findmeinlittlespace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	r/GenderCynical is a sub I can get behind. Thank you for posting this!	/r/MensRights	22/03/20 05:38 PM
1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Alright, deal. I'm not angry it just sounded like you were talking about me personally and this whole time I really have just been trying to help OP. But it did sound that way originally, so I'm just going to leave it there and be on my way. Edit: thank you for your edit and acknowledging what could be the problem. I was just trying to do the same.	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 01:19 PM
1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Because I didn't understand and because honestly some people on here post trash. I don't actually think that's what MR is about or I wouldn't be here trying to help. I "got there" by being sexually assaulted. I was merely trying to explain why you guys might be having trouble approaching these things with your wives and attempting to explain so there might be understanding (especially if she has sexual trauma). I didn't say it made sense, it's just what I think happens. It is very easy to feel s…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 01:14 PM
0	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. He tried one time. I suggested he try again. Wow. You didn't read what I said at all. I'm not excusing her behavior, I was trying to help explain it to help GAIN SOME UNDERSTANDING so that OP might be able to try again with better results. Sure if she continues its a real reason to leave. Did you read any of the rest of the thread? I basically agree with you and I even said sorry to OP that she reacted this way. Thanks for reiterating my point I guess. Wow suggest some real communication and hel…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 12:55 PM
2	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. That's funny because another comment I made today (if you had looked at my profile) was that neither gender will ever understand what it is like to be the other and we both have to get over it. I never said I belong, I was genuinely trying to help this guy which is a hell of a lot more than you did. But if you want to chase off the only women willing to talk through this issue with your terrible jokes be my guest. You have a good day too I guess?	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 05:42 AM
4	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. If being called an asshole makes you cry then you shouldn't make jokes that make you look like an asshole. But you are correct, I forgot I called you an asshole. You can "throw out" this conversation. Edit: Actually I didn't call you specifically an asshole, I said "assholes who say shit like this". You just implied it. Edit 2: Also if the joke was so obvious, it wouldn't have bothered me and you don't get to decide how other people interpret what you shitpost online. Making whatever jokes you w…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 04:41 AM
2	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Cool. I'm glad we understand each other. One of the things that helped me and my husband was not viewing conversations as having a winner and a loser. Now it focuses more on finding understanding, and there is a lot less hurt feelings. Good talk! (Serious not a joke just to clarify) I am usually terrified to post here but this went pretty well lol.	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 04:31 AM
1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Yes but if you are irritated by that then you can't act the same. I agree, in general people have just been repeating shit for a while whether or not they understand it on every side. The best way to lead is by example. Show them what it means to listen to others and be respectful. If it didn't come off that way, I feel that you and OP could be able to find the middle ground with your wives because you can be respectful and have reasonable arguments. As long as both people are willing to see rea…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 04:11 AM
1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. I don't fully agree with this, but all I'm going to say is if we want anything to change on either side we need to stop describing each other as enemies. You can't create unity by creating more division. Aside from that, this is sort of what worked for me and my husband. It all depends on approach. I was much more willing to communicate positively when he did as well. We have a system. When I do something he disagrees with (or vice versa) we wait until the situation has diffused to talk, or we q…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 03:58 AM
4	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. I said your response was petty trash, not you. And whatever else you post, this post was not supportive of anyone. You cant expect everyone to know you are joking especially with such touchy issues. It wasn't helpful.	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 03:58 AM
4	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. As a wife who is genuinely trying to learn my husband's point of view, I started where your wife is. I didn't react quite as intensely as your wife, and he and I often have rough conversations that we still don't always agree on. I'm really sorry your wife reacted this way, and I appreciate your willingness to try and be sensitive to her trauma. Women who have sexual trauma (I do as well) I think have a knee-jerk reaction of absolute terror when we feel like a man around us (especially our husba…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 03:37 AM
12	What makes a woman to be devoted to Men's rights and not to Feminism? I have been following MR a little because my husband is passionate. We vehemently disagree on certain specific things but for the most part we want the same things. I want to try and see it from his perspective as best I can. To be honest though, there are still plenty of posts even on this subreddit that I think are just...petty. Even so, I read. I learn. There is an attempt. We still argue but we try to make it productive. It doesn't feel fair, but he feels the same way and I love him so I try…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 02:25 AM