| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 71 | How FDS is different from the Scrotes | RANT | fitecows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | No. I WON’T help you pay off your mortgage. | LEVEL UP | fitecows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:55 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).I am CRYING!!! I saved this because I refuse to get TikTok - this will definitely be a bad day booster! “Oh, I saw that on Pintrest!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 13 | Rebuilding after traumaJust wanted to comment on the therapy aspect and the importance of a female therapist. I’ve been going to therapy (group, individual, and now trauma based) for over 25 years. Both male therapists I had in this time did nothing, and one was out and out attempting to flirt with me and tried to reach out after he got fired from our group therapy. Only ONE female therapist I found no redeeming qualities in (she suggested a therapy treatment involving fighting my way out of what was essentially a sle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 05:08 AM |
| 73 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: FDS punches me in the face with truth!!! Damn, I love you ladies! Thanks for telling me what I need to hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Just because a relationship failed, doesn't mean you did!I think this is going to be my new phone background ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 13 | RealizationYAS QUEEN! Been there with the decade+ leaving situation - I PROMISE you won’t regret it!!! ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:13 AM |
| 5 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Late to the the party, but here we go: Even though I loathed my NVM ex husband, I was a rockstar with gifts! Even though we were poor as can be (MFer was racking up $40,000 of unsecured debt unbeknownst to me and lying about his take home so he could make the minimum payments - get the receipts, queens!), the gifts I got him we often way outside my budget and thoughtful as hell. Every year for his birthday I got him a mounted and framed insect, planned lavish parties, the works. Come Christmas a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 3 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)This is Inspiration right here, queen! 💪 get it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:20 AM |
| 8 | We need to go above and beyond for ourselvesGood morning to me! What a powerful message to internalize before I start the day 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 4 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?Please learn from my mistakes - I didn’t realize I was dealing with an LVM for 8 months... vetting is KEY!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:52 AM |
| 3 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.Yes, Queen!!! Congrats and the kitty is awesome too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 17 | Feminine "hygiene"Even my Negative-Value ex-husband didn’t expect me to be shaved/smelling unnatural. I do a partial Brazilian (lower lips and beyond) just to avoid wearing those super-long pads that run navel to butt crack and double as a flotation device because of my hellish cycle 😂 But for real, the fully bare look is creepy...(for me personally) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:05 AM |
| 17 | Why dating with intention is so importantFDS has been punching me in the face with TRUTH today 😂 thank you for this post! It’s these stories/examples/metaphors you Queens share that really help me internalize what I need to and help me identify my own toxic patterns. It’s posts like this that make me realize I still have so much work to do, but I’m worth it! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 11 | Examples of disrespect🤦♀️ these are SO obvious! Why was I pushing them aside? I still have so much FDS to internalize, but I’m getting better everyday ❤️ Thanks, Queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 53 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡Even in the throughs of my toxic-ass (former) marriage to an LVM, I didn’t understand this “pick me”mentality and why those women were/are so fucking concerned with my life. Go ahead and marry the first man child who asks! I don’t care! Literally I couldn’t care LESS. But they’re the same women who would shit on the idea of me going to college to get a degree and not specifically to find a husband. Let me level up in peace, PLEASE! It’s not for a man and it sure as hell ain’t for you, “sis.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 13 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedOMG, goals! This is just ANOTHER example of how FDS took a highlighter over my previous relationships and illuminated the fucked-up-ness of them all. This is what a relationship should be! Beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 22 | I am afraid of menThis really speaks to me. Ever since I discovered this sub I realized more and more what kind of people men are at all levels and it frightens me. I’m currently vetting a possible HVM, and I’m attracted to him and he’s got a whole lot of green flags, but more and more I’m just wondering if it’s worth it... (however, the working on myself and loving myself and learning my value from this sub is SO worth it!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change....is it possible to learn this power? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 14 | We have to dump them because they will never dump us. They will ruin our lives and self esteem before they let us go. Dump him sis, he wants you to.OMG I would have left my terrible marriage to a very LVM much sooner if I had heard and internalized this! PREACH! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:49 PM |
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