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fireBadMeGood/r/askMRP07/10/20 03:35 PM
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fireBadMeGood/r/askMRP13/11/20 03:38 PM
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I just disagree with you, u/weakandsensitive. What do you think OP should do?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 01:46 AM
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Boxing from the ropes is feeling aggressively defensive all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 01:24 AM
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You need ego work. You spend the whole time boxing from the ropes. I know the feeling. Bring the ego under control, and the game will slow down for you and the difference between important and unimportant will become much clearer.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 12:17 AM
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Sex at home last week was decent. This is apparently what a 23 yo will do to you. Get laid for the first time at home in 4 years, and rate it "decent". LMFAO Mad props, man. Also, that shit about work is just as impressive. Rooting for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 12:10 AM
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I wouldn't edit. Just remember for next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 07:09 PM
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I'm gonna dig-in here a bit because there's a chance you're in the exact spot I was in 5 years ago, and it'd have been awesome if someone from the future would've shared his experience. (By the way, I've read the same story from like a half a dozen guys on here. So, I'm no snowflake.) I had a dead bedroom and a newborn around then, with two other toddlers. Career was demanding, but I was on my game there - climbing the ladder swiftly - because I gave it almost all of my time and attention. Wife …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 03:44 PM
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Ok, before you give me shit. Hold up. Yes, I play video games for about an hour or two a day. Why is it under action? Stop this shit. This is not a place for getting validation for your own feels about yourself. This is a place where you submit yourself to the scrutiny of other men. This shit wreaks of you not being able to take it, which would be a waste of time to give it to you. Be honest, not cloying or defensive. Whenever you feel yourself being defensive, write about where the defensivenes…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 02:27 PM
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Read others' OYSes. Put your stats up front so everyone has context. Less meaningless detail. More about problems, how you are handling and results observed from those efforts. Avoid rambling. This is not a journal (which you should have and use on your own). Let your OYS be boring if that's what the week was. But avoid boring weeks. Don't make drama. Make fun. ABOVE ALL, DON'T BULLSHIT.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 01:31 PM
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Count it as progress not to regress. Find and create streaks of behavior you wish integrate into yourself. Keep track of the streaks. Go for longer average streaks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 07:07 PM
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So ... what's next, captain?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 05:55 PM
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Stop the porn and jerking, dude. Can't fix your fuckin' when your fucker prefers to be fuckin' nuthin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 03:03 AM
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Just choose for yourself not to have sex for awhile. See what that does. See if you can flirt while knowing there's no sex at the end of it. Just try it for a week or two. When she starts to feel like sex is an intimate experience you share and not something you're trying to take from her, her God-given desire for it and you will open up. But she'll smell your needy horny ass a mile away, so get rid of that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 02:55 AM
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*kino, not link. Autocorrect.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 01:55 AM
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Just getting a needy vibe from you. She probably is too. That's unattractive, even from a good looking dude. Think about keeping up your kino while going monk mode for a week or two. It'll bring out some non-needy playfulness in you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 12:08 AM
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Instead of leaving the room, consider adding nonsequitur rapport breaks into your conversations. Just turn the conversation onto another topic. "That reminds me ....". You'll be amazed how easily you can pull her out of shit. Try to make it something both of you will make fun of. Keep it playful.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 07:37 PM
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It was a bit shocking to me how effective it had been at conveying my displeasure. He had been laying in bed for an hour thinking about it. This is the weighty responsibility of being dad. Way better to be in a spot where you only have to nudge a bit to get a big effect. But beware of it as a sign that he's walking on eggshells around you (you don't want that). Also, this has the corollary that positive displays of emotion, affection, and praise need not be grandiose either. Sprinkle them in mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 04:52 PM
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She had one breakdown crying episode. We had sex and after while she was cleaning off she said "you’re hotter than me" I replied "nah" taking it as a comfort test and not really knowing what to say. "I used to be the hot one" she said, then I said "your still hot babe" still fumbling through it. Then came the water works and she asked me to leave her alone. This is a shitty comfort test. The shitty part was her checking to see if you think of yourself as hot. You failed with "nah". You could've …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 04:42 PM
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I go to bed at my normal time, tired, yet can’t sleep. This has never before been a problem for me. I lay there, heart rate increases and I feel myself stressing out about how things didn’t go the way I expected, or how my wife didn’t respond favorably to my interactions with her. I’ve tried a bunch of things to calm down to the point where sleep can happen. I’m in my head, I’m in my wife’s head and inside I’m freaking out about things I can’t control. I’m not normally like this, so part of the …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 04:07 PM
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You say you read those books, but you don't seem to be applying them. Try reading the second half of Games People Play, and you'll see that you and her are both playing stupid games where you're taking dumb payoffs for yourself in the form of resentment - which is the death spiral for a relationship. Aim for being assertive without being a dick. Get the fucking groceries because you love your body and for no fucking other reason. Learn to withdraw your attention without trying to make her feel b…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 03:47 PM
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I stopped caring if my wife would ever have genuine desire for me or not. I’m a high value man, and I fuck her because I want to fuck. Then something totally unexpected happened: She started to like it. This weekend, she was genuinely excited when I initiated sex. I don’t mean physically excited (that’s still a work in progress), but mentally and emotionally. My sexuality is a gift, and when I gave her my full attention and masculine energy, she was positively bubbly. I have faith in my own wort…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 03:33 PM
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I just returned the behaviour to her Be careful with mirroring as a strategy. Too frequently, and you'll fall into her frame and be broadcasting that loudly with it. Also, there are all kinds of shitty games people will play if they know they can elicit a mood from you with their own mood. Instead, go for unaffected and just lighten up your approaches. Go read some of the Kino stuff about calibrating escalation and de-escalation. If you are always mirroring disinterest and walking away, you look…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:40 PM
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I don’t think it’s good to drag my fucked-upedness into conversations with others right now. This is dumb. Be alone because you want to be alone. Be social because you want socializing. Trust yourself with either, and when you're doing either, intentionally enjoy it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:20 PM
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OYS6 - 4 mos. in STATS late 30s; 5'8" 168# 20% Navy; married 15+y; same age wife, multiple kids deadlift 250#x5x5; squat 215x5x4; bench 145x4x4; ohp 105x4x4 day bang; enlightened sex manual; epictetus' discourses; games people play; htwfip; map; mmslp; models; mystery method; nmmng; pook; rational male 1; red pill university youtube (all 100-300 series); sgm; twosm; wisnifg UNOWNED SHIT MENTALITY - GREEN - UP: The calm continues for the most part. Much more control over reactions. Had a few test…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 01:03 PM
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I love that theres no metric system in Chad's mind when it comes to the dick he thinks he fucks with.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 06:37 PM
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If you got lung, there should be a decent blood splatter at intervals. If not, then he can go a pretty long way before he tires and decides to take his longest nap.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 02:16 PM
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I've found them crawled tight into thick cedars before. If you have a large blood pool, they will be down somewhere. We have a couple of stories of some that ran all over of our land, even with pretty bloody wounds. Also there can be a really long distance from one sign of blood to the next on a blood trail. So make sure when you get to the end of the blood trail, you're using a big radius to find the next sign of blood. Also, don't get down. Tracking the kill is part of the hunt too (and fun, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 12:58 PM
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Keep asking that man advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 05:57 PM
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You're so fucking young. And no kids. You are fortunate to have this experience now and come here. Put in the work and you will have one hell of a ride! You probably think I'm crazy, but I think you're very fortunate and am even a little envious. That's how much potential you have in your position. Use it! (That is, "Next!")
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 12:53 PM
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That shit’s just hypothetical, but that’s what the 1RPM spit out. When I used to focus and validate on calculated 1RMs (rather than tested 1RMs), it really inflated my ego and had me chasing that number, rather than keeping good form and intensity. That was bad for me. So much so, that I keep myself willingly ignorant of what my calculated 1RMs are currently. Maybe you're better than me. Maybe not.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 07:12 PM
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Suggestions? Tired of chicken and broccoli. I am eating a larger breakfast which I hope will help. I take vitD, fish oil, magnesium and vitk on the daily. Do protein shakes with added creatine every other day on lifting days, which I do at night. Sometimes on the cardio days, but this is only recent. You might think about creating a discipline around your hunger. When I started a drastic cut this summer, I would require myself to do things before I started eating - all of them being designed aro…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 07:05 PM
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feeling a lot better here as my fantasizing/anticipation/thirst is almost 0. I turned down sex once for the first time with wife and it totally changed my mind. I was scared of how I might feel (rejected), but I was fine. Also I think it reduces her anxiety about decline and negative reactions from me, because they are no more This is a nice sign of progress. When you can get past the craving/addiction feeling, you have so much more control. The energy may be lower, but you use it so much more w…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 06:59 PM
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Plus, for myself, I’ve generally already written all the interesting anecdotes in my journal by the time I get to this, so what’s left is a very meta analysis most of the time. I know this can be pretty boring to read, and I haven’t decided if I should try to change that. I’m not sure if I gain anything from crafting a more compelling narrative, since the target for this is me. Seems like a wise way to get return on this investment. But if you ever mush a donut ....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 06:53 PM
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Watch some youtube videos on the dicarlo escalation ladder. Will help you see that you're not a snowflake. So many dudes have trouble with this that there are "known techniques". Go slow. Don't Rambo. Just start getting used to being mindful of how you flirt and move up and down that ladder. Don't use it for sex. Use it for acquiring the skill set of learning how to read, escalate, and de-escalate tension with women. Baby steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 06:51 PM
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Ask that man who you used to be what he would do today.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:44 PM
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Also, STFU is bad idea for comfort test. May want to bone up on tests a bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 01:59 PM
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And, below the surface?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 01:45 PM
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Not at all. You can give aggressive flirt with the words and comfort with your affection. Grab her hands draw her close. Give her a hug. Stare in her eyes. Give her a comfort phrase and then hit her with the flirt line. Also, first one is definitely a shit test. Unreasonable demand. Not a comfort test.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 01:40 PM
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I had to hold back my laughter a couple weeks ago when the wife said ‘if I didn’t want to have sex anymore, I’d expect you to accept that and not go have sex with other people.” It wasn’t even worth pointing out the inherent problems in that statement, so I just STFU’d while working not to laugh. Around that same time, during the course of a day, I wasn’t being there for her or some crazy shit and later ‘I’m so glad you are my rock’. I think both times I just smiled. I wouldn't STFU about that s…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 03:41 AM
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Why are you here? What is wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 03:25 AM
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Translation: the temptation to accept this as validation is a temptation to complacency (i.e., death). Correction: "Fuck! Now I'm getting hit on by chicks who are too intimidated to approach the man I want to be." Disclaimer: I have no fucking clue what I'm talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 03:12 AM
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So much shit flying around at end of pregnancy and first year after. Gotta really refuse to let moods of house be your metrics. Look to objective metrics to measure your progress. Avoid letting hormonal sleep deprived shit thinking (yours or hers) into your judgment.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 03:00 AM
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I got shit-tested in front of her parents and she looked at me and smiled like she knew she was doing it. Her mom even said - I’m curious how you are going to respond to that? I just looked right at her and said - I don’t respond to crap like that and calmly walked out of the room. I know I’m supposed to hold frame, but it really pissed me off. Her mom piled on for the shit test? Fuck me. I would have gone Hulk on that. Props for keeping composure best you could. I can think of a couple of dudes…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:57 AM
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One fucking day, I hope to have the fucking wits to drop a line like this. One fucking day.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:49 AM
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OYS5 - 4 mos. in; back from rule 9 ban STATS late 30s; 5'8" 172# 20% Navy; married 15+y; same age wife, multiple kids deadlift 250#x5x3; squat 215x5x3; bench 145x5x3; ohp 105x5x3 day bang; enlightened sex manual; epictetus' discourses; games people play; htwfip; map; mmslp; nmmng; pook; rational male 1; sgm; twosm; wisnifg UNOWNED SHIT * MENTALITY - GREEN - UP: Awesome 2 weeks on this front. So much more relaxed and calmer than I've been since starting RP in July. Still have bouts of anger and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:35 PM
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Sorry, I dropped off on this. Was under a Rule 9 ban. Some of research is reviewed here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5983157/ There's a subculture of calisthenics gurus high on this notion. Here's a guy is pretty big on this theory, though not to my knowledge a professional researcher or scientist: https://reddeltaproject.com/grind-style-calisthenics/ You may well be right. The energy boost might be just the cardio and yoga. The one thing I really do like about the red delta guy…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/20 10:36 PM
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Sounds like she doesn't trust you with the money or the time or both. Is that on you or her?
/r/askMRP09/11/20 02:23 AM
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Don't know current 1RMs. Could calculate based on latest 3x5 sets, but that's not same as a test. Not chasing PRs, so don't really care. The slow-twitch mitochondria stuff is empirically valid, peer-reviewed, and (most importantly for me) personally effective, at least over last few months. That doesn't make it not bro science, but it does pass my ultimate test. Powerlifting for PRs ain't the only way to get me fit. But it is challenging in the way may current workout is not, and I do miss that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 10:56 PM
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She has left you. If you go back, now knowing what you previously didn't, will you be able to cash all the checks that decision will write? I'd bet less than 1% of all men all time can shoulder that boulder.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 04:25 PM
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Me too
/r/askMRP28/10/20 04:15 PM
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It was not a "reasonable cut" - it was a "I'm going to get my fat ass leaner, even if it kills my lifts". Earlier this year, I was hovering around 190 lbs with 1RMs in squat of 300 and dead of 340. Felt fat, exhausted all the time. Ate everything. Did no cardio or conditioning. Shitty form. No mobility. Dropped all my lifts arbitrarily by 50% to focus on form, save energy for cardio, bodyweight calisthenics, and yoga. Ate basically salad and sardines. Have been working up from there much more sl…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 03:19 PM
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Can relate so much to this post. Press on. Yes to the blocking and tackling. No to the looking behind for lost ground. Also, check for elephants in the room. A ruined week sometimes points at them.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 09:31 PM
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Shit salad of thoughts - lol Thanks for working your way through it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 07:41 PM
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I like both sides of your discussion here, guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 06:20 PM
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... cont'd (2/2) UNOWNED SHIT EGO - RED - UP: This is my elephant. It is #1 priority. It has been poisoning everything. It's still needing most of my attention. Trending up this week because I've gained two tools in dealing with it. One is u/2wo2wo3hree's advice in my OYS2 to ask myself if I deserve the things my ego resents not getting. Doing that over and over again has been extremely effective for putting myself in my place and acting from there. Two is re-reading Epictetus' Discourses. He ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 06:13 PM
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OYS4 STATS late 30s; 5'8" 167# 19% Navy; married 15+y; same age wife, multiple kids deadlift 210#x5x3; squat 195x5x3; bench 130x5x3; ohp 105x5x3 day bang; enlightened sex manual; htwfip; map; mmslp; nmmng; pook; rational male 1; sgm; twosm; wisnifg EXTENDED BACKGROUND Wall of text alert. I'm wanting to invest further here, but haven't really done any explanation about what brought me here. So, here goes. Several years ago, while wife was pregnant, I had a dead bedroom and was probably dealing wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 06:13 PM
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Just be careful with what she tells you. She likely doesn't know what she really needs. If she's never been gaga over gifts, I wouldn't start with that. But she might feel off kilter for not having things to do for you. Next time you get up to do something with baby, ask her to do something for you. "Babe, please bring me a coffee." Don't get butthurt if she doesn't. If she does, give her a wink and an ass slap. Be on the lookout for the very subtle ways she is trying to please you (like asking …
/r/askMRP27/10/20 12:19 AM
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Its always all your fault. Whether it is or not. And that's really it, isn't? Manhood is about offloading fucks and onboarding responsibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/20 07:04 PM
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Add progressive conditioning (like couch25k) to your week. Do it on non-lift days, so you are greasing the groove everyday. Do it on a stationary bike so you can remove weather as an excuse. Do it with heart rate monitor. Keep your HR in aerobic or anaerobic range. Your energy will skyrocket and your body will become more efficient at using your fat stores as fuel. This is oft called after burn. With your fasting duration, you're probably already flirting with keto. Make sure you only eat sugar …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/20 12:13 PM
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On lifting, the pursuit is the art. For example, trying to lift heavy at 30lbs. lighter, is a whole new challenge than what you've done before. Play with it. Look into the progressive bodyweight calisthenics world too. They lift heavy, but it's about intensity in the body, not necessarily weight on the bar. Cool concepts.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 11:13 PM
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Saving this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/20 11:09 PM
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For future reading: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/cu36w5/a_chapter_on_frame/
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/20 01:31 PM
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My initial reaction to this comment was to think, "but that's settling for who you are, where you are, forgoing progress." After further thought, I realized my reaction is as a man motivated by the externals of appearance-to-others and outcome, not motivated by his own rational desire. It is a man who continues to progress after not caring about appearance or outcome who is free. I am not that man. Perhaps one day I will be. I have a long way to go. But merely being able to see it is new and exc…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/20 12:37 PM
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(Nods and tries to act like he has any inkling of what the fuck frame is.)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 06:58 PM
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2/2 At this point, it's starting to dawn on me that I'm really fucking myself and her up on everything. I'm zigging exactly when I should be zagging. But I literally felt like I couldn't see the road or turn the wheels in time. So, I try to STFU. Keep the peace while finishing dinner, getting kids down, etc. Then, I just go to bed. As I lay there, I start to rage. So, I breathe and meditate. But it just builds and builds and builds. I get up, lay on the couch. Read some MRP posts. I understand t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 03:49 PM
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OYS#3 Late 30s; 5'8" 168# Navy: 19%; married 15+y; wife late 30s, multiple kids 5/3/1 training maxes: row 140#; squat 195; bench 140; dead 190; ohp 105 | Convict Calisthenics (levels): pushup 2; handstand 3; dip 1; squat 3; leg raise 1; pullup 2; bridge 2 | 30m bike (couch to 5k splits) (mins / heart rate): 5/155; 20/175; 5/155 Ego. Fucking ego. It's my elephant and my vampire, as well as the vampire of those around me. When I started fucking around with MRP shit earlier this year, I thought: "M…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 03:49 PM
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Point taken. That's the nice thing about a voluntary anonymous community. You have to manifest all of the input yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 07:45 PM
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"chilling the fuck out and calmly dealing with them like waves in the ocean has worked well - and is 1000% less emotionally draining." Spoke to me
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 07:08 PM
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Just want to let you know that I thought this was a very inspiring post.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 07:02 PM
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Thanks a lot. Meant that triggering was a waste. Agreed that the post comments were great, but there were some trolls (including me). Ego's a legit issue with me. Y'all are probably the only people in my life holding me directly accountable for it, which is extremely valuable. Will focus on it in my journaling.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 09:38 PM
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I'm sorry I was a dick to you. Thanks for taking the time and effort.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 08:25 PM
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OYS#2 Late 30s; 5'8" 175# Navy: 19%; married 15+y; wife late 30s, multiple kids 5/3/1 training maxes: row 140#; squat 195; bench 140; dead 190; ohp 105 | Convict Calisthenics (levels): pushup 2; handstand 3; dip 1; squat 3; leg raise 1; pullup 2; bridge 2 | 30m bike (couch to 5k splits) (mins / heart rate): 5/155; 20/175; 5/155 This will be short and shitty. Re-read MAP and need to spend the time focusing my own MAP and less on MRP. Last week, I fucked around on askMRP and got triggered. That wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 08:22 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP08/10/20 12:53 AM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP08/10/20 12:53 AM
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Okay
/r/askMRP08/10/20 12:51 AM
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Read this post many times. One of the reasons I respect horns. His take on dread conforms to my standards and he implements toward the same goal I seek. I'm sure he's not the only one, but he is the most published on it. Anyway, thanks for sharing the link. I'll give it another read tonight too.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 11:00 PM
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You're giving me attention, but not value. And you keep judging on limited information. Your judgment just doesn't seem reliable to me. But I do appreciate your attention and effort. Yes, my OYS admits that I'm too sensitive, but the too sensitive me would try and flatter you and be too sensitive to tell you what I honestly think. I'm trying to kill that man, which is why I'm telling you what I think. In this case, I think you're just looking for a punching bag. And while I appreciate the effort…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 10:48 PM
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You and I are definitely on a wavelength. On good judgment, that was the part I didn't STFU about last night when I went for option 2. I let her know my desire was for "our bed to be a place unlike any other in the world - where you can be what you want to be without my judgment." I previously told her this when she did a similar after-the-fact comfort test a couple of weeks ago. I also let her know (again repeating what I'd said a couple of weeks ago) that I understand if she doesn't trust me l…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 10:13 PM
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Good point. I don't think that, but I can see how you are reading this and how I am probably not acting in alignment with my thoughts about that.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 09:19 PM
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Nice. So, she does reciprocate the dirty talk in bed. She cums very hard with it. She fights it either very early when gaming, or comfort tests it very afterward. It has (for time being) banished starfish from our bedroom. This is why ASD comes to mind. Her actions say yes, but words say no. I want to do it precisely because we both are fully immersed when we have that kind of sex. I don't want to do it all the time, but I do want it for the adventure and immersion it brings. We've been doing it…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 09:16 PM
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The real indicator to me that your advice is suspect is that your bottom line is that I STFU during am intense comfort test, rather than lean into the emotional space such test is probing for. Horns' advice mattered, though saying little, because he's an open book on here and, having read his year of OYS, I can see that depth is part of his conquest. It is part of my conquest too. It does not appear to be a part of yours. Thanks for offering your perspective, even if I don't find it resourceful …
/r/askMRP07/10/20 09:04 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to break that down. This is helpful.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 08:42 PM
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Horns gave me value. Red made it about him being some kind of superior man, like you're implicitly and defensively attempting to do, and neither of you delivered me any value. Not trying to hurt your feelings, just calling balls and strikes.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 08:29 PM
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I hear you. Thanks
/r/askMRP07/10/20 08:06 PM
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You assume I'm dumb and read your assumptions into my post at every turn. I didn't quote the whole conversation or context. I gave you my conclusions and diagnoses and how I reasoned from those onward. It's fine to doubt my conclusions, but you're assuming your perspective is way better than mine, when it's not. I gave only one direct quote, and Horns zeroed in on it. You, on the other hand, seem not able to identify when someone is clearly summarizing. I didn't get anything from the time you sp…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 07:56 PM
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I'm glad for you. I'll read a bit up on you, looking for value. If you are the master you present yourself as, you will not mind if I remain unconvinced, and you will understand why.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 07:50 PM
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Your fourth point struck bone. Thanks
/r/askMRP07/10/20 07:44 PM
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Thought you'd say something like that. So, maybe you're not all that hard to figure out. No offense, but you'll also have to persuade me that knowing you at all (let alone well) is worth the time. C'est la vie.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 07:33 PM
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I hear you. Thanks
/r/askMRP07/10/20 06:13 PM
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You'll have to persuade me there's no ASD in a relationship. Both Rational Male and Married Man Sex Life Primer explain it as ever-present and something that needs to be gamed against. Lots of MRP posts and comments attest to it also. But, point taken that if your value is high enough, it doesn't matter.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 06:00 PM
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Also, thanks for saying something that matters.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 05:52 PM
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Definitely trying to experiment with the buzzword concepts and thus am trying learn-by-failure and get you guys to test/correct my accuracy in using them, like Horns did. But if it costs me the substance of the feedback, then you're right - stop using the buzzwords. On field report, what I write is what I write. It's for me, I don't really care how it's met here. From what I've seen, someone can write something that really speaks to me, and get just trampled by commenters who obviously are showi…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 05:48 PM
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Well, since I've been drunk captaining for a while, figure it makes sense to maybe sober up and get more thoughtful about shit I really love, like my wife. I agree with Socrates; the unexamined life isn't worth living. Strategy enlivens the pursuit, and the pursuit enlivens life itself. Not sure you enjoy, or find freedom in, the thinking as much as I do. Maybe you do. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 05:00 PM
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I didn't mention it, but I do, and enjoy, aftercare. I have read and will re-read that post, because I'm obviously either fucking it up, doing too little, or not giving it enough time. I'll also read up on ASD. As you've made me wonder whether I know what the fuck it is. Can you send me a link on where to put my dick during sex too? Seriously, though, thanks.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:26 PM
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Maybe so. There's no question that I'm trying to game her. And there's no question that I'm experimenting with RP tactics. I'm working on outcome independence, but the outcome-optimizer in me is strong. You point is a good one. Will consider it further.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:10 PM
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When you say they don't do it the same, do you mean that a woman doesn't do it at the same time? I think mine does, but I'm not jedi at this shit enough to feel certain about that. By "running the ASD game," you mean you are intentionally provoking her ASD? Or do you mean you've broken her ASD and she's just submissive.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 03:54 PM
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Two biggest issues (just flagging now, more work on these later): How do I truly get to the point of NGAF about what people think. My ego feasts on praise and flagellates itself for the slightest perceived disapproval. It can completely paralyze me. What to do with work? Cut bait and go for a better catch? Or do a deep dive to fully exploit where I am? For each choice, I can argue it's a losing choice or a high value choice. True decision indeed. I need to set a deadline and conditions to satisf…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:20 PM
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So much this. Yes! Exactly the diagnosis and treatment.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/20 09:06 PM
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Read it all this weekend. This is really just amazing. Honestly blown away by this.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/20 06:39 PM
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Probably obvious, but I didn't see it contributed:. Make sure you are squeezing like hell on every other bar lift you do. I also use hand trainers when working at my desk
/r/askMRP05/10/20 05:31 PM
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The me that will read it a dozen times this weekend wondering how much of it is true now and will be true later.
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