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4	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? I’m not trying to hide anything and say something like “yeah you can be ugly and lusted for just have a great personality!” Na babe you need good looks first. I mean, to be fair, I at least pointed out plausible solutions to that, by either hitting the gym (not guaranteed to work if you're truly ugly), or passport broing (almost certainly guaranteed to work if you have decent income, even if you're ugly). I'm not just going to sit here and pretend all is lost. A lot of what you wrote sounds like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:04 AM
-2	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? I gave a very generalized answer. I know, and I gave the unfiltered answer. People might be confused at your soft words and think "that's it, that's all I have to do?" I'm here to stop them from getting complacent and slapping them back into reality by saying "not so fast, here's what she really means." Am I wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:22 AM
–	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Firstly, good looks is not only about having a chiseled jawline. I know. I didn't feel like typing out "have a symmetrical face with no blemishes, prominent cheekbones, have a wide neck, Eurocentric beauty standards, just be white, don't be brown, etc." I was being facetious. In fact, you have no idea what this woman's standards or preferences even are. Irrelevant: I was speaking about what they want in general. She was kind enough to point it out for us, and I elaborated upon it. I suppose u ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:18 AM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. No I'm not. What I'm saying is that these two clowns could be any height, because the heights weren't disclosed. How do you know the woman wasn't like 6'2" and the man 6'1"? It's a meaningless story without more context. And so is him being "slightly overweight" too, btw. Notice how OP never described the physique of the cousin? How do you know she too isn't overweight? Most American women are, so it'd be a safe bet. People in this thread are just assuming she's a baddie....for some reason. I ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:07 AM
2	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? But that is mixed in with a fair bit of bullshit. I'm being facetious, of course, but what I'm saying is the unfiltered version of what she's saying. In addition, the person you're responding to said nothing about whether her preferences are "morally right" or "wrong" And I'm not saying that she is making any judgements. My post was to point out the reality of the situation without using soft, politically correct language. I don't care if people don't want to hear it, this is reality, not a fair…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 02:48 AM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. I assure you, friendo, there are SO many men out there who don't give a shit about n count who respect themselves just fine and don't have cuckhold fetishes. I won't ask about it nor bring it up (because I know how that conversation would probably go down), but if she herself revealed that she had a huge body count, that would set off alarm bells inside my head. Sorry, I can't just turn my brain off at that, I can for a lot of things, but not that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 02:38 AM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. Notice how the heights of these people were never disclosed. Just that the man was shorter. That's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 02:33 AM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. The men you're describing are being picked. Well 63% of young men are single, so evidently a majority of (even average height) men aren't being picked. Make the math make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 02:28 AM
–	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Have a good looking face Translation: "Have a chiseled jawline. No, it doesn't matter to us that it's mostly genetics that determine where fat is stored on the body." somewhat fit physique Translation: "Have low body fat. No, it doesn't matter to us that it's hard to maintain low body fat year-round, just do it or I'll find someone who does. Of course, if you're taller with some fluff that's okay because you're tall." be confident like you’re comfortable with yourself and you’re not begging for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 02:20 AM
1	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Ok queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 11:01 PM
2	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Typing in all caps doesn't make your argument more correct. Also, you didn't actually counter his point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:50 PM
1	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Married people are on here. Irrelevant. Married =/= happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:47 PM
2	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Why do you think they hate passport bros? The average East Asian girl absolutely mogs the average Western girl in terms of appearance and emotional comfort, they know they can't compete. So they spew venom at these guys for actively choosing better than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 10:44 PM
1	Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie women 60% men and 30% women under 30 are single. 63% for men, likely higher now. Same for women, 45% of them will be single in 5 years according to economists, damn near half of them. This seriously does not bode well for the replacement rates of the US, but whatever, I'm just here to watch and embrace the collapse. The guy you responded to spams the same flawed data, with no actual counter points anytime someone does counter his numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:46 AM
4	The average woman has a lower libido than the average man Yeah, those numbers seem to be a little bit off, but if that's what's reported, that's what's reported. For example, I definitely believe it's greater than 36% of men who masturbate over one times a week, and probably a little bit higher than 9% for women too. And it's true, women are the drivers of the sex toy industry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:33 AM
5	The average woman has a lower libido than the average man Not saying I don't believe this, but I would like to see this study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 01:15 AM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. I think you need to read up on history, and pay attention to people who weren’t the ultra-wealthy aristocracy. Marriage for power wasn't just for aristocrats. Peasants did it too. Stone Age cavemen probably did it too (we have evidence that humans practiced monogamy around 1.5 million years ago, but those people wouldn't call it "marriage" of course). But at least in the Western history, the vast majority of women were not purchased like a product on a supermarket shelf historically. Yes, they w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 01:14 AM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. People rarely married for love before the Early Modern (1600's on) Age. Welcome to the real world. Even now, arranged marriages (for power, influence, money, status, bloodline, it doesn't matter), are still a thing in many parts of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:42 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. That's like the bare minimum, so no, it's not a "gift." But I cook my own meals anyway, I have a strict diet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:39 PM
1	It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with 63% of young men are single in the US. The metrics are worse in countries like Japan and South Korea. What country are you in? The women might be having more sex, but dudes are struggling more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:36 PM
-1	It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with Societies where women are generally more intelligent, not just in choosing partners but across all areas of life, tend to enjoy higher levels of wealth, freedom, and quality of life compared to those where this isn’t the case. Average IQ is going down in the US, so something's not adding up here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:26 PM
1	It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with But we're honest about it, though. And we find more women attractive than what women find attractive in men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:24 PM
2	It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with Lol, she's not going to respond to this, because she has no actual counter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:13 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. I shouldn't engage bait but I'll do it. I give gifts because i enjoy it, i like making people i care about happy. Good for you, you're just like everybody else then....???? Has nothing to do with gender. Maybe for you, but in cultures and societies all over the world, men are expected to give gifts to women because they are men and that's what men do for women. The woman isn't necessarily expected to do the same. There's a world that exists outside of your bubble. But well good to know that othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:07 PM
4	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Bless your heart for actually believing what she says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 11:02 PM
-2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Marriage has varied tremendously across the millennia and across different cultures, but it also wasn’t born only 1000 years ago solely as a trade of women for power. No matter the culture, no matter the time, marriage was always a political bargaining chip, from early human tribesmen trading their daughters for extra warriors, to medieval peasants marrying off their daughters to secure grain. It was always about power. Seriously, you need to read up on history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:43 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. They always have been, even back to the Stone Ages. Even animals give gifts in the act of courting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:40 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. It doesn't matter what he is; he's getting engagement from you, and that's all he wants. I've done it before with him, then realized I was being led into a circus, and then I stopped for my own sake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:34 PM
7	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Bro, you're arguing with a known troll. Just stop letting him get to you and let it go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:31 PM
3	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Indeed, even the most blue-pilled, blue-haired feminists on this sub uphold these conservative standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 10:29 PM
0	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit Because their mates are all fat too. Not really a flex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 10:09 PM
0	Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out? You need to stop going to bars, my guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 10:04 PM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough Because they can't get that ultra high value guy to commit. They would, if they could. But they'll essentially never date down, ever. You have to "better" than her at something, whether it's income, facial attractiveness, height, SMV, you have to exceed her in something. She can't outrank you in everything, that's just how their attraction works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 09:38 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? So did I to an extent, it's great... for attracting other people from the hood, not so great for attracting someone middle class, especially if you're a man. Agreed. I should've prefaced by saying it depends on class/culture. Can't date an upper middle class white woman if you're a broke black guy.....usually. it's not like ugly guys from the hood had any problem sleeping around at least where I lived. If those ugly guys were above average in height, then I'd be inclined to believe this. And if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 09:33 PM
1	Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in women Because they know the greatest thing they can offer is their sexual value. Take that away from them, and they start to become terrified and paranoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 08:58 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? I have family and friends who grew up in the hood. I can tell you right now that what you just said is unfortunately, false. Hell, some of these bums have the women paying for their food, clothes, cell phone bill, etc. And they're doing this for guys who are still in jail sometimes. Just look up Jeremy Meeks. Maybe in your area, the womens' hypergamy is more focused on income than looks, but that's not the case where I'm from. I know a handful of well-adjusted dudes with solid income (80K+ a yea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 08:15 PM
2	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough empathy Wouldn't empathy mean "this person is clearly anxious, how about I try to help them through this instead of instantly rejecting them, which only reinforces their anxiety?" Trying to work with them might turn that anxiety into relief. Why would i want to feel negative emotions when interacting with a person? You automatically feel negative emotions just because the other person might be feeling them? Anxiety stops action. So you might be inconsistent and they can't depend on you. An anxio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 08:09 PM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 05:02 PM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough IMO that’s not how it works It is though, women (even unattractive ones) don't date down. Usually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 05:01 PM
2	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough Yeah, you hear that guys, real men go to bars to pick up women, if you enjoy playing video games, you need to stop doing that because women don't like that. Your worth as a man is determined entirely on your ability to attract women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:58 PM
0	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? She's literally wrong bro, I'm not sure why you're not pointing that out. She gave you a range, not an average. The average (in the US) is a little over 5 inches. Some of you really need to learn how to combat this kind of gaslighting, if you don't actually attack their argument they continue to get away with the nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:52 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? and 95% of those screaming groupies wouldn't touch him with a 10foot pole. They would if they were tall. Probably about 70% of those groupies wouldn't lose interest just yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:40 PM
2	The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a whole I don't give a single shit how rich or confident he is Yes, yes you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:57 PM
2	Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms. they absolutely do not respect them. We don't. Never said we did. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 02:00 AM
2	Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms. unreasonable for not wanting “sluts” Men still want to fuck these women; we just don't want to marry them. I'd fuck a female porn star, I'd never marry her though. Women don't want anything to with bisexual men, besides putting them in the friendzone, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:13 PM
2	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties A friend of a friend isn't a stranger Uh, yes, yes they are. If I already know them, then, and only then, are they maybe not a "stranger." But even then they probably still are a stranger to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 04:18 AM
6	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties Nothing's stopping women from approaching these men. Why don't women approach them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 04:15 AM
3	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties He's never had a girlfriend, he had sex only a handful of times. You don't have sex a "handful" of times with zero game, so either he paid for it, you're underestimating his abilities, or (most likely scenario) you're lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 04:12 AM
3	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties Bold of you to even entertain the idea that she's not lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 04:10 AM
1	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties I mean is that not a bit discriminatory?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 04:06 AM
6	We need to encourage young adults to throw more house parties That's a terrible idea. What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 03:56 AM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? A lot lesbians would disagree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:15 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? You sound psychotic tbh lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:46 PM
1	Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers? Why is confidence important in attracting women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 03:41 PM
1	Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase? Ted Bundy was considered attractive and charming, thats how he lured his victims. I wouldnt want to be with him for sure I mean you say that now, but you have the benefit of hindsight. If you hadn't known that Bundy was a ruthless psychopath, you could've been just as easily fooled as all of those other multitudes of women. Who's to say you wouldn't have fallen for him? And yet women all over this sub say that they can just "tell" when a man is a red flag, like they have a sixth sense or somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 04:54 AM
1	Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase? He's a pretty evil person that plenty of women love for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 01:12 AM
1	Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase? Just look him up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 08:37 PM
1	Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase? Jeremy Meeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 05:17 AM
-1	Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase? Okay but you don't speak for most women. And there's plenty of examples that show the exact opposite of what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 04:11 PM
7	Turns out the "female gaze" is not that different from what redpill claims women want look elsewhere. That's what the passport bros are doing, but women are grilling men for doing that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 04:09 PM
–	Turns out the "female gaze" is not that different from what redpill claims women want Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 04:16 AM
4	Turns out the "female gaze" is not that different from what redpill claims women want No woman is "after" simps/orbiters, that's not how it works. But their resources are appreciated, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 04:09 AM
1	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags I said that because I misinterpreted what she said, not because I agree with it. My original point still stands. Back in the day, she would have treated him like a king. Nowadays, she would consider it settling. Fair enough and agreed. To disqualify an otherwise great person for height or weight alone is equally stupid. If she's kind, loyal, humble, and has a sense of humor, I personally couldn't care less if she was overweight. I can tolerate overweight. Obesity is a separate issue. Being fat i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 07:19 AM
2	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags I just demonstrated to you how it's not hypocrisy. It's only hypocrisy in your twisted, delusional fantasy world. You're comparing an immutable characteristic of someone with something that can be changed. It 100% does matter. Imagine if someone said "I don't date X race because they have X skin color." We (rightfully) call that person a racist, you realize that, right? Because the person of X race can't change how their skin color looks (at least, not through any natural means). "Oh, well it do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 05:00 AM
1	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags Bro, don't just say "oh, my bad." Actually read what she said. She's unironically saying that a short man's looksmatch is a fat woman, even if that man is in shape himself. You don't see anything wrong with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:07 AM
1	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags You. Can. Change. Your. Weight. Just eat less food. That's it, that's all you have to do. How many times do we have to say this? How does one change their height without expensive, life altering surgery? You tell me. Lifts are a thing, but we both know that's not a solution either. Weight can be changed, height cannot. They're not equivalent. And ignoring that fact, a man who is in shape should have a woman who is in shape as well, regardless if he's short or not, period. If a tall woman wants a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:05 AM
4	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags He is dating down if he's not fat as well. If he's in shape, goes to the gym, eats healthy, etc, how the fuck is a fat chick working at a daycare his "equal?" ?????	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 05:40 PM
1	Women who have given up on dating, why? He can date whoever he wants, I couldn't care less. No, you obviously cared, else you wouldn't be here, whining about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 02:51 AM
1	Women who have given up on dating, why? You honestly believe every word she typed out, without any critical thought put into it whatsoever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 02:48 AM
1	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? You seriously need to leave your bubble and look around yourself with a critical eyes. Plenty of women try to put down other women, all of the time. There are fat women who body shame skinnier women. And there are skinny women who body shame fat women. But plenty of women do not want to be used as fleshlights by losers Lower your standards. Or, you can appreciate the fact that there's a body type out there for everyone....if you're a woman, that is. I don't know a lot of women into short, baldin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 10:55 PM
3	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? It's not bullshit. Fatter countries like America and Mexico prefer big asses over large boobs, whereas skinnier nations prefer boobs, according to Pornhub. And all of Africa prefers butts, just like I stated. This persecution complex is all in your head, and you're being gaslighted by other women, not men. If anything, men have lower standards than women. A lot of men would fuck anything, women aren't like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 05:58 PM
3	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? Most men do not prefer anorexic sticks. The fashion industry and Eurocentric standards of beauty are perpetuated by women, not men. We want fit women; a little bit of muscle, a little bit of fat. Some of us do want "bigger" women, especially men in the African American community, I'm one of them. But yes, being objectively obese (notice how I say obese and not "overweight") is a turn off to a lot a guys (just like anorexia is).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 05:29 PM
4	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? Jesus Christ, that's some insane projection. And massive insecurity. Just don't be fat. That applies to nerdy women just as much it does to preppy chicks. We don't care how neurodivergent you are (well, as long as you can behave like a functioning adult). If you're out of shape (as a lot of nerdy women tend to be, just like nerdy guys unfortunately), well then improve your physical body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 05:03 PM
1	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? And I'm sure you never leave the kids with your husband to pursue hobbies of your own (assuming you even have hobbies, which seems to be a tall order for a lot of women these days)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 02:34 AM
1	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? I appreciate your honesty tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:05 AM
0	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? Read my comment again, and respond again. I made an edit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 02:59 AM
0	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? And like clockwork, here they come. he wasn't contributing to the relationship or the household Translation: "He wasn't spending enough money on me." and just ignored everything to focus on his video game hobby Translation: "He had the audacity not give his 100% undivided attention to me and my needs at all times; he instead decided to take a few hours out of his busy schedule to chill and enjoy a passionate hobby of his for a few hours a week."	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 02:54 AM
4	Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids? men who spend their free time playing video games or focusing on their hobbies (like watching anime) are considered manchildren or loser There's some truth to this. If you're not wasting your time, effort, money, and mental stability on trying to attract or keep a woman, they vilify you for it. Men (simps) and women do this. The idea that they can be happy despite not doing useless shit to pursue women baffles them, I know people like this irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 02:53 AM
2	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? Absolute BS	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 03:16 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful "How dare you mock my absurdly high standards! I deserve the 6'6" Chad/Tyrone making 200K+ a year, and no one else can tell me otherwise. Pointing out my delusions is sexist and misogynistic, and deflating my dreams and aspirations!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:58 PM
2	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. If you piece together all the fap time in a week Fapping is free, while dating a woman is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:52 PM
9	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. "if no one wants to date him, that's for a reason" and might be wary over it. Yes, we call this "preselection." They teach you communication, compromise, conflict resolution No, you can learn these things without ever having been in a relationship. Trashy, neurotic, narcissists get into relationships all of the time. And not just with other narcissists either. The character of your person determines these skills, but I guess you can say wisdom is gained with experience, true. But yeah, unless yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:45 PM
2	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Which is why Zoomer men are going to clubs/bars less and less. They're learning, good on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:39 PM
1	What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances? Thank God you don't make any laws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:37 PM
–	What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances? Translation: "Chad wouldn't need an escort".	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:34 PM
1	What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances? Woman are really not that complicated, but if this guy can't get any woman he must either be these few things. 63% of men 18-30 are single. 45% of those have never even approached a woman in person. He's 25, right in that struggling age bracket, why are you saying this like it's absurd?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:32 PM
2	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up Then most men should also have low body counts. Statistically, most do. And the number is cratering with Gen Z. And they shouldn't see that as an insult ...We don't. Women do, hence why they spam the terms "incel" and "virgin" to any man they don't like, regardless of the fact if he's been in a relationship or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:10 PM
1	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up But it also looks like 80% of women are invisible to most men. But that's just not true. Men just don't approach those women because we're tired of games/high rejection rates. Only the craziest of psychopaths ask out 100 girls just to get 5 numbers. With women, it's because most guys don't meet their lavish standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 05:59 AM
2	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up What's wrong with what he said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:35 AM
3	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. Line up and join the club. Gladly. your feelings don't change the facts. Yeah, the facts state that the vast majority of women prefer a partner taller than them. The facts state that most women prefer a partner that makes more than her (and that's exactly what the data shows in regards to married couples, despite the fact that women are going to college more than men now). You have no counter to this, so I accept your concession.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:28 AM
2	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up Funny how you take your own lack of notches as an insult No, he's saying that women take it as insult; hence why they use it against men. but think its something women should aspire to. Well a lower body count in a partner is what most men prefer so.....shrug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:24 AM
4	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up Nag, nag, nag, nag. All that does is make life a living hell, no wonder so many young men are checking out mentally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:21 AM
5	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up Yeah queen, I'll just gain 6 inches in height and deposit 6 figures into my bank account to meet the bare minimum nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 05:06 PM
4	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. the same as me, but other men constantly say he is I believe that people say that he's short; it's just not other men. It's women. He doesn't make 6 figures, so again, according other men, he's broke I believe this even less than your previous sentence. If anyone's calling anyone else broke for not making 6 figures, it's women, not men. The vast majority of men don't make 6 figures, and most men understand that. It tends to be women who are more out of touch/sheltered. In fact, I had one woman o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 04:56 PM
9	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. The simp dudes here will NEVER disagree with a woman, though. I've been lurking here forever and maybe seen them do it once or twice. Yeah, the women here will occasionally argue with each other. The simps will not. Period. And they know who they are too, they're likely reading this post right now but just refuse to respond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 04:40 PM
11	Women are dating the same terrible dudes 80% of men are invisible to most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 02:48 AM
1	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. A 5'8 scrawny "Lean physique" STEM nerd "Man with high-earning potential." This isn't Chad "enough" in your book? Fine, I guess. Hmm.... However my now boyfriend is Chad tier. He courted me and is very kind. 6ft tall well dressed. Charismatic. Fun. And we ended up being in a relationship together. I'm utterly shocked. I'm sure if he ever cheats on you, you'll go on to say that he was also manipulative and that the issue is still not with the way that you vet your partners. It's just managing my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 07:27 AM
1	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. But if she's that shallow, would you want her anyway? Again; only to smash. After that, I never have to see her ever again, and I'm okay with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 07:17 AM
1	Gender advantages in dating Impressive gaslighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 04:39 AM
2	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. The manipulative ones were hardly "chads". But nice try though. I don't believe you. I usually vet for about 3 months. If they are still nice after that 3 month mark. Probably a good dude. If they fizzle out. Slow ghost. Switch up. You kinda already know what they were after. I believe this, you're just absolutely chasing Chads. I'm even more convinced now. Men without options are not inherently better because they don't have options. I never said that they did. This is a strawman. I said that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 03:12 AM
3	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. It sounds like you're chasing two different types of Chad. The "nice guy" Chad, who's manipulative. And the "bad boy" Chad, who's upfront about his motives. Do you honestly believe the average man to below average man has the option to casually ghost you? Or cheat on you? Average dudes are not fuckboys with numerous options, so I'm really wondering about your selection process.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 05:23 PM
1	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. or work on flirting skills somehow No, this is irrelevant. Either she finds you physically attractive (which usually involves a minimum height requirement), or she doesn't. And that's all there is to it. No amount of jestering will fix that, at least for most women. Chad doesn't have to be a jester because he can act however he wants and still pull, doesn't matter if he's passive or aggressive, nice or an asshole. The outcome was decided before the game even began.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 05:17 PM
3	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. plus they usually look good I ignored everything else you said - this is the only thing that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 05:09 PM
1	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. A lot of men have lower standards for cleanliness and emotional support than their female partner, leaving the man happy as things are and the woman constantly trying to raise two people's livelihoods to meet her standards. Etc. So women do have higher demands/standards/expectations than men? And if you concede that, would it also be fair to say that women are "high maintenance" on average?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 04:37 PM
2	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. I never asked how old you are. I asked /u/Spirited_Cod260 how old he is. Unless you're using an alt right now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 03:29 AM
1	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. Depends on the partner. Don't let them gaslight/brainwash you my guy, not all sex is equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:44 PM
2	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. In your honest opinion, why do you believe women initiate divorces more than men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:41 PM
5	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. Interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:37 PM
1	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. Why what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:36 PM
1	How Many Of You Believe That Middle Aged Men Are In Their Prime? And Why? She is arguing in bad faith, but if I had to choose between a 45 y/o vs a 40 y/o, I'm going for the younger woman with no other context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:35 PM
3	How Many Of You Believe That Middle Aged Men Are In Their Prime? And Why? Yes, because it makes the guy question "what magically changed all of a sudden? I'm not that different from what I was before." Now, I will grant that people do change over time. But the question is what changed that caused such a drastic shift in the way that people view them. Usually it's either something physically or financially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:32 PM
2	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. being the quiet mysterious guy who can also be assertive when need be. They also tend to be the stoic types. I prefer these men. "Tall, shredded, dark triad type." She literally says what she wants right here. You hear it from them guys, not me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:18 PM
4	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. No we wouldn't. We want to have sex with stuck-up Stacy, that doesn't mean we would rather be in a relationship with her. No, that's hell on Earth. The problem is that basic Becky doesn't want basic Brad. Becky also wants Chad, for sex and relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:09 PM
0	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. Of course everyone wants a partner they can proudly show off and be all like yesss he's mine I love him! Ma'am, this is what we in the English speaking world call a "trophy." Not in a showboat kinda way like you're thinking, more like a im so proud and happy you're mine kinda way That's different from what you just said. That's pride in your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:07 PM
7	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. Is a man a trophy? Yes. That is how they think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:04 PM
5	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. How tall are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 03:59 PM
3	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 03:56 PM
1	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? I'm sorry, but your anecdotal experiences don't change or negate general trends. Really hate it when people do this, it's disingenuous as hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 03:59 PM
1	A person with no options is NOT a better option. Don't respond to her. She's trolling, and I think you know it deep down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 12:23 AM
13	A person with no options is NOT a better option. There are countries that do better than the US, that's an objective fact. But keep on with the strong and independent victim blaming, queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 07:11 PM
19	A person with no options is NOT a better option. Thank God you're nowhere near any source of power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 06:59 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Not everything in life is about money. I feel sorry for your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:54 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Most people in the hood are at least working full time, even if they make minimum wage, or have multiple jobs... There's plenty of people in the hood who have no jobs. Just saying. Thats not what NIMBY is. Yes, yes it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 02:44 AM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job "Me, me, me, me, me." That's all I hear right now, why not be a provider?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 02:42 AM
3	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job I already know I don't find his personality enough. You mean his income, his income isn't enough, which is synonymous with personality in your view. Just say it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:58 PM
0	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Most "people in the West" are not in poverty. I said "plenty", not "most." I don't care that most aren't in poverty, there's still millions that are. The rest of us hate that trailer park/ghetto life with a fiery passion and would rather be single than date someone who shows any inkling of that lifestyle. We call that NIMBY where I'm from. No sense of perspective, just keep it out of sight out of mind. I appreciate your honesty tbh, just don't get defensive when called out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:56 PM
1	Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ? Yeah, it does actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:51 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job People care way too much about income and materialism in the West. I feel like some of you are just out of touch. There's plenty of people in this country living in abject poverty and you're quick to dismiss them as having "gaping personality flaws."	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:44 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job I mean nothing's stopping you from paying for the date yourself. If you liked his personality/looks enough, why not go out of your way to make the date work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:43 PM
2	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Okay, but that's objectively hypergamy...which is what a lot of guys have been saying for years, yet women deny it? I'm not even saying I disagree with your standards, I'm just pointing out what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:17 PM
-5	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job But what about personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:14 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Men date minimum wage workers all the time. Just saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:14 PM
-2	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 06:10 PM
1	Women who date men: What would hurt more—your male partner cheating with a woman or a man? And why? Some do, some don’t. Well, it's a majority that don't, but your response is technically true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:29 PM
-19	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job They can try living in a low cost of living area, perhaps? Not everything has to be decided by hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:27 PM
-13	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Y'all are ruthless, Jesus. Like I know dating is bad for men right now, but seeing the women respond in this thread is still eye-opening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:26 PM
-6	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Dual incomes? It takes two to tango.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:24 PM
1	Women who date men: What would hurt more—your male partner cheating with a woman or a man? And why? What? Do you know how many women get turned on by those sex scenes in brokeback mountain? There's a difference between being turned on by smut, and having your own partner be involved in it. Me and my straight female friends do find 2 men together hot But would you and your friends be okay with your potential partners going at it with other men? Don’t tell me as a straight woman what I like and don’t like, I know what I like. I like to see men. Fantastic, but you also don't represent most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:22 PM
1	Women who date men: What would hurt more—your male partner cheating with a woman or a man? And why? it would also mean that he has been lying about and hiding a fundamental truth about himself (assuming that he had never disclosed that he was bisexual) We all know women don't want to date bisexual men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:07 PM
1	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society Most women have something interesting for men to offer Well, men don't have the same extreme standards that women do, and are objectively much more willing to "settle" than they are. A 4/10 obese woman will receive more likes on OLD than a 8/10 chiseled hunk. Though you might counter that with "but there's more men on those sites" which is true. But the fact remains that women still generally don't date down while men do. So it's not that most women have something "interesting" to offer (why do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:06 PM
1	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society But that applies to most women as well, even more pronounced if anything, since it's usually the man who has to court and pay for things. So that can't just be it, if most women are in relationships (and we know that women typically don't date down).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:21 AM
3	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society But why are most young men single though, compared to young women? What's going on in your opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 04:43 PM
–	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society "Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger" "But she ain't messin' with no broke -"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 04:07 PM
–	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society Well most young men are single, so it's not just a "redditor" thing. I guess 63% of men are all toxic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 04:00 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Well, that's why I said "potential". Read my post again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 05:33 AM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. You of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 05:33 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. That's not a good sign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:11 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Well I'm definitely not marrying the Stacy if she's high maintenance. Is Quasimodo incredibly overweight? Bad teeth and hair? These things can be fixed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:10 AM
-4	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. That's because of her potential body count, and less about the career itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:08 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. We don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:07 AM
4	You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately Hypergamy is a hell of a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 06:59 AM
1	Can the illiterate be sexy? Part 2 Nope, the moment you said "wife and mother material", you had me hooked. She can't read, but she can speak English perfectly fine? Okay. I guess her getting a job might be difficult, but we'll cross that bridge when we get there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 06:13 AM
2	Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than Men Height doesn't stop men from finding a woman. No one says it does, but it's objectively something that most women look for. Don't try to debate this, there are numerous studies that indicate both women and men place a lot of value and respect on taller individuals. "But I've dated shorter guys" isn't a good rebuttal because you are one person and not indicative of the general trend. I shouldn't have to say this, and I'm pretty sure you already knew that, but I'm saying it anyway because response…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:24 AM
1	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? It's not some, it's definitively "most". It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:13 AM
1	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? Ok then that’s just your experiences vs mine. From what I’ve seen most (not socially conservative) men I’ve come across see it as a bad sign if a woman is still a virgin with zero experience past the age of like, 25 No, the men you come across are exceptions, and far from the norm. They’ll wonder if she has some kind of debilitating mental illness or something for example Lol no, no they do not. Even if you are making shit completely up (which I'm certain of), this is a step too far. What reason…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:12 AM
1	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? Well I'm 38 now and have never even been approached by a virgin How do you know? Serious question, because guys lie all of the time. And don't bring up their performance in bed either; virginity has no bearing on that. There are people with body counts in the hundreds that are terrible in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:48 AM
2	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? I'm sorry miss. You're a creepy weirdo for caring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 05:37 PM
2	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? Why is 21 your arbitrary cutoff age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 05:14 PM
2	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? Indeed, watch what they do, ignore what they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 05:13 PM
7	Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women? Even plenty of men think it’s weird and a red flag if a woman is still a virgin past a certain age. But the vast majority of us don't care. Unless there's something insanely wrong with her appearance, there will be zero red flags with a majority of dudes. The men who actively prefer virgins are either also virgins themselves, religious, or have tradcon beliefs about gender roles (which is usually on par with being religious anyway). No, just....no. It is simply a fact that men prefer women with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 05:08 PM
–	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit Yeah, because it's not a good look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 04:53 AM
–	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit I think most men are fine with tattoos to a certain extent. But tattoos everywhere? Nah, most dudes don't prefer that. Not that it matters, there's still hordes of dudes who don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 02:50 AM
2	Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weight Well the women here would rather be alone than settle with a man that they perceive as "beneath" them. Is the same not true in Korea?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 02:40 AM
3	Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weight Your problem is that while you're at a healthy body weight, you're too skinny. You need to gain lean mass. Though, there are plenty of women who'd go for you, but women (in the US at least, don't know where you're at) do prefer some noticeable muscle definition. If you want more attention, bulk up, low body fat % means nothing if you look like a twig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 01:25 AM
1	Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weight So the women here are more hypergamous than the women in South Korea?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 01:22 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" I think lots of men are fat on this sub but it’s funny how much they hate fat women. Isn't funny how women have height requirements, income requirements, status requirements, facial attractiveness requirements, and fitness requirements? While men just have....fitness requirements...facial attractiveness requirements...and personality requirements....and that's about it? Do these two examples seem "equal" to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:30 PM
1	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" She won't respond to this, she doesn't believe in medical science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:24 PM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" By short I dated a couple guys around 5’5. Sure. idk body percentage because I’m not weird. Damn, I guess most physicians, doctors, general fitness focused people are weird then, I guess? That might explain the obesity epidemic in the US if knowing basic science is now "weird." Broke means having no money. "Having no money to fund the lavish lifestyle that I want to live." there’s no expectation to make 6 figures for men around my age Which is why a lot of women your age tend to date older men (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:23 PM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" Women will only try to save a relationship with a top tier man. If they guy is obviously a simp orbiter, she won't bother while he will try everything in his power to keep her around, even resorting to going into an open relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:14 PM
1	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" Desperate simps who know they have no other options. I pity them. But any man with self-respect? They're not tolerating that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:08 PM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" If a woman you find butt ugly opens the door for you? Does that make u want to fuck her? No. Is she fat? That's the biggest determining factor for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 07:10 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" The geeky, nerdy women basically get to take their pick of the geeky, nerdy men. Uh, they get their pick of whatever man she wants, so long as she's reasonably attractive. Guys don't have the same monstrous standards that women do, nor do we care about "status" the same way women do. Just don't be fat and don't be annoying is what most guys want, but even then there are dudes out there who will 100% go for fat women. Way more than the vice versa example of women going for fat guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 07:08 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" short "Below 6ft" fat "Above 12% body fat" broke "Makes less than 6 figures/less than me" unemployed/student "Low SMV unless he's 6ft+ tall, then being unemployed/a student is a-okay" Translated that for any new readers here!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 07:01 AM
-2	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" Men also date women who will hit, scream, and financially abuse them. No, we don't. We typically just use them for sex. And even if we do "date" them, it's a situationship at best, and it'll never develop into a marriage. Men value peace and quiet from long-term partners, women don't seem to value that as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 06:50 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" And your comment “reek[s]” of the same “nice guy” mentality that I am describing. I’m sure you don’t identify as abusive, but your comment is verbally abusive and aggressive. No, no it didn't. You're projecting, hard. How are you supposed to know if you can’t determine that until it’s too late? Why don't you believe that women have agency? That’s because women have been dogpiled. Just as you dog pile me with “excuses” and “reek” “skill issue” and a tense and angry tone. Why are you offended that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 06:46 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" why are so many men choosing to marry women who later ask for divorce a few years later? Men can't afford to be picky like women can. Hypergamy is stronger with women than men. Men are more willing to try to save a failing relationship while women are more willing to jump ship and move on to the next partner (because they can find a partner easier than most men can).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 06:43 AM
1	The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations. If he's tall, he can offset his ugliness a good bit. But he has to make up for it with exceptional height, "just" being 6ft isn't enough if you're also ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 12:40 AM
1	Why do men avoid any firm statements on dating apps? Indeed, if he's not a Chad who can attract women with zero effort, then he's not good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:41 PM
1	The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations. Sometimes it's not about being facially ugly, it's about height. Ugly dudes can pull women if they're tall enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:33 PM
1	The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations. If his answer is yes, then I would try to suss out his flirting ability and see why he's bad at building attraction. Most women are shit at flirting, so this might not be a problem for the guy. A lot of women just don't put in effort because they don't have to. And if it's down to appearance, either they like you or they don't. There's no in-between.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:30 PM
1	Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society Being thinner doesn’t make her above average. It does in this country, by default. That's why young women with a healthy bmi are the most sought after. their teeth was crooked and needed braces. Or she had bad skin Blah blah blah, so she can get some braces and a skin care routine. At least she's not fat. And you're acting like there aren't millions of American women with messed up ass teeth, or acne all over their face? I don't even care about all of that, I just don't want them to be fat, that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 06:14 PM
1	Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society *I’d rather have a more attractive woman who I’m exploiting and who is trapped with me because she has no better options because it satisfies my sexual needs. Rather than a less attractive woman who is not being exploited. Well, that's not what I said, but cute strawman all the same. I prefer the in-shape girl for the same reasons that women prefer to have one night stands with the top percentile of men; I'm just more attracted to them. And that's all there is to it. Also most western women have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 06:05 PM
–	What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ? Yeah, this comment is a copout when someone points out your fallacy. But I know this isn't going to go anywhere, I can tell from your previous posts, so believe whatever you want, I don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:53 PM
1	"The bar is in hell" and other such sayings... Make sure he isn't weird Aka "meets my minimum height requirements."	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:46 PM
–	What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ? He's saying most women are gold diggers, but in a previous post you literally said most women don't expect the man to pay for their time and attention. Then, after, you literally agreed with him, so your points are all over the place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:37 AM
1	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. expect me to pay for anything on a date "How dare he expect me to pay for anything on a date! The nerve of him!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:31 AM
4	It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat. But 66% of them are having sex. Post your source so that I can debunk it (again). Its situationships. Alot of young people dont know what theyre doing so they cant communicate what their dynamic is. This is a shocking level of delusion. Even for you. Yes, Lilith, 63% of men are single (with the number probably being higher than that), but it doesn't matter because most dudes are actually just Chads rotating out harems of situationships. Yup, that's exactly what's happening. They're all fucking, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:27 AM
1	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. Why are women so obsessed with how much money men make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:22 AM
1	Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society I’m just pointing out the irony of being okay with that with non western women. Well that girl from the Philippines or Singapore isn't likely to be 5'4 and 170lbs. So, if I had to choose to have my wallet destroyed between an overweight woman or an in-shape woman, of course I'd choose the latter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:15 AM
1	Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society Lol speak for yourself. At least she's statically less likely to be overweight than the average American woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:08 AM
5	It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat. 63% of young men are single. The number is probably worse than that and will almost certainly be worse in the future (and for women too btw). Care to address that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 08:02 AM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit /r/thatHappened	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 07:52 AM
2	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws The definition has changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:21 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Because some of you seriously stress us the fuck out with either illogical rambling (which goes nowhere), or incessant nagging (which is a chore to deal with). No sane person wants to argue over and over again with a brick wall. Least of all a man with a fulltime job and other obligations on top of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:12 AM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Hence why I added the word “probably”. I can’t speak for every single woman on earth You certainly don't, in fact you seem to not understand most women in America. They tend not to date down, while men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:06 AM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Shocker, you're being debated in a debate sub. Damn. Find your balls, man. Something women need to understand; men really don't like unnecessary conflict. Which might seem hard to believe, but it's the truth. This dude has absolutely no desire to debate you, and I don't blame him. We deal with enough BS in our daily lives as is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:01 AM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws They can ask, though you could just not answer/lie. They could also find out whom you've dated before and ask them as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 06:55 AM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Hmm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 06:47 AM
–	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Mask off	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:10 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws And, you’ll never know that any of these guys are incels because as a woman Just pointing out that someone who hasn't had sex in a while (or even ever) isn't automatically an "incel." Inceldom is a state of mind, not "can you get sex at will or often." Which most guys can't, but most guys aren't incels. It's more about how they react to the lack of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 03:48 PM
–	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Where are all the blue pilled women, why aren't they responding to this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 07:27 AM
5	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. However plenty of average looking people partner early in their 20s, so I am doubtful that the dual mating strategy is the only thing at play. Define "plenty." 63% of young men are single, so something's not adding up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 05:18 AM
0	Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies. Agreed. The hordes of orbiters and simps are why we're in this predicament, I don't put the blame soley on women. Stop the simping, and egos would be kept in check.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 05:22 PM
2	Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies. He's a troll; don't respond to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:57 PM
5	Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies. Because I'm not sure the mods even like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:55 PM
2	Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies. You mention them in every comment and try to reduce men's issues to getting laid. Because that's how she (and a lot of other women) see themselves as; a "prize" to be won, a hole to be used. She genuinely believes the greatest thing a woman can offer a man is pussy, and if men don't get that, then they suffer for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:54 PM
1	Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies. You have the right to hate or love anyone without justification. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:51 PM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? 'Sausage fest' I know, I just think you're lying when you say you know "literally hundreds of men." And you won't admit to that, I already know, so this conversation is probably over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:49 PM
2	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? I think that's a false equivalency. Don't be obese =/= don't be short. You can control your weight. A woman's beauty goes up drastically if she's in-shape. I'd rather date a butter-faced girl who takes care of her body than a facially attractive obese woman. Short guys =/= 400 lb women And I bet you that 400 lb woman gets a lot more action than the average man does nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:48 PM
1	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. I had some idea, but didn’t fully understand how far gone a huge number of the men in this sub are. Y’all are beyond cooked. 63% of young men (18-30) are single. Why do you think that is? What are Zoomers/Zillenials/younger Millennials doing wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:43 PM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? Yeah, the homeless guy (who, honestly, from what I heard isn't necessarily "crazy", just a big asshole), and the actual crazy person who let some bum knock her up. I don't really blame the guy for getting what he can get tbh, I blame the woman more for her shit vetting skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:19 PM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? Yeah, they're even crazier than that. Some girl at my work got impregnated by her felon baby daddy who was homeless before he got locked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:15 AM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? most men I know would avoid sausage fests like the plague You don't know a lot men then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:10 AM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? There are so many better places to spend time with friends than some godforsaken club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:07 AM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? They just want their boundaries respected Aka "meet my minimum height requirement and don't be ugly."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:05 AM
3	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? How long is this clown dance going to go on though, I wonder? Gen Z guys are going to bars/clubs less and less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:02 AM
1	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. Saving this comment for later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 06:50 AM
1	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. "Old man yells at cloud"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:24 AM
6	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. You aren't purple pilled. You're blue pilled, so change your flair. What he said made 100% sense, you just don't like that he countered your point easily. Your only counter was basically "well, that's a 200k robot compared to a dildo, obviously they're not the same." Literally, yes, you're correct, but you're ignoring the spirit of his point; people who get laid use sex toys all of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 07:03 PM
3	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. I'm saying they are not at all to my specific taste ....Which is....???	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:58 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Well, it makes sense that you consider above average income the "bare minimum", but where I live a person making 40k could live like a king so long as they don't take expensive vacations every few months. Ditto if they have dual incomes, now they can buy a nice house and car too. Would this be an "acceptable" lifestyle for you? And it sounds like you live in a large city, perhaps? How's the crime rate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:54 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Do you live in high cost of living area?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:50 PM
5	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. None of those guys are "average", wtf looool. Most of them are sub 17% body fat with excellent genetics. That's what you call "average?" Guys, hypergamy is real. You're seeing it with this woman right here. Now even top 0.1% celebrities and Chads are "average." lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:46 PM
2	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. On top of that, the top 20% of dating apps do really well with women. Wait, how do you know that "top 20%" figure isn't also included with the 37% who're in relationships? Men and women share (or cheat on) partners all of the time. Your logic is flawed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:25 PM
1	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. Where did you get that 1/6 figure from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:22 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Stop replying to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:22 PM
3	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. Is Lilith wrong? You avoided that question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:16 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men I actually make slightly above it as a Zoomer and will be purchasing my first house on my own next year lol, but most of my peers are struggling. It's just strange to me how you don't know that men and women consider "average" as two different definitions. Are you really a man, or are you a woman larping, intentionally trying to troll/spread discontent? It's happened before on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:13 PM
1	Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling. I love how you just pull numbers out of thin air with no justification or logic, just straight yolo. Your threads are always entertaining, no matter how frustrating they are to read. lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:08 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men I accept your concession. Next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:06 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Zoomers are below average to Boomers? Yes or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:59 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men That doesn’t mean I have to accept a partner that makes slightly above it: especially when I was not raised in an average household myself. I'm not saying you "have" to accept it, but I absolutely believe that this is a spoiled princess way of thinking and dating. If most dudes thought this way most men would be perma single (well, most young men are already single, but older gents would be as well). "My partner 'only' makes slightly above average? Unacceptable, I was raised with higher standard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:58 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Wait till I show you what the average Gen Zer is making compared to Gen X and Boomers, it might actually blow your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:52 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Well, I think you are, but at least you answered as honest as you believe yourself to be, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:51 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Can you please just answer my question? Are you out of touch, yes or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:48 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men How would this shift happen if men refuse to be realistic about their standards? "Don't be fat" and "don't have multiple kids before the age of 25" are not unrealistic standards. Well, I guess they are here in the US; in other countries (with similar development indexes to ours) those would be the bare minimum. I don't blame guys for asking for that, especially with the amount of effort dudes have to put in in order to date. Men pay and simp for onlyfans because those are the type of women they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:47 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men I wasn’t even raised in an average US household by income standards. I date within my socioeconomic class. I also live in a large city so it’s very easy to find people that make over 70k. Ok, so can you just admit that you're a bit out of touch then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:25 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Based off your criteria of height and salary It's not "my" criteria. It's women's criteria. But sure, let's argue that. I'm not out here calling women who make more money than me and are taller than me "above average", that's just not how my (or most men's) brain works. And it really doesn't make sense either. I could just as easily say those women are "below average" because a lot of men wouldn't want to date a woman who's taller and makes more money than them. Which is stupid, but that's the l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:24 PM
2	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men If the software dev can snag in a comfortable 250k compared to the oil worker's 110k, he'd have a solid chance of winning over the woman. But, there's still a chance that she'd go for Mr. Oil Worker. Hell, there are women who've cheated on their spouses making 80k a year for broke felons. It happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:19 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Nobody gives a shit if older Millennials/Gen X/Boomers are in relationships. Their experiences are not the experiences of everyone else. The problems are with younger Millennials/Zillennials/Zoomers. Stop arguing in bad faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 05:12 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men If they're getting paid around the same amount of money, absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:59 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men men's wealth does nothing for attraction it is a meaningless quality This can't be true because women do not tend to date "down" in terms of finances. Whereas men don't really care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:57 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men and makes more than the average woman. This is true for now, but I'd love to see if it remains true down the line for Zoomers, with more and more Gen Z men not going to college. Those that don’t are below average That's an awfully feminine take on what "average" is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:50 PM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Outwardly, he does. And even if he does genuinely enjoy it, he's an exception. And that's fine, just don't use him to gauge the vast majority of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:46 PM
3	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Well 63% of young men are single so. And I've had women hit on me too, could get a few numbers if I really cared to chase. Doesn't change anything at all about the dating market right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 03:17 AM
6	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men If I see the evidence (NOT some garbage from Tiktok or a podcast) "If I don't like the source then the evidence doesn't count."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:57 AM
2	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men You just don't get it. Men don't like spending money that we don't have to, period. It's great that you go 50/50; it'd be even better if we didn't have to constantly "go out" and spend money on useless shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:49 AM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men When I met this men I was shocked to learn that his “wealth” was just a 70k job and a 401k. So a man making above the median income in the US for an adult. Not too shabby, I think you need to readjust your standards to the reality of the average person's financial situation in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:48 AM
6	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Or dogs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:41 AM
0	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Real talk, what do you mean average men don’t make themselves available? Her idea of average is "be taller than me and make more money than me." And you can extrapolate everything else from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:39 AM
2	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Bruv what...how come so confidently wrong?!? I am from Russia and I am telling you the war didn't force women to step up their game. Because the person you're responding to is talking about WW2, not the war in Ukraine. And everything he said is absolutely correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:38 AM
1	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men Yes and no. If the hordes of orbiters (i.e. average dudes with no chance) stop being, well, orbiters, then and only then, would we start to see some kind of improvement. Let shit like OnlyFans die overnight and the shift would happen. It's not about women only wanting top tier men - well, this is an issue - but the issue is caused by their inflated egos/standards. And their egos are only so inflated because of the attention hordes of orbiters give women simply for being women. This has to stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:36 AM
1	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? Wow. You're terrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:20 AM
1	why won't women engage with men? To be fair if you do actually worship the police, you're probably not as "progressive" as you think you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:16 AM
1	why won't women engage with men? Tell that to women in my area. In fact, a few coworkers of mine each got their own baby daddies who're locked up in prison yet they constantly go on and on about how "great" partners they really are. It's baffling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:13 AM
5	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. Moving the goalposts in action Observe fellas. Even if you're a blue pilled man, just observe this woman's behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 07:15 PM
1	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn I have a hard time getting it up for anyone but her. Sounds like ED.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:30 PM
1	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn I’ve always found a cuck element to the fact you’re getting off on watching someone else sleep with a woman you find attractive, but that’s not fully relevant here. That's because you don't know what a cuck is, which is fine, plenty of people don't. Guys, take note of how she defaulted to "man gets off watching porn is a cuck" rather than "woman watching porn is a cuck."	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:25 PM
5	Women seem to be selecting for “coolness” They would if he met their height requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 06:14 PM
15	Women outpacing men in college education is good for men. Mask off	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 06:10 PM
1	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? I will say that our country needs better public transportation, it would definitely make everyone's lives easier. And you live in SoCal. So people there are a bit more "open minded" and less adherent to traditional gender norms, so men can get away with letting the woman drive herself everywhere, I respect that tbh. But it doesn't match my personal experiences, unfortunately. You'd have to go out of your way to find a woman who's willing to sidestep traditional gender roles where I live, but the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 06:07 PM
1	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. Unwanted attention is problematic, not flattering. Only if she has to physically see them. Anonymous strangers on the internet giving her attention is a-okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 06:01 PM
0	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. The only sexual attention which “counts” is that which comes from men she’s attracted to. It's not just about sexual attention. It's literally any sort of attention. Just the validation itself is enough, she doesn't have to physically meet these men. Jeremy from IT subscribing to her OnlyFans fuels her ego. Doug the construction worker liking her post on Instagram fuels her ego. It's just the attention, that's all that matters. That's why 63% of young men are single right now, they can't meet th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:13 PM
1	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. You know I agree with this. In fact, if women didn't have hordes of orbiters, we wouldn't be in this current dating situation; your egos/expectations would be more in check. Unfortunately, I'm just one guy and I can't convince my fellow man to stop putting women on a pedestal just for existing. There will always be hordes of orbiters for the foreseeable future, at least until we perfect AI/virtual reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 09:59 PM
3	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. The way women always have cards to play to disguise the desire gap for some men versus others that they are both willing to commit to. That is the knowledge that must be obfuscated at all costs and women often lie and deceive to ensure it goes unknown. And guess what, guys who are good with women both can acknowledge this and don’t care. They just roll with it. Post of the year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 09:55 PM
2	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. they are seeking a relationship in order to get sex. Sex tends to come with the relationship. I don't know why this blows the mind of some of you women. The two go hand in hand. Yeah, no shit guys expect sex, relationship or not. And if there's no sex, we might as well be friends, and quite frankly, I don't really want to be friends with most women. I keep a fairly tight friend group as is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 09:52 PM
2	To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby. this sub hates on men who dont act thirsty and shallow. We don't hate on them; we pity them for falling for the blue pill's lies and gaslighting. Men will openly admit that we're shallow and know what we want. We're just waiting on women to admit the same. Cut out the "it's all about personality" BS and just be honest for once. Following blue pilled advice was getting me nowhere and fast. I leaned into the red pill and all of a sudden I started seeing success, literally any kind of success, as o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 09:47 PM
2	To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby. yet they think constantly complimenting women’s looks Women want this. If they didn't want this, the dudes who do it wouldn't do it because it wouldn't work. Then again, she probably only wants this type of attention from the dudes she was already attracted to to begin with....🤔 talking about much they want to fuck her See above. If she likes him (i.e., if he meets her minimum height/face threshold), she's much more tolerant of this type of behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 08:56 PM
2	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? How old are you and do you live in a big city? Are you in Europe? The women where I'm at pretty much expect you to pick them up, it's not even something that would come up in conversation because it's inherently assumed that you have a vehicle. Ubering is an option (that shrinks your dating pool, but it is an option), but even then you're expected to pay for the costs of her going to and from the location; on top of paying for the date as well. It's just more convenient and less of a headache to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 08:53 PM
2	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Plenty of dudes are 100% okay with picking up their dates. Why are women less tolerant of doing the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 07:54 PM
2	To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby. No, the best text I ever got was this: “I really enjoy talking to you. It's feels very organic.” Lmao, that's generic as fuck. It's so generic plenty of guys won't say something like this on purpose because it's too on the nose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 07:43 PM
1	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Your average person doesn't live in a large city. Most people in the US don't have access to competent public transportation; they need a personal vehicle. Not having one is a negative for most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 07:26 PM
0	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? or does he expect me to go to his place to pick him up? Oh the horror! Imagine going out of your way to do something for someone else!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 06:35 AM
1	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? I'm in the US and I've never heard of anyone I know ever getting a date, or not getting one, based on how nice their car is. I just don't think most people are that vain towards others that way. IMO this is a Hollywood trope more than anything else There are plenty of women here that would reject you if your car wasn't "good enough". You're right that one is unlikely to encounter them. However, what you should've said was that not owning a vehicle at all is a major dealbreaker for many women. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 06:33 AM
9	Provide and protect Comments like this are why the Zoomers broke for Trump	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 06:26 AM
1	Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity" you might need to talk to all the dudes who call men “pussy” and “faggot” if they dont behave how men “should”. Wait till I tell you that women do this do. All of the time, in fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 06:27 AM
-6	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. I don’t understand the point you are making because you’re not making the point you think you are. He is; you just have no counterpoint to it and now you're having a legit mental breakdown.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 06:25 AM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. Don't respond to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:30 AM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. "Just get a nursing degree bro." Is this the redpilled woman version of "learn to code bro?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:37 AM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. survey data from pew It's bizarre that you think survey data can't be peer-reviewed....?????? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:35 AM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. I would argue that it is much much easier to shift careers than it is to lose a significant amount of weight. I'm sorry, but this is just delusional, and just goes to show how much society coddles unhealthy lifestyles. And it confirms the insane standards that women in the West have (because they want fit partners too; it's just that they also demand above average incomes from men while men do not demand the same from women).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 04:29 PM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. Income is also changeable. True. Nothing is stopping you from going to college for something in demand or trade school. Aside from wealth and time, and my ability to learn new things. All of those things are much harder to get right than simply "I need to eat less food."	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 06:20 AM
0	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. I have always struggled with my weight Calories in, calories out. Either you're not counting the calories correctly, or you're not working out as hard as you should be. Or both. There's nothing else to it, it's just physics. I will say that women are at an advantage here; women have much stricter physical standards for men than vice versa. Plenty of fit guys date overweight (not obese, just overweight) women, while I rarely see the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:17 AM
0	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. age 18-25, not overweight or obese, single, and childless Those are barebones standards, the fact that a mere 3% of modern American women meet them says more about the women than the men who adhere to these standards. Meanwhile, women demand the infamous and dreaded 666 out of men. These situations are completely different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:13 AM
2	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. gf =/= automatically laid, the fuck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:09 AM
2	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. weight, past, or appearance. Weight is changeable. Your past can't be changed, and oftentimes people are judged unfairly for it, true. But if your present resembles your past, that shows people that you don't really care about introspection or how your past has affected your present. Appearance can be changed, to a certain extent. And no, I'm not talking about surgery either, this is adjacent to the weight problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:08 AM
2	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. "Peer-reviewed research is a lie when I don't like the data it espouses."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:05 AM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. I'm pretty sure only apply to America It's worse overseas in countries like Japan and Korea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 10:05 AM
2	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. Someone's in denial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 09:57 AM
5	Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience? Yes, yes you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 05:31 AM
6	Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience? So you pat yourselves on the back thinking that you're "experts" at socializing just because you congregate at clubs like packs of wolves? Yeah, going out to places doesn't mean you're "good" at something. Gen Z women understand this, so I'm assuming your at least Millennial+ in age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 02:26 AM
8	Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience? Men under 35 can’t dance, can’t flirt, can’t afford cover charges Neither can the women, yet for some reason men are "expected" to be competent in all of these areas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:16 PM
3	Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience? *You see the few that actually go out, yes. But for the most part, most of us avoid clubs like the plague. Mostly because we realized that clubbing and club culture sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:08 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD hell we even hung out at Walmart Why tf would anyone want to hangout at a Walmart?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 05:50 PM
2	If Dating Worked for Most Men Everything About Dating Would Flip on Women Primates can't build civilization Well, natural selection and evolution don't really care about "civilization". The dinosaurs dominated this planet for 160 million years and never invented the wheel, what's with this focus on "civilization" being the end all, be all? That's just a human concept to pump ourselves up. Our ancestors lived for millions of years without civilization, and Homo Sapiens have been for 300,000 years, yet we only started to write stuff down maybe 8,000 years ago. By the wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:56 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers we have to have a minimum of 5.6 weeks off paid annual leave by employers. Holy shit. I need to move ASAP. (which is cheaper in the US) Yes, but depending on where you live it's either an inexpensive trip or a long trip you have to plan out ahead months, sometimes years in advance. That's how bad it is for some people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:48 PM
1	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? k	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:40 AM
3	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? There are exceptions, but there's data out there that suggests most men don't really want super-thin girls, but they do have to be "in shape", yes. In my community, bigger women are preferred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:40 AM
2	If Dating Worked for Most Men Everything About Dating Would Flip on Women You cannot run a civilization with a small group of men keeping harems of 30 women as a significant number of men are left without a wife. To be fair, this is how it tends to work with mammals, primates especially. Humans and their monogamy are one of the few exceptions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:38 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? No, your "sarcasm" isn't sarcasm, and now you're desperately trying to save face. Please don't respond to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:33 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? I accept your concession then. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:31 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Are you going to answer my question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:30 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? 100% agreed. Though, I do think most men would prefer a woman with either or. She can't have no boobs or ass, there has to be some curvature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:28 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Notice how she said the only person she's ever dated was 5'11, basically 6'. Watch what they do, not what they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:24 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? that’s going to bomb most of the time. If he's below a certain height	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:12 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:04 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Eh, natural boob size, I guess? But most guys I know (myself included) prefer ass anyway, so...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:02 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Yeah, good luck debating that one. You won't get very far with her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 08:00 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? If you read carefully, it's because the guy is insecure about his height and creating his own problems that the woman eventually got tired of it. And you actually believe the words she typed out? No obfuscation/lying/gaslighting/unreliable narrator nonsense going on? Just going to take her word at face value? So she dates one short guy who was "insecure" over it, and now she has a minimum height requirement as a result of that one relationship? Even if her story isn't complete BS, that's still s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:58 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Only the preferences of Gen Zers in their early 20's count. Are you trying to diminish the experiences of the Zoomer dating scene?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:50 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? 6' is above average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:46 AM
1	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Her boyfriend and uber driver couldn’t even think to call the police or tell drunk rapey guy to fuck off. Not his problem. drunk rapey guy I don't believe a word this woman says about this guy. At least, not when it comes to him being "creepy". He was probably just ugly and/or short and that = creepy to a lot of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 06:46 AM
3	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. her "large male friends" Aka her orbiters. her "decent human being" husband Her oofy doofy provider who would be dropped in 2 seconds by the crazy lean boomer you came up with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 06:39 AM
1	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. It proves that height really does matter to most women, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 06:31 AM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers No, no it is not. Colorado, Montana, New England, Alaska, these places are all expensive to live in. However, you can hike in shit holes like West Virginia/Appalachia, but again, people don't like going there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 05:26 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I had photos of me hiking, sky diving and playing board game Hiking and sky diving show that you have enough wealth/disposable income to give yourself leisurely time. Most people aren't sky diving, and a huge portion of Americans live paycheck-to-paycheck, they don't have time to go out hiking somewhere. Not to mention areas where people like to hike tend to be high cost of living (not always, but generally speaking yes). Sometimes, the bathroom selfies are the best you're gonna get due to finan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 04:40 PM
7	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Gaslight, move the goalposts, present false equivalencies, attack strawman positions, non sequiturs galore, etc, etc. We've seen it all, and it's starting to become boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 06:54 AM
3	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. in fact in 7%+ relationships women were taller That's abysmal and all but confirms what I already knew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 05:35 AM
7	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Good job on calling out his gaslighting, usually it's women who do it but as we can clearly see here men aren't exempt from it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 05:33 AM
1	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? You read enough to get to the line after the paragraph No, I actually skimmed and thought that was a funny sentence. I didn't digest basically anything you said outside of that. 🤭	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 08:38 AM
0	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? the paragraph directly preceding that remark holds a lot of context clues for what I specifically meant Yeah, I'm not reading your mad essays. Hard pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 08:27 AM
1	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? It's like I'm talking to an alien You say that yet there are other blue pilled women in this thread (and the linked thread, btw), who disagree with you. So who's really the extraterrestrial here? 👽	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:56 AM
0	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? Yeah, that was some impressive mental gymnastics on their part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:52 AM
9	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? But if a man isn't willing to physically fight for a woman Any woman? What if she's a stranger? Because I know for a fact she wouldn't do the same for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:51 AM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Oof and there go the incel talking points. Now all the autistic logic and getting weirdly offended by everything makes sense. Still taking that mask off?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:11 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating "Waaa I insulted her and she insulted me back!" By implying you're a paranoid loon? I'm not taking that back, you're starting to validate that accusation actually. Even other women on this sub have called you out before. Lol People with careers making good money don't find it worth it to put all those miles on their car doing Uber and Doordash so yea lol. Well, I know modern women have no idea what constitutes "average" or "above average" money these days due to their skewed standards, so I can'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 03:41 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Says the brokie who works for Uber and doordash So we're going full mask off now, huh? That's a side hustle, ma'am, not my actual fulltime job as I stated before, nice to know you don't actually read my posts. ;) I work security and I'm becoming a cop next year. And guess what, I'll still be doing the side hustle even after I become a cop. And women shouldn't be calling anyone "brokies", it makes you look vapid. Not to mention all of the bitches around me are broke as hell, have no cars, and sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 03:23 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Its not up to you to decide whether you seem suspicious to others. So you're okay with being a paranoid loon in some aspects then? 🫢 I already said why. You just don't agree with the reasoning and don't seem to understand that it really doesn't matter if YOU agree LOL, your reasoning was "vibes". That's terrible, as I said before. But I can tell you won't budge on this one, it's like talking to a brick wall so I digress. Most people in general have some form of social media presence and at least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:54 PM
3	Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually means Black America is run like a matriarchy and everyone knows it. Not the case in my household, then again my parents were divorced. Nor was it the case in either of my grandparents households either. The mother has authority, but she was absolutely not "the" authority. Any true, "traditional" black household will be heavily religious, much like Latinos, except Protestant. And in hardcore Protestant households the man = ultimate authority. I've gone to church too many times and listened to the spiel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:48 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating I still don't see how this is relevant to the conversation. Just because a suspicion isn't valid 100% of the time doesn't mean it's generally a useless suspicion. It's a useless suspicion because you have yet to justify the suspicion with any sort of data or facts, just "vibes" and anecdotes. That's not good enough. It tells me women have no idea how to vet a partner, which makes me take their "suspicions" far less seriously. "Watch they do, not what they say", and all that jazz. I work security…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:50 AM
2	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? They're going full mask off and I'm here for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:30 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? At least they've gone full mask off. I appreciate it, honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:23 AM
6	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Holy fuck, thank you. Finally someone outside of myself said it. Seriously, why does no one want to talk about how shit women can be at socializing, why is the onus always on men to improve there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:16 AM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating No it's because they have likely had the same experience. ...So exactly what I said, yes. Because women tend to go after the same men (i.e. "Are we dating the same guy?" meme). like guys who lie about their jobs for example This rarely happens, OP is just a bit schizo, that's all. Most women don't choose men they're suspicious of so problem solved. Indeed. And where does that get them? "Where have all the good men gone!?" is what I constantly hear. "But he had such a healthy social media presenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:08 AM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating From personal experience most of the people who claim to not have social media have things to hide Yes, that is what most women typically say. And it's indicative of the partners they tend to choose (fuckboys who do have things to hide, or drug dealers/felons hiding their shit too). I limit my presence because I don't want people stalking me. You want to know more about me? Ask me, like an adult. I mean the ones who claim to not have any. Well, most people have something online, they just might …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:44 AM
3	Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually means Lol wtf, my grandfather never gave up his money to my grandmother. All financial decisions stemmed from him and him alone. Any input he listened to was on his own terms. Maybe things worked differently in white families, but in "traditional" African American families, the man is seen as the ultimate authority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:36 AM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating I suppose you have a point here, but I do find it interesting how most women would rate most men "unattractive" despite the fact that they refuse to leave the house without 10+ pounds of makeup on their face. Why is this so tolerated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:29 AM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Im generally suspicious of people who have no social media presence And I'm suspicious of people who care about this fact. Why can't I just value my privacy without people scrutinizing everything? I wouldn't look too hard at my partner's social media unless they asked me to. As it stands right now, the only reason I have the apps is in case women ask for them, I don't actually post anything on them, mostly out of spite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:25 AM
7	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Do they all meet online/on dating apps Most young people do nowadays, yes. I don't care about the whims of Gen X/Boomers, those days are long gone. We're in the age of Coomers and Skibidi toilet now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:30 PM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Imagine him carrying a lunch pail too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:24 PM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating How would someone just never find out where their partner works?? Have no social media presence whatsoever is the biggest one. Also have your friends spread the web of lies as well, but ideally I'm not introducing her to too many of my friends to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:20 PM
–	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Deception vs deception, why is one more tolerated than the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:14 PM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I just don't care anymore man, I'm honestly just here for the entertainment at this point. Let it all burn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:39 AM
7	Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More Options Because he's either exaggerating, or outright lying (most likely option). And anyone with a harem of women wouldn't listen to a crazy girl if they had "numerous" options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:35 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are You haven't countered a single point he made. Impressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:25 AM
1	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you Idk, I'm just reporting what I'm seeing. I followed blue pilled advice and got crickets. Went (slightly) red pilled and all of sudden I'm getting matches. I just don't understand why that is unless it's some form of lowkey gaslighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:59 AM
2	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you Posts like this is why I ignore romantic advice from women. Got zero attention taking terrible advice like this. Then I actually started to track what does and doesn't work and wow, look at that, I started getting more attention and matches. Funny how that works, it's almost like you guys want to intentionally sabotage certain men (i.e. any man who isn't Chad) from dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 03:07 AM
-1	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? "So you can get pussy, and be invited back." Women should offer more than that. I seriously hope you see yourself as more than just a wet hole to be used. What else will they bring to the table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 05:00 PM
0	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? Unironically telling on yourself here if you think those are insanely high standards. I mean I didn't even bring up height, income, abs, social skills, etc. Now even those things aren't enough, now I have to give myself up entirely to her whims in the bedroom too or else I'm "lazy" and "undesirable". The standards just keep going up, up, and up with women in the West. I never hear about any of these horror stories or needy demands with women overseas. Not desiring someone who is bad in bed is no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:37 PM
1	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? maaaaaybe because, unlike us, women can have multiple orgasms LOL, speak for yourself, you geriatric dinosaur. Not all of us shoot blanks after one orgasm, I can go on longer than most women. Come on, man. No, it sounds like you need to do better. And refresh your memory on human anatomy too. You're literally saying "men need to try harder and follow these 100 elaborate steps in order to please their woman!" like some kind of browbeaten slave, and you're saying I have to do better? Nah	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:56 PM
0	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? So you agree it makes someone a lousy sexual partner. No, all I said was "no", not that I think they'd be "lousy." You women have insanely high standards in order to get off, not me. I don't need any partners of mine to check off a million guidelines in order for me to be attracted to them. Just don't be obese (I'm even okay with overweight in some cases) and have a 5/10 face. That's it. Someone who routinely finishes off before me would be a mediocre partner, and but it wouldn't be a dealbreake…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:49 PM
2	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? Thank you for clarifying that you have no standards for yourself or your sexual partners and think that the women you're with should also have the same. In your own dissertation on how to have "proper" sex, you outright said that the woman should be the one to orgasm first (for some bizarre reason). Why, if it's "bad standards" for me to have to finish myself off? Do better. For yourself, first and foremost. I do. And many women don't like that when I point out some of the reasons why I'm not at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:41 PM
0	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? Tell me, if a woman rode your cock, got herself off, squirted all over your shit, said "thanks", rolled over and went to bed, left you blueballed and told you to "finish yourself off cuz I had a hard day at work/school" - would you say she's "good in bed?" No, but I'm also not an entitled toddler and I'd go ahead and finish myself off. Remind me again why this should make me outrage? What if she just lacks stamina (which wouldn't shock me considering most women here are overweight)? And if I hat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 06:19 PM
–	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Also the median male salary is 66k ...Which is below 70K. The fuck? You boomers never cease to make me laugh, just continue to stay out of touch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 06:12 PM
-4	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? Everything you just listed sounds fucking exhausting and I don't blame a lot of men for checking out completely. Who wants to deal with all of that after a potentially mentally demanding day at work/school/whatever? A whole goddamned checklist just for sex, Christ. Shit like this: Bad/painful technique. Too rough, too timid, but above all unwilling to adapt. "It has to juuuuust right, you know?" Men don't like to play mental 4D chess, just say what you mean and what you want like an adult and mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 06:07 PM
–	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Also, median household income is well above this. That's 2+ people, not sure why you brought this up tbh. Again, most men (and people in general) aren't making 70k+ a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 05:58 PM
–	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Most reasonably attractive women can aim far higher than 70k So women really are hypergamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 05:57 PM
1	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. a lot of men also overstate their financial value. 70k a year, there’s not much gold to dig for. That's above median income in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:25 PM
1	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray It just takes a few tries especially when you need practice socializing Most women need practice socializing, since many of them can barely hold a conversation. It's unreasonable to expect the man to "practice" socializing (i.e, act like a jester) while you put in very little effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 07:47 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? There's nothing in human evolution or biology to enable spaceflight, yet we've been doing that for decades. What? How does this counter or refute anything that I said? This is non-sequitur, humans achieving spaceflight tells us nothing about our base instincts. At least that fact alone tells us nothing. Humans are an extreme exception to evolution in ways so numerous and common that you don't even realize it. I know more than you about human evolution, and I can tell you right now, that humans a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 07:41 PM
2	Women who get the ick = porn brained men No, not really, but you do you I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:42 PM
5	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Why would you want to date someone like that in the first place?? A lot of men don't have any other options and take what they can get. It's not like we can drop a relationship and have a new one next week. You might not get anything for years, so you cherish what you have. But you don't care about the actual person or having an truly solid relationship at all, do you? This woman rejected a man because he has an Android phone. And it happens surprisingly often, enough that it's become a meme onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:21 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? I'm not reading all of that unless you tell me what generation you come from and what does being in that generation do for the modern person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:11 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? So then "women are pickier" is meaningless unless you can show women are, by and large, "picky" on the same group of men. We can do that with understanding basic evolutionary science and biology. I don't need to show how only the strongest male lions lead prides, or only the most powerful silverbacks breed with their harems. That's just how mammals work and humans are no special exception. There's a reason average IQ is going down while average height is steadily increasing. this statistic has b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:06 PM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Isn't this a sub full of guys who get the ick from things like women being over 30 It's true that men prefer younger women, but that's just for pure reproductive purposes. Also the younger she is, the less likely she is to have kids (which is the real ick), not necessarily her "being over 30". not being virgins No, it's having insanely high body counts, which increases the risk drama from previous partners, higher chances of STD's, and a higher chance of her having kids. Perfectly reasonable ick…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:41 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? d just like that, you discovered that finding a single data point is not a basis for widespread trends. Well, no, because I responded with: Because there are easy counters to that you know. Like, actual, statistical data on how picky men vs women are in online dating But, you tried, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ share the statistical data that shows women only swipe on 6-6-6 men. This is a a straw man, because I said women are pickier than men, not that they "only" swipe on alpha gigachads, but I'll humor …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:33 PM
2	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? Correct, which is why I said "online" and never once mentioned dating apps. Though, the functions are similar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:23 PM
2	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Because it's just neurotic as fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:20 PM
6	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Bc any reason is a "good reason" when you don't want to date someone anymore. "I got the ick because he responded to me with a green text bubble. This a perfectly valid and justifiable reason to break up with someone because any reason is a good reason when I don't want to date them anymore." Modern dating, everyone. There's no such thing as introspection and accountability anymore, just brain goes beep and numbers go up. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:53 PM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men I already know its gonna be some stupid shit like they hate guys who sleep in their underwear. Like, just in our underwear with nothing else on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:37 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? I'm not really sure what the point of this post is either, but here's my irrelevant article link too. Is your "argument" here that because you found one newstory of a man raping a girl then that means all men must be rapists - which is an obvious exaggeration, I get it - therefore you "countered" the example in OP's post because he too also posted a single video of a girl being extremely picky? Because there are easy counters to that you know. Like, actual, statistical data on how picky men vs w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:22 PM
3	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? Understandable, but you must also understand that a huge portion of couples meet online nowadays, so it's not really a "pathetic person" issue anymore, it's just a normal thing to do nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:14 PM
12	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? The average woman is overweight and 37 years old Don't forget has at least one kid too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:12 PM
2	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? Imagine if there were thousands of women at your disposal. All of them want to sleep with you. Some are a lot better looking than others, and hidden in the back is the most gorgeous person you've ever laid eyes on. Who are you going for first? My standards are "don't be fat" and have at least a mediocre face, I'm not looking for supermodels. And I don't care about income either (if we're talking about hookups). The problem is that women aren't just selecting for looks, but they also require an e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:11 PM
2	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? But he literally supplied a video of a woman doing exactly that, I don't understand your post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:05 PM
1	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? In humans, that makes no goddamned sense Average IQ has been going down at least for the last few decades, while height is steadily increasing. Height decreased after the invention of agriculture (women weren't selecting for physicality as much as they were for hunter gatherer societies), true, but selection for intelligence no longer seems to be the case for humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:03 PM
-3	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? Normal men who catch feelings for their friends do very normal, measured steps like just start flirting with them more, saying they feel a connection that is starting to feel like more than friendship and they're curious about seeing where it might lead, and asking her out on a date right away to provide a clear next step. They also downplay their attraction as curiosity more than attraction, as something to be explored together, not some deeply imbalanced unrequited emotions way out of proporti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:26 PM
4	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? I'm from the era anyway that online dating was for people who were too pathetic to find someone in real life. So you're an out of touch Gen X'er/Millennial?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:25 PM
1	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings Fair enough. Same here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 04:13 AM
3	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings Alright, so I hope you realize it's not healthy in life to assume everyone bigger than you is going to tear your head off. That's an insanely superficial outlook on life, but somehow I'm not surprised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 02:12 AM
13	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings That well-adjusted Brad with a stable income was rejected over drug dealer Chad and Tyrone is just a lie Brad tells everyone to mask the fact that he is a more, psychopathic violent asshole than Chad or Tyrone Riiiiiight. Not even other blue pilled women spew this crap out anymore, at least they'll be honest when they tell you "yeah, I chose the other guy because he was taller than Brad." considerably less social skills "Brad showed the slightest hint of shyness/meekness/vulnerability, and that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 11:18 PM
6	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings Okay but you didn't answer my question. And some women are stronger than me, and? Is it about size and strength, or is it about gender? If it's about strength, why do powerful people intimidate you? That's not on them, but your own insecurities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 11:08 PM
21	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings I'd rather be single for a whole host of reasons (hence why I am not actively pursing a relationship) but I agree with your post here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 09:50 PM
14	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings Men are literally selected based on them having less irritating qualities than other males available. "Irritating qualities" such as other men being short, bald, "nerdy", doesn't wear the latest fad of clothing, doesn't have a six pack, etc. Yes, I'm sure women choosing drug dealer Chad and Tyrone over well-adjusted Brad with a stable income is because Brad is "more annoying" than Chad and Tyrone. Gotcha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 09:45 PM
8	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings Aka, get a passport.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 09:34 PM
8	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings But if a man, who is much bigger than me And if that man is the same size as you, or smaller, how do you feel? Is it just the size of a person that puts you off? If a large woman is showing "instability" (whatever that means to you), are you also scared?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 09:33 PM
44	CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelings I think it's important to show emotions and vulnerability to weed out the women I'd want nothing to do with anyway. The problem is that it's a huge chunk of them. You're holding out hope for that one diamond in the rough, and God knows how long that'll take if you're not an above average looking person. Women are okay(ish) with vulnerability if they can look past it (i.e. you look good enough for them to tolerate it), but the moment she finds a man who's just as attractive as you (or moreso) and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 09:29 PM
10	The quality of women’s dating app profiles in Europe is far superior to the profiles of women in USA. Lol, and? Do you honestly believe that distance is the ultimate determination in how close a culture is to another? I can travel to Lagos, Nigeria faster than I can get to Sydney, Australia, but that doesn't change the fact that I have more in common culturally with an Australian than a Nigerian. Unless you're taking that person's post literally and you're assuming that they literally meant that the UK is geographically closer to the US than Europe...in which case...wow....🫢, you have to do bett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 12:49 AM
1	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. Fair enough. Agreed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 06:19 PM
2	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. Everything you mentioned is valid, but what I said holds true, even for most blue pilled women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 01:02 AM
1	The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bags What state do you live in that has zero tenant protections? An extremely red one, one that doesn't care about people but instead kowtows to religious nutjobs and corporations. And I'll leave it at that. My ability to kick someone out full stop remains in place. I didn't make the rules, I've already moved out before, I only come back because my family keeps me here like a chain around my ankle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 05:55 AM
1	The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bags It's western Europe. Here your life is not in danger and people don't get shot. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense, looking back at your posts. We have the ability to defend ourselves here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 05:52 AM
1	The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bags If you own the home, and your partner is living with you, then they’re legally a tenant. Nah, doesn't work that way in my state. It happens here all the time (and has happened to family of mine). Landlords here hold all of the power, and will fuck you over if necessary. It usually doesn't come to that, but yes, they can just toss your shit outside and leave you to rot. In my state. Again, sorry to burst your bubble, but not everything conforms to your limited worldview. And yeah, it is cruel. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 03:17 AM
2	The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bags Idk where you live, but I cant just shoot someone without getting charged with murder, regardless of the situation. I don't know what godforsaken hellhole you live in, but where I live you have the right to defend yourself with deadly force, full stop, if your own life was deemed to be in danger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:55 AM
1	The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bags And you’re going to leave her homeless Gonna stop you right here. Whether or not she's homeless isn't really my concern or problem. INB4 "But that's cruel"/"you're heartless"/"fuck you asshole"/blah blah blah. If it's my property, I have the right to evict whoever, whenever I want to, so long as that person isn't a dependent. That's how the real world works, sorry. And I guarantee you, if it was a woman forcing a man to move out of her property, no one would bat an eye, even if he too became hom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:52 AM
1	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. Here we go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:43 AM
6	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. I have seen women drop a guy because he doesn't have an Iphone (it's a status symbol in a lot of African countries.) Wow, so this Western-based cancer has also infected Africa? That's unfortunate, I thought women dumping people over not having an iPhone was exclusively an American thing, since everyone else uses WhatsApp like civilized people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:41 AM
2	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. far more important. Such as her own insecurities, like "he's not tall enough". A massive, game-changing issue for most women, a minor annoyance for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 01:43 AM
0	Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soon OLD statistics + pew research data + divorce rate stats,	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 10:22 AM
2	Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soon Stop. Caring. About. What. Women. Think. Seriously, your mind would be at peace a whole lot more often if you just sat down and said "nah, sorry, don't care anymore."	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 10:17 AM
1	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. How the hell is it "rewarding" to follow a 1,000 step process just to approach a single person who's most likely going to tell you to "fuck off" in either a nice or aggressive way? I have to repeat this process ad infinitum (this can take weeks, months, years, mostly depending on factors outside of my control) until I meet that one diamond in the rough? Seriously? You do realize we only have a finite time on this world, right? I would rather be doing things that bring me joy and happiness, rathe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:26 PM
1	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. So you're saying I'm the average woman in the West?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 10:07 PM
1	The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool? Why would you ever have occasion to state this very specific preference if not to go out of your way to demean/sneer at women who have done this before? Because I don't know about you, but a lot of us live in a free fucking country and can say whatever we want whenever we want? With no need to justify it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:23 PM
1	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. I do not care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:01 PM
1	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. No, I mean women prefer to open the conversation with men they like. Translation: "We prefer the top 20% of men." They do not want to be approached by random dudes. Translation: "We do not want to be approached by "average" or short men." In conclusion: personality, charm, wit, etc, are irrelevant if you don't meet the minimum looks threshold first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 02:59 PM
3	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. It’s always your fault. No, it isn't. There are dudes here that fail at dating consistently but then somehow, miraculously, they start slaying overseas. Fail at getting women who're more likely to be overweight/neurotic, yet they succeed with women who're in shape and not as neurotic? It really is the women that one deals with. There are so many variables that can improve. Your charisma and charm. Your looks and image. Your fitness. Your opening line. The way you say your opening line. How you t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 02:56 PM
1	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. For hundreds of thousands of years (millions if you count our more archaic cousins) our ancestors have understood and comprehended how sex works. But, you mean to tell me, in the year of our lord 2023, that there are modern humans who don't understand how sex works...just because they have less money than other humans? And this is somehow....okay? Jesus Christ, we really do live in a coddled/"everyone is a special snowflake" time period. And I say that as a leftist. Can't even hold people to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 09:57 PM
1	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height Lol, they don't give a shit that it's unrealistic, they don't even think about it. Okay, so why do they get mad when dudes point out their bullshit then? Are we just not allowed to criticize women then? Are they all perfect princesses immune to criticism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 09:46 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist Aight then. Just going to say that you can absolutely affect the size of your ass with proper training and dedication. But height is pure genetics. Ass size is based on genetics too but height cannot be changed. These traits aren't equal, and dudes aren't being unreasonable for wanting a partner with an in-shape ass. But, again, aight then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 09:43 PM
1	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height Lol stop, just stop. I can find the numbers with a 5 second google search, thank you very much. I was just flabbergasted at your blatant exaggeration of "but there's tons of men who're statically in the upper 10 percentile of men walking around dude!" That's like saying there's tons of people with an IQ above 140 walking around. I mean....sure, if you go by pure volume the numbers are in the millions, but that's still an intellectually dishonest and bad faith statement. But whatever, you do you!…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:55 AM
1	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height What does "tons" mean to you, or is this just some elaborate gaslighting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:39 AM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist don't be shorter than her Why not? A lot more (a gigantically huge chunk more actually) men seem to be mature about a woman being taller than them so why can't grown ass women be mature about height too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:34 AM
1	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height This is seriously unhinged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:15 AM
1	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height What? The vast majority of men are below 6ft, what tf are you smoking right now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:13 AM
–	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? I’m married to a guy that’s 5’8 I hate to be that semantic asshole but I'm gonna be that asshole; 5'8 isn't particularly "short". That's only one inch below the average height in the US. People think that's "short" due to unrealistic expectations and propaganda (mostly from women). So, in truth, you went for guy who was only slightly below average. You shouldn't even have had to point out "he's 5'8, but there's still a big height difference!" I mean, yeah, the dude isn't exactly all that short.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:01 AM
–	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? (Meanwhile Chad's singular picture of him standing on his new F-150 nets him hundreds of matches alone)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:53 AM
–	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? There are literal women, in this very thread right now, who have explained why they find insecurity in men to be unnattractive. Maybe you're taking issue with the wording /u/SmallChanceOfSegs used, but to call it "misogynistic" when there are actual women here saying the same thing is laughable. Unless you're about to say they're just being internally misogynistic or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:51 AM
4	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" It's rising faster in women. Like, staggeringly fast. And yet, this wouldn't be a problem if expectations weren't also rising exponentially. It's just absurd, period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:46 AM
1	How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies? he may just be boring. This is an assumption that you made. You never made the inference that the women he's surrounded by are all shallow/superficial and that the issue doesn't lie with him, but women in general. Relevancy here? Oh it's incredibly relevant, no matter how much you pretend that it's not. Imagine having to not be "boring" to a population of women whom are mostly overweight while also demanding unreasonable expectations out of you such as minimum height and income parameters. That …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:44 AM
4	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Wait, are you trying to say data doesn't matter just because you don't live in a particular place? Because that would be silly. And I already gave you a study from America, but you used the "paywall" excuse (which you can easily get past, btw, and no, I'm not helping you on that part, it's a 5 second Google search) to not read it. So what exactly do you want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:40 AM
1	How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies? "The Jester"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:37 AM
2	How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies? Ironically this response is boring af but you're trying to make assumptions about this dude. Hoeflation is real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:34 AM
2	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Don't worry, I have another link. (This is a study about India, but women are more likely to be obese here too and the differences aren't immense)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:29 AM
3	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Statically men in the US are fatter then women Not anymore. Can't wait for you to respond to this one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:26 AM
2	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" And if the foreign Brazilian chick who isn't overweight and neurotic starts to catch the attention of Chads, what then? Will women here feel pressure then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:23 AM
1	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" I think dating and sex have never been easier. For Chad. Women are starved for romance and excitement. From Chad. Eve if it were true that they are only fucking the same 5 guys on Tinder how is that exactly a victory on their part? It definitely is true, and there are women on this sub who prove it true when they tell stories about how the resident Chads are known on their local social medias/OLD profiles, yet the they still actively pursue these men (who will pump and dump/manipulate them) ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:20 AM
6	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" What has changed? Rising rates of obesity while also wanting a man who meets a minimum height requirement. Crying about the "patriarchy" while also hard reinforcing traditionally masculine traits in men (square jawline, visible abs, confident personality, low inhibition, etc). So much for "unrealistic expectations". It's okay to impose these standards if you're a woman, but God forbid a man want a woman to act and look traditionally feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:11 AM
1	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" She keeps up her looks on top of all this. No she doesn't, not in the West she certainly doesn't lmao. If anything, this is the exact opposite; men are far more willing to "settle" with a more out of shape partner than women are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:03 AM
4	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Well they all aren't overweight for one. Like, the women here want men who're 6ft+ and at a healthy bmi but don't put in the same amount of effort. It's hilarious and insulting at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:54 PM
1	Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projecting socially aware. "Pass the looks test."	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:52 PM
1	Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projecting I reject that notion on the basis that you have no actual facts, data, or sources to back up that claim, so your question is moot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:50 PM
1	Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating? Lol not it isn't The rising rates of anxiety and depression suggest otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:49 PM
0	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? saying it’s due to increased standards by women is a stretch Nah, even Chads will tell you that modern dating is fucked, they just happened to win the game before they were born. Chalking it all up to social media and "less socializing" (whatever the fuck that means in your mind) is absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 01:57 AM
-1	Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projecting Yes, but when it comes to the shallow culture we live in today, more often than not I don't take a woman calling a guy "creepy" seriously at face value, not without additional context. Same applies to a guy calling a girl creepy, though that one is much rarer, so I'm more inclined to take it seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 01:54 AM
0	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? You're thinking of shallow western women. Women overseas will almost certainly value money over height, even if height plays an important role in attraction for them too. But keep defending these women king, that'll definitely solve the growing rates of loneliness/anxiety/depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:09 PM
2	Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating? Being in shape and around people is pretty much a master key to all this. It isn't, because I there are dudes at a perfectly healthy body weight/bmi who only attract morbidly obese whales, hence the passportmaxxing we're starting to see. Being intelligent/having money should be more important to women but it just isn't, at least here in the West. hard to believe you don't see that Don't respond to me anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:06 PM
2	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly A gross and laughably pathetic misunderstanding of what autism is, but go off queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:48 PM
2	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly silence	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:46 PM
1	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Called being a decent human being, maybe that's too much for you to understand though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:45 PM
2	Autism makes no difference in the current sex and dating landscape Good advice in theory. Godawful advice in practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:40 PM
5	Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projecting creepy vibes Meaningless, vague phrase. Can mean anything to anyone, depending on the day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:35 PM
3	Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating? encourage him to join sports No. It's hilarious that you think someone should join a sport just because it can increase their chances of attracting women. No, the hobbies you participate in shouldn't be predicated on whether or not a woman is more likely to be attracted to it. Play sports or video games or both, but don't let a woman's opinion influence your own happiness. encourage him to solve any physical issues that may prevent him from dating (ugly nose, ears, crooked teeth, recessed jaw) "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:27 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world Your advice is really bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:19 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world why are you even speaking so authoritatively on the East Coast? Pew research + publicly available census information? I was more so saying that, for IR dating standards, it's one of the more common pairings that I've seen up North. And the same holds true for Texas. And I was telling you I have numbers that suggest otherwise for your region. Also, I literally told you that I've seen and MET people who were products of that couple. Your. Personal. Experiences. Are. Irrelevant. I've said this a mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:56 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world "Just be like Prince bro!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:53 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world What do you mean? I've seen plenty of couples like that. Hell, Frankie Nunez from Malcolm In the Middle is a product of that pairing and he's one of many celebrity examples. My brother in Christ, cherry-picked celebrity examples are not indicative of a general trend. I can't believe actually I had to type that out, but I guess this is the world we live in today. Do they just not teach data analysis in schools anymore or something? Is "I've seen plenty of things like that bro, here's this one fam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 10:14 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world Someone like Prince attracted plenty of taller women, I'm sure. "Just have one of the greatest vocal ranges in the history of mankind bro, lol, if he can do it why can't you shorty?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 09:59 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world I dunno. Back in the East Coast, I saw a lot of Puerto Rican guys with Italian and Irish women. No you didn't. And I know you didn't because I have the numbers and data that say you didn't. So, I guess you'll have to redefine what you consider to be "a lot", because the actual stats suggest otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 09:50 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world But I am indeed more cautious around shorter men - almost every tall-ish girl has had a bad experience with a shorter guy who was so insecure about his height that it became a number one thing in the relationship, and eventually completely ruined everything. This is weaponized gaslighting, a common feature on this sub. No, it's not the man being "insecure", it's the woman being insecure with the shorter man knowing that, thus he's forced to overcompensate lest she get bored/or disgusted with him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 09:36 PM
4	Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normal The solution is to stop obsessing over women and stop approaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 06:47 PM
1	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. But women’s are usually geared more toward romance than sex. That's a major part of the media that women consume. That's an objective fact and cannot be disputed, I can post the data for that as well if necessary. The fact of the matter is that women care far more relationships + sex than men do (despite what the neurotic individuals on this sub would have you believe). It's just pleasure for a lot of guys, while for women being in a relationship can be the end all, be all for them. That's why w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 12:40 AM
2	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. Do...do you know what a "genre" is? I'm not asking that ironically, btw, I genuinely want to know. 0_o EDIT: Google search for you	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 11:13 PM
2	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. ok boomer	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 10:52 PM
2	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. There are art and music and books and poetry and movies and television shows about the pursuit of it (Mostly geared towards women)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 10:47 PM
5	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. 98-99% of adults alive today have too. Are we counting the entire world here? Because if we break it down by country, this statement becomes more and more suspect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 10:45 PM
8	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying. I guess I'm lying when I say that I don't care then? Hooray for gaslighting, I guess? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 10:41 PM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. From your city's own statistical website?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 11:22 AM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. Yeah, poverty and homelessness definitely isn't a problem in your book!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 10:30 PM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. Oh yeah buddy, gatekeep me from having an opinion on objective problems that SF has just because I've never lived there. You know, because that's how discourse works in the real world. I guess everything's sunshine and rainbows, because I've never stepped foot there, therefore anything bad I say about it is invalid.😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 11:13 PM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. I'm not the person who you were having a conversation with, just speaking the truth. Also, you live in San Francisco. You are the last person who should be telling anyone "good luck". 🫢	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 08:45 PM
–	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. You just proved their point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:52 PM
–	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. Nobody takes what you say seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:47 PM