PM
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I prefer brown eyes. There's a meme going around these days that people with blue eyes are scary and need to put on some brown contact lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:36 PM
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Really? Some men when I'm out and about, it's like a toxic cloud that follows them that gives me AOE poison damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:34 PM
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I’m sorry you were feeling that way, man. I’ve been there. If you ever want to chat, dating advice, anything, feel free to DM me. I wish you the best. Don’t worry about how old you are. And yea the car thing makes total sense. I have a friend that doesn’t drive but lives near me. He just Ubers everywhere. Honestly saves more money than me, after considering parking, insurance, maintenance, and ofc the cost of the car itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:45 PM
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The first point is totally fine. If you have the means to always order or go out, honestly, even better. We can enjoy yummy, diverse food, and not worry about cleaning. 😄 I’d personally be happy with that. Yea I figured maybe you just live in a city. That is ok too. I know a lot of guys that live downtown that just don’t drive and have GFs. If you can order an Uber for her once in awhile, I’m sure she’ll be perfectly happy. Just date other girls downtown! Don’t be ashamed about your lack of trav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:55 PM
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I kind of have mother issues I guess? My mom passed away recently. I have never been close with her throughout my life. I am very close with my dad. I don’t really have problems that stem from it. I do kind of compare my boyfriends to my dad as the standard though. Not to a point where it sabotages my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:27 PM
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For me personally? It's ok if they can't cook. I'll cook. Just wash the dishes for me. (EDIT: But also what do you mean you can't cook? Just follow a recipe. You can follow instructions and know how to measure things and set timers right? You know how to cook.) I live in the suburbs so no, I don't want to be driving my man around all the time. I would rather go 50/50. It's fine if they never travelled but they must be open to doing it. As long as you have hobbies now, it doesn't matter how long …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:04 PM
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I wouldn’t. BOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:14 PM
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Agreed. It should be more of a conscious decision, even for the guys that can grow it well. They should think about if the boyish or rugged look is something they should lean into more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:08 PM
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I’ll make a charcuterie board and some dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:37 PM
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Have you ever been in love before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:36 PM
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And the men in the videos should also be humiliated and caused mental anguish?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:31 PM
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True, a beard is like plastic surgery for men in terms of results. It is crazy what those things can do for a jawline and face structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:27 PM
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Being practical doesn’t matter compared to those things you listed. It’s more important you look good, aren’t cringe, and have an OK job. Even without those things, you can find love, though it’d take longer. Driving might matter more in suburbs or rural btw. Try to live in an urban area or learn to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:18 PM
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Everyone says Hinge is better likely because there's a higher population of people in big cities, and a higher proportion of them who use dating apps vs. small towns -- so you'll hear it a lot on the Internet. Hinge in big cities is the best app period. There's a lot of people on it, and most people are looking for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:47 AM
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You have grossly misunderstood the song. Her relationship has gone to shit with her man. They have been together a long time. However it was very tumultuous, lots of fighting, so she decides to leave, reluctantly. She cries about it until she realizes she can pick herself back up, buy herself flowers, take herself dancing, do typical self-love things — it isn’t so bad, and she can be happy alone instead of being in a toxic relationship. This is why they need to teach media literacy in schools…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:58 PM
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It isn’t possible for this guy to have a rational take on this topic. The whole idea of it fills him with rage by his own words, he fires off emotional f-bombs in every other comment. I just skimmed through this thread and I’m not surprised he wants to fight perceived hate with hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:08 AM
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Men also get it so they’re wrong if they’re saying they get no pressure at all. But it’s definitely a different level of pressure that women get. There’s no biological clock attached to it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:13 PM
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For a few years, I refused to date friends. I had come out of a breakup of a very long relationship with a friend which strained the friendship. I also had to turn down romantic advances from friends that also completely killed the friendship. I felt very bitter towards the idea. Meeting someone where the intentions are clear from the get-go felt cleaner to me. Now I’m changed lol, but there are definitely merits to not dating friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:09 PM
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I’m asking you basic questions to understand where you’re coming from. No one’s gaslighting you. What an overly misused term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:35 PM
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Ok but we’re talking about the sub? Like sure… you’re right that it’s misandrist to shit on men all the time… and there are women doing it. My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:55 PM
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Talking about one race all the time is another can of worms we can get into. But I think talking about their experiences with women all the time as a man is whatever. Isn’t that like half of this subreddit is exactly that? Men talking about their female experiences, often negative? If you’re a man doing that, I don’t think you’re inherently misogynistic. I don’t think this sub is inherently misogynistic either. Men are a big part of the female experience. Women are a big part of the male experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:43 PM
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Ok, but who’s doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:35 PM
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I don’t think it is LOL I’ve never had that opinion. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:34 PM
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Ok so to clarify your POV, are the posts individually inherently misandrist? So like when a man posts about how frustrated he is because of a woman that stood him up, is that a misogynist post? Or is it only misogynistic if there were a bunch of men in a sub making a lot of posts about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:31 PM
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How is it being misandrist to talk about your personal experience with a man in your life with other women? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:19 PM
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It means they’re sexually attracted to men. It doesn’t matter if it’s just a small subset. A bisexual man who likes most women but only feels gay for a few men, is still valid in being bisexual. Sexuality is a spectrum. A lot of these women you are referring to do not need to date women. They’re simply not dating LOL. That’s why there is a huge gender disparity on online dating. They don’t GAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:15 PM
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I think in front of friends, I’d personally be a little shy so you’re kind of right… It would lower chances slightly but not completely. In both instances, I was alone, so I guess those two guys were just keeping an eye out for singular women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
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In addition to the bar and club, if I was approached at the mall , I’d be receptive to it. My shopping usually isn’t that crazy urgent. One time, I was alone and walking towards a store, and he was walking the other way and he just said excuse me, and stopped me. I forget exactly what he said but I think he just complimented me and asked for a number? But it was really chill. I was impressed he went for it. Another time it happened I was waiting for a date to come out of the mall bathroom lol. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:16 PM
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Here is an in depth video on it: https://youtu.be/lFaJ6AROXjQ?si=Ic-zlnpQAsyX_CCO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:38 PM
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In what way? And seeing that you used the word “usually”, in what cases is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:23 PM
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Ok putting aside that I think it's pretty nonsensical to use a dictionary definition of love and affection in a meaningful way, and how you say something is debatable inconclusively and then say we can agree conclusively the next paragraph... Can you describe what is the definition of love for a man, and what is the definition of love for a woman clearly? If it is so distinct for you, I'd like to hear your clear articulation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:49 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:13 AM
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Checks out. I would say you're missing that factor in your analysis. It doesn't matter I can get attention elsewhere, I just want attention from him because I love him. It doesn't matter I can get sex anywhere, I just want to have sex with him because I love him. Attention and sex from other people literally do not come close in comparison to his, because of the emotional connection, because he is everything to me. And I am not unique in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:19 PM
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Have you never experienced being in love? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:34 PM
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I’m a bit of a serial monogamist and yes I’m ok with that. People who have been in a lot of relationships are not necessarily mature and people who have never been in one are not necessarily immature. I’d just judge them on maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:20 PM
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You should use Discord. But you need some kind of genuine interest. Any sports teams? TV shows? Try the most gender neutral interest you can think of. Sports teams despite popular opinion is actually not bad. Video games is also pretty neutral when it comes games like Valorant and Overwatch. Then you Google “reddit INTEREST discord server” If it is a tighter knit server, they’re going to clown you for going after their women. People aren’t stupid and can see right through it. That’s why it’s imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:10 PM
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Online community is different DMing women on Reddit though in my opinion. Or else it just is no different than a dating app. Think of a Discord server where you become friends with the women first?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:01 PM
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Combination of personality and vibe, plus physical attraction. We were good friends for 8 years before so we always vibed. Two years ago, something clicked where I started thinking he was so so handsome and it gave me butterflies when we made eye contact. On the talent point, he’s really good at video games so I think that added to my attraction a bit haha but wasn’t nearly the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:46 PM
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To increasingly more women, this is honestly the case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:19 PM
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Well, while I could see that being true, I still doubt it. I’d like to see the stats but I doubt accurate studies on this exist due to errors in self-classification. So I will argue on a theoretical level with you. I will reiterate that I am talking about radical leftists, left of Bernie Sanders. They think that Biden is a morally and politically objectionable establishment politician. It is fundamentally a more moderate take on the left spectrum to vote for the “lesser of two evils”. Meanwhile,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:42 AM
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Many would, sure. And my point is many, many wouldn’t. The person I was responding to seems to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:01 AM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:27 AM
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I think both since he's said it's a dealbreaker for him in relationships if he can't have sex with other women. This guy is a massive coomer so I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:49 PM
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That is completely not true. A huge chunk of radical leftists voted for Trump to spite the Democratic party, or abstained from voting. You really don't understand their mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:02 PM
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He did not vote for Trump. He voted for Biden. Whom radical leftists absolutely despise LOL Some of them actually hate Biden more than Trump. Are you the type of conservative that thinks the left is a monolith and is completely unaware of the infighting and the absolute opposite opinions that go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:58 PM
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You clearly don't know what you're talking about. Destiny's political leaning is neoliberal, which is the most conservative left you can be. If you do a minute of research on this guy, you'd know about his notorious feud with his leftist ex-friend, Hasanabi. Radical feminist leftists hate Destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:54 PM
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Do you really think this is why Destiny was in an open relationship? That he, an extremely popular content creator constantly surrounded by attractive women, is scared of dying alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:49 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:21 PM
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If this is a romantic prospect, she probably means you’re successfully wooing her and she’s thinking about you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:42 PM
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I see. Sexual frustration might be one reason. Do you think you’re aggressive? How does it manifest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:40 PM
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I don’t think they are. What do you mean by dysfunctional?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:34 PM
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That tweet has 200 likes, 800 likely quote tweets and 900 replies likely dragging her through the mud. She got hard ratio’d, it’s not a popular opinion. There are just some people on the Internet who are not right in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:26 PM
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People would literally be incentivized to marry me, they would earn 250k a year But on the other hand they’d have to marry you. I think they would deserve the money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:21 PM
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Owala is good. You can sip it or drink it like a normal bottle of water. They’re like $20 on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:45 PM
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I have like… 10 good male friends. None of them would risk a friendship for sex when it’d be easy for them to get it elsewhere. For a relationship, that’s different. My current boyfriend who I was friends with for like 8 years before took the risk there. My first boyfriend was also a friend I had for 5 years before he made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:52 PM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:01 PM
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Isn’t online dating skewed though? Like there are a lot more women than men? It’s even more skewed considering the amount of female bots. So isn’t it unscientific to broadly apply dating app study conclusions to general dating? Aren’t there other reasons that could explain those two examples than men are more forgiving of female looks? For sex work, don’t men have higher sex drives on average plus it’s more socially normal for men to openly express their desire for sex? Anecdoctally, I know a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:34 PM
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What made you come to your first paragraph’s conclusion? Personal experience? Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:03 PM
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Women are not that unsatiably horny that all of them suddenly forget their love for their partner and commitment values if there’s some hot guy around. I would say the same for men. We are not all horn dogs with no value of loyalty and in joyless relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:01 AM
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Dealbreakers/would not bend: Has to be a decent person, 2. Doesn’t have to be hilarious, just similar sense of humor, 6. Similar intelligence level is underrated, 8., 16. Not being on the same page with kids is a doomed relationship, 25. Very very important but could let go: 20., 22., 11. Everything else is a lower tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:58 AM
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Hmm, when it comes to meeting, it's kind of hard to say where the line is without knowing your relationship. I know a couple where they meet literally just once a week because they both enjoy their alone time, but they're still a good couple. On the other hand, plenty of couples live with each other and spend every day with each other. You're both adults, so I think you could have a conversation in the future, and you can approach it where no one's feelings get hurt. Like "hey, I'd love to see y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:21 PM
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Sure, but can we have a discussion about these problems on a case by case basis instead of painting it with a sweeping brush that I'm simply hand waving away a man's problem? What did I say that you disagree with? You think a woman who is in a committed relationship with you is the right woman if she becomes disinterested if you don't one-word-reply her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:02 PM
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They don't go for simps, but it's kind of the opposite of what you're saying. When you're just getting to know each other, you should make an effort, of course, but also play it cool, don't triple text, don't full out simp to scare her away. Because in the woman's mind, she thinks "this guy barely knows me and is obsessed with me, probably something wrong with him". But after the chase stage, they get to know each other, settle into the relationship, a lot of women do enjoy when the guy is obses…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:59 PM
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Huh? You're just talking to the wrong women who isn't that interested in you anyway. Even when the relationship with me and my boyfriend settled, I wanted a lot of attention with him. Because I love him and enjoy every moment shared with each other. All my female friends say they want their boyfriend to be a simp and obsessed with her. If a girl doesn't like you, obviously this doesn't apply. E.g. an attractive man can do things that seem creepy when an unattractive man does it. But if you're in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:44 PM
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I mean, that's a fair thing to say. I think I agree with you on the side that there are negative you can have that can be overshadowed by other positive traits. But I guess you think that height/face can't be overshadowed? Personally, I think it is too dependent on the girl. Nichemaxxing is real. My friends' previous boyfriend, and also this boyfriend, catered to a specific niche of girls. I don't think they're attractive, I objectively think they would rate low on whatever blackpill scoring, es…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:35 PM
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Idk, this guy listed race as one of the things you could lie/embellish? So I can only throw out guesses. Like you photoshop your pictures LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:22 PM
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Well, yea, that's what I'm saying. Wait, what's your point? My original point is that even guys who have "disqualifiers" can get dates. I wasn't trying to argue that guys with an L in every category can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:39 PM
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Oh yea, he's tall. I think 6'3. But the boyfriend she had before was 5'4 dude for a year. That guy was in med school though. So everyone's got something. You can't go around expecting much with absolutely nothing going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:12 PM
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I mean, that's your own personal perspective that you can apply to yourself. I can respect it. But it's a bit generalizing to say it would just always lead to negative things, especially cheating. You can't cheat on someone you haven't agreed to be exclusive with yet. I totally understand why it may seem unsavory to some folks. However, it's just how it is, and people get positive, practical experiences from it. If you personally think it's manipulative, then you should be upfront with people, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:09 PM
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Lol respect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:28 PM
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Nah, we're skinny Asian girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:31 PM
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I think the one I am in is pretty good. But yea, I'm sure there's a lot of shit talking and women posting their exes just to be petty. One thing that is funny to observe is well, some people will post whoever they're talking with to ask "is this anyone's man", but some people will kind of be "🥺 I thought I was the only one talking to him.. I guess may the best woman win.." and it's kind of awkward LOL I guess that's where conflict may happen is where one person expects 1:1 dating, while the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:30 PM
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As someone who is in one of those groups, I will say that those are men who are exclusive with a woman, but is cheating. That's not what we're talking about here, we're talking about people who go on a few dates with multiple people, then having the exclusivity talk when they are ready to commit. I think there is an argument both ways. I wouldn't be surprised if you are right in that regard. I do feel like in general women have more choices, at least it seems that way because there are less wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:24 PM
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Yea I don't disagree with you that fat acceptance activists love to complain about that. I also agree with you that it's mostly social media. I said it was niche, you said it's not and brought up mainstream media/Hollywood. That's why I asked you to name an example, because my theory was in your head, you see a lot of these Nobody WhoCares posting on social media and conflating it with a mainstream opinion perpetuated by Hollywood. When it's honestly a niche group of very loud people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:06 PM
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Link please? Here, I'll show you a link from r/dating with responses from men and women talking about how it's normal: Why is dating multiple people normalized? : dating (reddit.com) I found that in 2 seconds by searching "multiple people" in the sub. There are plenty more threads. Can you show me the same from that sub where men are heavily criticized for doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:14 PM
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Well, that's the language you used. You said that they are saying if you don't date fat people, then you're fatphobic. If that's not what you mean, then where's the line for you? The presence of fat people in relationships in movie? The presence of fat people saying I accept that I'm fat? Like if I'm not grasping what you're saying, please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:03 PM
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Ok sure, but the very first thing you listed was height which is a very easy thing to tell. Unless you literally only mean like a 5'11 guy saying he's 6 foot, then sure, we're on the same page. But I wouldn't really call that being manipulative. I wouldn't call makeup being manipulative either. I guess I'm just hung up on you using that word with such strong negative connotations? Like is your thesis just guys should make white lies and embellishments on their profile to appear more attractive? …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:10 PM
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I don't know the last time I saw this on TV or in a Hollywood movie or the front page of CNN lol. I don't date fat people nor trans people, and I am not confronted by this in anything other than when I log onto Twitter or Reddit. Maybe you just consume the wrong stuff. What was the last movie or TV show that called you fatphobic? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:04 PM
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Well, I do know that average men with at least one disqualifier can do it, because I have been on dates from dating apps with these men. And I have a lot of male friends, who are mostly Asian (I believe that is considered a "disqualifying race") and they do fine on the dating apps. One of my best friends' boyfriends is overweight, barista, mentally ill, with baggage but she met him on the dating app and they're four years strong. She makes 150k a year, smart, she's pretty but in a goth alternati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:53 PM
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Can you elaborate? Mainstream media and Hollywood are saying that pretty much every guy is willing to date fat women? Pretty much every woman doesn't know being fat will tank her chances when it comes to dating? I just copy and pasted the guy's comment you were replying to btw. Like I don't get what you are arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:40 PM
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> He’s no worse off than the honest man. You say that, but that is on the basis that the honest man gets disqualified 100% of the time. Which is simply not true. It's more guaranteed a woman will break up with you when they find out you lied, especially with something so easy to disprove early on like height. Like what is the point here, you say you're 6 foot on the profile, you meet up, she's immediately turned off because you're shorter and you lied. But you're banking on the fact that you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:32 PM
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I mean, casting a wide net isn't necessarily manipulative? If we're talking modern dating in the context of dating apps, isn't it absolutely the norm that you expect everyone you're talking to to be talking to many other people? Male or female, you really shouldn't just talk to one person in the early stages. Maybe you can elaborate what you mean by "saying what they want to hear instead of the truth"? Like what honest truths are you withholding from these women to classify it as manipulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:41 PM
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Lol what a based statement. Sadly, so many people here do in fact base their lives on statistics, while completely misunderstanding the concept of statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:09 PM
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Can you reply to the other comment to your comment? So it doesn't happen in that person's specific scenario. So can you describe in what scenarios does it happen please? Are you talking about in person? Or are you talking about if you have this personal preference you keep to yourself, and then you go on Twitter, read some tweets, and feel "shamed"? Is that what you mean? I mean this from good faith. I just want to understand your side. Like for example, how some women say they're always shamed …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:02 PM
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Ok and there is also a movement for everything niche. If someone said, pretty much everyone thinks pedophilia is wrong. Would you be the annoying contrarian and say actually there's a movement of pedophilia activists that think pedophilia should be a socially accepted sexuality (true fact)? Like the original guy is still right because they said "pretty much". Like, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:58 PM
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