firefangled Archive

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–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. What I don’t understand is men who want to have sex with a woman who is not enthusiastically consenting. If she’s not that into it, even if you are horny & find her attractive, move on. Don’t guilt trip her or try to wear her down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 06:41 PM
11	Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating Apps Isn’t this problem and its explanation well known? Dating apps have a much higher proportion of men vs women (70% men and 30%women). I believe some dating apps have also been found to inflate the #s of women with bots to make their platform more desirable to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 08:51 PM
1	Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners? Most men, and particularly the ‘Chad’s’ as you call them, are bad at pleasuring a woman. So, in the end, after she’s had her dalliances with ‘Chad’s’ and … what are the others called? … and is left equally sexually underwhelmed. she chooses the men that reflect what she’s known and seen growing up ( ex if father/mother are angry and triggered all the time, she will gravitate towards angry and triggered people because that’s familiar to those she loves, or who trigger a trauma response that they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 11:45 PM
2	What do you do when you’re right in a disagreement? If he is triggered, it most likely has to do with past trauma. I have experience with people who grew up with parents who were authoritarian and didn’t respect their children’s opinions, wants or needs. They weren’t show much affection and rarely head ‘I love you’ or ‘I’m proud of you’. As adults they are triggered by anything they deem as disrespectful- they have a disproportionate reaction to things many would consider ‘not a big deal’. Like having a differing opinion is okay for most, but for…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/24 11:12 PM
1	Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? That would be up to the friend how they want to handle it but for me personally I’d be hurt if they knew and hadn’t either told my SO to come clean or tell me about it. I wouldn’t be angry with them for not telling me because more than likely they had their reasons. But I’d certainly let them know how their actions or inactions hurt me. But again, that’s just me. Other people may feel differently. My mother never forgave my Dad’s colleague who anonymously called her up to tell her Dad was having…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 04:01 PM
2	Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? You do realize that women are also individuals with different life experiences, thoughts and personalities and not some borg creature? FFS. Not all of us treat toxicity the same way BECAUSE of our different experiences, trauma, personality, etc. Some will put up with it but not like it. Some will seek it because that’s what they know even though it harms them. Some will avoid it. Some will pretend it’s no big deal. Some will directly address it and call it out... ETC. ETC. WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAM…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:40 PM
-1	Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t. Not sure what that means but the armed forces es is rampant is misogyny, SA and rape of their female soldiers. Maybe if that was eliminated, a female soldier would be less justified in her misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:59 PM
10	"Women would rather share an alpha than settle for a beta" Does this extend to marriage? Have you discussed how your children will be treated or acknowledged? Will they legally be his children and receive the same as their half siblings (in terms of support and inheritance)? Will you live separately or will you live with him and his legal wife? Does his fiancé know and accept you? What assurances will you have of financial security if he decides to leave you?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/24 02:48 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. When someone is in danger, gender shouldn’t play a role. If you are a human, you help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 08:48 PM
1	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals On that we agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:57 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. I’m bisexual and in my experience. with 2 women, we both are highly invested in giving the other the most pleasurable experience. We don’t stop until both have cum and/or satisfied at least once. Maybe we need to educate people on how to better communicate their needs and preferences. So men can feel comfortable saying, I feel like it’s all on me…I’d like you to … etc. it’s not hard. You just have to have the courage to share what you enjoy and any stressors you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:56 PM
3	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals You’ll find that women are people. And as people, they have different responses depending on their own experiences, trauma and triggers. You cannot sweepingly say that women are not empathetic. Because there are definitely women who are just as there are men who are empathetic because … they are people. We may have been encouraged to adhere to this Mother Mary archetype of empathy and nurturing because if we weren’t, we could be harmed, belittled.or even killed. Sadly, these lessons were not giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:47 PM
–	Boyfriend wishes I was more girly and fun This sounds like he’s trying to find reasons, no matter how flimsy, to justify cheating on you with another woman. Have you noticed home getting angry or impatient with you? Accusing you of things that seem out of nowhere? You might want to check if this is the case. Either way he’s acting like an asshole and you deserve better.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/24 12:14 AM
4	Male sexuality is beautiful and as important as emotional bonding is Fun fact: women like sex too	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 02:20 AM
1	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c Let’s confirm we’re thinking about the same thing. MO to me is orgasming during one session with minutes apart. And no I’ve not achieved that when masturbating sadly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 02:21 AM
1	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c I am in no way representative of the entire female sex, however I have never experienced it. I heard there was a woman who did years ago but among us women (those in my life who speak of these things), the consensus was it was a myth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 02:08 AM
1	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c “Most women have the capacity to have multiple orgasms, but past research suggests only about 15% actually do.” https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-are-multiple-orgasms-how-common-are-they/	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 01:59 AM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. But there has always been recourse for lonely men to have sex with a woman. There are many women - hundreds of thousands)- who will have sex with men and it often costs less or on par with the cost of a dinner and a movie. I don’t understand how differently it should be addressed? Unless you mean a relationship gap?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 09:01 AM
6	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. The orgasm gap occurs when people are having consensual sex. It is about ensuring your partner also experiences pleasure. The sexless gap occurs outside of that dynamic. To fix it would require what exactly? A rota of reluctant (lie back and think of the male need to nut in a v*gina) sex that I gather will continue to be unsatisfying to the female partner? The comparison is not in same ballpark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:53 PM
4	I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore" My apologies! I read that wrong. And I’m glad I did. and it’s not mandatory. Although changing a law is much easier than changing cultural beliefs or acceptance, sadly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 01:00 PM
-1	I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore" All great points!! Just curious where circumcision is mandated? If so that’s terrible. In Canada they had that rule decades ago but now they don’t. There are some health advantages - less likely to get infected without proper hygiene and lower isk of contracting HIV through unprotected sex - but those can easily be remedied with good hygiene and using protection. It’s not necessary. I’m sorry if it is mandated where you live. And mandatory draft isn’t always only men anymore, not that a mandator…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 12:53 PM
1	Why most marriages fail Marriage was designed as a financial transaction to solidify the continuation of a family line and perpetuate the human race. The people who lived in community and not in a silo with a partner prospered because they realized a marriage is not enough to satisfy the soul and support the body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 10:36 PM
3	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? The scientific studies are unanimously agreed that women who live alone (or without a male partner) live longer - even with kids. For men, it’s quite the opposite. I guess men are trying to gaslight us into thinking we need them to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 08:06 PM
9	Father/daughter enmeshment (being a daddys girl) is as destructive as mother/son enmeshment (being a mommas boy). Why does no one talk about it? So in both cases it’s the woman’s fault for the enmeshment??	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 01:28 AM
1	How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable? That’s a perfectly reasonable reason to leave a job. It seems like your version of accountability’ is for women to fall on their knees and beg forgiveness for being with with someone who makes them unhappy. Why? because she lowered her standards and neglected her needs to be with them. Would you be okay with her saying “I made a mistake in being with you. I realize that we are not good for each other and the relationship has made me unhappy because you are not the type of partner I need. I’m sur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 05:44 PM