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Context my bf is 41 I’m 25, while we met by coincidence, we’re dating because he’s smart, confident, gracious, intelligent, funny and hot. Confidence is key to the rest. Be confident in who you are. With that being said you’ll have to put yourself out there eventually. Join networking circles, take a look at your wardrobe and your figure. Improve what you feel comfortable improving and attend outings.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:55 PM
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Find a celebrity who’s body shape matches yours, then from that list find one with the style you want. If you have social media see if you can find blogs dedicated to them and pull photos for inspiration. Jot down that body type and type into Google styling tips for (insert body type here) Try to go to a very large thrift store and experiment with $50. Try to find things on your own that match these styling tips, with respect to your personal fitting preferences (loose v fitted) Many stores have…
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:48 PM
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This is an amazing comment!!!!!
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:43 PM
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Woman here, same story. On and off relationships, went tot he gym but never took it seriously, finally took it seriously and my 25 yo growth spurt kicked in. My body shape changed, my skin cleared up, and I found a style that I love. My best advice is to protect your peace and remind yourself that you’re feeling and looking good. I do this by wearing clothes that make me feel good at the gym, taking care of my body (gym, diet, good sleep), and taking time out for my hobbies. It makes me feel con…
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:43 PM
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Short Answer No, people who care about you or are interested will respond. Tip: this person might text you one day apologizing or wanting to show interest. Stand your ground and don’t interact on that level again. Set boundaries for yourself that match your standards. It will be hard for you to discern other people not valuing your time when you don’t do it yourself.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:36 PM
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Please see my last comment which agrees with your statement. Finding someone like him doesn’t mean they have the same job. The original argument was he was meeting women without the same “vision” that’s what I’m referring to. I agree with your sentiment. Also the point that’s constantly being missed here, is everyone is joyfully ignoring the parts of the relationship that are still his responsibility like quality time and intimacy. Those responsibilities cannot be replaced by dating a traditiona…
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:53 AM
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We can keep going all day, but my advice to the previous commenter is almost the same to you. Be realistic and find someone as vacant as you, who will understand your lifestyle. Being in a relationship will be 10x easier. Find the difference.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:05 PM
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A) “A man working hard is a true commitment to her and his family” that is true. You are also ignoring the responsibility as a partner/husband in a relationship. A man’s value is not how much comes into his bank account, or how many peers he outperforms. This statement perpetuates what kills men everyday, that their wallet and career are their value. Men are emotional beings too. Men who just work hard and make money aren’t aware of how relationships truly work. I asked for a husband, not anothe…
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:59 PM
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No problem. And this world is big enough for you to find someone. There are countless badass women running companies and “grinding” everyday. You’ll likely find someone a lot like you who understands the position you’re in. And that will make a relationship for you 10x easier!
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:37 PM
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I’m responding to this in a way this person would understand best. But I can switch the tone if that would be easier for you. A) Most women wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where they don’t feel prioritized, or don’t sense a true commitment from their partner. By that I mean more than just one planned date a week, and “some downtime”. They want someone who has a good work/life balance. You can feel like a burden sometimes when you’re constantly “in the way” of your partners professional lif…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:33 PM
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I think that’s meets that 30% as well. Just don’t expect or go after women that this clearly isn’t enough for. If you’re going to perform at this 30% in a relationship do not expect, A) a lot of options (because 90% of women won’t be interested in this) B) that this will be sufficient for the remainder of your relationship. At some point you have to be willing to step to the plate. This 30% is the bare minimum and women know that. A relationship is more than downtime and one planned date a week.…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:03 PM
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May I challenge this statement? Don’t look for a girlfriend when you don’t have the time to show effort in a relationship. A relationship is a commitment and if you cannot at least make time for the person you’re with, they have absolutely no incentive to want to stay. If you dated someone and they never spent time with you, or didn’t plan things and prioritize you at least 30% you’d assume they weren’t interested and leave. Being a professional means understanding a concept as simple as time ma…
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:21 PM
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Two things either you’re not in the 7-10 range (because 8-9s will date a 7 heck even a 6 if he offers stability aka nice car, own home/apt and good job) or your cold approach isn’t working. Do: Keep working on yourself and build habits and routines that keep you looking good and help develop characteristics like discipline and good work ethic. Going to the gym isn’t the only thing that makes you look good. Build a decent skincare routine if you don’t have one, and good style if you don’t have on…
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:45 PM
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And if he does I’ll leave again. Compromising my standards are non negotiable. And if all men are this way, I will gladly stay single for the rest of my life. Being in a relationship isn’t the end all be all, prioritizing myself is. I think that’s what you missed in my post.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:13 AM
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I am 25f in a loving relationship. I’m in a relationship because I learned to value myself first, and really taking standards and boundaries seriously. I broke up with someone who was unfaithful strictly because he didn’t meet my standard to be loved and respected in a monogamous relationship. I say that because while I loved him, cared for him and he was perfect in EVERY other aspect of our relationship, being unfaithful was the sole reason I broke up with him. This might not work for everyone …
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:44 PM
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Tbh JC was one of the ones I recommend, check out West Nee York, And Bayonne. Bayonne is really expensive. If you’re looking to live near NYC try Queens. Queens, NY is really affordable and only 30 minutes from the city. Stay away from Long Island City and Astoria (extremely expensive)
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:06 AM
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Tbh move to NJ! Stay in the parts closest to the city you can find good spots for social life and still make it to the city and have friends there you can bunk with on drunk nights. And rent is more affordable!
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:39 AM
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Mens (based on my Man) Creed’s -Spice and Wood, -Royal Oud -Green Tweed Womens (based on mine) -Versace Bright Crystal -Chloe signature -Valentino Voce Viva -Rihanna’s Fenty —Honorable mention MMK 450 Baccarat Rouge a dupe for this scent is Ariana Grande’s cloud it’s almost 1/10 of the price. Tiffany and Co has a his and hers scent, it would be a cute gift for the person in your life this likes a layering but fresh scent. Fragrance tip: keep a note of the ones you like and look up the “notes”, t…
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:46 PM
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