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Deja vu, but I really like "asexual goofball" and I'd love it to stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:09 PM
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Well, I had a post that was autoblocked that I'll reuse here: Please stop letting the specific women here define the entire gender (<- was the title) If all I knew about women were the ones on PPD, I'd make it my life's work to kill us all in nuclear fire just so these creatures never spread. Is it any wonder women look like this to you if those specific ones are the ones who carry the banner for their half of us? By definition, these specific ones are the type of person that comes here. And tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:09 PM
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So. Highly. Extremely. Tremendously. Fucking. Much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:13 PM
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I'm the brown man, genius. You'll see me in the middle of a spiral doing ~violent man~ stuff and "ACAB" will leave your hollow, masturbatory nightmare of a head faster than my brains leave mine by the time they're there. Though it'll still leave mine slightly fuller than yours. Thank fuck I'm not wherever it is that you're doing this LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:44 PM
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QED. Aren't we all glad you weren't subjected to my ~unsafe vibes~ face-to-face. You, me, and my very swarthy ribcage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:25 PM
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Yes, you do. "Basic human rights" is three actual words that refer to things, not cute word art you hang on the walls of your ego. One day, you'll see a brown man with ~unsafe vibes~, you'll have ICE on his ribcage within the half-hour, and you'll decide you were ~protecting your peace~. So it always goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:02 PM
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moms basement totally feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:27 PM
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Yes. Yes, you are supposed to care about the Bad People, the rapists, the criminals, the deadbeats and the bums. Me too, and they about us. If caring is so hard that you're scrambling for excuses not to, the fascists already have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:42 AM
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The opposite. "Toxic/fragile masculinity" is an intentionally shitty term for a legit concept: precarious masculinity, the social and emotional prison to Be a Real Man or else. What the "check your ~toxic masculinity~💅" people did is to take the language of toxic masculinity, cross out "pussy," scribble in "manchild" and do absolutely nothing else. And then no introspection whatsoever, because if you disagree, well, that's also because you're a whiny failure in a perfectly fine system. Get one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:59 AM
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Now here's the punchline: I was diagnosed with autism...by psychiatrists, who could never be fucked to figure out it was actually CPTSD fawning all along, because my spirals were "autistic meltdowns," my reserves about that was "delusions of persecution" and my anger about that were also "delusions of persecution." Which the abusers who had me fawning eagerly integrated into the gaslighting about my "defects." And now I'm a 32-year-old homeless man who never worked a job. Don't get me started on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:11 PM
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Now here's the punchline: I was diagnosed with autism...by psychiatrists, who couldn't be fucked to figure out it was CPTSD fawning all along. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:05 PM
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And I haven't been able to understand why. whining Maybe you're just a piece of shit 💕✨
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:46 PM
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I ✨believed women✨ who said the same shit my extremely unfeminist male abusers said, corroborating that they were all correct from the start, earning me full-on CPTSD and a cycle of self-blaming for my whiny baby entitlement -> losing more boundaries -> being treated even worse, culminating in extortion, poverty, family tragedies and homelessness. The only reason I haven't killed myself at 31 is because ✨A Woman✨ (actually a girlmoding enby) fucked me, thereby making me one of the ✨good ones✨ wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:26 AM
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It's that the people who steer The Discourse™ are mediocre gentrificore white women. Whose markers of Proper Respectable Personhood are all those of a mediocre gentrificore white woman, and whose idea of a Proper Respectable Human Being is a mediocre gentrificore white woman who waves her Male Tears✨ mug at the immigrant waiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:05 AM
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The problem isn't feminism, it's that you're a bunch of female Male Feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:59 AM
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Most men's lives don't suck. u slash alwayswhite0
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:22 PM
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"Stable people" are privileged fucks and the opposite of grounded. You "respectable people" will live out your entire lives, birth to death, doing less emotional regulation than I do in a week. Fuck 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:34 PM
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Relevant: Truth be told, back when I cared, what kept me so desperate to date women was the adamant throughline that women didn't fuck Bad Men, and that fucking women would make me a good person. Turns out, it's simply that cishet women are extremely fucking inclined to perpetuate the worst patriarchal nonsense – here "loser virgin" and "women are wonderful" – repackaged as cool and feminist. Yes, Meighleighheigh, I'm sure it's for mysterious, unknowable kweenly reasons that bi men give you the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:21 PM
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These comments are fantastic to read if you were a sensitive boy whose emotions were consistently gaslit, deemed "tantrums"/"hysterical"/"crazy" and followed by violence. Women are wonderful✨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:19 PM
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Reusing from below: Contempt for femininity was never defeated, just moved to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:00 PM
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I wasn't asking rhetorically. Has it happened lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:06 PM
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But not you. You're one of the good, proper, respectable ones, completely effortlessly, with absolutely no self-reflection required on your part. Completely unlike the Bad Men who do rape and crime and drugs instead of ✨therapy✨. Fancy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:03 PM
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Patriarchy, I'm realising, is a gender ternary. There are women, men, and failed men (or "non-men" as a certain post puts it), and yes, women are complicit in perpetuating this ternary. The mainstreaming of feminism didn't mean women were immediately freed from internalised misogyny like it was mind-control collars (let alone the middle-class white ones leading the movement). Contempt for femininity was never defeated, just moved to men. Except since "feminism" was a cool word now, we decided th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:50 PM
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...do you think men are white?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:47 PM
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No, I think their comment is valid, and you shouldn't #notallmen it. When was the last time you (or one of you) disapproved of a man's emotions or behaviour without deciding him whiny, a loser, unfucked, small-dicked, "a dangerous idiot" (see above) or some other variety of "failed man?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:45 PM
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you're a dangerous idiot with the emotional intelligence of a child. Cool. I suppose fancy shit like "trauma" and "self-harm" is when an #aesthetic young white woman cuts herself to sad music.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:38 PM
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Pathologising emotions is already a politically fuzzy concept without the dual context of your (edit: general your) personal comfort and of "correct" non-unmanly emotions. What are male emotions you'd disapprove of that wouldn't also be whiny, crazy, irrational or otherwise invalid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:32 PM
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gestures vaguely at everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:28 PM
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Oh, you better believe this sensitive fat boy also hated himself. Anyway, I still don't fuck, because bi men are an ick. Which is how I realised you people were more interested in a Cool Person Club membership card than in actually doing any feminism. Well, after my twenties spent believing and suicidally hating myself for being a Bad Man who doesn't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:25 PM
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Standard-issue 2000s teen bullshit: thin white Photoshop people. I've since opened up to most body types and my own bisexuality, because I realised how much 2000s bigotry I had internalised and was myself perpetuating about "fatties", "fags," "shemales" and whatever the fuck else the 2000s had taught me to hate. The MVP was hentai, portraying those bodies and genders without making South Park punchlines out of them. And lo, I'm now a bi man who'd unironically fuck most of the sidekicks in Paper …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:37 PM
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Yes. I took a long, hard look at my teenage expectations and their problematic roots. It's not hard and it's not an achievement, it's the bare minimum for anyone who actually cares about doing feminism. Reusing again: Basically: no, standards aren't an unknowable evolutionary force that manifests through the magic wand of ick and sass. Rule34 singlehandedly disproves that, but I don't even need to cite it: the idea that the ultimate survival body is 5% body fat and perma-vocal fry is already abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:17 PM
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I love, love, love how all the advice thus far is "hope some other cr-pple will have you lmao."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:09 PM
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For reference, I was denied more housing than I can count on the explicit and specific basis of my gender, not counting the ones that said "no men" out the gate. Left to the slumlords, I've had several deposits stolen amidst rats, bedbugs, roaches, abuse and extortion. Am currently homeles; latest deposit stolen, so locked out despite my income. This is aimed at people who'll come across this. I don't think you'd believe that some of those slumlords were women. Or that I'm not a white middle man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:00 PM
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Masculinity and morality. Which is the problem: we've collectively decided that patriarchy is a thing that Men Do, and that if you're not one, well it's actually ✨feminist✨ to cast women as trophies and decide complainers are just uncool stinky weirdo losers. Put simply, the moment feminism hit the mainstream, we immediately decided that everything it fought against in the 2000s - essentialism, toxic masculinity, bodyshaming, bullying - was actually fucking awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:10 PM
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This is the second time I see "asexual goofball" here and I honestly really like that term for how much it encapsulates this performance I've mentioned in other terms (good boy, Disney sidekick, eunuch, etc.) I think it's 100% worth coining for good. On another note, is this post being brigaded by FDS or somesuch? Holy unexamined patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:05 PM
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Reusing I'm also not going to leave women off the hook here. It's pretty weird how the bar-is-in-hell, God-forbid-women-have-standards, non-whiny, non-toxic, non-deadbeat, non-ick, respectable man who goes to therapy is...a living, breathing avatar of cishet white privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:59 PM
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I'm sorry, what was that about? Did you misread, or were you flexing that you're a Problemless Person Who Fucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:21 AM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:20 PM
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❤️ One way I saw someone put it (of which I'm extremely jealous) is "(men who) stay feminist in spite of what feminists are like."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:13 AM
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❤️ More for the road with the bois, a comment This also brings to mind the question: just how many "loser men" were groomed as such? How many are, right now, as I was? How many blame and despise themselves, as I did, as ordered by ABSOLUTELY EVERYBODY including progressive spaces? And yes, I do think this is relevant and it's practically SOLDERED to my issues with sexual expression. From where I was standing, the choice was between Good Pure Autism Boy or Gross Loser Incel Man. another On a more…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:23 PM
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me :3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:45 PM
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I'm getting so much mileage out of this one (emphasis added): Truth be told, back when I cared, what kept me so desperate to date women was the adamant throughline that women didn't fuck Bad Men, and that fucking women would make me a good person. Turns out, it's simply that cishet women are extremely fucking inclined to perpetuate the worst patriarchal nonsense – here "loser virgin" and "women are wonderful" – repackaged as cool and feminist. Yes, Meighleighheigh, I'm sure it's for mysterious, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:33 AM
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QED
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:30 PM
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QED
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:26 PM
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Reusing: (reposted because non-NP link autoremoved) That said, there's a real and serious discussion to be had about how hard that was [to accept myself as an adult man], and how much of mainstream culture, including in progressive spaces, actively keeps men from doing that. You're not acknowledged as a man until you have a full set of these middle-class hallmarks that are utterly out of reach for most men in general, let alone young ones. Most men are not the suave, well-adjusted, mid-twenties …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:24 PM
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Reusing: That said, there's a real and serious discussion to be had about how hard that was [to acknowledge myself as an adult man], and how much of mainstream culture, including in progressive spaces, actively keeps men from doing that. You're not acknowledged as a man until you have a full set of these middle-class hallmarks that are utterly out of reach for most men in general, let alone young ones. Most men are not the suave, well-adjusted, mid-twenties manager in the stock photo who literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:17 PM
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Reusing: Addendum [to a post]: it's also hitting me how the suave, well-adjusted, mid-twenties manager in the stock photo who literally never cries outside his weekly therapy session ...minus the bold part about therapy, is literally just the 1950s man all over again. It's because libfems steer the mainstream of feminism, and libfems are mediocre, privileged people who will not, and will never, acknowledge anyone but their fellow mediocre, privileged people. Not in the club? Well, clearly, the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:08 PM
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Feminism became mainstream enough for the mean girls, and thus was born liberal feminism: mediocre white women in upper management who will not, and never, acknowledge any men but mediocre white men in upper management. Not in the club? Well, clearly, the system is perfectly fine, so maybe you're just Not Man Enough™.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:56 PM
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I admit, I'm assuming coutcher is a misspelling (I can't Google it) but I'm interested in what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:48 PM
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I did miss it, and honestly, that makes it funny again: the nest-kicker is another of you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:10 PM
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I'm sorry, but that's so rich it's not even funny. OP really kicked the hornet's nest of the "lmao just go be sad somewhere else" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:07 AM
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And had a therapy budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:00 AM
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Or a signal that you're one of those people, whose sole option for "therapy" is a cell and two minutes per weekday of empty nodding followed by "lmao w/e psycho, eat the pills." Don't ask me how I know. It'll never not be funny how many of y'all think having a therapy budget is the bottom rung of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:52 AM
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Reuse of reuse (and also relevant to OP's question): Truth be told, back when I cared, what kept me so desperate to date women was the adamant throughline that women didn't fuck Bad Men, and that fucking women would make me a good person. Turns out, it's simply that cishet women are extremely fucking inclined to perpetuate the worst patriarchal nonsense – here "loser virgin" and "women are wonderful" – repackaged as cool and feminist. Yes, Meighleighheigh, I'm sure it's for mysterious, unknowabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:18 PM
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Hell, I had no trouble opening up my tastes in bodies and features as early as 20, and that was in the 2000s, whose all-time highlight of comedy was "haha fat sex." I can forgive teens, because the entirety of teen media says "ugly nerd" and then puts glasses on the most conventionally sexy people in the world. But past that, it's on you, and I know, because I've heard the horror stories about women "getting the ick" from bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:04 PM
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Reuse of reuse: Truth be told, back when I cared, what kept me so desperate to date women was the adamant throughline that women didn't fuck Bad Men, and that fucking women would make me a good person. Turns out, it's simply that cishet women are extremely fucking inclined to perpetuate the worst patriarchal nonsense – here "loser virgin" and "women are wonderful" – repackaged as cool and feminist. Yes, Meighleighheigh, I'm sure it's for mysterious, unknowable kweenly reasons that bi men give yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:03 PM
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Truth be told, back when I cared, what kept me so desperate to date women was the adamant throughline that women didn't fuck Bad Men, and that fucking women would make me a good person. Turns out, it's simply that cishet women are extremely fucking inclined to perpetuate the worst patriarchal nonsense – here "loser virgin" and "women are wonderful" – repackaged as cool and feminist. Yes, Meighleighheigh, I'm sure it's for mysterious, unknowable kweenly reasons that bi men give you the ick. edit:…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:00 PM
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