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I have never asked friends for advice on what to do. Only on whether they been through what i go through
/r/TheRedPill17/03/26 08:55 AM
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Yeah, when you are used to a criminal justice letting paedophiles get away, proper sentences can seem harsh
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/25 02:36 PM
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> Sounds like a good place to never ever visit. Ever. Yeah, what is a good place to visit with 50g of coke?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/25 01:38 PM
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IF you plan to get into trouble, sure being rich comes in handy
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/25 01:38 PM
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There it is...
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 05:14 PM
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Lol are you for real ? If there is anyone feminists despise more than high status men, it is low status men
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 12:11 PM
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“No evidence of gender differences” makes me highly question the validity of this study. Wouldnt you then fall in the trap of only accepting evidence that fits your view
/r/BlackPillScience26/06/25 01:30 PM
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“No evidence of gender differences” makes me highly question the validity of this study. Wouldnt you then fall in the trap of only accepting evidence that fits your view
/r/BlackPillScience26/06/25 01:30 PM
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Right, so who are famous men only fans that have a strong women following ? I am not really disageeeing with your second point, t the end it is just a game and people who are good at it play it better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:34 PM
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I agree, so why is it only that men who pay for it. There is even a gigantic industry for men, not to have sex, nah, to watch people have sex. You dont think men are weak ? They must be if they are paying for sex and porn... So women set the rules foe something they want equallty as men. Still not convinced men are weak ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:57 PM
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Same amount, or not really ? What do you really think.. and what about outside the average, like at the extemes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:38 PM
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Who do you think likes sex more, men or women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:34 PM
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Sounds like you got upset over it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:28 PM
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Its not a gotcha, so lets just leave it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:21 PM
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Its not hard to understand, its actually very easy. You literally just admitted to being led by the woman ... kinda my point. And thats every other weak man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:23 PM
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This is my problem with this shit. I feel like this is the most vain vacuous shit to ever hit society. Men believe this and they pursue it... then influence and lead women into seeking men who win at this. The collapse in society is caused by men, throughout history. Thats the definition of weak men, when men forget they are supposed to set the standard. Had we had decent honourable men, preaching integrity and honor. You'd be sitting here telling men to be their most honourable self, and wed ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:59 PM
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Please debate it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:50 PM
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But is it though ? I am do complain about the social decline, and i think having a son or a daughter is gonna affect them most This is not the society i want to have kids in, and i want to have kids. I am concerned my daughter will fall to the OF gang, and i am concerned my son will fall to the incel gang.. and would actually extend it further to the feminist gangs, and the manosphere gang Oh but you think i am envy of sex ? thats such a simpleton projection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:49 PM
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But a lot of the women who are out being social are not on dating apps. I’ve never used a dating app, most of the single women I know haven’t either If only those women could wear badges so we can tell them apart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:35 PM
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The problem isnt that dating apps are a good indicator of real life dating. The problem is that dating apps killed real life dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:31 PM
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Spoke to few people on here; not one of them sounded like they used to hold red pill views Its all "yeah i used to be an asshole misogynist and now i am not"
/r/ExRedPill06/02/25 04:10 AM
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And your rhetoric doesnt help.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/24 05:13 PM
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Well you are wrong. Lets leave this here.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 01:31 PM
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Who hurt you
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 01:28 PM
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So you dont think hypergamy occurs in society.. ?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:43 PM
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And i am trying to understand what ideology/ideas you used to believe in... and what those ideas have changed to
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:22 PM
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No it’s about controlling all of society. And the argument is that is not necessarily a bad thing, for men and for women Think about driving, its controlled. You cant just drive in whichever direction you want, there are rules that you have to follow for the safety of everyone involved So the idea itself isnt crazy. Conservative societies believe there should be rules and traditions to govern how we live While liberal societies seek to do away with traditions and everyone is free to do as they p…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:21 PM
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The redpill and the general “manosphere” says women are sloots, they have super high body counts, are not wife material and don’t deserve commitment This is not red pill. The is traditional men within manosphere. They dont say women are not wife material. The believe Women who have high body counts, are "slots" and arent wife material. They believe these women arent wife material. Nothing controversial here, everyone is entitled to their preferences Yet simultaneously, say a woman who doesn’t pu…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:15 PM
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You probably wouldn’t be saying something like this if a woman had body image issues or was dealing with thoughts of suicide And that is the reason plenty of young men become anti feminism.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:06 PM
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It doesnt sound to me like you are an ex blackpill. Sounds more like you were loooking for advice to do better with women
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:04 PM
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"Average women should date average men, why do these average women thing they deserve a 7ft god like millionaire" Well done, you have the same mentality that redpill/incels have
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 11:00 PM
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I dont know who is saying that if you arent a top model you should kill yourself. Thats obviously something people shouldnt blindly follow Are you saying you still believe black pill views on how genders interact, but just dont follow their advice of improvement ?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:56 PM
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We've had to fight for everything. We had to fight for the right to vote. To be educated. To be professionals. To have credit cards and bank accounts. We didn't choose our enemy. Men did. Sorry i find this dishonest. You are saying he should be more accepting of womens defensiveness online, because women have had it worse. But that doesnt necessarily mean the woman in question, and the man in question..in other world, take a poor man from African and a Woman from an upper class in the UK.. id sa…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:51 PM
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Defend a stranger online over being called a name by a different strangers is literally the most pointless thing anyone can do People ought to learn to discuss ideas
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:46 PM
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But did you leave because you discovered things arent like that, or because you didnt want to do X
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:44 PM
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Does it make excuses though ?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:42 PM
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Well If I tell you that you can only be considered an "alpha" once you reach a million dollar a year, how long till you lose all hope So you viewed black pill as a mentor telling you what to do. And not just a discussion about how things are ?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:40 PM
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You are not an ex red piller.. why are you answering
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:38 PM
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I like how we got to a point where anyone is a red piller, narcissisit, misogynist, grifter.. At this stage, its just labels to discredit different views and silence them. Leading to echo chambers
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 10:36 PM
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I did give you an example, but you are not listening. A man who buys a house before marriage and lives in with his wife after marriage. On divorce that becomes marital assets This is fucked up. Instead if you really wanna protect the house you bought before marriage*, it's safer to rent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:20 PM
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Assets acquired before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:13 PM
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You seem to be getting at non matrimonial assets being split is not fucking men over because.. mother pay penalty. Therefore they are not being fucked over And also, it is justified because mother pay I have already stated the division of marital assets should be 50/50 and I don't have a problem with that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:07 PM
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Well again we are back to that something doesn't exist, and is justified at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:02 PM
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Unintentionaly and unfairly fuck men over. Like you, they always find justifications for why the man isn't getting fucked. Like ridiculously arguing (she carried your child for 9 months) Courts rule in favour of the woman. And they get lighter sentences than men. So it's not a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:55 PM
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Not subject to equal division. there are scenarios where they are divided, just not equally
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:43 PM
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I don't think you read that article
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:38 PM
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They carry his name, but to suggest a woman does a man favour by having kids and looking after them is sad. Marital assets are communal, things acquired during the marriage. I don't have a problem with those being split 50/50. They should be But it's not limited just to those in practice. A man who acquires a house before marriage,, then lives in it with his wife for say 5/10 years. In the UK at least, they can be classed as marital assets. And that is fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:26 PM
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Because as I said before, usually it's men with the assets. That's who women marry. You are trying to argue oh no women lose too, because they carry a child and look after it. This is an odd point, as you seem to be suggesting women have kids for the benefit of the man. Not to mention, in most divorces it the women who gets the children
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:55 PM
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I edited it before you responded. And it's an afterthought of the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:51 PM
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Losing half the assets yes, it happens mostly to men. How would the majority of woman understand it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:49 PM
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So now you are arguing it does happen like this, but it's fair when it happens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:45 PM
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So many reasons Women mostly date men who earn more than them. So the man is usually the one with more assets anyway. Also women are more likely to initiate divorce than men, a woman who has the half to lose is unlikely to initiate divorce No offence but it seems people like you will disagree with anything that shines a negative light on women. It's this idea that oh women has been victimised and forced to do unpaid home work, nd and then in other news, oh women lose half their assets in divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:14 PM
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Ah yes, his experience comes from listening to "bitter divorced men" Not like you,, who listened to bitter divorced women, so you know better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:44 PM
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Pick me is what women call incel if it was a guy. Funny how women want to convince us they dress up and put make up on for themselves.. but a woman who thinks for herself and criticizes other women does so for male validation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:31 PM
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I have low intelligence I guess and I am okay with it. I still won't want to date or marry a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:20 PM
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Oh nobody is arguing these women are smart. I think the point of contention is more that the majority of women are dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:12 PM
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How about someone you don't play the victim to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:11 PM
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Men will pretend they can cook and repair everything, until they have a home to care for. Women will pretend they are sexually voracious and adventurous, until they are forced to look after a husband who behaves as an insolent, messy child. Look at that. Both imaginary scenarios somehow end up the fault of the man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:07 PM
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Yeah, you guys only ever see the crazy men comments. Funny that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:26 AM
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Ah thanks man I appreciate that Is that why people put "edit" at the end. Is that like the etiquette then around reddit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:25 AM
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Nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:21 AM
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And you think those who dated them do so knowing it would turn out like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:29 PM
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Never met a woman like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:52 PM
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Everyone sees what they wanna see right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:42 PM
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Nah you see now you lost me. I agree with the first part, I think more people than care to admit belong in the first category. They just don't say it out loud, which is what I like about sub, you get to see what men/women really think about the other gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:41 PM
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Wait until you hear about someone with a pussy and a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 PM
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I mean when you put it that way, it makes all of our discussions on purple people sound fucking retarded and kinda crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:38 PM
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I seriously doubt most feminists on here or irl care that much, perhaps they just comment for the contrarian banter How do you figure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:37 PM
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I mean that's all good and fair. But the reality isn't like that. People most certainly do treat dating as winning a prize. It's miserable and pathetic, but it's how it is. I wish more people think the way you do, but most don't, and a big percentage just say to avoid being judged as shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:36 PM
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Yes that's the complains that men have sigh Do you realize you are doing this downplaying of men issues.. or it just comes to you natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:33 PM
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Maybe where you live..plenty of fatherless children around here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:10 PM
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Haha, pathetic argument tbh. It's not my problem, I didn't make it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:08 PM
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What the hell is a ninja edit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:49 PM
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So predictable. I have expanded on my answer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:45 PM
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Well they are free to do it or not do it. Its a free society after all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:42 PM
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Funny how you are dodging the question, as a biologist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:30 PM
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Funny how you are dodging the question, as a biologist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:29 PM
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No. I am asking specifically about a test to determine if the father is the real father
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:47 PM
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Do you think as a woman you benefit from paternal testing not being mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:26 PM
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Why does that matter. Surely you support an idea based on its merit, not by who is parroting it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:21 PM
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You didn’t say that. You said if it was systematic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:16 PM
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that men who cheat are dirtbags Are they not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:12 PM
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I think they would if the alternative would to raise someone else’s kids And this generalisation you make is just baseless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:08 PM
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So do we man. So do we
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:07 PM
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Why don’t you be Batman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:03 PM
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Your point being ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:02 PM
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We hope your partner doesn’t murder you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:01 PM
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So you are worried about conspiracy theorists being victims of parental fraud ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:58 PM
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Okay, so when women complain about how men they been with treated them. We should say I hope the next one treats you better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:43 PM
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So what would you tell a guy whose exes all cheated on him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:38 PM
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Alright so what what would you tell the guy in question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:18 PM
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I did. He was outside having a different thought. Traitor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:15 PM
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You think men don’t suffer from choosing the wrong woman ? What advice would you give a guy who - hypothetically - dated 3 girls, and all cheated on him ? Are you gonna hold women accountable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:10 PM
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That’s a stretch. And you know it Choose better isn’t “choose me”. It’s learn to do better, as we all learn to sooner or later There maybe guys who mean it that way, but to generalise that advice just shows you hear what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:02 PM
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We do not blame you for your choices. We just point out your choices when you complain about their consequences Kinda simple really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:53 PM
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Wait what ? So you choose an asshole and fuck your over, and we are part of this how ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:42 PM
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Hahah hilarious. So you expect women to have kids with dead fathers, and then another man ought steps in “for the child’s best” and clean up your mess Women logic at its best
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:34 PM
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Yeah, his real dad, his grandparents on either side. Faillling that, there is the forster care system And if women are so concerned about children's well being, maybe they shouldn't be engaging in this kind of behaviour in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:22 PM
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Yeah a killer could be otherwise a good person and good parent. Why should they go to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:13 PM
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To make it some random man's problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:07 PM
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What happens to the kid and their economic prospects? That's a question for the mother and his real father.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:03 PM
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A woman having sex with two men and telling one man is the father can be proved as fraud through negligence. If you fill in your tax form and you put it an income "that you are not sure of", the state can charge you with fraud. And the "I wasn't sure of my exact income" isn't a valid defence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:50 PM
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A) correct. But telling one of those he is the father is deceptive. The honest answer is it could be you, it could be someone else. B) while the woman is married, and has sex with another man, telling the husband he is the father is equally deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:44 PM
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It's like a woman straps a grenade to a baby and then throws it at the father. The father throws away the grenade/baby... he is the asshole for killing the child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:14 PM
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Yeah, no I will be the hero and save everyone and everyone claps at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:41 AM
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Its easy to claim what you will do when you don't have to deal with the scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:38 AM
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We are not talking about a sperm bank. We were talking about a hospital accidentally switching kids. Not at att the same as a woman tricking you into raising her one night stand child. Do you not see how the two scenarios differ from each other ? One is a mistake, one is a malicious act by a trusted one. Of course they will affect you differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:32 AM
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there is nothing in either evolution or nature that makes the bonding process between a child biologically your’s and a child that’s not any different because there was never any physical or biological mechanism for detection. Sure, yes, thats why step fathers exist. But Both mothers and fathers sue the shit out of hospitals and fertility clinics that switch their kids. Because for both, “your real child” matters. It’s a big deal. Both mothers and fathers become angry as hell when this happens. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:16 AM
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Yes actually; those women are easy to figure out and spot because they make it obvious they are loose by being willing to have sex before commitment. Oh you are saying its not my charisma ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:12 AM
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Ah so your view is based on "it's not your real child, no big deal" got it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:40 AM
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Well blame evolution and nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:02 AM
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Your blood can run cold all it wants. In the end you are blaming a man for his reaction to something quite shitty, very shitty. "The child is now a stranger to me" is one of many ways the father can protect himself and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:51 AM
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I would say the child is simply a victim in this. Anger is a feeling, and feelings just happen. The kid would probably reminder of a lie the father has lived for 18 years. Imagine being a man who wants to be a father, plenty of men would die for their kids. And then you realize It's not your real kid It would be a shocking moment that I don't think you are able to grasp. Expecting a betrayed, angry and hurt man like this to remain reasonable takes a lot of mental power that plenty of us don't po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:40 AM
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“A man and another man” is an interesting way of describing the relationship with a child you have raised for 18 years In the same way a married couple who divorce and remove each other from each other's life becomes a "man and a another woman" He “has been tricked” into loving a father who is not his blood father. Are you seriously suggesting this is equivalent? There is no malice in this scenario. A man being tricked into raising a kid that isn't his is malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:25 AM
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Usually people don’t cut each other off in a day for absolutely no reason. Most sudden breakups happen when you find out the person has done something horrible. Oh really now ? Lost feelings and finding myself, or wanting to be alone are reasons. And if they apply between man and woman, surely then can apply between a man and another man Family bonds are blood bonds above all for most people. I put up with bad family bevause it's blood. …after conditioning your brain for 18 years to protect and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:07 AM
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Proving intent to commit fraud is easy. If you cheat and then tell a different man its his child, you are committing fraud through negligence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:37 AM
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Don't people break up after being intimate for years and years and remove themselves from each others life. ? How is this different ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:35 AM
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What I’m saying is men need to take responsibility for themselves and their acts and steer clear of loose women. Yes because loose women are forward about being loose and wear it as a badge. Did you think about this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:31 AM
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It's almost as if people learn to pick better as they mature What they learnt to pick better looking people as they matured ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:23 PM
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Oh so you are saying I am a man killer ? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:19 PM
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You hear that dude. Facts. FACTS don't care about your feelings. 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:17 PM
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Where as women are kind angels online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:09 PM
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You swipe on any woman you think looks pretty, and the ones who swipe back are 80% single mothers Yeah and ? His point is single mom's are desperate and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:06 PM
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And I would never dare get in the way of your delusions or you coping mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:56 PM
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It's your own words.. 😅 This whole time cheering on genetically superior women, with IQ in single digits. Damn some man really fucked your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:51 PM
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Speaking of genetically inferior... couldn't even get a deadbeat father to impregnate you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:46 PM
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"Diaries of a woman who couldn't get the father to commit to her" Let it out dear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:44 PM
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The only take away from this conversation is that paternity tests are the way forward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:37 PM
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Still better than a woman impregnated by a dead beat father.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:37 PM
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Oh no I am agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:32 PM
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Now you are just insulting the women who opened their legs for deadbeat fathers. Come on you can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:31 PM
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Of course, in fact the man is vile if he has another child after this. How dare he make the first child share his inheritance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:28 PM
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Oh I love it. Still the woman's fault, and a stranger you fuxk isn't obliged to stay with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:26 PM
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Oh fuxk me with your moral dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:12 PM
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Oh I thought this was about the kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:12 PM
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No. I will actually bankrupt myself to bankrupt the bitch dare do such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:11 PM
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Yes in this scenario, the scammed man is the vile one... you are entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:06 PM
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Hahaha I think we are done here. The resources are never the child's in the first place Just because his mother scams a man for money, doesn't mean the child is entitled to inherit it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:57 PM
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Yeah so now that we know where the problem is. Let's focus on addressing that, instead of random men who have no blood connection to said child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:48 PM
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Haha I love how you are using cuck to attack men and also defending stepdads at the same time. Keep going this is too fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah women never give up their kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:42 PM
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Funny you spent all this time arguing for the child's sake and not one word about the mother. Can't say I am surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:39 PM
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If this happens to me, that will be the point I go "fuck being a good person" All this is just shaming men into being step dad, it won't work. Maybe you should instead be preaching to women not to ruin the kids life like they ruined theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:54 PM
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Oh i understand it very well. And that will be the point I stop giving a duck about being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:28 PM
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Firstly her choice to lie could be entirely based on trying to secure funds for her child, Why should 8 care ? You are still a bad person for trying to plunge a child into poverty. Full stop You know what. If I am a victim of such scenario, I will be fine with being this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:27 PM
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What part of "she was the first to bring the child into it" don't you understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I will still do it and bankrupt her in the process.. I will get that petty It's not me who doesn't care about the child. It's his mom. Let's agree on that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:22 PM
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Let me put this way, I am a fairly alright guy , I try to help people and be emphatic and what no But if a woman I was with were to deceive me about my own child, I am pretty sure a switch is gonna flip, oh it will get ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:21 PM
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Are you seriously comparing what people buy each other as gifts to being deceived to raise someone else child?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:00 PM
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Oh no I will most certainly sue the bitch. Because here is the thing. If the mother, the person who is supposed to care about that child the most, doesn't care about him enough and uses him to pull a scam like this, then you bet your ass I won't care either. If the mother wants a supportive adoptive parent, she comes out honestly, tells the truth and let the man decide if he wants to become an adoptive parent The moment that mother uses the child as a bargaining chip, I will sue for my time, ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:00 PM
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So what are you saying? If you find out that you are not the real father.. just suck it up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:50 PM
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Tell yourself whatever you want. Women would abandon the child if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah, step dads. What the fuck is that about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:35 PM
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How so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:21 PM
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You will hear all kinds of odd arguments on this. One said its the fault of the man having unprotected sex. You can just say put a condom or we are not doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:57 PM
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Yeah I can't be arsed with this. It's rather obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:42 PM
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Yeah I got that, I don't understand why you are telling me this or how it's of relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:34 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:29 PM
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The single mom gets fucked most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:00 PM
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Enjoy watching increasingly shitty men get all the pussy and walk away from child support whistling. Keep it up, most of the burden falls on men who are responsible for creating this narrative Haha you enjoy it too ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:56 PM
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Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:52 PM
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But they should participate in their child’s upbringing and definitely should pay for their own child’s care unless or be jailed for child abandonment. Why should they.. when they get zero say in whether to have a baby or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:41 PM
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It's the woman's body. Her choice. With choice comes consequences Also. Why are you trying to make this personal ? Your hormones getting to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:18 PM
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You can't force a guy to stay around if they don't want to have a baby. So how about you take control of what gets inside you instead, so that you avoid spending your whole life moaning about an absent father You would think its a simple solution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:11 PM
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Haha peak woman moment..absolving herself of having a baby, yes it just happens to you against your will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:47 AM
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Sorry accountability for what, for getting you pregnant ? Are you serious. Its your body, you let the man impregnant you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:41 AM
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Anything to absolve yourself of the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:18 AM
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You didn't. Again the reply you picked up on was to the person who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:17 AM
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Also, why isn’t the man responsible for having his unprotected dick ejaculated inside her Yeah who you let inside you is not your decision. Well no wonder there is a rise of single women, most clearly lack basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:17 AM
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Stealthing ? What the fuck so the guy who doesn't want to have a kid is intentionally making you pregnant through sheathing? I think it's time we bring this debate to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:16 AM
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Of course, but surely you are responsible for an unprotected dick ejaculated inside, and then there is birth control, and there is morning after pill. To put it down to just I can't get an abortion is... we'll again immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:10 AM
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So suddenly its not your body, and what goes in it and how it goes in it is not your decision That's mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:08 AM
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It depends on the scenario. At different stages people have different responsibilities Two people having a one night stand, where the father doesn't want to have the baby, true they both share the responsibility of the being pregnant part. But then it's down to the woman to go down the path of keeping the child.. and where the father doesn't want to have a choice, the responsibility then is solely with the woman if she keeps the child. Of course not all scenarios are like this, but this is the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:06 AM
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Arguing with you is tiring because you don't seem capable of keeping a coherent point Not to mention the double standard of calling "pick mes" self hating bitches and then moaning about people doing the same to single mom's and their step dads. Have a lovely day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:58 AM
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Well not really, I was replying to the person who put the blame on the father, and said its the mother whose body autonomy makes the final decision. I have no idea what your view is seeing as you jumped into the conversation mid way without any context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:57 AM
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Okay, let's just make sure we are on the same page here. Which bit did I say that you disagree with, because if you understood what I said, I wasn't talking about women's evolutionary psychology at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:51 AM
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What I wrote was related to the topic of "Which is BS because they never blame the guys that are having kids they dont want". To which I replied that men don't have a choice in deciding whether or not they have a kid they don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:43 AM
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I feel you jumped into the conversation and have no idea what we are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:41 AM
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It's both men and women creating children. Saying a woman got a pregnant because the man didn't wear protection ie just immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:37 AM
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But only one stayed the course The one who stayed didn't have a choice. Nature is funny that was it seems it didn't make the lives of the two sexes equal in many aspects. Not to mention, it's the woman's body you know. The decision in the end rests solely with you and you only. I can't force a woman to have my baby, or abort my baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:36 AM
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The same reason women invented the "pick me" slur. Why are you singling out one gender over behaviour that both genders do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:34 AM
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Both parties wanted the kid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:29 AM
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sigh I am not talking about women. Maybe you should read the whole conversation before replying Women are more concerned with resources than passing on genes, because women are not men and have different concerns. Said the gender that is attracted to height and bigger partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:26 AM
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It is. But thats a more evolved brain function, not as ingrained as passing your genes. A lizard will still want pass on their genes before worrying about the resources available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:18 AM
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Not when the goods are yourself. It may not be a grift but nobody is gonna respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:03 AM
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Yeah being hypocritical isn't respected either by most people with a moral compass. What's your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:01 AM
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Imagine the original comment was written with a straight face. "That's your anecdotal experience my anecdotal experience is different therefore you are wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:52 AM
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Yeah by lowering their standards. The hate isn't born out of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:50 AM
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I am not blending anything. You just havnt understood the difference between an evolutionary trait and breaking a social contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:49 AM
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Yes, but I am not arguing the opposite of that. You picked a reply to a specific point, and you are replying to it out of its context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:27 AM
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They may look like equivalent but not when it comes to consequences to both parties. A guy putting his dick in other women, the woman can still be sure the child she is carying is hers. A woman letting everyone put their dick in her, means the man may not be the real father to the child inside that woman. Of course you are still entitled to be disgusted by a man who sleeps around, I am trying to explain the disgust by men for the woman who do this from an evolutionary point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:23 AM
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A shared custody of the kid by definition means the father isn't absent. The bit you quoted was in reply to the person who talked about absent fathers, and who didn't want to have a child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:13 AM
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I am sure its a big task and a lot of work and difficult etc etc. That's not the topic. I am talking about the man's angle of dealing with a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:08 AM
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Haha your reply made me laugh. I loved the gif
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:02 AM
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because he didnt wear protection. See this is single mom's attitude. Never responsible...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:02 AM
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Demanding a stranger share the responsibility of raising you and your absent daddies child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:00 AM
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But if someone held a gun to your head, which one do you pick? I'd choose the man pull the trigger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:59 AM
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low value woman > No women And that's why these stepdads get the hate. Bevause they have that mentality and lower their standards It's not jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:57 AM
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Let's say a man and a woman have a one night stand. The girl gets pregnant, tells the guy, who isn't interested in having a child. He has very little say on whether or not the woman has that baby. So a. Why have a kid with a guy who doesn't want to have a kid. b. Why expect a guy who doesn't want to have a kid to be around and support you ? c. Why would we hate on a guy for a decision that wasnt his to make
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:49 AM
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Sorry, why do your anecdotal experience trump my anecdotally experience ? As for minorities. There is a slight difference in disliking people based on behaviour, and based solely on aspects to do with birth accidents (such as race, ethnicity, skin colour etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:47 AM
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As a male I can tell you that feeling of disgust is innate and primal. I remember reading something along the lines of.. it suggests said woman can't control her impulses. As a man seeking a mate, that would be someone you can't trust to pass your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:45 AM
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You will find that's the experience of most of us with single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:38 AM
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Right, so the guys who hate on men for lowering their standards are jealous bevause they can't get a low value woman If that makes sense in your head then I am jealous if you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:38 AM
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Which is BS because they never blame the guys that are having kids they dont want. Well because you will find the guy has very little decision power over having that child. Lol, this is funny, your body your choice. Don't expect people to assume responsibility for your choices
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:36 AM
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Hate on step dads out of jealous ? So you are saying the guys who don't want to be stepdads hate stepdads out of jealous ? You are confused I think. These men are hated for lowering their standards, In the same way you women tell each other never to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:32 AM
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So yes, hate the women raising the kids but dont hate on the men that refuse to raise the kids they created Hate is on single women who expect someone else to take care of their kid. And moaning about their own decisions The men that refuse to raise the kids.. Well, did they want the kid for a start? And two do you see them putting their kid comes first on their dating profile.. no. That doesn't mean they don't get Hate. It just means they are out of the spotlight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:29 AM
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so raising kids is irresponsible but men abandoning their kids is not irresponsible and deserving of ire, got it. This is whataboutism. He didn't say that, he just explained that it's not jealousy. No one wants to be in a position of getting laid and getting married? No one wants to be a single mom, hence its not jealousy. As for getting married, single mom's are by definition not married. And theyre unhappy about it, seeing how they whine about hoeflation. This is again a point unrelated to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:25 AM
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This is kinda like the girl with the high body count trying to shame men for not wanting to date her With the raise of single mothers, and baby daddies that refuse to commit to them and raise the child - there is a problem. A gap in the market if you will The solution of women, as usual, delinquent and morally corrupt is to lie to another man and trap him into raising said child. Then go further to play down such lie, nd shame men for whatever reaction they have to being lied
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:53 AM
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I have better things to do that argue with someone who is okay with lying to a kid about his real father, and lying to a father about his real kid. I'd rather discuss this with someone with a better moral compass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:14 AM
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I'm saying in general. A lot of women sleep around and suddenly expect every man to accept their past. They then call them insecure or an incel if they don't. There's plenty of guys who also like sleep around so they'll probably be more accepting You would thing this is common sense. But try explaining to a slut (man or woman, not intended in a derogatory way)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:03 PM
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Here is the deal buddy, sluts will tell you not to care about body count (I mean what else would you expect, no woman wants to be rejected) And so its up to you to decide if you care about it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:59 PM
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Honestly, I am not surprised a woman plays down lying to a man to extract money from him So what, the what is the embarrassing moral compass women have nowadays. Imagine this generation raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:18 PM
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There is obviously nothing wrong with acknowledgement of paternity. Again, the problem most of us have is with the acknowledgement achieved through deception about the chile's real biological father
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:12 PM
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Ohh ? You didn't understand the madoff reference and I explained it to you. Where a guy signs the acknowledgement and he is the real father, yeah he can't back out. Where the guy signs the acknowledgement under deception ie a whole other story. Why oh why do women defend deception ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:58 PM
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We are talking about situations where the acknowledgement occurs under deception
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:52 PM
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I appreciate the debate on this. Have a lovely day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:44 PM
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I think we have exhausted all avenues here and clearly won't reach an agreement. I don't care about whether a woman wants to have an abortion or not. What I care about is, if abortion is a right for any woman to exercise. The court shouldn't get involved and force the man to pay for a child when the father doesn't want to be involved I don't even understand why a woman would want to have a father involved who doesn't want to be involved anyway.. ah yes. It's always about the money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:35 PM
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You are not understanding my argument at all. I am not arguing for or against abortion here. I just don't want the court to force men to pay child support, when they do not want to have a child. It's that simple. If women want to have abortion to exist the consequences of sex, men too should not have to pay child support. Once a woman decides to have a baby alone, she needs to own the consequences of those decisions alone !! Abortion is a tough decision. If you are demanding it as a right. Right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:33 PM
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No, of course not. Not when the alternative is to carry out a procedure that woman demand to have as a "right" This just show the double standard. When it's the woman who wants to get rid of the baby, it's a right.. fuck the medical complications. When the woman wants to keep the baby, the court must get involved and get him to pay, because oh abortion is so risky. Thank you for highlighting what most of us already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:24 PM
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Just admit you want to have no consquences to their actions because you think abortion is easy or harmless I see plenty of woman campaigning for it to be a right. So I just want the equivalent for men, and that is for th Court not to get involved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:18 PM
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So then when I said The woman chooses to go through with the pregnancy You replied Abortion is not a right Why make a point that isn't relevant to the discussion ? That's just deflection and failure to engage in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:33 PM
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I really just need a yes or no answer "If abortion becomes a right, should the court then stop forcing men to pay child support"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:11 PM
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How is this an answer to my question. I wanted a yes or a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:06 PM
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You didn't answer the question. When abortion does become a right. Is that when the court shouldn't get involved to force men to pay Child support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:02 PM
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So it does become a right, is that the time the court shouldn't force men to pay child support ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:57 PM
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But you can't explain what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:55 PM
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This is a typical conclusion of this discussion. A woman holding a man hostage through a child. The woman chooses to go through with the pregnancy and the court must force the man to pay, because the child will be affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:53 PM
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Yeah, she is the victim of being impregnated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:47 PM
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It's about the kid that you willingly created by having sex That the woman alone chose to have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:45 PM
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Yeah but what's that got to do with a man not wanting to pay child support for a Child he didn't want to have ? Women who want to have an abortion will still have it regardless of the complications I am not saying women should have an abortion when the guy doesn't want to get involved. I am saying the court shouldn't get involved to force the man to pay for a while the woman alone wants to have ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
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You have not given me much to go on, and it seems like you have disliked him for that quote without even being able to explain its meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:28 PM
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. This is a philosophical discussion on actions and consequences. While women demand the right to abort a baby to avoid the consequences of sex, men too will demand court not force them pay child support, to avoided the consequences of sex. I can't make it any simpler than this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:24 PM
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It's for the welfare of the child. Child rights come before a parent. But it's my hard earned money, my body worked for it, and I didn't choose to have the baby. Child rights come before a parent. Yeah, but when it comes to the mother aborting jt.. its just a fetus it's not a real life. See the problem He made a choice to put his dick in there and risk pregnancy too So did she, but she can't opt out of the consequences of that decision. Men can't. That's where the unfairness is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:01 PM
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I think you are mixing things here. A man should definitely pay child support for a Child he wants to have. The problematic scenario is two people having a 1 night stand, then the girl gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby- her body her choice. The man doesn't want to have a baby, why does the court get involved to force him to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I agree with your point though, that no man should trust any woman when presented with that piece of paper. They should always do a paternity test
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:49 AM
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So you are saying he said in a couple the woman belongs to the man ? Or a random woman on the street belongs to a random man? You are the one who heard the quote, and held it as something outrageous that he said, that's why I am asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:41 AM
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Not the topic, I thought we were talking about what he says that is misogynistic and repulsive ? I am not here to discuss the person, I am here interested in discussing with people who attack his message
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:24 AM
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The point he is getting at, is that Madoff deceived a lot of people and took their money. Their kids growing up with that money doesn't make them entitled to it. In the same way, a woman lying to a man, for child support doesn't entitle that kid to that man's money Both scenario are based on deception to syphon money off of people. In both scenarios kids aren't entitled to that siphoned money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:54 AM
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The women, plural, belong to the man, singular and THE as is one man ? That's absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:51 AM
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Tell us one of the things tate says that is wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:41 AM
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It's not his Dad. He is as much a father as the rapist is a woman's lover, in that both the rapist and the lover have sex with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:19 AM
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Most women lie about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:16 AM
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Obviously, I am just highlighting the issue with your "advice" so that the person you suggested it to gets a different prospective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:15 AM
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What we do know for sure is that most women lie about their body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:14 AM
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"The lie happened too long ago" still won't make the man the child's father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:14 AM
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Rather be alone than be with a girl who is settling after her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:12 AM
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I will concede that yes men shouldn't impregnate whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:53 AM
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I wish that was the case, but its not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:15 PM
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I meet a larger array of people on social media Oh for fuck sake
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:04 PM
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Again you are really failing to "get it" The parental fraud occurs in secret, everything else could be perfect. Now if a man who knows his wife cheat on him, and signs the birth certificate... that you can compare yo your scenario of women vetting their abusive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:58 PM
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Again you are really failing to "get it" The parental fraud occurs in secret, everything else could be perfect. Now if a man who knows his wife cheat on him, and signs the birth certificate... that you can compare yo your scenario of women vetting their abusive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:57 PM
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Lol, yeah women prefer someone they can take advantage of, including feminists Colour me surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:52 PM
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No I don't count cheating as polygamy, but I couldn't dating multiple people as polygamy because it is Most people on dating apps do it, women will defend it the most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:44 PM
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You being intentionally slow tbh. Its not at all the same, because up to the point you are presented with the paper to sign, you have no reason to suspect the kid isnt yours. Whats next ? Come home, check your partners phone for texts, put a camera in the house ? The onus is on the partner who cheated to come clean, bexause they alone know the facts. Doesnt compare in the slights to the "take precaution" scenario, because we are not talking about a stranger who comes up to you and asks you to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:41 PM
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Paternity fraud isn't as big of a problem as people on this sub are trying to make it. One case is too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:35 PM
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Are you serious? What are you trying to argue here ?? The problem is they exist and they spread their ideas. We may ignore them, but while this thinking is not cLled out, we risk falling victims to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:30 PM
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, then in all ways except biologically he is that child's father. Lol..no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:27 PM
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Isn't women dating the same men polygamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:26 PM
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but if it's 15yo you can't tell me you would not feel an ounce of responsibility? I wouldn't. In the same way I wouldn't feel love towards a woman who would catfish me for 15 years. I'd actually go further and say I would probably begin to resent the child, given that I will wasted a lot of time that I could have spent with my real child Being friends with someone is one thing. Have a financial responsibility towards someone is something as I men I reserve purely for my biological children
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:23 PM
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If you adopt a child, then you want to adopt a child. That is not at all equivalent to being lied to by someone cheating on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:21 PM
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a lot of dudes are leaving if not even that connection exists. With our heads held high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:19 PM
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If the child is the most important person, maybe these mothers should stop throwing it at random men who aren't their fathers as a grenade ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:17 PM
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you didn't get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:11 PM
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Lol alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:03 PM
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I will just say stop spending your money on strangers. Women will not stop asking or expecting money, and people like you who spend it on them is why they keep expecting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:02 PM
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They have more options that want to fuck them, which makes them deluded about their relationship market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:01 PM
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You make 7 figures and are worried about dropping 200 dollars ? That's like someone who makes 5 figures and worry about dropping 2 $
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:53 PM
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Where is the complaint? Jesus fuck. I stopped reading at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:50 PM
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You are wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:50 PM
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As these girls get jerked around and age they will settle down Ohh yaaay. Work hard so that these used up girls who been passed around will settle for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:22 PM
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Its not false presentation at all. It's that those men are attractive, so women will bend over backwards literally and figuratively for them... and then complain when those same men move on to the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:01 PM
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Right, most women have body counts in 100s these days bevause they keep getting lied to by men and the naive cute ones keep falling for it Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:58 PM
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Or is it that men have been allowed to get away with being awful to women and basically pissed in the dating pool Have been allowed to get away with it by who ? What do you suggest.. we get tbe police to arrest men who fuck women they don't want to have a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:53 PM
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Check out the article and the comments https://www.facebook.com/share/G5WXtf2fxPRoUwp3/?mibextid=oFDknk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:56 PM
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It certainly depends on what circles you see this on (I see them on "the left" not that I have a problem with the left, I am a left myself) The messaging goes further to even dissuade women against marriage, towards single life is good, so built on top of that, comes the "leave you deserve to be happy" And this is dominates women's magazines nowadays. The emphasis on commitment around family tend to come from traditional circles, which are ridiculed by the left. And just to take a sample - indic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:28 PM
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Right, I get the topic is more nuanced. But at the root of it, the messaging for women is built around empowering themselves, whereas that for men is built around sacrifice for family. Those values are contradictory, and should be called out at outside other factors that are in play
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:55 PM
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Eh what ? The societal norms of modern days is more along the lines of.. be a "strong independent woman on your own", and that of "divorce is just a normal part of life, you don't owe anyone anything" as a form of empowerment Whereas the man is portrayed as an asshole for leaving family behind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:40 PM
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No they are not. Most mainstream advice to women in relationships/marriage is "if you don't feel happy, leave"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:05 AM
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This assertion makes no distinction between famous and not. It states all women only like what other women like. Famous is an example of how fame makes other women interested in a man. Fame is an example of qualities that aren't intrinsic to a man, which was in reply to your comment that the reason women want the same men is because they intrinsicly have desirable qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:27 AM
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Women are frequently baffled by and don't personally agree with who other women want and like. Again, that women would suddenly find a famous person attractive after they reached fame goes against your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:20 AM
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I genuinely don't understand why you are putting so much effort to argue against something everyone knows to be true. What do you get out of it ? Just go on Google and search surveys and you will find the majority of women want what other women desire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:06 AM
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I am still waiting for a digit of that "most" Most women don't date and marry famous men because they CANNOT. But they most western women want to ( 90%)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:01 AM
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Most women ? How most ...percentage wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:48 PM
1

Yeah, but men aren't attracted to women for being famous, or for being liked by other men. What is so difficult to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:10 PM
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You understand that fame and status aren't the same thing, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:08 PM
1

I like the use of some and most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:02 PM
2

That women are attracted to people for being famous shows you are talking rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:31 PM
2

Destroying my argument ? Wait. Are you saying women do not want what other women desire ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:03 PM
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Go troll elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:49 PM
0

sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:23 PM
3

No it's not. Men don't compare themselves to each other when it comes to women Again you can delude yourself into thinking whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:21 PM
1

Anything can be true you delude your reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:19 PM
1

Lol. Yes that's it. (Learnt the lesson now)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:50 PM
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See this is what happens when you argue with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:05 AM
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No you cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:55 AM
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What women like is based on what other women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:51 AM
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It's as if women adopt a slogan and then try to rationalise it Where as an intelligent individual would rationalise his thoughts to arrive at a slogan
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:07 PM
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Yeah a woman shouldn't risk her genes on a short man because a short man has difficulties finding a partner and passing on his offspring If that makes sense in your head that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:10 PM
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have issues with finding a partner and therefore making offspring I think you are confused about the point you are trying to making
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:03 PM
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They want a young attractive women with a low body count. Thats a top woman. Glad we are in agreement Getting with a short partner is a risk to a woman’s genes Tell me how, in modern society ? Do men fight physically over resources where you live M
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:21 PM
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and it was only western civilization Tell me you don't know about the world outside the western world some moreb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:15 PM
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I think you are not getting my point. I wasn't saying having the ick is a woman thing. Jesus. Some poor comprehension skills here Seriously ? Like I even quoted the bit I was making a point about. I was saying Women by far worry more about their partners being judged by other people, than men do about their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:56 PM
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I understand that some men do want a woman who is nothing but a support character in his life. But if you can't see the problem with this then I can't help you. That's what you are calling it. But plenty of woman want the traditional roles Yeah I don't see the issue with it. But since this is a debate platform, can you bother actually explaining why two traditional individuals who want traditional roles should evolve away from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:32 AM
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No it most certainly isn't a both genders thing That's why women want the top man. And men want a women they find attractive. What you are talking about is similar to a woman wanting a tall partner, biological Women who sleep around are a greater risk to carry one's genes ... it has nothing to do with showing off to friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:26 AM
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Have we really not evolved past this in the 21st century Why do we need to evolve past this? For many people this is what they want Why do you need to attack people for lifestyles they choose ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:19 AM
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He should be extremely physically fit, strong, athletic and capable of violence. (Combat training+physical development) Never go full retard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:15 AM
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I will back abortion when a feminist (who seeks equality) tells me of the equivalent for men vis a vis having a kid. Until then, it's murder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:12 AM
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People are worried about their partners being judged because that reflects negatively on them I think this is more of a woman thing than a man thing.. on average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:08 AM
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Fair. The point is genderless. I'd make the same point if the mom is the breadwinner. The assumption might be due to personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:25 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:20 AM
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Yeah I was trying to flex. Either that, or maybe trying to make a point that the numbers don't fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:11 AM
1

Hahaha you just keep making me laugh. Dude I will tell you a secret. You keep it between us though right I work this job for like 30 hours a week.. and I get paid more than most people I know doing 60 hours a week.. like a loooot. I know I should have told you to sit down for this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:01 AM
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How does the household benefit from the 20 hours extra she does ? Money. In this whole scenario we established that the man gets paid more. So... yeah not even money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:55 AM
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Your reply made me laugh. Yeah, it's not the husbands fault she has a shishitty job and he has a decent job How does the household benefit from the 20 hours extra she does ? A person with a brain would go.. my job is shit, so I either find a better one or quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:41 AM
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You seem to be struggling with this basic concept. Husband and wife both have their jobs (husband works part time, and gets paid more, the wife does overtime and gets paid less). The chores at home would still be split 50/50. It's not expecting her to do more, it's equality. It's her fucking responsibility. Given this kind of arrangement or a SAHM wife, I'd pick the SAHM wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:11 AM
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Hey, it's about fucking equality... its not my role to top up her salary Id rather have a SAHM wife than a working wife with long hours and shit pay, and have her still do less because I have a better paying job. She would be literally dragging me down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:03 AM
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Yeah I made her get a long commute job...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:00 AM
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A dynamic where one partner contributes more than the other destroys the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:19 PM
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That doesn't seem fair. It isn't. Its also not fair to punish the husband for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:11 PM
3

I didn't read all the vitriol on this sub, so this wasn't like you won the top 10 angry post kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:22 PM
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Au contraire Monsieur. I was told to wear my flaws, own them, and work on what I can work on Actually I am pretty sure Mark Mansons book, how to not give a fuck is exactly about that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:16 PM
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You sound rather angry...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:15 PM
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What are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:51 AM
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Not necessarily. But whenever I found a woman attractive, I never wondered if I was more attractive than her. She might be more attractive, I might be more successful ... I don't really get this whole thing about leagues. Does it only apply to physicality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:57 PM
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In other words, if you find her attractive she won't be interested ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:20 PM
2

Women who go for famous/rich men are looked down though They may be looked down on, but again it's considered judgemental to do so... While men going for minors is illegal. They are absolutely not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:12 AM
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That's a fair point, and is equally disturbing. However, there is an important difference; being attracted to minors isn't something normalised. I.e. sex with minors is a prison sentence. Society doesn't accept that. But being attracted to someone purely for fame, or because everyone else wants them.. that is acceptable within society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:45 PM
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It's funny how these suggestions come only from women. Kinda like a billionaire telling people "money doesn't matter, my hobby is what makes me happy "
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:29 PM
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I think it's thousands and it maybe minority, I think what's disturbing is that women go for that... the majority maybe just know they don't have a chance, or are restricted by norms/society... Men don't have that mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:20 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:36 PM
8

I think a lot of people on Reddit just get off to seeing relationships fail Its the impression i get too. Even people seeking advice, on relationship threads, the answer is always leave him/her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:32 AM
1

It won't matter who if you are killed.. so why prefer a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:12 AM
1

No let's make one thing clear.. the problem with the guy who followed you home, is that he followed you home. Not that he starred. A person who follows you home is likely to stare. A person who stares won't necessarily follow you home
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:21 AM
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Attention seeking.. I.e. making something out of nothing to get attention Sorry staring cannot be a crime. You are literally just sitting there doing nothing You don't own the space you sit it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:27 PM
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No it's just attention seeking Sometimes I will get lost in my thoughts, looking a certain direction, and people think I am staring at them. I would hardly register them if they didn't wave
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:20 PM
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Interesting take. Is it telling of what's is already there.. or is it trying to give their viewers the hope that they should aim for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:35 PM
3

Yeah but no you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:49 PM
1

I do hope so.. I mean fuck this stuff is really miserable I do want to think it's not real but then videos like the one posted does show there is a lot of dark shit out there in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, thank god indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah, if you don't know what you lose then you are not one of us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:12 PM
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I was underlying how men don't actually care about the consequences of their actions. They're perfectly ok with "ruining" "good" low n count women for fun, while further shooting their future selves in the foot when it comes to finding a good lt partner This is very true and very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:11 PM
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Yeah this thread makes me think there is another cultural war going on by men vs women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:07 PM
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If you have to lie about sex to get sex, you already lost
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:06 PM
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My bad. I genuinely didn't realize. So just for my understanding.. both men and women hate each other here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:02 PM
3

Well just look at your replies. I mean what's that shit about hand fucking You think women who masturbate do so because they can't get a man ? Just incoherent toxic thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:53 PM
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That didn't take much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:50 PM
1

They are not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:50 PM
2

Shouldn't your answers be the same for both genders ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:46 PM
0

So she was staring back ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:42 PM
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Everything you just said goes both ways, men to women, and women to men. Do you care what men feel ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:39 PM
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do it like a creep Are you 12 ? Because I have never ever heard a grown up use that word in public. Not to mention, what is creep? Every 12 year old you ask will have a different definition
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:38 PM
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How would she know he was staring at her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:37 PM
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No, we’re keenly aware that y’all don’t care how women feel Should we ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:36 PM
0

That is pretty fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:30 PM
2

How do you know he isn't asking Susan boyle out ? You have literally made the same comment everywhere as if you personally know the man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:28 PM
0

Can you name the one place in the UK where starring is illegal sexual harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:25 PM
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What is MRP
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 12:20 AM
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Probably. But isn't the issues that she influences a lot of young girls who don't realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:15 PM
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I'm saying this as a black man who has been assumed to be gay, and of the reasons cited, was that I talk with my hands too much Dude it seems like that particular experience had traumatised you. Couldn't you have just stood up for yourself and said. I am not gay and I talk with my hands, and fuck you ??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:04 PM
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This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:01 PM
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