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#justrapistthings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:54 AM
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What happened to anti-work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:13 AM
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In my experience, if I come across a smelly person, 9 times out of 10 it's a man. Even men know this. They know their homes, bathrooms and general spaces are smellier and grosser than women's, especially situations involving multiple men compared to multiple women. They always joke or weave mockery into their stories of how "uptight" and easily grossed out women are for wanting cleanliness and keeping good hygiene. They treat women like bangmaids, which demonstrates their understanding that wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:55 PM
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Then some twat chimes in saying washing a penis is much easier than washing a vulva. Can we talk about how the pervasive male belief that women are inherently filthy and have smelly crotches (with the implied message that men aren't and don't) combined with the application of their superior man-logic is resulting in them concluding that they therefore don't need to wash their crotches properly or AT ALL and resulting in their crotches fermenting and reeking like nauseating, overpowering cheese a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:47 PM
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The best part was at the beginning when he mentioned how he gained a son and from the way he said it I thought "ah, he meant he finally has his boy that he always wanted after being 'stuck' with girls". Then he literally went on to confirm it! He "could not care less" about having a boy--yeah right. His daughters saw right through him That was such obvious bullshit. He talks about his family history regarding sons in the family and then claims he doesn't care about that— so why did he even bring…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:58 AM
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I thought the same when reading that. There obviously wasn't much of a relationship in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:51 AM
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They also included pictures of their mother's wedding. I LOLed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:46 AM
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I'm so sorry. She deserved better than her son, but she was obviously well loved by the rest of her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:49 AM
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How is your grandma now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:35 AM
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"Oh no my car broke down, I guess you'll have to stay with me alone in the park late at night because I need help uwu" sounds like some Ted Bundy shit. If this guy who's whining that she didn't stay to help him saw a news item about a man tricking a woman with a lie along those lines and murdering her, he'd blame her for being stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:58 AM
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Also, i hate hearing, “everyone’s orgasm is their own responsibility” from lazy lvm. It was feminists who came up with the expression "you are responsible for your own orgasm", and it was in response to men pressuring women into sex or specific sex acts. "Men, you are responsible for your own orgasm. Stop pressuring women and acting entitled to our bodies." Now the only time I hear it is when men say it, as a refusal to even try to get women off and to justify just using women's bodies as mastur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:51 PM
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Women grow and harvest or gather it, and spend the rest of their time working their asses off processing the harvested staple foods to remove toxins, make it digestible or fit for storage so everyone can actually eat regularly and not starve waiting for meals to walk towards them. Grinding stones (like a mortar and pestle, but for processing larger quantities) are a common archaeological artifact, and some are portable while others are round, bowl-like depressions ground into the top of a large,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:45 PM
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After all the years of strong educational campaigns about how dangerous used needles are, both to drug addicts themselves and to everyone else when the needles are carelessly discarded, all of a sudden, unknown needles being stabbed into you by strange men are fine and no big deal. So hepatitis and HIV is no longer a risk, then? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:59 AM
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That sub is, unsurprisingly, female-dominated, and has regular posts similar to this, only without the happy ending because the woman is posting mid-crisis, in desperation for advice or to rant. There are so many women in shitty or abusive relationships with NVM who surprise them with a dog, or promise that their dog will not be an issue when they move in together and that he'll take care of it (the woman has no experience with dogs or NVM with pets and naively believes him on both counts). He s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:05 PM
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And it never falls into the trope of calling on women to cOmMuNiCAtE. Ok, that seals it, I will have to check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:41 PM
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Definitely a Mr "ackshually".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:46 AM
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They used to exist. Good luck opening one now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:11 PM
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I hate it so much! Many libraries do try to stop it (and have to continually update their blocklists, etc. to keep up), but others will actually refuse to, sometimes because they're so overworked that they they've given up, but sometimes because they consider access to porn a human right that men should not be deprived of due to homelessness. Yes, really. This dovetails with another worsening issue with modern public libraries, which is the fact that they're not allowed to just be libraries anym…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:27 PM
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It was pretty awkward that they had Megara in this film and made her whole character development about overcoming her cynicism from being mistreated by her ex and learning to trust a man again, knowing that in the mythology, Heracles murders her and their kids. The whole point of his 10 labours in the first place was to atone for it. I know the writers were trying to retcon the relationship into a positive one and using their open and playful unfaithfulness to the mythology to try and make that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:30 PM
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I don't think he even wants to meet anyone; he signed up to a dating app just to distress and upset any women who match with him for his own amusement. The degree of seething hatred for women you'd have to have to do this is extreme to say the least. This is the kind of guy who follows women down the street at night because his idea of fun is to terrorise women by making them think they're about to be raped and murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:05 PM
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You brother felt more kinship to a male stranger than his own actual sister. bRoS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:03 AM
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That melodramatic explanation for Power Girl's boob window is so laughable and pathetic. A boob window is self-explanatory; why even bother pretending there's a reason beyond the obvious? And yes, it's creepy to make one part of a superheroine costume to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:15 AM
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Oh god, I know just what you mean with Bruce Timm's shows (which I also like). Wonder Woman and Harley Quinn DO NOT have the same body type! Even Big Barda is just... taller. Not to mention how they all have the exact same face. So many superhero artists' idea of varying women's body types is to just give most women large breasts, and some of them even larger breasts (the ones who are supposed to be muscular). Then there's Power Girl, who really gets the worst of it as the standard for "average-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:48 AM
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I have ADHD so I was the disruptive one when I was younger. Teachers would just put me in the back of the classroom and ignore me for then most part 😅 Gee, I wonder why no one prioritised your development and no teacher even addressed it in a lazy and abusive fashion by forcing another student to be your personal behavioural therapist. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:43 PM
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It's also why men—including men such as male sociologists speaking in a professional capacity—lament the fact that more and more men are permanently single, on the grounds that those men will become violent towards society in their frustration and without women to calm them down. So it's fine when every man gets a personal female punching bag and beats or kills her, as long as his violence is contained to her and not unleashed on "society"— because women aren't considered part of society. It doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:13 PM
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"only women, children and craphounds are loved unconditionally" There is no way this is the original saying. This is most likely the original: "Only women, children and dogs love unconditionally." Think about it: What is the one big stereotype about dogs, in particular? They they are loved unconditionally, or that they love unconditionally? Dogs are known for their slavish devotion and obedience to their owners, even when abused (ie. unconditional love), and that's the reason dogs are the favour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:03 PM
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I wish she had said "no".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:02 PM
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That's so adorable! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:01 AM
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I am so glad! I really want this to not end here, though. I want to know what changes the police will take to try and prevent this in future. “I have not the slightest doubt that the defendant used his position as a police officer to coerce her on a wholly false pretext into the car he had hired for this purpose. It is most likely that he suggested to Sarah Everard that she had breached the restrictions on movement that were being enforced during that stage of the pandemic,” Fulford said. How ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:40 AM
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They'll gaslight her by denying the signs and then blame her when she's dead for not "seeing the signs".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:12 PM
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Women aren't even safe in broad freaking daylight from this shit. I think of all the times I've gone for a casual walk in the park, just enjoying my day, as she must have been. I know some scrotastic responses to this will be along the lines of, "Women should know better than to go outside and have a stroll in the park unless they're chaperoned by men." We have the right to go outside like human beings and live our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:23 PM
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Do you want to chat with ____? Accept or ignore their chat request. [Ignore] [Accept] LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:10 PM
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I liked Rachel and Joey much better. I loved their dynamic when they lived together; they had fantastic chemistry and their personalities meshed surprisingly well. I found it completely unbelievable when they got together and immediately decided they couldn't go through with it because they had no chemistry after all; it was "telling, not showing". Another thing was that Joey treated Rachel much, much better than Ross did. He actually seemed to truly love her, whereas Ross was more like... obses…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:14 AM
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Enemies to lovers ironically works better when the fans ship a male protagonist and male antagonist whom the author had no intention of pairing up. Writers and lots of the general public hate this kind of fandom crap, but it wouldn't happen so constantly if the female love interests were written as believable human beings rather than lazy devices existing for the protagonist's benefit (or if female characters weren't relegated to love interest roles in the first place, which is part of the same …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:34 AM
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Yep, that was a clear case of pairing the spare characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:28 AM
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This is the quintessential "50/50" relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:08 AM
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Please tell me you were making fun of him by referencing DA JOKER BABY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:29 PM
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Bringing up indisputable facts like that is too uncomfortable, so they just go, "Lalalala I'm not liiiiistening!" and then silence you so their bubble remains undisturbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:16 PM
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The reasoning given when I was young for changing the name to "STI" was, "STD is the wrong term because they're not all diseases!" I think it never caught on because while they're not all diseases, they're not all infections, either, so why bother changing it on that basis if it's still not technically correct?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:02 PM
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I'm not saying one's correct and one's incorrect, but commenting on their respective popularity. "STD" remains more popular worldwide and overall despite decades of conscious effort to change the name. In my country, they were pushing it hard in teen magazines and in medical posters/pamphlets aimed at teenagers when I was young but now no one bothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:51 PM
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I also linked articles to how risky this type of sex is, only to be torn apart for using STD rather than STI as an acronym. Apparently it is “out of date”. Oh please, they've been trying to make "STI" happen since the '90s. It's not going to happen. The people you were arguing with obviously knew they had no counterargument to this, so they resorted to changing the subject. So transparent and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:29 PM
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And they had just spent Christmas there! "Hurr, hurr, she's gonna be real mad at me..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:02 AM
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Those kids were so hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah and that one woman even said outright, "I'm upset," but pretended to saying it laughingly. 😐 I just hope some of these women were inspired by that painful experience to dump them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:53 AM
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I also wonder if all the princesses are being treated the same in this game... I can't help but fear that the prettiest girls have more cops rushing to help them, while the less attractive ones are left hanging. Because as adults, that's what actually happens, men rush to protect the pretty ones first and foremost. That's a great point, especially since the little boys are motivated by attention. The issue I have with that game is that the robber role is part of the fun. Being the robber has its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:27 PM
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I'm so sorry you're dealing with this harassment and abuse, not to mention the treatment by Reddit admin. I will miss seeing your posts here, but it sounds like the better decision to leave Reddit. As you say, how in the hell is this behaviour not harassment? What is going to happen when Reddit's wish comes true and it becomes a site where female subs are banned altogether? I'm only here for a few subs, fewer since I cut the ones that pointedly didn't join the Challenor protest. I might have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:01 PM
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They only phrase it like that so they can pretend "I wasn't saying you HAVE to!" when women call them out on it. Of course they fucking mean we have to, hence the outrage when no woman chooses to. "I don't mean all women (feminist points!), but obviously someone at some point is morally obligated to fuck me or I'm calling in a hate crime." It's incredibly manipulative; the intent is to elicit sympathy from a crowd ("Where's the pussy I'm entitled to? The pussy-owners are oppressing me! It's not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:02 PM
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They're the same people at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:59 AM
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And he can get his sperm frozen for that extra layer of security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:46 AM
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I didn't know what that was, so I looked it up and found a compilation. It was like a pickme parade of sadbrags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:43 PM
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"If her daddy's rich, take her out for a meal, If her daddy's poor, just do what you feel" Loathe that song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:59 PM
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Amazing how clearly the switchover from "pick up artist" to "MGTOW" is tracked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:30 PM
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The projection is off the charts. Classic DARVO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:43 PM
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Cervixes are Nazis according to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:08 PM
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They're calling others incels when the basis of their outrage is literal incel sexual entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:27 PM
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They're pro-life when it suits them. Just like all the scrotes who are all gung-ho for abortion not because they give a fuck about women's rights but because they happen to not want kids at that stage of their life. And then when they're 30 and it finally occurs to them 🙄 to think about whether or not they want kids, these same dudes who pressured their earlier girlfriends into abortion start posting their sob stories everywhere about how "my baby-murdering girlfriend denied me my right to be a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:07 AM
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And almost all of the women-centric subs that couldn't be infiltrated were banned. FDS is pretty much the last one standing; at 163K subs, FDS is the only one out of the very few women-run, women-centred subs left that is not under 10K subs, and it's the only one that's highly active.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:54 AM
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Another thing that happens is taking stories they read off the internet and retelling them as if it's their own anecdote to make themselves seem sooooo interesting and entertaining. I only noticed this one after I'd spent enough time on sites like reddit that I started fucking recognising the most popular stories when they were retold to me IRL as something that happened to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:35 AM
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Do you have a link for that? I tried to find it, but instead I found this awful clip where several "relationship experts" engage in the textbook definition of gaslighting against Heidi. And I do not use that term lightly. Heidi is done with the relationship and relates her final straw, how he did two things in succession that caused her to lose all trust in him: He said something disgustingly misogynistic about marriage which another woman later told her about, and then, after promising they'd b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:51 PM
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That was so depressing and infuriating to watch. She has gone through do much trauma and persevered through adversity, and he's too bored to listen. I feel sad watching her try to force an emotional connection, but why is he acting like it's an annoyance when the whole point of this part of the show is to try and bond? It's not even like he's just insensitive; there's just a total absence of empathy. His constant blatant lying about respecting her while he's expressing his contempt—"Not to say I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:54 PM
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"Praise kink"? Things are so fucked up that praise and positivity is considered freaky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:07 PM
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I bet they not only disliked hiring female musicians, but only hired the ones they did who they found particularly attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:07 PM
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Part of me wants to think that this is just the guy's friends trolling him by making this ridiculously awful dating profile and sticking his photo on it. It is so bad that it could be a troll, but so many dating profiles are just like this that I can believe it's real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:59 PM
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It's hard to tell because he's sitting, but is he doing that thing of holding his arms away from his body to pretend he has such huge muscles that his arms can't lie flat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:44 AM
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100%. This is what "You will be my domestic servant but also independent" means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:37 AM
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You're being hard on yourself. Figuring out he was was being manipulative in less than a week is fast, and you didn't even know about the red pill's bullshit tactics. You have good instincts. A lot of us (including myself) had to unlearn a lot of social conditioning to reach the level of perceptiveness which you have intuitively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:54 PM
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Guys like that don't see women as people. They see us as NPCs in men's lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:42 PM
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It's the absolutely most basic standards that most offend people. These are the ones that should go without saying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:31 PM
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Practises personal hygiene. Not a misogynist. Not abusive. Reciprocates in bed. These are all standards that have offended various people around me of both sexes, prompting them to inform me that they exclude too many or all men. And people say FDS thinks the worst of men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:55 PM
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That's what I think, too. He seems really dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:04 PM
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I stopped watching that show because of that character. Even the gross old fart who married a beautiful immigrant woman young enough to be his daughter pissed me off less. I also hated how the show normalised that relationship as well, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:01 PM
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Of the women who like short men, short men with short man complexes make sure to drive them all away with their personalities. Their self-hatred manifests as contempt for the women who date them. Women get sick of playing short man roulette and simply date men who have more consistently treated them better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:26 PM
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Which memes? Asking because I like memes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:47 PM
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She really needs to get him off her will. He is refusing to help her in her time of need, letting her stress about bills and working 4 days per week while in stage 4 cancer, and is instead simply waiting for her to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:37 PM
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Jesus, they really see women as nothing but helpmeets for men, not actual human beings. They refer to a shared home as HIS home, "his castle" where he's the "king", that the woman has to keep peaceful for his benefit when he comes home from work. Exactly like the 1950's, as the interviewer weakly suggests that they sound like they're advocating. The men say it's fine for women to work and everything, provided they magically switch off and don't discuss it at home or bring any work-related confid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:17 PM
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Lol, they think makeup only results in a dramatic statement look. The "no-makeup makeup" look is just the standard makeup style for men applied to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:34 PM
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Agreed, I notice the same thing. I was considering adding to the list (a few celebrities I used to have a crush on came to mind), but then I felt bad because I remembered that they have drug problems. But FFS, if these were female celebrities who went from bombshells to stereotypical methheads, how sympathetic would the manosphere who coined the concept of "the wall" be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:22 PM
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Even in Friends it's visible that he put more effort into his health and worked out more, despite playing the "nerd" character. By the end of the show's run, he had already overtaken the others in attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:33 AM
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I had the exact same experience when I tried to find out what the deal was with Zac Efron after he was mentioned on this thread. And I had the same reaction to the blatant double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:52 AM
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Leo was one of the hottest guys on the planet, then in the early 2000s he just suddenly became very ordinary-looking, no idea why. There are male celebs in their 30s and 40s who are still hot, but he weirdly lost his looks before 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:28 AM
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Man or woman, this was written by a troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:22 AM
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He thinks this is "SFW", but that's not what the men he innocently compliments will think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:32 AM
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They kept saying "blame the men, they created this demand" I do, and that's why I support the Nordic model. But that goes over like a lead balloon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:17 AM
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No, it's feminist! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:49 PM
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The comments about fellatio are not the flex they think it is. Like, if you don't enjoy a sex act, which you obviously don't if you refuse to do it ever unless paid, then don't do it. This is not a braggable situation, it is a sad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:41 PM
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Half the responses to the point about SWs fighting anti-trafficking legistature are, "We don't do that, no one does that," and the other half are, "Here's why we're justified in doing that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:07 AM
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That's not true. In the cases I'm thinking of, feminists were continuing a discussion in PMs because they had an opinion reddit has made a bannable offense. Reddit admins can just look though your inbox, and feminists are watched and policed more closely than others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:50 AM
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Re: The requests for PMs: Reddit has banned users for what they say in PMs; please be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:57 PM
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Five strapping boys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:30 AM
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I watched it for Elaine. Seinfeld was the worst part of the show. In our house, the opening and closing standup routines were everyone's cues to change the channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:22 PM
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It's not surprising that women are more likely to make jokes when they're surrounded only by other women. So many men are nasty as fuck to women making jokes and make a point to humiliate them. It's more than not finding the joke funny, it's malice at the woman. And we've all experienced it, because it affected all our behaviour. It's hilarious when there's only one or a few men outnumbered by women and the women all ignore their feeble attempts to silence us and keep joking around with each oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:08 PM
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That's UK slang lol, half of those aren't used in Australia (source: Australian)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:33 AM
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That's his girlfriend and OP is the side chick. The POS boyfriend has pressured his girlfriend into pretending to be okay with his cheating, and she's a pickme who blames the unknowing woman he's cheating with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:32 AM
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They've appropriated an abortion rights slogan to mean "women must be available for men's sexual consumption", and it's catching on. In the childfree sub, a man made a post suggesting that "my body, my choice" wasn't just about doing whatever you want with your body but could also apply to women's right to get an abortion. He got tons of praise and awards for his "idea", and my comment pointing out that it IS an abortion rights slogan was buried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:24 AM
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I remember after the Vice article was published, someone on Twitter disparaged the podcast as "your podcast no one listens to". LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:01 PM
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They claim they lived with women and the products in the trash smelled bad. What the hell, how long was the trash left indoors to get to that point? They really see taking the trash out as only the women's job, not a shared duty. Meanwhile, when it comes to their own mess which actually is their job alone to clean up, they'll just leave it, regardless of how this affects the women they live with, because "I don't mind it, you're just oversensitive."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:39 AM
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My daughter says he still eats junk food (binges) on the weekends and jokes about him being on the cheetoh diet LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:07 PM
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Funny sidenote: at his job after he was done with a client they were sent surveys and his biggest complaints he got from customers was "he kept interrupting me" and "it felt like he wasn't even listening to me" and he was completely baffled by these comments Lol! It must have been tempting to send him a survey after the breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:50 PM
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Even people who can see what a trap a more typical polyamorous relationship is (one guy with a girlfriend and additional female partners, ie. man + harem) often mistakenly believe that if you switched the sexes, you'd reverse the power dynamics. No, in both cases it's men leeching off women— either one man leeching off multiple women, or multiple men leeching off one woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:02 PM
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Reminds me of this: https://imgur.com/gallery/nelbIuU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:15 PM
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It's one of the last female spaces on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:20 AM
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"I never want to feel like I'm on eggshells" really jumped out at me. The phrase "walking on eggshells" has been around for a long time, but it experienced a surge in popularity when it started being used in pop psychology in reference to abusive relationships. He's taking concepts from therapy and twisting them into a way to manipulate, gaslight and guilt-trip women who draw a boundary against his inappropriate sexual advances. "Walking on eggshells" is an anti-abuse concept which he's using to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:04 PM
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Gory You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:32 AM
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*Peddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:34 AM
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One of the subs banned with the others last year was the sub against female hate subs. That sub tracks pedo subs as well as subs that are specifically anti-women like the many rape subs. Their appeal to Reddit admin was rejected, and the sub was only reinstated after threats to go to the media. All the female subs acted as a degree of safeguarding on Reddit against the sick shit that goes on here. Now that they're almost all banned, it has massively escalated. In less than a year, I now see way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:17 AM
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And the sub against female hate subs was banned as well, and only reinstated after threats to go to the media. That sub tracks pedo subs as well as subs that are specifically anti-women like the many rape subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:36 PM
10

This is also something to keep in mind with "MAPs" (pedos), who try to get people, especially women, to feel sorry for them and advocate for them. "I'm so sad because I can't help my """sexual orientation""" even though I would never act on it, never, really, definitely never, and ohhh if only people had more empathy for people like me because this is what's needed so we can get help, and this definitely isn't emotional blackmail, but if the public doesn't side with us and join our cause, it mea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:26 AM
11

It's funny how people understand this if you're talking about cops, but refuse to apply it to how men treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:59 PM
4

Well that's just prime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:51 PM
53

I hope she learns from this that no amount of appeasing men will make them not hate her; they hate her because she is a woman. If she had signed off that article with a male pseudonym, men would not be dogpiling her with degrading abuse and lots of them would approve of the article. They are braindead and ass garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:49 AM
4

Thank you so much for the suggestions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:42 PM
6

I want to learn so much more about these things. As well as Backlash, do you have any book recommendations on these topics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:59 AM
12

Better advice would be to apply the KonMari method for decluttering: Does this spark joy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:47 AM
120

There was one quote from a woman. And the one single woman they quoted saw the birth decline as positive, especially regarding women's rights: For Laura Lindberg, who tracks reproductive data for the Guttmacher Institute, the decrease in births could be a sign of progress — a marker of women's equality and freedom of choice. "So it's a shift to later in life. In that shift comes more education, more career, more employment. So it's a reordering of how people engage in adulthood," Lindberg explai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:32 AM
89

They use the word HVM and then go on to describe men with Low to No Value. They use it to mean their word, "Chad" (a NVM). They know "HVM" means something very different, since the meaning is explained here over and over and over again. But they keep using "HVM" to mean "Chad" in an attempt to discredit FDS. "See, PROOF the wimminz just want teh Chadcock!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:45 AM
30

We were watching an episode of the Simpsons and Marge asked Homer to tell her what her eye color was, as a sign he paid attention to those details. And then he proved that he totally paid attention to those details because he remembered a song he once wrote about her, where her eye colour was in the lyrics. He didn't remember what she looked like! Oh yeah, and now I recall that he couldn't even remember that lyric; pickme Marge was so impressed by hearing that song again that she just showed him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:10 AM
63

Those are his shoes - he pulled this shit, but remembered to remove his shoes before entering the home he's breaking into. Priorities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:32 AM
104

Or she's just depressed. He should be more patient and accommodating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:51 PM
144

Maybe this is her love language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:47 PM
26

Running down pedestrians (including whole groups at a time) and murdering women and their families are things that men already do. It's hardly a funni ha ha fantasy. All they're saying is, "I admire these men and want to join their ranks."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:09 PM
13

Would that ruin the appliance due to condensation? FFS. So obviously on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:55 PM
12

And wouldn't you know it, the life of the director of that film played out very similarly to Bruce Willis' character. In 2000, at age 48, he divorced his wife of 20 years, who was born the same year as him and who collaborated with him in his films, including Death Becomes Her. Just ONE year later, he married a woman who was 32, almost 20 years younger than him. While he had a son with his first wife in 1985 when they were both 33, he had three more kids with her much younger replacement, starin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:39 AM
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I watched that movie for the first time since I was a kid the other day. It was so frustrating how this could have been a good movie, until it blamed women for being so "vain" and made Bruce Willis' character (the plastic surgeon!) the hero because he's so above such vanity. Especially when his eulogy speaks of how he met a woman after age 50 and had six kids with her, or in other words, he went on to marry a woman at least 20 years younger than himself. They also had him mansplain the pitfalls …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:36 AM
17

I saw a dating show where something similar happened. The woman was clearly out of the man's league, and while they got along very well, it was more as friends, and he was the only one who showed attraction. Not only was he very strongly attracted to her, but he came off as very desperate for her to like him. When they were interviewed together afterwards, the interviewer asked if they wanted to go on a date again, and when the woman opened her mouth (she looked like she was about to let him dow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:40 PM
5

I agree about treating assaults with nuance. I just don't think that necessitates calling one "actual rape".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:54 AM
10

You were contrasting "coerced sex" with "rape": There's rape (where you struggle or are physically restrained), then there's forced sex (where you say no but but it's pushed on you anyway) and there's coerced sex (where no one physically forces you but you feel obligated to do it). Even when not talking about your therapy: Idk how to fix that, but we need something in place to protect women. These coerced acts just lead up to actual rape. I see the value of noting the differences, especially tra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:17 AM
3

I'm so happy for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:11 AM
93

I was planning on throwing it all away I wasn't going to go crazy and throw them away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:28 PM
12

They want the One-Dimensional Female Character From a Male-Driven Comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:03 PM
29

Good job getting rid of the clutter! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:26 PM
16

"Friends"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:50 PM
14

He sees her as just an NPC, no different to the NPCs in his games, and demands she join in with those other NPCs and actively play the part while he plays the game. I wish she'd understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:36 PM
8

What did she wish for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:12 PM
12

justsociopaththings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:39 AM
11

People always give misguided advice that a man who loves his mother respects women, and it's so misleading and potentially harmful to any woman who believes it. Crossing the line from normal filial love and respect to a weird worship of his mother (presented as simply a more loving relationship) is a guarantee that he does not respect women in general, does not respect you and will expect you to just become absorbed into his family (with no reciprocal respect for your family) and fall in line wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:38 PM
14

They want women to entertain them by stroking their egos at risk of our own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:02 PM
2

The accidental side-by-side comparison of the two actors who apparently share that name is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:50 AM
27

Me too. That one was especially offensive to me. Fucking hell. And he's outright stating he'll only dump her (set her free) when he finds a replacement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:04 AM
39

"Women are manipulative!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:01 AM
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