| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Best clubs in Vancouver for pickup? | Lifestyle | fillfee | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:53 PM |
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| 1 | Physical escalation tips?Just depends on how you say it | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 08:38 PM |
| 22 | 26 approaches - 1 successgirls are people too bro, you have to have a convo with them before you go for the close (ask for contact info). Plus you two are both complete strangers. How would you feel if a girl came up to you and said “You look rich, can i have your number?” You would assume the girl is only after your money. This correlates to you asking for a girl’s number just cause you think she’s attractive. She’ll assume you only want for her looks and nothing else. You never know what a person’s true intentions are… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:57 PM |
| 17 | So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves?Maybe she was offended you didn’t try to make a move🤷🏽♂️. You said she’s drunk so she’s probably horny, why else would she hit you up 2 weeks later. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 03:46 AM |
| 60 | So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves?As a man you’re expected to lead the interaction, you take the risks and if you make the move and she pulls back then lay off. Obviously you want to make her feel comfortable through out the date, but once you get her laughing and opening up you should be able to make a move. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.You’re overly obsessed with your gf, eventually you’ll smother her with your attention and validation. It’s like she’s the only girl in your life you can get. You need to maintain a masculine frame and distance yourself from her, no contact. During that time focus on your purpose. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.Dude, stop being respectful and be a man. What you’re doing is causing your gf to distance herself even further and she’ll eventually lose all attraction for you and eventually leave which is bound to happen. But you are stubborn to listen. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Cutting off a girl that takes forever to respond?Nah, definitely don’t escalate. Listen you should only text to set up dates not to have full conversations with. Second, women are attracted to men who have some type of purpose and when you value that purpose over her, that’s when they become more attracted to you. They always want something they can’t get easily, which is your attention and time. Treasure those. Plus she’s not even your girlfriend yet bro, why are you worried about her so much lmao. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Easiest way to get laidWell im reading the other replies and honestly I think you just too horny bro. But since you’re in college and you have classes on campus then im pretty sure you can approach the girls you walk by. Or even the closest bar/ nightclubs on Friday or Saturday nights should have some chicks you can game on. Now the easiest way for chicks to become attached to you is if you have some type of passion (ie whatever your going to school for). Chicks love when your chasing something that’s not them, it sho… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:02 PM |
| 13 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifebro what? Game is 80% social skills, you HAVE to talk to people randomly male or female. That is how you improve with talking to women specifically | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 16 | Std scareNah eating a hookers ass is CRAZY😭 | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Does it mean anything if a girl asks you why you get nervous and if you have a gf?Bruh if you dont shoot your shot rn🤦🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 36 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Lack of confidence and social skills. I would say the pandemic kept most people indoors so that put a dent on most men. Game is 80% social skills i would say, confidence comes because you know you have the tools. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!Are you a cs major by chance | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Lack of interests ?She’s clearly not looking for a relationship lmao | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 43 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.Game can definitely be learned and I’d say is 80% social skills, but first you must be willing to take care of yourself in terms of appearance. Once you start exposing yourself to talking to women, you start to slowly progress. It gets easier the more you practice. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on hanging out in groups while getting to know someone.I would want to get her on a 1 on 1 date so your friends don’t seem like they’re third wheeling with you and her. Also, if this is only your second time hanging out I wouldn’t introduce her to your friends just yet especially if you only been on one date with her, you barely know her. Once you’ve solidified her as your girl then she can tag along with your friend group. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Would this be an effective Push/Pull?Yea it’s definitely good to be fun about it, but the lines you listed i would not use. Also if you have classes with her why don’t you talk to her instead of sliding in the dms? | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Would this be an effective Push/Pull?Pickup lines, especially through a text, is something I wouldn’t recommend to say to a girl. Would only do it for you’re a solid 10/10 or you have status, ie. a lot of followers. Delivery or how you say a pickup line can’t be expressed through a text. Would be better to have a normal conversation with her in the dms. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 24 | Would this be an effective Push/Pull?🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Can’t wrap my head around the idea of cold approachingCold approaching doesn’t really work especially if you’re not at least a 8/10. Game is 80% social skills and able to have a smooth convo while also incorporating some flirting. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Messed up tonightBro don’t tell me you didn’t say anything back🤦🏽♂️ You could’ve just laughed with them, then just ask them a question. “where you guys from”. Then continue off of that. Anything you could’ve said woulda worked. “I like your shirt.” “How often you guys come here.” Its basic communication skills. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:22 AM |
| 3 | What could this mean?At least you approached one of them. But yea man, you just gotta learn from your mistakes and make the corrections in the future if you see the signs. Take the risk tho if you see a girl you like, cause you might not ever see her again🤷🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | What could this mean?Signs of interest. Just needed the confidence to approach and ask them yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 34 | Second time going to a bar aloneOnly validation you need is from yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 06:16 AM |
| 6 | What should i do?Take this as a L, onto the next one brotha, there’s plenty of fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Need help on opener for current situationWould not recommend doing it at the gym but If they are both together then you need to approach both of them and open with a convo. Don’t single her out until both of them get comfortable in the interaction then that is when you compliment her “i just thought you were cute blah blah blah”. But the best opener is a question, not a corny pickup line especially in a gym setting. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:51 AM |
| 13 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?Atleast once a month | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 3 | How can I take it further with this girl?dojo to the moon🚀 | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | First Post! Could not kiss close; help with overthinking it.Oh my god bruh you fumbled the bag🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | What should be my next move?If she is hugging and holding your hand then for sure she wants you bro. You just have to escalate | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Noob Question for EscalationSo you may be similar to me. You need to escalate in person and less over text. Use your sense of humor which makes her comfortable. Some women may not like this personality and would prefer the more masculine man. But most would enjoy your company. Also don’t be too nice and try to be a white night. Im polite when i need to be but prefer to be in charge and take lead. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Noob Question for EscalationAre you atleast a goofy nice guy? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask her out?You gave her your number already and if she didn’t text you then don’t pursue her. She already knows your interested in her, going after again shows desperation. If she was really into you then she would’ve texted you by now. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 05:57 AM |
| 15 | Can someone please help me with just paying and getting it over with?Who cares what society thinks? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 21 | Can someone please help me with just paying and getting it over with?Stop using sex as validation. Find your purpose and pursue that. Self-worth is not measured by the number of women we sleep with and a lot of men need to understand that. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | How to text a girl I met at a partyIf you found her on ig and she didnt give it to you, then that sets off a red flag in her that you may be a stalker. Also may show desperation that you really want her. Relationships work better where the girl is more interested in the guy. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Comfortability excuseYou already had a first impression with her in the store bro, plus she gave you her number and told you to call her. So she must be already semi attracted to you anyways. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 101 | The Best Dating Advice I've Ever ReceivedThis deserves more upvotes. So much desperate guys in this thread like bro, there’s 8 billion people in this world and you trippin over 1?! Move on if she playin games cause thats just a sign of disrespect. Shows she wasnt fwu in the first place. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 08:44 PM |
| 4 | First Rejection Wasn't That BadIt’s better to live knowing that you took action and got rejected, then living and WISHING you took action. Congrats my boy! | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)this sub is filled with guys who preach/ think like this. In reality every person, man or women, has flaws. Just takes confidence to go talk to an attractive woman | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Need a advice for a girlcompliments are supposed to be rare. They lose their value if you constantly use them on somebody | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:41 PM |
| 3 | For All The Guys Self Conscious About Their Height, Check This:Do you just go around hitting on girls at the store? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Is it a good idea to put myself in a situation with a big potential for awkwardness just to get out of my comfort zone? It's a party where everyone but me is the same ethnicity, I don't know most of them and there's a girl there I like whose probably gonna be hit on by a ton of guys.Just go. These experiences help you learn about yourself and help develop your skills for future interactions . The only way to grow internally is to put yourself in these uncomfortable situations. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 10:52 PM |
| 43 | This sub changed my mindset on myself - Thank Youlife is too short to be chasing women. Focus on YOU, get this money up, and chase your dreams. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 107 | Girl i’ve been dating didn’t text backYou stop reaching out. Its showing desperation. Let her reach back out to you and if she doesnt then you move on, simple. There’s 8 billion people in this world, why are you stressing over 1? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How many people are you actively dating/sleeping with, and what’s your limit?howd you find these girls | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 2 | First time going out to a club and I went solo. Absolutely unreal experience. Hopefully you can take what I did and apply it to your own life!This is great, appreciate the story! I plan on hittin a solo trip to vegas so your story really helped me with my confidence | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 12:05 AM |
| 28 | Best dating app?Going up to a baddie in public wit confidence | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 9 | How to prevent weirdo vibesAfter the first time she cancelled i would’ve moved on. If she bails on you the first time then you allow her to set plans/ ask you out for the next date. It will show if she actually is interested in you or not. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 05:32 AM |
| 9 | Wyd if a girl is looking at you with other girls and they’re all quietly giggling at you.They prolly roasting your fit bro | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 0 | First Approach of the year and I got the numberBetter hope she didnt give you a fake number. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Going out with a girl i really like at the weekend, should I tell her I really like her? Or hint towards it? And best way to move things forwardyour a man, your supposed to take the lead | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bro your mom can give you a hug and kiss for free😭 | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How to turn matches into dates?assuming you are male, you already put yourself above the other 90% of guys if you approach a girl in public and talk to her in public. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 01:49 AM |
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