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Yknow I always thought I could let these women see other perspecitive, but it's just beyond my capabilities Women don't wanna admit they're the shallow ones since they'v been taught men are the shallow ones. If they did admit, it will go against their world's foundations
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:19 AM
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Thx
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:57 AM
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And you said "those shorter men can still be loved", but obviously the women's not gonna be physically attracted to them. She's just settling for the them because she likes the idea of companionship This is just absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:53 AM
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Do you recommend me getting Leg lengthening? It seems there's nothing I can do now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:47 AM
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Answer my question. Do you seriously find 5'8 to 5'11 "short"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:41 AM
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Then why tf am I short?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:38 AM
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5'5 like my dad. Mother is also 5'5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:35 AM
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their mother is taller than my mom but she's not that tall. Besides HGH I don't fucking know what drugs their mothers pump them on. All I know is that it was such a missed opportunity for me cuz I'm now too old (18) Funny thing is when I was younger, I thought their mom was actually insane but once I grow up I now know that she is just very farsighted about her son's future and saw the opportunity and grabbed it. It's not just being more desirable to women, being tall as a man also grant you aut…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:29 AM
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Ohhh I see. But it's not just her comment tho. Plenty of women in this thread try to justify their standard by saying that men also have high standard for women (big breast, waist hip ratio, being feminine) which Im pretty sure they just made that shit up since no men actually care about those things. They can't stomach the truth that men are way way less shallow than women because it goes against what they've been taught by feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:24 AM
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YES and you're trying to justify that by making shit up about men's standard being equally absurd (in your head) when it couldn't be too far from reality Honestly, having absurd standard is one thing, but being a hypocrite is just a whole nother level of infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:21 AM
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Excuse me, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:18 AM
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"oh I may care about it, but there are still women who don't teehee" FFS just admit that you at least are shallow on a certain aspect and stop your attempt at gaslighting Im not quite as annoyed when women have absurd height standard compared to women who have height standard but deny what everybody knows by now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:14 AM
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I don't wanna live on this earth if women can actually only be physically attracted to men who are 6ft or taller, and shorter men (who's not even short. Is 5'8 to 5'11 even short?) just have to compensate with earth and heaven to be considered worthy It's honestly insane. How much 6 foots do you think there are? Most men are below that And with this attitude, I feel really sorry for the guys who you feel that you have to settle for and aren't actually physically attracted to because most of thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:59 AM
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It's not just attractive women who care about it. All women care about it and you even admit it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:55 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:49 AM
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This There's so many incels who escortmaxxed but they said they feel empty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:38 AM
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Wow thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:32 AM
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I mean in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:27 AM
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How tall do you think is too short?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:15 AM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:11 AM
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lol you even admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:10 AM
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Truth. She's obviously stuck in her own head and can't except that women are sometimes(most times actually) are the more shallow one XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:08 AM
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You're honestly hopeless because there's like 3 men here telling you what you said doesn't matter. So suffer your own misery but don't use that as an 'excuse' to jusify you height preference lol. It's okay if you just admit you're shallow on certain thing and it's way more respectable as a woman if you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:07 AM
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wtf who told you that was a thing? Stop imagining shit up so you can be a vicitm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:06 AM
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Female larper spotted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:04 AM
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> Some men prefer blondes, some men prefer women with larger breasts or longer hair. Everyone has traits they are attracted to. Men have preferences too Keyword: "preference". it's not a requirement. You say I'm 'whining' but you were literally complaining about men don't find you attractive because they don't like unfeminine women. Let's just pretend that's true for a minute, what can you do about it? You either accept the 'truth' and change your personality so that you could wear and act more …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:59 AM
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Not really, their family is rich so they can afford it. If they didn't get that they'd be at least a hair taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:51 AM
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Literally no man will make it a giant factor that they'll reject women for it. Ever seen 'flat is justice' meme? Get that shit off your head, it's delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:49 AM
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yeah my parents keep bringing up the fact that i was playing games too much every time I said I wished I was taller I'm 5'7, my dad is 5'5, and my mom is 5'0. If anything, they should be glad I grew past them However, my cousin from my dad's side is 6ft ++ because they got HGH injections when they were young. They're mother is based af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:42 AM
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develop other diseases and such that makes them lose their hair. It’s not always a choice. Some women aren’t girly and are sporty, think super tomboyish, not sure that’s a choice that’s just who they are. Some women would rather die than put on a dress Okay... but you're talking about very specific sub-sector of women. You could say the same about men as well, especially the transwoman (or those who want to be). I don't know why you're trying to convince yourself women have it harder and men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:39 AM
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my mom theorises that it's bc i was insomniac in my early teens so i didn't get the sleep growth hormones if you want an explanation. Shit. Im pretty sure this was the reason why I didn't grow anymore after 15 years old. Now Im 18. 15 years old was the year I enter high school, and with all the homework, extra classes, and procrastination, I never slept before midnight since then I used to be the one of the tallest kid in the class but now I'm 3rd shortest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:30 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:21 AM
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Then how tf are you so short?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:20 AM
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Do you live in neatherland or something? The average height in US (which I assume you are from) is like 5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:16 AM
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This is like asking men who like women with G cup breasts why D cup isn't enough. WTF stop with this false equivalency. This doesn't happen, like at all! You're just making up strawman so you can justify yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:14 AM
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I remembered once you said you were 5'2. having the man 8 inch taller would make him 5'10, which is still pretty tall and close to 6 ft. I don't see how you miss this out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:11 AM
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. Men always bitch about height preferences but I know soooo many dudes who will leave a girl if she cuts her hair or starts dressing androgynous Are you really really that dumb? Cause this is how you show other ppl that you're dumb. When does this happen? Like, never And it's not even a good comparison. Those are the things you can change. You can't change the height Sometimes it's just more respectful if you just admit that you're shallow on certain things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:11 AM
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Women’s bodies are arousing to women Are you really really sure you're not a lesbian or bi? For me as a straight guy, even if I see a guy with the top attractive 0.01% body, I won't even get horny by it. I'll just think to myself 'Nice shoulders/pecs/abs/whatever, I wish I could have that'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:38 AM
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Just curious, as a girl, what do you get off to in porn? Most hentai comics are male oriented and focus on the women's body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:51 PM
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You don't like it too. Don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:17 AM
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Oh I see. Do you consider yourself attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:57 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:13 AM
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Who tf is Phil?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:02 AM
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Did you ever get resentment for that fact? Did you feel less feminine for it and felt (whatever is the female equivalent of emasculated)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:00 AM
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MUCH higher expectations of our partners than previous generations Only women has absurdly higher expectation tho. Men's expectation aren't that high often quite shallow and sexist, and this leads them to discount or undervalue women's personalities.......and then they're shocked they keep finding deeply unpleasant women. Lmao. It's not just beautiful women who are shallow and unpleasent like you like to think. Plently of ugly women(and especially them) are damn entitled as shit. If they're goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:52 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:41 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:41 AM
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Besides, you can say "be better" all you want but things like being attractive for men - it's harder to be than it is for women to be and most of it depends on genetics. Not all the showering or dressing better in the world is going to fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:38 AM
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Tell that to all women. Lots of women are insecure cause they ugly and shit but they think they deserve real life prince charming All they have to do in life is to get attention from opposite sex is be good look bare minimum and they can't even do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:34 AM
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Yeah cuz women only want the highest quality male possible. The women who settled for her looksmatch will see it as her settling. Men are much more lenient when it comes to standard and can be content with a girl who's not the top 10% Btw for you last paragraph, doesn't that apply to men as well? The women who are persued aren't gonna be intrested in her male partner as he is to her and he'll have to prove all the time that he's worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:30 AM
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One of the reasons of this inequality is that men are more interested in getting a woman than vice versa. Men's value is tied to their sexual success and many of them rely solely on women in their life for emotional support and emotional load. Based. Glad to see more women understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:25 AM
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You are severely underestimating male horniness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:21 AM
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I wish all women could be like you :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:14 AM
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This thread just sums up why I hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:10 AM
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She's a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:10 AM
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Uhm what the fuck? He's allowed to has his emotion as well? Men are human as well I don't know the story but it's his daughter's wedding for god's sake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:10 AM
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Men crying while feeling sorry for themselves ("it's just so hard, I feel so aimless, I hate myself") filled me with disgust. Men who feel this way should cry to a therapist, not to their GF's. Thanks for being honest, despite how contradictory it is to your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:03 AM
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No. He got a surgery to increase his height. The reason I ask is that the process involves surgically breaking his leg bone and stretching it more day by day
/r/MensRights15/08/20 02:57 AM
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Link to the thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/i9il59/my_life_in_a_nut_shell/
/r/MGTOW14/08/20 01:47 PM
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This has been a long time since I haven't respond, and I hope I don't seem creepy for digging up comment So are you convinced now that those things that do matter in men literally can't be changed? A lot of men (especially my country in Asia) get plastic surgery (and I think it's even a normal thing in Korea, as in, men aren't weird for doing that), and they knew the complications pretty well, but the complications from facial surgery aren't near nothing to the level of those from the height or …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:43 PM
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LOL you're just looking for things to reject potentially awsome men on cuz or your insecurity and bullshit you heard from other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:02 PM
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I didn't say it's wrong lol. U misunderstand Im just suprised since I dont find him attractive that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:36 AM
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He looks like a twig imo. TIL on what girls find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:04 AM
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So I just searched up Owen Grey... Him? Seriously? Dude's one of the most ugly man ive seen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:40 AM
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Who cares. Just accept that you're not perfect and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:20 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:17 AM
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Tbh this is my stance on this as well. Bunch of women in this thread complain about men watching porn not being a relationship material. These are the types to read those romance novel with charming adonis courting the average girl protagonist It's essentially the same thing (if not worse). It actually gives them unrealistic expectation, and they'll think "why can't I find men like that" or "why is my bf so boring?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:15 AM
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Just curious, what kinda erotic art or porn do you masturbate to? Most of them online are all male oriented (women at centre, male as sentient dick and the rest is off screen)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:12 AM
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Now you're just being insecure lol Porn aids masturbation, ain't no different from what you say as "imagination". It's still imagining fucking someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:10 AM
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How would you even know lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:07 AM
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So are you saying porn makes turns the situation into what's not supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:27 PM
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But like I said, even if your claim is true, it would make it a fair game. Men will find normal women attractive, but women will not be attracted to normal men. If majority of men can live life like this, why can't women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:17 PM
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Well u do realize that across multiple studies, women only find 20% of men not unattractive right? Actual attractive percentage are even lower I say it's a fair game. If women don't find 80% of men attractive, women shouldn't complain if men don't find normal women attractive (and that's a big if. Im working on your assumptions here)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:56 PM
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You're pretending like big breast doesn't exist lol. Thoug those women in porn get implants, doesn't mean big tits don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:53 PM
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edit: After reading some of the comments, I feel like I should touch briefly on the issue of female insecurity and jealousy. It's absolutely something I feel deserves to be taken more seriously and without denigration or shaming. Many women can feel insecure in the knowledge that their partner uses the bodies of people other than them for sexual stimulation, release, and satisfaction, and some do feel that it is cheating. I can fully understand the objectification issues, but jealously? In my op…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:48 PM
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the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:29 PM
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Only problem I have with men watching porn is is he has sexual dysfunctions because of it. Could you explain why you would think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:29 PM
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Made their expectations of women unrealistic. Can you explain how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:06 PM
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Yeah sure there's many types of incels. But recessed jaw is a major concern And the guys on r/incelselfie aren't actually incels though. They're just insecure teen. Truecels don't post because they know it already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:03 PM
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By watching porn you are contributing to an industry where addiction, coercion, and human trafficking is rife Fair. Heard in japan, porn rings are run by literal criminals as well. But how do you feel about something that the girl voluntarily do it like Onlyfans? What do you think about hentai or hentai manga(comic)? You are also desensitising yourself to the female form Are you saying men will see women as less attractive? Even is that is true, guess what, most women only find less than 20% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:10 AM
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I just asked what's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:01 AM
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wtf you masturbate everyday but shame men who watch porn? How is porn and masturbation make any difference? It's just thinking about erotic things while rubbing genital to feel good????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:58 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night babe. Not 100% are going to watch actual porn, but literally no men from the age 13 onward hasn't masturbated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:54 AM
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Why the fuck are you getting so offended with men getting surgery with parts they don't like? Women do this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:53 AM
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Many incels do have receded jawlines though. Besides, women do cosmetic surgery all the time. Why is it so offensive for men to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:51 AM
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First of all, are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:49 AM
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But once saw a black-piller talking about getting plastic surgery to get a more defined jawline.... so yeah, that. What's the problem with that? He can do anything he likes with his face
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:47 AM
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1) cheat on you with someone superior, 2) have an emotional connection to the person they cheat with What.... In what world do you live in that you think this is better???? As a man, if your girlfriend cheats on you, it's guranteed that it's going to be with someone who's better than you. That hurts a lot because you'll feel you're not enough. On the other hand, as a woman, while he cheated on you, you at least know that the person he cheated on isn't superior to you. Your self-esteem won't be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:42 AM
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Same. Like what the fuck is she thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:37 AM
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That is my advice. Don't ladder climb just for the purpose of getting men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:35 AM
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The most drop dead gorgeous girl I've ever known was convinced she was ugly, constantly sought reassurance That is called attention whoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:29 AM
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I know. But I'm just saying you should not be that laxed about your daughter either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:24 AM
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This is something women do get confused a lot. They think they have to do the same thing that they want in men to be attractive to men. Shit doesn't work like that. If you want to have ambition or climb up the ladder, do it for yourself and not because it'll get men, that shit doesn't work and is delusional. So many women in their 30s wound up alone and complaining that men are intimidated by 'strong independant women', like no, you did this to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:11 AM
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Im pretty sure it's a troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:07 AM
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so no advice there except for preventing sexual assault It's not going to be as troublesome as it is with men, but lesbian rape do and can happen. Just so you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:05 AM
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OOF you just roasted yourself my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:03 AM
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I had a coworker that once complained to me about an ugly chick giving him her number at a gym. He said he just turned around and kept working out. Women do this to men all the time. "Omg he's such a creep". Do you think this word would be uttered if the person they're talking about is attractive? Just because one guy said don't think the rest will do. We aren't as judgemental as women just so you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:58 AM
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There is, but it's really hard to be considered facially unattractive as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:56 AM
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Ok sure. But you do agree with me right that things that men have are pretty much determined by nature and can't change? So you can't just say "Just get height and penis surgery lol" like it's just thin air I think think this is one of the reason why many women have such unrealistic expectation about men. They think it's something that could be changed so easily like you do makeup or boob job. Like no And guess what, all men are different and they come in many shapes and sizes, and that includes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:13 PM
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Are you saying you've tried it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:52 AM
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...most women agree thay an uncircumcised dick is more attractive. why aren't adult uncircumcised men getting it? I already commented that I now understand your intention And I said literally no one knew it's unattractive. I wouldn't have known if you didn't mention now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:54 AM
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go ahead and copy paste me saying that??? You just said men should get circumcision because it looks more attractive. Even then most men don't know it's more attractive to be circumcised. Many will live their entire life uncircumcised and not know it. Ok I understand now that you're trying to refer to the previous point that most men would get dick lengthening surgery if it is easy, but the knowledge of big dick = good is universal. Uncircumcised or not is not. Still many aren't gonna get it unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:43 PM
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So you do agree men get judged harsher hy physical standard Those things you listed if in men aren't gonna get any girls btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:34 PM
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women dont do it to themselves, like that's just a delusional take They think that is what men care about when it's not. You can keep thinking that all you want if you wanna project how shallow you are. The rest are just doing it for vanity's sake. i dont think so, look at circumcision. i don't approve of it on kids but most women agree that a circumcised dick is more attractive. why aren't adult uncircumcised men getting it ? sure it has side effects but it's an easy procedure What exactly is y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:28 PM
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It's easy to get a boob job. While there can be side effect and you can't compare it to height or dick lengthening surgery at all. It's delusional to think otherwise. The fact that doctors don't allow it at all for cosmetic purpose should tell you a thing. Let me repeat again. It is not even remotely comparable. Do you think you can just be like "Gosh, women get surgery to make themselves more attracitve all the time, and men can't even do that. They're so entitled."? Like no, it's a complete di…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:03 PM
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if plastic surgery is fair game, so is height or dick extension Are you serious? Do you even have the background knowledge before you said that? Height extension requires breaking your leg surgically and slowly pull them apart day by day. It is ungodly painful and can cost up to a million dollars(not kidding, look it up). Doctors will never let you have it as a cosmetic means since that option is limited for those with severe injuries like shattered legs There is no safe way to get a dick lenght…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:41 PM
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Facial features can be changed. You're just trying to nitpick thing so you could prove youself right that "oh you do it as well" If I judge them by their boob size or their butt size which is something that is inherent in women and display female dimorphism, it'll be similiar to how women judge men by their height or dick size. You can't really compare just judging face to that lol And yes, because it is not everything, that's the problem. An attractive man who' socially retarded and high inhibi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:16 PM
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How would I make you want to believe me then? Ive had crush on a traditional pretty girl who I really don't like now because she's too prideful. Ive had crush on the class monitor that was pretty much the oldest and the queen bee of the girls. Ive had crush on a smart nerdy girl who went on a quiz show We aren't as vain as women lol. That's the thing that you have to come to terms with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:00 PM
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Pretty much nothing. Just be more beautiful than a gorilla that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:55 PM
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Yeah I know, id like girls my age the best. I judge them on their physical appearence, maturity, and compatibility in that order Maturity meaning that not being like those girls that are legally adult and act like princesses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:53 PM
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The only cut off is that she's not obese and not 30 years old. Im 18 so it's creepy af. But still, I don't have any physical cut off that women can't change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:47 PM
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How tf can I know to that degree. Im not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:45 PM
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Ask yourself. Why ask me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:44 PM
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Women don't like old men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:38 PM
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Women are not judged nearly as much as men are, especially things that cant be changed and are hard to fake
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:37 PM
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I feel more of a pity tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 08:46 AM
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You could say that and it would apply to most women because the consequences to a ONS are higher ??? So there are consequence of u getting pregnant so they guy must be the hottest? People can be very physically attractive without me being at all attracted to them if I don't know them. However, I haven't yet met someone I would want to have a ONS with because no one would be attractive enough to me upon meeting them. Literally no one. Lol that's because most men are ugly to you. I gurantee if mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:18 AM
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Yeah his dick still erect, but else he doesn't find you physically much of a looker but he still is attracted to you becauss your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:03 AM
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Then why did you ask that question as if you find it confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:02 AM
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I mean why is this a thing that happen to men all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 01:43 PM
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Why tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:57 AM
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If you're attractive enough you don't need personality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:29 PM
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I just made another post for men. Check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:26 PM
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Lol I was being sarcastic my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:25 PM
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Holy shit man im low key jealous haha Cute is just a codeword for "hot" btw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:26 AM
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Yeah you're not on the top 20%. Most men aren't. But I think she at least has to find something in you attractive. Maybe it's your eye brow, your build, whatever. I don't think I can tolerate being in your position
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:01 AM
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That means girl can still find you attractive :). Girls don't say that without no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:29 AM
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Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:28 AM
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And so can men feel the same as well. But I think a lot of women really get offended if a man is interested in women outside his league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:57 AM
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He's also quite tall and muscular (he's a football jock) But yeah, he's ugly af now because he's old
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:47 AM
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I think both parties tend to go into it as idealistic as ever I don't think men are as unrealistic, hence why according to OP's point, even though reddit is male dominated, r/adultery is mostly comprised of women. Women really just want the best man, but they'll gladly 'settle' for less, but a man can still find women who aren't totally the best women attractive in many ways I think this is because all the romance novels and movies fed women unrealistic expectation of what a man should be like. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:45 AM
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Honestly? I don't know what's wrong with women. I don't know if they want to get married, if they want to die alone Damn dude, after reading this entire thing, I'd also think I want to die alone rather than be in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:40 AM
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Please post this on the automod comment. I really like your response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:39 AM
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He just told from his experience. You're going to just deny him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:37 AM
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The worst thing about being an ugly woman is that your only choice is an unattractive man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:34 AM
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Also another Q4W: What do you think of the opinion of OP? Even though the wordings may be harsh, do you agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:33 AM
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fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:32 AM
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I’m sure many women would also like to pick the “die alone” choice and increasingly are doing so Because of they find so few men attractive and those that are aren't interested in them, or because they don't want their husband to not be attracted to them? That changes the context
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:28 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:26 AM
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LOL nope. Trump was a fucking chad during high school
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:24 AM
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Ok and film it and put it on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:23 AM
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So isn't this just hypocritical? Ive seen women saying the exact same thing in this thread as well that they would definitely be bothered but that they feel this about their husband and exes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:45 AM
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You're assuming in fat lol. How do you even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:26 AM
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What im saying is that your first paragraph is very confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:21 AM
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You keep begging women to date guys they're not attracted to so it sounds like you dont care if theyre in to you physically. No I want women to care about physical attractiveness as well. But, like I said, what's considered attractive for men nowadays are so absurd that only so few men will ever achieve or be born into. I just wish a lot of women nowadays will at least find more variety of physical characteristic in their partner (and men in general) attractive and and not just "you don't fit my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:20 AM
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This comment exactly https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/i42hln/would_you_be_bothered_if_you_found_out_that_your/g0i6tiu?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share You two have red snoo avatar so I got confused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:15 AM
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So guys are ok with women who only like their personality and ignore their looks, Most men don't fucking want this. Where did you get it from? It's ideal to be emotionally and sexually attractive to your partner. You misunderstood the niceguy thing. Those guys want women to be attracted to them after they did a good deed because they are delusional by romance medias average women wanting average man Lol no. Most of the average women and even womenlets want tall men, like 6ft and above. Even then…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:59 AM
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I mean you know not all women in the world are considered conventionally attractive right? If it wasn't you, and if you'd be so bothered by it, how do you think those less than attractive women are okay being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:36 AM
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I mean you know not all women in the world are considered conventionally attractive right? If it wasn't you, and if you'd be so bothered by it, how do you think those less than attractive women are okay being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:36 AM
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I mean you know not all women in the world are considered conventionally attractive right? If it wasn't you, and if you'd be so bothered by it, how do you think those less than attractive women are okay being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:32 AM
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I mean you know not all women in the world are considered conventionally attractive right? If it wasn't you, and if you'd be so bothered by it, how do you think those less than attractive women are okay being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:32 AM
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Are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:26 AM
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how dare she be attracted to guys taller than her, she should just date meee" Men want women to be physically attracted to them, but that doesn't mean they have to have stupid absurd standard in what they considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:24 AM
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If every single man on this planet can only be physically attracted to hot women then I'd rather stay single. I mean, this has been the case for men in reality. Even in this comment thread I see women saying that they've not met any man who they find automatically attractive in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:30 PM
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I'm sorry but I think I just had a stroke reading the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:13 PM
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I'm just extremely frustrated how so much women will do this to men (some even admitted it in the comments) yet they couldn't handle being in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:06 PM
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I don't think anyone I've ever dated was not attractive So what is it then? Your wordings are very confusing. So they are just kinda 'meh' to you? I wouldn't have a ONS with any them, but that is the case for literally every man I've ever met Why though? There's a lower bar for a relationship than one-night stand? Look, I'm just saying there's a bit of a contradiction here. You said you want your SO to find you both mentally and physically attractive, but you think this doesn't apply in reverse?…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:03 PM
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Look what I'm referring to in this entire post is that: if your SO finds you unattractive physically, but is still attracted to you anyway because of your personality and your connection and they still want you, would you still be bothered?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:34 PM
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Sexual attraction isn't only about appearance. Chemistry and compatibility are also important. If you don't have these things in first months/year of your relationship, it would be really hard to develop them later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:31 PM
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Imagine how devasted your man must feel if he read this lol. "I can do better"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:28 PM
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Sexual attraction isn't only about appearance. Chemistry and compatibility are also important. If you don't have these things in first months/year of your relationship, it would be really hard to develop them later. This is what I'm talking about in the post. If your SO does not initially find you attractive (physically anyway) but they have those thing for you, would you be bothered?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:27 PM
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I like how your empathy is being poured on this girl and not OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:26 PM
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Wait... I still don't get it. So you said you'd be devasted if you know your SO find you unattractive like in the scenario I mentioned, but you said you know you're ugly and know that the attachement made up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:25 PM
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I mean if he didn't tell that to you right away, but lets say you found it in his phone when he was texting his friend or something (or he says that on threads in reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:21 PM
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There's plenty of ugly women in relationship. How do you think they manage that? Obviously, not every woman in relationship is going to be conventionally pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:11 PM
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You sure are confident of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:05 PM
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I don't really understand how your answers can shift so much from "Oh no I'll be absolutely devasted" to "Oh I'm fine with that" How would you feel if you were the 'ugly' one in your scenario? If it would devastate you so much that your SO find you physically unattractive, why do you even bother to be with your two 'ugly' ex anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:04 PM
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The second one. I'm just curious because so many women says this about their man, but I rarely see this in reverse. But the thing is, a lot of woman in this thread seem to not like that. They want their man to be sexually and mentaly attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:00 PM
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Then why would you get offended if your SO find that attractive in you, but no so much of your looks? I thought women don't like when men obsess too much with looks? Just make up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:55 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:51 PM
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But holy shit though, what she said was fucking harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:41 PM
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This is coming from someone who doesn't find most guys physically attractive immediately Isn't this entire thing ironic? You said you'd be bothered if your SO didn't find you attractive since it's better to just be friends, but then you said that you can find men who you didn't find attractive at first attractive due to your emotional connection and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:36 PM
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Sorry, that happened to you man. If I were you I would just hit and quit already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:31 PM
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arranged It's in the name
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:30 PM
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​ But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:16 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:28 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:27 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:27 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:26 PM
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But attraction doesn't always have to come from the physical aspect. Mental attraction can make women attractive as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:26 PM
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I mean he's just being kind and lovign to his gf my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:05 PM
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no one is going to make fun of someone for having a BMW because it's not a Porsche, get me? I don't think this is a healthy mindset; comparing yourself to literal objects
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:01 PM
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Dude, I like your comment but please post on automod because it's gonna get removed (you're a guy) Also, why do you think her actions are contrary to her claims. Is it possible that when she was drunk and sprouting all that, what if she was making fun of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:25 PM
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Ok sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:21 PM
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Like I said, he became your SO because of your personality and because he likes your character. It's not that he finds you ugly, but it's just that he doesn't find you attractive. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:21 PM
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Yes I would break up with hindi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:18 PM
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Lord, I mean look at men on this sub acting like having slightly less sex or later sex is the worst thing in the world and means they are being used. Men like to be desired phsycially, too Hence why I made this post in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:17 PM
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It's just a downvote. Stop taking everything so seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:16 PM
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I like sex so if we stopped having sex I would count that as a SERIOUS relationship issue. What if he doesn't mind having sex with you, but he's just not that sexually attracted to you in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:14 PM
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Ok but like pretend that he's not attracted to you. Would you be bothered?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 10:01 AM
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never had his head drilled with such nonsense Im sorry but I think you got it reversed. Most men will not care about it at all. It's women who have their head drilled into by romance novels and movies that the man needs to be taller
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:50 AM
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But men never reject women for their boobs or hip and would never put it in their dating profile Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:48 AM
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which women like you will inevitably fail anyway and cry and whine about how men are shallow and only care about looks Least you can do when being shallow is accept that other people also have their attractions as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:45 PM
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Ok buddy. Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:39 PM
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LOL at your username Also, yes we can be judgemental, but the extent of it is not as much. Tell me where have you find men who reject women because their breast is B cup?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:39 PM
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Pray that you don't go old and fat then. Because the men you want wouldn't like to see you in that state as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:33 PM
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We make only make fun of fatties, something women do as well. I've never seen men comment on things women can't change lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:29 PM
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What's wrong with that? He's just confident enough to be himself with you???? A man can't be Mr. Perfect all the time, you know that right? I'm pretty sure you're the the ideal feminine housewife either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:27 PM
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The difference is that a man’s entire value does not come down to his looks, but for women it does. For other aspect in life, yes, to a certain extent. But in a society where women are out-competing men in university, that is going to chain. For dating, no. If anything, women are way harsher and judgemental on men's appearance. We don't reject women for a physical characteristic that are inherent to female sex (like how women say that they reject men who are shorter because 'men are supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:21 PM
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what do you mean by tricked lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:15 PM
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I'm being sarcastic, in case you don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:15 PM
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So now you put more importance on looks instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:40 PM
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You said you made the mistake of choosing IQ over looks. Were you too insecure to go for looks? Also, I would llike to hear more about your story
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:20 PM
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I like how in this thread, the men have to do lift and do all that shit in order to be considered a 'glow up', but women in this thread just 'glowed up' by not eating like a pig and dress better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:07 PM
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Don't you also judge men based on looks? I don't understand how you can't make this connection. Women are the more lookist one imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:03 PM
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Dude just stop with this 'real men' cringe. They can find OP not attractive when she is not attractive lol. She needs to learn that's just how the world works because chances are she didn't treat unattractive men like she would treat attractive men either She's not entitled to be treated otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:58 PM
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Wow you seem like a good person honestly. Not a misandrist at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:55 PM
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> I made a lot of embarrassing mistakes and dated guys that now make me cringe. > mentioned that I was picking guys based on IQ more than looks Sounds like you just regret dating ugly nerdy men lol. Why did they make you cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:51 PM
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Im a guy and I don't 'glow up'. That's a woman's term But I did lost 20kg of weight and girls in my class started looking me and giggle and go 'wow' over that shit. Happens exactly once tho and I'm continued to get ignored after that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:48 PM
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So I don't understand. Do you want hook up or not? You said ltr is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:16 AM
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If you were a man, you wouldn't get much hookups either. And even if you are in a ltr, it still is just bad as ltr for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:14 AM
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A girl that looks like you. So essentially ur mum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:19 PM
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It ain't hurting cause I already know it
/r/MensRights02/08/20 05:15 PM
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and you get majority of the custody most of the time as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:55 PM
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crypto-tranny AGP pipeline Ok I just learned a new word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:53 PM
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Why you think near all CEOs are men. That's neither here nor there. I'm just saying that a study that applies to one gender will not always apply to another due to differences. Of course men with lower T can focus less, but there are other factors in women you need to consider before judging
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:53 PM
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So what? Men are all unattractive, and we should be great someone settled for us? Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:50 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:48 PM
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less testosterone for mental clarity and confidence I mean testostrone and concentration is only measured in men though. For all we know there could be other chemical in women that helps them concentrate. If anything, I think women does a better job at being mentally clear at a certain thing for longer peroid of time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:47 PM
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such as? modern soceity don't need any of those advantage men have anymore. Everything is automated nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:42 PM
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Don't lie lol. You'd think you're settling if it's for an average joe because you aren't attracted to him due to attractive men at disposable on your fingertip. Of course you can be attracted to whoever you like, but it's not like others are going to treat your seriously when you're ugly yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:41 PM
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I mean sex, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:33 PM
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Yeah but can you guys, like, not take it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:32 PM
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Barks like a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:00 PM
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Yes, I know it's not 'all' looks, but if anything, looks are the primary reason. Your example links to what you just said, since you say that a lot of those men are average to below average. But that's the problem, you and those women think of it as settling, even you are not perfect yourself. A lot of women spend their time following hollywood stars and IG model and K Pop men and can get sex easily with a very attractive man. You're delusional if you think this hasn't the standards and what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:08 PM
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Yeah tbh dude, this is the kind of thing that keeps me up at night. Even if I got into a relationship with a girl who's average, I fear that she'll always think she's 'settling' for me since she could not get relationship with 'chad' It's less of a genuine liking, both sexually and emotionally and significant others, and more of a " *sigh* You'll do i guess"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:01 PM
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"I can't argue so I'm just gonna call other ppl incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:50 PM
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Women usually have to lower their standards and compromise in some regard if they don’t want to be alone Oh I'm sorry. When you expected 6+ Adonis and he doesn't turn his head towards you, don't you think you'll have to 'lower' it so that it will be realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:47 PM
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You know what's funny? Men don't give a shit about this at all from the start. What men are supposed to look like. What women are supposed to look like. The only reason men might give a shit is because women care so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:37 PM
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> From your negative rant, you sound like the type of guy that will make every woman you date pay for some hurt you experienced in the past Pure projection. It's women who do this shit all the time. Not men. > If a woman is trying to get to know a guy and he seems shallow, superficial and has walls up, of course she’s going to lose interest LOL I like how you deflect the blame of being shallow of him. Where did you even get that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:33 PM
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Well unfortunately most do. You aren't most women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:29 PM
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FDS also points out height as a joke because it's something LVM tend to be angry about Well, isn't it a natural response for someone to get angry when you make fun of their appearance, especially when it's something they can't change I don't understand how you can't make a connection here
/r/askFDS02/08/20 10:10 AM
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I understand what you're saying. I'm that 5'7 friend by the way. Im a minority man (asian) as well, so my card are stacked against me. I think I can accept my fate that ill never be what women want, but I just wished more people acknowledge that it is men, not women, who have to adhere to such a high body standard
/r/MensRights01/08/20 10:52 AM
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Again with this 'men are ugly' bullshit. You see the man ugly because your standard for what is attractive for men is absurdly high. Any man who is bald, not tall, not have any muscle definition, doesn't look like Ryan gosling is automatically ugly for you
/r/MensRights01/08/20 02:41 AM
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So fucking what? They aren't judged for things they can't change
/r/MensRights01/08/20 01:44 AM
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Hey dude, I just post the same post but on r/vent. Guess what? Bunch of women showed up to discredit me, saying that what I said is the opposite of their reality. Fucking hell At the very least they can do is acknowledge it
/r/MensRights01/08/20 01:26 AM
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What I took from TRP is this: Do whatever the fuck you want, don´t let other people tell you what you should be thinking and for gods sake don ´t even try to marry. Thanks bro. And what are these potential you're talking about?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 04:09 PM
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no matter what they look like there are guys out there that will accept them like that... even massively obese. Lmao I always see dating advice for written by women that says exactly this. The writer is not aware that this doesn't work for men...
/r/MensRights31/07/20 04:08 PM
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Well those women (and men who voted because the same reason) from your guild are pretty stupid is what I could conclude
/r/MensRights31/07/20 03:02 PM
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haha I could see why some girls develop 'im not like other girl' phase. Most girls aren't really that intresting and some girls do want to be interesting like the rest of the guys
/r/MensRights31/07/20 02:56 PM
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can you give example? and women don't do that?
/r/MensRights31/07/20 02:39 PM
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No thanks! I think I'll be happy if I can get myself to around 65kg (143 lbs) and that's my goal. I'm not going to be mad obsessed over the body fat thing it'll drive me insane
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 02:34 PM
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I actually don't have any experience with women at all. I'm a socially awkward high functioning autist. So you won't notice that when you see me, but if you get to know me I will give off weird vibes. But even if I want to just "go out there" and grocery shop like you said, I must meet certain criteria of attractiveness, musn't I? I think yeah, I have defeatist mindset. But from reading these comments, I think I may have made up my mind to be the most attractive that I can potentially be, withou…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 02:25 PM
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Yup that's the fucking absurd standard men have to go through, yet literally nobody talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:44 PM
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All of them are diverse in races and appearance, yes, but it's always lean muscular tall men
/r/MensRights31/07/20 01:40 PM
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If you care what idiots think, youll constantly be disappointed By that logic, most people are idiots then. How can i not be disappointed if this the case?
/r/MensRights31/07/20 01:37 PM
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Complain is the keyword. Women complain a lot more than men on these menial things. Additionally, if you're a women, of course you'd see women complain about it a lot more because you're just cherry picking to make it seem like a problem Also, I think there is a lot I can go over this. Can I pm you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:34 PM
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Personally, how do you keep yourself sane? I mean this contradiction is actually driving me insane and I'm starting to have depression now. Summer is supposed to be the time where I chill and be happy. Instead, I'm constantly stuck in this loop
/r/MensRights31/07/20 01:25 PM
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Currently, as a woman I have a bunch of celebrity crushes on K-pop stars and Korean actors. If I were gushing over these men while I was dating you, a dude, how would you feel? Women do this all the time. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:16 PM
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Bruh how is that in any way relieving
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 01:12 PM
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Don't compare yourself to her. You get to live a more interesting life as a man so be thankful for that. What do you even mean by this?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 12:18 PM
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What type of socialist bs is this? How is it your problem they are passive? Do you think they are fucking your women? How is their strugling going to get you more pussy? Okay man I may have been expecting too much. i mean it just sucks being an average man I guess cause even if I lost weight and did everything, it still would amount to nothing except phsical gains
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 09:34 AM
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Nope. You're totally correct. My question now begs why is it that women seem to be upon their head that women's standard for what's attractive is so high?
/r/MensRights31/07/20 09:17 AM
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What creative things do those men do?
/r/MensRights31/07/20 09:16 AM
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Let me tell you what you think - if I have that 8 pack , I will get that shy, non-threatening girl to spush in her panties and jump me so I can be passive and not face rejection. Look, man, I haven't even said anything about that. You're extrapolating too much here. Of course, I would have to go out there and do the courting ritual. I know men are supposed to be the initiators after all. But the chances are my success aren't gonna be very high (impossible even), as with the chubby and skinny PUA…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 09:15 AM
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Im just saying it how it is in reality. I don't expect you to believe, but you at least just gotta know it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:45 AM
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If I was 175cm I’d date a 168 cm guy. Did you mistype? You said that you wouldn't be attracted to shorter guy And men and women both care about face. At least men are being much fairer when it comes to physical attraction, contrary to popular beliefs You might not care that your gf’s ass is small but you will care when your gf’s friend has a big ass So what if a man notices. Everyone does that but at least that man can still find his girlfriend attractive because our standards are that discrimin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:34 AM
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I am probably not attracted to men shorter than me Lmao and you said you don't care about height. But what im saying that all things that are considered unattractive in women can be changed, but men can't change it. Both men and women care about their opposite sex being fit (women care more imo). In reality and not in my hypotherical scenario there is not even a physical feature in women that men care so much it would be a cut off. Breast size? Butt size? Hip size? Yeah men talk about that but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:22 AM
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You talk about how looks is not everything, yet you proceed to shame them for their appearence ???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:16 AM
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What about a guy who's shorter than you. Of course you wouldn't care about men being taller than you And for your second point. Imagine if men started caring about breast size and ass size, setting something like "no smaller than 36C cup", how would you feel? Men are expected to high standard every day, even more so than women yet no one talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:56 AM
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Yes, you self victimizing perspective most women have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:48 AM
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So fucking what? If they find it harder to lose weight, just try harder? The benifits of being thin as a woman is much more than that of being thin as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:46 AM
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It's not even remotely comparable. Women care about weight too. You can lose weight, but you can't change height. In fact, most it's mostly women that have physically cut off (especially ones thst cant be changed) and not men. Men can be attracted to different types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:44 AM
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I have no objection but since it's men who mostly ask out... the results are gonna be the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:13 PM
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One woman is the same as the next. A spouse dies and not long after a replacement is found because the person with the loss wants those feelings and that comfort Ive seen more women doing this tbh. Men don't really move on that quick if anything happens to their spouse but for women, their man is interchangeable and the next man can easily fulfill her needs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:31 PM
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Your point is just as bullshit as Op's. That's all I can say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:29 PM
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Op, while I can get where you coming from Where do you even agree with him? His rant just sounds like a guy who has just been dumped by a narcissistic bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:27 PM
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Women don't have to provide value tho, at least nowhere as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:24 PM
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I feel bad for you but you are kinda confirming OP's point. You care about how he could potentially make you feel, so you clung to the hope, but not what you could do to make him feel different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:15 PM
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Women like you are a keeper. Any man would be happy to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:08 PM
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Nope! There's plenty of hot women I know who aren't whores at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:59 AM
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surely every woman really wants to be the mother of his children who he's sexually meh about and who does domestic duties This is just projecting. Men can be sexually attracted to madonnas. Women can't be sexually attracted to betas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:56 AM
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A woman might fuck a crazy, tatted up, drug addict and have a great time. BUT, that doesn't mean she wants to marry him. The nice man who she eventually chooses as her long term partner will have a host of different traits that she values, not just the sexual. You haven't adressed his original point. Women can't be sexually attracted to betas, where as a man can still be in a sexual relationship with a madonna. If anything a woman's relationship with a beta is similar to a platonic provider if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:52 AM
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But at the very least men can be sexually attracted to the madonna, while like you said, the reverse is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:40 AM
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Yeah but point is a man can still be sexually attracted to the madonna while a woman will not be sexually attracted to the beta. The relationship will be more of a platonic one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:36 AM
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I dunno very many people who have no attraction to their husbands who are providing and are kind and good fathers etc lol... I had no attraction to my ex and we rarely had sex I can't see why you didn't make this connection
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:35 AM
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Then what do you want then if you don't want men to pay for date and don't want to split?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:20 AM
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There's literally nothing wrong with watching porn. You shouldn't be telling men what to do with their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:19 AM
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But they do feel attraction to picks though. I've seen many bisexual women say they find almost all women inherently attractive, but they are much more picky with men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:06 PM
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since lesbians dont have the same attitude ? What attitude are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:03 PM
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So are you saying women judge men more harshly than they judge themselves? Or more harshley than men judge women for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:21 PM
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Not all women are insecure like you. Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:19 PM
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Lmao and people say it's women that have to adhere to high beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:15 PM
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For women, solely capable of making me wet is enough biologically too, but we filter through way more standards before it's enough to be called attractive You literally just proves women have higher standard. I don't understand how you can't see this connection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:19 AM
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Being purely physically attractive is arguably harder. Not because women are pickier, but because they place less importance on looks than men. So you have to go above and beyond to be appreciated for looks alone as a man You got it the other way around. Women have to care about other things because so few men actually meet their high standard because ultimately it's not about just being "good enough"—it's about being seen as special/loveable/desired by the man they're attracted to Boo fucking h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:15 AM
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You don't have to lift at gym everyday to be attractiven. Just don't be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 12:02 PM
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Lol I see women complaining on this sub complain all the time that men's exposure to porn make women's body "lose the magic"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:23 AM
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It's not much, but if you combine this with the 80/20 rule, this would be the reason why many men are devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:04 AM
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Lol I see women complaining on this sub complain all the time that men's exposure to porn make women's body "lose the magic"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:03 AM
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You can't really use art as an arguement though. Many of the paintings and sculptures of extremely attractive men in history were painted by men. Even then, men aren't as sexually anywhere as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:13 AM
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Maybe disinterest for average-below but I don’t think that will make people actually less attracted to female bodies in a sexual context Well that's exactly what im saying. I don't know you, but im willing to bet you're not the 10% of women. So in this scenario, if you take off your clothes or wear revealing clothing, men would not be intrested in you and find your body gross at worst
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:08 AM
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Many men are too testosterone fueled and consider 80% of women attractive because to them: solely capable of making dick hard = attractive. For women, solely capable of making me wet is enough biologically too, but we filter through way more standards before it's enough to be called attractive Oh you complain about this, but you say that 90% of men is off the radar(I guess the 80/20 rule is the optimism now). You don't even have any self awareness at all. So women can be hypergamous all they lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:21 AM
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Cuz im bored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:56 AM
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I mean he's gonna find you attractive, in the same way you find him attractive, but he's not gonna go "wow" when you strip off anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:28 AM
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Honestly I just can't, man. They don't even stop to think that it's gonna be a world where female body aren't valued They'll likely freak out and get very insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:25 AM
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I find women showing left skin too also seem more attractive. What do you mean lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:22 AM
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Some average girl can dress in revealing outfit and have men gawk at her. An average man can't achieve this effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:56 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding something here. Yes, like I said in the post, there will still be some attraction, but it's only for very attractive women only. Average skinny fat women's body will likely be viewed with disintrest or people will be grossed out at worst
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:55 PM
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Dating a couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:58 AM
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I would think pressure will rise since in this scenario, only few women van actually be attractive. The 80/20 rule will reverse and women will actually put effort into excercising and dieting and maybe work on their personality instead of existing and think they deserve a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:40 AM
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Im not talking the wall. This is a different thing. It's basically what it would be like if women are treated like men. Their bodies are free, but it's not special, and likely gross unless you're a top percentage of women, in which case men will go mad over you like girls do with celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:28 AM
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Well there are decent women, but yeah we wouldn't put up with 99% because they are entitled as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:04 AM
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Honestly this is what women who's commenting above don't consider
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:53 AM
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Oh so the remaining 90% have to make up for it with other stuff because they aren't attractive enough for you. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:40 AM
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But it's enjoyable only with the top desrible men, which is only like the 10% right? The rest of normal men don't really exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:33 AM
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Inferior??? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:29 AM
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Frankly I didn't know I was supposed to care about height until reddit, and I think the sexiest man alive (asides from husband) is Trent Reznor whose a whopping 5'6". Thank you. I think girls nowadays care so much about height because of social media giving them too much of a high expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:18 AM
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Aaaaand apart from all that, even if you do all of the above, if you're genetically fucked and have hip dips or no waist line or an undesirable inverse triangle body shape, etc. tough luck. Those worries are a bit illogical, no? Im talking about biological reality here, not what women are expected to do that is determined by society. Wasn't there the 80/20 rule, where men will find majority of women attractive while women only find 20%, of men attractive. Those expectations are what society puts…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:01 AM
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No, im saying you're narcissistic because you think you're too pretty for these kinds of forum. You seem to have a perception that everyone who post here are dregs of society Those body standards that female instragramers are easier to achieve for you than for a man to achieve the physique of a male instagrammer, if you're gonna go that way. But no man actually believes they could get a woman who is like that anyway, or are even attracted to them in particular, especially the bloated butt and hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:01 PM
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Silicon boobs means nothing because they are fake. Just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:12 PM
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Thanks for the perspective man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:46 PM
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You're projecting here. You're just afraid men's standard will be just as high as you demand on a man, and now you maybe actually need to put some work into yourself instead of justing existing and putting up makeup and flattering dress somtimes. You can read all the comment made by men above to see how absurd the things men have to go through for them to be even be considered "on the radar", and if you still don't believe or don't care, then it's all on you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 08:59 AM
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Women will fuck a literal dick shaped plastic. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:12 AM
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I'll take eating moderately healthy (basically no fast food or box meals) and working out for 45min (one netflix show), 5 days a week, over having to "fix" myself up just to go to the grocery store And why don't you do that? Also, this isn't enough for men to be considered desirable. Read all the comment made by men above: it takes years to do that, not months. On top of that, you have to always take your time of the day to be physically attractive in order to keep that body, something which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:11 AM
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How is this relevant???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:01 AM
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So you agree it is easier for women to be considered attractive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:59 AM
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Personally, are you jealous that women get to have it so easy? Like, I can train to lose weight, but im not that much of an active person. If I were a women, me losing weight would be the endgame already, but as a man, losing weight is just the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:54 AM
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Yah I just feel very frustrated honestly. Life would be easier if I was born a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:51 AM
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Honestly this is so true, and women complain their standards are impossible Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:49 AM
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But a man with a six pack and nice clothes - easily achievable Achieving six packs is easy? Wtf. Being physically fit isn't that easier for men compared to women. Those fit guys with muscles you don't just go to gym for a month and pop out like that. It lifting five days a week and strict diet for a couple of YEARS to get to that level, something that isn't really achievable with working life and all that. Women don't even have to do all that to be attractive, since like I said, they just don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:44 AM
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Why generalize all men? Sure this may not be the norm but can you honestly say a lonely guy who is lacking cash would say no to a successful fat woman? No my dude. Outside milf porns, it rarely is thing. It's honestly humorous imagining this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:34 AM
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Mods r lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:43 PM
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