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I guess I'm coming from a different space right now. Basically I've been "gaming" since 2006 and I've come such a long way that any of those points you made seem incredibly basic. ie: I don't even need to think about any stuff like that anymore because my natural game is so tight that literally thinking (ok now I have to neg, oh shit I should venue change) all the old pua stuff isn't even needed. I can almost do anything I want to do and it works because my inner game is so tight. Reading this g…
/r/seduction10/09/10 08:03 PM
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I'm not trying to reinforce any self-limiting beliefs. I'm not a model and I have a regular job and recently I've been dating three different girls at the same time (sexual relationships) and I've dated > 10 different girls this year (all sexual relationships) so it's not like I'm coming from a needy, insecure position here. I just think that a FR like this isn't really very useful. An insecure guy who needs help getting laid isn't going to read this and derive anything useful from it because it…
/r/seduction10/09/10 06:50 PM
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There isn't really much to learn here, very a-typical situation which is never going to happen to the average guy. Girls on vacation always act differently, plus apparently the OP is a model and wealthy and living in Japan.. I'd be more interested in a FR from a regular guy with a regular job getting a threesome in NYC or LA. Also OP, don't rely too heavily on standard routines and lines from books, you sound a little bit like a social-robot. It's a substitute for a real personality.
/r/seduction10/09/10 04:35 PM
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If you want to find English speaking girls I would recommend going to the bar "The Long Hop", it's very close to the metro stop "Maubert Mutualite". I used to live in Paris and I went sarging there a lot, I made friends with the owner so I would get let in whenever it was busy, plus I got free drinks which definitely was a big demonstration of higher value. I also met a lot of hotties there :)
/r/seduction24/08/10 01:19 PM
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Err yes, my life is completely different from before I ever read "The Game". When I was 23 I read the game. I had previously slept with 3 different girls in my life. Three years later that number is now 28 (I think, it may be 29). I have bags more confidence than I ever did before, I feel happier in my day to day life, I'm doing more random non-work activities, I have more friends, I'm fitter, eat healthier. Reading "The Game" then further self improvement material pushed me to improve in so man…
/r/seduction11/08/10 07:55 PM
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I obviously know I'm not perfect Sublomino :) Also, I would disagree that every woman has the potential to be smart and hot. If you took a woman with a hunchback, bald head, and missing teeth, then most probably she's never going to be "hot". My issue probably stems from the fact that I live in NYC and there are a lot of actual models around, so I get used to seeing super hot girls all the time (ie: 10s). Therefore, when I date a girl who's say an 8, in my mind I'm thinking that she isn't that h…
/r/seduction11/08/10 05:05 PM
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This is actually a great idea, thanks :)
/r/seduction10/08/10 09:04 PM
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I'm not sure why you had to post something with such an obvious negative slant. r/seduction isn't a place for putting other people down, it's for people in this community to help each other. And for the record, yes there are plenty of smart/hot girls who are in my friendship group, however, I have a policy of not hitting on people in my social circle mainly because it often results in drama.
/r/seduction10/08/10 05:06 PM
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I just had a thought, I wonder about taking some part time (evening) classes at a school in the city and using that as a method of meeting hot students?
/r/seduction10/08/10 04:18 PM
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Exactly this, some guys read the PUA literature and then suddenly start thinking that everything a girl says is a test. Get this, 99% of the time it's not. Especially if she's actually your girlfriend. When you get so cerebral and thinking too much, this affects your game badly. It's better to work on your general confidence and inner game so that you no longer have to think about anything and then it doesn't matter what you say because you will be projecting the image a calm, cool, confident gu…
/r/seduction24/02/10 07:48 PM
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The point of the first few days was to make you feel bad about yourself yet still go out and interact with people. Then when you finally get to wash, shower, shave etc and wear nice clothes you will feel extra confident and know that you managed to interact while feeling shitty so it should be extra easy now..
/r/seduction24/02/10 07:35 PM
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Err I don't get it..
/r/seduction22/02/10 01:25 AM
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Wow. I feel like I've just been abused.
/r/seduction21/02/10 09:41 PM
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This is a test to see how strong your frame is. Either ignore it or change the subject. Give a goofy answer that's funny but makes no sense. If you try and answer the question logically you're digging yourself into a hole and also being pulled into their reality. Stay strong and just blow it off. Suck them into your own frame.
/r/seduction12/02/10 04:27 PM
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Basically my plan is to go the RSD super-conference this Summer in Las Vegas and a few weeks before that to do a bootcamp. So i'll have two awesome experiences in close proximity to each other to really drive me forward to a new level. Until then I've committed to going out a lot more, going on a lot more dates, really studying all the various literature in more detail. So by the time I do the bootcamp I'll be really on point.
/r/seduction11/02/10 05:44 PM
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Nice story. My issue is not really anything to do with confidence or not knowing what to say.. it's more about energy levels and my friends. I live in NYC and have a bunch of guy friends and girl friends who are always going out. I go out with them, we have an awesome time and often all get drunk. We always all hang out as a group and I never really bother going and hitting on randoms. Partly because I love my friends and think they might not be cool with me ditching them, partly just because it…
/r/seduction11/02/10 04:42 PM
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Again you're assuming that all a girl cares about is money. It's not true, girls are emotional creatures. If you can affect their emotions more powerfully than the other guy, you will get the girl, regardless of money. Watch the Blueprint by Tyler Durden and re-educate yourself.
/r/seduction11/02/10 04:35 PM
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You need to remember that getting laid has nothing to do with looks or money, that has been shown again and again and again.
/r/seduction11/02/10 04:33 PM
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Definitely seconded, going to the gym regularly gives you two major boosts, one is it makes you have more energy in your day to day life, having a high energy level helps a great deal when you're out sarging. Also, improving how your body looks helps a great deal with your confidence and inner game. It also gives you one less thing to worry about.
/r/seduction11/02/10 04:29 PM
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A question for you, why are you taking so many boot camps? Are you finding it hard to carry on going out and making a lot of approaches after finishing the boot camp? It seems to me that they are a good kick start into forcing you to get into the mode of not giving a shit and just starting as many interactions as you can.
/r/seduction11/02/10 03:57 PM
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How has your state/game been since the bootcamp? More confident? More energy?
/r/seduction10/02/10 06:27 PM
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I just joined RsdNation today and am going to spend a bunch of time this evening reading the forums, checking out their material and so on. From my preliminary examination of the site and material, they do seem quite professional.
/r/seduction10/02/10 05:50 PM
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No way.
/r/seduction17/12/09 02:58 AM
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Well if you spouted a huge speech like that at me, it would be worthy of an IOI and it would be earned so instead of being a DLV it would actually be improving our comfort level.
/r/seduction17/12/09 02:38 AM
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I'd totally give you an IOI.
/r/seduction17/12/09 02:34 AM
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The only canned game is the initial set of lines and routines newbies use to give them some confidence in their initial sarges. Any real PUA will have stopped using that shit years ago. I know I don't use any of that now, if I use a line or routine, it's one I came up with myself and as such would sound completely natural.
/r/seduction17/12/09 01:57 AM
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Upvote for Marvin Gaye: 'war is not the answer'
/r/seduction16/12/09 11:40 PM
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I get the impression that women see biased articles which describe negging as "insulting women to bring their confidence down" and think this is what PUA is about. PUA for me is a never-ending journey, trying to better understand people and psychology in general. I've read so many different books because of this community and it's led to me being more aware of other people, more confident, more sociable and more socially intelligent in general. When I hear people just describing it as low-lifes …
/r/seduction16/12/09 11:23 PM
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I totally agree in fact. I've been working on myself for years since reading "The Game" in 2005 and i'm a totally different person. I disagree with the article though, not every hot girl is a bitch. Of course there are some crazy girls out there, but if you're an alpha guy who knows his stuff, why would you want to be with a crazy hot bitch when you could be with a well-balanced and awesome hot bitch?
/r/seduction10/12/09 09:13 PM
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The writer sounds like an asshole.
/r/seduction10/12/09 12:17 AM
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and then I forgot and went on vacation.
/r/seduction30/07/09 08:41 PM
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Yeah. I got swine flu.
/r/seduction30/07/09 08:41 PM
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I totally agree too, i'll post an introduction later today :)
/r/seduction03/07/09 03:37 PM
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The bartenders response was firstly laughter about the whole subject and then incredulity that a female version existed.
/r/seduction03/07/09 02:58 PM
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is that your tip for picking up girls, or your tip for making this reddit better?
/r/seduction02/07/09 09:53 PM
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I didn't admit i'd been blue-balled recently, just that i'd experienced it before. Anyway, that part of the opener is non-essential, the reason this opener works well is because it's honestly a funny topic. The major point of this opener is the revelation that an female version exists and the rest of the opener is just build up to that revelation. A more trimmed down version would be: "Hey guys, me and some friends were just having a debate about blue-balls, and whether it actually existed or wh…
/r/seduction02/07/09 09:51 PM
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Hey Ask Seduction Reddit, So I joined Reddit today after (lurking a long time) seeing so many topics I wanted to reply to. I live in NYC and have been studying and applying pua/seduction techniques to my life since about 2006. I've also started recently blogging about what i've learned and sharing advice and tips here ( finebushlane.blogspot.com/ ) I totally agree with what postdarwin said in his post above. The most important part of seduction for me, is actually finding girls worth picking up.…
/r/seduction30/06/09 08:33 PM
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