finemustard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I respond to this last minute date cancellation? You in Hamilton?	/r/seduction	28/08/19 02:02 AM
2	What's your protocol when a girl shows interest but you find out she has previously slept with your friend? You become Eskimo brothers and your friendship attains new heights. If it's done between your friend and her who cares? If you're really worried, tell him what's up and see where he stands.	/r/seduction	28/02/19 01:16 AM
1	Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing? At least you're honest.	/r/seduction	08/02/19 01:39 PM
15	Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing? Nah, they make moves sometimes. I'm pretty garbage with women and generally suck at approaching and escalating and even I've had women basically drag my oblivious ass into seeing what's up.	/r/seduction	06/02/19 04:56 PM
1	Do you let your girlfriend go clubbing with her girlfriends? Wait, what's his greatest trick?	/r/seduction	01/02/19 11:05 PM
1	Is it possible to be better looking than you think and not know it I'm certainly better looking than I think, but what do I know?	/r/seduction	24/01/19 07:34 PM
2	I lied about my age and now in trouble I actually know a guy who this happened to - he was 22 saying he was 18, she was 16 saying she was 18. Luckily the age of consent where I'm from is 16, but he did not live that one down.	/r/seduction	08/12/18 05:47 PM
1	Seduction is making me depressed. Here are a few that have caught my interest, some of which I've pursued, others I haven't but would like to. Some are more social than others Drawing Fishing Hiking/Camping (more long trail/backcountry style, bring some friends) Wood carving/wood working Biking Knitting Yoga Basic car maintenance Shooting/hunting (Join a club) Programming Sailing/rowing (try finding a local club so you don't have to buy your own boat, most clubs are very social with lots of drinking if that's what you're into) D…	/r/seduction	06/12/18 12:13 PM
1	Could Tinder dating be considered a hobby? It's definitely not what I think of as a traditional hobby but if you find it to be a nice way to while away the time don't worry about whether or not it fits the definition. I think of most hobbies as requiring some manual or technical skill whereas Tinder/dating in general is a social skill. Either way, you do yo.	/r/seduction	03/12/18 09:22 PM
2	Why is one of my friends getting so much attention immediately at the party... Portuguese and Italian are both romance languages, so if you know one it's very easy to pick up another. When I was in Spain I met a group of Italians and Spanish folk who were able to understand each other pretty easily, and me knowing French allowed me to follow the general gist of the conversation. I don't really have any advice, but i don't think he was lying about not knowing the language, he just has a really solid base on which to learn it.	/r/seduction	26/11/18 07:09 PM
16	How To Be Cool (in a woman's eyes, at least ;) ) Have an upvote for confidently owning your love of Nickelback.	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:20 PM
1	Something I just witnessed that made me think my country is fucked up. Yup, exactly.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 05:07 PM
13	Something I just witnessed that made me think my country is fucked up. Nobody 'makes' you feel anything. You are in control of how you react to situations and it's quite possibly the only thing in the world you really have any control over at all. I'm certainly no seduction pro but step 1 is to stop feeling sorry for yourself and blaming women for your problems. Once you own your issues you can start working them.	/r/seduction	15/08/18 10:29 AM
2	Sex is not the prize you think it is. Many people through-hike the AT, and even more do sections of it. It's one of the most well known trails in North America.	/r/seduction	17/01/18 09:01 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? If you really want to know, read 'Daring Greatly' by Brene Brown. That book is where all of this vulnerability talk came from. Or watch her TED talk.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:25 PM
3	Does anyone have a getting girls system? If so let me hear it ! Take them on a boat because of the implications.	/r/seduction	27/08/17 04:44 PM
4	THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit. You're not being racist at all - from a white person. Moshing isn't something all white people do, it's more of a thing to do at hardcore punk/rock/metal shows than E.D.M shows. It's a part of subcultures that perceive themselves as being tough and not caring about pain, and it's also a way to release stress by hitting and smashing into people without repercussion so long as you abide by informal mosh rules. Many non-white people mosh, but it is a predominantly white thing to do. As to why peopl…	/r/seduction	21/07/17 12:36 AM
4	How psychopaths deal with rejection The sidebar over on /r/meditation is a helpful resource if you're interested. But be warned, it can be a little hippy-dippy in the rest of the sub.	/r/seduction	07/02/17 02:54 AM
13	How psychopaths deal with rejection You can actually reduce the physical size of the amygdala and its connectivity to the rest of the brain using meditation. There's solid evidence of this using fMRI and tons of studies have been done on its effectiveness. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3485650/ https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/guest-blog/what-does-mindfulness-meditation-do-to-your-brain/ http://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2012/11/meditations-positive-residual-effects/	/r/seduction	07/02/17 12:09 AM
9	Anyone tell me why women are typically alot less nervous in the attraction phase between a girl and a guy? Are they really just better at controlling their emotions than men or is there something more involved? These are just number for demonstration, but it's probably because 5% of men are doing 95% of the approaching.	/r/seduction	26/01/17 05:31 PM
3	What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom? It doesn't imply anything, it's just a lighthearted joke. I say this sometimes to friends who are doing something inconsequential that obviously won't require any luck.	/r/seduction	26/01/17 12:18 AM
2	How to kill it on a date Why not? Every scar's got a story behind it.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 05:09 PM
1	Checking in on socially awkward/low prospect guys.. how did the year with women go? What steps did you take to turn things around for yourself?	/r/seduction	01/01/17 05:26 PM
3	School: Present Yourself As More Attractive If it takes a week to recover, that's fine. The next time it might only take six days. Over time, you might even have trouble getting sore at all. That soreness is good damage being done to your muscles, with your muscles growing larger and stronger as they repair themselves. An old home push-up routine I used to do was do as many push ups as I could, up to 25, then rest for 30 seconds to a minute. Repeat three more times. In about two months I was able to do four sets of 25.	/r/seduction	21/12/16 03:18 PM
11	Why relaxation is important in developing your relationships with women and how to do it Another good resource is the /r/meditation sidebar. And for the skeptics out there, there are scientific studies (many of which are cited in the aforementioned sidebar) backing up the effectiveness of meditation for increased focus, promoting growth of grey matter in the brain, and relaxation, among other things. It can also be a completely secular practice that involves no incense, mantras, spiritual/moral beliefs, or any of the other stereotypes you may harbour. I've been meditating for about …	/r/seduction	06/12/16 07:39 PM
5	How to Just Not Care? Also check out /r/Stoicism	/r/seduction	01/06/16 02:29 AM
2	Shortest you've known a girl before sex 3-4 hours at a bar. She was a friend of a friend. I didn't pay for anything. I'm usually shite at picking up girls, so unfortunately I have no idea where I went right.	/r/seduction	30/03/16 11:00 PM
1	Went out alone tonight. Nothing happened, but it feels good. I think it's a blend of both - Most guys are probably pretty proud of overcoming a big fear of their life for the first time and they want to tell people which I think is understandable, if a little self-serving. At the same time, I think it helps those of us who haven't crossed that threshold yet by saying "Look! I was just like you less than 24 hours ago, and now I think I can do it, and so can you." Having these peppered throughout the sub serve as little boosters for the total newbs such as …	/r/seduction	05/03/16 08:30 PM
2	The Elephant In Your Head: How To Snap Out Of An Anxious Mood Good advice. What you resist will persist.	/r/seduction	03/03/16 07:14 PM
3	You were never really attracted to her, it was just validation. It means that you are receiving an ego boost from the fact that someone likes you, and only because that person likes you. It's not always a bad thing, for example it's probably good to feel some validation from your friends and family because you are probably reciprocating and it's a mutual exchange of platonic love, but to spend time with someone for the single reason that they make you feel good, and they only make you feel good because you know they like you, is not a healthy form of relatio…	/r/seduction	01/03/16 04:26 PM
2	Have u guys ever said some dumb ass shit. I'm assuming OP's in high school and kids in high school are dopes by definition. That's why.	/r/seduction	13/02/16 03:06 AM
4	Have u guys ever said some dumb ass shit. As the saying goes "You'll worry less about what people think about you when you realise how seldom they do".	/r/seduction	13/02/16 03:04 AM
1	Beta shit i used to say/text girls before i learned about PUA/Seduction Just to riff on this, today I was working on a group project with a couple of good looking girls and my mom texted me a few times in a row. One asked "Who is that, your girlfriend?" to which I should have replied "Yeah, one of them", or something along those lines. Instead I didn't think quickly enough and just said it was my mom.	/r/seduction	12/02/16 08:36 PM
1	Girls think I'm cute, and some have called me "super cute". But how do I go from being "cute" to "hot"? This is the only right answer.	/r/seduction	12/02/16 08:31 PM
2	You hear about being brash gets results, but i've gotten mine acting disinterested - can anyone explain? Good banter and playfulness is what I'm trying to work on and it's so important. When I think back on great interactions I've had with women, it usually involves some sort of fun, back and forth teasing game. And I'd say both men and women love banter. It shows intelligence, wit, and a sense of humour which are all attractive qualities to have in a person.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 08:29 PM
2	Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck! Yeah, it's more like that. Imagine you're balancing a stack of books on your head as you pull it back.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 08:17 PM
1	Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck! I've had similar exercises prescribed to me by a physiotherapist. The chin tuck means that as you move your head back there should be no change in the angle of your head, as in no tilting up or down. The chin should tuck naturally.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 07:42 PM
4	Eyes The internet doesn't convey tone well. I meant you gave a remarkably detailed and professional answer that was completely unexpected in this context and basically shut down OP's suggestion that 'wide eyes' could at all be beneficial for seduction. Apologies if you thought I was taking a shot at you.	/r/seduction	07/02/16 05:39 AM
10	Eyes Upvote for going nuclear on OP.	/r/seduction	07/02/16 05:03 AM
1	Anyone else feel like good looking brunettes are fairly uncommon in the United States? Dude, there are over 330 000 000 people in the U.S. There's gotta be a few good looking brunettes.	/r/seduction	06/02/16 12:30 AM
10	Let's talk kino Girl, you got legs like tree trunks!	/r/seduction	08/01/16 10:01 PM
17	Let's talk kino What? Who puts ammunition in a bank? "Ammo for the cum gun" works a little better IMHO.	/r/seduction	08/01/16 10:00 PM
7	Successful Night Game - What I have learnt in 1 year Bingo.	/r/seduction	03/12/15 11:24 PM
1	How to stop living in my head? /r/meditation - Read the FAQ. And there are more benefits to meditation than being able to live in the present moment such as improved memory, a reduction in anxiety, better social awareness, and a bunch of other good stuff.	/r/seduction	27/11/15 05:05 AM
1	Just a little note on texting game Thanks, this is reassuring. I can't stand texting, including friends and family, for anything more than basic information. If I want to talk, I'll call or meet up in person. I often take hours to get back to people who text, usually under the assumption that if it were really important, they'd call. So it's nice to know that my sloppy texting habits might actually be a benefit. Of course, I'd put in a little more effort for a girl I cared about.	/r/seduction	22/11/15 01:54 AM