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SEEKING ADVICEfinally_free13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:19 PM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:41 PM
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absolutely. I don't think I could outright lie about my exhusband, but I could mention the good things and be discreet about the bad until trust was built. It's not something I'd want to talk about to a new partner anyways. So something like 'my ex was a good provider and gave me my beautiful children, but we got married young and grew apart.' - maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:06 AM
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great answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:35 AM
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love this!!! Also, I've experienced that they will try to relate to you by saying their exes were similar, to build trust, manipulate, see if you are vulnerable, love bomb, etc. I've always been an open book because I think if I'm honest, it will attract honesty... but I think this approach is much smarter and sets a higher standard. Definitely my new strategy moving forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:34 AM
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Exactly, I feel like I'm guarded and this makes me feel a bit uneasy. I also am kinda paranoid about narcissists and I'm not going to be here to inflate his ego if that's what's he's looking for... But I'm not necessarily picking up on that yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:29 PM
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I think that's great advice. I'm not sure I want a serious relationship at the moment so hopefully that will keep my mind sharp :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:25 PM
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He mentioned he had a bit of a crush on me for a while, but seems like it could be putting pressure on things...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:23 PM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:21 PM
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He texted this to me the night after our first date: I... am speechless. I honestly don't know how to describe what happened tonight - words don't do it justice. My heart is like melted all over the place and it's been literally decades since I've felt anything like this. If I died tonight I would be forever happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:47 PM
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I totally agree and I've been burned by love bombing before. My ex was a complete narcissist and now I'm dead set on not being tricked again. I've read and learned so much but I feel a bit paranoid about it. He seemed genuinely sweet, but maybe needy. I'm not interested in needy either, but if that ends up being the case, at least I'm not the hurt one? Maybe? IDK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:52 PM
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Thank you! He has yet to do that :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:43 PM
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I was married to an abusive man, we are officially divorced. I'm in therapy and I feel like I'm in a good place, but I don't want to move fast into anything yet. He is a coworker and he's been divorced a lot longer than me. We work for the same corporation, but for different companies within the corporation. I mostly work remotely and I haven't seen him in the office in years. We used to have the same job 8 years ago, which is when we were married and I knew him. I always thought he was cute, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:42 PM
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It's happened several times with people from work. will be traveling for work and then I'll ask me to come up to their hotel room for pizza or something. It's very unclear to me what their intentions are so I don't go. Once I went out with some people from work who are much higher up in the ranks. One executive got in my Uber when I was trying to go home. He said let's just get one more drink I know a good place. We get to the place and it's his hotel. he has wine bottles with him from earlier a…
/r/seduction16/10/19 12:34 AM
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I've been in both situations: when you're looking for an excuse to go back to someone's place when you really have to use the bathroom or whatever and that's the only option and now you're kinda stuck. Some girls will have sex because they feel too bad to say no, they don't want to be rude, they feel like they have you the wrong impression and now they are stuck. I would imagine that most people/guys can tell the difference between the two. Some guys don't care. But it seems a lot better to me t…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:36 PM
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The last time I went to a sports bar I was out of town for work and not really looking to talk to a guy. But I'm an extrovert and the guy next to me started talking so we chatted for a little. I was polite but I wasn't interested in hooking up with someone from out of town and I wasn't really into him anyways. So I paid for my food and drink, (he offer to buy me a drink and I declined) and said goodbye and left him at the sports bar. About 15 minutes later he runs up behind me and proceeds to te…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:27 PM
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Sorry, I what I meant was I didn't want to get picked on or sent dick pics by guys in general, not just you. I'm interested in learning how to be a good seducer so I thought it might be fun to talk to a guy who also was interested and hear about their experiences. I have a lot of girl friends, but almost all of them are married with babies. I probably need more friends, but I love the friends I do have. I used to always be friends with more guys than girls but I've lost touch with most of them d…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:10 PM
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I hate it when guys try to trick me to going to their place and then make you feel trapped. It's so obvious too, except when it's not obvious it's actually worse. This is exactly why dating is scary for women and why we can get so defensive. It's a super creepy move.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:56 AM
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I guess you are the coach/protector of guys to keep them away from terrible me. I don't think I was being dishonest at all and I actually didn't get dmed much at all. no need to pick on me or send me a duck pic. I really just enjoy talking to people in a safe place and don't know where I can do that without being a predator I guess. But I'm sorry if I broke the rules, I'm kinda new to Reddit but it seems like people don't like me. I'll work on the neediness/loneliness and how that comes across.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:47 AM
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Ouch 😕
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:46 AM
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