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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	How To Become An Empowered Female - Lana Lokteff		flaeskesteg	/r/RedPillWives	25/07/19 02:08 PM

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2	Am I unreasonable and spoiled? I understand your feelings in this situation and absolutely think you are in your right to feel that way. The thing we want for you, is to suggest different ways to approach this situation to get you two on the same page on this subject as well. It it hard being hurt and still trying to keep being kind and loving. If your challenge is, that he can't see how you should be able to make ends meet, reassure him that you believe you two can do it. I think I would express my goals as a way reassuring …	/r/RedPillWives	24/03/20 08:13 AM
1	Am I unreasonable and spoiled? Opinions are not always the same for life. The most important thing in a relationship in is that you can respect each other's opinions and agree through respectful conversation. If only one is to be happy or feel valued, are you really the significant other? Remember, there are different ways to feel valued, like having the bills paid or feeling like the contributed money is spend wisely on cleaning supplies, fresh foods and other necessities for a hygienic and healthy life at home. When men are…	/r/RedPillWives	23/03/20 06:38 AM
2	Doing things on "husband time" I know this feeling way too well and have to remind myself, that if his mother couldn't change him, why should I be able to? Anyway, my approach is to spread it out, such that he has one and only one "duty" on his day off. He hates the feeling of having to work when he feels like he is supposed to be doing only fun stuff/"him" stuff. "Our" stuff is not always equal to him feeling like this activity is for him of HIS day off. No, he does not want to do taxes if he has been working on the computer…	/r/RedPillWives	06/03/20 03:22 PM
3	Ways to inspire leadership in your man? Something like this. Maybe he just wants the woman of his live to adore him in her own special way? I know it might feel kinda frustrating as if she wants him to be more masculine towards her, but think of it more like symbiosis instead of the womanly desire to have the man leading. Feminine and masculine qualities work together, I think. (sorry for bad grammar)	/r/RedPillWives	28/10/19 09:20 PM
6	How to be more feminine in style, fashion, mannerisms and in the way I speak? Remember back in elementary school how you were forced to read aloud for classmates? Find a good book and read aloud. Eventually you will have it sneaking in on everyday conversations.	/r/RedPillWives	27/08/19 11:42 AM
1	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? She just hasn't matured at all the years I've known her. She cut a perfectly fine entré cote we brought for new year's into Gulasch. Proceeding to lay it on a cold pan then turning on the heat. She promoted another woman on Facebook whom I KNOW smoked during pregnancy (her baby came 1 month early at 1,490kg). Btw No one knows who the father is. I am prolife, but I pointed out how wrong it was to interact with such a post, since it will come up in other peoples feeds and she will get recognized a…	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 12:21 PM
1	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? Maybe I am just in a sommer break depression where I wonder where all my friends left during the years. I will be moving to a bigger city to attend University, so hopefully, I will be able to widen the female part of the RP-community I am a part of. It's just awkward as I am the only female except for the other I mentioned I will not talk to. Other than that our little friend group is me+man, man's best friend+woman I don't talk to and then 4 young adult single men and a 35y single Man. The othe…	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 11:56 AM
1	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? It's really nice to talk about this here, otherwise I really want to share the tricks with my man, but yeah. And I only know one other kinda RPW, but she is not worthy of my time and attention. I simply not have enough in common with her anymore that I want to spend my time and patience with her. That means I am left almost alone with my RP views.	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 11:18 AM
2	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? A happy annoying man is better than a grumpy annoying man xD	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 09:04 AM
1	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? A trick I especially found useful is turning complaining from him into praise. We really don't do that enough - we were kinda raised to bite back instead of giving each other some space to handle things.	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 09:03 AM
1	Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern? I think the first copy is from 67, PDF versions from 06-07? It is written by a man, not that it is wrong, but always consider that the author might be biased. Am reading it myself rn, it's well written with good stories, but the "Secrets" are kinda strictly/old fashf written. On the other hand, the book contradicts the movement of "Women can live without men! ReEeEeE, All men are sexists!" The overall point of that a man does not need your love, but your admiration, I think is true and can help …	/r/RedPillWives	30/07/19 06:48 AM