when women say that men are creepy and only want sex, they are not saying that those men are worth a fuck and not a date. they’re saying they’re worth neither and those backwards conclusions aren’t helping your case.
it’s definitely how i approached it the first time i heard it personally. i just stopped waiting around for something to happen and enjoyed myself until an opportunity arose to approach an attractive person.
Charleston is my favorite city because of how historical and real its been, despite its slavey history. Did something happen a few years ago? Like, this decade?
