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One of my last few boyfriends did this. He told me his future plans (both marriage minded) and seemed to be acting on them. Then he made two excuses prolonging completing the previous agreed upon plans. Broke up with him asap with his surprised Pikachu face. Lol He was 7 years older than me. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:20 AM
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I can relate to this a lot. I'm in my late 20's tho. I want family and kids , but I've flipped from thinking I need a husband to have kids to, I can do this by myself. I already was planning to be the main caretaker. What difference does a man make in my plans? Not much tbh. I'm planning to make enough to support my family and hire nannys. I have enough siblings that are close by that are supportive. I already have my house and car. It'd take a very special man for me to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:03 AM
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Also expecting women to supply the condoms. You're the one with the penis. Idk what condom fits you right. Wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:12 PM
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I've been the same height(5'5.5")/body shape (hour glass, E USA bra size) since middle school. The amount of times I was hit on as a middle schooler and high schooler by old men was way too high. Also would get free food all the time too!? Only had one guy hit on me and when I told him my age he walked away fast. Lol But yes my younger sisters are just hitting teenagehood and I'm so worried for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:36 PM
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I'm so glad (now) that my mom raised me on strict physical and emotional boundaries between men and women. I've noticed this a lot. Also they'll try to get a hug at the end of the date if they feel that they can't get a kiss. I always end my first few months of dates with handshakes. Physical touch is incredibly intimate and more people should safe guard their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:34 PM
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100% all the guys that I thought were super smooth in my early 20s, I can now see all the red flags I ignored. Thank God for age and wisdom. No one is perfect all the time and this is why consistent dates are important. It's easy for him to be Mr. Smooth when you guys are only seeing each other for few times a month with a date that lasts less then 2 hours. Imo it's important to have a long date at least once a month with someone if you're dating them in terms of a LTR/commitment. I've yet to me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:27 PM
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Guide: How To Prove That You're A Waste Of Time Seriously tho, thank God the men like this make it super easy to catch their game. I'd rather deal with this than a guy that romances you for 3-6 months, putting up a front, only to turn when he doesn't get the pussy. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:21 PM
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Had a dream about a month ago that I was getting married and I was dreading it so much. Ended up walking out of my wedding. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:41 PM
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Tells so much that she wants him gone when he's home. Sounds like an emotional vampire. Had an ex bf that stayed with me while visiting (LDR🤡) and he worked from home. Was a complete LVM. Would just doomscrool or game on his computer instead of trying to spend personal time together. Wouldn't help out with lunch, etc. He would only cook dinner when I was working. Sounds like she was in a similar situation as I. Also, the "I like being in my own space" completely tells what he does. And their dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:27 PM
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Omg. Dodge a freaking meteorite of a bullet there. Last date I went on the guy would not stop talking about his sister. It was super weird. I'm so glad these men give themselves away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:37 PM
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I agree with what everyone else is saying here. To give an ancedote. I stayed with my ex-fiance for 3 years (18-21 years old). He made more money than me at the time (not hard to do), but long term he didn't have much growth. He worked in construction and could pull in 2k+ a week in season which he'd save. However his body was breaking down (he was also older than me). He wanted to switch jobs and go to college with me. Talked big, actually made some steps forward without me prompting, but ultim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:06 PM
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Perfect time for divorce papers. Be good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:24 PM
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Yes and never again. I've dated several guys below me and they themselves have told me I'm out of their league. I've found you end up with 2 types of relationship. Type 1: they uber aware of the difference between you two and therefore never actually emotionally attach. They see you as a prize, a doll, not a human. Type 2: they get an ego. Go from appreciative and eager to "I can do better". All the sudden you're "high maintenance". Personally I will never date a guy below me again and if anothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:42 PM
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Omg that's so cute and thoughtful. 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:26 PM
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I'm so done with dating men that tell me I'm out of their league. Damn right I am and now my standards have risen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:26 PM
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That poor poor woman. My heart aches for her. You can tell how terrified she is and he completely discounts her. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 10:56 PM
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I'm a phenomenal driver/parker. Whenever I go to the city with friends, if I'm not the driver, they'll switch with me to park. I'm really good. I use this as my blood in the water test. I'll mention how I have troubles keeping the car steady or tend to drive too fast. This is a common topic and something I find is easy to test people on. If we drive together, do the neg my driving? Do they make false claims about getting car sick? Etc. Also another blood in the water statement for me is mentioni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:19 AM
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I would block, delete, and move on. That statement would have me running for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:04 AM
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And it really does take trial and error to find what gets us women off. There's things that my ex's have done that is on my must have sexual list now that I wouldn't have known without my prior experiences. Also funny on how guys can be against having 2+ partners, but won't wife their long term gf.... You're part of that "problem". 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:51 AM
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I'm in this situation a bit myself at my current place and I'm getting out (thanks to FDS I'm applying to jobs I normally wouldn't've and I'm getting good results). My director is a seemingly highly capable man in the surface, but after working with him for 3 years his mask has slipped hard. He fits all the criteria for a high functioning sociopath. He's told me to "sit there and look pretty." Among other things. He constantly gaslights on incredibly small things. He pretends to not understand m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:14 PM
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It's common here too on the east coast. I got started to the making friend stage later than most people (hello trauma) and was put off by the amount of superficial friendships. I've been working on setting boundaries with my friends and even with myself reworking the mindset that making impromptu plans and spontaneous, inconsistent communication is okay (also hello avoidant attachment type). It's not. I think it's even more important to hold higher standards for your friends since those are the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:35 AM
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I'm 28 now and have had my own house for the past 4 years, tldr: inherited it, the amount of men that I've met that are put off by me having my own house and car is unsettling. Even when I was 22 trying to buy my first new car from the dealership, the salesman walked me back to my car and told me to bring my (non-existent)husband next time? Like wtf. Women owning houses (or having your own space) and/cars shouldn't be a rarity. The gender wage gap and societal pressure are huge issues imo of wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:16 AM
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You mod ladies are rocking it! Also thanks for the book recommendations. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:08 AM
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