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When responding to op i was. Its not until regular posters here proceed to argue in bad faith and presume to tell me what i think that i return in kind. That is unacceptable. Good day.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 03:36 PM
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Both are bad faith. Which is the point. You get what you give.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 03:20 PM
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Im not the one comparing sex to doing laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 03:03 PM
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She has posted multiple times that she had troubles in her relationship before finding this sub. Stawman arguments are bad faith and impolite.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 02:48 PM
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I grew up doing laundry for five people. Never once seperated clothes based on colors.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 10:15 PM
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Im making the point to op that being a SAHM isnt a little time with the kids, a dinner and yoga. I left op with an open question about what she planned to do during the day while her husband was at work and kids at school. You took that as a personal insult that stay at home moms dont do anything. Seeing as op has yet to respond we dont know what she thought life for her would entail in that situation. She could have said she doesnt like cleaning and would hire a maid. She could have said she wa…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:35 PM
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You may not need to discuss this now but there were talks at some point. OP however needs to be made aware of all of this. If you believe OP isnt asking in good faith why respond at all. Yes chores do take up time hence time management. It seems like your more intent on arguing with me then helping OP. PS: Folding clothes isnt difficult or time consuming. Stop being a martyr. PPS: Unless your using a washing machine and detergent from the 50's you dont need to be really concerned with seperating…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:07 PM
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What do you have to offer a man willing to financially support you for life? You say raise the kids, are you going to homeschool? If not, what do you plan on doing while he is working and they are at school?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 02:37 PM
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You can literally google "cleaning tips" and get more helpful info per you asked questioned. As per what everyone else is talking about. What does he do around the property? Are your levels of clean comparable? Maybe lower your standards. The house may not have to be as clean as you are making it. You said he complains about how much time you spend cleaning. Does he complain about how dirty it is?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 12:48 PM
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If you to are a virgin as well then no its not unreasonable. You might need to adjust where you are looking and who you are looking for. You might have to take a hit in other areas if it is that important to you. He might not look as good or make as much money or maybe he is not as confident for example.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 03:51 PM
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I don't know what type of games he is into but you could look into some more casual ones like stardew valley, animal crossing or minecraft. All great for multiplayer and easy to get into.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 10:47 PM
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yes
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 01:33 PM
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You dont bring out the best in each other, you dont want the same things for your futures, break up for that alone. As far as your past you either lied or intentionally hid it form him. Lying is bad for obvious reasons. Hiding it is also bad. If you tried hiding your past from him its because you knew it would matter to him. Thats not good. Im not saying you should go on a first date and tell a guy you were a hoe for a few years, but as you have seen the odds are that he will find out accident o…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 08:53 PM
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Thats good.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/21 12:52 AM
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it was here that i notice the both girl and guy withabike are gone.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/21 12:34 AM
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The side bar material is there to help you. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/7gn6sg/rpw_and_trp/
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 07:25 PM
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the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 12:55 PM
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They cant help it necessarily but it still comes with problems. How long were they married, how did he die, how old are the kids, did they know their father, will they think im replacing him, that their mother doesnt love the father? A whole host of emotional problems involved when a guy could find someone who isnt in that position. Best bet is to go for a single father in that scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 12:38 AM
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notesfromaredpillgirl
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 09:24 PM
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If its important to you then wait. If not general advice is wait for LTR to have sex and fewer is safer. Always use a condom no matter the case. No ifs, ands, or buts. You should also wait until you older but kids will be kids. Oh and always use a condom.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 09:16 PM
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Provided you have always been abstinent just own it and tell him, in person.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 08:46 AM
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Yeah what are values and standards for anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 01:40 PM
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Or you have different values.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 10:18 PM
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Prefer maybe, but today unless your actually religious and not just playing a part than its unlikely. Lower n-count is generally better. It's up to you and the type of man you want. It also matters how you define n-count. Ive known women who only counted vaginal sex where as i would count oral and anal as well. The lengths of said relationships matter as well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 08:37 PM
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Well that half of a nun mode i guess. Did you talk to a therapist during that time? Its also been 6 hours since you posted. Have you read the sidebar material yet? If not do so.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 06:40 AM
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Are you saying you HAVE dated or had sex with people you arent attracted to? If so stop.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 04:35 AM
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Are the guys you are looking at in your range realistically? It would do me no good to be sad about Katy Perry(pre shaved head) being with a more attractive guy than me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 03:36 AM
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At least one has. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/men-rarely-catcall-me-any-more-i-hate-that-our-culture-makes-me-miss-it_us_55ad4bffe4b0d2ded39fac74
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 07:19 PM
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Seems like you already got your answers but if you still go ahead with it set a timeline. Say engaged within a year and married a year after that. Stick to the timeline.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:59 PM
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Rational wiki is an extremely left leaning source.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 02:18 AM
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I dont know where in the caribbean you plan to go but be careful. Look for travel advisories from the state dept. and other places. https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2018/11/30/jamaica-resort-sexual-assault-sandals/2048055002/
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 11:00 PM
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With the plans i want for my life ill need a woman willing to work as well. It'll be at the house and ill be helping but work it'll be. However that doesn't mean i wont take time for just us and i certainly wont expect that type of work before we are married and invested in each other. Your mothers work with your father makes sense because they were already invested in each others future, had kids, a house and whatever else.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 12:33 AM
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Your mom was presumably married to your father so it makes sense them working together. You however, by your own admission, have only been dating him for a few months. Why are you working for him for free?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/18 11:06 PM
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Dont know if there are more chapters that she hasnt covered yet but 7 posts should get you started. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/90u0kb/for_women_only_men_are_visual_chapter_7/
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 11:17 AM
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If you want to get married i'd advise setting a firm date that you want to be engaged/married by before moving in and then stick to it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 03:15 PM
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Can't you break your hymen in other ways?
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 03:12 PM
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Welcome back btw
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 09:28 PM
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While what could count as cheating can vary by couple, as mentioned in another reply, it would be a hard no for me on all counts.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:47 PM
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It is confusing that this sub and mgtow are on the list but not trp. All the same some sort of backup for the sidebar material and maybe a second sub wouldnt be a bad idea, if its not already been done.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 09:05 AM
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Then he should be treated the same as every other child. No need to subject him to how bad the world can be in 1st or 2nd grade.As for raising a man leave that to your S/o
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 08:38 PM
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let him be 7...
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 07:49 PM
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To whatever there compiling this all for. It was a compliment...
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 06:52 PM
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I'm pretty sure a chunk if not the majority of your writing will end up being added as is.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:18 PM
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Just want to up-vote this thread. I've had girls do this at 19. N-count is important but to me honesty, values and consistency are just as important. Nun mode notwithstanding, again honesty would help your case, for lack of a better word.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:12 PM
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He posted it on TRP as well. It has gotten more attention here though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 02:04 AM
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A woman would maximize her looks to get the highest level man she can get.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 05:02 PM
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here you go. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/8hojus/i_cant_seem_to_get_commitment_before_sex/dylb8d5/?context=0
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 11:15 PM
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that would be the ideal place to challenge the author though. Or do it on this post as he posted as much here as well.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 11:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/8epbgq/back_to_the_basics_men_are_the_gatekeepers_of/
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 10:28 PM
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The only time i asked i was lied to. So i just ask other indirect questions instead.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 11:00 PM
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Usual and primary are the same. As i said that's the usual(primary) argument on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 11:26 AM
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I was saying that that's the usual reason why a guy will look down at being made to wait. At least that's the primary reason i see on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:04 PM
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There in lies the difference in the thought process of men and women. You did for him but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:50 PM
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This originator of this comment thread is talking about long term relationships. If your not looking for a ltr the requirements for that person aren't as important because your not building anything with them or really going anywhere except to a bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:39 PM
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The argument is about women who have sex without knowing and feeling comfortable with a guy. Then turns around and makes someone else wait to your standards above. The standards change between guys. For op being a virgin is a bonus provided she keeps her standards up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:30 PM
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well then this discussion isn't relevant to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:25 PM
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If you don't care about a man than why are you in a relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:44 PM
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They've been getting away with it because they didn't say anything. No one can help you if you've said nothing. You'll also notice there were many women who knew and didn't say anything. I also don't doubt that there were some women who had sex for roles and don't regret it. Plenty of women took money in exchange for not saying anything. That was a choice as well. Some women said no and didn't go through with it at all. That's a choice. Quite taking away peoples agency. Don't forget about the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:34 AM
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So your position is a vast generalization of all women based on your experiences. Well done mate. Do you know what an orgasm feels like? Have you ever had one?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:47 AM
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you still haven't said how society humiliates women for having sex. I never denied men slut shame i said women do it primarily. Its conducive to a functioning society to not have single moms. Laws are a form of social control. Stop signs are a form of social control. People calling you out on your flawed logic is a form of social control. People like living in a society where everyone generally plays by the rules. If you don't want that i'm sure you can find a cave some where. No person deserves…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:26 AM
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i don't see how society is humiliating women for having sex. You haven't shown that at all in your argument. Slut shaming was mostly performed by women and still is today as society has told men not to be mean to women they are perfect and are rightfully on that pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:14 AM
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Your entire post was inflammatory. He pointed out the other side to your arguments and rather than defend your points further you decide to ignore it all together. Maybe your experiences are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:04 AM
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Women can do the same and get an abortion or a divorce your logic is flawed as you seek to blame only one side and take no notice of the other. If that's what you want to do then fine but you'll just end up old and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:54 AM
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If sex is humiliating for you then you should see a therapist. Any body can be forced to have sex. its called rape and its illegal. i personally enjoy it when my girlfriend orgasms. Its quite the mutual experience. Again see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:43 AM
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you addressed nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:33 AM
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