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However, you won't see many discussions like "women can be bad partners too" here because 1) too often it is used as a derailing tactic, 2) men as a whole generally have a lot more room for improvement than women as a whole, and 3) women's shortcomings are already discussed at length everywhere else on the internet. This is the only unapologetically pro-female space and we won't allow it to be cluttered with whataboutism. I don’t disagree with anything you’ve written here. Again, I don’t think F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:31 PM
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I’m going to get blasted for this. Here we go. I consider myself an FDS-er. I found this sub earlier this year when someone said it was the most toxic place on Reddit. 📣📣📣There is nothing toxic about women not wanting to be treated like shit. 📣📣📣 However some of the posts here... I get extremely disappointed. You just ignore that women can be bad partners, and that women do make mistakes in their relationships that cause tension and resentment. It doesn’t mean the man is abusive. FDS should empo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:22 PM
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Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:47 PM
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So is no one going to mention that wife is living beyond her means and hiding debt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:26 PM
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I think you’re confusing resentment with anger. Husband doesn’t sound angry. It sounds like wife gets help from MIL all day long while husband is at work - which is exactly what she wanted - then husband gets home and takes over baby while wife and MIL get a break. I wouldn’t be giving foot rubs either. His feelings are completely valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:48 PM
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Both wife and husband suck. You don’t let someone stay in your home long term without discussing it with your spouse. Honestly, I definitely see how and why his priorities changed. They need professional therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:28 PM
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I quit reading after I saw Elle styled this woman in designer clothes to tell her sad story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:20 AM
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Years ago my family attended a wedding where the best man (or at least everyone blamed the best man) secretly wrote “HELP” and “ME” on the bottom of the groom’s shoes with a white paint pen. The priest was so angry when he figured out what happened that he left immediately after the ceremony and refused to attend the reception or take photos with the wedding party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:06 PM
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Not only did her mother forgive him, but he attended her canonization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:55 AM
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Exactly! The implication of pushing the Maria Goretti narrative is that it’s better to die maintaining your virginity than it is to survive. I guess I’m still a Catholic (because it terrifies me to admit that I’m not), but I absolutely hate the obsession with virginity. Why does the Church maintain that Mary was conceived immaculately and ever a virgin? Why do they name elementary schools after Maria Goretti? Why do they love the spiritual childhood of Therese of Lisieux? Why do they keep pushin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:51 AM
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St. Maria Goretti was an 11-year-old virgin martyr. She resisted her would-be rapist (specifically to maintain her virginity) and was stabbed many times. She forgave him on her deathbed. He served prison time, her mother granted him forgiveness, and he was welcomed back into the Church, dying in his 80s in a monastery. And these were not ancient times, just the early and mid 20th century.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:19 AM
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I went to Catholic schools in a heavily Catholic area. The academics were excellent, and the high school has some of the highest test scores in the state. A good chunk of the students go on to highly ranked universities. We were not poor or backwards, but the diocese remained... traditional... in sex ed to appease the hardcore parents and grandparents. In sixth grade, they gave each of us girls a Maria Goretti medal and told us exactly what happened to her. In eighth grade, they made us watch a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:54 PM
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That grin/grimace... he either knows he has it easy AF or he’s embarrassed AF but can’t express his feelings so he’s going to make the “engagement” last a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:19 PM
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Women have a much larger chance of being raped by a man than a man being falsely accused of rape by a woman. But these same men will say women are crazy and misandrist for avoiding men for this reason. Exactly. It isn’t even comparable. The majority of sexual assaults aren’t reported. I couldn’t even tell anyone when it happened to me, but it definitely happened, and I’m sure if I said anything about it now people would just accuse me of wanting to ruin someone’s life. Besides, women who falsely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:21 PM
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You’re never going to forgive me or give me another opportunity? OMG this one always gets under my skin. They make it sound like you aren’t together anymore because you’re just cold and unforgiving, and not because of his own behavior. You already showed me who you are. I’m not going to forgive you for being yourself, and I don’t owe you another chance so you can disappoint me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:08 AM
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Women aren’t obligated to give every man a chance. The way that guy says we discard men without “saving him” is lazy AF. That’s not our job. If you’re a grown man and know that you need “saving” then you need a therapist, not a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:02 AM
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The reason men think every other man is an abuser is that they know the truth. They get all up in arms and say “not all men” but they’d never leave their own daughters in the hands of their own best male friend. THIS SO MUCH. My parents used to let their their friends and my older brothers’ friends sleep over all the time, but when it happened my parents made my sister and me sleep with my mom in her bedroom. Now that I’m an adult, fuck that. If you can’t be trusted to leave a sleeping child alo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:15 AM
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Yeah, if we were gifted kitchen supplies we wouldn't stand for that. Exactly. This isn’t “Queen shit”. This is just sexist. I can’t imagine my man buying me a vacuum for Christmas and telling me “I don’t know any other woman who vacuums the way you do!” Also, ladies, get your own fucking tools. At the very least get a small cordless drill, a set of bits, and an assortment of screws. It is liberating when you stop thinking of tiny things like tightening screws around the house as a HVM quality. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:16 PM
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This really adds nothing... but the woman in the last photo is tennis pro Daniela Hantuchova (whom I’ve met in person) and she’s at least 6 ft. tall in tennis shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:39 PM
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I couldn’t even watch the universally acclaimed “Palm Springs” on Hulu without picking it apart, and I adore Andy Samberg. Nearly every single person (not just men) in that movie is garbage, which would be OK if it were satire, but it isn’t. It is definitely supposed to be a rom com.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:33 AM
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He says he has two kids who he’s locked in a custody battle for, that translates to “I’m not divorced yet.” Why aren’t the ladies climbing all over him? So odd. Having to use the term “custody battle” means he has two kids that he never sees and he chooses to blame the ex and the court system. Kids aren’t a dealbreaker for me as long as the man is an active father who pays child support on time every month. There’s just no way this man is a good father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:19 PM
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I had a guy in college that just could not understand how women didn’t get turned on every time we insert a tampon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:06 AM
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I just don’t understand why a man would need to state that carpentry is a hobby when literally no one is asking him about anything. The most recent instance was when I was telling a co-worker that I was looking for a certain type of bookcase but didn’t want to buy new. A guy (who I used to crush on, I’ll admit) who had no involvement in the discussion inserted himself and started talking about how simple it would be to build one. He said the exact words “I’m into carpentry”. Yet he became incred…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:20 AM
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No more sexism in the workplace. I work in the oil and gas industry, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:45 PM
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I was thinking this: if he cheats and admits it, I get 70% of his assets. If he cheats and doesn’t tell me, I get 85%. No disrespect, but there’s no way that kind of agreement would hold up in court. Definitely get a prenup but make it completely 50/50. Prenups are supposed to protect you, not screw the other party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:34 AM
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Bipolar woman here. From experience, men are far less likely to seek help and comply with treatment for mental illness than women. That’s why being in a relationship with a mentally ill man is so exhausting. If they make it to a doctor, they get prescribed meds, maybe finish the bottle, then never refill them because they feel better at the time. Men expect you to stay in shape and be constantly happy, and will make comments reminding you to take your ‘happy pills’, yet they won’t take responsib…
/r/askFDS21/07/20 08:24 PM
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Buy a vibrator, for fuck's sake. It might actually make you come. I’ve tried to have this convo with my friends and they acted like I was speaking gibberish. I know a vibrator can’t give you children or buy you a car, but it can sure as hell keep you from answering your ex at 2am, and definitely make you come harder (or in my case, multiples). Spent $15 in a sex shop 6 years ago, has probably saved me thousands in therapy and contraceptives. Edit: No I haven’t been abstinent for the past 6 years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:47 AM
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To me it has nothing to do with him gaining weight, but his refusal to accept reality and instead blame his wife, and make her buy him new clothes. And she’s too worried about standing up for herself because it may upset him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:39 PM
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That’s why I’m so upset over this post. Clearly she thought she married a catch. Now she’s afraid to stand up for herself and state the obvious - that his body has simply changed since he quit working out. She’s way too young for that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:36 PM
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There’s zero chance this man adds any value to this woman’s life. She does his laundry and is expected to pay to replace his clothes that he thinks she ruined. How is this acceptable? Who taught these people that this is an OK relationship dynamic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:19 PM
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That’s exactly how I learned about this sub. Some douchebag called FDS the most toxic sub on reddit so I decided to check it out. There’s nothing toxic about women not wanting to be treated like shit and not wanting to settle for neckbeards who make gaming a priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:26 PM
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How much you wanna bet wife found out mistress was pregnant and then she got pregnant for douchebag husband on purpose because of her own insecurity? Someone very close to me did this and things have been awful for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:12 PM
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