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Would I have an advantage over local men there (which is what passport bros have)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:23 PM
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I get the impression you're therefore around 20? Correct. Depression is internally, not externally, derived. While external factors contribute to depression, it is how we are wired to respond to them that can trigger depressive episodes. For instance, for rejection to affect you, you need to care about acceptance. You need to so strongly value that desire for sex or other human connection that it forms a core value of what you regard a meaningful human existence. But you've laid so much value on…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 10:38 AM
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That's pretty good and more than most. With fewer results than most. Do you live in a small town, big city, or somewhere in between? Mediocre town an hour away from the closest city proper. Value is subjective and the concept of genetic inferiority is a red herring anyway. If you don't offer value from a broad aesthetic perspective, you likely have value elsewhere. If nobody finds your genes worthy enough for procreation, it means you're genetically inferior. Other factors generally won't compen…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 09:49 AM
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I'm not "stretching" anything. If one is able to "survive and be safe", nothing else is necessary according to your logic.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 09:08 AM
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The moral principle would be holding myself to the "arbitrary standard".
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 09:03 AM
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I'm brown, no passport bro-ing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:03 AM
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It's not a "view", it's biological fact.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 09:01 AM
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Just because they've had one partner doesn't mean that nobody else has considered them attractive.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 09:23 AM
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This was on actual online dating sites. I don't think women swipe right on hentai characters or share their numbers with them.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 09:22 AM
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It's true though.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 09:20 AM
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Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). Having sex shows that you are considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex, indicating genetic success and validating your existence on the pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:16 AM
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Well then work on yourself? 😐 What's stopping you. If you are physically repulsive and unhappy with your appearance what can you do differently. I'm sure the 44% of 15-17 year-olds with relationship experiences or the 85% of people who've had sex by the age of 20 "respect themselves and take care of themselves and work on themselves" so much lmao. I'm sure my friend had to "work on himself" to be white and have women wondering whether his genitals were the same colour and have his girlfriend's m…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 11:46 AM
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Wrong. Children cannot survive or be safe without loving parents. Children can "survive and be safe" with orphanages, siblings, extended relatives, etc.. In most parts of the world, education is the difference between suffering extreme poverty and being able to afford basic medical care. They can still "survive and be safe" without it. Not having sex does not risk safety or survival. Neither does a lack of a balanced diet, parents, friends, education, or entertainment. You are still confusing st…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 11:27 AM
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I would 100% date myself I was a woman. I'm sure the 44% of 15-17 year-olds with relationship experiences or the 85% of people who've had sex by the age of 20 "respect themselves and take care of themselves and work on themselves" so much lmao. I'm sure my friend had to "work on himself" to be white and have women wondering whether his genitals were the same colour and have his girlfriend's mum praise her daughter for being able to get a white boyfriend. I'm sure my friend had to "work on himsel…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 11:19 AM
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I don't want kids. Lol too expensive too gross. Invasive. You still get to have sex though, which means that at least one person of the opposite sex has found you sexually attractive, suggesting that they find your genes worthy of procreation. The thing is if you are self loathing and miserable it tends to push people away "I'm so ugly" "I never had a gf I'm ugly". The insecurity is palpable. Insecurity is usually a red flag. Nobody goes around telling people in real life "I'm so ugly" or "I nev…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 11:13 AM
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There's more to life than reproductive success. "There's more to life than money", says the billionaire to the beggar. If all you care about is passing on your genes, be a sperm donor. That doesn't guarantee reproductive success. Being considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex is far more indicative of genetic success.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 04:51 PM
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The whole reason any organism is alive is to procreate and produce offspring.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 04:49 PM
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Lowering my standards to have sex with someone who's not a virgin would compromise the moral principle that I've set for myself. If I set myself a standard of only having sex with a virgin and I have sex with someone who's not a virgin, that would be me lying to myself and being dishonest.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 04:47 PM

It's like saying I have loads of options of what to have for dinner because the restaurant has a huge menu. But if I'm allergic or intolerant to most of the foods, no I don't have loads of options. Still better than starving to death. Seems like you support the belief that women find most men unattractive. Just because you were born with an instinctual drive doesn't mean you aren't responsible for it. You don't have to act on your instinct, and you don't have to be desperate because of it. Don't…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 04:44 PM
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What have you actually done to work on yourself? Considering only things I've done to specifically improve attractiveness... getting a haircut that matches my head shape, losing 20 kg, changing my wardrobe and dressing pattern with the help of two female friends, weekly therapist sessions, joining a local Toastmasters, and going to dance lessons. No, it really isn't "by my logic." It's by your distorted straw man. I never said that the only people anyone ever find a attractive are those with val…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 12:20 PM
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No biases here. If the average person has 6-9 partners, someone who is only considered attractive by one person is below average.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:53 AM
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Considering that even an anthropomorphic pig-woman got multiple offers, any woman can get a man to consider her sexually desirable. It's an inherent value that all women possess, compared to men, who have no inherent value.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:51 AM
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If you get that many likes in such a short timespan, you're clearly above average.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:49 AM
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What I said was that all those people have had sex without having to read minds. Do you have a source claiming that the majority of people who've had sex have had to read minds?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:48 AM
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I see.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:45 AM
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Considering a different analogy, I had much more fun learning chess or how to cook something with another newbie, with both of us watching various Youtube videos and trying stuff out and making mistakes and laughing at them and then learning from them, compared to being taught by a professional. It was also more memorable overall.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:44 AM
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To each their own.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:43 AM
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It's not a conscious decision, they are just built that way.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:42 AM
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If a person says they are the president, they'd be considered mentally ill and locked up. It doesn't matter what you think of yourself if there isn't proof that others can affirm and verify as well.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 07:36 AM
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Being found sexually attractive or even being considered a better outlet for pent up horniness than a hand is more than I've ever experienced, so it would still be better than a lifetime of never being considered sexually or romantically attractive by a single member of the opposite sex. "Just don't worry, bro!" "Focusing on things I do have going for me" hasn't helped at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:24 PM
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I had much more fun learning chess with another newbie, with both of us watching various Youtube videos and trying stuff out and making mistakes and laughing at them and then learning from them, compared to being taught by a professional. It was also more memorable overall.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 12:21 PM
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Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). It means you have failed all your ancestors dating back millennia. If you are not considered sexually or romantically attractive by even a single member of the opposite sex, it…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 12:17 PM
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A dude who's attractive and charismatic can get away with 0 character. At least you accept this.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 12:06 PM
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It's what I've seen. Anything is tolerated if they're good-looking.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 12:02 PM
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No, sex is. You've misunderstood it.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 12:01 PM
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Loads of dudes just want to fill the girlfriend shaped hole in their lives. Those dudes aren't dating options at all. So then don't date men whom you think are like that. It's not like women are exactly lacking options. cYou complain about the problems men have, when they created this problem for themselves. I wouldn't exactly call the basic instinctual drive of wanting to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex compounded with having over 20 times the a…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:24 PM
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Yes, with the same person.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:20 PM
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Because they have around 20 times the testosterone.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:14 PM
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Never said they were. People are promiscuous if they have frequent casual sex with different people.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:13 PM
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But they still got to have sex in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:12 PM
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People have done much worse to gain reproductive success.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:11 PM
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And get ghosted as soon as you send them a picture of you.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:10 PM
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You're above average and privileged in looks. Billionaires never understand the struggles of the poor.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:10 PM
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Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). It means you have failed all your ancestors dating back millennia. I'd argue it to be the whole point of life, not just a "tiny part". people can sniff out someone who wants se…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:08 PM
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I meant my integrity regarding finding someone at my experience level. Not going to lower it.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:04 PM
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Why would you assume I don't "want to get better" or "want to be happy"? You can't fulfil the basic instinctual drive of wanting to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex alone.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:03 PM
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A better analogy would be that I don't want to watch a movie with someone who's seen it already.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 01:48 PM
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Agree.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 01:46 PM
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aFrom what you are saying it seems like you want what you claim women just inherently have? Yes, I want to be "found attractive enough to fuck".
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:10 PM
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So you agree that only one woman finding a man sexually or romantically attractive is adequate and makes him below average?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:08 PM
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As per your own words: "Being found attractive enough to fuck"
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:04 PM
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About my body, or...?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:03 PM
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It's a higher bar than most men can cross. While you have inherent value, we have no value at all.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:01 PM
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Do you have a more recent contradictory study?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:00 PM
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Do you mean to say that all of the survey respondents had to see and talk to 4 billion women for them to have 6-9 sex partners?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:00 PM
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That's a perfectly reasonable explanation! It has nothing to do with the other person's worth, or shame or whatever. You wanna learn everything together, that's okay! That's valid! Another person might prefer a more experienced partner to lead them through something new, and that's okay too. Yes, to each their own. My husband and I lost our virginity to each other, and yeah, it was nice getting to explore with someone who also had everything to explore, it's even cooler that we ended up staying …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 04:58 PM
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Okay you're clearly good looking.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 04:56 PM
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"Just be confident bro!" "Just don't care, bro!" I've been "working on myself since I was 15 and nothing's changed. I don't resent anybody, I'm merely stating facts. Never met anyone who found me sexually or romantically attractive. And yes, if you expect to receive sex simply for existing but without actually being a value add to someone in some way, shape, or form, it is indeed entitled. "Being a value add" hasn't made me sexually or romantically attractive to anyone. What has been "a value ad…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 04:54 PM
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Are you that dim? I said that sex isn't a need. I didn't say anything about being strapped onto a bed and sustained via medical means being acceptable. But such a person would still be alive as his needs are being met. He should have nothing to complain about! He should be happy! Never mind that every single study you cited shows the benefits of romantic relationships and has no specific bearing on sex as a need. That's call moving the goalposts. Most romantic relationships include sex. sAnd if …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 04:54 PM
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There's a difference between a nurse wishing she got paid as much as Elon Musk and a beggar who's never had a single penny to his name wishing he could earn enough to survive on his own. There's a baseline level that everybody desires. Women are born with inherent value, they are 100% guaranteed to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 01:09 PM
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Meanwhile men can't attract any women through a Tinder profile. Getting a man aroused means that the woman has been considered sexually or romantically attractive by him. The fact that they can attract men looking for sex means that they have been considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex. They don't have to worry about being a subhuman genetic dead-end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:06 PM
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I've responded to many university surveys, never got paid though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:40 PM
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The average male is attractive to more than one woman.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:58 PM
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Why would it? I don't want to watch a movie with someone who's already seen it.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:53 PM
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So that means you have been considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:51 PM
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Recently or when it was first launched?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:50 PM
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I instantly lose attraction as soon as I learn that they've had sex before.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:49 PM
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Almost all of us have masturbated, so I'd consider that adequate experience. It's fun to explore with each other for the first time. Maybe watching a movie is more apt as an analogy. It's best to watch something new with a person who's never seen it as well. Fwiw I had more fun learning chess together with a friend while watching tutorials than I did playing against a pro.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:47 PM
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I'm short, brown, and facially ugly, with multiple genetic illnesses. Never been considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:44 PM
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It's a mutual activity to culminate in orgasm. Maybe watching a movie is more apt as an analogy. It's best to watch something new with a person who's never seen it as well.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:42 PM
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Maybe ugly IS his problem but they don't want to hurt his feelings.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:13 PM
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No matches?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:13 PM
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Men don't even get matches in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:12 PM
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number of opposite-sex partners in lifetime among sexually experienced men aged 25-49 years of age (2015-2019) https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:11 PM
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I have arranged marriage to fall back on if all else fails. I'm not going to compromise my integrity.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:09 PM
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Yes that's what I meant, Have you tried Tinder or Bumble?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:08 PM
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Where has he said that his friends have told him "everything is fine'?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:07 PM
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But they'll still have experienced some of the emptions and experiences.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:07 PM
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What I said.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah I'd decline and wish her all the best at finding someone who's at her level of experience. dNot to mention you usually don't find this stuff out until at least a few weeks or more into dating. Like how much time and potential connection do you want to throw away over this? I've never been on a date so idk
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:45 PM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:41 PM
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While some of us have never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:40 PM
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While some of us have never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:40 PM
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While some of us have never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:40 PM
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So you've never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:39 PM
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Why do you think they are lying to him?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:38 PM
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Funny how women couldn't "smell" anything on Ted Bundy lmao
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:38 PM
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I'm sure the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have "got their shit together and are someone who's interesting, well rounded and comfortable with who they are and what they stand for" LMAOO
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:37 PM
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You get most of what you want out of life, including a chance for procreation.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:36 PM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:34 PM
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So, you're a mind reader? Or, do you expect any petso who has ever found you a little cute to inform you of that? Is that how the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 received affirmation?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:33 PM
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"There's more to life than money", says the billionaire to the beggar.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:32 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:30 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:29 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:29 PM
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No and zero
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:28 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:28 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:28 PM
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Completely understandable, provided she's the same.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:28 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:27 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:27 PM
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The answer to the first one should be a NO?!?!
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:27 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:26 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:26 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:25 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:25 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:25 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:24 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:24 PM
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As a virgin, I just want to be with someone who's at my level. Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:24 PM
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No matches?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:22 PM
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You haven't been rejected hundreds of times.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:21 PM
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More like the guy having 0 options in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:18 PM
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I've never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex. We do exist.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:17 PM
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Women can find partners irl.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:16 PM
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Because they can easily find partners irl.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:15 PM
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I've never been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex. We do exist.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:15 PM
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Fat women still are considered more sexually or romantically attractive by the opposite sex compared to men. And a woman has at some point been young or childless.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:14 PM
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BBetter than never having been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:12 PM
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Better than never having been considered more sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:12 PM
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Fat women still are considered more sexually or romantically attractive by the opposite sex compared to men.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:10 PM
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Fat women still are considered more sexually or romantically attractive by the opposite sex compared to men.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:10 PM
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Tell her to open a Tinder or Bumble account.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:09 PM
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I mean if people were SOO choosy in love they won't be falling for abusers, cheaters, toxic ppl, broke ppl, physically ill ppl etc. It's because they are attractive.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:06 PM
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I'm sure the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have had to meet every person around lmao
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:05 PM
0

"getting a lot of attention from women" = " ab/use and discard young women"?!?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:03 PM
0

The average male has 6-9 partners. Not just 1.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:00 PM
-1

Did they control for pity or maintenance sex?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 02:59 PM
0

"Just have sex, bro!"
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 02:59 PM
1

...says the millionaire to the beggar.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 02:58 PM
1

Lol Maybe if you talked to them about your views on women, they would see the same bitterness I see, but something tells me you will only talk about this stuff anonymously. Ted Bundy was a gifted and practiced liar, a con man, so the perfect red pill role model. Abusive partners are also liars and bad people. You are mad that women fell for their lies and not yours? If your goal is to lie to women and trap them so you can abuse them, then man, I hope you do stay single, for the woman's sake. Wha…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 11:12 AM

So you've never wanted a husband, boyfriend, etc.?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 10:48 AM
1

So you've never wanted a husband, boyfriend, etc.?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 10:48 AM
1

Would you mind sharing a source for that? I'm not from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:18 PM
1

I've never been paid for filling out an anonymous survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:08 PM
1

Cool. Some horrible people not worth hooking up with told you something and you opted to double down on also being a terrible person. Stating lived experiences = "being a terrible person" and "having an atrocious disposition".Being a drug dealer, thug, murder, serial killer, gang member, etc. = person whose genes are so exceptional and arousing they deserve being passed down to the next generation.Logic 100All those people who rejected me have long-term partners. sYou clearly haven't tried. I am…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 04:02 PM
1

Idk it's just paranoia I guess. Irrational for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:47 PM
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I don't see OP justifying it. He was merely stating an observation. And the commenter here is suggesting there’s no reason to treat women well because that’s not necessary in order to get sex. Very weird extrapolation of the original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:36 PM
1

All a woman needs to do (almost 100% of the time) is to make a tinder profile. A man can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:35 PM
1

So it's completely acceptable for a person to be strapped onto a bed and be given IV nutrients for their entire life? They'd be happy and fulfilled with such an existence? After all, the person's needs are being met, so they should have nothing to complain about! I didn’t realize I was entitled to a yacht just because my ancestors coveted wealth. They actually had yachts, and everyone else around you has yachts, even though some people don't look after them properly. Only you don't.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 03:32 PM
1

I know I have, when I was embarrassed to truthfully answer certain things. Or if it was too long and I couldn't be arsed to go through everything. I've tried to minimise it tbh though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:26 PM
1

I weigh 57 kg, that's less than the average woman. I don't have to "imagine" anything. Do you mean to say you've never felt good about yourself after having been considered sexually or romantically attractive by someone of the opposite sex?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:33 AM
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Yeah, it shows that you've been considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:26 AM
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Funny how you can "feel" my bitterness but none of my friends in real life, some of whom I've known for over a decade can. It's even more funny how you assume you can tell what kind of a person I am solely based on comments on an anonymous internet forum. It's even MORE funny how nobody could "feel" Ted Bundy's intentions when they approached him, or how numerous women come crying to Reddit daily about how their partner abused them in some way. You'd have thought they could have "picked up on hi…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:25 AM
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It's because women know they can get a man whenever they want. They know what it's like to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:52 AM
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They met in 2016 and he was a published author by 2014. Also, she contacted him after seeing a documentary about his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:25 PM
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It surveyed people 25 years of age or over between the periods 2015-2019. It's vastly different for people a decade younger. Anyways, surveys aren't renown for their accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:19 PM
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It's by choice. They know they can get a man whenever they want. They know what it's like to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:16 PM
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I didn't know that a yacht is a biological need that goes back millennia. I didn't know that all of my ancestors dating back millennia had a yacht. I didn't know that every single mammal alive has a yacht. I didn't know that yachts are the reason all mammals are alive.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:14 PM
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So since people don't need clothing or education, we shouldn't help those who are need of them.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:10 PM
1

Atom bombs basically ended WWII on their own. I'd call that a success. And he wasn't advocating for anything or saying that treating women like shit causes them to have success with women. If I say "my mum scolds me a lot but I still love her", does that mean I'm encouraging mothers to hit their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:09 PM
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The vast majority of people have had sex before 20. I've literally been told directly to my face that they would have gone out with me had I been tall and white. So much for "personality" lmao. I have friends irl so its weird how you think that me typing words on an anonymous forum represents how I interact with real people. It's also funny how killing multiple people or beating them up isn't reflective of a bad personality, but expressing frustration at being able to fulfill a natural biologica…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:02 PM
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The vast majority of people have had sex before 20. I've literally been told directly to my face that they would have gone out with me had I been tall and white. So much for "personality" lmao. I have friends irl so its weird how you think that me typing words on an anonymous forum represents how I interact with real people. It's also funny how killing multiple people or beating them up isn't reflective of a bad personality, but expressing frustration at being able to fulfill a natural biologica…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:02 PM
0

A lack of either causes significant disadvantages.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 05:12 AM
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Lol you're just proving my point. Women never have to worry about going their entire life never having been considered sexually or romantically attractive by a single member of the opposite sex. It's like a millionaire telling a beggar that they don't want TOO much money.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 05:06 AM
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Who said that we don't have friends, physical activity, and supportive parents? Try going your whole life never having been considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex. I didn't know that eating apples is a biological need that goes back millennia. I didn't know that eating apples is something that all of my ancestors had done dating back millennia. I didn't know that eating apples is something done by every mammal. I didn't know that eating apples is the reason…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 04:42 AM
1

You're the one who said there's someone who has "always been there". It's not true for ugly men.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 04:32 AM
1

But you still have a sex drive. "Just ignore your biological instincts, bro!" "Just be happy, bro!"
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 04:24 AM
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So you agree that lack of clothing (even before indecent exposure laws were established) would decrease your life expectancy?
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 04:22 AM
1

"Money isn't worth it", says the billionaire to the poor.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 03:12 AM
1

"Just become a famous published author who goes on to have a YouTube channel with over a million subscribers, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:12 AM
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There's a difference between getting maintenance sex in your 30s vs genuine lust-driven sex in your early adulthood. Merely having had sex doesn't mean you are actually carnally desired. And the average lifetime partners is 4-7 This information is from Boomers and Millennials, GenZ (2000+) face a whole different set of expectations due to having grown up surrounded by SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:10 AM
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Heterosexual women with a sex drive don't want men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:59 AM
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LMAO so many unfounded assumptions
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:17 PM
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I'm sure the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have had to 'work on themselves' so haaard LMAO I'm sure my friend had to "work on himself" to be white and have women wondering whether his genitals were the same colour and have his girlfriend's mum praise her daughter for being able to get a white boyfriend. I'm sure my friend had to "work on himself" to be tall and have women wonder if his height matched his penis length and have his girlfriends tell him his height made them feel safe and p…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:14 PM
1

None of them are derogatory.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:13 PM
1

Funny how this "mentality" didn't work against Ted Bundy lmao
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:08 PM
0

Nobody has "always been there" for some of us lol
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:04 PM
1

They also have the knowledge that they are considered sexually or romantically attractive by members of the opposite sex. It's not a worry for them.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:01 PM
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Not the majority though.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:00 PM
1

Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). It means you have failed all your ancestors dating back millennia.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:59 PM
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Will you die without clothing?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:58 PM
1

But you've still had it at least once.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:58 PM
1

Will you die without clothing, shelter, or education?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:57 PM
0

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:57 PM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:57 PM
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I'm sure the people on the depression and suisaide subreddits with partners "find joy in things" lmao
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:56 PM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:55 PM
1

You initially replied to "Well, there are a lot of men who treat women like shit yet still have lots of success with them". This obviously meant the men getting what they want; they succeeded in what they set out to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:48 PM
1

So the experiences of the vast majority of the population doesn't carry any weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:02 PM
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I'm a short, ugly, brown dude with multiple genetic illnesses. It's been made very clear to me over the course of hundreds of rejections exactly what my issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:56 PM
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You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:54 PM
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Lot of assumptions being made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:28 PM
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Some of us are too ugly even for "shitty toxic relationships"..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:27 PM
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All heterosexual women want men, but a very specific type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:21 PM
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"Just ignore your biological instincts, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:14 PM
1

A word is used in a sentence to express a single definition. Not all of them in the same one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:38 PM
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He merely stated that such men consider it success because they achieved what they set out to do. Not that they are generally "successful".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:35 PM
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LMAO you couldn't be further from the truth. I've asked out women with facial deformities, silent women, women with stutters, lisps, autism, and shy women. Nothing. NOBODY has found me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:55 PM
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Then who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:28 AM
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Exactly. They DIDN'T have to 'meet everyone'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:34 PM
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Ah yes, the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have had to meet EVERYone to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:31 PM
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Why'd you assume that fat women would desire them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:30 PM
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Is it that unfathomable to you that men who haven't "turned down fat chicks" exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:32 PM
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Better than not being attractive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:31 PM
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That's what happens to ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:52 PM
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You have a partner so you obviously do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:51 PM
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Must be nice to be conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:06 PM
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By that logic people don't need clothing, a house, or education either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:06 PM
1

Sounds like a great way to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:05 PM
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The expectations become more based upon what the man can provide and less upon whether the woman is sexually aroused by the man as the woman grows older. a high school boyfriend chosen with no expectations is not compatible long term The man was chosen because he was sexually arousing. He didn't have to provide material value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:05 PM
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Funny how it's unfathomable to you that there are men who've never considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:38 PM

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:36 PM
1

How much effort did you have to put in to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:33 PM

So you agree that AF/BB exists. It's not just the expectation, it's the outcome too. Desire decreases with the change in expectation across age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:31 PM

More men find women attractive than the converse. most men aren’t visually appealing whatsoever That's misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:29 PM
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Most women are not as pretty as they think they are due to social media and online dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:41 PM
1

If the man finds her ugly, how can he be attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:25 AM
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What requires more effort, sex or providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:54 AM
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That's a mismatch, the man is going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:52 AM
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He means not conventionally attractive, according to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:52 AM
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Transactional demands increase with age does mean that adult relationships are worse than teenagers '.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:51 AM
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But he has had experiences in his youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:42 AM
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But that's what they were loved for (along with their looks). Not for their material resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:41 AM
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Call me solipsistic but I just can't understand such behaviour lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:34 PM
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I am not sexually attracted to women I don't find attractive or have an emotional connection with, so I can't relate to most of these claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:09 PM

You need two people for either relationships or sex. A below average man can't just "find someone to have sex with" due to the inflated standards caused by social media and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:06 PM
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Urges / instincts ≠ actions Well if they refuse to have kids, that means they don't really desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:18 AM
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Relationships include sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:15 AM
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This isn't a "biological need." You know how I know? Men did - and still do, in many sad places in the world - feel free to subjugate women into needing them. They didn't care if we were sexually attracted to them. They didn't care if we romantically loved them. They treated us like property - and, again, this still continues in many parts of the world. This was codified into most of the world's major religions thousands of years ago. Not only that, but many of them threaten to do it again. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:15 AM
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So he should just die without ever having experienced what it is like to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:19 PM
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Just because something isn't a human right doesn't mean it's also not a human need. Like having to receive nutrients intravenously despite having a functioning digestive system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:27 AM
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That is not an adequate substitute for the biological need of wanting to be considered sexually and romantically attractive to a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:00 AM
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0/312 so far
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:59 AM
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It the woman desired them, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:58 AM

"Just ignore your biological instincts while also having 20 times more testosterone than a woman, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:51 AM
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How is it the man's fault for having 20 times more testosterone than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:50 AM

Remaining single is not an option when you have 20 times the amount of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:49 AM
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Lol I've only ever asked out below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:47 AM
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Just because it isn't a human right doesn't mean it isn't a need. Sex is a desire. A desire that predates both education and clothing, and even modern humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:48 PM
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Never said they were, "honey" .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:58 PM
1

Never said they weren't, "honey".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:11 PM
1

What fear? You're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:41 AM
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This is the same attitude a trust fund billionaire has towards money. You don't see it from the other perspective. Clothing and education still aren't needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:39 AM
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Yes, because you know you are sexually and romantically attractive to members of the opposite sex. Try being happy without knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:47 AM
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Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). Till and Niederkrotenthaler (2022) explain that romantic and sexual relationships are "an essential and integral factor" that increases happiness, personal satisfaction, mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:45 AM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:01 AM
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I don’t consider sex an essential need because I practice celibacy and I know I don’t need sex and I don’t feel any difference in my body or mind. That's because you're a woman and you know you can get sex whenever you want. You don't know what it's like to have never been considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:00 AM
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Well the overwhelming majority of men don't even though they're easy to meet. You just need to find one, right? Just facts Anecdotal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:00 AM
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You meet those standards? Yes. most men are garbage Careful, your misandry is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:01 AM
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That's because you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:00 AM
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We still have sex drives so... nope, we haven't evolved past the need for sexual intercourse. There are men out there that have literally had their dicks blown clean off in wars that are still living fulfilling lives with women who love them. They still have sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vl7rtd/sex_isnt_all_that_important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:04 AM
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This isn't about friendship, it's about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:02 AM
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I didn't move any goalposts. You're literally the only one who's made any allusions towards violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:02 AM
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I don't, so it's safe to assume there are other men who don't either. If you can't find them, or they aren't attracted to you, or they have better options than you, either lower your standards, keep waiting, or make your peace with solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:01 AM

You aren’t defined by your ability to pull girls. That's literally how every the genetic success of every male of every sexually dimorphic species has been defined by.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:38 AM
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There’s much more to life than getting laid. Says the person who's had sex, just like how a millionaire tells a beggar that money isn't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:30 AM
1

Different problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:12 AM
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spontaneously hooking up with friends and coworkers in social settings This conversation is obviously irrelevant to people attractive enough to achieve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:12 AM
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Why should I have to lower my standards? Not being able to find someone who meets them might have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:37 AM
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Maybe you should read the comment thread as there most certainly was a threat of violence. YOU were the one bringing up "rampages, mass shootings and violent behaviour". sSpeaking of disingenuous, you did not mean the “biological urge to be attractive…” You meant sex, and you meant that men can’t ignore wanting to fuck. No, I meant what I said. I can masturbate and have an orgasm, which some people say is better than an orgasm from sex, making masturbation a decent alternative. There is no alter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:36 AM
1

Suicide is also one. You don't know what it's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:22 AM
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Are you seriously defending this guy saying that if women don’t fuck losers it’s their fault next time someone does an Elliott Rodger? Do you know how fucking stupid you sound? I don't see any mention of causing harm to others. I also wouldn't put much stock on whom women consider to be "losers". sI know this is absolutely insane, but masturbation is a thing. You want to cum and no one wants to fuck you? Jerk off. Get a flesh light. Pay a sex worker. The biological instinct is to be considered s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:48 AM
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Easy to say from a position of privilege. You'll be singing a very different tune if you had loads more testosterone and if you'd never been considered sexually attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:34 AM

"Just ignore your biological instincts bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:42 AM
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Lot of weird assumptions you're making about me. OLD and SM expose women to men around the world, inflating their standards for considering men attractive (i.e. the six-feet rule).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:10 PM
0

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:17 AM
0

Times have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:16 AM
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If you can't find someone to meet your standards (or if the ones that do meet your standards have better options than you), you might want to consider either lowering your standards or keep waiting. Based on your standards, I assume you're a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:16 AM
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Imagine the global feminist outrage if a man said " I'm very fit and in shape so I don't want to date a fat woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:13 AM
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He had the same opportunities to date and have sex. LMFAO do you really believe this?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:01 AM
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they should marry a virgin when they are young If only they could lol Live with the choices. Bold of you to assume they have choices XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:00 AM
1

But when a man who's fit and in shape says he doesn't want to date a fat women, the world descends into chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:54 AM
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Almost 70% of adult American men fail at your first standard alone, so I highly doubt your 'standards' being the 'bare minimum' for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:57 AM
1

I meet all five and I've been rejected literally hundreds of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:37 PM
1

Do you seriously think the number of ugly women that are involuntarily virgins is comparable to the number of ugly men that are involuntarily virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:48 AM
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And men orgasm significantly more then women during sex ‘shouldn’t women have the same possibility’ Seeing that they have a higher possibility than an ugly virgin male, I'd say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:18 PM
4

It's not like women consider ugly men to be human either. We all know what happens when an ugly man even hints at the fact that he has feelings, emotions, desires, a sex drive, and would like to know what it would be like to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex. But no, ugly men have to present themselves to society as amorphous asexual NPC blobs who are only allowed to exist as long as they work and pay taxes without complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:35 PM
3

So you've never been nervous around any human being ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:23 PM
1

My target since 2018 has been to ask out over 50 women annually (I only managed 100 in total across 2020, 2021 and 2022 due to COVID). I've asked out 253 women in total (mostly through cold approaches, some from shared hobbies, friend groups, activities, friends of friends, etc.). If I count OLD, it'd probably amount to well over a thousand (30% rate of swiping right). I've gotten 7 matches (or it's equivalent). Managed to converse with 2 (others didn't respond to my thought-out opening messages…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:30 AM
1

Percentage of never-married teenagers 18-19 years of age who have ever had intercourse, by age and sex (2011-2015 [the most recent one]): 62.9% for females and 64.3% for males. Reasonable to assume the numbers would be higher by the age of 20.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:46 PM
1

Considering the fact that over 85% have had sex before 20, I severely doubt the validity of "The only reward you're ever going to get is the pride and self respect you get from doing what you feel is correct.".
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 05:38 AM
1

Considering the fact that I've been rejected literally hundreds of times and I am not afraid of women, I posit that I am, in proven fact, genetically inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:36 AM
1

It shows that being denied the opportunity to be in romantic and sexual relationships isn't healthy.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 05:33 AM
2

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:39 AM
1

How is that a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:48 PM
1

A statistical minority.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:37 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:36 AM

It doesn't benefit ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:34 AM
-1

So you agree that starting a revolution is more realistically feasible for the average man than finding a willing mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:07 AM
1

Exactly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:07 AM
1

There were also people worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:07 AM
1

It means that I'm inherently genetically inferior than the vast majority of the population. Get your shit together Such specific, actionable advice. Much thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:05 AM
1

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:47 AM
6

Would you rather your first time laying eyes on a chessboard be just before a high-profile WCC match against Magnus Carlsen, or a friendly with someone just like you who's totally new to the game and is willing to go through the excitement and novel experience of progressive learning about the game? In which scenario would you be more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:46 AM
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Why do you think men are 'turning to porn or video games' in the first place? I'm sure the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have had to 'self-improve' so haaard LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:27 AM
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Why do you think they became 'porn-addicted shut-ins' in the first place? I'm sure the 85% of people who've had sex before 20 have had to 'work on themselves' so haaard LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:25 AM
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Completely agree. I'm studying my ass off to get a 'good' job just to come home to an empty bed each night, cry myself to sleep, and die a little more inside each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:29 PM
1

Let's just say I'm short, brown, ugly, and have multiple chronic genetic diseases. young enough that if you put it you could see a lot of success in the rest of your 20s. ...while the average person loses their virginity at 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:13 PM
2

No gym for your race No personality for your face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:15 AM
1

IKR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:48 PM
1

I've been on all the major OLD apps since my 18th birthday (over 2 years ago), I've gotten 7 matches (or it's equivalent). Managed to converse with 2 (others didn't respond to my thought-out opening message). One of the 2 asked me for my height 2 days into the conversation and then ghosted me. The other said she was moving abroad soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:48 PM
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No, it is to mate and create progeny. To do so, I have to be considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex. If that fails, I become miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:44 PM
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Women can get sex whenever they want it. They never REALLY lack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:15 PM
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"Just ignore your biological instincts and purpose, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:40 AM
1

Verbally Some online Some I've known for over a decade Some I've interacted with over a few weeks Some cold approaches, start of with a compliment or question mostly, continue if they seem receptive "I like spending time with you / I'd like to get to know you better, do you want to grab coffee / drink?" I've tried asking for their number, I've tried giving them my number. NOTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:39 AM
2

Over 250 rejections across over 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:32 PM
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It is fact. Not feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:46 AM
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OK and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:45 AM
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I am talking about the ones who cannot. If one has a sexual drive but is unable to find a mate to copulate with, one is a genetic failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:10 PM
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No, I don't necessarily associate dismemberment with anything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:09 PM
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We all ARE animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:09 PM
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"Just ignore your hardwired biological instincts, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:04 AM
1

No idea. It has never happened to anyone that I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:00 AM
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You have no inherent value like a woman does, so I disagree. If one is unable to attract a mate, one is my definition a genetic failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:59 AM
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None of the comments I responded to mentioned paedophilia. You don't have to be assaulted to be considered sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:18 AM
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You can't be happy knowing you're a genetic failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:09 AM

That's because you know you can get a partner whenever you want. Most average men don't have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:07 AM
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LMAO I can assure you they haven't. No idea what environment you're living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:20 AM
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He's not wrong. Women have it infinitely easier in terms of being considered attractive by members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:19 AM

It is lesser. Knowing your genes aren't considered worthy of being passed down doesn't exactly elicit feelings of contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:13 AM
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He's not wrong though You could be unique in this but I wonder how many times you couldn’t fall asleep at night because a man would send packages to your house, threaten to kill you, and also talk about dismembering your body despite the fact that you were 12. Are you suggesting that this is a common female experience? I have numerous aunts, female friends, cousins, etc. and they've never experienced anything of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:04 AM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:54 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:54 AM
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Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:52 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:52 AM
1

LMAO I see. Carry on the good work, friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:13 AM
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Considering the fact that I've never been considered attractive by a member of the opposite sex, no price is too high for me. I like being complimented too. Just not at the expense of a man nearly ripping my dress and shoving money down my exposed bra to pay me for sex because he deemed me “worthy of my genes being passed down”. Does the number of times you've been harrassed equal the number of times you've been complimented? sMy bf likes compliments too. He doesn’t get as much attention as I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:15 AM
1

Not everyone has a huge desire for socialisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:11 AM
1

So they lack independent thought? I thought you guys say 'women aren't a hivemind'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:10 AM
0

I am you and you are me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:10 AM
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As if women show below average men any interest in the first place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:09 AM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:04 AM

"Can't find" ≠ "Not Ready
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:01 AM
1

I actually like having my existence on this planet be justified, so yes, I would like to have proof that my genes are worthy of being passed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:00 AM
1

Is a singular compliment the only positive attention you've gotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:09 AM
1

How can one be aroused without attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:04 AM
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Is it so incomprehensible for you to believe that some men exist who have NO standards, but are still unable to find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:28 PM
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Women who are conventionally unattractive get both positive and negative attention. Men who are conventionally unattractive get much less positive attention (if at all) in comparision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:25 PM
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Sex shows that you are attractive to the opposite sex. A date does no such thing. People aren't biologically driven to date. Having sex proves that you have biological purpose and that your genes have been deemed worthy enough to be passed on. Dating does not provide such proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:17 PM
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Sex shows that you are attractive to the opposite sex. A date does no such thing. People aren't biologically driven to date. Having sex proves that you have biological purpose and that your genes have been deemed worthy enough to be passed on. Dating does not provide such proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:16 PM
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Women still know they can get it when and if they want it. They have proof that they are sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:00 AM
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The vegetarian still has SOME food to eat. They won't starve to death. Men don't have any food in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:51 AM
1

Is it really a choice when you don't have any options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:48 AM
1

So you agree with me that you are wrong. There is a drive for sex but not for procreation. Procreation is the ultimate cause. Finding someone sexually attractive is the proximate cause. sYou were talking about procreation being the important thing. It's not, it's sex and humans are not defective for choosing to have sex and forgo the procreation part. Most young women and men are terrified by the thought of procreating, there is hardly a drive for that. See above. Having a sex drive increases th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:47 AM
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"I had so many guys try to go after me" There you go. You have proof that you are considered sexually or romantically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:39 AM
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It's part and parcel of life.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:35 AM
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It isn't all bad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:29 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:06 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:06 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:05 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:05 AM
1

Romantic involvement, the quality of the relationship or the positive sexually related experiences within a romantic relationship, all seem to promote lower rates of alienation and isolation, a better self-image, better future expectations, higher levels of self-esteem, and a greater level of commitment in later relationships (Ciairano et al., 2006; Viejo et al., 2015; Hensel et al., 2016). Modeling analysis showed adolescent romantic relationships as a predictor of psychological well-being, hav…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:05 AM
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Going against society is far easier than going against biological instincts hardwired into your DNA. sThey find a way to be happy when the world implies they’ll be sad and lonely and empty without sexual relationships. The world IMPLIES. They aren't ACTUALLY "sad and lonely and empty without sexual relationships." A better analogy would be an asexual trying to have sexual feelings and trying to develop sexual attraction towards someone. sYes women who have vaginismus and people who have disorder…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:25 PM
1

It reduces access to them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:49 PM
1

Not enough though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:43 PM
1

Nobody is going around gaslighting them by telling them they aren't missing out on anything, or telling those people that their problems are in their head, or that their problems can be solved by showering and taking a haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:42 PM
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I'm talking about both romance and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:21 PM
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No, they don't 'prove' anything. They don't 'opt out' of anything. They've never had a desire for sex in the first place. You don't 'opt out' of luxury if you've been poor your entire life. sHappiness also can be changed and doesn’t have to center your life. So basically chemically or castrate yourself? I don't know any other way to stop feeling sexual desire. sPlenty of people have sexual desires and can’t indulge in them Do you know any such people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:20 PM
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That's the only way you can "change where your happiness is based".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:22 AM
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LMAO they benefit from that too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:21 AM
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Your threshold for 'attractiveness' would be reduced when you're no longer being bombarded with pictures of conventionally attractive people. Women in the late 1900s were also aware that 'attractive men were still around'. Yet men had a much better chance to find partners than they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:57 AM
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Till and Niederkrotenthaler (2022) explain that romantic and sexual relationships are "an essential and integral factor" that increases happiness, personal satisfaction, mental and physical health, and satisfies needs for social integration and support. Romantic and sexual relationships also reduce the risk of cardiovascular illnesses, suicidal ideation and behaviour, depression, and stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:33 AM

Humans are not biologically driven to need 'trendy Stanley mugs'. Try going your entire life never having been considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex, then see how 'unimportant' it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:31 AM
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So basically chemically or physically castrate yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:27 AM
0

We aren't talking about the 1-5% of the population here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:26 AM
1

Even if that's the only thing you've ever eaten your entire life, and the only thing you ever will? Even when you don't know what anything else tastes like? Even when everyone else around you can eat whatever they want, whenever they want, and have been doing so their entire lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:17 AM
1

Hobbies aren't a substitute for being considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:15 AM
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I mean if it was a woman who wanted to peg me, sure. Anything that shows that I am considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:13 AM
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Just because I say 'food is a human right' doesn't mean I have a right to access other people's cupboards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:12 AM
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No, the issue is that they've never been considered sexually or romantically attractive by a member of the opposite sex, for which there is no substitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:11 AM
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Yes, because you already know what coffee tastes like. Not the same as never having tasted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:09 AM
1

It won't stop women being attracted to men. It won't prevent women from finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:50 PM

It won't prevent women from finding men who are attracted to them. It won't harm anyone. It also won't prevent women from having free will. It will give below average men a better chance than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:36 PM
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Nobody was limiting women's options in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s, but below-average men had a much better chance of finding a partner back then. If every human being was banned, then there can be no accusations of favouritism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:17 PM
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Nobody is dictating what demographics are allowed to date. Banning social media that are primarily built for directly conversing with other individual people is what I mean. Banning the media, not banning access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:38 AM
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Yeah obviously women are more content being alone when they know that they can get sex any time that they want. It's much more easy for one to not eat when the food available isn't what they like the most (because they know that if worse comes to worst and they don't have any other options, they always can eat what's available), compared to one who doesn't eat because there is nothing to eat in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:33 AM
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A meta-analysis in 2019 byGómez-López et al. of over 100 research articles published over the last three decades proved that romantic relationships during adolescence made them happier,feel more satisfied with their lives, have fewer problems with mental and physical illness, show greater positive affect, and have better levels of self-esteem than single people. Romantic relationships also reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety and improved decision-making."Modeling analysis showed romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:32 AM
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There is no way to make another person have romantic feelings for another. There is no government intervention that could ever control people’s hearts Banning Social Media and Online Dating Applications would at least give below average men a better chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:32 AM
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There are some things that platonic social relationships just cannot accomplish (just like how a diet of only meat or only carbs is not healthy) A meta-analysis in 2019 byGómez-López et al. of over 100 research articles published over the last three decades proved that romantic relationships during adolescence made them happier,feel more satisfied with their lives, have fewer problems with mental and physical illness, show greater positive affect, and have better levels of self-esteem than singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:29 AM

???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:01 PM

You have low standards BECAUSE you are not valuable or worthy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:55 AM
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