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| 10 | FDS and safetyThis is a good read. Thanks for putting this post! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:10 PM |
| 64 | Thank you thank you FDSI cannot tell you the number of times my ex scrote's friends would tell me his anger issues are nothing that I can't help with and if I love him I should help him. I did try for months, bearing everything when things just got worse until I didn't and oh my, I'm the most heartless person according to them. Atleast I'm peaceful though ^ Men just want women to bear their shitty behaviour and simultaneously babysit them despite whatever BS they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 32 | Protect your wombTotally agreed! And not just condom ( 'cause I was really paranoid and upset until I got my next period even tho he used it ), I asked him for Vasectomy else no intercourse. Simple. It is reversible and every men should have it. Our country govt. literally pays you if you get it done. We broke up before our 2nd time ( even tho he tried to coerce me for sex but I refused without Vasectomy ) But I made it a MUST for me if I ever date someone and have intercourse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:48 AM |
| 14 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”Reminds me of the time my ex complained how I don't compliment him on his looks. Few days later I asked him to name 3 external things he likes about himself, the scrote took eternity to answer 1. His 6" dick 2. His hair and ... ( another long pause ) 3. His broad chest, like seriously... 😂 that was all he can think of They don't even like themselves, but expect women to compliment them to boost their ego. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:51 AM |
| 5 | If you don't like it, then leave. Peace out.Couldn't agree more, Emotions are wild. My parents raised me teaching all about boundaries and mostly I learnt from watching them and my dad's decisions/support concerning me and hence, always cut off anyone after even one scrote-y comment. However, when it came to my ex, I CANNOT, DIDN'T leave him. Regret it a lot but it's a lesson for life. After this, Imade notes about my boundaries just incase my emotions blurr the logical thinking sometime again, I'll have something to look upto and identif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:48 PM |
| 7 | If you don't like it, then leave. Peace out.THIS. My ex was severely offended when I mentioned how my parents needs, my friends are supportive and we can hang out and have fun just fine and that I'm confident about myself in every aspect and don't need validation from a man. So he must be atleast adding happiness in my life if we're spending time together but he's what he's doing is quite opposite by being emotionally and verbally abusive courtesy to his " anger issues ". Somehow he had me convinced then and some more times ( he's really … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 3 | I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag.THIS. I absolutely LOVE this analogy!!! And totally agree with you. I used to feel guilty for not giving another chance and " forgiving ", and ended up forgiving eventually only to find out that I was proved wrong. NEVER AGAIN. Even today, a mutual pick-me friend of my ex reached out to ask me to forgive him and give him another chance 🤡 'cause what if he abuses me, he loves me too So with time things will change and I should bear it. WTF NO. I've always been taught to be kind and forgive even i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:36 PM |
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