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I had to look back at your comment to even remember why I even asked this question. Why did she pick you over the 37 year old guy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:51 AM
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Lol that username
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:49 AM
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I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:47 PM
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Why are you blackmailing me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:46 PM
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Don’t do this man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:43 PM
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What!? Why would you do that when I’ve done nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:36 PM
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What do you mean? I never dm’d you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:34 PM
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I really do apologize and ask for your forgiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:12 PM
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You’re right. I will no longer judge my skin color
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:10 PM
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You are white and racist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:09 PM
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Not gonna lie. You had me in the first half. Well played
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:07 PM
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White people can be so arrogant sometimes. What do you have against POCs? I also used to be ignorant like you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:01 PM
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You’re the racist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:49 PM
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Is the whittle white boy triggered? Tough takkies. BLM!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:48 PM
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Lol stupid white boy LARPing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:17 PM
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Make me bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:06 PM
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Why is she your fiancé? So many red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:05 PM
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Lol. The top comment on your last post has more than 7 times as many votes as the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:20 PM
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Ah. A 7 figure meta worth is not rich. It’s above average (depending on where you live) but far from rich. Tall starts from 6’5 so if your bf is that height then congrats. Handsome is subjective. A combination of these make you high value not a singular attribute. It seems that he only has 1 maybe 2 out of those 5 traits and unfortunately for you power, money and status count for the most. That’s still privileged. The government recognised their efforts and provided them with shelter. Talk to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:19 PM
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So the government sponsored a house for you. It must be nice to be from a country where the government cares enough to provide shelter that you didn’t pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:10 AM
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$100k is average there because you come from a very privileged place. That’s all there is to it. That could be any Asian country. A relatively well off one as well. You say your family worked hard but you ended up sleeping on a floor with rats. Make it make sense. Also there’s nothing special about that. People who aren’t as privileged as yourself don’t even note rats as something worth mentioning because they’ve got even bigger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:40 AM
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He hasn’t experienced real struggle then. Americans are very privileged. You might just bet very privileged yourself. I don’t understand how someone could not at least make a $100k p.a salary with all the opportunities available. Which country is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:15 AM
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So you know and dated him for how long exactly? Also working three jobs as a teen or twenty something is not special. Maybe to people who are used to privileged upbringing. The fact that he had a car to live out of shows the level of privilege. Why was he even in a halfway house situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:59 AM
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That’s a decent income but you act like as if it makes you something special. Lots of people make that kind of money. Part of your criteria is being a doormat so I wouldn’t be surprised if only a small fraction of men are willing to put up with that. I didn’t post what I thought qualified. You made your own criteria and then filled it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:38 AM
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Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:28 AM
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What was the username?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:26 AM
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Actually they do suggest alternative ages like dinner. I’ve seen this more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:24 AM
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um ok but how much do you earn? You were bragging a few moments ago but now you can’t provide a simple number. This leads me to believe you’re actually insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:20 AM
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I wish more men had this mentality instead of jumping through hoops like performing seals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:13 AM
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No one is triggered by, trying to tear down or is jealous of your man. You’re being paranoid and projecting. There’s just nothing that makes him objectively high value. Saying he earns more than most men in this sub doesn’t tell us much because you’re basing it off assumptions and anyone can make decent money (if you’re talking 6-7 figures). But since you brought it up how much do you earn per annum or what’s your net worth? I’m not RP but I can understand why they’d be against marrying (women l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:11 AM
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Saving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:05 AM
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Low standards. I don’t care how attractive she is. That’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:04 AM
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So you earn more than him but I’m supposed to believe that he’s an objectively high value male with a solid career? Ok. Multi instrumentalist. So? That doesn’t make someone high value. I notice you’re trying to list off things in the hopes that it’ll impress me. It’s like he’s a toy that you’re showing off. Are you even in love with him? You’re childfree. You and a significant portion of FDSers (if they aren’t already single mothers lol). Keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:54 AM
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Oh did you conduct a survey where you questioned every woman on earth? I don’t think so. Someone (an individual) in the manosphere (which I’m not even a part of) came up with them term and a few agreed. You act like there was a unanimous decision. All of those things are attributes that your average man who puts in the slightest bit of effort has. It seems you’re not impressed by much. Dating is a crapshoot for some of you because most women not only do you select badly but they bring nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:32 AM
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All six? What’s that? Also modelling doesn’t make you high value. If that’s your only criteria then I can understand why you’ve apparently dated what you claim were HVM. Also if they were so high value then why aren’t you still with them? This leads me to believe that you are the issue. You need to get offline and stop listening to your bitter friends then. Your sense of reality is warped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:20 AM
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They’re literally commenting here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:12 AM
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Say that most of the men that YOU deal with are shit men. There’s a fairly even distribution of low value men and women. You and other FDSers are just bad at selecting. Your boyfriend (I noticed you don’t mention anything about being married) is a HVM to you because he caters to your demands but he isn’t objectively high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:08 AM
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The FDSers are up in arms about this post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:56 AM
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Yes. FDS exists because those particular women attract shitty men. After reading some of the stuff there I’m not surprised as to why. A HVM is simply a high status, rich, tall, powerful or handsome man. How he treats his woman (they usually have multiple) has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:55 AM
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Women could apply for those same union jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:52 AM
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Read some of my other replies before you throw around accusations. Pick mes do feel pleasure. With prostitutes I’m sure it depends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:53 PM
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Even if what you’re saying is true (highly doubt it) FDS women spread misandrist and bad attitudes to other women so all’s even. The effect of porn on women is just as bad as the effect of FDS on men. I’m glad you understand. Also those high value men you speak of are just rich simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:52 PM
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So you admit that they’re currently not the norm and FDS women just attract them en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:34 PM
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In what world is a man commuting to or marrying a slut or a woman who’s too easy a good idea? Porn isn’t needed to see how counterproductive that idea is. The definition of a pick me has been extended by FDS to include to women that respect and treat men well. They are threatened by an actual HVW who enjoys the company of her man. The men YOU and your fellow FDSers date ask for anal and to choke you. You attract and select for these types of men. That’s not our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:14 PM
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Men have the same barriers to become doctors as men do. You act like every man easily has economic support. If women don’t want to be exploited as health technicians or nurses then study to become doctors. A man who willingly becomes a health technician and then complains afterward as about being exploited compared to the doctors would be laughed out the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:33 PM
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Do you have proof of that or are you projecting? Anecdotally I’ve found that simps cause women to be rude, obnoxious and disrespect men so I can see how you’d assume men are the same. The biggest bitches tend to be women who encountered one too many yes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:26 PM
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Those women are rejecting men en masse leading to them fleeing to porn anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:37 AM
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They’re against that as well. They believe those women can’t consent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:35 AM
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To be fair women exploit those caricatures themselves. They’re not even caricatures. They’re attractive feminine bodies. What man doesn’t like a nice round plump bottom and breasts Honestly if I was black I wouldn’t care if white people were jerking off to black face. I’d find it a bit weird though. Did you just say having sex with anther man is not gays
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:35 AM
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I would want sex but not with the same raw intense desire
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:42 AM
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I agree with you on how sex work is exploitative. As for sex not being big deal. Men have to deal daily with intense sexual urges (there are fluctuations) hence why a lot of them masturbate frequently to keep them at bay. It’s not something that’s easy to ignore. You may ignore sex but our body will constantly remind you of its desire to feel orgasm. How you choose to deal with it is up to you. Advertising, social media and half naked women in summer don’t exactly make this situation any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:41 AM
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Women are also free to become doctors and administrators you know. They’re in those professions by a choice. I would argue mine workers and other jobs dominated by men are more exploited than nurses and teachers. I agree with you on the cons of sex work. I will point out however that some women do it because they relatively easy money and far more than what they might get paid in another job given their skill set. There was a program once that rescued 15 year old sex workers and equipped them wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:37 AM
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FDS loves rich and handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:32 AM
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To be fair one could argue that trafficking and abusing women isn’t worth getting your dick wet but assuming the porn is non-exploitative I see what you’re saying. Also it’s more like the 99/1 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:32 AM
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u/ImaniX_ I agree with both of you that porn is abusive to the actors and actresses. As for it stopping men from lusting after their wives? Well when you’re used to being rejected by woman after woman you’re bound to find an alternative. It’s not like you expected to end up in a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:29 AM
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As much as I still get tempted to view it this in combination with the fact that most actresses do drugs makes porn very offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:15 AM
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Interesting. So they’re under the assumption that you’re lying to keep your clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:12 AM
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Ah an FDSer I see. Well I actually agree with you. I may have been too quick to jump to assumptions. FDSers can be quite annoying. I’m curious though. Where does amateur porn fall? Assuming it’s a couple who are both willingly consenting and distributing porn. Would you be against that? (If you could know for sure that both parties consented).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:11 AM
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Read through the sub. They’re the female equivalent of mgtows + incels (for decent relationships). I think many of them have given up on finding a HVM. They’ve realized that there isn’t enough to go around especially by their standards. No they don’t really bother me. Some of them are crazy but they make some valid points now and again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:12 PM
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I’ve essentially stopped porn but one of the issues I’d have is that I’d go long periods of time being single. I’d give up on women and resort to porn to quench my thirst. Just when I’d be knee deep in my addiction (I wasn’t really addicted but you get the point) an opportunity for sex would pop up. I’d then be unenthusiastic simply because I’d have spent myself. What frustrates me is that these opportunities pop up when you least expect it. Women show you almost zero interest. I swear if I were…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:10 PM
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The definition of a pick me can be very subjective. A HVM could be very gentle and loving with a pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:06 PM
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FDS keeps moving the goalposts of what’s a high value man according to what suits them in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:53 PM
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I wish r/FemaleDatingStrategy would respond to this but they’re cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:51 PM
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Technically it should only describe women who compromise on their own self worth but FDS would call you a pick me because you allow and watch porn with your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:43 PM
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It would filter out men who would judge you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:34 PM
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The only receipt I need: r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:33 PM
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Well played
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:33 PM
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One group will argue that the other aren’t real feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:11 PM
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Just go on their sub. They’re all about staying single now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:11 PM
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They haven’t found a good enough reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:11 PM
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That’s what I tried explaining to them in a thread long ago. They keep their n count secret from men so he won’t freak out and leave but shouldn’t they use that to filter out undesirable men? The truth is a HVM is someone who’s rich, handsome and has status. Ideally these men would commit and treat them well which doesn’t always happen but FDS would like them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:10 PM
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Prostitution is legal in the uk!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:08 PM
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Thank you for sharing. That’s fucked up. I had my own experience with a sex worker. I slept with her but it was for free because she was attracted to me and I didn’t know that she was a sex worker when I approached her. I managed to convince her to leave and find a different job. It’s not a job I’d judge someone for doing but I wouldn’t recommend it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:08 PM
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FDS spends time mocking these men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:02 PM
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Yes and if they could shame men for that they would
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:01 PM
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Check out FDS. One of the posts claimed that ALL prostitution is rape because the woman wouldn’t sleep with the man otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:01 PM
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Hence why FDS are starting to give up and have instead become WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:00 PM
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A very comprehensive and balanced take. Your points are all reasonable and make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:57 PM
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What porn are people watching that’s actually rape. Even when I used to watch porn the acts seemed very consensual and the actors of age. I note your other points though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:50 PM
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Pick me is a woman who goes out of her way to please her man. Who thinks she’s a ‘cool girl’s Like a male simp but it’s been extended by FDS to include any woman who disagrees with them or defends men in any manner. You’d be a pickme (to them).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:49 PM
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Fair. They still irk FDS posters because they tap into the rich men market
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:46 PM
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Trad fems. They’re like radical feminists but they still want the privileges of being a woman (being asked out, paid for, wined and dined etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:45 PM
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Some of their methods are counter productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:43 PM
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Not necessarily. Some very desirable men are also taken off the market. More so with pick mes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:54 PM
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and yet FDS members all day online complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:53 PM
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I’m actually in the process of quitting porn I’ll have you know. I did slip up yesterday but I can’t remember the last time I masturbated. Do you think all porn is harmful? What about amateur and home made?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:52 PM
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Yeah the men on this site are more obsessed with porn to a worrying degree. It’s own small thing that me and FDS can agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:51 PM
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That’s true but I think FDS also doesn’t want these factors to decrease the number of eligible handsome men. If Chad would rather look at porn, bang easy women or pay for it then it disqualifies him. They don’t want that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:49 PM
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You’re right. Lib fems and gay men may be the only true feminists (using the equality definition). Trad fems know it will introduce competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:47 PM
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Ok I can’t remember when last I masturbated and although I slipped up recently I’ve generally been off porn for a while but wtf is rosebudding? From your description I’m not even going to look it up. Wtf is wrong with you people!? I also don’t see the big deal with anal sex (I confess that I almost got into it at one point though) but to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:32 PM
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How do you feel about famous and eligible men who’ve paid for sex (e.g. Christiano Ronaldo)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:17 PM
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Very nice take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:16 PM
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Yes they do. Not all but many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:15 PM
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because they thought it would give them power. Radical feminists realized that this still plays into men’s (the ones they hate so much) hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:14 PM
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Hence why they hate pick mes. They decrease the amount of eligible men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:08 PM
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I think most men are against simps because they inflate women’s egos. I couldn’t care less about them struggling with dating. Problem is they’re taking us all down with them. I agree with your last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:07 PM
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You may be but a lot of other women are just threatened by sexual competition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:04 PM
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Pick mes, porn and prostitutes (to a lesser degree perhaps) also affect the rich and handsome men that they want to fuck. Hookers are threats for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:52 PM
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What about those prostitutes who actively seek out rich men to live lavish lifestyles and mock women who have to work and men who can’t afford them. They don’t really seem like victims to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:30 PM
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Some men don’t have the ability to cheat (without paying). They’re not attractive enough. By outlawing prostitution you take away one of their avenues to obtain sex. This means that they have to give in to the feminist imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:27 PM
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I’m sure some of you genuinely care. Others are just mad that men don’t have to struggle to obtain sex which results in them putting up with less nonsense from FDSers and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:26 PM
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Thanks for your reponse. You’ve given me an idea for another post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:24 PM
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That is efficient. If you’re high value then you should have bigger issues to concern yourself with than a woman’s attitude. Replace her if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:29 AM
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I suggest you just ignore or walk away if possible. Don’t entertain women’s emotional rollercoaster and don’t put yourself in a position to be affected by them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:49 AM
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I’ve come across 2 FDS orientated women One had gone through a bad relationship or two. She had requirements that men who wanted to court her had to take her out to dinner or be a millionaire however I found out she was dating some random ‘slacker’ type dude who seems to have done neither. I think the requirements were for men she wasn’t physically attracted to. The other one had three different men she was dating and who would take her out to dinner. She believed that she was the prize and her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:46 AM
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The question was about a random woman. If it’s your wife or gf then you have to prepare to be stabbed/shot/beaten up by a group of assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:06 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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