fiveninecindy Archive

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2	On the fence about wanting kids Finding the right man that you feel safe with and supported by will inspire you to have kids. The sense of safety my husband and gives me is priceless. All of the what ifs and fears go out the window. So I’d say keep dating and find the one (preferably who doesn’t already have kids).	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/22 06:36 PM
7	bf says he feels rushed The right guy will be begging you to have his babies and absolutely thrilled by the idea. Don’t settle.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/22 11:03 PM
3	First trimester and exhaustion It’s completely normal! Adjust your expectations of yourself during pregnancy and follow your body’s lead. Take those naps! I’m pregnant with baby #2 and when I put my 2 year old down for his nap I take one too!	/r/RedPillWives	08/04/22 12:06 AM
2	Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum? Didn’t wait until marriage and not super religious, but we’re the “have a bunch of kids, move to a cabin in the woods, be self sustainable, lots of guns, homeschool” types so I think that puts me at like 90% tradwife. I couldn’t be happier! I’m living the dream!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/22 01:15 AM
5	Tea Time Speaking of tea, my midwife wants me drinking 5 cups of red raspberry leaf tea a day, but it makes me super nauseous unless I’ve had a big meal beforehand and I can’t get the timing right. 37 weeks tomorrow and I need to start drinking it!	/r/RedPillWives	02/04/22 08:12 PM
7	Reducing Work Hours as a Wife We have two kids now, but when we were first married I didn’t work at all and didn’t care what anyone thought. I could do stuff around the house and pursue my own interests. There’s no reason for you to feel like you have to work full time and do housework to be considered valid.	/r/RedPillWives	21/03/22 07:19 PM
1	How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/husband? I didn’t feel truly back in my groove sexually until 1 year postpartum. You’ll get there!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/21 12:25 PM
–	Friend told me the "days of having long hair are over" Thank you! And yeah I agree about tying hair up. I have a huge claw clip that is my ride or die sidekick. I’d be lost and very Cousin It-esque without it.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/21 12:22 PM
4	How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/husband? Once a week typically. Once I’m done having babies and can really focus on my body and being sensual, I hope the frequency increases and we can make our sex life more of a priority. Sometimes I wish I had a more sexual husband, and other times I’m thankful to not have a husband who nags me for sex every day. I flip flop depending on my own libido lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 08:30 PM
3	Friend told me the "days of having long hair are over" Having a toddler and being pregnant with baby #2 has me tired of taking care of my long hair and I’ve been considering a big chop…but this just motivates me to keep it long lol. Long hair is beautiful and timeless!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:42 PM
10	What is it like to have children? I’m 8 months pregnant so while I can’t comment on the giving birth and parenting side of things yet, I will say that pregnancy has been great for me! Like you, all I’ve ever heard about is how horrible it is so all this time I’ve been waiting for it to get terrible, but I’ve honestly loved it so much! I wish I had spent more time enjoying pregnancy than waiting anxiously for it to get really hard. Plenty of people have really difficult pregnancies, but I wish there was more encouragement out the…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/20 11:55 PM