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Very poorly argued 💀
/r/MensRights31/12/22 05:00 AM
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Thanks. I thought this sub would be for divorced men, dads maybe, supporting each other. But a lot of the threads have major incel flavor. I unsubscribed
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 08:58 PM
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Of course not. But the dude above referred to a desire for relationship as “simping.” I understand the place where that’s coming from. It’s violent, towards the self mostly, but towards others too.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 12:25 PM
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Read OP’s post. No one is talking about marriage. A hot lady came up to him and invited him to ask her out. He came here to post why bother, there is no possible benefit in that. Marriage is irrelevant to this post, which is about him giving up on even bothering to pursue sex or dating.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 07:09 PM
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Giving up on sex and connection at a young age is pretty dark.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 06:47 PM
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Haha ok. Life doesn’t start and end with women. But being in relationship is an important component of a balanced life. But I get that you are tapping into something darker and more hateful for your own life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 06:46 PM
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That’s sad dude. Your life isn’t over unless you let it be over.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 06:02 PM
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Costs and risks…Like a chance at meaningful conversation, fun nights on the town, and sloppy, toe-curling sex?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:56 PM
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I have none. But I can smell incel bullshit from a mile away. And your post reeks
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:13 AM
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You should Crawl back under your rock until you are ready to make a meaningful contribution.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 02:45 AM
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It’s not an attack on fatherhood. She references “broken homes” and I think there is a presumption that intact marriages are better for raising kids than ones in which the parents have split (I disagree with this in many cases). You have to really be hypersensitive and angry 🙄 to conclude that this video proves that Obama believes that men are bad parents.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/21 03:23 PM
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Not offended, just observing you telling on yourself over and over again. Best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/21 11:44 PM
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Yes, and a pretty terrible ex-wife with a boyfriend who hangs out with my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 02:27 PM
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Lol. Your insane rage at Hillary says everything about you. Being a father doesn’t mean you have good sense. Best of luck
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 02:26 PM
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It’s possible, I don’t really know about all that. But you got a bunch of incels on here railing against feminism and Hilary Clinton (FFS) which makes me a little skeptical of the whole thread.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 05:49 AM
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Why though? Like I hear you on this, no judgment. But why? I feel like I’m missing some facts or something.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 05:46 AM
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Bloop bloop Hilary Clinton bloop
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 05:42 AM
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I don’t know, man. That seems like a tough thing to enforce. Are you going to take her to court for that? If the kids are in danger, absolutely. But if she’s just being impulsive, is it worth it?
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 03:52 PM
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It’s all got to be in the decree, man. Including about what everyone’s proportional share is for medical expenses. Don’t sign until you talk to a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/21 11:47 AM
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She’s probably just establishing a boundary for her own psychological comfort. Try not to take it as a commentary about you. Take it as motivation to maybe move quickly enough so that you guys don’t need to continue living together for long
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 04:46 AM
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Can you get more time with them?
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 12:10 AM
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Wtf. Do not waive anything because you are a man. You have supported her in advancing her career and earning capacity and deserve alimony and child support.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 01:03 AM
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You can build more savings through more work, side hustle, promotion, etc. But you can’t make up for lost pension.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/21 06:46 PM
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Legally speaking I don’t think I would give her child support but only “on my terms” is a thing.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/21 06:54 PM
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I think it’s a lot easier to agree to waive alimony than it is child support. Especially if your ex is financially irresponsible.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/21 06:52 PM
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Yeah man cut her some slack. She probably didn’t want to hurt you. She’s been through a lot and is a kid without an adult’s mind. You can explain to her that she is allowed to be truthful with you. You are the adult and she never has to be untruthful in order to protect you. Be easy with her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 03:22 PM
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I’m sorry, that’s painful. I think you are right about reducing contact to only what is absolutely necessary.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/21 10:00 AM
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This is so hard. The relationship is dead but that doesn’t mean the feelings disappear right away. You need to grieve the loss.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/21 11:27 PM
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It might depend how broke you are and if you have any other opportunities near to them. Kids need their dad. You should do everything you can to stay engaged in their life.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 02:31 PM
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Unfortunately the wounds that she suffers will be felt by the kids also. And their cuts will be deeper and far longer lasting.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/20 04:49 AM
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The presumption in many states now is 50/50. You aren’t leaving him, the family structure is changing, and you might want to do some reframing in your mind on that point. The idea that Daddy is “leaving him” might not even occur to his little brain, and constantly reinforcing that you aren’t “leaving him” might suggest a possibility to him that wouldn’t be there otherwise. You will have less time with him, but will always be available for him. When my wife left me, I bought my kids gizmo watches…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/20 02:45 PM
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End it sooner. That way, everyone could have moved on and been healthier.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 02:45 PM
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He is doing research of a kind, he asked reddit. I am a lawyer, though not in California. You are not allowed to lock someone out of their own property. That’s not controversial or disputed as a matter of law. Eventually, he will have a divorce decree that reallocates interest in the property. Until there is a court order or a change of title, she is a co-owner.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/20 05:06 PM
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Guessing that the answer here is no.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/20 04:33 AM
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She didn’t fall for you because of your job and presumably she’s into him for who he is, not because he has or doesn’t have a particular job. It sounds like you are in the denial phase of grief (“ how could she pick him, not me, when he is THAT kind of person?”). This is totally normal. You won’t get better until you can get to acceptance. She has made her choice. As irrational as it may seem to you, your task is to integrate it into your life and move on without ever understanding it. There’s n…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 02:07 PM
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You buried the most important line in your edit. If you believed that she committed a crime (and it’s not entirely clear from your post that she did) you should have contacted the police, not threatened to do so and instead sent damaging information about her to her employer and family. I don’t know the law in WA, but it’s possible that such conduct might constitute harassment. You should talk to a lawyer as soon as you can who can help you get a copy of whatever has been filed against you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 09:33 AM
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That’s good. Your post didn’t seem to reflect an understanding of that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/19 04:16 PM
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Alcohol will not be your friend in this. It will reduce your inhibitions and encourage you to say or do something that you may end up regretting.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/19 04:03 PM
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