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| 100 | UPDATE: Asking about how to handle LTR hanging out with orbiter. | fightclubdevil | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:34 AM | |
| 3 | Girl thinks too much of herself? | fightclubdevil | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 03:31 PM | |
| 3 | Plate accusing me of "stonewalling" | fightclubdevil | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 02:12 PM | |
| 2 | Girl keeps asking if I love her when we are together. I obviously keep dodging the question. Can you think of a good reply? | fightclubdevil | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 05:56 AM | |
| 1 | LTR hanging out with beta orbiter that she fucked before? | fightclubdevil | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 05:00 AM |
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| 2 | My advice for men and womenHey man any organization or club that you're part of will influence you and your thought process. If you have a job, the work culture will influence you. The individual people there and their morals, political, economic, world views will influence you. The people you live with whether it's your family or room mates influence your thought process. What you read online influences you. If you go to school, that will influence you too. Having a good opinion and understanding involves listening to ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 14 | My advice for men and womenGetting an education is a red flag? Yeah idk about that | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Is it normal for men to cry...? How in the fuck do I stop drinking every god damn night... I cannot control my alcoholism...Drink lots of water and find something to do instead of drinking. When you stop drinking, you'll be itching to do something to kill the time and you will want to drink out of boredom. Try working out, cooking, going on a walk, playing video games, ect. Finding something fun to do during your normal drinking time makes it way easier. Example: If you normally make your first drink around 7pm, instead make that the time your playstation comes on and try to get good at a game. Or make 7pm your worko… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?Just take turns paying for things. Everyone here is saying to split it 50/50 which is cool too but you'll come off less stingy if you just say hey ill pay this time and you take care of it next time | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Girl didn't bring money to dateI would say no problem how about I pay this time and you pay next time? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Ok boys it's story time because Im pissed and need to ventMake sure to report her for any little thing she does now. She comes in late? Add to the report. Your relief didn't finish the work? Add to the report. She doesn't say hi? Say your relief is being uncooperative and is failing to communicate with you on a daily basis. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | "I dreamt you cheated on me"Ask her what the other chick looked like 😏 | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask a girl to go with me to a wedding she’s already invited to?If she wants to book a hotel with you, she obviously wants to spend the night with you. Just go for it. I think you're worrying too much about the relationship. That doesn't matter yet. Just book a room and go to the wedding and hang out and then bang after | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | The Pussy was Good: How I ended up dating a woman, her kid, and her ex-husband.That sucks but at least the pussy was good | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining 12% body fat is easy when you quit sugarWhen you eat sugar/carbs, your body produces insulin. Insulin pushes the enegery from the sugar into your cells. While insulin is doing it's thing, you can't burn fat. So eliminating sugar automatically makes your body burn more fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Got promoted to Assistant Manager, but don’t know how to lead.You be nice to everyone and let them do their thing. If someone starts doing something that is not what the company wants, you pull them aside and compare/ explain to them what they are doing, what they should be doing, and how you can work together to fix the issue. When workers have an issue with something, you listen to them and then use your decision rights to either solve the problem yourself or work with a higher up to solve the problem. Never gossip with your coworkers, especially not abo… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatWho cares what other people think. I wouldnt leave her until you find some other broad first | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How much grinding is too much grinding?IMO it's important to strike a balance. Working hard to achieve something is obviously the goal but at the same is it worth sacrificing 100% of the time in your youth? Is it worth it to trade off your healthy 20s and 30s for a greater reward later? That's your choice. IMO striking a balance of working hard and enjoying life is key. Some people may agree, some my disagree, it's up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Fucked an ugly chick and am pretty disappointed in myselfHey man, if it's pink, wet, and warm, it's good. Ugly chicks need dick too. Better than your hand lol. Who cares life is short stick it to her | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 11 | Worrying about a girl when she’s doing everything rightYou're getting oneitis and she smells it | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Manager a BP white knight to every female.Excuse me, I'm speaking with a customer. Please be more professional okay? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 46 | Should i be a bro or nah?Chicks stick together and help eachother in their social circles. Be a bro and tell the guy on the DL. You would want some dude tell you about your LTR like that too | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | On paper my life is 'better' than ever, and I have plenty of opportunities due to a new stable job. Why do I feel more stuck and apathetic than ever?Buy a house, move out instead of living with mommy and daddy. It will give you a sense of independence and will make you feel like the decisions you make matter more because nobody is there to look over your shoulder | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I just wanna skip the foreplay, pull my LTR pants down and and fuck her.Be careful that she doesn't cry rape | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 4 | can't maintain erection (virgin)Stop watching porn. Don't masterbate at all. Zero. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Boys, should I cut her off?Once is okay if it's an honest mistake. Kind of rude of her to not remember, it must have been lower on her priority list. If you make plans again and she flops again, then you know she is just fucking around | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 01:19 PM |
| 2 | I just learned about HypergamyYou're not doing much right now. That's fine because you're about to start a big degree. While doing your degree, spend your free time improving yourself. Work out, meet other students, spend your free money wisely. Instead of blowing your loans, maybe try investing some of it in stocks/other or spend it on a new hobby. Hobbies are a great way to meet chicks or other like minded people. If you're into dancing, sign up for ballroom dancing lessons. There is almost always a surplus of girls to guy… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome feeling like shit about actual physical traits in your appearance (ie. freckles, splotchy skin, stuff that can't be changed)?I always tell people not to make fun of other people for things they can't change. If someone has a weird face, it's not their fault. If someone is obese then by all means go for it, you can make fun of their lack of discipline, the same way people make fun of alcoholics. The same thing applies to you, if you can't change it, who cares own it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Being much weaker than the 20 year olds at my gym is making me really want to quit. What should I do?When walking into the gym, leave your ego at the door | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone feel like the Red/Black Pill is too depressing....what’s next?Are you healthy? Is the sun still going to rise in the morning? Just be happy | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | is it ok that I still live with my parents even though I have savings to live 1+ year independently?Save up as much as possible while living with your parents and save for the downpayment of your own house instead of lining some landlord's pocket with your rent money | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Prank Calls?Not worth it. Even if you do figure out who is it, how will that benefit you? It'll just make you wonder and stress more about this pointless situation. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps asking if I love her when we are together. I obviously keep dodging the question. Can you think of a good reply?I like to do a "thank you" and a laugh sometimes | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps asking if I love her when we are together. I obviously keep dodging the question. Can you think of a good reply?Kind of what I've been doing. The question keeps coming up | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I get the balls to talk to this hot girl in one of my college classes?Ask her about something. Be like hey I missed what the prof said in the slide, can you explain it to me? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 03:10 PM |
| 0 | EX is telling my friends I like butt plugs shoved up my assTell your friends that you only like the realllllly big ones | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Goal for Jan 1, 2020: Be off caffeine and nicotine completely. How should I go about it?Start tapering now so that you're barely using by the time you have to quit. Or just grow a pair and quit now, why wait 2 months? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m seeing mad I don’t text enough.You fell asleep, who cares. Proceed with your plans. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps deleting WhatsApp messagesShe's probably hiding them from her boyfriend | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 4 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.You couldn't just call a taxi? Next time, dont't be an idiot ripping around at 80mph and you won't feel so bad | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Picked up a hb8 that works at my gym, is that considered shitting where I eat or am I safe?It's fine, who cares. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 05:04 PM |
| 0 | How to stop being a "clown" /entertainer for women?Just shut up and let her do most of the talking | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to do more pull-ups and push-ups?Push ups and pull ups twice a day. Once in the morning and once at night. One powerful set until failure each time. You'll have gains before you know it. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | This is what we're taught in canadian public school.This is totally racist and sexist | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 12 | Girl I don't know asked me outJust friendzone her. You have a girl, this girl is a coworker. Don't shit where you eat. Be nice and keep her on the back burner and she'll give you attention. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is this front desk gym bro tryin to amog meTell him "yeah I fasted and your gut looks bigger today" | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | LTR cheated. Need advice.Yeah that can be tough. I don't care what anyone says, that shit hurts. Time to work on yourself and find a new chick to take your mind off of the old one. Hang out with your buddies or do something else to take your mind off of her as you start working on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTR still has pics of her ex-bf on her instagram. Red flag?Just tell her to delete the photos | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Can we actually stay friends?No. You will always act like you did in your relationship. Going back to friends does not work, at least not immediately. Exes are exes for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 08:30 PM |
| 53 | Cumming inside polish girlsAre you partially retarded? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 11:12 AM |
| 7 | LTR occasionally has sex dreams about anonymous men (they don’t exist in reality). We don’t hide feelings or experiences from one another, so I’m glad that we’re able to talk about this. But the psychologist in me wonders, is there something to this I need to address?Tell her that you have dreams about random chicks | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Intermitten Fasting for cutting?1am -8pm eating block doesn't sound like a fast | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What's the number one benefit from taking the red pill?Not being a little bitch | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I really attractive, delusional, or what?Just talk to them. Get the wheels rolling before your opportunity window closes. It can be difficult to do things that make you feel uncomfortable but you just have to go for it and learn. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the alpha way to handle illness and weakness?You could fake being well. I like to just recover and short-term monk mode until I feel 100% | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Should I wait for someone I care about before giving up my virginity, or should I just lose it to a girl I find attractive?Just go for it dude. You'll have practice before you get with someone you actually value | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Ex girlfriend is spreading lies about me, not sure what to doIf you feel that this may land you in a serious legal issue, I recommend talk privately to a counsellor or principal at school. Inform them about the situation, show them the text messages, they them that you never had sex and that this girl is slandering your reputation. If you go privately and don't tell you friends, you shouldn't have to worry about word getting around the school. I very strongly recommend this. It may be hard but it is definitely worth it. If you let this slide, the news cou… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Anybody find conversation or listening to women annoying?I find that it's mostly women of a lesser mental capacity that blabber and lack intelligent conversation among one another. IMO educated women that I have been around don't do that nearly as much | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to dynamically manage your marriage slots?Spinning plate and having multiple wives are two completely different things. Spinning plates is a non-emotional involvement. Having a wife is a lifetime commitment that requires emotional dedication from both sides. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 12:55 AM |
| 0 | If you were college educated, would you consider dating a girl without a college education?I just broke up with my ltr of 2 years largely because she dropped out of college last month while I'm almost done a 4 year university degree. I have standards | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Parents want me educated so badly, but I wanna travel the world and experience life.If you go traveling, you won't want to go back to school. Education is more important. You'll have plenty of time to travel once you save up some money after school. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Should I use Instagram?No. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 01:09 AM |
| 10 | Is it beta to own up to your anxiety?IMO anxiety does look beta. Anxiety is basically fear that you can't control. Whether you're too scared to make a move on a girl, or your anxiety is not allowing you to, it looks the same in the eyes of another. I would tread lightly about mentioning it. If you have anxiety, you have anxiety. That's just the way you are, no shame in that. Most people have some form of it. Blaming things on anxiety is very beta in the eyes of a girl. As others have mentioned, go see a doc. Also, fake it until you… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 12:43 AM |
| 6 | So I got drunk last night and I rarely get fukcked but I noticed something. I noticed that how I act when I’m drunk is the way I strive to be from TRP. Saying what I mean and just having fun and being myself yaknow? Is it possible to feel like this normally? Without drugs or alcoholUse that feeling that you get while using alcohol to LEARN how to act sober. The take away should be that good feeling of not caring and feeling alpha. Bring that into your sober life. Be warned though that being drunk makes you not care so much, that you may say something stupid to a girl ruining your frame. So learn from the booze. Don't use the booze as a crutch, that won't get you anywhere in life. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | She calls me "friend" all the timeCall her buddy, pal, friend, mate, bud, bro and for fuck sales stop giving her so much attention soft next. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I network as a poor bloke?My mom always told me that whoever you hang around is who you become. If you hang around smart people, they'll bring you up to their level. If you hang out with people not going anywhere in life, they will suck you into their shitty ass lifestyle. Just find a hobby and meet other people who enjoy the same things. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Is banging chubby girls worth it?If it's pink, wet, and warm it's all good. At least until you get some hotter girls plated. Better than the old hand. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Is it ever worth playing Beta Bucks?Playing beta will only get you in the friend zone. Very possible the Chad was also a huge asshole and that's why she is looking for a "different type of guy". But she ain't looking for a beta bitch boy | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Lost frame at club with my best friend gfI would try looking visually displeased and saying look I know you're upset but I'm getting my dance on rn I'll talk to you about this after | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:45 PM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong this time? (Field report)Well from the conversation you had, it seems like she for scared from the meeting message. You said I will lead you from there in. That is a great "alpha" response but maybe it was a bit pushy for a new girl probably scared her. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 03:23 PM |
| 5 | What did I do wrong this time? (Field report)I feel that the messages were a bit too pushy, should be more easy going. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 8 | I feel like I've hit the wall at 34Guys don't hit a wall, we're like fine cheese. Either just getting better year after year, or we spoil and get smelly if not taken care of. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't getting exhausting have to calculate every move you are going to make with a woman?It's like learning to drive sick shift. At first you think about it, but after enough practice it becomes second nature. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Should I use the nuclear option?I think you're overthinking this. Just don't give a fuck about her. Stop thinking about her. Clearly she bothers you if you came here to post about it. She probably forgot about you the minute she stepped out of class. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 08:02 PM |
| 3 | I find it weird to ask girls outDon't ask a girl out by saying "want to go out with me?" Ask her to do something small like help you with something. Then, if she starts liking you, ask her to hang out somewhere that isn't weird (ask her to hang out at school together with friends as opposed to asking her to come to your house alone.) Then when she's comfortable as a friend take her for a coffee, movie, ect. One step at a time. Don't do anything to make her uncomfortable rule #1 | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 06:31 AM |
| 7 | How do I stop focusing on getting laid?What worked for me, before having any sex, was getting comfortable being around girls. Think of girls as friends, just like your guys friends. No special treatment of any kind. Still apply red pill theory, pass shit tests and don't give in to any stupid drama. But if you feel comfortable around girls, they'll feel comfortable around you. THEN you can start gaming. Nothing will happen until both parties feel comfortable. It make take a bit of time, maybe not. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I never get any IOIs when I'm out looking to game.You probably look too eager | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How can I sleep better and more and feel well rested? How can I avoid falling asleep in classes? Should I watch videos/movies,read on mobile or read a book before sleep?I've been taking this supplement called l-theanine. It's naturally occuring in a lot of teas. I find it to greatly improve my quality of sleep. I find if I have a coffee during the evening, the caffeine definitely decreases my quality of sleep, but the theanine negates that. You can buy the bulk powder super cheap online. I just scoop one large scoop in my mouth before bed. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 02:34 PM |
| 1 | It takes her days to reply?!She is clearly not interested. If you were I retested in a girl, would to take FOUR DAYS to reply? No. Soft next. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.Maybe your confidence comes off as cocky people pick up on that? Maybe try being on the same level as the people you are talking with - being more understanding and listening instead of talking over people and only seeing your view. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What are the dos and don'ts when matching a girl you hooked up with in the past on tinder?I think you should just recognize her and don't pretend that you don't know her. It'll make you look dumb | /r/askTRP | 27/02/16 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Failing UniversityIf you write a letter to the student loan office explaining your medical condition and that being the reason for failing, they'll probably reconsider. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Fuckbuddy says she doesn't want to get too attachedOne of my close friends [F] has a lot of fuck buddies. She always tells me the scoop. What happens almost always is that the fuck buddies start catching feelings for her and acting really beta. They start acting like they're a couple with my friend. I hear her bitch about it all the time. She proceeds to cut contact because "she can't handle it anymore". It's too much. You're acting too beta mate, especially towards a fuck buddy. You have to cut those feelings out of your head. Stop thinking wit… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl thinks too much of herself?Amazing advice that's awesome | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Girl thinks too much of herself?I fully understand were you are going with this. I feel that she isn't head over heels for me though, we're pretty even on those terms. I don't want to seem withdrawn because she will think I lost interest and she will start to withdrawal too. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl thinks too much of herself?I really like this answer. She definitely is fishing for beta validation, I just kind of ignore it and let it fly. Your response is awesome. Defs will call her a nerd lol. Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl thinks too much of herself?I don't know about saying "your mom" | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl thinks too much of herself?We're pretty even with SMV. I feel like a just need to play my cards right. Max confidence, assertiveness, followed by IOOs next time we hang out. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 03:42 PM |
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