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I'm gonna focus on me, and if the girls come, they come. You know everything you need to know.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:07 PM
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Love to hear that. Yeah I can't really say there's anything we strongly disagree about. Even your last paragraph makes a lot of sense to me, if you are intending to contrast redpill conscious love and bluepill inconditionate, pedestal love.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:06 PM
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"No, it wasn't any of those things, it was that you were confident". This is an example of how woman rationalize their decisions post-hoc, often down to one salient quality, giving them an excuse or a narrative for why they did "the right thing" and cannot be held accountable for their actions. Yes. This is the truth of the hamster.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:40 PM
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Hey after writing my post I realised it sounds pretty harsh. Please don't take it as a critic to you but rather as a critic to your game, which is, in fact, riddled with what looks like some deep-rooted mistakes. I hope me being harsh might help you get your focus on a few important concepts and maybe start working on that. There are about 10 girls I'm talking through text right now. Text is for logistics only. You can't create affection through texting. (Also how much spare time do you have?) a…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:35 PM
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Wow, that's really bad. If females are a reproduction system to you, I'm assuming you don't enjoy their company, affection or sex – so you must either be a dad or a virgin? And yeah I wanted to keep doing an analysis of what I thought was wrong with your post but its rambling incoherence makes it very hard to interpret. Move along!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:28 PM
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Great post. I don't agree in full with your conclusion but I love the argumentation and I hope you will enjoy some debate. You introduced your work by recalling the distinction the Greeks made between various types of enamorment, if you will, so allow me to try to get more out of it. You say that "love" is a commitment, discipline based. I'm assuming we're still talking about romantic love, as in within a couple, so we have already excluded love within friends (as you noted, "philia"). I'd also …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:25 PM
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Do yourself a favor and drop the try hard bullshit. Maybe you'll even make some friends. He doesn't need to, EVERYONE likes him
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:31 PM
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I'm sorry to break this down to you, I'm sure you do have amazing sexual appeal which isn't properly conveyed by pictures, but if you have had sex with one woman in your life, you probably have simply no clue of how to navigate social environments and are under a terribly articulated delusion that everyone is starving for your dick. People are just being nice to you because you are probably excluded from most social circles. I mean, I hope I'm wrong and that could totally be the case, but I feel…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:21 PM
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Mother geese is a concept that taking a strong hold, and for a good reason. You should be giving more attention to these kind of girls than to the target, accomplishing two things at once: You get in the good graces of the protector. She isn't used to having attention turned on her, and this flatters her. She likes you being around. She will try to get hot girl to sleep with you. Hot girl is taken aback. People aren't focusing their attention on her? What's this? She'd better get your attention.…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:15 PM
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Great in-depth post. We need more of these to foster a healthy lifting culture.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:08 PM
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I think you're probably right
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:53 AM
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I'm not sure what you're saying. You like rock? Classical rock? Folk? Get in a band. Unless you're ONLY willing to be around people who play specifically late XVII century baroque violin trios, I'm sure you can figure out a way to do it socially.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:22 PM
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I'm not arguing for becoming a rave party aficionado. Did you know there are DJs who do sophisticated music in chill venues?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:11 AM
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Secretly thankful that somebody noticed the word play. I was pretty proud of that.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:05 AM
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Not true. Read the sidebar. Men's rights, Fitness, Science, Finance are there. Pick up skill isn't there. This is a very self-improvement centred board, which is also incidentally the best way to get laid. This mind set that you need to be some amazing person, have a six pack, to get women is blue pill. True. However this is not what I'm saying. I'm saying that you need to be an amazing person and have a six pack because that benefits you. Also, girls will love you for that, but honestly that's …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:05 AM
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Self reliance is very important. Arguably the most important trait in a dominant man. However, isolation does not allow you to exert any dominance whatsoever on anybody - that is the opposite of alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:40 AM
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The third link is the sidebar is a glossary. The first entry in the glossary is: "Alpha – Socially dominant" Google search - "dominance": Dominance, noun, power and influence over others Talking about being Alpha "by yourself", makes no sense whatsoever, according to the definitions endorsed by this sub. Society will naturally band together after men that show traits indicating dominance – that makes exercising social leadership a trait typical of men who display dominating traits, and social le…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:36 AM
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Thank you for your comment - more life-experienced users always have good insight in my experience and it means a lot that you share this view. Your analysis of the boxes people put people into is really accurate and should be kept in mind in any kind of relationship. I am NOT going back to the old farm Solid choice. Once you are moving, never look back.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:25 PM
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She brings value to his life, that's great. But it's clear, that he's trending towards a point where he asks himself "is this the girl I've been waiting for? Is she the one who is different from the rest?" I'll keep an eye out for that happening. Warning are always welcome though and rarely hurt, so thank you for that
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:54 AM
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If you believe that one is not allowed to have a good time with a girl non-sexually, I'm afraid you're missing out - women have many traits that complement men's and can make many activities enjoyable. Your use of the concept of ONEitis is also misplaced since that refers to focusing on one girl - who'd have guessed, given its name?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:47 AM
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I feel like most of what you have experienced can be traced back to the fact that women are the big day-to-day spenders (compared to men who are the big long-term/durable-goods spenders), so obviously street-window shops, "awareness" stuff, music in the shopping centres etc. are designed (by men probably) to cater to women. That's just good marketing, not necessarily feminisation.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:46 PM
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Let me actually have a go at a serious reply. This isn't, and isn't intended as, a post that "says much", as is stated in the introduction to it, but rather as a bit sized piece of advice that could slightly (slightly!) improve quality of life. Other similarly formatted posts I made were well received, and I tend to appreciate this kind of posts. They help deliver simple but useful concepts that don't need much explanation but may help somebody go "Hey, I hadn't thought of this that way!". That'…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:41 PM
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That's actually an impressively uplifting way to look a it
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:12 PM
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Hey man, I wish you happiness and success in your pussy slaying endeavors like I wish it to any other user here. Don't like my advice, don't take it, sorry it has made you so salty
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:17 AM
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Look at yourself objectively, not through the lens of self-hate, or through self-love. That skill is infinitely useful. Yes. You have gone through the process of rediscovering a fundamental truth, which is: you must be the first person loving yourself. Props to you - learning this reality through harsh life conditions will make it a more sticking part of you rather than just a concept read on an internet board.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 11:58 PM
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When you have one tenth of the karma I have from posting advice on this subreddit let me know
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 11:13 PM
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I don't even play video games, I'm pointing out how absurd it is to renounce to them just because you think it's gonna get you more pussy
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 11:13 PM
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I'm sorry but this sounds ridiculous. God forbid pornography? Or video games? If in order to try get laid you renounce to things you would otherwise enjoy, your life must suck. The moment you sacrifice your contentment for the off chance of pussy, you're the beta you were trying so hard not to be.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:41 AM
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Yes! That's what I'm talking about. Most people, most of the time, don't want to be responsible for the decisions of the group, because that's a tough responsibility to shoulder! If you lift that weight off of them, you'll be doing them a favour, and doing this you are being the leader of your group.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:31 AM
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I don't know the specific book, but if you have any more precise question I'd be happy to share my view on it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:40 PM
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Thanks, I'll try to keep it up. Regarding meditation: I have been meditating for several months before I kinda lost the habit because of a big change in my daily life, and you're right, it really does give you the ability to focus more easily and with more intensity. I also think you have to complement the meditation with repeated callbacks to mindfulness during the day, lest your ability to focus remain compartmentalized to that specific activity in your life.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 05:54 PM
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I really like this quote, i captures the spirit of what I tried to say in the post, and sums it up beautifully.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 05:51 PM
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Well I am actually working here so I have squished the few texts I sent her in between my other things to do, so every few hours. I think I'm fine on that side of things. But overall I agree with your point
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:33 PM
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That's a pretty smart idea. I'm not sure if that would translate to: "even abroad, I'm still your orbiter". I'm curious as to what other members would think.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:32 PM
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The delayed answer is a must do, I'm already using it and it really helps. Also I'd say is a goo DHV.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:31 PM
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There's a lot of very interesting things here, but I do believe some of it is really against good sense. Let's take: Rule 3: Love Helps, but Fear Motivates Great leaders inspire fear in their enemies, sometimes in their subjects (even if awe would be more appropriate than fear); but their troops and supporters, they love (not the leader but) the cause. Rule 8: Never Keep Your Word If Circumstances Change Maybe this could be expanded into something sensible. But not keeping your word seems like a…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:43 PM
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The metaphor is great. Hit flatteringly close to home as I'm wearing my own Tag right now, but at the same time it made me feel a little bad because I think I value the watch a lot more than any woman I know.* *except mom obviously.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:45 PM
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Lawyer-in-training here, I feel your anger. However, you must hold on to it and let it fuel you during your workouts, consume it, rather than letting it consume you. You'd be wise not to even think about challenging one of your colleagues. The best way it would go for you, is you humiliate him, and gain a lifelong enemy. Let me say that again: don't bury your anger, use it to help your own goals. But there is nothing to gain by physically challenging another man in this context.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:33 PM
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There is never such a thing as a universal translation in straight talk for a gesture so vague as blowing a kiss. It could be romantic, mocking, sexual, playful; anything, quite literally! You don't think Spring has come just because you saw a swallow.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:52 PM
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Ahh, right, I thought something like that might have been coming my way when she started acting drunk-ish. The fact that we have many friendships in common, I think, will make her ASD a lot harder to push through, as "word would spread out that she is a slut". I don't just think what you say - I KNOW it. Brad Pitt would have closed. That's what bothers me - I have been imperfect. I'm holding back right now - is it wrong? I'm not gonna text her until I have picked a location to inform her of our …
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:16 PM
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Wow thanks for the thought out answer. Now that you mention it, in retrospect, talking about sex beforehand was probably a bad faux pas. There's one thing in your post that I would really like to get more informed about - plausible deniability. If you can be bothered to, would you mind explaining to me why that is important and how to handle it correctly?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:07 PM
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I'm sorry if maybe I didn't really make what troubles me evident. I'm ok with not having closed tonight, I will try to see her again because I had tons of fun, but I also have other stuff going on so it's still ok if I don't. I'm just taken aback because I was so confident that I was going to close! Maybe you guys can spot something amiss I did that fucked me up? tl;dr: don't care one bit about her. Just thinking about me and my game.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 01:29 AM
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