fitzjared Archive

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7	A Brief, Humorous Tale of "Mental Load". What it costs for our 5 sons to participate in AAA and house league hockey usually exceeds what she makes in a year. Asking her to handle the registration and medical forms was met with resistance and the "I'm not your secretary" defense. I'm the one footing the bill for this logistical operation, keeping the calendar, tracking who needs to be at which practice site and when, at which tournament and when, making the long-haul drives, providing emotional support during games, packing the snacks t…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/26 01:27 PM
7	😩 Wild how we all lived the same life. She decided that she wanted to return to her parents' way of life which was a very specific rejection of myself and our children. In January 2025, she asked for a divorce. We were separated under the same roof. I opened solo accounts to pay the household bills/kids' expenses and removed her as an authorized user from my credit cards. All of a sudden, "you would make the mother of your children destitute? I gave you six kids." Two months later, she turns up pr…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/26 09:28 PM